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Thanks, you are of course right. Time to clean up my diet and push the lifts.
/r/askMRP01/11/19 08:52 PM
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Not a chance I’m posting anything publicly. Too much incriminating information on me associated with this account.
/r/askMRP01/11/19 08:28 PM
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Lol. Strangely enough I have a 7” dick
/r/askMRP01/11/19 08:12 PM
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Dude, you need to chill the fuck out and stop overcompensating. It reflects poorly on you.
/r/askMRP01/11/19 07:48 PM
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I don’t know why I bother arguing with you guys. I don’t give a shit how much I can lift, I care how I look, which is good. My wife wants to fuck me, as do other women. Come back and criticize me when there are more than 0 women who would choose to fuck you right now.
/r/askMRP01/11/19 07:42 PM
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I have rock solid abs, they’re just hidden underneath residual belly fat I can’t shake without being really strict on my diet. It’s super annoying. I sometimes wonder how I managed it too. I didn’t know what I was doing at first; I started off wanting to have lunch with women to see what dating was like and it just kind of snowballed. I fulfill a niche it seems.
/r/askMRP01/11/19 07:24 PM
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She didn’t, actually. She comes from a very conservative family and we both had an n count of 1 (she still does of course) and her dad is very much a classic provider. I also never showed any inclination that I was interested in anyone else. And she thinks that most other men are happy in their marriages and don’t want to fuck other women. I live in a pretty liberal area full of sensitive dads who would (publicly at least) never dream of sneaking off to bang coeds.
/r/askMRP01/11/19 07:06 PM
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I didn’t have any balls when I cheated, it was the easy way out. Grocery shopping is her job; I’ve been very clear what the expectations are and generally she does a good job, she just buys extra crap we don’t need. We’ve gotten into arguments before about this and she gets back on board, but inevitably backslides. She just doesn’t care enough without a constant threat backing up.
/r/askMRP01/11/19 06:53 PM
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Dude I don’t even have visible abs. Body fat is over 10. I lift
/r/askMRP01/11/19 06:39 PM
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Not skinny bro. I’ll slide into your DMs with a selfie if you like (no homo)
/r/askMRP01/11/19 05:53 PM
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Yeah, this is good advice. Sometimes a man needs to get the (verbal) shit kicked out of him to get reality drilled into his skull. Thanks.
/r/askMRP01/11/19 05:50 PM
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I’m assuming you don’t actually go out and fuck those young tight blondes though. I did, and she’s reminded of this every day. I hosted a party a few weeks ago and she just about lost her shit when this cute 20 something girl I know saw me across the room and ran over to give me a big hug.
/r/askMRP01/11/19 05:45 PM
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Definitely mad at myself for all of that. Now I’m executing on my various missions and annoyed that she’s treading water or falling backwards. I want us to be a true power couple, and that 10 pounds reminds me that she doesn’t aspire to anything other than a cozy ordinary life with a boring husband.
/r/askMRP01/11/19 05:39 PM
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I would love to get her to that point, but first I need to get her on board. She has a gym membership but has cut back to once a week because work has been busy. She knows it’s not good but either doesn’t think it’s a problem or has given up trying to keep me, I can’t tell.
/r/askMRP01/11/19 05:34 PM
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Looks like I started a good conversation. My weight is now up to 132 give or take. I lift 3 times a week, but broke my big toe a couple of months ago which sucks balls. My lifts aren’t impressive, but I can sumo deadlift 135 and bench 105 at 3x8, which ain’t bad for a manlet such as myself. Physically I don’t look scrawny, I just have a really small frame (36” chest). Good facial aesthetics and look early 30s. I’m no Chad but girls like me. Emotional stability and life in general are now on trac…
/r/askMRP01/11/19 05:27 PM
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In before someone calls you a faggot.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/19 05:28 PM
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Was it total radio silence from him? I can’t remember his handle
/r/askMRP19/09/19 01:21 PM
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What ever happened to pregnant babysitter guy? I wanted to see how that one turned out
/r/askMRP18/09/19 06:26 PM
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Exactly. I can’t think of any expression that means the same thing. There’s polyamory but that’s a whole other ballgame...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 05:52 PM
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Clearly you’ve never actually spun plates or passed a shit test. BETA MALE DETECTED!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 05:30 PM
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Spinning plates is actually a great expression, it’s just so overused to the point where it’s almost lost all meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 05:26 PM
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That whole fiasco happened before your post, so don’t blame yourself for what I did. I should also point out that I’m not the typical MRP guy on here; I found this place because I wanted to become less of an asshole after going dread level 12 rambo-style... I started off cheating for beta reasons, but went off the deep end to the point I basically abandoned my family and probably emotionally abused my wife. I’m lucky I didn’t knock up some college girl or die of a drug overdose in the process. I…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/19 10:36 PM
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Thanks, this is great and very relevant. It’s been particularly difficult to have open and honest communication now that she’s come to see herself as an innocent victim rather than a participant in what had become a dysfunctional marriage. For example, last night she was working on the computer and I said I was going upstairs to fold our kids’ laundry that she’d dumped on our bed after looking for a specific item and being “too busy” to deal with the rest of it. She made a passive aggressive com…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/19 06:52 PM
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Daddytwoshoes OYS (after a couple of weeks hiatus) Age 38. Married 12 years, together since age 19. Two kids, 5 and 2. 5’7” 129 pounds (+5 since starting OYS). Busted for being a serial cheater in December 2018. TL;DR - My wife wants me to admit I was a very bad boy and should be punished. On the surface things have seemingly been going well on the relationship front, but the wife is still clearly hung up on the fact that I cheated on her repeatedly and lied to her about it, and refuses to accep…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/19 09:26 PM
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Thank you. I do feel like I am making progress now, and finally seem to be out of crisis management mode. I find writing for OYS is a good way for me to reflect, but obviously there’s a point where it becomes self-indulgent (the crap about my wife that nobody else cares about). Mostly I’m concerned that she will never be able to meet my expectations, and whether I can be okay with that.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/19 02:58 PM
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OYS #3 (none last week) Me: 38, 5’ 7”, 125 pounds ~12% body fat, 2 kids 5 and 2, and a wife I cheated on. Read: Nothing this week. Physical Worked out 3 times (my ideal) with incremental improvements in my lifting numbers (after living with chronic shoulder and neck pain made worse by 5x5, I’m doing high rep low weight stuff and trying to build up slowly). Also attempted to massively increase my calorie consumption so I can finally start putting on some muscle. Unfortunately I actually lost a po…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/19 07:15 PM
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That’s partly my ADD, partly my perfectionism. I tend to focus too much on some things and not enough on others. At least now I’m more aware of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/19 06:10 PM
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Yeah, it’s a bad habit of mine to write way too much. Trying to be more concise.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/19 02:59 AM
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I think I’ve done a good job of showing over the past 4 months that I’m not hiding anything anymore, but her sister doesn’t know that because she basically cut off my wife and me because she’s angry at my wife for not leaving me. Her sister also assumed the worst based on what I had written, to the point where she that I was literally a sexual predator and my wife was in physical danger being in the house with me, which is categorically untrue. She has come back to reality to some extent, but st…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/19 05:28 PM
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Ahh.. you’re right, I would just be DEERing if I said that. What would be better?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/19 03:58 PM
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I don’t worry that she thinks of me as a cheater and couldn’t care less if she likes me, but it would be nice if I could figure out a way to dissipate her barely concealed rage that is currently making family gatherings so tense. She’s the one who found my online posts bragging about fucking young girls (18+) with daddy issues and a predilection for rough sex, and she’s understandably having some trouble getting over it. I don’t need validation, she’s just being a huge pain in the ass and an und…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/19 12:53 PM
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I am... “despite lifting 3 times a week”
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/19 09:28 PM
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OYS #3, 4/9/2019 My Stats 38, 5’7”, 126 lbs. 11.6% body fat. Married 12 years, together since age 19. Our n count was both 1 until I decided to explore and ended up sleeping with about 30ish girls, getting into drugs, and sucked into social media, until I got caught and everything came crashing to a halt. My wife forgives me, but I need to demonstrate that I’m a responsible husband going forward. No concerns about her being attracted to me as I can get sex on demand, but her appetite for drama i…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/19 08:48 PM
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I started reading The Sex God Method, which has been really helpful. I’ve also been consciously making an effort to say stuff like “I want you to suck my dick” which she loves, as well as a sprinkling of dirty talk during sex. It’s not that much of a stretch because I already act dominant in bed, I just need to be more verbal and sexual with her in general, and let go of my old thoughts around treating her with kid gloves as opposed to the depraved sluts I used to fuck. I definitely had a Madonn…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/19 08:36 PM
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I would say that I’m a man who enjoys fucking other woman, but I’m not sure that I enjoy it enough to risk ending my marriage over the issue. I think that my cheating started out as a need for validation, but morphed over time as I learned that I enjoyed seducing and dominating girls who would previously have been out of my league, even if I was getting enough validation and sex at home. Now I really have nothing to complain about from a sexual satisfaction standpoint, yet I would still like to …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/19 06:06 PM
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Your entire comment is based on an assumption of what I look like, based on no actual evidence. Seriously, what the fuck dude. Do you want me to send you a shirtless selfie? I’m small and want to get bigger, but this is just unfounded negative value garbage posting.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/19 03:51 PM
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Thanks for the detailed advice. I wouldn’t say that I look particularly bony or emaciated as I have good muscle definition and a tiny bit of flab around the belly, but point taken. I have slowly been adding more protein into my diet (two eggs for breakfast instead of toast and peanut butter, for example) but know that I need to amp up the protein intake even more than I have already. After spending most of my life as a sedentary skinnyfat guy who didn’t need a lot of calories, I’ve been having t…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/19 02:21 PM
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Lol, I’m working on it. I have tiny bones and a fast metabolism. Going to do a protein shake every day in addition to my regular diet.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/19 09:32 PM
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Yeah, it’s an apt flair. Along a similar vein, I’m prone to oversharing and didn’t want to regurgitate info from my previous posts. I’m 5’ 7” and have a personal trainer so my numbers don’t provide an apples to apples comparison. For example, I’m at the gym right now doing tall bench rows 4x12 at 50 lbs. I’m going more for functional strength and proper technique after suffering through chronic neck pain from doing StrongLifts 5x5 and progressing too fast with bad form. Weight gain is a longer t…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/19 04:43 PM
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True, I should reread it to gain a different perspective. I’m not worried at all about her leaving me for someone better, I’m worried that she’s delusional about her value. Our neighborhood is kind of like that; we live in a high-income but very liberal area and most women are new moms that think it’s misogynist for a man to insist that his wife not look like a granola-eating feminist slob. She also works at a local college similarly populated by people like that, while I (and most of the men in…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/19 04:03 PM
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I think I have, but it’s been awhile. Was there something specific that makes you suggest that? I am having trouble with frame and making myself the prize in light of my infidelity and generally poor behavior. She recognizes that I’m a good catch, but she is also a good catch herself, relatively speaking, and has convinced herself that she would be able to find a high quality man to replace me if necessary. She does get some attention from the local neighborhood dads, and is higher value than mo…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/19 03:03 PM
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Daddytwoshoes OYS #2 MISSION I’m still stuck, wanting to be both the Family Alpha and Degenerate Hedonist at the same time. I would say I’m making progress toward mentally taking responsibility for my life and my family, but there’s still that voice inside my head that’s attracted to bright and shiny objects. Last Friday I went out to a small club with a friend (the first time I’ve been out late since getting busted for cheating) and did my usual “push the limits of responsibility right to the e…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/19 02:00 PM
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In terms of actual books, I’ve read NMMNG (which probably got me into trouble because I took it as a license to be even more selfish), and MMSL (which was actually pretty helpful, except by that point my wife was already pretty sure I was cheating which really ruins the point). I’ve also read Rational Male, year one, the Sixteen commandments of Poon, book of pook, used to read Heartiste’s blog, etc. No specific takeaways from each (it’s a lot of material) but I would say I’m well-verses on inter…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/19 03:06 AM
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I found it helpful to write everything down, and I have a thick skin - now at least - and a bit of a thick skull so I actually find it helpful when people lay onto me really hard... that way there’s no misconstruing their intent. The double life is over, I don’t think I have the stomach to go back to that again. Not sure if an open relationship like that is really what I want either. At this point I think it’s something of a red herring, because as you say I need a mission.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/19 03:03 AM
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Point taken. I will cut out that crap.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/19 02:42 AM
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Thanks, great post. I posted in OYS... I have a long journey ahead of me.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/19 07:31 PM
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Daddytwoshoes OYS #1 Let’s do this. For reference, I’m this guy: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/b5cm13/marriage_after_dread_level_12_see_also_spin/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app Quick Summary: I am the worst human being ever Age: 38 Height: 5’ 7” Weight: 125 lbs (I know, it’s ridiculous. I inherited my mom’s slight build). Body Fat: 8% according to the navy method, but I’m guessing it’s higher. Wife: 37, married 12 years, together 19 years. Her N-count: 1 My N-count: 30-s…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/19 07:23 PM
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Agreed. And sorry about that.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/19 03:15 PM
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Damn, that is good. I like how you boil it down. Thank you for taking the time to write it. I have no idea what my mission is. I already have most of the trappings of material success, children who I love dearly, and I don’t want to climb the corporate ladder. I would love to be a photographer (long story) or get into hospitality (because I like hosting parties and helping other people to have fun) but those are both incompatible with our marriage because of my wife’s jealousy and neediness (exa…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/19 03:15 PM
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Not a threat, more that she’s emotionally exhausted from worrying whether I’m committed to and actually care about her, and starting to wonder if she might be happier without me. She had a dream last night where she was walking and talking with another man without me around, and she said she felt so relaxed, for the first time in a long time. She told me not as a threat, but because it was so sad to feel like that about me. I’m okay with divorce if we’re actually fundamentally incompatible, but …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/19 02:14 PM
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I can see why it seems like that, but it wasn’t my intention to brag or make it all about myself. I was legitimately hoping to get some advice about how to be happy with a normal, healthy life. I’m so over being proud of being a walking disaster.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/19 02:04 PM
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I’d say that “lack of introspection” is the understatement of the year, but I’m working on it. I think part of my problem is that I internalized “you are the prize” and “you are your one and only judge” and used that to shut out my wife, and anyone else who disapproved of my new persona as an arrogant douchebag degenerate. I also consciously chose not to judge myself... to be willfully ignorant. Either that or there’s something wrong with my prefrontal cortex and I have a psychiatric disorder. I…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/19 01:55 PM
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I know, and I don’t like it, but I can’t figure out how to turn things around. She’s framed the situation as I have to shape up or she’ll divorce me (which I think I don’t want, ultimately) and as a result she now effectively controls my social life. Partly I think it’s because I had such a strong the frame before... I did want I wanted and she felt there was nothing she could do about it, but now she can exert more control. I also feel badly for constantly gaslighting her and other bad stuff, s…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/19 12:25 AM
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I probably will in the future, although it seemed appropriate to follow up in here given that so many guys commented.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/19 12:10 AM
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I would love to, but that requires that a wife trust her husband to always put her first, and not get any ideas about running off with a younger model. Based on my past behavior she has no reason to trust me to do either. She can barely trust me to leave the house, knowing what a sneaky motherfucker I was.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/19 08:22 PM
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I do now, in spades. I’ve had 3 months since getting caught to think about how shitty I was... they saw a husband and father who was hot and cold, sometimes showering them with affection, sometimes absent (physically or mentally), and wholly unreliable. I used to get mad at my wife because she asked for my opinion on seemingly everything. What I saw as indecisiveness was just a woman looking for her man to guide her, and take the lead.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/19 03:47 PM
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Here comes my long-ass reply... I am curious as to why some of you instinctively yell “sidebar!” because I’ve read NMMNG, MMSL, the book of Pook, Bang, regularly read Rollo’s posts, and various other red pill/PUA materials. I’m probably coming off as more of a beta chump because of the language I’m using... therapy will do that to you. I do also tend to write and talk like a bit of a faggot at the best of times, which is good and bad. One of the reasons I had so much success with girls is that I…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/19 03:13 PM
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Thanks, this is a great comment. She is down for a lot more than I gave her credit for, and I think the long term potential is pretty good. It’s too bad that I had to nearly destroy our marriage (and her self-esteem) to find out what I wanted her to be.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/19 03:04 PM
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I am a terrible leader. I hate being responsible for other people. I used to be a manager at work, but I gave it up and made a lateral move partly because it was such a pain in the ass dealing with other people. At my core I just want to do my own thing, which doesn’t work very well when you’re married and have kids, obviously. I need to grow the fuck up and take responsibility for the people who depend on me.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/19 02:55 PM
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Edit: meant to reply to my original post
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/19 02:50 PM
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What serious work on your own psyche have you done in the past two years since your askmrp post? I've been seeing a psychologist for a few months, which has helped. Now I can recognize that I'm fundamentally pretty insecure, and love novelty and getting attention from attractive females. Which is fine in theory (r-selection, peacocking, etc.) but isn't compatible with the other part of me that enjoys being a responsible family man and all that entails. I wanted to have both, but now I don't thin…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/19 05:47 PM
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I should have said that I've met few girls that I would actually consider to be LTR material. I'm not so naive as to actually believe that there's such a thing as "the One", but it's fair to say that there aren't a lot of girls out there who check all of my boxes. If all I cared about was pussy it would be easier but I do have higher standards than that.
/r/askMRP09/03/17 07:26 PM
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I do stronglifts 5x5 a couple of times a week, but I'd rather fuck the side girl or spend time with my wife & kids than work out so my progress has slowed over the past few months. I have a small frame so a little muscle goes a long way. Probably at ~15% BF right now with defined pecs, tapered torso, nice butt. I dress well and have a high status job. I've been told I'm hot/cute/good looking often enough to have internalized it, so I don't give a shit what you think. I'd do just fine if my wife …
/r/askMRP09/03/17 02:35 PM
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This is fantastic feedback, thank you all. I have a lot of reading and processing to do, but I definitely need to man the fuck up no matter which path I choose. I'm still too passive aggressive and need to get over that and start leading more consistently. I'm also going to look into counselling for myself to help sort out some of my own shit. Things are greatly complicated by the fact that the side girl might actually be a better match for me than my wife. As I mentioned I've been cheating for …
/r/askMRP08/03/17 10:20 PM
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Thanks for the dose of reality, I need a little of that. I am not shitting where I eat. She lives close to where I work and we both have flexible schedules that allow us to meet up during the day. I also have a side gig and personal interests that make it easy for me to carve out time from work or time I would otherwise spend with friends. I'm home almost every night after work and spend most of my time on weekends taking care of one or both children or doing household chores. Before I started c…
/r/askMRP07/03/17 10:46 PM
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