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3

Perhaps I’m just lucky but my girlfriend loves it when I’m open and vulnerable with her. It’s only made us closer and more attracted to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 04:57 PM
1

It seems perfectly reasonable to want to date someone who has good emotional regulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 04:55 PM
3

Any college bar
/r/seduction26/02/25 05:16 AM
2

Well that makes sense doesn’t it?
/r/seduction18/02/25 05:34 AM
2

I find it funny how it seems the tallest guys wanna date the shorter women and vice versa. Like as a shorter guy I prefer to date women who are just a few inches shorter. I feel like that would still be my preference if I was 5’10”.
/r/seduction17/02/25 07:44 AM
2

Idk why you assume she was hitting on you? Some people are very extroverted and like asking people random questions for the fun of it.
/r/seduction11/02/25 05:38 AM
2

Being agreeable and asking leading questions.
/r/seduction03/02/25 11:35 PM
1

Seattle does suck for those reasons. But it still has beautiful women. And the ones you do actually get know are way more down to earth and chill than women in other cities.
/r/seduction29/01/25 07:31 AM
14

Tempe, AZ
/r/seduction28/01/25 02:01 AM
1

Yea that’s what I wish the sub focused on more. It doesn’t seem to care much about maintaining a long term relationship.
/r/seduction27/01/25 05:57 AM
1

Yea it actually pays to be honest
/r/seduction27/01/25 05:56 AM
10

Exactly. Following OPs advice too strictly will cause you too miss out on a genuine relationship. I met my current girlfriend via 1-night-stand but we very quickly connected on a deeper emotional level. So I didn’t hold back my feelings for her. If I did what OP said we wouldn’t be together now.
/r/seduction27/01/25 05:56 AM
2

Yea most people exaggerate that shit. It’s more like a 5/10 guy will be dating a 7/10 woman.
/r/seduction23/01/25 06:48 PM
163

400 approaches with 0 phone numbers…bro.
/r/seduction23/01/25 08:23 AM
4

Download every dating app. Add your best photos with very minimal info in your profile. Just enough to coney you have a sense of humor and that you have a job/stable life. Swipe right on everyone. Start with flirting and escalate, ask them out for a drink.
/r/seduction10/01/25 11:49 PM
1

With practice but what if you’re wasting time practicing the wrong thing that doesn’t help at all
/r/seduction03/01/25 09:51 AM
2

No because if the woman cares about height they’ll figure out you’re lying and why would they want to date a short liar? And if the woman doesn’t care about height, then you also shouldn’t lie obviously because no one likes liars. There’s no benefit to lying about a physical characteristic. Also, for women who truly are height obsessed, 5’8” is still “too short” for them anyways (they want a guy 5’10”+, ideally 6’+). I say all of this as a 5’6” man who’s met many beautiful women that don’t care …
/r/seduction03/01/25 08:33 AM
5

The culture in Seattle is much more insular and if you don’t fit in you just won’t do well there.
/r/seduction28/12/24 02:02 AM
33

Because their options are more limited and they also have more self confidence
/r/seduction24/12/24 12:01 AM
3

Well then you need to recalibrate how hard you’re teasing her. And some women do just get offended more easily or don’t respond to it well.
/r/seduction22/12/24 02:00 AM
42

Women in general don’t take the apps as seriously. Many of them don’t have notifications on and will only check it when they’re bored. So it’s just a sheer whim if they choose to reply to you over the dozens of other messages they have waiting.
/r/seduction16/12/24 10:04 PM
3

4/10 but probably some of the best sex and head I’ve gotten ever.
/r/seduction06/12/24 01:34 AM
10

Yes weed helps me relax but it also kills my motivation to go out of my comfort zone.
/r/seduction04/12/24 09:01 AM
7

I was mostly kidding I’ve been there too. No judgment.
/r/seduction02/12/24 08:13 PM
20

In a way you’re part of the problem lol
/r/seduction02/12/24 07:36 PM
3

Well it certainly does matters somewhat. I’ve noticed way more success and attention from women after I started going to the gym consistently and lifting heavy. My personality didn’t change much between before and after.
/r/seduction29/11/24 07:00 AM
-2

I bet they’re 6ft
/r/seduction25/11/24 10:18 AM
7

I feel like I need porn to prevent me from getting desperate and hooking with someone I’m not attracted to you. It’s happened many times. I’ll be horny and just meet up with whoever matches me on tinder and go for a quick hook up. I’d rather masturbate then have sex with someone ugly and then regret it.
/r/seduction07/11/24 09:16 PM
4

Not all of us having trouble making friends. I have plenty of great friends. I frankly don’t want/need anymore because I’m very happy with the social circle I have. I want a partner.
/r/seduction05/11/24 07:45 AM
2

Just keep saying words. You’ll make some mistakes but that’s the only way to learn. The key thing is just say whatever is on your mind in that moment. If it helps, pretend you’re like an annoying 10 year old boy with ADHD. Then dial back it as you get into the flow of things.
/r/seduction04/11/24 12:22 AM
6

Waiting to do it on her birthday is a bad idea. Just ask her out now. Birthdays are a time of celebration and focus will be on her. It’s probably the worst time to ask her out on a date. She’ll be getting loads of attention from all sorts of people that day. You won’t stand out.
/r/seduction03/11/24 01:57 AM
-2

The comment was made before yours
/r/seduction01/11/24 09:04 PM
0

Top comment literally has an example
/r/seduction01/11/24 08:53 PM
2

Well how do you relax without alcohol?
/r/seduction01/11/24 08:53 PM
84

This is a great post and something I’ve been struggling with recently. I’ve noticed that I wait too long to approach girls and then I feel like the “moment” is gone.
/r/seduction29/10/24 05:52 AM
4

You’re better off not spending anymore time thinking about this. There can be fifty different reasons why she unmatched and most of them don’t have any logical reasoning. Humans are weird and unpredictable.
/r/seduction22/10/24 11:37 PM
3

Insoles are overkill. Just wear shoes that make you a bit taller because they naturally have some height to them.
/r/seduction21/10/24 04:03 AM
1

Bro how did you not get hammered ordering a drink every 30 minutes?
/r/seduction14/10/24 04:09 AM
2

Imo most guys in “the friend zone” aren’t even friends with the girl.
/r/seduction11/10/24 08:35 PM
128

This won’t work if the girl is 5’6” or taller though. I’m also 5’6”. It’s pretty obvious I’m not 5’10”.
/r/seduction10/10/24 01:41 AM
4

I’ve been listening to bodybuilder content recently but Dr. Mike Israetel actually gives pretty good advice for men and dating in general.
/r/seduction30/09/24 05:50 PM
16

I’m extremely lonely This attitude right here is what is hurting you. You need to learn how to be comfortable hanging out by yourself and do things for fun for your own enjoyment. Easier said than done I know, but you’re the only person who can fix this. Therapy, self-help books, journaling, meditation - whatever it takes.
/r/seduction29/09/24 08:17 PM
8

Less is more. You already got her number. No need to fuck it up with saying something dumb.
/r/seduction18/09/24 08:44 PM
15

Irl is still superior to dating apps regardless.
/r/seduction16/09/24 06:57 AM
3

Well of course. Anyone who has kids that young suffers some stunted mental growth.
/r/seduction11/09/24 05:01 AM
3

I’d say I’m average but max out what my strengths are. I’m short (5’6”) and have a small frame but I workout frequently, eat healthy, have a good beard, get haircuts regularly, and dress well. So I am very fit and look well put together. I also make a decent amount of money so that’s never issue which definitely turns on women. Also being very confident and having a good sense of humor makes me more attractive.
/r/seduction07/09/24 04:55 AM
4

Because a big part of attraction is the build-up, anticipation, uncertainty, etc.
/r/seduction04/09/24 08:08 PM
13

Male model and 6’4” and you think women find you ugly? What lol
/r/seduction02/09/24 08:24 PM
10

But not always. Isn’t a good way to flirt with a woman is to tell her all the things you’d like to do to her in bed?
/r/seduction02/09/24 08:17 PM
1

The kids thing is non-negotiable. You’re only going to resent her in a few years because there is a real time limit on when it’s possible to have children.
/r/seduction30/08/24 07:36 PM
1

I agree with what you’re saying and can sort of relate (though my longest relationship was “only” 5 years). But you’ve basically concluded that no women of any age bracket is worth dating?
/r/seduction30/08/24 07:35 PM
1

How are you meeting them? Online or irl?
/r/seduction28/08/24 10:54 PM
8

You should meet up but don’t treat it like a date (don’t pay for stuff). Still flirt with her and have a good time. She probably just wants to see how you’d interact.
/r/seduction28/08/24 07:46 AM
1

Fr it kills the whole vibe
/r/seduction24/08/24 09:31 PM
2

After it’s established that she is interested but just not available at the moment - I taper off the texting, wait a couple weeks and reach out again. As a general rule though if she’s down then she would make time.
/r/seduction22/08/24 04:20 AM
2

Try doing the “opposite” of what you think is the right move. Basically just do the “throw shit at the wall and see what sticks” approach. You’ll be surprised by the results. Be careful of course lol.
/r/seduction08/08/24 08:53 PM
1

No don’t message her so you have no chance of ever seeing her?
/r/seduction28/07/24 04:52 PM
5

Women who are naturally touchy are way more chill about it. They know what they’re doing and how it comes off. Just be honest but not creepy match their energy and see how far it goes.
/r/seduction27/07/24 05:28 PM
2

Nah I’ve never done that.
/r/seduction25/07/24 08:15 AM
3

You don’t have to be dominant. Just be funny and tease them. I’m a nerdy quiet guy and goth chicks seem to be into me because of that.
/r/seduction25/07/24 08:06 AM
5

I don’t. It’s not gonna work out if she can’t laugh at my dumb jokes.
/r/seduction25/07/24 07:58 AM
12

Do you know any bars that have goth night or emo night? Or go to see a local metal/punk/goth band.
/r/seduction25/07/24 07:52 AM
3

Try alternating between an alcoholic drink and a nonalcoholic one each time you get another drink. Your brain will still be satisfied with the “drinking” action but you won’t get nearly as drunk. I suggest just drinking soda water with lime.
/r/seduction23/07/24 07:40 PM
1

Yea it’s basically looking for a Goldilocks ratio of being inhibited enough not be nervous but also not make a fool of yourself.
/r/seduction18/07/24 10:18 AM
3

6’3”? Wow must be tough.
/r/seduction11/07/24 10:40 AM
2

It’s an objective fact that’s dating life on easy mode
/r/seduction11/07/24 10:40 AM
2

Wish I knew, same thing happened to me. There’s a girl I used to work with who would constantly flirt with me and mention all the time we should hang out. Literally every single time I set something up she either cancels the day of or just ghosts me. But then a few days later she acts like nothing happened and starts flirting again. I don’t bother talking to her at all now, such a headache.
/r/seduction27/06/24 10:06 AM
1

Not all women care about “strength” in the physical sense. They’re attracted to our masculine energy that gives off strength through our actions and decisions. Confidence basically. You can show off your strengths in other ways. Keep trying and putting yourself out there. You’re already doing way better than most guys I can tell.
/r/seduction19/06/24 11:24 AM
9

It’s not an American thing. It’s just a video game term that means “random event”.
/r/seduction17/06/24 12:32 PM
0

There’s an rng elements but you still have a lot of influence over what you can control. It’s a lot more like gambling.
/r/seduction17/06/24 12:31 PM
1

Living in one the biggest cities in the country does make it a lot easier. Having lived in both big cities and smaller ones, I can tell you that dating apps are absolute waste of time if you’re not in a big city.
/r/seduction07/06/24 06:47 AM
1

Wouldn’t be surprised if she ghosts you sadly
/r/seduction07/06/24 06:25 AM
6

This is great advice and is applicable to a lot of situations.
/r/seduction06/06/24 11:14 AM
-1

It doesn’t have be feel exhausting. It’s your life you’re in control. Do whatever you want that makes you comfortable
/r/seduction28/05/24 08:34 AM
1

Night game is pretty brutal when going solo.
/r/seduction26/05/24 06:39 AM
1

OP listened to Stacy’s Mom and thought it was real
/r/seduction21/05/24 06:16 AM
61

Yea this is some bait lol
/r/seduction19/05/24 02:36 AM
16

Post it.
/r/seduction19/05/24 02:36 AM
1

Chat up other dudes that look cool, hopefully they can introduce you to some women. Of course don’t come off too strong like you’re just using them for that.
/r/seduction14/05/24 03:37 AM
1

Sometimes nothing “goes wrong”. They just weren’t that into you.
/r/seduction13/05/24 04:59 AM
7

It’s not bullshit lots of men have gone through this
/r/seduction12/05/24 07:36 AM
3

I feel like I’m going down a similar path. I already have similar issues. I’ve turned down sex from women which would have shocked my younger self. I no longer have the “drive”. I’m considering going celibate for a year to reset myself.
/r/seduction12/05/24 07:36 AM
1

Does she drink alcohol? Because religious Muslims don’t.
/r/seduction08/05/24 08:12 PM
2

Damn wish I thought of this I was literally there last week. Tbh I’m struggling with approaching European girls in general. I feel so out of my element. I’m in Amsterdam now.
/r/seduction04/05/24 12:36 AM
10

It’s sort of a chicken or egg thing.
/r/seduction03/05/24 01:45 PM
1

Same here but I wish I was better with women irl. Every relationship I’ve had with someone a met on tinder didn’t mats because it felt inauthentic. My most successful and longest relationships have all been with women I knew in person.
/r/seduction02/05/24 06:35 PM
1

Longer commute is a huge downside. Not just for hookups but in general. Closer is better when you’re in college. Just be communicating with your roommate.
/r/seduction29/04/24 10:47 PM
4

I’d say at least one but no more than four.
/r/seduction25/04/24 07:33 PM
2

Yea man! Just make sure you do research on how to groom it properly.
/r/seduction23/04/24 07:47 AM
6

If you haven’t tried it out just go for it. For me I definitely look way better with a beard - and have been complemented by multiple women for it. And many of them told they have find beards very sexy and attractive. However, there are some women who very much prefer the clean shaven look. So it just depends on a lot factors lol. Do whatever you feel the most confident as.
/r/seduction23/04/24 05:24 AM
8

I feel like a beginner would struggle way more in a foreign country and not really learn anything.
/r/seduction22/04/24 06:40 AM
1

Ideally you make plans for a second date during the first one
/r/seduction21/04/24 07:36 PM
2

What are you afraid of exactly? And what about this indicates she’s promiscuous?
/r/seduction17/04/24 04:09 AM
2

You’ll have to find events outside of it that have women. Like dance classes.
/r/seduction16/04/24 03:50 AM
3

You make a good point. And I was on the losing end of that environment when I was in college. I’d be friends with dudes who pulled hot chicks all the time and there wasn’t much left for me. But you still need to try as hard as you can.
/r/seduction15/04/24 12:54 PM
62

How much are you really trying? Do you talk to at least one woman on campus every day? Do you go to social events where other women are? It’s a numbers game. You should also be trying to hang out with your friends who are getting laid. Just the proximity will help you. I’m sure all their hookups have friends too.
/r/seduction15/04/24 09:01 AM
1

This song lives rent free in my head
/r/seduction14/04/24 11:23 AM
2

Man it blows my mind seeing super attractive woman wearing full makeup and a gorgeous outfit with a man wearing jeans and a hoodie.
/r/seduction14/04/24 08:22 AM
1

It’s less about your looks and more about your vibe
/r/seduction13/04/24 01:53 PM
1

Unironically going to therapy can help you with this. If that’s not an option look up CBT courses online.
/r/seduction13/04/24 08:09 AM
5

Talk less
/r/seduction12/04/24 07:02 AM
1

What’s even your motive here
/r/seduction09/04/24 09:58 AM
8

Move on. She’ll come back to you if she’s interested
/r/seduction07/04/24 11:57 AM
1

Idk where this was but it’s pretty normal in the USA.
/r/seduction06/04/24 12:31 PM
8

So at a moment of disinterest you just give up? You say you don’t wanna simp, but she’s a hot single lady like why is gonna devote all her attention to you? What do you have to offer? And you guys aren’t dating. There’s no disrespect with flirting with multiple people in one night.
/r/seduction06/04/24 10:54 AM
1

GooseWayneTV
/r/seduction05/04/24 12:14 AM
1

There’s this guy on YouTube who does Omegle pranks and he has a lazy eye and manages to get the hottest girls
/r/seduction04/04/24 08:48 PM
1

Yea definitely. I’d be wary of any woman who would be down to fuck a stranger without even meeting them first.
/r/seduction04/04/24 04:10 AM
2

So like a FWB? Or just a booty call? Either way, the girl will want to get to know you a bit; see that you know how to have fun and treat her right.
/r/seduction03/04/24 10:20 AM
6

Tbf incels don’t even approach women at least OP is trying
/r/seduction02/04/24 07:45 AM
3

Try holding his hand and see how he reacts
/r/seduction02/04/24 07:31 AM
0

They do sound different. But it’s hard to know what they mean within their respective culture unless you know so personally.
/r/seduction01/04/24 01:25 PM
39

That’s like asking yourself why should you get 8 hours of sleep a night and drink plenty of water
/r/seduction31/03/24 03:17 PM
1

Have a wank
/r/seduction28/03/24 03:16 PM
1

That’s something she decides based off how attractive you are to her. There’s no magic phrase you can tell her that will convince her to. It requires a lot of work like having a well curated ig page with high quality photos with lots of likes and followers.
/r/seduction26/03/24 06:35 AM
3

It’s true. There’s a reason why so many people meet their spouses at work or school.
/r/seduction25/03/24 05:47 AM
2

That’s the issue. Low risk = low reward. Approaching women irl is medium/high risk with a high reward.
/r/seduction25/03/24 05:47 AM
3

It should be something you shrug off and laugh about with your boys.
/r/seduction25/03/24 05:46 AM
27

Non-verbal communication is a huge part of building attraction. Women may only match with 8s, 9s & 10s on dating apps - but are way more willing to take a chance on 6 out of 10 dude because of his presence and charisma. That kind of attraction can only be only be felt in person. It’s also way more powerful and natural.
/r/seduction25/03/24 05:45 AM
1

They’re definitely out there. But you won’t find them at the bars or clubs.
/r/seduction25/03/24 01:35 AM
-2

What’s the difference?
/r/seduction21/03/24 05:57 PM
5

How do you use ig to pick up girls?
/r/seduction21/03/24 06:25 AM
1

Better to reach out sooner rather than later. There’s nothing wrong with texting the next day. In fact it shows that you’re actually interested and didn’t just see her a quick lay.
/r/seduction19/03/24 03:27 AM
4

Outdoor clubs and other meet up groups. The main goal should be to have fun and make friends though, and then you’ll naturally meet women that way.
/r/seduction18/03/24 10:27 PM
-1

It gets kinda creepy though to be hitting on drunk women while you’re completely sober
/r/seduction18/03/24 10:26 PM
1

This inevitably happens when you chase sex and not quality women.
/r/seduction18/03/24 09:32 AM
1

Hey I’m right there with you I’m 5’7”. Don’t blame your mom, blame your dad for marrying a shorty 😂 In all seriousness you just gotta get over it. There’s nothin we can do to change our height. We gotta live our lives to the fullest with the hands we were dealt. Being tall make it easier to get laid, but being short (and tbh you’re 5’8” which still means you’re taller/same height than/as 90% of women) isn’t a death sentence. Obviously short dudes are getting married and having kids otherwise we …
/r/seduction18/03/24 05:08 AM
1

It gives you a huge advantage that’s undeniable
/r/seduction18/03/24 04:53 AM
19

Everyone is attracted to good looks in all aspects of life
/r/seduction17/03/24 11:25 PM
5

Great way to meet alcoholics yea
/r/seduction17/03/24 10:30 AM
1

Keep it simple with enough substance to generate interest. So things like your job, your hobbies, passions, your culture. But keep it at 3 sentences max.
/r/seduction14/03/24 12:10 PM
1

No definitely not. It just means “meet up at a location”
/r/seduction14/03/24 11:01 AM
5

Dating apps. Social media. Cultural attitudes.
/r/seduction14/03/24 04:40 AM
4

Tbf the book is over a decade old. So much has changed in the dating world.
/r/seduction14/03/24 03:32 AM
91

This is literally the Virgin/Chad meme lol It’s more of a spectrum where certain guys are overall a #1 or a #2 but not completely. I do think there’s more 1s-leaning men out there though. But even 1 can get a gf/wife if she likes that kind of behavior which is genuinely how some women are. Edit: I meant 1 not 2
/r/seduction12/03/24 05:27 PM
1

Depends on what you mean by day game. Because stuff like signing up for clubs or other co-Ed activities could count as a day game. And those can be a great avenue for meeting women without having to depend on alcohol.
/r/seduction10/03/24 07:47 AM
149

Wallowing in self-loathing isn’t gonna help you get laid. Nor is it attractive. Women can smell it a mile away. Focus on what you CAN change about your situation. What are you best attributes?
/r/seduction10/03/24 01:05 AM
2

Porque no los dos?
/r/seduction10/03/24 12:07 AM
1

Yea if you see a Latina baddie you can impress with them your rudimentary Spanish lol
/r/seduction10/03/24 12:06 AM
1

I meant meeting people in person to pick up dates/flirt/ask out.
/r/seduction08/03/24 08:45 AM
1

Yes but you should spend the majority of your time and energy on in-person dating. Like 80/20. Problem is most guys now will do the opposite.
/r/seduction08/03/24 06:39 AM
4

You need to establish as early as possible that you want to pursue a romantic/sexual relationship with the person. And flirting is how you do that. But you can’t wait too long. You need to flirt early one to set the tone and expectations. This is how guys get “friend zoned”. They wait too long to flirt (or not at all) so the woman stops seeing them as a romantic/sexual person and they’re just another friend.
/r/seduction07/03/24 04:20 PM
4

The idea is that you need to establish as early as possible that you want to pursue a romantic/sexual relationship with the person. And flirting is how you do that. But you can’t wait too long. You need to flirt early one to set the tone and expectations. This is how guys get “friend zoned”. They wait too long to flirt (or not at all) so the woman stops seeing them as a romantic/sexual person and they’re just another friend.
/r/seduction07/03/24 04:17 PM
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