d3dledger Archive

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–	Women hate age gap relationships because they are scared of being tossed aside in favour of young women First off, I am extremely sorry these things happened to you. I've been there in my own life a few times, and it's extremely uncomfortable and sometimes quite terrifying. I don't even want to comment this next part after discussing your life experiences, but I do feel like it needs to be said that many if not most men aren't like this. We were raised with morals and values. If all men were like this we would have killed eachother millenia ago to have the prettiest girls to ourselves or some such…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/23 05:20 AM
–	Women hate age gap relationships because they are scared of being tossed aside in favour of young women Well, for one thing im guessing the dudes being pursued DONT MIND. And 2nd. It’s probably a lot more rare. > Like how many young men are really creeped on by older women really? < Right here buddy. It's your own comment man. You're making yourself seem ignorant because you just want to comment on everything and no actually read other peoples words. You can reply back that you didn't explicitly say men don't get creeped on if you want to hedge and act like that wasn't the implication, but I'd lik…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/23 05:11 AM
–	Women hate age gap relationships because they are scared of being tossed aside in favour of young women Again, I am not saying it doesn't. All I can do is not be a part of it myself. I have not once denied this happens, so stop projecting your defensive attitude on me. My point to my original comment wasn't to even address the original comment thread, it was to address the one specifically saying men don't get creeped on too. Which you're ignoring in lieu of trying to invalidate my lived experiences by saying I'm ignoring it happens to women more often. I am not. So if you want to speak, feel free…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/23 04:48 AM
–	Women hate age gap relationships because they are scared of being tossed aside in favour of young women I'm not disregarding sh*t, check your attitude. I was simply responding DIRECTLY to the comment above mine about how older women don't prey on younger men. Just because someone gainsays you doesn't make their life experiences invalid. Grow up man	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/23 04:03 AM
–	Women hate age gap relationships because they are scared of being tossed aside in favour of young women I bartend at a prominent bar in downtown of a major US city. Older women constantly hit on me. And many of them are VERY creepy about it. And aren't used to getting politely told no. I've learned to be very direct, even if it loses patronage, because they get handsy and gross. Shit goes both ways, people	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/23 03:13 AM
–	Women hate age gap relationships because they are scared of being tossed aside in favour of young women All of these responses are anecdotally referring to when girls were teenaged. And men can absolutely be gross and creepy. OP is referring to consenting adults, many women relevant to the arguement aren't 18, but more like 23-29. Most of which from my personal experience and emperical data are looking for older, more mature men. Not necessarily a 20 year age gap, but it's memories like this that are putting respondents in this thread missing the entire point of what OP is saying. Yes, there will …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/23 03:04 AM
0	Why do single women seem so happy compared to single men? Honestly it's because of attention and validation imo. There are plenty of single men and women who are missing that and crave it. For most nominally attractive women tho, they get both attention and validation (surface-level, physical) every day. Men don't often recieve that outside of a relationship. The most attractive and successful men I know are fine with being single for the most part, as they get plenty of social attention and validation, so I think this is the main reason. We all want t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/23 06:13 PM
1	Men lowering their standards didn’t widen the dating pool so stop doing it. To further this, my body count is fairly high (hovering somewhere around 100), so while I would PREFER a lower body count, the actual count is irrelevant to me, assuming they have their head screwed on strait. Meaning most of that higher body count was in the persuit of a relationship and not just to have a 'hot girl summer'. Kind of inflexible on the weight thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/23 09:54 AM
18	Men lowering their standards didn’t widen the dating pool so stop doing it. I actually agree with the guy above you here. While your premise I largely agree with, your arguement that 'you cant possibly understand because you're a woman' is just idiocy. Rational hoomans are capable of logic and empathy my dude. All you did was undermine your fairly decent point by making yourself seem like an elitist jackass. This is a discussion; one you're making a mess of by trying to invalidate someone else's point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/23 09:48 AM
1	Older women shaming men for dating and sleeping with younger women out of jealousy and labeling it as “predatory” is extremely hypocritical and inaccurate, most men go after younger women because women age faster and younger women are far more attractive, not because they’re easier to manipulate Hey, to each their own. I can respect how you feel. And to answer your assumption, I'm one year outside what they consider millennial. I also was born without any spoon in my mouth, was in an out of alternative school growing up, attended a group home as a teenager and did 6 years in prison for a dumb ass crime that none of my peers have seen as a crime (not that I don't recognize my responsibility in it). The whole special snowflake and participation thing went right over my head, though I defi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 02:50 AM
4	Older women shaming men for dating and sleeping with younger women out of jealousy and labeling it as “predatory” is extremely hypocritical and inaccurate, most men go after younger women because women age faster and younger women are far more attractive, not because they’re easier to manipulate So you would prefer the homogenous whole of a group be the ideal? Then how would you differentiate a good partner from the bad? The whole point of choosing partners is finding your diamond in the rough. Not your diamond in a sea of diamonds. Because then you don't appreciate the one you have, as you can just drop it and pick up another. Do some labor man, find someone who is ideal for you, regardless of how long that takes. Generalizations are extremely useful for protecting ourselves from makin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/22 07:13 PM
2	Older women shaming men for dating and sleeping with younger women out of jealousy and labeling it as “predatory” is extremely hypocritical and inaccurate, most men go after younger women because women age faster and younger women are far more attractive, not because they’re easier to manipulate My partner is 27 and not 37 because I met her when she was 27. I see where you are going with this, and I don't disagree. But I'm trying to stress the importance of her as an individual rather than her general attractiveness because of her 'youth'. I have been fortunate enough to enter into relations sexual and emotional with many very attractive women. Many, if not most, have been self-centered and apathetic to the point of absurdity. Which is why I am not with any of them anymore. She is not. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/22 09:29 PM
4	Older women shaming men for dating and sleeping with younger women out of jealousy and labeling it as “predatory” is extremely hypocritical and inaccurate, most men go after younger women because women age faster and younger women are far more attractive, not because they’re easier to manipulate If you say so. You're just reaching for your chorus of voices in the echo chamber of BS. I feel like the red pill community has a few things right about how the current dating market is, but the main caveat I was trying to make is generalizing entire groups of people is just shortening your own views. By red pill logic, if she's young and pretty (because now 27 is young?) she must be a gold-digger and only concerned for what advantage she can eek from her looks. The OP says age is about attracti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/22 03:37 PM
1	paying for the first date I am going to preface this by saying I more often than not pay for a first date (90% at least). There are two of you in here that are so far down your own gender's rabbit whole of dogma its ridiculous. Calm down and practice some empathy. Imagine the person on the other side of the keyboard is a HOOMAN, capable of hooman feelings and experiences. For my actual point (sorry), in a more egalitarian society--which I believe we finally are beginning to find ourselves in--it makes more sense to just …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/22 08:38 PM
34	Older women shaming men for dating and sleeping with younger women out of jealousy and labeling it as “predatory” is extremely hypocritical and inaccurate, most men go after younger women because women age faster and younger women are far more attractive, not because they’re easier to manipulate I feel like most of the anecdotes here completely ignore the concept of individual experience. I am 33 and male and have dated both younger and older. Each person is different. Many times while dating younger, I have noticed a disparity in maturity/goals. Just as in many cases dating older I have noticed an up-tick in unwanted baggage. But no two women I have been with are the same, trying to label men predatory or women gold-digging or any such non-sense completely negates the concept that we a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/22 08:13 PM