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8

Buy her a pink top that reads "Choke me, daddy!". Wtf is this question...
/r/seduction14/10/22 04:27 AM
1

Your Age of Empires build orders.
/r/seduction01/10/22 10:06 PM
6

Be careful about kissing random girls. You don't want to get something you can't get rid of. Jesus Christ.
/r/seduction15/09/22 08:35 AM
2

Actually there have been studies that friends who had sex have become closer friends much more often than they ended with a ruined friendship. However it's still very uncommon because people believe it to be potentially harmful.
/r/seduction09/09/22 03:05 PM
-7

Dudes shouldn’t want used up girls As if "dudes" were responsible for it.
/r/seduction07/09/22 06:09 PM
-10

Dudes shouldn’t want used up girls With just that one statement you remove all accountability from the women who partake in hookups or ONS. As if they were made to do it. No, they are not, if they want to engage in that sort of activity you don't get to blame men for it. You just have to accept it.
/r/seduction07/09/22 05:57 PM
-1

Actually it's just vanity. They want to make themselves look better ("cleaner", on the moral highground, more "pure") than they really are.
/r/seduction03/09/22 08:54 PM
2

Girls easily open up to people they don't consider a potential mating candidate.
/r/seduction28/08/22 05:42 AM
1

It really doesn't matter what you answer.
/r/seduction28/08/22 04:39 AM
1

I don't understand what you are saying here about trans men or how it's relevant The only way you could ever experience how horny men can be all the time is by taking a hormonal therapy. That's how. You might "enjoy sex way more than just 3-5 days a month" but you simply don't have the slightest idea how much men want it all the time. No point of reference without trying it out.
/r/seduction20/08/22 06:01 AM
0

YES!!! Women love sex as much as men!!!! For 3-5 days a month that is. Just talk to men who have been women post sex transition, after testosterone therapy. They say something along the lines: "Wtf, you feel like that everytime?!!"
/r/seduction20/08/22 05:05 AM
9

Your goal should be a long term gf Dictating someone else's life goals, classic.
/r/seduction20/08/22 05:03 AM
5

Firm no. Even if you would be a man agreeing with that sort of stuff, they will most likely not see you as an ally but as someone who has to be fought constantly. There will be no peace. The slightest thing will lead to the weirdest fight or flight reaction.
/r/seduction18/06/22 03:06 PM
1

You could know at her door and ask for a mild kiss and fuck session. Without drinking.
/r/seduction26/05/22 01:47 PM
1

Quality over Quantity Quantity is the better idea group though.
/r/seduction23/05/22 01:34 PM
2

"I'll be honest I just want to fuck" I believe that much is obvious if she opens up like she did.
/r/seduction02/05/22 04:31 PM
2

Now I believe I made the right choice Yes.
/r/seduction02/05/22 04:30 PM
1

It's not a bad ratio in the sleightest.
/r/seduction02/05/22 04:27 PM
6

1 in 60-70 is above average. Average would be 1 in 100.
/r/seduction02/05/22 04:27 PM
1

"what happen?" I'd be perplexed and confused too if someone reacted to me like that. And subsequently answer "nothing". Maybe I would answer "Someone set us up the bomb.".
/r/seduction19/04/22 06:28 AM
2

Why do you ask such a silly question?
/r/seduction19/04/22 06:27 AM
1

People are born that way. You can't expect anyone to change that.
/r/seduction15/04/22 07:52 PM
3

It's a huge lie. Women typically say that they want to see men vulnerable but when it actually happens all they have really left for the man is pity... and disgust. Or contempt. Sometimes to the extent that it makes you think most women are just notorious psychopaths, completely incapable of empathy. The only exceptions are when a very close relative or a pet die.
/r/seduction13/04/22 05:37 PM
1

Haha, OP has game! Brothel game! Can throw 20 bucks at someone's face and hope to get anywhere.
/r/seduction12/04/22 11:05 PM
3

This. Women are fleeting but money is eternal. Up your grindset.
/r/seduction03/04/22 06:51 PM
1

cannot handle women telling the truth. That would imply you were telling the truth to begin with but you openly admitted to lying to men in the other comment I replied to. Well, well, well...
/r/seduction24/03/22 07:30 PM
2

What tension? See, women tend to err on the side of a man getting angry. It evolved as an evolutionary advantage, keeping the woman alive among men. However, to a man such lies are just not useful in the slightest. You cannot be a good friend to a man as a woman with your typical survival instincts.
/r/seduction24/03/22 07:22 PM
5

Sure, there are good clothes and bad clothes. But "classy looks" is a certain style that I am really not into. To me it communicates snobbishness, vanity, something along these lines. I dig functional clothing, sports clothing. Designed for a purpose. No nonsense.
/r/seduction17/03/22 08:04 PM
10

Is it a single mum or a prostitute ripped straight out of Cyberpunk 2077? Yes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/22 08:47 PM
4

This appears to be something innate in human psychology Female psychology. If it was innate in human psychology then it would have to be true for men too but that clearly isn't the case.
/r/seduction16/03/22 04:52 AM
11

Sluts are awesome and will make your life better. Sure. But not in the form of a relationship.
/r/seduction02/03/22 09:50 AM
11

Do you think it's good advice? As in: do you actually believe that people in general don't already clean themselves?
/r/seduction31/01/22 08:02 PM
6

As a pro tip for women wanting to catch a good man: Don't be ridiculous. Don't be stupid. Don't be pretentious. Don't be "I am the table".
/r/seduction31/01/22 07:59 PM
11

It's so unbelievable. They just don't know how they themselves nor how men function. They just don't understand it. Instead they believe in this social constructivist bs narrative and equality and thus assume that everything would be mutual, symmetric and balanced, all the instincts, feelings, motivations to act the way you would act etc. Even women 2000 years ago understood more.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/22 02:50 PM
2

Responsibility. It's not a poison.
/r/seduction27/01/22 09:37 AM
-2

Ovulation is the one time in a 28 day cycle roughly 2 weeks away from menstruation. But sure, whatever you tell yourself, you're free to believe that women nowadays at the ages of 18-25 have dozens of partners "because of ovulation", it's just false. Vanity again.
/r/seduction27/01/22 09:22 AM
0

Nobody mentioned or referred to ovulation. Think again.
/r/seduction27/01/22 08:46 AM
19

I'm just asking myself how that best friend got their hands on her sex tapes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/22 04:49 PM
7

It's astonishing how some people try to sell their deception as "waiting for a perfect moment".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 10:52 PM
-3

And if over the next 30 days you: Got dafuq off of Reddit/YouTube etc Stopped playing video games Got out of the house every day and spoke to new people Said yes to every social invitation you received Your results with women would improve. The quality of my life in general would just be in the trashcan. It would be boring as hell. As a matter of fact Age of Empires 4, Europa Universalis 4 and Valorant are better than sex. Socializing is the most boring thing, most despicable thing ever. I can't…
/r/seduction10/01/22 02:29 PM
13

If they thought the person wouldn't be the right father for their children they would have used those. If they thought the good man that will step up to be stepdad would have been the right father for their children instead of just an ATM they would have chosen them. Actions speak louder than words.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 09:00 AM
1

and always just say ok no problem I won’t force you Aside from the fact that I would probably recommend you to look for someone else... dude, you can't word it that way. The human unconscious cannot correctly process "not". She'll register you forcing her. The conscious side will say "yeah, okay, I know, thanks" but she won't feel that way. You would have to word it "I'll let you your freedom" or whatever. But that's just slightly off-topic.
/r/seduction04/01/22 10:25 AM
22

Answer would probably be "don't know".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/22 09:56 PM
0

Are you a woman?
/r/seduction03/01/22 06:39 AM
3

You don't. And that's why dating advice from naturals is about as bad as advice from women. They don't know what the fuck they're talking about. Their experience cannot be replicated by someone that is not them.
/r/seduction02/01/22 05:58 AM
9

I'm a bluepilled girl in a bluepilled world sorry
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/21 06:29 PM
1

She was really interested in you when she was dancing with that other dude!
/r/seduction24/12/21 09:57 PM
-1

Yeah, sure, keep telling yourself myths, mate.
/r/seduction24/12/21 09:51 PM
-1

hey decided to leave us to dance with other people without saying anything or inviting us You blind or what mate?
/r/seduction24/12/21 09:49 PM
1

Didn’t have sex That's the issue.
/r/seduction24/12/21 09:44 PM
-1

"This girl left me on read irl so I left her on read in the virtual world. I really showed her, ha!"
/r/seduction24/12/21 09:38 PM
24

This thread is weird. "Someone sends me memes on social media. Does that mean she wants to fuck?????" Friend and girl are not a couple yet some people keep reiterating bros before hoes for whatever reason
/r/seduction20/12/21 10:44 PM
3

The title question and the body kind of diverge. Are women the most driving life force (for you) ? Certainly not. Literally the only thing that I do in my life where women is the motivating thing behind it would be exercise. Nothing else is for women. I don't know how to respond to the body of your post. Maybe this: What I do struggle is with this idea of hyper independence that is ingrained in us. Women and men. Women are supposed to "need no man". Men, we are supposed to be these hyper stoic c…
/r/seduction20/12/21 12:59 AM
3

Do you want to fuck below average women? No? You know that many men are actually willing to fuck below average women?
/r/seduction15/12/21 10:02 AM
2

Is it absolutely necessary to be above average inorder to have a decent dating life? On OLD platforms? Absolutely. Women on average swipe left on 95% of men's profiles. Wheras men on average swipe left on only 40% of women's profiles. If a woman swipes right there is a roughly 50% chance it will result in a match. If a man swipes right there is a roughly 3% chance for a match. Women on average also rate the vast majority of men as below average in attractiveness. But of course that's all only ba…
/r/seduction15/12/21 09:59 AM
36

This. I am certain dancing was just invented as a socially acceptable form of men checking women out sexually in public and getting physically close to them while having plausible deniability.
/r/seduction13/12/21 06:29 AM
16

Because it couldn't possibly be that a woman would be responsible for her own decisions?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/21 08:22 PM
15

Wants flowers and romantic dates xD - that's about as much of a pipe dream for her as wanting to marry a virgin is for men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/21 08:19 PM
13

Also depends on how many right swipes your profile receives. Obviously there are more components, it's multi-factored.
/r/seduction10/12/21 03:18 PM
39

you should pretty much swipe every girl right The Tinder algorithm is pretty much: the more you swipe left the higher on the top you are and vice versa.
/r/seduction10/12/21 02:07 PM
4

If it's just sex pay a sex worker. Visit a country where it's legal.
/r/seduction08/12/21 07:47 PM
1

200+ matches and 3 dates from online game. Those are some well above average numbers.
/r/seduction08/12/21 07:45 PM
4

Ugh, you call off work just to have sex with someone? Sheesh. Could need a bit of a sigma male grindset.
/r/seduction07/12/21 02:17 PM
1

I figured I had enough and told her she was definitely a good tease but that I just couldn't play any more games for the rest of the day considering I had work tomorrow. This seemed like some sort of test as well, I guess seeing if I was just faking my confidence or how I'd deal with her pulling back. Sometimes I think "losing a shit test" - if it was one - is the right move. You have a life, you have responsibilities, your time is valuable. If she doesn't want to be considerate of that then fuc…
/r/seduction07/12/21 02:14 PM
10

True but it prevents him from being connected to whatever stuff he posts on reddit.
/r/seduction06/12/21 10:14 AM
6

Saying things like that is really unattractive.
/r/seduction06/12/21 08:43 AM
2

Make a throwaway.
/r/seduction06/12/21 08:41 AM
2

Captured: these are my tits, watch my very body! isn't it fuckable? Text: don't expect to have sex with me you dirty pervy guy
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/21 03:47 PM
5

Hollywood etc. have a tendency to sell too old women for much younger than they are.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/21 03:42 PM
9

Not sure whether that's narcissism or just the normal state for women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/21 04:04 PM
10

I mean, it's not like that pic actually invokes any sexual thoughts. More something medical, about health.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/21 02:16 AM
30

I'm so far right I turn right 3 times in traffic before ever turning left once!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/21 02:15 AM
4

I think that soapboxing and political agendas simply don't have a place in a dating/seduction related subreddit.
/r/seduction17/11/21 06:38 PM
8

You and the other person should express yourselfs more clearly if you want to be understood. But it's more likely you just have nothing worthwhile to say. Good day.
/r/seduction17/11/21 06:23 PM
11

The concept of collective guilt is a problem.
/r/seduction17/11/21 06:17 PM
21

"Every man who approaches a woman is basically sexually assaulting them."
/r/seduction17/11/21 06:16 PM
1

You don't wait for him to act, you take the initiative. That's how things work in a world where men are told to not approach women in a gym.
/r/seduction17/11/21 06:13 PM
4

That's far less noteworthy than you make it be.
/r/seduction17/11/21 06:12 PM
1

Did it work?
/r/seduction01/11/21 10:28 PM
0

Then how do I have to understand "we're not going to have a relationship btw"? :D :/
/r/seduction01/11/21 10:10 PM
2

What kind of person writes meme in quotation marks?
/r/seduction20/10/21 06:42 PM
1

A man who’s fidgeting around and can’t maintain eye contact is probably up to ‘’no good’’ and not ‘’safe’’. Up to this statement it was kind of okay but this is bullshit. Actually malintent isn't accompanied by mannerisms that signal "I'm beneath you" at all. Because that's what looking away shows. It's about dominance hierarchies.
/r/seduction20/10/21 06:39 PM
1

I don't really know who you want to reach with that advice then. The question of what to do? in response to flaking is way more practical and goes way beyond how to feel?.
/r/seduction16/09/21 05:46 AM
1

Leading back flaking behavior to being afraid? Yet another attempt in taking away any and all responsibilities from women in our gynocentric society.
/r/seduction15/09/21 03:15 PM
2

Cope.
/r/seduction15/09/21 09:44 AM
4

If only simpdom would be an inherited trait.
/r/seduction15/09/21 09:43 AM
2

Game of probability is the meaning of the saying numbers game.
/r/seduction13/09/21 06:58 AM
4

What if they are fasting though xD?
/r/seduction09/09/21 02:25 PM
5

Hmmm. I haven't heard of years tbh. Months of course. But if you're a good friend to them you encourage them to try anyway.
/r/seduction30/08/21 01:19 PM
2

You seem to have fallen for the widespread fallacy that the sexes were equal. They are not. Man go after woman. If a woman displays herself naked to you that may make you think "great, she's down for it!" but if you display yourself naked in the same manner she will think "damn, yet another horny boi". Your mistake was sending a dick pic instead of just saying something like "thanks :)".
/r/seduction26/08/21 04:44 AM
3

I think you kind of have a mental blockade/believe the wrong things since you think of creating sexual tension would put you in the category of a sociopath. Maybe it's due to past experiences or due to a lack of past experiences but someone is never a sociopath just for creating sexual tension intentionally. That's just politically correct nonsense. Imo your primary concern on any activity, date or not, should be to enjoy it and have fun. I don't believe you seriously don't enjoy some sort of se…
/r/seduction09/08/21 10:05 PM
4

I'd cook for strangers tbh.
/r/seduction09/08/21 09:58 PM
11

That means nothing to people who want to use their SIGN (shame, insult, guilt, need to be right) language. Keep on enjoying your life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/21 09:26 PM
1

Context matters.
/r/seduction07/08/21 07:22 PM
8

Someone hits you. You want to defend yourself. Some troll appears and shouts: "TwO wRonGs DOnT maKe a RIgHt" Quid pro quo.
/r/seduction05/08/21 09:57 AM
1

Start by opening up yourself, for example "This reminds me of that one situation where I [...]".
/r/seduction05/08/21 08:02 AM
27

Not any more creepy than bluntly asking "do you masturbate?".
/r/seduction05/08/21 07:56 AM
5

It keeps getting weirder and weirder.
/r/seduction05/08/21 07:54 AM
3

Why would anyone want to be married though?
/r/seduction05/08/21 07:34 AM
1

Is online dating a waste of time for guys? Yes.
/r/seduction02/08/21 07:58 PM
5

She ranted more about her wedding than about how she grew up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/21 10:31 AM
-1

We obviously live in an era where a measurable objective fact gives part for an illusion of moral grandeur for the sake of political correctness.
/r/seduction06/07/21 08:55 PM
3

Life would be more fun if the order was: Drugs -> Power -> Women -> Money
/r/seduction06/07/21 06:09 PM
8

There is also an opposite component. When you have sex or masturbate always in your bed you are more likely to actually become relaxed and horny in your bed again. Association, expectation, memory. Hard to word it.
/r/seduction06/07/21 06:07 PM
4

You're putting up a meaningless semantic trick here by changing a few words but it doesn't change anything real. When (straight, obviously) men see a (half-)naked women or an image of her, the areas in his brain that are associated with tool usage become active. Men inherently view women as a tool, i.e. as an object, with which to solve their problem of getting laid, their reproductive problem. This doesn't exclude he may also see her differently. But you cannot evade the objectification by play…
/r/seduction06/07/21 06:00 PM
-2

This must be the biggest rotting pile of bullshit I've ever read on this sub.
/r/seduction20/06/21 10:19 PM
3

If she isn't responding to you, then its a good idea to just go into a monologue of something you enjoy talking about. I hope I'm never reborn as a woman then. Rofl.
/r/seduction17/06/21 01:35 PM
1

What exactly are you anxious about? Fix that.
/r/seduction17/06/21 08:56 AM
2

I spank her for it Well, how did she react to it? she brings the laptop and acts all cutesy for a while Similar: Semijokingly asks me to buy her something, I tease her for it. She doesn't yet go away. I offer a meal or a movie aaaand she doesn't want none of that, leaves. Then ghosts me.
/r/seduction16/06/21 05:52 PM
6

Probably intentionally bratty and was expecting you to put her in her place. It's a thing. Kinda shitty for her to not communicate it properly. If you aren't interested in that kind of games (it can be exhausting) you dodged a bullet.
/r/seduction16/06/21 05:02 PM
1

On the other hand, it seems like something a beginner might wanna do because of being unsure of his ability to escalate during the date. Hence, if he doesn’t let the girl know 100% whether it’s a date, it might get him out of his comfort zone That doesn't make any sense. If he said it wasn't a date he precisely has the opportunity to stay within his comfort zone. If he said it was a date he has to step out of it.
/r/seduction16/06/21 04:57 PM
1

The truth is helpful.
/r/seduction16/06/21 04:18 PM
1

she said she said she wants to although idk if it’s friends hanging out or a date Say it's a date.
/r/seduction16/06/21 12:17 PM
1

Attractiveness is the wrong question. Someone can be attracted to someone else but not be aroused by them. You probably want to know what arouses women but you asked for the wrong thing, so you get all these nonsensical politically correct answers.
/r/seduction16/06/21 12:13 PM
1

Women have higher requirements than men in that regard.
/r/seduction16/06/21 12:11 PM
2

Funny how they always resort to shaming tactics. In this case by including this picture in the post. As if other women than themselves didn't have a brain.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 05:07 PM
7

Basically every other man's story. Women don't realize the male candy store opens at 30. Maybe at 25 but not at 18.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 05:04 PM
2

a commitment-phobe, still living as if he were in his twenties What's so bad about that? She said herself: in a hurry to jump back into a relationship (whoa buddy, hold your horses) So what is it? A or B? One or the other? Contradiction. Women. ...and that one thing isn’t a relationship. Which might be okay, since I’m not looking for a relationship yet, but What? :D How to contradict yourself 3 times in 2 sentences 101. I love being single and I also hate it. Uhm. Maybe get tested for schizophre…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 04:59 PM
6

I mean, on some level it makes sense. People are usually attracted to what they don't find in themselves. But to basically get told by her that she hates herself (since she explicitly mentioned she's looking for someone who loves her)... ouch, lack of self-awareness.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 04:55 PM
3

Now I know what Rammstein meant with "sex is a battle, love is war". Because basically every one of these girls declares war on manhood in their profile. It's crazy. You know they want nothing else but to fight you until you concede. The best thing one could get out of her apart from "social distance" is a hatefuck. And I'm sure very few would even be willing to give her that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 04:43 PM
2

First don't make it only about men, the phrase applies perfectly the other way around. bs Way more women are willing to share a guy than guys are willing to share a woman. Men and women are not equal. [...] That is inherently possesive. And yet they may choose to leave at any moment.
/r/seduction14/06/21 03:41 PM
21

That's rare af. Usually it's the other way around: we see the other person, they look attractive and then it turns out their personality is twisted.
/r/seduction14/06/21 03:14 PM
7

It only goes against the possessive component of them though. Since she's not yours, it's just your turn one has to be content with the idea of things maybe ending at a later date. Thus you shouldn't overinvest. And you have to keep up with any option that arises in her life so that she continues to pick you over them every day going forward. That said a perfectly reasonable conclusion would also be that relationships are just not something men should aim for.
/r/seduction14/06/21 03:10 PM
1

It would be easier to abolish welfare.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/21 12:21 PM
0

It's not "a double standard", it's two standards. Men and women are different. Political correctness fetishism doesn't get anyone anywhere.
/r/seduction02/06/21 08:02 AM
6

Well. If a woman shows herself (semi-)nude it signals to a man willingness to engage in sexual activity. If a man does it it signals desparation. Your advice should be obvious.
/r/seduction01/06/21 08:34 PM
1

So I cracked a not safe for work joke and the instant I said it I felt like I had committed a grave sin. You write a wall of text but you don't write what exactly you have joked about? edit: nevermind, I see the comment of yours where you wrote what you said. Well, that's just a bad/unfunny joke. Not necessarily bad because it would be below the belt but just kinda boring. Like the moronic idiot I was and she replied with "I don't use social media" and it was finally then I got it through my thi…
/r/seduction01/06/21 08:20 PM
8

If you don't want to lose her as a friend do nothing. If you want more than friendship you have to be willing to risk it. This is the only way.
/r/seduction01/06/21 07:22 PM
7

Varys wouldn't have any use for her either.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/21 02:07 PM
54

She is more than that... more bad. 10 year olds aren't aware how their entitlement implies slavery.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/21 02:05 PM
1

This begins to sound a bit like a case of: she doesn't love you, she only loves what you can do for her.
/r/seduction23/05/21 05:47 AM
1

How old are you both and how long have you been in that relationship? FYI this is a question for r/askseddit, not for r/seduction. See the right sidebar.
/r/seduction23/05/21 05:45 AM
2

Honest view? She's pretty stupid, being all that dishonest to herself about how she feels about you - because nobody in their right mind would stay up until 4 AM in a video call just because the talk is nice - but you can't change that in any way. Move on.
/r/seduction22/05/21 05:25 PM
1

You kinda have to assume that if you go for people twice your age that you get rejected more often.
/r/seduction22/05/21 05:19 PM
2

Literal victim blaming? You may believe that nonsense because your dad told you and you like your dad and maybe see him as some kind of authority. But it's stupid nonetheless, gaslighting really. I was bullied too - for no reason at all other than for my origin - but at some point I was brought to the brink of what I could sustain and grabbed a table tennis bat and struck one of the bullies on the head with the edge with full force. He immediately collapsed to the ground, started screaming, lost…
/r/seduction20/05/21 05:25 AM
3

Jeez, I must try this: "So I've managed the Three Mountains achievement in EU4 the other day... will you undress now?"
/r/seduction19/05/21 08:52 PM
3

I see a lot of guys asking questions like, "I can attract girls but can't keep her around for much long, what should I do?" Do you? I mostly see women having this problem, not men. she cheats on you, that's your fault. Only if you buy into the gynocentric narrative where women couldn't possibly do anything wrong and men are at fault for everything. At this point, blaming women will do nothing other than showing your weakness as a man. Okay. But you aren't supposed to play a silly blame game anyw…
/r/seduction19/05/21 08:47 PM
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And we women also get rejected. Way, way, way less than men. Like orders of magnitude different. We live in a fact-based reality. Hypothetical possibilities matter way less then real probabilities. I always see that when you search how to seduce it is usually for men. Why there's so less content for women? Like I may want to seduce a guy too? Because men are easy-going af. If a woman just decides to spend time with a man, no matter the setting, and initiates some touch and the guy doesn't at som…
/r/seduction19/05/21 07:12 AM
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"Mock" is a spectrum. You can mock someone without hurting them. You don't have to go for actual insecurities like weight.
/r/seduction19/05/21 07:05 AM
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Bromance.
/r/seduction19/05/21 07:00 AM
0

I believe you watch too much anime. Why not throw a loud "BAAKAAAAAAAA!" out there if you're at it already?
/r/seduction19/05/21 06:59 AM
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Go to r/r4r or something.
/r/seduction19/05/21 06:55 AM
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Point is: Would you randomly out of the blue ask a potential girlfriend that she may present her besties to you for your enjoyment? I smell something very fishy going on with your maybe-gf. As if you were just the gate to him.
/r/seduction18/05/21 01:51 PM
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Well, she can't "just want to meet them" if she doesn't know he exists. She had to learn about him some way.
/r/seduction18/05/21 01:49 PM
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Like they still ask me questions, laugh at my stuff, and try to continue the conversation, but the conversation risks dying out and turning platonic bc there's less teases/passing of shit-tests to keep the convo alive, sexual, and fun. That's an innate problem of texting. Oxytocin only really works in physical proximity. Dopamine may still work on its own when texting but the thing about dopamine is that it depends on how something is experienced. For example if you take someone out on a date an…
/r/seduction18/05/21 12:28 PM
1

Chivalry is dead and women killed it.
/r/seduction18/05/21 12:06 PM
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Second the suggestion to talk with the friend. That's more important than some random girl.
/r/seduction18/05/21 12:02 PM
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This girl I’ve been seeing for a few weeks wanted me to invite my closest friends over so she could meet them. Why? Did they know each other from before? Or did you tell her a lot about him?
/r/seduction18/05/21 11:59 AM
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I'm 20, should I be looking for relationships? Feel free to try it out but most likely your experience of a relationship will be better in your 30s compared to in your 20s. For now at least try to not have any kids and don't get married.
/r/seduction18/05/21 11:55 AM
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Actually...
/r/seduction18/05/21 11:47 AM
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Having female friends can be beneficial even for just quality friendships. False dichotomy. You're implying that if he rejected friendship offers from women he's attracted to - as stated in the OP - that he would have no female friends. But he can still have female friends that he isn't attracted to.
/r/seduction18/05/21 11:22 AM
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There are enough journal links in that article. It would be so nice if your ancestors evolved or adapted so you could actually read.
/r/seduction17/05/21 04:57 AM
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With your setting as a pilot it can quickly end in a disaster. One of them just needs to post me too on Twitter and your career is done for, no matter the truth.
/r/seduction15/05/21 10:02 PM
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In my experience the variance in what women consider flirting or not is simply too big to give a simple answer that applies in most cases. I've known some that consider quietly sitting themselves next to you flirting and I've known some that consider outright saying "Your scent makes me crazy!" as just stating a normal fact of life. Kinda need to know the person you're interacting with. It doesn't really matter in the end anyway. It's more important you know what you're looking for and start fli…
/r/seduction15/05/21 09:44 PM
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I see social media of girls I liked who got into relationships right before quarantine and I don’t know how to forget them. Don't give any fucks about social media. It's all fake. The pictures, the stories, the likes, the followers, the DMs, nothing about it translates to real life. It's all just personal brand management. And some people foolish enough to believe the online bubble they've created for themselves and their clients will at some point have a rude awekening when they notice that the…
/r/seduction15/05/21 09:21 PM
1

Everyone can make stuff up about a supposedly pessimistic outlook and some complex. Get lost now.
/r/seduction12/05/21 07:35 AM
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So typical. S.I.G.N. language. Shame, insult, guilt, need to be right. That's why you try to somehow relate the facts that I've been telling back to either my or your own personal situation - ad hominem. I am 182 cm tall for fuck's sake. I don't have a height problem. I am speaking about what is important for people on aggregate, not in an indidividual case. Is none of you capable of a rational, calm exchange of information? we’re really good friends Friends, huh? So no sex.
/r/seduction12/05/21 03:39 AM
0

She isn't the price.
/r/seduction11/05/21 08:02 AM
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Yeah yeah, he is a real "winner". /s if not obvious
/r/seduction11/05/21 08:01 AM
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And you win the shit test by dumping her.
/r/seduction11/05/21 08:00 AM
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Honestly, that's just terrible. One of the qualities of a woman is bringing peace into your life. Sounds like she doesn't do that. Next. Seems like some men over here interpret a shit test as a test of how much shit they can endure just to get some pussy juice. Really wondering how a trash post like this gets to over 450 upvotes.
/r/seduction11/05/21 07:59 AM
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We have to talk politics before I can consider you my mistress!
/r/seduction08/05/21 01:02 PM
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Oh, sorry! Edited
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/21 02:17 PM
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That was on various dating subs. And in real life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/21 01:12 PM
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Ah, reminds of the downvotes and "you're a misogynist asshole!" comments that I farmed by telling people I would never date single moms.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/21 06:02 AM
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Latest? Even ancient Greeks were pragmatic, if they didn't want to have children they did it anal.
/r/seduction02/05/21 12:12 PM
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I live in Germany :D have you ever been here? Even without a lockdown nobody interacts with anyone unless necessary (i.e. cashier and customer) or specifically in a relaxed setting (café, park, club, central town square etc.) and those are all closed for about a year by now. Even in the world wars the curfew wasn't as strict as now. I don't mind it. Time off from society is very relaxing for me. Am introverted. Extroverted people all are hard depressed and escape into daydrinking or develop ange…
/r/seduction02/05/21 11:57 AM
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The number of people I've met with in person in the last 9 months is below 5. Not counting buying groceries etc.
/r/seduction02/05/21 11:35 AM
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You totally can get with a 21 years old woman as a 30 years old man. But that said Western women usually don't want to get married or think about children at that age unless you look for ultra-conservative woman like Amish. Aiming for 3 children is very difficult in a Western country. Marriage outcomes depend heavily on where you live. In the US and anglosphere in general marriage means you'll get divorced more likely than not and lose 50% of what you have, be forced to pay alimony for a couple …
/r/seduction02/05/21 11:24 AM
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Sounds like two perfect examples of why self-deprecating humor is the worst kind of humor when it comes to getting with girls. Might help you in the job though.
/r/seduction02/05/21 10:59 AM
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Has it been similar for you in the past too? I.e. that you don't try to actually escalate towards sex early on? If yes you might be demisexual. Look it up and if the discription fits you you might want to tell her about it so that she can either prepare for something more than friendship in the future or have the chance to disconnect from you before it gets too intense. If not then you just lied to her by saying friends would sound good. And should correct that. As a general recommendation never…
/r/seduction02/05/21 10:45 AM
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Somewhere without a lockdown in place I suppose.
/r/seduction02/05/21 10:36 AM
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Ladies can only "sniff good life" if they happen to be aware of your existence.
/r/seduction02/05/21 10:32 AM
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You can choose to not act on it, yes. So, if you're empathetic [...] then you're in her frame Not necessarily. You can also choose to act in a certain way that communicates dominance. For example if she talks over you and you understand - through your empathy - that a woman that gets told to not do that starts to respect you then you're getting her into your frame. Many people have the believe that empathy is automatically something "good" or even "holy" or related to altruism but it's really no…
/r/seduction02/05/21 10:15 AM
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how to get back your ex girlfriend Never try to. It automatically puts you in her frame, you would have to go to certain lengths in order to get her back and give up other opportunities that open up for yourself. This inherently communicates your value is lower than hers and that's bad bad bad. It only sets up the next time she breaks up with you while also decreasing your chances to get with someone else. She had her chance. Live your life and if she comes crawling back on her own without you d…
/r/seduction02/05/21 09:55 AM
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Define empathetic. Because the textbook definition goes like this: showing an ability to understand and share the feelings of another (just straight taken from googling "empathetic") Empathy is the capacity to understand or feel what another person is experiencing from within their frame of reference, that is, the capacity to place oneself in another's position. (Wikipedia) In this sense it is just an ability. But you are implying something far more than an ability, you are implying that an empa…
/r/seduction02/05/21 09:47 AM
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I would have to see other examples of AIs being able to engage in a discussion. I have seen examples of something like newspaper articles (i.e. not a discussion that goes back and forth) but not anything that could actually pass the Turing test.
/r/seduction01/05/21 08:32 PM
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I know exactly what kind of posts you mean. I don't believe an AI is behind it because if you comment in those threads you'll get answers that specifically address your comment. Obviously in a way just as insane as the OP but it's still far too let's say tailored towards the comment for me to believe there's an AI behind it. I believe you underestimate the willingness of people to troll. If he automated something then it was creation of new Reddit accounts and email addresses. The latter is pret…
/r/seduction01/05/21 03:36 PM
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I see these guys who have female friends who they "accidentally" have sex with and they still remain friends. That's a rather rare occurance.
/r/seduction01/05/21 01:31 AM
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But you haven't referenced poetry and art, you have referenced some almost spiritual mumbo jumbo about life being a gift or about believing in "something bigger than yourself" etc. "Men are more successful with women in their 30s" is an overgeneralization. It's a generalisation but not an overgeneralisation and not false. Any general statement about a large group of people implies some kind of bell curve with extremes being a thing. What matters is how the people are that are within the 1 or 2 s…
/r/seduction01/05/21 01:12 AM
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Meet new girls yourself. The reason your thoughts hover around your ex is that no other girl currently occupies your headspace. But there are many awesome people out there that you're missing out on if you don't move on.
/r/seduction30/04/21 10:07 PM
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It's generally the case that men are more successful with women in their 30s than in their 20s. So forgive me but I believe you're simply conflating cause and effect. Like anything pussy is more valuable if you don't get it and less if you do. Diminishing marginal utility. Now that you're in a position in which you probably see more success than in the past it's easy for you to not prioritize that kind of success over other aspects of your life. Also in your 30s your testosterone is already lowe…
/r/seduction30/04/21 09:51 PM
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So much context is lost in the way you wrote your report. She could have said "No" in a surprised/joking way ("no way!") or as a rejection ("hell no"). Just one example. You're not giving an appropriate representation of what happened. And yes, if you "die" and don't say anything it's you who is the weird one.
/r/seduction30/04/21 09:38 PM
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Actually you can say about anything as long as it doesn't make her feel creeped out. Just requires some empathy, i.e. the ability to put yourself in the other person's shoes. Context matters, the way you say something matters a lot. The content itself not so much. It's just touch that can quickly cross a boundary that you shouldn't have crossed.
/r/seduction30/04/21 12:02 AM
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What do you mean by crazy?
/r/seduction29/04/21 09:44 PM
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How do all of you keep your head cool? So some time ago I (M) was in a situation where I clearly experienced a physical reaction in my body similar to someone about to fall in love. Was with a coworker (F), we went through stuff on her computer and after a couple of accidental touches etc. she asked me a technical question and I couldn't answer it in the moment because of heart rate being raised, sensoric input being heightened, hormones going rampant etc. - I had no other option than to take a …
/r/seduction29/04/21 09:29 PM
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Wait, I said distracting, not ignoring/deflecting. A point/topic in a conversation can end, it doesn't have to be prolonged indefinitely. You can still react positively through like smiling, body language etc. Ignoring and especially deflecting would imply a negative reaction, like a change in tone towards sounding more annoyed - not what I meant. Hard to get this point across in text. English ain't my mother language either. In person I could demonstrate what I mean. Sorry for not being a great…
/r/seduction29/04/21 09:21 PM
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Not your job to find a reaction to that. Imagine a man says to a woman "wow, you're so hot". Most women would find that pretty lame, uncreative up to annoying and definitely don't see it as their job to find an adequate response to that. Just say something to distract away from that. Like maybe just "thanks" and immediately switch the topic. Or just smile and say nothing for a couple of seconds. Overall this is just proof that women have no game whatsoever. Just like when women are put into the …
/r/seduction29/04/21 08:50 PM
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Eh, don't worry. One cannot expect you to be 100% perfect towards everyone you meet. You're just a human after all, flawed.
/r/seduction29/04/21 08:44 PM
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Or the time several female friends said it was creepy that I approached a girl reading a book nearby Ever asked those "friends" why that would be the case?
/r/seduction29/04/21 09:15 AM
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If women had been selecting for height all along, we would have seen taller and taller humans throughout evolution, but we don't. [...] superior childhood nutrition [...] Read through the whole section: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Recent_human_evolution#Early_Modern_Period_to_present In the middle of the eighteenth century, the average height of Dutch soldiers was 165 cm, well below European and American averages. However, 150 years later, the Dutch gained an average of 20 cm while the America…
/r/seduction29/04/21 01:45 AM
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physically just not sufficiently attractive regardless of intention Why doesn't she swipe left on them in the first place then? Going by Tinder algorithms that would actually improve her chances to get matched with more desirable men. Seems like a self-inflicted obstacle. Or just validation-seeking behavior.
/r/seduction28/04/21 11:32 PM
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paying a women just to be nice to me sounds insane! You seem to be a little out of the loop about the developments that currently take place in the West. For example on OnlyFans the average looking girls, the cute but a bit boring girl next door type, have much more success than supermodels. Of course on an individual basis it depends on fame/clout but you can compare the types of girls on aggregate. The reason being that it's not so much about seeing a girl naked (there are exabytes of free por…
/r/seduction28/04/21 11:00 PM
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Paragraphs would help.
/r/seduction28/04/21 10:32 PM
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Oh please, don't play stupid. By stating Your height doesn't matter to a lot of women. you're making a statement that supposedly applies to every man (that is reading this post) dating any other woman, aka. it's supposed to have universal validity. But then within the second paragraph you're just stating your own situation. 10 years ago we never heard shit about facial symmetry or only tall guys being attractive. That's complete bs. In the 18th century the average height of Dutch soldiers (i.e. …
/r/seduction28/04/21 10:26 PM
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Your height doesn't matter to a lot of women. I'm a 5'5" woman and as long as a guy is at least my height or taller (99% are) Don't assume your own personal situation applies to the world.
/r/seduction28/04/21 10:19 PM
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Not all men are the same. So your past experiences are completely irrelevant.
/r/seduction28/04/21 10:14 PM
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Give your number if it's inappropriate to ask for theirs. For example if you are interested in a cashier. They are nice to everyone, they have to be. Don't conflate it with anything. And they probably get hit on every now and then. Giving your number leaves the power (to choose whether to call or not) in their hands.
/r/seduction28/04/21 10:05 PM
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while I make other plans The best you can do. 👍
/r/seduction28/04/21 05:43 PM
1

Someone that's not like you is a more exciting person to you. Some common interest is fine as a meeting ground though. But the idea that everything would have to match is bogus.
/r/seduction28/04/21 12:30 PM
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https://www.removeddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/n03df0/i_wish_men_knew_how_much_their_friendship_often/ Reddit makes a lot of jokes about the “friend zone” and while I absolutely get why a guy who has romantic feelings may need to walk away when his feelings aren’t reciprocated, I want them to know that many times losing them as a friend is just as painful to us. And yes sometimes we know you want more before you say it, but we hope you might meet someone or get over it so we don’t have to…
/r/seduction28/04/21 12:12 PM
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This so much. I believe people feel the "need" to keep the conversation going because otherwise they are confronted with the voices in their heads that constantly ask questions like "Do I look good in front of her/him? Does she/he like me?" and so on and thus needs the active distraction. Meaning to remain calm and silent communicates (ironic, right?) that one isn't bothered too much by these thoughts, aka. confidence.
/r/seduction20/04/21 09:25 PM
1

She wants the 'rona.
/r/seduction19/04/21 06:17 AM
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Brutally Honest You're not at your optimal health condition. That's euphemistic, not brutally honest. Brutally honest would be to say you: "you look uglier than you have to be since you are fat".
/r/seduction13/04/21 12:23 PM
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even if you might ruin the friendship? This is the key. You get out of the friendzone by intentionally "ruining" - ending actually - the friendship. Tell her something along the lines that you're interested in more than just the friendship and that you would like to take her out. And that if she says no say that's okay but then you don't want to remain friends any longer/want to see her much less often. Remaining a loose acquaintance is fine. You first gotta think about what's in your best inter…
/r/seduction13/04/21 12:14 PM
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All 6 of them have used dating apps and say it’s typical that they’ll delete and remake an account when they’re feeling lonely or horny... sometimes never even swipe on anybody, sometimes swipe on a few then delete it or never go online until they’re feeling like that again. In other words they like the validation they can get from dating apps but don't actually want to date. Well, that's obvious to anyone using a dating app. Don’t rely on dating apps Good advice.
/r/seduction12/04/21 10:31 PM
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Who are you to decide what constitutes a healthy relationship for other people? Extremely arrogant.
/r/seduction12/04/21 10:24 PM
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99.9% of the time they are so broad, as if you are supposed to know exactly what they mean, and they can literally mean anything. Right? OP's post reads like "just be awesome lol!".
/r/seduction12/04/21 10:12 PM
2

Yeah yeah, once a month.
/r/seduction12/04/21 10:04 PM
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Well, if you begin a sentence with "I don't mean any harm but [...]" what's the first thing on the mind of the person you're talking to? Right... harm. A pickup line like that is the dating equivalent of trying to shoot yourself in the foot in a shooter. Even something outright stupid like: "I'm chronically underfucked! If there was just a solution to that hehe?" would be better than that because at least it's not creepy.
/r/seduction12/04/21 09:57 PM
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this is why losers shouldn't breed. Brief reminder that any kind of welfare or transfer payment is necessarily dysgenic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/21 01:12 AM
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Does it really matter what the exact numbers are if the BMI is already over 35?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/21 12:46 PM
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Bisexual = sharing certain men with other women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/21 07:32 AM
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If those 6 babies are 6 guys that will be 6 more guys that will be redpilled "misogynists" by age 30.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/21 08:38 PM
1

I wonder whether Oswald Spengler read Tytler. Their takes on how civilisations emerge and devolve seem awfully similar.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/21 10:58 AM
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25k a year lol. Typical leftist avant-gardist wages.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/20 10:16 AM
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Low time preference: saving money for later, investing long-term, forgoing consumption, not attending to an expensive party High time preference: paying for 20 lines of coke today because YOLO See Wikipedia
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/20 10:12 AM
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She hit the wall like a wrecking ball.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/20 07:39 PM
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What is it about this that screams side bitch to you? Your attitude.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/20 07:26 PM
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Why should a nose ring look any better just because the girl was choked a bit? The only thing that looks really good is a natural, untainted body that isn't mutilated.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/20 07:23 PM
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"Men are all the same, they don't have themselves under control." giggles
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/20 05:53 AM
2

Btw 50% of the pic area is covered by my breasts and look at those thick lips.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/20 05:50 AM
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If found out, she’d blame it all on Chad for manipulating her. Wrong. On the beta hubby for being so "controlling".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/20 05:48 AM
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our first goal should be to come off as a guy who's openly being himself. I am naturally pretty funny. I'm thinking all the time how I can turn anything I see/hear into an inside joke or into dark humor (really borderline on what's socially acceptable) or into a sexual innuendo. It's a reflex, not a conscious decision. When I'm alone that entertains me; I do that to entertain myself primarily anyway and don't care for confirmation or entertaining other people. In order to be serious I have to ma…
/r/seduction11/11/20 10:09 PM
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So, how long are two together now? Honestly, after what you went through after (2) it is clear that she is in the relationship driving seat. She will always know that you lowered yourself to her, that you submitted to her. After a few years she'll lose interest and move on. Don't go for the maybe girls.
/r/seduction10/11/20 02:26 PM
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Are singles allowed to adopt!?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/20 02:57 PM
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but
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/20 02:55 PM
2

A 60 years old pimp.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/10/20 06:44 PM
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Those arms are saggy. Mom's spaghetti. Sorry.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/20 12:41 PM
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Don't know what you're on. The beauty and the beast, it's a very old archetypical story in various different forms. Women want to tame the beast. A bad boy turning out sweet fulfills that. A guy that's just sweet and nothing else is just boring. Players will try for any woman. They don’t always get them. You can be a virgin and be a player. It doesn’t mean she thinks you get a lot of girls. It means she thinks you have low standards and are desperate. Players will flirt with anyone and try to ge…
/r/seduction15/10/20 04:30 AM
1

No visible tattoos? I bet she is covered in them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/10/20 09:48 AM
1

Personal question: did you ever cuddle with someone your age? Also not romantically/sexually, just friendly.
/r/seduction28/09/20 01:02 PM
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Always the latter? The only reason you'd court girls is to have a good time anyways, right?
/r/seduction28/09/20 10:25 AM
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After just 1 hour of sleep and then also having some alcohol I believe everyone would experience a shit day. Mood is heavily tied to both. Can only recommend to find out what the reasons for your insomnia are and work on those. For me a component is late night food. Anything after 1800 and I'll wake up at night. I also can recommend that there really is no need to "catch up" or remain on the same level as the people around you. There is nothing wrong with remaining more or even completely sober …
/r/seduction27/09/20 06:38 AM
1

So... was it the alcohol that made you behave like this?
/r/seduction26/09/20 08:40 PM
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Eastern European women are far more materialistic/interested in money by comparison in my experience. I can fully understand it, coming from an ex-soviet country myself. Once you lived your first 20-25 years of your life in poverty you will never want to turn back. Now I have a good paying software dev job and I'll never be poor again in my whole life, and I aim for at least 500k EUR saved for when I turn 60. Meanwhile I have friends who grew up in households/families that were well off but who …
/r/seduction26/09/20 08:33 PM
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Postpone that problem to later. At first you should ask yourself whether you find that girl attractive or not. If you do that's enough, go for it. Let her find out the reasons why she wouldn't be attracted to you for herself, don't do it for her. If you sense that you're both attracted to each other then go throuh the rational reasons why you shouldn't be together. Relationship involving sex across the age of consent can get you (or her) into real trouble so you should still check for the age. I…
/r/seduction26/09/20 08:20 PM
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The feminist movement isn't identical with all women. why does it hurt women? It doesn't. If it is so ‘natural’ for men to assert dominance over women You've added that over women part. It's much more general than that. Dominance over other men, at work, in public, in politics, in your meetup group, in your sports club, with friends. Dominance isn't necessarily negative. It can be but it doesn't have to be. At work you want the most reliable, trustworthy and able individual to take responsibilit…
/r/seduction24/09/20 08:51 AM
0

I haven't said women are waging war. First, it's not all women. Second some men have been fooled to support that too. Why are you insisting that they should? A lot of people aren't aware of what they want or like or what gives them happiness.
/r/seduction24/09/20 07:10 AM
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People are nice just to avoid conflicts. Problem is men shouldn't avoid conflicts, they should seek it to assert dominance. For women it provided an evolutionary advantage to avoid conflicts. For men it provided an evolutionary advantage to conquer and dominate. Modern-day equality made a lot of people believe men were just defective women. This is the primary reason for the nice guy epidemic. Nowadays statements like "boys will be boys" are viewed as toxic. It's not that there would be good mas…
/r/seduction23/09/20 07:09 PM
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I too find it difficult to even find more conservative girls. Maybe that's because my circles are very liberal and modern when it comes to dating, sex, drugs, parties etc. The whole city where I live is. Not as extreme as Frankfurt, Hamburg or Berlin but you get the idea. But I would assume they don't use the apps either, or do they? I've seen a few on neu.de but even there they were a rare minority. I personally prefer conservative values but not religious ones and it's very hard to find someon…
/r/seduction23/09/20 06:13 PM
4

She's right that it's weird because almost nobody does it here. But that doesn't mean it cannot work. In Germany you have to go to places where people typically relax/wait/to have fun. The public park, the ruin where all people go to smoke weed, pedestrian area near cafés, the bus stop, the lido, the boulder hall, the playground, places like that. You also have to be a bit more persistent. Most times people are approached by someone else is if that someone else want to advertise or sell somethin…
/r/seduction23/09/20 05:22 PM
11

A girl just breathed! What does it mean?
/r/seduction23/09/20 05:05 PM
1

That she likes to play with your feet.
/r/seduction23/09/20 05:05 PM
1

I'm still a very normal guy. I don't think I'm ugly but definitely not crazy attractive as well. I like to think that I'm average looking but I have no idea to be honest Do you want to have an idea about what other people think? You could upload a picture on r/rateme, r/amihot, r/amiugly etc. to get an impression but it's also fully understandable if you don't want a pic of yourself online. Just so that you know your options. Would recomend a throwaway account. Personally I chose to talk about t…
/r/seduction22/09/20 01:22 PM
3

Having money is better than not having money whether you have a woman in your life or not.
/r/seduction22/09/20 01:08 PM
11

A high value man is honest about his intentions and unapologetic about his style, interests, taste, manners, profession, aspirations etc. He doesn't derive value from external influences, he is the one that evaluates the world. He puts in the necessary effort to create a life that he sees as good. He doesn't ask what others see as a good life and he doesn't try to make others believe he changed himself in order to please them.
/r/seduction22/09/20 12:59 PM
2

That's cryptic. What do you mean?
/r/seduction22/09/20 12:54 PM
83

my Facebook crush Little did he know that he already lost the game at this point.
/r/seduction22/09/20 11:52 AM
2

The mark of the streets... The unclean woman shall mark her body with the ink of impurity.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/09/20 11:59 AM
3

This is the state of the modern world: As a man you have to fuck around and impregnate women who you never stay in a relationship with only to economically balance out the fact that you are always cuckolded by taxation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/09/20 11:53 AM
0

Lol no it’s really not. That’s called friends with benefits. The only difference between FWB and relationships is exclusivity. and you don’t know about her sexual feelings for him. Which is why I've written in my very first comment that it's important to look at other aspects than just that statement, gosh. Dense much.
/r/seduction19/09/20 07:51 PM
0

I'm not obtuse, you're simply ignorant. The difference between the friendzone and a relationship really is just sex.
/r/seduction19/09/20 07:42 PM
0

That makes no sense. A relationship doesn't work without sex.
/r/seduction19/09/20 07:26 PM
1

You are trying to find a female which you connect to emotionally and in order to find out if that's the case you have to hit on her. I agree with that completely but don't mention this to anyone saying you just hit on everyone as if it was a bad thing. To say you have to do it implies you would buy the narrative for it to be a bad thing. It is really good to answer with "Yes, that's true." but the followup should be "because I like it" or "because I want to" or "because it feels good". First, th…
/r/seduction19/09/20 07:23 PM
-1

You speak only of relationship vibes. They are completely meaningless without sexual attraction.
/r/seduction19/09/20 07:19 PM
1

No. If you know the girl likes flowers it would still be a better idea to walk in a park that has flowers for a first date rather than bringing them.
/r/seduction19/09/20 07:16 PM
25

Only until they're 30.
/r/seduction19/09/20 07:14 PM
0

I believe there is a different definition of what is attractive or a turn on. When a man asks "What is attractive to women?" he actually means arousal, or to put it bluntly: what gets them wet? You say you found being lend stuff a turn on but I highly doubt that you found it arousing. So while this wasn't a sign of your husband being friendzoned that may only be the case because of different traits and deeds he showed to you, not because of the fact that he was sweet to you. If those attributes …
/r/seduction19/09/20 07:10 PM
-2

I like this. Knowing you just made some other guy's day a little bit worse at least gives me the proper feel-good hormones.
/r/seduction19/09/20 05:56 PM
1

Traditional conservative variation of the red pill. Where people still believe there are quality women up for marriage and children and hopefully nobody cheats and where the red pill would be all about anger and bitterness.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/20 11:52 AM
2

COVID is the enemy of clubs and bars right now. Other than that, OLD sadly.
/r/seduction19/09/20 10:12 AM
1

yes I do have social anxiety Nowadays it's very fashionable to say someone has "social anxiety", just like depression or autism despite a lot of people lacking a real diagnosis. You can train that, you know? Like when you're in the supermarket and someone looks at the fruits weirdly just say what you think about those fruits. Like "Yeah, I think those have been on the shelve for too long and we should eat them today rather than tomorrow.". Doesn't matter in the sleightest what the guy or girl re…
/r/seduction19/09/20 09:53 AM
10

Perhaps the better whoring app.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/20 07:30 AM
27

That's beautiful. Especially the Picard facepalm. Going back to TNG rn.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/20 07:26 AM
22

This. Walk or chilling in the park. Ice cream or coffee at most.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/20 04:31 AM
6

Think about it. The opposite of eugenics isn't lack of eugenics, it's dysgenics. That's where we are at as the Western society. Everything in favor of those who don't want or are too stupid to take responsibility.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/20 04:13 AM
3

Honestly, I believe she plays "hard to fuck" (analog to hard to get). With a necklace like that she'll be very submissive in the end. Thin, close to the neck, delicate. Still, why would I want to spend resources on another man's child...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/20 04:00 AM
2

Can confirm. Knew one. She drove 500 km tripping on a mixture of various drugs. With 3 friends in the car. They are all still somehow alive but still.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/09/20 07:51 PM
1

Was she on Palpatine School? I AM the table!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/09/20 05:45 PM
11

Tattoo. She who beareth the mark of the streets, she belongeth to the streets!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/09/20 05:43 PM
1

The real reason approach anxiety men experience is, like for so many things, evolution. In tribal times until civilization formed the pool of potential partners in your age range was like 10 or 20. And should you accidentally ask out the wrong girl (too high status) - like the daughter of the tribal chieftain - and she rejects you that almost always meant that you will end up with nobody before you die and thus cannot reproduce. Thus having approach anxiety provided an evolutionary benefit as it…
/r/seduction17/09/20 05:30 PM
1

The likelihood that they reject you rudely is incredibly low. Women are far more averse to conflicts than men. Just do nothing in the moment, walk away. It happened to me once, it was actually great. I was confused for 2 seconds, angry for 2 minutes and after 2 days I didn't spend a single more thought on her (other when telling about her like right now). It never happened so fast in any other case.
/r/seduction17/09/20 05:23 PM
1

If you're high every sober person looks like fallen.
/r/seduction17/09/20 05:18 PM
2

Hey, why are revealing my secrets? :) Nevermind, my succubi will lure you into the darkness!
/r/seduction17/09/20 05:07 PM
3

Fair enough, but there you have your explanation. Cultural difference alone explains it. Most Redditors are Westerners and about 50% of all Redditors are from the US alone. (Am from Germany myself.)
/r/seduction17/09/20 03:46 PM
1

Going sure that all she believes about is the 100% correct truth and not possibly misguided would mean to fail the shit test. It simply doesn't matter whether she believes whether you flirt like that with someone over text or not. Just make it sound funny. So you partially already failed it. But what the other guy said is probably a good rescue.
/r/seduction17/09/20 11:09 AM
2

Overlooked that part and didn't assume someone would ask that question who was in a relationship. My comment obviously only applies to a person being single or non-exclusive.
/r/seduction17/09/20 11:04 AM
0

Usually when ex coworkers meet up for drinks there is little to no intention other than some friendly banter. But at the same time anything goes, there is no bad consequence for flirting and asking the other person out. So just hope bars reopen soon.
/r/seduction17/09/20 08:23 AM
2

The home truth: It doesn't matter whether a man is 20 or 60. A man will always find the 20 years old woman more sexually attractive than her older equivalent. (Keeping other aspects constant.) But that's sexual only. If you look for relationships more compatibility is needed. I (29M) am currently seeing someone 21F and while I find her incredibly hot she is very childish in some ways and I can't talk to her all that good. We are simply at different stages of our lifes. But I've known her for 3 y…
/r/seduction17/09/20 08:05 AM
5

I have extremely strict parents. Most people in the West have very liberal parents.
/r/seduction17/09/20 07:58 AM
1

I've been openly responded to "that's sexual harrassment!" when it was really not but just an attempt of flirting. I went away. Rofl, you seriously believe in the age of smartphones there would exist a "real" world "outside" the internet? People communicate more over Twitter, Snap, Insta than irl.
/r/seduction16/09/20 06:05 AM
1

The only time I get really angry online is when I begin to lose in Brawlhalla ranked and start to rationalise it away with the game not registering my inputs or lag. Have destroyed a $130 keyboard and $50 headphones over that already. I still play that game but just like in CS 1.6 all those years ago with enough time just comes acceptance. Sometimes you lose and there's nothing you can do about it but to try again another time. Sometimes you lose in discussions and there's nothing you can do to …
/r/seduction15/09/20 11:35 PM
0

Yikes.
/r/seduction15/09/20 11:32 PM
1

No reason to push. Laissez-faire is good. Wait for her to start talking about a relationship between you too, until then you have an FWB.
/r/seduction15/09/20 11:30 PM
1

I've already objected to a similar statement a few hours ago, link. You cannot argue data that exists. Inform yourself. Our society is more egalitarian than ever before, we are more free to choose what is in line with our biology than ever before. These really are the ancient ways. You're right about Tinder and social media being new and impactful but all they do is giving an impression of a larger social circle. They aren't responsible for the behavior you observe. They, as someone else already…
/r/seduction15/09/20 11:23 PM
3

You're overthinking things. As long as you don't fall in love there is absolutely no reason to push for a relationship or anything that feels like a relationship but just isn't called one. Enjoy having sex with her from time to time, maybe not always. Expect she's having sex with other people. Don't fall in love.
/r/seduction15/09/20 11:16 PM
4

Being dominant doesn't make someone hate being seduced, lol. Personally I cannot understand why anyone would not be turned on by lingerie and getting seduced.
/r/seduction15/09/20 11:12 PM
3

Most people never approach anyone. Not because they lack balls or anything but because there is a shame culture about anything related to pickup. Many women say they don't want to be "tricked" into anything just because a man "appears" confident. Or they immediately assume the man is doing this just for attention and validation - as if that judgement would remove the legitimacy from doing so. Or they immediately assume the guy doin it would be creep that doesn't stop after being rejected. Becaus…
/r/seduction15/09/20 10:57 PM
2

how did you get over not wanting a relantionship? I haven't fallen in love for 11 years. And I have an easy time moving on when someone is no longer part of my life. I have kind of forgotten how it is missing someone. I know that I want sex and physical intimacy. I believe that I want children down the road but I know that as a man there's no problem having children being something around 40 years old. I am not sure anyway whether I'd be a good dad or whether I want children. But again, there's …
/r/seduction15/09/20 10:14 PM
5

Dopamine rush cannot get boring.
/r/seduction15/09/20 12:59 AM
1

Most women I know want beards except when they're scratchy or scruffy. So trim, comb and oil your beards, guys. There are beard models showing how to do it well on Youtube.
/r/seduction15/09/20 12:57 AM
2

29M here. Couple envy was real for me in the past but the more I think about it the less I want a relationship with anyone. I'm completely fine/happy with being alone or seeing women casually and even friends just rarely. It's actually that the more time I spend with people (friends and partners alike) the less "stable" or functioning I become and the more alone the more calm and relaxed and genuinely happy I am. Maybe that means I just didn't find the right people yet but it is what it is. what…
/r/seduction14/09/20 11:58 PM
2

Disagree. If you have to wait for sex the sex is rarely worth the wait. Just next them. And disagree about the gun loaded thing. You want your libido up so you actually aim to create an arousing atmosphere and don't waste your time with friendly banter. This of course only applies if your goal is sex. If your goal is an LTR direct your actions accordingly. But even then you don't want to run into her saying "I'm not feeling it", "there is no spark" etc.
/r/seduction14/09/20 11:28 PM
1

You can consider whatever you want as a soulmate. It doesn't matter. Soulmates don't exist. It's a manmade concept on the same level as ghosts, spirits, demons, gods, afterlife, souls, divination and astrology. Metaphysical, superstitious nonsense. The opium of the people.
/r/seduction14/09/20 07:17 PM
1

Part of every coming of age story is to overcome that fear.
/r/seduction14/09/20 07:14 PM
2

I know that looks aren't everything, and that personality matters and all, Only for relationships and friendships. For ONS and FWB personality does not really matter. It is okay to be attracted to looks. If you approach someone on the street you don't know them. You only see their looks so you only can judge them by the looks. Same for online dating. Maybe they are good people. Maybe they aren't; it's very much possible they are horrible. The point is in getting to know them in order to later on…
/r/seduction13/09/20 10:04 PM
2

What consequence would that have if they did?
/r/seduction13/09/20 09:37 PM
1

Question for clarification: What were you intentions at the beginning? See what happens? FWB? Serious dating with prospects of an LTR? What did you communicate about that to her, what did she communicate about that to you? Was she looking for something serious or just enjoying the evening? Now the thing is, im generally pretty insecure and anxious when it comes to my performance in the bedroom so this kinda hurt me. Try to view it as if she said that without you two having sex.
/r/seduction13/09/20 07:14 PM
1

You can have sex in the afternoon too, you don't have to postpone it to the night...
/r/seduction12/09/20 10:26 PM
2

The line is when they don’t leave me alone if I say ‘no thanks’. I can understand that. The only proper response to that would be something along the lines of "Okay, no problem, have a nice day.". it’s still a nuisance to be approached, by anyone at all. Honestly, I cannot believe this nor that you sincerely believe you'd spread positivity. The latter just sounds like New Age, like superstition. What I noticed is that my environment directly changes their attitude towards me along the lines how …
/r/seduction12/09/20 09:57 PM
3

Dude, you can find something sexual in everything. I once was invited to a house party and the hostess was worried that people would spill drinks on her bed. I suggested to her to put a bunch of towels on her bed and followed up with "like when you want to squirt". Surprisingly she did not know what I meant with squirting. On another occasion I was invited to a friend who had a girlfriend that was a pretty vocal feminist. She said something like "women are always strong and independent" and I re…
/r/seduction12/09/20 09:19 PM
3

Regarding lipstick: "I've heard the ancient Egyptians invented lipstick to make their lips look more pink, like pussies."
/r/seduction12/09/20 09:03 PM
-1

And where would you see the threshold between someone trying to approach and subsequently flirt with you and someone harrassing you?
/r/seduction12/09/20 08:46 PM
6

I am not afraid of anything like that. But most men are. But again, it's not about rejection, it's a real fear of getting your life destroyed. I'm from Germany, it's not as extreme as in the US here. But an example: there was a very famous guy, Jörg Kachelmann, who did the weather forecast for the biggest TV station (ZDF) and his girlfriend hunting for fame and money accused him of rape. During the cause it was proven that the accusation was a complete lie and he got aquitted of all charges. But…
/r/seduction12/09/20 08:34 PM
5

I sense there is a market for transparent masks...
/r/seduction12/09/20 08:23 PM
3

Dude, why do you believe physical attraction shouldn't be something that could be a cause of happiness? Your whole comment reads like reductio ad absurdum and your opinion sounds like insanity to me.
/r/seduction12/09/20 08:17 PM
2

Why do you smile at other people?
/r/seduction12/09/20 08:16 PM
14

Men are afraid of getting metooed and their lifes ruined with accusations of sexual harrassment because #believeWomen. Or they try fanatically to be good and not ever do a single mistake. The zeitgeist just hates flirting and approaches. Have you seen the amount of comments (and upvotes for such comments) on r/dating_advice etc. that say "We women don't want to be approached in public! We are just doing errands! Reeeee!"? If a fitting thread hits the reddit frontpage it's quickly getting into 10…
/r/seduction12/09/20 08:07 PM
6

You're just trying to rationalize your own lack of experience. Practice makes perfect.
/r/seduction11/09/20 03:03 AM
1

Double standard? Men and women are different.
/r/seduction10/09/20 08:11 PM
1

Seems like a case of the sunken cost fallacy to me. Take it just as a learning experience, don't overinvest early on (applies to dating and everything outside dating).
/r/seduction10/09/20 06:33 PM
2

Most concise and precise reply ITT.
/r/seduction10/09/20 06:14 PM
-1

but I don’t wanna push it too far and her take it the wrong way. What wrong way? The only wrong way would be if you had feelings and told her "I love you!" or some rom com nonsense. "I’ve been so fucking horny lately like I just want someone to finger me" The right response would be "Undress!".
/r/seduction10/09/20 06:12 PM
4

Sliding into DMs is the social media equivalent of cat calling. The general public opinion on it is: it's annoying and creepy and you should rather redirect your efforts to something more fruitful. But there are those random 1 in a 100 outliers that may react positively to it.
/r/seduction10/09/20 06:03 PM
1

Why would you want to though? A woman like that is in the same category as an ex or someone who already rejected you from the beginning. This is the scarcity mindset speaking. As soon as you pursue a woman like that you also communicate that you don't believe you could get someone else (it doesn't matter whether you actually believe that or not); you're lowering your own status by trying. Just date other girls. Let them come to you. And if they won't you'll have other options.
/r/seduction10/09/20 05:56 PM
3

Because men and women are different. Men that have been with many women tend to be viewed as sexually pre-selected (in a positive light). Women that have been with many men tend to be viewed as used (in a negative light).
/r/seduction10/09/20 05:47 PM
1

Disagree with those 4 points. This is why some women end up as entitled, delusional, spoilt brats that can never take criticism nor possibly learn from another human being. Criticism, correction - those things must be allowed and welcomed. Or do you want to be like Amy? As far as I understand OP this isn't about anger either.
/r/seduction10/09/20 05:33 PM
1

"Bros before hoes" as they say is just arbitrarily made up and it is enforced by those who already got the "hoes" in order to keep everyone else around them away from their "hoes". No sane person could be angry at you for trying to get with a friend's ex. Including your friend. The only thing you should ask yourself is whether you're fine that one of your friends had his way with her before you. This innately comes with lower perceived status if you try a long-term relationship.
/r/seduction10/09/20 04:54 PM
1

Depends on the nature of those relationships, length, amount, reason for breakups and also on the sex of the person in question.
/r/seduction10/09/20 04:49 PM
3

Exactly!
/r/seduction09/09/20 09:55 PM
59

"My battery just ran out."
/r/seduction09/09/20 01:49 PM
1

Going by that a good looking beta (meaning personality traits here) will still believe it would be better to not approach and then end up marrying and subsequently get divorced by the wrong woman instead of dating multiple ones in his prime. I suggest to not give a fuck what anybody else might think until a conversation starts to feel bad in any way.
/r/seduction04/09/20 10:18 AM
1

Agree, I find your new friend's behavior very weird.
/r/seduction03/09/20 07:28 PM
0

The fuck did you smoke?
/r/seduction03/09/20 07:27 PM
1

isn't this how friends should be? Friends are also supposed to leave space for the other person. Honestly, after a single week with seeing the same people for 6 times I'd be annoyed by their presence. It always got tense when I went on a 1-2 weeks vacation with friends.
/r/seduction03/09/20 06:59 PM
4

Perhaps about 1-5% of men approach women regularly in public. Most women will say they don't like it but a man should focus on his own interest first.
/r/seduction03/09/20 06:38 PM
3

Looking a bit younger wouldn't be too bad for you, rn you look older than 26. Completely shave the beard, pick some headwear or grow more hair on the top (but leave the sides short) and some pilot glasses with dark shades because your skin has such a light shade. Long-term: Build muscles with resistence training, get more sun.
/r/seduction03/09/20 05:29 PM
1

Not getting overly triggered by people being annoying and rude to you shows some kind of mental strength and that's attractive.
/r/seduction03/09/20 05:16 PM
0

She probably wants kilts with no underwear. Like true Scots!
/r/seduction26/08/20 10:42 AM
1

It's very unlikely a girl lies about having a boyfriend unless she was approached in a creepy way where she believed that saying she wasn't interested wouldn't be effective. Just because a girl has a bf doesn't mean she wouldn't be interested in other guys. Problems start only if you actually act on it, then all the guilt and shame and what else go through her head. Had this experience with a girl myself. She was in an LDR. I stated that I don't believe in LDRs, that the lack of physical proximi…
/r/seduction26/08/20 10:36 AM
1

There are sports. Like every morning sports swimmers go train in the morning (0630-0800) in the local lido in my city. Mixed sexes, ages range from like 15 to like 20. Though they are interested in competing in tournaments.
/r/seduction26/08/20 08:57 AM
1

Romantic interest? Past the friendship stage. Psychologists say people require about 200 hours with each other to consider the other one as a friend. Sexual interest? From second 0. Keep in mind that about 85% of what we communicate is not vocal but body language etc.
/r/seduction25/08/20 08:32 PM
1

Here in Germany there would be no stigma if a student and their TA hooked up. Don't know how it is where you live.
/r/seduction25/08/20 07:56 PM
1

You kinda have to take up a hobby in a club outside the school that girls share. Being in an all-boys school in 2020 is like... well, not good.
/r/seduction25/08/20 07:50 PM
1

That's true. If you want something long-lasting the first approach should definitely be less aggressive than above. A few years ago I was out for dinner with friends. They invited someone I didn't know at the time. She sat down right to me, introduced herself, you know, her name, whose friend she was, very soft handshake etc. then asked me what I would order while moving her upper body slightly towards me. Throughout the evening she would initiate those tiny dialogs, whether I smoked, what I did…
/r/seduction25/08/20 07:26 PM
2

Know what is appropriate to say and not to say in different settings. Sense of humor. That's self-contradicting. It is a lot of fun for me to say things that are inappropriate. All in all the whole list looks like a perfection shopping list.
/r/seduction25/08/20 06:26 PM
1

Real talk? For an average woman to seduce an average man all she needs to do is ask him whether he is single, then say something like "good, I'm single too", smile at him and then wait until the man starts pulling her towards him. And then remain obedient. But no woman is going to do this. For a woman there's a lot more risk involved and a lot more of them want emotions and relationships and not just sex.
/r/seduction25/08/20 06:10 PM
1

Well, you can have a career and get fucked by fake alpha Chads with various means of birth control and never give birth to a single child. If that's what you want. But then don't cry about only getting in contact with low quality men. Nobody wants to enforce anything. I just gave a suggestion, it is in the interest of women to prioritize a cozy home full of children over careers. Maybe, if you're getting older and wiser you'll share that view. Maybe not. Ask older women what brings them happines…
/r/seduction18/08/19 07:22 AM
1

Jokes aside, the problem with wanting to date guys between 35 and let's guess 50 is that these have a full-time job, responsibilities, marriage, a family with children, or if these aspects aren't the case they are complete losers you wouldn't want. Like alcoholics, homeless or whatever. That's why young women 18-25 shouldn't ride the cock carousel but actually aim to become good housewifes and trust in young men who are confident and intelligent (but probably come across as beta orbiters) to bec…
/r/seduction17/08/19 07:35 PM
2

Perhaps the local bingo club is more appropriate for the age range you're interested in.
/r/seduction17/08/19 06:42 PM
1

It's hilarious to see young women with 3 kg makeup in their faces and shaved skin telling me that expecting makeup and shaved skin for a date would be a no-go. Besides, nobody is "forcing them". If they don't want to, that means if they like to stay single or with a beta who "accepts feminine equality", that's fine. I personally would like a woman with very few makeup looking beautiful naturally. I think many beauty articles make sick (thin skin, acne, cancer) in the long run. Still, would like,…
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