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dabidniss/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/14 08:37 PM
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What's been your most valuable reference experience since you started using the concepts in RP? Well my most valuable reference is tame sexually but solidified RP for me. My closest friend growing up was a girl-next-door type (Emily) I had known since preschool and had a crush on my entire teen life. She moves away during HS and we lose touch. About a decade later, I see her again as a BP man (and she knows who I am) with mutual friends. I try my hardest to just talk to her, shes giving me the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/14 04:25 AM
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How do women usually react to your trans status? Most women don't believe me initially. Some cite my facial hair as evidence that I'm not. I suspect it's ignorance of what regular trans people look like. I always sidestep from trying to convince them its true for too long (the topic just isn't sexy). I live in a very liberal area, so responses are for the most part polite. This makes it difficult to gauge rejection. Is it my game or my status? What's your equipment like downstairs? The surgery i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/14 04:01 AM
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Have you noticed a difference in how people treat you? Honestly, this question does take an article by several people to give enough justice. I glossed over it a bit originally. But people absolutely treat people based on sex, which adds to my belief that the sexes are different. Not only for biological reasons but societal conditioning reasons (but that doesn't make gender merely a construct). Seems like everyone treats women as if they are in a bubble. Things get dumb down. Males do things for…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/14 03:18 AM
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Hm not really. Getting a clean shave is next to impossible for me. So I suppose smooth skin on my face.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/14 02:57 AM
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Well for her specifically, prior to meeting up she voiced concerns I wasn't going to be a nice guy because of her previous experiences with other men. So I show up being nice and i was rejected for being "too nice." So I started to seek advice from successful men. Like her and my previous failures, I determined that I was not confident, had an avoidance of taking the lead, didn't hold a strong frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 11:55 PM
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My own experiences and interesting studies/articles, the OkCupid one comes to mind. I tend to pick up women in day game and friends-of-friends at social functions. I stay away from the bar hookup scene. I've dated gay, bi, and straight women. It actually was a nerdy type liberal bi woman that sparked my interest in why I wasn't doing well with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 11:05 PM
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1) "essentialist view..." As in do I believe TRP applies to every single person? No. I do think it applies to the majority. 2) I fit the male model better than I do the female. I lead in a relationships and like being with someone who is my opposite, someone really feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 10:46 PM
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Biggest changes were libido, a disconnect from emotions (I've heard of MTF reporting the inverse of this), hunger, and my short-term memory declined which was odd. My orientation did not change. People treated me differently almost instantly. Yes my opinion and ability is more valued now. It is for better or for worse however. If I'm bullshitting or wrong, I get called out quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 09:25 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 08:41 PM
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Female friends & blue pill media. Attacking the Nice Guy tm & and the "friendzone" on tumblr, webcomics, etc are a relatively new thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 08:25 PM
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To cure body dysmorphia, & chronic depression. There's a big advantage to be a woman but it's all moot when your head and body feel misaligned.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 08:14 PM
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Everybody has the right to not adhere to their gender role. But we have to be honest on how gender roles play a part in sexual attraction. I don't think every woman should be a feminine family-oriented person if she doesn't want to. But that's what I want for a LTR. Career-wise: men have it easier. Dating/relationships: women have it easier and it's not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 06:30 PM
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I have more platonic male friends. It used to be even but as I gotten older I relate more with males. More things in common. Sometimes it feels like there are trans people speaking for me. Namely on tumblr and YouTube. I'm split on this. It creates awareness but it might not apply to my experience. Ultimately, that's all internet stuff. I have faith that the people I know IRL can decipher the online messages they've seen and actually interacting with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 06:02 PM
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I was 18 when I transitioned. I am on testosterone. I wasn't surprised by the jump of libido but it was (and is) differently noticeable. There's no way women as an average want just as much sex as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 05:30 PM
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The thing about communities are people in general love to divide themselves and make a hierarchy, even in small communities. I'm African American, so for the black community, homosexual or any sexual variants is wholly unwelcome. Gay communities aren't impervious to racism or any other -ism. No one is just one thing. So I can hear the sentiment of TRP without hearing all the things I don't agree with. And you mention that it's deriding the group of people who champion trans people. I'm not sure.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 05:25 PM
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A lot more successful. I went from incel to having sex at least 2x a month. This mostly due to holding my frame, being cocky/confident, and rationing out my attention & time. A RP strategy I implemented was pursuing girls younger, shorter, and less successful than myself. I believe a lot of women's attraction is based in admiration.So I want to create the situation in her head of "yeah he's trans but he does have this... And that... And he's also fun... And hmmm" Basically since TRP, I've stoppe…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 05:11 PM
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Not sure. I can only speak for myself. Disclosure has always been for practical purposes for me. My most valuable resource is my time, so I can't really date for extended amount of time without knowing if it's a deal breaker or not. I'm sure there is an argument that transsexuality shouldn't be a deal breaker, but the reality is that it is for some people. I rather know up front. Attraction isn't logical. You can logically convince someone to like a group of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 01:14 AM
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A lot of women aren't aware of their actions. Most actually believe they are attracted to Nice Guy. No one says "I'm attracted to bad boys, I'm going to continue with this type until I'm ready for marriage, if for some reason Bad boy won't marry me...I'm going to settle for a provider Nice Guy" I didn't put two and two together for the same reason why guys who orbit around women don't... Desperate hope that it's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/14 11:42 PM
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I thought the sexes were different, but at the time I couldn't describe how. When I was young (~5 years old), I knew they were different enough that i was convinced I should have been the other. As I got older, I knew the strategies were different but I didn't know the extent. I thought men had be nice and women had to be cute and available. I only got half of that right.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/14 11:01 PM
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I'm open to both but I've only encountered normal girls. TRP has been very useful for girls and my own happiness. The DGAF attitude and not pedestalizing them has been key. The most eye opening thing that relates to TRP and my previous life was how women LOVE* gender roles when it relates to men only. Opening doors, paying for things, being macho all good things men should be doing. And of course the "love" is limited. Doing those things don't translate into attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/14 10:51 PM
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Definitely. TRP describes the sexual strategy of women as a whole. Of course there are exceptions, but at the very end of the day, a majority of women are attracted to the same type of man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/14 10:32 PM
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Splitting the definitions of sex and gender are useful for describing people who are trans or gender queer. I don't consider gender a social construct.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/14 10:00 PM
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The clarity. I had a difficult time with girls and I did the typical blue pill advice. "Just be yourself! If you're a nice guy long enough you'll bag someone!" When I found TRP, my failed attempts started to make sense. Someone finally had a concrete answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/14 09:37 PM
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I don't think it's transphobic. It can be disappointing to hear as a trans person but it is what it is. There's a difference between not being attracted to trans people and being phobic. I try not shame people for their sexual preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/14 09:23 PM
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Partners should definitely know before any intimacy, or serious intentions. It saves everybody their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/14 09:11 PM
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Yes. FTM
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/14 08:49 PM
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So everything is going good for you. Why do you care what we think? Why so invested with this sub?
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 07:06 AM
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I'm a red pill transman. If the trans person is passing and assimilates with the gender, it's almost comical if they don't recognize the difference of men and women and other TRP philosophy. Don't think TRP applies to the nonbinary people... Live and let live.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/14 04:26 PM
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Red pill advice is based on real life experiences so you probably won't get very good advice here. The interactions between men and women (regardless of sexuality) is different than something between women.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 06:47 PM
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In addition to the reasons why she might choose white men as mentioned above. I suspect for women, beating out their white counterparts is something attractive about being with a white man. Knowing that she has a high status object and beat out her higher status competition? That's the validation lottery.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 07:10 AM
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This isn't the first time I've read about Indian women preferring men outside her race until she hits the wall. This seems to be a common trend amongst women of color. I'll be willing to bet that she liked white guys the most. From my community, dating a white guy is high status for a woman of color.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 02:29 AM
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It's a flimsy way to argue that men and women are equal.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 03:01 AM
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It's impossible to accept "gender as a social construct" and believe transsexuals are born inherently that way. If you accept the former, then there would be no transsexuals due to social conditioning. I think these two are good examples of feminists who want outcomes first and making arguments around it second.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 02:57 AM
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I love how the advice is TRP but once TRP is called out by name, it gets downvoted
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 06:39 PM
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Bitch by E40 and Too Short is my personal TRP theme song
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 11:07 PM
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I read her wiki too. She put that pussy to work.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 01:37 AM
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She's definitely taking the 25% for the next 18 years. His new contract has him guaranteed to make at least 80 million. 25% of that and the status of being with a baller? No contest.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 07:50 PM
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Sort of. The value of the house that exceeds 14,000 has the possibility of being taxed if you eventually gift more than the lifetime limit (~5 million). If you end up never getting to that amount, it's not taxed.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 03:32 AM
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So what happens when a man pays for a date and she turns out to be 50lbs heavier than her pictures. Is that fraud?
/r/TheRedPill02/02/14 10:22 PM
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Women are a reflection of the men they are fucking. There's a Beige Phillip rule about this: "Sundresses to shooting cops" It refers to Bonnie of Bonnie & Clyde, who was a seamstress before meeting Clyde. Who ultimately gave up her identity to imitate her alpha fucks.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/14 10:19 PM
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This answer. Women rage hard when they have accidentally fucked a beta.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 04:07 AM
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Not far from truth, but this has to be fake
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 11:24 PM
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As someone said below, transsexualism is beyond the scope of TRP. But to answer your question, it depends on multiple things. Age of transition: Someone who switched at an early age (teens) is going to live the majority of their life experiencing the other gender. Regardless of what individuals think of transsexualism, society at large treats them as the other gender. This is completely dependent on the next point. Passable or not: If they easily pass as the other gender, society treats them as …
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 09:04 PM
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The quote is tied to someone who had a string of failed marriages, affairs with married men and a drug problem, aka a ho. Yet women use it as their battle cry. Monroe's best was not worth dealing with her worse and neither are the women that parrot the line.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 07:10 AM
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Check out the Black Phillip Show on YouTube and then check out the Beige Phillip podcast. They are hosted by black men and have a very red pill mentality. I wouldn't say they are limited to a black mans perspective but their experiences are definitely relatable.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 03:28 AM
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Since most of these can apply to any combination of an interracial couple, I see this as thinly veil way to brag about being with a white man.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 03:04 AM
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Problem is women aren't denying as much as they truly believe they are attracted to beta qualities when they aren't. Couple this with beta men foolish enough to believe them and you have what we have today.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 09:06 PM
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One of the most common hamster move. Women say they want a nice guy, but when presented with one they aren't attracted to him. So what's their logical conclusion? "Oh he wasn't actually nice!"
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 08:16 PM
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I'm a transgender guy (FTM). There's not much more advice than if you aren't cool with her genitals then move on.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 02:47 AM
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As a generality, this is spot on. Lesbians do exist but once you get passed the NAWALT argument, what you describe is accurate to my own experiences as well. I contribute this to women having more leeway in exploring sexuality. Men cannot make out with each other and still keep their SMV. Women can and sometimes increase their value. Combine this with instant male attention, why not make out with a hot chick? If a chick rides the bisexual carousel then hits the wall. Lesbianism seems like a good…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/14 06:16 AM
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She's absolutely insufferable.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/14 08:41 PM
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I got really lucky in that I didn't learn through divorce rape. It was a string of dates that followed the same scenario. I'll ask her out, she'll voice concerns that I wouldn't be nice. (I'm black and people automatically assume that I'm aggressive). I tell her not to be silly. I go on these dates, being "nice" (not pushing her sexually) as requested. And of course, I get rejected for being "too nice." That's when I realize women were full of shit and I started to seek the truth.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 11:29 PM
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This describes a Beige Phillip Rule: "A woman falls in love with everything you are, she spends the rest of the relationship changing you into everything you're not. If she succeeds, she will leave you for a guy who is everything that you were"
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 06:43 AM
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I'm willing to bet her attraction to you is low. In the beginning of the relationship did she have a high libido?
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 08:54 PM
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It is similar to the way that a lot of guys do not value a girl who gives up sex early. That is seen as a low value woman. The flip side of that is girls do not value a guy who gives up his time and effort to meet her needs early. Girls want the presents/flowers/time from the alpha she is fucking. If she is already receiving the nice things from a guy, there's no need to have sex with him.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 05:51 AM
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I don't know if I'm welcomed in the community but it doesn't matter because as a transgendered guy (FTM) red pill theory makes the most sense. Ever since taking it, I've been having success with straight women.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/13 10:42 PM
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Forget about her. On to the next one man. How old are you?
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 12:46 AM
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