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1	Did our Paarents tell us lies and then expect us to be succesful in relationships? T	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/21 05:35 PM
1	Did our Paarents tell us lies and then expect us to be succesful in relationships? Now sure. But they are in denial. How many are in their 70s that proclaim the holy war against a perceived threat to family and marriage. They wont back reality. They still fight the holy fight Historically premarital sex wS hard because people married kids off when they had there period. In the 90s it was still odd for someone to wait till 25 30 in a christian household. There was a lot of shame about waiting. It was assumed you where having sex and causing adultry with married men	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/21 02:25 PM
1	Did our Paarents tell us lies and then expect us to be succesful in relationships? Its more why talk about it. Everyone "good" waits till marriage. Talking about it assumes the teenage son or daughter isnt going to wait. Just like they cant ever accept if there child is a nonbeliever..	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/21 10:51 AM
1	Did our Paarents tell us lies and then expect us to be succesful in relationships? 35 yo male here To them they are not lies. But im sure like many. Fundementalist middle class christian expectations dont jive well with courtship in the 21st century. The cultural differences are just to vast. No i dont think praying at the alter is a good flirting tactic :p	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/21 01:39 AM
2	Is TRP a Mate Trickery sexual strategy I can see your point only if we er on the side of nature to much over nurture for human sexuality. IE human gene expression and early childhood development locks men into dominant and non dominant traits and they are good as stone. There is no "late" bloomers. There is no training to become a man with the most masculine desirable traits. You have it or you dont Iv seen this theory on ppd enough. Women like "naturals" they dont like learned. And learning to emulate naturals is sociopathic A man t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/21 01:23 AM
1	American culture is simultaneously hyper-sexualized and sanctimoniously puritan I would assume many of the major ports would goto the most democratic cities. so if it ever got to the point of blocking a city off from the country. id assume the little civil war over cultural or policy differences would get a whole lot bigger once international aide gets involved with a accident waiting to happen to one of those shipping vessels and escalation ensues. good thing i doupt the US population would take their hatred over the cultural differences of the other side, to the point of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/21 06:23 AM
1	Is obesity more of a problem for male attractiveness than for female? People still have a choice in WHAT they eat that can satisfy. I admit there is a addiction to "simple carbohydrates" but is it comparable to nicotine or heroin? People have willpower to literally fast for days if they choose to. Unless the addiction itself will kill you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/21 08:41 PM
1	Is obesity more of a problem for male attractiveness than for female? Just might be to many data points with not enough study to really make a conclusive point. so singling out obesity and leveling out ALL other factors. including stereotypes should be done. like Age, Body BO and cleanliness. changes in other body features. I personally think men have a slight advantage being overweight as long as they are not short. size in of itself can look very intimidating. and iv known tall guys who are obese, litereally do not work out. but still no one will mess with them …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/21 04:54 PM
2	Is obesity more of a problem for male attractiveness than for female? This confuses me. Are you saying that the science is in that some people cannot be at a caloric deficiet without risking life and limb. should we be forgiving because to some people simple carbs is like heroin and not having them can lead to major withdrawl symptoms? wait. are we forgiving in dating to heroin addicts or former heroin addicts that do relapse?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/21 04:28 PM
1	Is obesity more of a problem for male attractiveness than for female? i would counter it in that. size in of itself is seen as masculine. especially if the person height is avverage or taller. iv known a few obese men who where tall. people simply did not mess with them. they did not lift weights or anything. but size alone won the psychological fight. the stereotype of the club bouncer is never a thin fit guy	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/21 04:11 PM
–	Men should normalize wearing height extenders, as they are comparable to make-up for women late comment.. iv noticed with taller girls. they dont care as much. possibly because well. the dating pool really looks very small and super competitive if someone has a standard must be taller then me, in heels, where i can lay my head on his chest standing. i do think in General. people treat taller then avverage males as just more dominant, assertive, masculine. without them having to Prove anything. just how they naturally look. this not just in dating. but shows up in a lot of industries. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/21 04:04 PM
7	Men should normalize wearing height extenders, as they are comparable to make-up for women i always thought it was still somewhat relative to other men. hence the 5 foot lady still wanting a 6 foot guy. i suppose the only way to know personally would be to see the studies from various cultures with different average height. iv not reached that high as a reddit user to have those ready to pull up to look at thou	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/21 03:43 AM
3	I'm lgbt but I have done deep dives in both pills: debate is nice but what is your solution? iv seen a few of them. and its a bit sad to see how he was treated bye mainstream feminists. Personally i think these feminist types in media, or bloggers, dont care much for any of the older male professors save maby the ones who praise foucault. along with people who are deep thinkers. once they think you breached the very thin moral line they have. it dont matter. you have unforgivable sin.. even more interesting is how Open they are about it. They dont hide what they feel is unacceptable. or…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/21 03:18 AM
1	Men should have a hoe phase before committing to anyone. i think the standard pretty much boils down to dont be obese(or be chubby with 0 breasts), dont be a complete drug addict, junky. and racial bias(in the US there is a bias from mostly white men not to go after black women) even thou those are 2(3 if we count race bias) points its enough of the dating pool that could be seen as picky. thou People in general will think if they are Fit. they cannot touch a obese person ever. a fat disgust in general. perhaps even the motive for being fit was simply…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/21 10:38 PM
1	Why do women think the bar is set low meanwhile men think it’s set high ? The last one. Getting a House and Career is what is hurting men. And people cant say that one is easy. as that takes a lot of Early investment at the right age to pull off. with huge risks. plus there just is not enough jobs out there for every man to afford a house. the housing/rent supply shortage is hurting dating in general. ironicly as the economy is being forced to a 2 income household. dating still demands its a single income household. untill marriage. I honestly think what selects a man…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/21 07:47 PM
6	Why do women think the bar is set low meanwhile men think it’s set high ? In regards to Domestic work. Housework, Emotional labor and communicative skills. A lot of women tend to have OCD levels of how its managed. IE when the guy does these things. he will be put in a submissive role, judged for being incompetent. There is a "Right" way and a "Wrong" way to do it. Going around and complaining that guys do not put in the work. when so much negative reinforcement happens when they do. Many Women will feel they can just do it better anyways.. the bar is High for these t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/21 07:25 PM
3	I'm lgbt but I have done deep dives in both pills: debate is nice but what is your solution? the pidgeonholing because of his statement on "enforced monogamy" taken out of context is still so ongoing. everyone Knew what he meant. but they translated it to "state sanctioned government arranged casual sex"... sadly he did prove if people have any soft spot for men who struggle with mental illness. or not meeting the standards society has for men but wont fully admit to. that they will no matter what be treated as aiding terrorists and being alt-right pigs	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/21 05:05 PM