| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 423 | Gym and looks isn’t everything | Inner Game | d4n0wnz | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 04:26 AM |
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| 3 | Base level attraction matters — no game can override itYou need both in varying amounts by case. Looks without game doesnt succeed, game without looks doesnt either | /r/seduction | 31/01/26 11:39 PM |
| 2 | How to Build Consistency in Dating Without Relying on LuckWow long post, but heres my insight after learning lessons from each date. When you are on a date, you need to present yourself confidently and not being bothered by your insecurities. Don’t lie, be truthful and secure rather than evasive, insecure and dodgy. Display comfortable body language. You also need to connect emotionally with women, whether it be a sly remark with a smirk, flirtation, conversing on a deeper rather than surface level. When you get asked basic questions like: what are you… | /r/seduction | 29/11/24 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Gym and looks isn’t everythingDidnt read your whole hostile response, but who hurt you? Have a good day my friend | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Gym and looks isn’t everythingIf it were as simple as a math equation. Being desirable to a woman would require a total of 7 or more adding looks and social skills/behavior/vibe. 5 looks + 1 social skills is not enough, but 4/3 can be. Or 2/5 or 5/2 can work for some women | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 01:30 PM |
| 5 | Gym and looks isn’t everythingHaving enough of both is important. Maybe you are coming from a place where you are lacking or are insecure about your appearance that drives your belief to one side completely? | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Gym and looks isn’t everythingI don't think its number one, but its definitely a part of the 20 piece puzzle women look for. On dates, I've been asked how many dates have you gone on recently? What is your dating history? etc... I've noticed women reacting positively to me engaging with another pretty girl, They get curious... why is this pretty girl talking to this guy? He must have something that I want! And its not looks, because they can see you look good but it drives their curiosity, what is it about his behavior/perso… | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 12:30 PM |
| 0 | Gym and looks isn’t everythingYou are focusing on the wrong area of the topic my friend. | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Gym and looks isn’t everythingDisagree. Looks are only a percentage of the whole package. | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 12:23 PM |
| 0 | Gym and looks isn’t everythingI am 36 now. When I was in my physical prime around 25-32, pretty girls(strangers at clubs/bars) hit on me frequently and girls I have met have thrown themselves at me, but I was unable to close most of the time, due to lacking social skills. The days where I 99% got close to getting a girl in bed or getting a number from a stranger/acquaintance, I realized I fell short because of not knowing how to navigate the situation. The nights where I was being THE fun guy and displaying extremely confide… | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 12:18 PM |
| 47 | Gym and looks isn’t everythingTrue. But the tunnel vision mindset I had where if I go a lil bit harder or longer, or eat a lil more healthier, while neglecting my social skills was dead wrong | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 04:54 AM |
| 14 | Gym and looks isn’t everythingI wish I had known this 10 years ago! Then I would have been putting myself out there even more. As an introvert, its fucking hard, but after these painful and motivational rejections I am gonna go out there and talk to everyone and get uncomfortable | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 04:52 AM |
| 33 | My coworker I liked rejected my kiss.Never use that crying emoji again, or present yourself like a helpless child in person. | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 07:18 PM |
| 8 | My coworker I liked rejected my kiss.You are in the friendzone and she is clearly not interested. It may be because of the way you carry yourself everyday. Acting childish after rejection and displaying yourself as a needy weak boy is going to turn her off more. Work on changing the way you interact with women so that you are respected as a man. I’ll see you in the gym brother. | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 07:15 PM |
| 8 | 25m. Got laid but feels weird.My man has a case of post nut clarity. You will get over it in a few days. | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 04:08 PM |
| 1 | 12 Signs She’s Into You1 definitely true. I missed this cue so many times and didnt realize it 😭 | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 09:38 PM |
| 1 | What is an attractive way to act with women who have rejected you, or you've tried unsuccessfully with?If she has any interest in you and sees you doing these things, it will cause her to get jealous and want you more. I’ve experienced this first hand many times. | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 07:12 PM |
| 12 | My dating experience as a short guyI think it only becomes a problem when you are way below average, like 5'1 and lower. | /r/seduction | 27/02/18 08:34 PM |
| 1 | In an extreme girl/guy ratio at a party, how to focus attention on one?Reading body language is key to all social interactions, especially women if you are trying to get a read. Check out the videos on this channel, they helped me alot. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCj9QBB4bNTv29f4oFIreNmw As long as you arent hideous and are having a good time, girls will compete for you, if they see you interacting with other girls and if those girls seem to be enjoying your company. | /r/seduction | 27/11/16 05:44 PM |
| 8 | They will look at you weird. (On IOIs)Girls are usually indirect about this kinda stuff. I've made the transition from depressed out of shape gamer nerd, to healthy and more confident, in shape mid 20 year old. I was completely caught off guard when this first started happening to me. Girls at random social events would find an excuse to start talking to me. Some real examples I've encountered: asking for a drag of my ciggarette, talking to me at a porta potty line, offering me water/gum randomly, a bartender complimenting my shoes.… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/16 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Appropriate time to kinoMan you are on point with this reply. I understand now. | /r/seduction | 13/09/15 03:03 PM |
| 1 | 29 Year old virgin - 4 questionsAnswer for #2 : Fake it till you make it. | /r/seduction | 06/02/15 10:30 AM |
| 2 | My 2 best friend are both my exesHow I met your mother | /r/seduction | 08/01/15 04:18 PM |
| 15 | Girlfriend of 10 Years Cheats on an "Amazing Guy"thats an awesome quote | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/13 10:03 PM |
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