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This comment obviously came from experience. I have had success doing exactly this.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/22 05:43 AM
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“Appreciation is the antidote to anxiety”- Headspace App. Go meditate, watch some YouTube videos on overcoming social anxiety- just enough to be educated on the topic- and then go out and face it. With almost all types of anxiety, the solution is to lean in towards the thing giving you anxiety. Do you have approach anxiety? Well then the only solution is to approach until it doesn’t make you anxious. You need to create new memories with the thing making you anxious. Have public speaking anxiety?…
/r/askTRP25/11/17 12:22 AM
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I’m having a tough time believing she gained 1.5lbs per week. That’s overeating by ~5,400 calories per week. Either she’s shoving food down her face like a polar bear getting ready for hibernation, or that info is just not correct.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 02:48 AM
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I’d be interested in that article. I️ did a 140 day NoFap streak on ‘Hard Mode’ and then relapsed. Now I’m on another streak, but I️ almost feel as though going up to +140 isn’t necessary anymore. Im wondering what the ‘perfect’ amount of time between ejaculations would be.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 06:18 PM
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Having sole responsibility of your future is a lot better than putting it in someone else’s hands. You don’t need to change anything other than your perspective.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 06:48 PM
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I’ve played this game w/ friends as well. I was picked for most likely to be a millionaire, which seemed cool. But I have no idea why i was chosen for that.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 06:44 PM
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Posture and lifting go hand in hand. If you don’t do shit that demands you have good posture then your body won’t adapt.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 05:28 PM
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Yes, agreed. Uber is not a long term play, just better than doing nothing, which is what most people do with their evenings. I didn’t mention it, but I am working on a business venture as another option that would be prioritized over Uber once it is finalized.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 09:56 PM
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Im not claiming it to be “special”. Im comparing it to what I was doing before, which was nothing. I have additional income to show for the second job which is progress towards my goal of earning more money. Before I took the job I was watching tv. I’ve been bringing in $14/hr after expenses. My weekly income has gone up by $200. Maybe those aren’t impressive results? If they aren’t up to your standards, should I go back to sitting on the couch or do you have a suggestion for something better?
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 09:07 PM
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This is an interesting point that hits close to home. We’ve all mental masturbated at some point in our lives. I recently read a self-help book and felt so much more optimistic and confident afterwards DESPITE not doing or changing anything. This is a psychological phenomenon that convinces us we’ve accomplished shit when we haven’t done anything. It’s the same as when you level up in a video game. Psychologically you are proud, but you literally haven’t done anything other than move your finger…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 06:14 PM
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It looks like you already answered your own question. Good job, now take your advice.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 08:44 PM
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Great points, but I disagree that a girl will never approach. Today I had a girl come up to me and tell me I had nice sunglasses. All I said was “thanks” and she wound up introducing herself to me and asked where I was headed. Granted, I’m 24 and she turned out to be 30. She was shocked when I told her my age and was clearly embarrassed. So while my story is probably the exception, girls will approach, usually more subtly, depending on who the girl is and how she perceives you.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/17 02:44 AM
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From one of my favorite posts on here: "The voice in your head is the greatest enemy you'll ever face. He knows everything about you; your weaknesses, your fears, your desires, he can rationalize you into and out of everything. The only way to overpower the voice inside is through action, it's through finding comfort in the discomfort. Soon, you'll develop a sense of self which silences the critic in the stands, leaving you there to perform in the arena of life." Your ego is the story that your …
/r/askTRP10/10/17 10:01 PM
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Do you hear your ego talking? You have some work you need to do by yourself before you can be happy with anyone else.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 07:02 PM
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Having no women to talk to wouldn’t suck.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 05:20 PM
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Not being present. Start meditating
/r/askTRP09/09/17 02:07 PM
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Yup. Exactly how my school was. I got around this by joining a fraternity in the Spring. In the meantime, meet as many guys as possible. Some of them may have an older brother in a fraternity already or know some girls that they can introduce you to. Talk to the girls in your classes as well. I got into my fraternity because I made sure to talk to the guys who make the recruitment decisions. I think #1 thing other guys pick up on is your confidence and social aptitude. Work on those.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 02:00 PM
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What about going out on the weekends?
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 01:48 AM
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I'm in a similar situation. A few years out of school and in a corporate job. I've made it a point to pursue my passion while still working at my full-time job. I recently passed my certification exam to become a personal trainer. This is my passion, but not what I studied in school. Personal training is not known to be a super lucrative career path. Low barriers to entry, no college degree required, and just about anyone who lifts thinks they can be a trainer...so I feel you on the money thing.…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 01:46 AM
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I'm 24. Graduated '15. I had a job offer senior year that I accepted. Started working there a month after college. Moved out of my rents place 3 months after college. Still live in the same town, just in a studio. Find a good deal on rent (with roommates) that makes it more affordable for you. Also pick up a new hobby. For me it's been golf. I got into a routine where on my rest days I go to the driving range and I also play at least one round per week. It's a great way to meet older men (potent…
/r/askTRP05/09/17 04:36 AM
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Isn't she an ex for a reason? Why don't you just continue to ghost her...forever
/r/askTRP04/09/17 01:01 AM
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Best way to maintain your composure is to not engage in conversation. A cordial hey is enough. You don't owe her anything more than that and it sounds like mentally you still have more work to do to kill the oneitis and scarcity mentality. Anyone who comes on here to write about an ex, probably isn't over said ex. She is still taking up space in your mind. Give it more time and meet more girls.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 01:33 PM
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I'm currently on a 100+ day streak. I had the same issue as you: high standards due to porn. Within a couple weeks of abstinence, I found that I was more easily turned on, my dick worked better and my overall appreciation for real female bodies went way up. Give it a try.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 03:48 AM
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Most of the advice you need has already been covered. I will add that meditation helps with your "conveyor belt" thinking. It's called ruminating brain and it's your ego talking. Work on becoming more conscious of it and you will notice your mind become better at handling the ruminating. I use the Headspace app but there are plenty of good meditation apps out there. Good luck bud.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 12:18 AM
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I also suggest studying other people's body language to increase your emotional intelligence.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 05:54 PM
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You're quite the rascal GLO
/r/askTRP10/08/17 01:50 AM
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Found it: https://therationalmale.com/2014/05/06/intersexual-hierarchies-part-i/
/r/askTRP12/06/17 03:32 PM
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That could be where I originally heard about it. Was there a diagram in TRM?
/r/askTRP12/06/17 03:29 AM
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And this is why women lose power as they hit the wall. Because they more desperately need a man than a (RP) man needs them.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 05:15 AM
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...and this is why I don't buy girls drinks. I've found that the best way to give is without any expectations. Give judicially and without a covert contract attached. And ONLY do this AFTER all of your own needs are met.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 01:42 AM
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Thanks, but I'm not looking for pity, just practical advice for how to deal with her going forward. I moved out of her house as soon as I graduated college.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 02:01 PM
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Thank you for writing this. My situation is a bit unique because this is my MOTHER in a nutshell. She is on her third marriage and the last two (including my dad) were "deadbeats" "liars" "assholes", etc. When I was growing up, she was either extremely selfish or suffocating with affection. She has pushed away everyone in my family including the parents that adopted her. My grandpa has removed her from his will. Pretty sad. People with BPD will ALWAYS tell themselves that everyone else is the pr…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 01:28 PM
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You didn't need to freak out. You could've just said no calmly. There are ways to set boundaries without coming off as a maniac.
/r/askTRP20/05/17 08:25 PM
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Wear a rubber
/r/askTRP19/05/17 03:24 PM
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We still have a huge obesity problem in this country the last time I checked.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 04:16 PM
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Yeah there's a 0% chance she's serious.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 04:08 PM
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Have something better to do. Every time you find yourself waiting for a text, find something more productive to do with your time: read, workout, meditate, etc. From reading your post, it sounds like you're still expecting women to fill a hole for you. Is your self-esteem as high as it could be? Are you as successful as you want to be? Work on those things and you'll be less desperate for a text back. Create an awesome life for YOURSELF.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 04:07 PM
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I think it's time to get to the point. When do you want her to come? Tell her "Let's hangout at my place on x day at x time" I'm afraid this conversation might go on too long and you'll waste your time. If you text her this you'll find out fairly quickly if she's serious or not about meeting up.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 12:08 AM
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*barely took the pill You're understanding is extremely adolescent. Please read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP16/05/17 06:41 PM
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Your attitude. There are interesting people in the world. Both male and female. Whether you chose to seek them out and learn from them is up to you. I try to go into new interactions with a healthy amount of curiosity. Ask yourself the question, "What can I learn from this person?" And go into the interaction with an open mind. It sounds like you're answering the the question without giving people a chance to show you.
/r/askTRP16/05/17 05:13 PM
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I've suggested this before and I'll suggest it again: Read "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Dr. Glover. That was my introduction into the TRP world and really helped to unpack a lot of the childhood experiences I had that led me to be so soft. If you implement his break-through activities along with going to a therapist, I'm confident you'll be amazed by the results.
/r/askTRP16/05/17 04:49 PM
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Why don't they like you or want to know you? It seems like maybe you're giving off a "fuck-off" vibe to them.
/r/askTRP16/05/17 04:39 PM
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If you've read "The Game" by Neil Strauss, you'd know that the best form of game is inner game and having self-worth. Outer game can only take you so far. You could be the worlds greatest PUA, but if that's all you have going for you, you're one dimensional and haven't necessarily fixed the things that could eventually lead you to have oneitis and become a BB in a relationship.
/r/askTRP15/05/17 01:19 PM
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You won't find anyone here who will Comfort you Tell you an LDR is a good idea Because neither of those things are good for you right now. Get out of the relationship. She won't fuck you for a year???? What the actual fuck man. You need to value yourself more.
/r/askTRP15/05/17 01:10 PM
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If you haven't read No More Mr. Nice Guy, I recommend reading it. There's a lot in there that will help you fix what's been broken. That was my introduction into the RP world and helped me understand the reasons behind why I wasn't getting what I wanted out of relationships.
/r/askTRP15/05/17 03:59 AM
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When you read this post in 5 years, I hope it makes you sick. Just imagine if Brad Pitt wrote this post and it got out. Everyone would 1) be shocked 2) call him a pussy. It's Facebook, it doesn't fucking matter and a girl who hasn't shown any interest doesn't deserve any of your time. YOU are the prize. And if you don't feel that way yet, do things to make yourself feel like the prize. Self-improvement is preached a lot here and for good reason. It's so you don't spend hours of your day thinking…
/r/askTRP14/05/17 02:33 PM
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So I'm half Asian and have dated mostly white women. In terms of racism, I notice that people prefer to think of me as "basically" white rather than Asian. They sort of rationalize to themselves that I'm one of them. I've experience the same sort of comments that black guys who "act" white get. Honestly though, even if I was full Asian I don't think it should matter. Many people like to use race as an excuse, but I tend to think that the REAL problem is that too many Asian/Indian men are just no…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 03:22 AM
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Your general self-improvement path and TRP are one in the same. Game is just one aspect of that.
/r/askTRP12/05/17 01:21 AM
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Read the sidebar and you'll get your answer on exes.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 01:18 PM
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Agreed. I don't know what a red pill heroin addict looks like because there aren't any. If you're a heroin addict you aren't trp...
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 03:22 AM
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Thanks for the advice. It's clearly not going to be used with this girl. I've been ghosted.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 01:55 AM
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When you say "some issues" it concerns me. Because my last relationship of 5 years started that way and I got stuck in it trying to "fix" something that couldn't be fixed and really wasn't my problem to fix. Wouldn't want to see this happen to anyone else. Keep reading and keep your antennas up for these "red flags". Always be ready and willing to walk. There are other girls, you just haven't found them yet.
/r/askTRP09/05/17 12:45 AM
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Is this a spreading epidemic? Maybe we should be worried, lol.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 04:47 AM
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Good point.
/r/askTRP05/05/17 08:08 PM
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If you trusted her this wouldn't be an issue.
/r/askTRP05/05/17 07:05 PM
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If you self sabotage yourself constantly and you stress out about little shit, I would argue that it's lowering your SMV. You'd be best off spending time alone to self-improve on those things before you go bringing them into an LTR.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 10:07 PM
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Lol.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 09:55 PM
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Understood, thanks.
/r/askTRP03/05/17 12:48 AM
1

Funny that you mentioned that because the first time we hung out and fucked I invited her over for a specific Netflix documentary we had discussed and it made both of our intentions a lot more clear. I feel like reading all the advice on here has made me overthink things
/r/askTRP03/05/17 12:42 AM
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1) yes, this was not a girl I had any desire to take out on a real date. I just wanted to fuck her without the formalities 2) I was a date nazi over text. I want to find ways to get what I want without coming across as a complete dick. 3) this is what I was "looking for", but I'll take the other advice with it.
/r/askTRP03/05/17 12:24 AM
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That's good advice. The find someone else for pool response was definitely what made it hostile.
/r/askTRP03/05/17 12:07 AM
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You saying she has better date ideas is completely subjective and what you wrote is biased towards an activity that you like. I wanted to see a particular movie (before this date came up) and so I invited her to join me. What I'm asking big picture is how I should respond when the girl proposes an idea I'm not down with. That's it.
/r/askTRP03/05/17 12:06 AM
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Because I was overthinking it and thought that was something I wasn't supposed to answer
/r/askTRP30/04/17 10:25 PM
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You said "work for it." Does that mean work for this girl until I have other plates to spin? If I'm ignoring her right now, what does working for it look like? As of right now, I have no clue if we're still on for two weeks from now because she thinks I'm using her as a rebound...
/r/askTRP30/04/17 07:07 PM
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Fair. What would be better responses?
/r/askTRP30/04/17 06:31 PM
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Why didn't you just ask her to give you her number? The thinking goes something like: giving your number out= beta. Getting numbers= alpha.
/r/askTRP30/04/17 03:18 PM
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