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1

Correct. Also, looking at "the number of women" is really silly, because it's not a binary. Women aren't just "casual" or "long-term" types. Plenty of people would prefer long-term ideally, but will go for casual when timing make sense. They're in town for only a short while, just got out of a long-term and are just dating around, are busy with work/school. Or they just find someone they're having fun with for the night but know are totally unsuitable for a real relationship. They're not "breaki…
/r/seduction17/07/26 08:09 PM
2

You sounded like you didn't give a shit and now you're wondering why she thinks you didn't give a shit about her?
/r/seduction19/08/25 12:10 AM
1

Young women have been harassed since age 11 by gross old men. The harassment continues into their 20s by men their own age. Once they're older, you're basically completely non-threatening, like a baby raccoon.
/r/seduction31/10/24 04:30 AM
12

Yeah I was gonna say. It's because you're a widdle baby, yes you are! Look at you with your shoes and your hair all done up.
/r/seduction31/10/24 04:26 AM
2

Playing games trying to get someone who doesn't want you sounds boring as shit.
/r/seduction30/04/24 08:33 PM
4

It's almost like women will interact with people even when they don't want to fuck them. 🤔
/r/seduction24/04/24 09:39 PM
4

So basically his advice is garbage. The real reason he's getting traffic is med school.
/r/seduction23/02/24 02:20 PM
7

It's called "future faking. "
/r/seduction23/02/24 02:13 PM
1

Any episode of Americans Next Top Model could have learned ya that. They're just photogenic.
/r/seduction15/02/24 08:14 AM
0

True dat
/r/seduction14/02/24 08:04 AM
163

They're walking the line.
/r/seduction23/05/23 03:27 AM
1

Agreed, pretty sure anyone giving the advice to be yourself assume you'll put effort into bettering yourself... for yourself. Apparently they had no idea that some dudes will have zero interest in achieving goals or being socially competent or eating a vegetable except for the express purpose of getting laid?
/r/seduction01/05/23 05:56 AM
22

I agree, you should ignore women entirely.
/r/seduction14/04/23 09:08 PM
1

It's pretty easy to tell if women want you to approach them, men just don't care a lot of the time ("Gotta shoot my shot!"... no, you don't have to be a nuisance) and instead focus on irrelevant junk (Can I hit on women in X environment?). You can hit on women anywhere... IF SHE WANTS YOU TO. Which involves eye contact, repeated glances, smiles, etc. Most women want you to approach, and we hang out here to give tips because it's great done the right way and horrible when the creepy "game" tips m…
/r/seduction14/09/22 04:10 AM
1

Thought you guys were all about the free market. 😆
/r/seduction24/08/22 11:57 AM
-10

If you can't convey your personality online maybe you don't have one.
/r/seduction24/08/22 04:27 AM
-7

Nothing. Whiners gonna whine.
/r/seduction24/08/22 04:26 AM
2

That's not even counting the women who've opted out entirely due to terrible selection.
/r/seduction24/08/22 04:21 AM
-12

Now you know your pulling power
/r/seduction24/08/22 04:19 AM
4

You didn't actually ask her on a date.
/r/seduction23/08/22 09:06 PM
1

Not. Listening
/r/seduction23/08/22 04:03 AM
1

And you were wrong.
/r/seduction23/08/22 03:27 AM
1

You just love begging the question, don't you. Keep going, though, you're being the best illustration. This is absolute perfection. It's art. 👌
/r/seduction23/08/22 02:13 AM
1

Um, no. You know where assumptions get you...
/r/seduction23/08/22 02:07 AM
1

I didn't delete any comments so you're probably arguing with the wrong person.
/r/seduction23/08/22 02:05 AM
1

Where did I say it was from "poor performance".
/r/seduction23/08/22 01:51 AM
1

Nowhere did I say anything about poor performance, lol. You're illustrating my point perfectly, though. Thank you.
/r/seduction22/08/22 03:18 PM
1

Listening makes it super easy!
/r/seduction20/08/22 05:15 PM
1

This is the kind of attitude that brings on the fake orgasms, lol
/r/seduction20/08/22 05:14 PM
1

They lie to women
/r/seduction20/08/22 03:52 PM
3

You also forget that plenty of dudes have that goal but also get super upset if it doesn't happen, to the point where it's safer just to lie to them rather than deal with their anger or having to console THEM because they couldn't please YOU. 🙄 And if it's a one-night thing? Hell no, dealing with that is too much work.
/r/seduction20/08/22 07:27 AM
1

"Cause you're bored, and you can always stop at any time if it's not fun anymore." People feel safer when you give them an out, and they are choosing of their own volition to continue.
/r/seduction20/08/22 03:02 AM
40

You think bad sex is like YOUR bad sex, which is just boring. But bad sex for women is not just boring, it can be catastrophically painful and traumatic. The risk of terrible sex with unvetted randos is pretty high, so obviously we have to be a lot more selective than dudes. The fact that guys still don't understand that really makes them miles further from being selected.
/r/seduction20/08/22 02:55 AM
-1

That's the metric for "success"? A reply? Pff
/r/seduction12/08/22 04:14 AM
1

Yeah no
/r/seduction03/08/22 09:06 PM
1

These are good tips, though the theory behind them is a little doofy at times. Like really, you think it's because women don't want to be slutty?-- or maybe saying "Let's go to my place to bang" is just a crass turnoff, lol. Great points about there always being flakes, and don't be discouraged by it.
/r/seduction03/08/22 05:02 AM
6

The friend is only doing that because your target is 100% not into you. 😂
/r/seduction16/07/22 03:43 AM
2

He just got rejected by one.
/r/seduction11/06/22 11:58 AM
2

Perfection :)
/r/seduction06/06/22 10:45 PM
1

You must be quite delicate if you think that's angry. 😂 Sorry for upsetting you.
/r/seduction06/06/22 08:41 PM
-1

Not angry, just answered the question.
/r/seduction06/06/22 07:09 PM
-6

They're not actually options, but okay. Stay bitter, that's attractive! /s There are whole things written on how to flirt so you can find those, but they all involve a dance of reading reactions, plausible deniability, and making sure you aren't making someone uncomfortable. Something tells me you need to brush up on that concept.
/r/seduction06/06/22 02:11 PM
-10

They're not actually options, but okay. Stay bitter, that's attractive! /s There are whole things written on how to flirt so you can find those, but they all involve a dance of reading reactions, plausible deniability, and making sure you aren't making someone uncomfortable. Something tells me you need to brush up on that concept.
/r/seduction06/06/22 02:11 PM
8

Not really. What guys THINK is flirting but is just being crude and gross will ruin the conversation.
/r/seduction06/06/22 02:07 PM
20

Yup, true. If no flirting is happening then I don't really care if you say you're attracted to me because it's not being demonstrated. And guess what, we live with tons of friends who secretly want to bang us; if they're not acting on it, it doesn't matter and they're safely just friends.
/r/seduction06/06/22 08:27 AM
2

The whole "validation seeking" theory has got to be the most hilarious case of projection. She's got 15 other people in her DMs and you think women are seeking attention? They're already lousy with it, lol.
/r/seduction25/04/22 05:15 PM
3

I am applauding your post in theory but all your examples of flirting are so incredibly LAME. "Has anyone ever told you how beautiful MY eyes are?"...? Cringe. Like these are not the subtle touches that actual life would dictate you start at so....wondering if these are just theory or if you're actually suggesting people walking around being these cornballs. The key to flirting is indeed plausible deniability. Interaction WITH the person was such a great point. I wouldn't even know what to say i…
/r/seduction23/04/22 03:06 AM
1

This is exactly what people here want to do. They want to go out and get numbers and some interest. Then when someone sees some success, this forum is the first to crap on it. "She'll ghost you" "Report when you actually get a date" "Do you even get any sex out of it?" "This is the exception." Like, people want to use this garbage technique and treat people like disposable numbers, and then when it works out, they don't believe it, but they want to? But they can't. Okay. I think OP knows the odd…
/r/seduction17/04/22 08:34 PM
0

Don't bother; they don't listen to women.
/r/seduction17/04/22 08:03 PM
1

Dude. He's not interested. Leave him the hell alone. There are people out there who will want you back-- stop investing yourself in someone who doesn't.
/r/seduction17/04/22 06:56 PM
1

That is so lame, as if she doesn't already know that's what you're trying for. 🙄
/r/seduction03/04/22 01:50 PM
0

I agree he's exactly like that woman lol
/r/seduction21/03/22 09:03 PM
1

Talk about things other than superficial garbage?
/r/seduction19/03/22 11:53 PM
1

Nothing she said is contradictory though. It is completely possible that your friend is both not interested in you and knows the neighbor's type, or just isn't interested in selling you to said neighbor. In fact that's a more parsimonious explanation than some hidden desire on her part to keep you as...backup?...but not wanting anything with you currently...?? It's like a deep-dive into conspiracy theories to come up with that wackiness. For the record, we all have friends we're both not interes…
/r/seduction21/02/22 01:56 PM
1

This community has self-selected the kind of person that's going to confirm the wackiest theories. It's the blind leading the blind, lol. The truth is that women are giving advice to help you connect to with people, and most people here don't want that. They want poon, that's all. If you talk to women they're going to assume you treat women like people and not objects (which is a horrifically wrong assumption) and give you advice based on that, which isn't what you're looking for because you're …
/r/seduction21/02/22 01:09 PM
6

Wait, so you wanted to send something goofy, the female friend shrugged and let you, and it bombed so now you're extrapolating something about "women giving bad advice"...? Wat. She let you bomb; that's not bad advice. It's just not doing any work.
/r/seduction20/02/22 10:47 PM
12

Even if she's wet you still need to do foreplay, dude. 🤦‍♂️ Wetness is a shockingly poor indicator of arousal anyway. Follow the moaning. If you do something she likes, keep doing it. If you're doing something and she's not making any noise, it's probably not working. Try something else. Learn to listen and follow the clues. You can't go wrong with this. Hips: If her hips aren't moving, don't dive for the crotch-- it's not time yet. There are plenty of nice erogenous zones to explore. In fact, g…
/r/seduction15/02/22 10:23 AM
2

Why would you know about it, lol
/r/seduction14/02/22 02:19 PM
8

Actually you're absolutely right, chances are someone will screenshot it and put it up in a forum so everyone can agree how repugnant it is. If that's the attention you're seeking, great.
/r/seduction13/02/22 06:12 PM
4

This isn't absolutely horrible advice (except for that comment about swiping if she's not fat? Wow that's horrendous), but it's kinda bad. Plus, if you can't even write a post in a format that doesn't make me want to die, no way am I reading a bio like that.
/r/seduction13/02/22 06:10 PM
1

I like how being loud in bed somehow equates to having sex with a lot of different people to you dorks. Not remotely the same.
/r/seduction10/02/22 11:04 AM
3

I think it's fun when men don't even listen to what women say, then wonder why they can't get women. Mysterious mysteries.
/r/seduction09/02/22 09:55 PM
3

Don't you know they'll never listen to women? wE dOn'T KnOw WhAt wE wAnT.
/r/seduction09/02/22 09:47 PM
2

Imagine being "fooled" by substance
/r/seduction09/02/22 09:46 PM
1

Can you talk to men? Treat women like normal people you can talk to.
/r/seduction31/01/22 11:38 AM
3

Smacks of sour grapes, lol.
/r/seduction16/01/22 01:21 AM
1

You sound like a creepy salesman, lol. Gotta trick people into buying these crappy units! Zero compunction.
/r/seduction02/01/22 04:39 PM
1

It did. Get better role models.
/r/seduction16/12/21 01:08 PM
21

He's definitely repellent to women and that's all you need to know, really. Get better role models, apparently.
/r/seduction15/12/21 12:04 PM
25

Yeah that character is there to be viewed as an gross asshole. I guess there's your answer.
/r/seduction15/12/21 10:28 AM
3

You seem to firmly believe their attitude would change if it were someone better looking, but I haven't seen that either. Most women don't like being cold-called, period.
/r/seduction15/12/21 10:21 AM
1

It's a fine line to walk and I empathize. Many men make everything sexual too soon, and it's repellent. We're talking and getting to know each other, talking about movies, then here tries to slip a double entendre in there but it's just overt and gross and out of place. He thinks he's clever but women already get this drooly sex-attention 24/7 so it's not appealing. And then there's the opposite, where guys just stay away from that but just end up being completely unromantic. There's a middle gr…
/r/seduction21/11/21 03:46 PM
1

Crop your damn photos, make sure you're smiling in some of them, make sure they're not all from the same angle, and none of them should be sideways or make people have to figure out which one you are.
/r/seduction16/11/21 01:27 AM
2

It's like we need an app for this or something.
/r/seduction09/10/21 08:27 PM
0

Hitting on people while they're working...? Yikes
/r/seduction09/10/21 05:20 PM
-3

Yeah approaching women when they're just trying to shop and go about their lives? Really not surprising that no one wants to be bothered. The venue makes a difference, and look for people who are giving you eye contact/ smiling at you.
/r/seduction09/10/21 05:19 PM
3

Do guys enjoy being left on read? Just wondering why people here are actually advocating that. And if you're gonna "run out of things to talk about" on the date, great! Get the incompatibilities out early. Don't waste anybody's time and make them put on pants and meet in person.
/r/seduction06/10/21 11:00 PM
3

It really doesn't sound like she's interested in you at all, plus I guarantee her friend is running interference on purpose. I'm not sure why you're pursuing this when there are tons more people out there who would be into you.
/r/seduction06/10/21 10:35 PM
1

Don't ever trust anyone bringing up new information in the heart if the moment. "Oh I'm on birth control, I just didn't tell you until right this second!" Run awaaaaaay...
/r/seduction06/10/21 04:26 PM
0

There's no double standard. There's no social standard saying it's okay for women to rip off condoms but not men.
/r/seduction06/10/21 04:20 PM
1

Sounds like ugly/unattractive women are invisible to you.
/r/seduction04/10/21 05:05 PM
2

Being gay isn't an insult. Either way, she's not interested. Move on.
/r/seduction03/10/21 09:39 PM
10

Same, can confirm. 👍
/r/seduction03/10/21 10:49 AM
0

Breathing and/or (hopefully) moaning.
/r/seduction03/10/21 10:48 AM
33

The second-to-last should've been the top of the list as the most important thing.
/r/seduction03/10/21 10:47 AM
23

Wow. You think there's a freshness seal or something. Stay in school, kids.
/r/seduction02/10/21 10:20 PM
3

This guy gets it.
/r/seduction26/09/21 08:09 PM
3

It's a mystery this attitude isn't successful, eh.
/r/seduction26/09/21 07:12 PM
1

Maybe people just watch the porn that caters to their taste. 💁‍♂️
/r/seduction26/09/21 02:38 PM
-2

The hostility comes from being harassed by men, which tapers off with later age.
/r/seduction26/09/21 02:35 PM
4

Yeah someone critiquing my form and giving me tips as an excuse to hit on me pisses me off. I know more than you, buddy; take off the didactic attitude. 🙄
/r/seduction23/09/21 05:25 PM
3

Yeah I was gonna ask... how old are the kids? Is this the classic situation where mom is overwhelmed and touched out with the kids, and instead of being support, dad is agonizing about not getting laid? 100% agree that spending more time at the gym and on himself is hilariously terrible advice here.
/r/seduction21/09/21 10:05 PM
2

I swear this thread it's so toxic. The idea "she's using you!" Is hilarious, as if a paltry meal is worth hanging out with an insufferable for hours. The sentiment is also ironic, since it implies the whole situation would be okay if she were only giving it up sexually. Not to mention the more likely scenario is simply that she found there's no real chemistry but likes hanging out with OP, and since she has explicitly explained her lack of income, didn't realize he had such a problem paying for …
/r/seduction21/09/21 05:01 PM
1

These are generally good advice but #5 is merely annoying as shit.
/r/seduction02/09/21 02:00 AM
0

This actually happened to me. Some young idiot was flirting with me in the workplace. Like, Oh child, no. Then I find out he thought I was 28. Dude I'm 40. Also don't do that crap in the workplace. If you were older you might know that. >_> This post was about masks but mostly it should be about not shitting where you eat, fools.
/r/seduction27/08/21 11:10 PM
-3

If you were too shy and caught off guard, I'd say the interaction didn't make you feel comfortable. If I want to approach someone, I don't just ask for their number after I call them cute. I can't blame you for having a knee-jerk reaction to that. If I didn't get enough of a rapport going, that's on me.
/r/seduction10/08/21 11:48 AM
0

Mike Israetel is also very comprehensive (too comprehensive at a point, but excellent beginner stuff).
/r/seduction09/08/21 09:11 PM
3

I feel like if a woman has decided to take on the risk of going to someone else's place, she's already decided you're safe enough to bang. It's not your amazing seduction techniques. It IS definitely less of a risk to take you back to their place. They can always still kick you out if things go sideways. It's a little bizarre to focus on the place, though, because that's missing the point. Demonstrate you're safe enough to bang and make her comfortable with the prospect and it won't matter which…
/r/seduction08/08/21 05:17 PM
1

I second. I love Leil. She does her own audiobooks.
/r/seduction08/08/21 01:10 PM
11

Agreed. Real nice guys aren't greasy sycophantic pushovers. It's not hard to conceptualize a genuine, self-assured man who also is kind to others and sweet to people he cares about.
/r/seduction04/08/21 01:17 AM
4

Models are beautiful and have symmetrical features. But have you seen them outside of a shoot? They're often gangly and awkward, have terrible posture. Posture and gracefulness have a lot to do with attractiveness and those are intangible qualities. My face is terrible but people still think I'm attractive, lol. I have good posture and dance decently. I have good command of my body. I can put together a flattering outfit. One of the reasons exercise is so beneficial is that it makes you comforta…
/r/seduction01/08/21 01:17 PM
5

It's almost like trying to force it ruins the experience.
/r/seduction01/08/21 12:57 PM
0

I think it's hilarious that guys think it's because women want attention. It's like someone just thought this up and you just pass around that reasoning amongst yourselves because everyone else (guys) says it. Or maybe it's because guys are lonely and think they themselves would love attention? So everybody else must? Women don't relish the creepy leering and catcalls and sexual attention they get from guys. It's constant and invalidating and frankly makes us feel dirty. Nobody needs it because …
/r/seduction19/07/21 11:20 AM
2

I mean, the explanation is pretty straightforward. Whatever politeness might be at play in the moment she's just not that into you.
/r/seduction15/07/21 05:37 PM
2

"Like a lion to a gazelle" haha exactly
/r/seduction15/07/21 05:35 PM
0

Who else is gonna keep you here and away from everyone else IRL? 😘
/r/seduction14/07/21 10:22 AM
0

Lol good luck being a creep
/r/seduction14/07/21 04:13 AM
1

If she's turning 21, it's understandable she might not feel like getting really drunk with some guy she barely knows, so don't take it personally she didn't invite you. Doesn't mean she's not interested. Wish her a happy birthday as planned and let the ball be in her court. You seem to be handling everything great; trust your gut.
/r/seduction14/07/21 01:39 AM
4

All this stuff is focusing on the sex but honestly, the stories I hear where women actually wanna repeat the experience is how cool the person is to hang out with after. Awesome sex and then they roll over and die? Haaaa. The awkward high-five? Cringe. Nice sex AND easy-going, relaxed chitchat with some superb cuddling? Yaaasssss. Everyone tries to be a star in the sack, but if they drop you like a sweaty brick the moment it's over, it's soooooooo insipid. I like running my fingertips lightly ov…
/r/seduction14/07/21 12:58 AM
1

Yeah cross boundaries so she can remember you to the police.
/r/seduction14/07/21 12:33 AM
0

Where are you when getting that. 😂 ok, dude
/r/seduction13/07/21 09:28 PM
0

People telling you not to approach in whatever environment ARE telling you the why. I'm not sure why you missed it. If she's at work, her job is probably being friendly; she's not actually giving you approach signals. You're being a creep by approaching her in an environment where she effectively can't say no without being rude/unprofessional. If they're telling you to leave people alone on the street, they're saying they have headphones and have places to go. These are all clues. If you're bent…
/r/seduction13/07/21 08:55 PM
-1

WoMen dOn'T kNoW wHAt ThEY wAnT. Keep telling yourselves that. Anything's possible if you just assume every woman is a liar. What advice of theirs WILL you believe? Only things you conveniently already believe? The "women don't know how to hit on men" part is especially hilarious, though.
/r/seduction13/07/21 06:28 PM
1

"Don't ask a fish how to catch it" predatory much? I guess if your idea of "success" is getting someone to reluctantly bang you once, ok. Most of us still don't want those guys.
/r/seduction13/07/21 06:21 PM
3

And guess who we DON'T want to magically go out with? Creepy people bothering us inappropriately. The idea isn't to never approach women, it's to be able to do it by reading the situation, not being intrusive, treating people and their time/ space with respect, and making sure she's having a fun time as well. If you don't care whether people want your approach or not, you're doing it wrong. If you're engaging people who are NOT interested, you're doing it wrong. You can go anywhere and READ whet…
/r/seduction13/07/21 06:13 PM
1

Lemme guess, if you can't get laid you should buy my educational material for 4 easy investments of $29.95.
/r/seduction13/07/21 11:24 AM
30

Nice job, really tactful. You read the room and made it fun.
/r/seduction11/07/21 06:35 PM
2

You don't have to be so invested in it. Also Richard Feinman had some things to say about it that were... decent.
/r/seduction05/07/21 11:55 PM
3

Dating in the 90s was kind of a nightmare as a woman. It's true women get approached a lot without going out of their way, and that's exactly the problem. You have no idea about any of these people or their values, something a quick read on their profile solves now. So maybe you'd go on a date with these random guys and have to find out later about incompatibilities.... making it on the date isn't a "success" by any means. I guess if your only object is to go on a date and play grab-ass and pres…
/r/seduction13/06/21 12:49 PM
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