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| 1 | I am stuck on all areas of my game. Any advice really appreciated! | daafuck | /r/seduction | 01/11/17 05:55 PM |
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| – | I am stuck on all areas of my game. Any advice really appreciated!Thanks for the suggestions. I've read a lot of theory some years ago (way to much and without trying to apply anything) which lead to a lot of overthinking. Nevertheless, "Models" is waiting in my shelf anyway and "Unfuck yourself" sounds like it's quite relevant right now. I will give it a read! Also, I did made a lot of radical changes in the past (it's kind of a bad habit), so only focusing on approach anxiety sounds right and a step by step plan is exactly what I need. Can you recommend some… | /r/seduction | 01/11/17 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Be a good listener improves conversationsThat might be the problem: I'm not relating enough. Often times I'm just interested or fascinated (or act like I am) and keep on asking to make the conversation more about them and less about me. I will try to work on that part, thanks! | /r/seduction | 24/05/16 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Be a good listener improves conversationsRight, I already am trying to do this (maybe not often enough because I want to avoid making the conversation about me, bragging how kewl I am), but often times it goes like this: Me: "So, what'd you study?" XY: "I studied international finance" Me: "Oh, that's so cool! I can relate because ..." XY: "Ah, I see. cool..." ... Me: "So why international finance, what makes it interesting to you?" Maybe it is the way I'm presenting my experience? But way to often the other person doesn't want to pick… | /r/seduction | 23/05/16 04:01 PM |
| 6 | Be a good listener improves conversationsIt doesn't work for me, can anybody give me a hint on what im doing wrong? So I tried improving this some time ago and think I improved quite a bit. Watching this video was like "yeah, right. I'm already doing all of this", but somehow conversations tend to be more like an interview for me. I keep asking questions and let them talk, but at some point I'm out of questions and don't know what to talk about next. Of cause I'm throwing in my opinion/experiences here and there, but the conversation i… | /r/seduction | 23/05/16 01:25 PM |
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