TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

cytPandora Archive

View 0 posts and 37 comments by cytPandora on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
2

I think lying, selfishness, no empathy and support and abusive behaviors
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 11:26 PM
3

I agree. Unless you trust someone deeply, it isn't safe. I'm a woman and people have used my insecurities against me, take advantage of my vulnerable state to make me feel bad, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 11:42 AM
0

Just because someone doesn't agree with you it's not cool to attack their capability of critical thinking but fine. There's tons of stereotypes that just aren't true. Also, everyone can be confused, not just women. I broke up with some because they were kinda toxic, not saying i wasn't either, just that the amount of fights lead to it's end. One broke up with me cause I made him miserable, I've changed since that. One of them just didn't care, so i felt like i was alone. This last one began bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 10:33 PM
1

Every bf I've had talked to me about those issues. Being a failure too. That never made me like them less. I'm talking to my girlfriend right now, she said opening up also made her like them more. I think it's really condescending to say women don't know what they want. The last place I read this was on incel tears, they think women are just children with no critical thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 08:27 PM
3

I don't know the women you do but my experience with women is quite different. I've met many emotionally distant men and found it difficult even to be friends with, let alone date. My female friends often complain about that. Being unable to open up or express feelings is so annoying I stopped talking to people like this. Cause it leads to two things. Resentment, making the guy act passive-agressive, and the feeling that something is wrong The feeling the person doesn't trust me enough to share …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:24 PM
2

My comment wasn't about all emotions like anger. Being angry all the time is harmful due to the amount of cortisol in your body, making you be on a state of fight or flee, rising heartbeat, blood circulation etc. I was talking more about, cuddling? Taking a shower with products that smell nice, these things that are considered girly but i absolutely think men deserve to take care of themselves and not being called a faggot. And you got my question, thank you for answering!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:56 PM
1

Answering your question with my pov. Everyone can learn new skills specially if it's on the expression part. If women want men to unlearn? Well that depends on the girl but would you like being with a lady who doesn't care how you feel? Answering based on myself, yes, a hundred times. Being open with each other is something i value in a relationship. About the DNA thing, I'm not sure this is how it works. Both genders share same DNA apart from the xx and xy chromosomes. Talking about psychologic…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 12:38 PM
1

I don't think that something being perpetrated throughout thousands of years equals being good or bad. For example, in some places pedophilia is normalized, does that mean it's healthy for the kids involved? Also I'm curious. Have you ever felt something, and felt the urge to express it and felt like it was wrong? Liking someone for example. (Genuine question)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 12:18 PM
8

It's interesting how men are taught to be less emotive than women, and think later that showing affection is cringey or something. For the ones that deconstruct this idea little by little (that I've seen) come to the conclusion that these things are nice, among with self care etc
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 09:33 PM
1

I'm sorry then for putting words in your mouth. Although, that's my point, it's completely fine for you to choose who you wanna date based on whatever criteria you like. I get from your post is that it shouldn't be just your individual opinion but rather everyone else's. But not everyone is gonna share that criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 11:55 AM
-1

So you're unable to put yourself in someone else's shoes. That's fine, my conclusion is. I understand why one wouldn't date someone with high n count, but i still don't understand the comparison cause i don't think someone's worth is based on these elements.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:47 AM
3

I think it's completed understandable that people have standards. What i fail to understand is why this subject is brought up everytime and with weaker comparisons. Salary cannot be compared to n count. We need money to live. Also, 13 makes her pair bonding ability broken beyond repair? People have the ability to separate types of relationships. Like yourself. Just be for fun and no strings attached, would you have sex with a 13 n count woman? (If you don't like hook up then consider you do). Ok…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 09:25 PM
5

This is a much more reasonable way of seeing the facts, and as you stated both have toxic traits. Just as I try to be reasonable not angry all the time about how women are afraid of being raped when they're just walking down the street for example. Knowing those things and protecting yourself is different from being a hateful person i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 04:01 PM
3

I'm so jealous! I'm a bi girl and i never had a girl flirt with me first.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 02:09 AM
6

I relate to that. The only girl i kissed was in a open relationship and her bf was nearby.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 02:00 AM
2

If it's not that, then maybe jealousy. Also a feeling I can't describe but I'm a lady who feels sick about prostitution, I don't know why. Has to do with depravity, i feel disgusted. People are always trying to find reason to why their pov is the right one even if it comes from a place of irrational thoughts Edit: spelling
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 04:43 PM
1

I don't have experience with that since I'm a girl but I think average girls try to please more due to self seem issues. Hot girls had it more easy so they are used to people doing things for then i guess. It's like trying to compensate for their looks with good sex. I felt like this for a long time, I've been ugly average and i feel more attractive now and felt my attitude change throughout those phases
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 04:39 PM
2

Well porn bring a lot of issues, it's a fact that the porn industry isn't healthy so there's reasons i guess. I just don't care myself but I wouldn't go as far as say there's no reason
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 04:30 PM
2

Tinder. I was trying to have fun and distract myself and i did, then i fell in love with him. The fun thing is he wasn't the type of person i would match, since he had no bio. It was a complicated story, other people involved but I'm happy it played out like this, i love him. 8 months now :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:56 PM
2

Well if someone is having sex without protection no matter their n count then they're just irresponsible
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 06:12 PM
6

The choice of word is important somehow here? Lol that was so unnecessary. Why say lot word when few word do trick. Anyway I guess the point was what happened in the past isn't something you're entitled to from another person. Just because an ex got spoiled financially from your partner doesn't mean he can't change his boundaries concerning money, for example. And yeah, we don't have to accept them, people choose who they date based on whatever criteria they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 12:26 PM
3

I get your point. I still think it's oversimplified. In the sense of: women only care about money, so they look for man with money so they are the only one getting something. It starts from a narrow point of view imo. That's not the only thing is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 05:03 PM
6

So if only her pays for everything than it would be fine dor example since there's no competition? Also, it seems to me it isn't about what man can get out of marriage but what you can get out of marriage. Sure, it's not anyone's job in a relationship to be supporting but damn should be hard being with someone that isn't. Most people expect that from their spouses. So, you don't see any advantages in marrying a woman, as well as there's women who don't see advantage in marrying a man. They have …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 04:40 PM
23

Don't you expect your wife to be encouraging, supporting, loving so on and so forth? Also, today, you don't expect your wife to help financially? Also, i see we're playing stereotypes so a benefit man can have by having a wife, is not having to do shores or something. Man, house duty is a pain in the ass. And very tiring. Being clear, I don't believe these stereotypes, as I'm a lady and awful at cleaning, and i help financially. Just trying to join the conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 04:31 PM
2

Entire self esteem and identity? That seems like a bit of a stretch. Just like men, women have their own interests besides being desired, that is great but isn't everything. Even for people who this plays a huge role in their lives, it still isn't everything. I'm a insecure lady for example. If someone called me ugly, I would be upset. The same if someone judged my art skills, or my favorite show. Those are all things that affect my personality, because we're all complex people, with our own sub…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:53 AM
4

Now I'm curious. What has been your experience with it? How TRP changed your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:41 AM
2

You have a good point. You win.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:06 AM
1

I'm 1,52m (I'm not american so i don't know how inches is that), my voice is kinda soft and low, and im feminine. If me being feminine plays a role if im ignored, then it shows that there is a gender issue here. If it's about having a big personality, it doesn't. Cause I'm very chill indeed haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:16 PM
3

It's a rather complex problem, there's numerous variables on the table. Group dynamics is interested to study i guess!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:19 PM
0

Yes! So i think it's on me being rather shy and an introvert. I guess i wanted to join the conversation cause it related to me in some way. In other occasions tho my opinion was dismissed just cause I'm a lady definitely. Those where people think I don't have the knowledge you know? Like, computer stuff, games, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:11 PM
4

If a person decides to stay silent it's their choice. But in my experience as a woman, i try talking, try stating my opinion, and generally men won't listen, will dismiss me and accept the same thing coming from other man, all this in the same social situation. I know looks like I'm creating a perfect situation to prove my point, so you can believe it or not. Also it can be just my own experience. My guy friends tend to be loud, I can't fit in when we're all together. I have to throw a f tantrum…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:30 PM
0

The first statement suggests woman treat men as smartphones and upgrades them, the second suggests a woman buys herself a good smartphone in the first place, right? For me it's totally different. From men's perspective. If you were to choose between dating a good looking girl but boring, or a good looking fun girl, what would you? Of course we want the best company we can get. That doesn't mean every woman sees men like toys
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:40 AM
1

I agree. I used them a lot and was mostly to cure boredom and by luck ended up dating actually but that doesn't usually happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 10:16 PM
8

I'm a bi woman and i never hooked up with a girl in my life. I wanted to but i guess I'm too shy? So i can relate
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 08:00 PM
3

Ok let's say someone's only virtue is being sexy. I wouldn't want to fuck that. I didn't want to, because I've met a few. It doesn't take one feature on a person for me to find them attractive and I'd say more women think the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 12:14 PM
3

I never really liked games. I'm honest, maybe too honest sometimes. If i like you you'll know and if not you'll know too. Guys who flert with me instead of genuinely try to get closer and know me never got to really date me, because I'm friend first but i guess that's just me i really don't know
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 05:31 PM
2

That was really wholesome and i enjoyed reading this. I always had this line thought but could never explain as well as you did. Like when i try to understand my own sexuality and can only think that i love people's personality and if their soul traded bodies or something it wouldn't make a difference for me. People often get anxious about being alone and being perceived as that to society. I worried about that until i learned I love being alone and I can't stand faking so that i can please a pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 04:51 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter