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i live my life not doing those things every day You're a straight woman lmao. It's literally impossible for you to be creepy, no matter how badly you treat a guy. It's easy for you because there are literally zero expectations on your behavior for your dating life. Be as shy or as confident as you want, there'll be men interested either way. Men are asking, because skirting too much in either direction will destroy any chances you have and the balance is subtle for guys who don't have it natural…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:19 PM
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There is a difference between going to a hobby group, seeing a person you’re attracted to, and talking to them Women also consider this creepy. So many women complain about this - they don't like getting approached at hobby groups at all unless the interest is 100% mutual. Even just approaching this way you approve of will get you branded as the latter type of guy you talked about, how would she knows the difference? Or do you think women never make mistakes in judging men? Not acknowledging tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:07 PM
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Attractive men who treat women as fleshlights get far more women than ugly men who respect women. The ugly guy won't even get a single like on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 11:43 AM
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Are you dense? I never said friends don't exist. Lifelong friendships exist but most of them are long-distance because it's incredibly unlikely all of your careers and life trajectories lead you to stay in the exact same place your entire lives. And most people have fewer friends as they age. I can't believe someone is actually stupid enough to need a source for this claim but here you go: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC1087290/ Given that: 1. Friendships become harder to make as you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:18 AM
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They may last for a lifetime but it's very rare you always stay physically close. If your friend gets a job that pays 2x as much the opposite side of the country or their partner wants to move close to their family, that will obviously in most cases take precedence over staying close to a friend and you're lying if you say it's not. Long-distance friendships don't provide the same level of fulfilment. When they have kids, they'll start spending less time with you and even later they'll prefer sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:21 PM
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Family dies, friends move away eventually and will always prioritise their partners and kids over you, neighbours aren't something you can choose if they're not good. They all satisfy the need for occasional socialization and some friendships can go much deeper but you'll never be their number one priority over their relationships (and most people are in relationships once they're in their 30s). Why do you think most women still end up in relationships even though they have all their deep friend…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 08:35 PM
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Loneliness itself is a big driver of suicide and depression. It is at least partly causal, lots of guys cite it as their main reason for being depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 08:22 AM
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What do you mean? Women like you are incredibly rare. Vast majority of women aren't single. Based on the latest Pew survey, 63% of men aged 18-29 are single compared to 34% of women. Even fewer women single in later age groups. Most women still end up dating, though these days they prefer sharing the same guy every other woman wants. But women like you who despise most men are rare. Most women still form relationships at the same rate as before. Only men's rate have dropped.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 05:25 PM
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Men without relationships throughout their lives have an alarmingly high rate of suicide and have a far lower lifespan in general (said to be worse than smoking). I don't think it's women's responsibility ofc but men are dying because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 05:20 PM
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I think there was a poll on r/ForeverAlone a year or so back which asked if the guys would go on a date if they had a 50% chance of being shot dead or something like that. I remember 3/4 of guys still answered yes they would go on the date. I think lonely men are just that attracted to most women that they don't care about their personal safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 05:03 PM
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I thought it's well accepted in this sub that lonely men have close to zero standards and swipe on pretty much every woman in hopes of any sort of romantic relationship? They show their interest in lonely women but lonely women never return that interest. While lots of these guys have never received any interest so have obviously never rejected anyone. Seems like an obvious conclusion then that there are close to zero women who can't find any men to date. They just don't find the men interested …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:25 PM
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But the men we're talking about don't even get matches to ignore. The vast majority of the time, these men's messages get ignored by women dealing with her other hundred matches. The problem is most women only swipe right on the few men that literally every other woman likes so obviously that dude will be picky. A guy with 2 matches a month, none of who respond to him, has no option to be picky in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:14 PM
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Loneliness does take it toll haha. Not really that much effort when none of those women want to talk to you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:10 PM
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On dating apps it's obviously true. Since most relationships form online and most men swipe right on every woman, women do have 100s of men available to go on dates on. Hell, r/ForeverAloneWomen had to ban male users because too many of them were asking those women out lmao. Not finding the men who are interested in you attractive is a luxury problem to have compared to not having any options to date in the first place. At least there are reasons to be hopeful for the former case.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:06 PM
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I mean, these women obviously have hundreds of men interested in them on dating apps. Sure, some of them only want hookups but lots of guys are desperate for relationships too. I very seriously doubt that some woman has gone through all of her likes and literally none of them were interested in anything long-term. The most common scenario is the woman doesn't even try because she's not getting approached irl. Hard to have sympathy for that compared to a guy with hundreds of rejections.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 08:30 PM
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Men swipe right on literally every woman, regardless of looks. How can they be even less picky than that if this behavior still results in zero matches haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 08:27 PM
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No, because other babies have low social skills too. So relative to their peer group, their social skills are normal. I think what the OP was suggesting was more if your social skills are so far behind what is expected from your peers, then most attempts lead to nowhere. Most normal people don't have patience to deal with social skills below a certain threshold. Especially, not from socially awkward men. Women are more desirable to have in a social group (especially among men), so it's easier fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 07:42 PM
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Easy to say as the gender who needs to put close to zero effort to succeed at dating. Don't project your guaranteed dating prospects onto men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 08:30 AM
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But young women aren't really single. Look at the pew survey - 63% of men aged 18-29 are single compared to 34% of women. It's mainly older single women that don't try to date. Most young women are dating, they just prefer sharing the same attractive guys now instead of going for average guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 02:23 PM
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There are also thousands of men who won't reject you at all. You just prefer the men who have options to reject you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 09:00 PM
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Abusive behaviour is creepy af - it invokes feeling of disgust. These men don't struggle to date. Women should detect that behaviour based on your claim. Also some "incels" (i.e. members of the incels community online) do date. There have been success stories on the is incel board - though they do get kicked out by the community soon after posting it lol. So maybe they're not technically incels still but some of those guys did get dates while still being regular posters there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 06:41 PM
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I'm extrapolating your point. Your claim: Women can instantly detect misogynistic/creepy traits in a man. But since we also see plenty of women getting abused in relationships, it means women are choosing it since they would've detected those traits beforehand. I can't see any other conclusion if your claim is true. So why care about people who are choosing to be abused?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:39 PM
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Why would women choose to date abusive men if you claim those traits are something all women can detect with zero effort? Do you not think abusive men are misogynists? Feels like a useless superpower if you can only use it detect shy sexless guys with autism who are too scared to even interact with women, but not guys who actually enact the most violence on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:24 PM
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So we should blame women when they get abused in their relationships? Because you're saying every woman senses any sort of evilness in men automatically. Meaning women choose to get abused. Why should we care about that if it's a choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 01:50 PM
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A random dating app like (that could even be from a bot) is not an option who wants to form a relationship with you. Most bots are female, not male. What's the point of a male bot profile when women swipe right on <2% of profiles lol? No secret, one of them didn't even have a bio. I do live in a fairly densely populated city though. If you're living in some remote, rural area I guess the thousands of likes doesn't apply for you. Women have more options to find another guy if they do get rejected…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 08:31 PM
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I believe you. just don't think the nervousness is warranted based on the actual outcomes we observe. Men reject women at a far lower rate than women rejecting men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 09:02 AM
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They are immediately accessible lol. For my female friends, I don't think it took more than an hour after account creation for the like counter to go to 99+. Most guys have fewer than 10 after a year of usage if the surveys are to be believed. When you have so many options available at a drop of a hat, the value of one particular guy giving attention goes down tremendously. Most women dress for themselves and their confidence, not primarily for men. I've seen women put in effort in their clothes…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 08:55 AM
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It's not flattering I agree. But it's the truth for most guys without lots of options. Though if you only date guys who have lots of options, then I guess you might relate a bit to male dating experience. And. I mean, they still find you attractive. I'm not saying men will literally date any woman. I'm saying if they agree to go out on a date with you, it means they find you attractive and liked interacting with you. Once they like you, you'd have to fuck up a lot on the date to not get a second…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 08:40 AM
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No, women reject more in most scenarios. First date, second date, making the relationship official, marriage proprosals, divorce, etc. not just cold-approaches. Men have fewer standards for being attracted to women. Not zero, sure I agree with that, but not worth getting too nervous over also.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 08:15 AM
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The point is men are nervous because on top of just trying to impress a person they're attracted to, they have to deal with the fact that if the date fails, there's zero guarantee that they'll have another option to try out things with without expending serious effort in the search. Literally zero women have this concern. This fact, along with men having far fewer standards than women overall, should help with the nerves massively.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 08:13 AM
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No, there are lots of options for relationships. Lots of guys are looking for relationships on OLD - look at the pew survey on this. The rate at which men and women are looking for long-term relationships on OLD is within 5-7%. And given there are 3-4x more men there, it's literally zero-effort for women, especially if you swipe on non-model guys who don't get a lot of matches in the first place. You would have to catastrophically mess up a first date to not get a second one as a woman. Guys don…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 08:11 AM
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Most relationships start online today. Unless you're living in some remote, rural area you have access to thousands of men to date. Most men aren't picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 08:05 AM
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There are infinite options online for women, and that's where most relationships start today.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 06:49 AM
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Because women reject men far more than men reject women. 80-90% of breakups and divorces are initiated by women. Men fall for women way easier than women fall for men. Women have far higher standards for men than men have for women (for looks and personality). Most women have virtually infinite dating options with zero effort if one guy's not interested, while lots of guys have literally zero other options without experiencing a ton of rejection to even get another date if he messes up the curre…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 12:15 AM
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It doesn't make sense to me why women would be nervous. Women reject men far more than the opposite and even if they do get rejected, there are 1000s of options waiting if it doesn't work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 12:11 AM
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Women do the vast majority of rejecting so it's really hard to understand why you'd be scared of that. 80-90% of breakups and divorces are initiated by women iirc. I can understand being nervous because of safety concerns but genuinely have no idea why women would be getting scared of not impressing the guy. You would have to catastrophically mess up the date for that to be a possibility unless you're dating way out of your league. Women interview men for the most part in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 12:07 AM
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That's false. Lesbians orgasm at 1.5x the rate of straight women, yet they have sex much less frequently compared to straight couples (and gay men the most obviously). Every survey on this shows similar results. So even with zero chance of pregnancy, low STD risks, almost guaranteed orgasm, most lesbian women don't really have sex more than 1-2x a week on average (though each individual session tends to be a bit longer). So no I don't believe the frequency of orgasms will drastically increase fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:15 AM
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