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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Home loan How many more times do I have to state that I already did it? Seems like you are so hard and fast trying to prove you are right that you have forgotten about reality? I am not going to be so dumb as to share private financial information on this kind of forum, so the rest of y’all, just ask your mortgage companies rather than trusting this very very irate person on a subreddit 🙄	/r/Divorce_Men	28/11/23 03:40 AM
1	Home loan Um. If you read my comment properly, you will see that I am talking from my personal experience. My loan originated from a reputable lender (credit union), in 2021, and was a standard loan. I was also a child in the 80s and was highly unlikely to be either motivated to, or eligible for, said loan. Dont judge so aggressively…man.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/11/23 11:27 PM
2	Home loan Sure there is a way to do this. It’s called a “loan assumption” and only some loans allow it. Process is long winded but much much cheaper than refinancing at current interest rates. And no, I am not referencing “so and sos cousins uncle”. It worked for me, personally. I paid my ex out of their share of the equity, and assumed the entire loan. Not all people can afford to do that (my ex sure couldn’t do it on the flip side for example). If it is something you can afford, talk to your mortgage co…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/11/23 03:03 AM
2	Feeling the failure pretty heavily If I can give a female perspective without being downvoted to extinction? Being alone is necessary to be capable of being in a relationship. I have been divorced a year, separated for 18 months. No comment on the old relationship right now from me, just a note to self and others that the alone time, while hard, depressing, etc., was nothing compared with the loneliness I felt toward the end of the relationship. I have learned to self soothe without relying on someone else for that. I have learne…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/11/23 01:42 AM

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