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Dedication is very attractive. Keep it up!
/r/seduction29/05/12 09:27 AM
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From what I can say, women get attracted by a lot more than just looks. Good body language, proper grooming and dressing will get you a long way. What is more important though, is how you interact with women. You didn't write anything about how you actually approach women and if you are an interesting conversation partner. Kino is vital. Start touching the girls from the very beginning. Girls like guys who take action and have the balls to escalate. Maybe I'm wrong but it sounds like you take yo…
/r/seduction15/04/12 02:24 PM
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With the compliment you showed your interest, which is good. Now you could make her qualify herself: "I've noticed a lot of girls around here are very pretty. What sets you apart from the others? What's your special talent?" Or neg her: "Now if there only wasn't that lipgloss we could be friends."
/r/seduction27/02/12 12:03 PM
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Just write: "Your valentines card arrived a bit late but thanks anyway ;)"
/r/seduction14/02/12 11:31 PM
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This read like a field report from Damien Walters.
/r/seduction08/02/12 09:21 AM
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Hilarious. The mental image of that moment made me laugh :)
/r/seduction21/01/12 10:44 AM
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There's nothing that could possibly go wrong. A compliment conveys interest and confidence if correctly delivered. Stand straight, look her in the eyes, maybe a little smirk and boom there's your chance. She could run away and scream. No harm no foul. Just roll on. She could just say something and look confused. Erase the opener from your head and begin a normal conversation.
/r/seduction21/01/12 10:39 AM
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It's a reset of some sort, yes.
/r/seduction21/01/12 10:17 AM
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A great movie it is. I figured some younger folks in here might never have heard of that film. It's basically all in there: The teacher, a witty alpha male who has enough courage to break the rules of a conservative society. He's passionate, non-judgmental and independent. The frustrated AFC, feeling misunderstood and isolated, whose unfortunate first encounters with women lead to a tragic ending. The asshole, an attractive but overly aggressive college football stereotype who is good with women…
/r/seduction21/01/12 10:13 AM
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Sometimes it takes a little longer but the OMG-girl was really into you. Show her, you're not afraid to close. If she says no, you can easily recover: You: "Seems like you have good taste. You should give me your number." Her: "No." You: "You don't have good taste?" At least you had fun. Don't move too slow.
/r/seduction20/01/12 03:23 PM
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A good answer should be consistent with your frame. 1) The Alpha male: Honest and direct. "How about we start with a kiss?" or simply doing a triangle gaze and smoothly moving in for the kiss. 2) The funny guy with an edge: Well...being funny. "Oh this is going nowhere. I'll show you my collection of Patrick Swayze movies and then we'll spoon the whole night." 3) The gentleman: Turn it around. It's still her chasing you. She: "Where is this going?". Response: "Well, what would you say?"
/r/seduction20/01/12 03:14 PM
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When you increase eye contact, try leaning back or standing back a little to increase their comfort. When you are physically close because it’s a crowded room, try lowering your voice. When you pat someone on the back or touch their arm as you talk, try standing at an angle, not facing them directly. This is legit. Obama also has great conversation skills and alpha body language. Edit: Oh and this is just a total gem. Classy how he defuses an awkward situation.
/r/seduction20/01/12 02:11 PM
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Few more minutes pass by with some light banter and I notice it's time to leave. Right before I eject she tells me that she typically goes out tonight with friends to bowling and tells me to come. I tell her I'm down and then I #-close her and say goodbye. I hope you would have #-closed on your own, even if she didn't say this. She gave you some huge IOIs before. You could have closed right after the sushi chef part (Could be something stupid like "So you like Japanese food. Seems like you have …
/r/seduction20/01/12 01:25 PM
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As I said, it depends on delivery. "Oh that was awful, wasn't it?" could well be an ice-breaker. You could follow up with: "You need to buy me a drink so I can forget this."
/r/seduction20/01/12 01:10 PM
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Good! You have the right mindset. Here are two little tips for the next time you're running out of things to say: Ask more interesting questions: "What was the funniest thing that happened to you during vacation?" Listen to what she says. Ask her why she is passionate about X or what is interesting about Y. Move her: "Where are you heading?"
/r/seduction19/01/12 03:41 PM
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I liked it. It's direct, honest and shows a sense of humor if said with a little smirk and enough confidence.
/r/seduction19/01/12 03:32 PM
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"Do you drink or do drugs?" Only when I'm out with Justin Bieber. No. Unless you count that one time where I made out with a pink elephant. Not around elderly people.
/r/seduction12/01/12 07:15 PM
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It will pay off that you were cool about her rejection. Also laser tag.
/r/seduction11/01/12 11:36 PM
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There's not much else you could have done. Being the only customer, you could try a more direct opener like: "Would red hair make me look as good as you?" Don't wait for the close until she has to leave. Look her in the eyes, be quiet for a moment and say: "You're fun. How can we stay in contact?" When she gives you the "it's complicated" line, just keep your frame and say "Chess is complicated. You'll have fun when I'm around. I must have overheard your number. What was it?"
/r/seduction11/01/12 11:03 PM
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Quite good. So we are at his house. We just get the girls drinks... First mistake. Explain to your buddy that you need a separate room at his place before leaving the club. Also say him that he gets HB6. If he resists, go somewhere else. No more drinks. Your girl was dtf, otherwise she wouldn't have joined. And at this point I am like... If i stay no one is getting any, if i leave they have a chance and they are kinda buddies that i go out with every weekend and these chicks i will never see aga…
/r/seduction09/01/12 06:19 PM
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Touching her on the couch felt awkward because you didn't kino her before. It was too big of a jump. Touch her playfully as soon as she arrives. For instance you touch her hand when you take her bag, you give her a hug. There's many more possibilities depending on the conversation topic. As soon as she takes place on the couch, touching should already feel natural. She friend-zoned you. Next.
/r/seduction08/01/12 06:20 PM
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I enjoyed the book as it was well written and entertaining. It got me thinking about what is possible when I just approach girls. It also was my entry point to seduction and in my first nights I've tried to emulate the behavior of Style and Mystery. Needless to say I had my fair share of rejections because that trick stuff felt unnatural. At that point I realized for the first time that getting good at seduction takes a lot of time. Exactly there most AFCs give up because they don't want to do t…
/r/seduction07/01/12 12:37 AM
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In case anybody wonders: This video is free from any seduction material (and didn't make me laugh either).
/r/seduction07/01/12 12:13 AM
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So here's my take There are a few "hacks" you can do on the spot: Get rid of the beard as it makes your face look even longer (check). This doesn't mean you aren't the type for facial hair (a three-day stubble might accentuate your facial contours). Do something with your hair. It's a bit...boring. Really get new clothes. Obviously /r/malefashionadvice. Here are the things that need time and dedication: Don't just say: "I want to be a better version of myself". Make a plan of how you want to imp…
/r/seduction06/01/12 03:27 PM
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What if she doesn't make eye contact at all? Isn't this the case the vast majority of the time or maybe its just me? It's no problem if she doesn't look at you. But waiting next to her in line or standing on the opposite side of a clothes rack could provoke a quick look. I assume when you say wait a minute before exchanging names you mean to say a second. Sometimes I wait up to ten minutes to finally introduce myself. I say something like "I made you laugh but you don't even know my name". The t…
/r/seduction02/01/12 08:42 PM
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Here are a few tips: If possible, try to make eye contact before you approach. This can be a huge giveaway to find out in what mood she is in so you can calibrate accordingly. Also I wait a minute or so before finally exchanging names. This makes the introduction more interesting ("When will he ask for my name? Any normal guy does that right away") and it's a joker to keep the conversation going. Try to come up with a situational opener. This is always better than any prepared line. You don't kn…
/r/seduction02/01/12 01:52 PM
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She looked you up on Facebook, so she is at least a little bit interested. That's a great situation to be in. If you are anything like me, you will wait too long instead of moving too fast most of the time. Be bold. Give that guitar lesson, make it short and casual, apply some light kino, be funny and maybe go to a concert afterwards if she is into music or meet for drinks to discuss her progress. You can do it!
/r/seduction24/12/11 12:31 AM
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Thanks, what a great read! She was really shit-testing the hell out of you but you came up with a solid response most of the time. “you're very good at what you do” I like this one. Showcase: I can tell you really like to travel. HB8: How can you tell? (shit test) "When people talk about something they are really passionate about, you can see it in their eyes." Time for soul gazing as you did. Also look for a way to kino. "Wow, do you have that ring from one of your travels? Let me see." The end…
/r/seduction24/12/11 12:10 AM
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Haha, now I get it :) Sorry for my comment. All fine then.
/r/seduction14/12/11 10:57 AM
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Dude, you're chatting up 14-year-old girls? Not so cool. It's good that you had fun but up the ante a bit.
/r/seduction13/12/11 09:19 PM
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"I don't see you that way" If you get this line, you're miles away from pushing it too far. Getting friend-zoned is much worse than getting rejected right away. "I think you're a guy who girls overlook, and they're too stupid to realize what their missing. If they did, they'd be swarming you instead of douchebags" She indirectly said, that you are not showing your physical side early enough. Work on that. As a guideline, use the DiCarlo Escalation Ladder.
/r/seduction13/12/11 09:43 AM
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That sounds harsh, but it's not completely wrong. If you aren't looking for a long-term relationship, all this stuff won't matter. If you do, she will understand your situation. It's not your fault and you seem to care for your family. Learn for your finals, than go out and just let it happen.
/r/seduction11/12/11 12:07 PM
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I went through a phase of "awkward touches" and I failed many times before I got a feeling for what feels appropriate and natural. Now it's just another way to communicate. Yes, this might push you out of your comfort zone and it will feel strange in the beginning, but it is a thing you can learn - just like dancing. Don't make a big deal out of it. It's a normal part of human interaction. We somehow lost it when we grew up... You're a man. Express a strong frame by not being shy. If you wait to…
/r/seduction10/12/11 11:01 AM
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You will notice when they don't like it. 99% of the time they are quite receptive. Start really early on in the conversation. Make it feel normal. Shake the hands, high-five, look at their ring, stand real close and move from there.
/r/seduction10/12/11 08:40 AM
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No success with waitresses and models? This can happen ;) They might have a ton more experience than you. It's normal that you felt uncomfortable - it was your very first try. But it's no big deal as you found out. Next time just go with the vibe and have fun. But she wasn't acting this way with my friends. Well, this is could just be your imagination. But at least you felt comfortable around her. I ask her if I can buy her a drink she agrees and we go to the bar Don't buy stuff. Instead start a…
/r/seduction06/12/11 07:05 PM
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Please, don't replicate other people. Really enjoy every moment and be genuine. Try to be a fun person to be with. That said here's a list of movies I enjoyed. But none of them will replace a fun night out and making your own experiences so take this with a grain of salt. This is Hollywoods boiled down version of pickup. Scent Of A Woman (Alpha male in action. Watch the dance part in the middle.) Wedding Crashers (Some nice pickup techniques in action.) Groundhog Day (Watch how Bill Murray impro…
/r/seduction25/10/11 08:35 PM
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Honestly I was expecting that you would brag about your accomplishments. Quite a few people misunderstand the advice given here and begin to materialize women. (Before, they were putting girls on a pedestal, so they just went from one extreme to the other) Therefore I'm glad to see this is not the case. I'm happy for you and I'm sure you will do fine in the future. It is funny to see that most guys just need a little push into the right direction. The honest people that came here for help and re…
/r/seduction25/10/11 08:01 PM
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Have you watched the documentation I have recommended in my post? They give some great advice in there. There could be a billion reasons why she ignores you. Why can you be so sure it is because your body language? Maybe you were not doing the next step during the date? We don't have enough information to help but you can always post a field report to get some feedback if you like.
/r/seduction18/10/11 09:30 AM
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That text sounds a bit needy to me. Your frame could be: Crazy shit happens to me all the time. So it was just a little coincidence I bumped into her. Just prepare for the next time: "I knew you were trouble. We should repeat this."
/r/seduction17/10/11 06:49 AM
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Interesting read. Thanks! I think your observation is correct: You did fine until getting stoned. Nah, in her eyes, you were no disappointment. Maybe she was high, too and things went a bit weird at her place but she's definitely into you. Many IOIs throughout the night. You even framed it like it was her idea to invite you over and you kiss-closed like a boss. Be proud and next time a bit more careful with the weed. ;) It depends on your personality, but I would write her a short text today. So…
/r/seduction16/10/11 10:44 PM
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Two things have happend, when she tells you "I have a boyfriend". She sensed that you are looking for sex. She wants to see your reaction when being confronted with it. Be prepared for that moment. It's crucial how you react, no matter if it is the truth or a lie. You could play it down as if she said something along the lines of "I've lost my parking ticket last wednesday" or you could exaggerate ("I knew it. It's the bartender. I saw him looking over but thought he was just checking me out.").…
/r/seduction16/10/11 01:19 PM
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Exactly. These artists made it -- without looking great. Some of them even use their unusual physical appearance as an advantage. I've heard people say: "That fat guy in Hangover was hilarious". People just don't care if you don't care.
/r/seduction16/10/11 06:47 AM
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Zach Galifianiks (Hangover) and his girlfriend Jonah Hill (Superbad) and his girlfriend Rowan Atkinson, Keith Richards,...the list goes on and on.
/r/seduction15/10/11 10:26 PM
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I use that one a lot. It's innocent and lightweight. What you say is quite unimportant.
/r/seduction29/09/11 09:09 PM
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Compliments should always be unique. Calibration is important, too: When I talk to a shy woman, I give a very honest and special compliment. For instance I would say: "You have really elegant eyebrows. They stand in pleasant contrast to your eye color." This can be enough to impress them. (Intention: I will be perceived as a handsome guy and can build comfort) But when she's an extroverted girl she might have heard that stuff already and I might try: "I love your necklace. My grandma has exactly…
/r/seduction29/09/11 08:58 PM
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Clytaemnestra (nice username btw), I can understand your reaction. When a girl was rejecting a kiss in the past I would "accept" that decision...and promptly get friend-zoned. I was thinking: "If I try again I will look like a selfish dick. Wait for the next date". But as it turns out, I have greater success by trying again after a while instead. Mind you, I'm never rushing in. A bit later, that special moment might reoccur and I would offer the kiss again. Let's be honest: Kissing is fun and it…
/r/seduction20/09/11 09:24 AM
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She said no. Not a problem. Don't leave. Rinse and repeat. Build a little more comfort and try again after a few minutes. You can even try a third time. Then today she wanted to hangout to which I said I couldnt. Yes. Don't make yourself too available. You've got stuff to do. When you are alone and she still blocks, freeze her out for a while. Your intentions must be clear.
/r/seduction19/09/11 02:35 PM
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Able to meet and chat with women Good. Next step: Move away from smalltalk. Ask about her passions. Her goals in life. DHV a few times. Build up excitement for you by creating a connection between her dreams/hopes and your adventurous personality. If you can create a frame so that she is actually hunting you, it is a lot easier to transition to a more intimate conversation. It is important to do this in combination with kino and isolation. A few minutes into the conversation you should manage to…
/r/seduction19/09/11 02:00 PM
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There's several possiblities. It depends on your personality how you want to react: 1) Amplify: "Oh yeah. I'm glad you noticed. I was a female russian sport swimmer." "Cool, right? Chuck Norris showed me the trick with these little steroids" "Mum told me I should not be ashamed about it" (grin!) 2) Play it down: "I can handle it. Can you?" 3) Ignore it: "Exactly. Hey let me show you something." Maybe you're exaggerating a bit with the shit-test part. Sometimes the girl is honestly curious. If so…
/r/seduction19/09/11 01:36 PM
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You have the right attitude. Keep the date casual. Don't make a big deal out of it. But do make the next step. Let her know you're interested or you will get friend-zoned. Just try, you can't lose.
/r/seduction18/09/11 12:08 PM
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Last time I tried this, which worked out just fine: She: "I have a boyfriend" You: "I have a goldfish. They might get on well with each other."
/r/seduction16/09/11 06:58 PM
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Next time, take it as a shit test and keep your frame. She: "Don't you see a discrepancy? You're short" You: "Hey, I came to talk not to marry you" or look down on yourself and say: "Oh! You're right, actually. Glad you noticed it. I think I can handle this :)" Don't ever be insecure about your height. If you don't care, they won't either.
/r/seduction31/08/11 08:18 AM
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Hi! Post your questions on /r/askseddit. Start by reading everything in the sidebar -->
/r/seduction29/08/11 06:12 PM
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Oh well, he wasn't that bad. I'm really curious how you would have approached the girl in the train. chocolaticious, thanks for you field report. I really enjoyed reading it.
/r/seduction29/08/11 05:23 PM
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Basically you didn't use seduction. Next time make use of push/pull and DHVs. Apparently she spotted me from a ways away Huge IOI. You've impressed her. [She] wanted to make sure I was going to show up at another get-together that night, to which I replied "of course." Just a little mistake but don't make yourself too available. Say: "Hopefully I can make it but I've got work to do". chit chat before moving on to other people Here's the problem. She thought you were not interested. Ask her about…
/r/seduction29/08/11 04:56 PM
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Yes, as I said: As you gain more confidence you won't need all these things anymore. When you're poised, nothing looks awkward. In fact, simply standing on your own, totally relaxed and approachable looks very powerful. Sovereign individuals are attractive.
/r/seduction28/08/11 03:05 AM
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"so how are the prospects?" Look confused and say: "You must be mistaken. I don't think we know each other yet." "Steph said there's lots of strippers here and escorts!" That was a nice line :) So she starts telling you about strippers? Great! Say: "Haha that guy is funny (tap an shoulder). I don't even know him. Honestly, I'm looking for girls that offer more than just beauty. Nobody should be reduced to a stereotype. If you could name three unique aspects of your personality, what would they b…
/r/seduction27/08/11 10:22 AM
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I decided to go out, with the goal to meet as many new women as possible. Better: "I decided to go out, with the goal to meet as many new people as possible." Don't focus on the women. Have a good time and look for interesting conversations with everybody and people will begin to appreciate your company. Build up social proof before hitting on the girls. I keep pulling out my phone and PRETENDING to have a conversation Nothing wrong with that. It's hard to go out solo because you can never retur…
/r/seduction27/08/11 09:55 AM
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If you're nervous, tell her. She will be flattered. Then grow a pair and try. What is the worst thing that can possibly happen? She rejects the kiss? So what. This is WAY better than thinking "What would have been if I tried to kiss her" afterwards.
/r/seduction25/08/11 09:50 PM
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is it just because its something physical that you generally should avoid teasing a girl about (in case theyre actually genuinely sensitive about the matter?) Correct. A neg should never be offending. It should be more playful. Something like: "I hope your handbag is not going to eat you" or "You look like you love to play Farmville" (I stole both from seddit :) approaching the amogs and saying what you quoted there, how do amogs usually respond to that? Most of the time they stand there for a w…
/r/seduction25/08/11 09:42 PM
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I think you did great. Here are a few remarks: teased her for her shortness Please don't do this. Neg her about something she's wearing or doing instead. I think you did a decent job with the AMOGs. You don't need to act funny. If they are handsome guys just have a nice conversation with them like you would know them for ages. If they react douchy simply say "Yeah" with a big smile -- and ignore them. Only if they still interrupt your conversation, tap them on the shoulder and bring up some bull…
/r/seduction25/08/11 01:28 PM
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Great FR! though if you guys have tips for getting for getting into 'state' please share! Some guys like to listen to their favorite music (I like Parov Stelar). I always talk to everybody I meet on my way to a party. That sounds awkward but 95% react very positive.
/r/seduction23/08/11 04:05 PM
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Exactly. She likes you and there's nothing to lose. You won't need much game. Simply ask her what she does in her spare time and make plans for the next days. You: "That was nice. How can we stay in touch?" She: "Here's my number"
/r/seduction23/08/11 03:52 PM
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Well, everything is perfect until you suddenly vanish. I would think you're a bit weird. If I learned one thing by now it is this: Don't leave without trying to close.
/r/seduction22/08/11 10:42 PM
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I think she told you the truth when she said: "Imagine how hard it will be in the new year when I leave. I'm trying to avoid that pain." She obviously enjoys your presence but she will be away for quite some time. Both of you might meet somebody else while you are separated. Distant relationships suck. Have fun while she's here. Just don't make it too complicated.
/r/seduction22/08/11 06:39 PM
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Great. If you know she's in town, ask her out during the next days. Keep it casual: "Hey, I'm off to get some ice cream. Wanna join?" EDIT: Nevermind. What does this mean?
/r/seduction21/08/11 09:50 PM
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I just think simply exchanging numbers and calling them outside of the club might just be too awkward. Why? If you had a nice conversation and you have similar interests it is totally normal to make plans for the next days and then call them for the details. If it is no big deal for you, it won't be a big deal for them.
/r/seduction21/08/11 11:50 AM
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Good job. How could have I gotten upstairs? Can I use your bathroom? (TofuTofu used it here) Should I text her today (next morning)? Why not?
/r/seduction21/08/11 11:36 AM
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Haha. I'm looking forward to read your field report :)
/r/seduction17/08/11 09:51 PM
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Your assumption the guy was already hitting on you may have been a little off track but the second half about talking to girls and escalating naturally was spot on. Have an upvote!
/r/seduction17/08/11 08:45 PM
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Style describes it in THE GAME. Here is a nice write-up.
/r/seduction16/08/11 01:51 PM
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Haha. Didn't see the ending coming ;) Seems you got lucky despite all the shit that happened before. Isn't that a good sign? Keep it up!
/r/seduction15/08/11 02:12 PM
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Exactly. This way you show your disrespect by ignoring him. The HB7.5 won't know what to say and everybody knows that the AMOG is responsible for the awkward situation.
/r/seduction14/08/11 06:43 PM
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Naturally you don't need permission for anything. I just say it so that he knows from the very beginning that I don't play by his rules. I follow my own instead. IMHO that "I'm married with her" bullshit was quite lame. The AMOG disqualified himself.
/r/seduction14/08/11 06:39 PM
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He said that he was married to the HB7.5... I love it when they say this. It is basically an invitation for me to run the following routine: Me: "You are a very nice couple. How was your wedding night?" This shows that I'm interested in a good conversation and not solely to pickup the girls. It also involves the HB7.5, who may be offended by the AMOG who literally told me that she is his possession. Furthermore the AMOG will have a hard time finding a way out of the wedding night neg ...and then…
/r/seduction14/08/11 11:04 AM
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I just don't want to die without a few scars. ~Chuck Palahniuk, Fight Club, Chapter 6 Scars proof you're a risk taker. They also demonstrate that you can cope with losing. Never once have I lost a girl that didn't leave a scar. Exactly these experiences shape my entire being. I like how my crush is ignoring my new tactics. It shows that she is interested in the person behind the pickup lines. Found out that she still likes me, but since she is living 60 miles away now and she is surrounded by pl…
/r/seduction14/08/11 10:35 AM
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Don't expect too much. Be nice and gentle and maybe ask her out for dinner after a little text game. If she asked your friend about your number and she calls you hot infront of somebody else, she is very interested and you should simply ask for a day two.
/r/seduction14/08/11 03:05 AM
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Relevant username ;)
/r/seduction14/08/11 02:56 AM
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Western Germany. Thanks :)
/r/seduction14/08/11 02:55 AM
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I learn she is about 5 years older than me Tell her "I can handle that." - with a smile. Any other advice Seddit? I got a lot of awesome advice from my first field report. I figured you might want to take a look.
/r/seduction13/08/11 10:37 AM
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Me: "Hi, sorry I just had to approach your friend. I think she's gorgeous." No need to drop this line. She pulls out a little shit test to get rid of you: "Oh yeah, she's my girlfriend." Don't buy it. This is quite beta. Instead tell them they are a nice couple. Tell them you're gay anyway and you totally like to go shopping for jewelry with them. Here's my number Tara, the ball's in your court That's flattering but a bit creepy. You only talked to her for a few moments. Quite frankly, you were …
/r/seduction13/08/11 08:37 AM
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When I went out first night solo, I didn't go for any closes. I focused on the game itself, which was way more valuable for my development. It really helps to set some goals before going out. I'm already much more confident delivering little negs with a smirk. Women smell confidence as well as fear.
/r/seduction13/08/11 08:18 AM
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Kind words. Thank you. I'm in for the fun and I will stop as soon as this changes.
/r/seduction13/08/11 08:14 AM
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No she was not and yes she was insulted. Please put yourself in my position. I walked by and she looked at me so I immediately had to say something. This was the best I had :D On the plus side I learned that an honest compliment followed by a harmless neg would have been sufficient as a starter.
/r/seduction13/08/11 08:09 AM
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OK. Got it. Burned into my brain ;)
/r/seduction13/08/11 08:05 AM
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OK now that you guys point it out, negging her about her size sounds immature. In fact it's not even a neg.
/r/seduction12/08/11 03:42 PM
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instead of naturally flowing because everything you say is improvised and comes genuinely from you, you're saying things that other guys made up mostly to entertain women. This is true indeed. Next time I will point out some stuff that makes the girl unique or go with a situational opener. Maybe I'll say: "Nice dress. I need a present for my cousin. Where did you buy it?" or "Damn the music is so loud in here. Did your ears ever ring the next day?" as an introduction. Thanks man!
/r/seduction12/08/11 12:06 PM
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Thanks! I will definitely try that today.
/r/seduction12/08/11 11:08 AM
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In that moment I couldn't come up with something original. Do you have any ideas? Here is what I would say now: Me: "How is the air up there?" HB: [Doesn't matter] Me: "I would never start something with a taller girl. It would feel like dating the statue of liberty". Then I would start a nice conversation with her friends. Or maybe I could tell her she looked very cold for a glasses model and ask her if she's been like that in high school.
/r/seduction12/08/11 09:18 AM
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Thanks for your awesome advice. I really appreciate it. Lastly, stop getting down on yourself. Don't worry. I have a healthy attitude towards myself. That's just a way to make fun of my mistakes :)
/r/seduction12/08/11 09:01 AM
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