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dabears3390/r/askTRP11/12/15 08:28 PM
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This is something that I'm starting to realize as I get older. The girls that I used to like all binge drank with me and while they were all fun, they were all at one point or another sluts and would never change while binge drinking. Girl I'm talking to now rarely drinks and only will drink to get "buzzed" and never ever drunk (not quite to your standards but for me this is a major difference compared to the girls I used to see) and it's a world of difference. Awalt? Yes. But no where to the le…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 07:46 PM
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Someone else on here can probably help you more than I can explaining this. If I saw you in person I could point out what you're doing wrong if you're having this issue but there's so many social dynamics variables in any given situation I can't really explain them all generally. A lot of being creepy has to do with the way you look, your timing and the situation, and your tone and demeanor. You want to be well dressed for the occasion and look good. This will make you more approachable and give…
/r/askTRP27/01/16 06:41 PM
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I'm not suggesting you wife up one night stands (sorry if my anecdotal evidence suggested that, we only made out that night). it's usually a huge red flag especially at 17-18. I'm trying to say that you should never try and be JUST friends first. That's how you get locked in the friend zone. You should always be suggestive and showing interest, just learn how to do it in a non creepy fun way.
/r/askTRP27/01/16 03:01 AM
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Serious question, not taking a dig at you... Have you ever had a serious girlfriend before? Something that was more than a fling at least? Because from my experience, all my girlfriends have also been my friends. While of course they didn't binge watch sports and play halo with me or whatever we still had common movie, music, outdoor activities, going out to eat, drinking, whatever interests. Girl I'm talking to right now I happened to meet through a mutual friend right before going to a club an…
/r/askTRP26/01/16 10:52 PM
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In that case I would just not worry about it. You're just not a big texter and probably prefer to have your small talk conversations in person. Like I said, I text all the time because it's just how I am. Growing up in the aol instant messenger days makes it seem normal to me and I'm good at it. I'm also one of the few people left on this earth who likes to talk on the phone with their gf too. Is she complaining about it or drifting away from you? Or is this preemptive and you're just making sur…
/r/askTRP25/01/16 01:28 AM
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It really depends. Most people here will advocate that it should only be for making plans. I genuinely really like talking and usually text my girlfriends that I actually like all the time. It's never once negatively affected me. The only rule I follow is I never text back in less than the time it took her to respond. Keeps me from seeming needy or too thirsty unless it's about something important. If you're asking because you like talking to your girlfriend and are worried it's not the "redpill…
/r/askTRP24/01/16 08:55 PM
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First off, if he's really your homie and not trying to steal girls from you, you should be happy for him and happy that you actually have a friend that can draw bitches into your group. Envy is a dangerous sin, and one that doesn't seem deserved towards your friend from the details provided. One of my best friends is a complete goober, and while I'll never drop him because of it, it would be so much easier if he was more like your friend. From the comments on this thread, it's obvious that you'r…
/r/askTRP14/01/16 06:10 PM
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Rasalom and abdada hit the nail on the head with that you've gotta quit being average. I know the kind of guys at your school (my engineering school was top 5 in the country) and trust me, most of them are fucking lame ass nerds. So, while you're in a very small pond, you have the ability to stand out quite easily and be one of the only sharks. Now for the part where I add a little bit of perspective since I am currently in your shoes. I'm currently stuck in a small ass town for some military jo…
/r/askTRP14/01/16 04:45 PM
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Yup, you feel bad because that's what normal people with souls do when they shit on others that don't deserve it. It sounds like you actually met a pretty good girl who probably wouldn't cheat on you (assuming you don't turn into a beta, etc.) and that's why you feel bad. You suck, and you did the one thing most people on this sub bitch about and that's cheat on someone who gives a shit. Buttttttttt!!!! For the love of all that's holy, don't tell her. If you want to be with her, all this will do…
/r/askTRP18/12/15 01:03 AM
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If you ever decide to be a loser and get your girl jewelry, just get a box from a nice place and get her some CZ and put it in the box. She'll think you dropped $3-500 at zales while you actually went to Claire's and hit on the 17 year old sales associate the whole time and spent $20 tops. I'm 2/2 on this one.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 11:57 PM
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This was my real worry, even with the safety net of being able to crash at my boy's house, I don't want to drive two hours to have my friday night pretty much ruined if she wasn't down. But, as you can see from my response below, bullet dodged anyways.
/r/askTRP11/12/15 09:20 PM
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Being on my guard turned out to be the right call this time. Turns out she's enlisted, and I'm an officer so that's a hugeeee no no. Crazy bitch doesn't even want to tell me so "no one will know" and "why should it matter what I do?". Score 1 for dabears career and long term future, score 0 for his penis.
/r/askTRP11/12/15 09:16 PM
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The same thing you did when you were 13, jerk off.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 01:53 AM
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The guy up above who called you a bitch kind of hits the nail on the head with the stopping porn thing. You just have to sack it up and do it. I used to only smoke when I drank and knew deep down it was fucking disgusting and terrible for me but always brushed it off like a little bitch telling myself "I only do it when I drink so it's not that bad I guess...". Then one day I asked one of my buddies how he quit for good and he gave the same advice as modified_hackware and it hit me like a wall o…
/r/askTRP02/10/15 08:46 PM
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Military officer, got to start life after college debt free too. Doesn't start out at 100k but by the time you're 30+ you should be around there plus you can retire around 42 and then get a civilian job that pays well plus your pension. Cons though; risk of death and if you want a family it'll probably be shitty.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 08:58 PM
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Holy shit lmao. You failed miserably but at least you went out in a hail of gunfire, I wish you were one of my friends so I could make fun of you personally. Your only hope is now that she called your bluff is to stand your ground and recall hers. Don't you dare say a word until she comes crawling back. Odds are you blew it pretty bad and it won't be salvagable, but this is the only move that gives you a chance. In the future listen to what the other people posted before doing some off the walls…
/r/askTRP27/08/15 01:00 PM
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What fnordsnord said pretty much... It depends on their history as well. My most recent ex had male friends and none were threats to me in the slightest, but I could tell some would've fell off like you mention while at least one would've stayed for the long haul (we unfortunately broke up when I left to go across the country for flight school so the relationship didn't go as long as we would've liked it to.) because they bad been friends for a while and he was even friends with her mom. Now she…
/r/askTRP21/08/15 09:22 PM
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Question #1: is she fucking you? Yes? Well, you probably don't have much to worry about. Is one of those guys probably hopelessly in love with her? Oh yeah, I'd bet the house on it. But what a lot of girls tend to do (especially young ones) is hide behind a veil of nievety and not realize it or just pretend they don't realize it to soak up that awesome one sided friend ship where she gets worshipped and pussy passed for everything while not having to put out. I've dated girls with these types of…
/r/askTRP20/08/15 01:18 PM
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I don't know what advice you're specifically asking about (assuming girl advice), but I'll get on my soap box regardless in an effort to help you out. -Before we get to girls, lets talk about the actual important thing, you know, that whole degree thing you're supposed to be getting. GO TO CLASS. DON'T EVER FUCKING SKIP CLASS. even with the bull shit easy free elective/gen eds, just fucking go. "But dabears, I know I'm supposed to go to class, why are you making such a big deal about this?", bec…
/r/askTRP18/08/15 12:56 AM
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What this guy is saying may be true. I've also dated girls that were, no joke, perfect LTR material. Pretty, smart, loyal as shit, low N count, loved me to fucking death, and not even crazy! But somehow I just wasn't into them. It blew my mind, and I couldn't wrap my head around how I found such a "unicorn" type girl and I didn't want anything to do with her. But somehow my super whore exes could get me to wanna fuck them like 7 times a day and get one-itis of the gods for them. I think it comes…
/r/askTRP14/08/15 11:40 PM
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I'm in the military as well and completely agree. Ranger school is there to train warriors to be effective leaders in combat, not some place to prove that 2 girls in the entire army can finish the school. Mad respect for those girls but those 20 slots could've went to people who actually would've put the training to some use. Your other points remind me when our fantasy football commissioner brought up the idea of inviting one of our buddies girlfriends to join to fill the last spot and I wrote …
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 10:31 PM
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Yup. Where in my post did I say anything about the mid west having more hot girls? I'm pretty sure I implied that they were hotter out in AZ.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 09:11 PM
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There are hot girls every where. I went to a big 10 school with tons of chicks in a college town and I'm not gonna lie... It. was. fucking. awesome. Your only competition is other college guys and all the girls are 18-23. I was in a little beta fraternity and I still got ass all the time no problem. After that I moved to Phoenix for three years. I didn't even know they made girls this hot until I moved to Scottsdale. No joke, every girl at the clubs are at least an 8. Buttttt, now every guy I co…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 03:08 PM
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ummm terrible advice... payed for my engineering degree in full at an awesome university where I got to still have the full "college experience" and now they're paying me to learn how to fly. It doesn't get much more awesome than that. You just need to be smart about it.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 02:29 PM
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Currently in flight school for the military. Have a BS in engineering. Before flight school I was bar tending and managing at a bar/night club.
/r/askTRP02/08/15 12:57 AM
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For all you new/young guys who are in or thinking about going into the military, PSA-your LTR/wife will cheat on you. Especially if she's in too. I've already been propositioned three times in the first month by chicks who are with military guys at my new location, I said no each time because I don't feel like losing my dream job over a slut, but they're all probably getting some good dick'n by some chad as I type this up. And as much as I hate women who do this, I can't even fucking blame them.…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 01:15 PM
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Of course she's not LTR material, but on tinder that shouldn't be your first priority anyways. If you need to use online dating and want that (to each his own), use a site that is geared towards that like match or e harmony where they have to pay for it so they're more likely to be looking for what you are too and not just looking for validation. The real red flag that should make you not want to plate her is how quickly she told you all of this when she's never even met you. That's fucking weir…
/r/askTRP08/07/15 05:44 PM
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my cousin gets deployed to Afghanistan this December lol he hasn't done shit.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 02:45 PM
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Armani code
/r/askTRP13/06/15 09:50 PM
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wow, thanks for this. I'm in a similar situation as OP and I want to stay RP in the relationship, but when she's been nothing but great to me, I would feel awkward not reciprocating when she gets like this. I've had a similar relationship in the past and when the mooshyness came out while I still maintained my frame and didn't seem like I was seeking validation she melted, but when I got super BP and needy with it (literally just like you described) wouldn't you know, she packed her bags within …
/r/askTRP18/05/15 05:16 PM
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Cut all contact! Now. When you wrap yourself up that emotionally with someone, no matter how much new puss you slay, you still need TIME. Time that has her not involved in any aspect of your life. I've done the same and went on and off with mine for two fucking years with each new time one of us tipping the power scale completely the other way and wrecking the other person. Viscious cycle. Now that I haven't seen/talked to her since August, my head is completely clear and I'm able to actually en…
/r/askTRP23/04/15 05:17 PM
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