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I really have an issue with the expression "best version of themselves". It is not best. In most cases the changes won't make the person better (or worse). You will have more muscles, better clothes, a better haircut, but that doesn't mean you will be better or worse than the person you were before. To me the expression is more the "most marketable version of themselves".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:29 AM
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I disagree with you. I am not saying that looking for a relationship is super easy for every woman. And I have some compassion for everyone struggling with dating as long as they are putting some efforts and don't have crazy expectations. Some women and men are really struggling to find a partner, some people (especially women) are used for sex by manipulative assholes (usually men), some people (mostly men) cannot find anyone wanting to date them... All of these people deserve compassion. Yet, …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:10 AM
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Come on. Not every guy is just looking for sex. Many are, but many are looking for a relationship too. I have been one of the guy looking for a relationship online. Dating was extremely difficult, even with a good curated profile. But yes, I am not hot and will never be, so for most women I don't count. So I did a break and I asked my stats before quitting Bumble: less than 2% of the women swiped right on me. Less than 2%! And you know the worst. 2% is the average number of right swipes men rece…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:57 AM
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That is a good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:45 PM
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What I can tell you is that the friends of mine who DO have casual sex have brought some pretty unattractive mofos home from the bar. I 100% believe you on this. Some unattractive guys get some casual sex sometimes. I had some too... but it happened 5 times in more than 10 years being single. But when we are going out with my friends, the men of our group who frequently get some casual hook-ups are very limited. It is the same who don't have issues with dating apps, receive unsolicited nudes on …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:44 PM
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I partly agree and partly disagree with you. Yes women have to deal with more guys just wanting sex... and some are lying and manipulative assholes. But nonetheless, I guess women have it easier for relationships. As a tall but average looking guy, you don't know how many times I heard a date saying that I was a great guy but my date was not feeling the spark. A few even said that I was everything they were looking for as a guy (except on the physical side apparently). I dated once a woman durin…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:31 PM
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Your friends are probably better looking than you, Some probably are, some others, well I hope not. It is funny, I spend more time in haircare (yes shaving takes time too) and grooming than some of the girls, I am going sports several hours per week and have to wear nice shirts for my job. But I am a tall but skinny guy with an asymmetrical face... overall my Photofeeler ratings are around 5/10 Women are not putting as much value in casual sex because it is easily available. But some women are s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:02 PM
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Your point is 100% legitimate. What I want is a committed, emotionally satisfying relationship with a man I'm attracted to and respect. But just to make you remark one thing: your partner has to be attracted to you in relationship as well. But that is less of an issue for women for what I heard. For me, an average guy in my 30s, finding a woman who is physically into me is the most difficult thing in dating or relationship. I already started a relationship mostly because a woman was into me (I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:33 PM
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It is actually the opposite. I am not frustrated because of attractive women. They are attractive, they have tons of options. But a couple of my female friends are not especially physically attractive, some are really not attractive at all. Yet all of them has a much easier dating life than me. For hook-ups and for relationships. None of them would like to have the dating life of an average guy. I had a date last year with a woman who wasn't conventionally attractive (she had some slight facial …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:02 PM
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What is a decent physique? I never had issue to talk with women. I had a few years in my life in which most of my friends were women. But that doesn't make them want to be intimate with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:42 PM
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Don’t be unhealthy and obese, that’s literally all. That is not complete. I was on the other end. Really slim, 6 feet tall, BMI of 18,5. That wasn't unhealthy, I was running a lot but I wasn't strong... believe me, women who found me physically attractive were rare
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:38 PM
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Maybe by overly muscular guys. But if you prefer men who don't have muscles, you are in the clear minority. https://royalsocietypublishing.org/doi/10.1098/rspb.2017.1819 " For each female rater, we computed the correlation between her ratings of the men's attractiveness and the men's actual physical strength (as measured in the original studies, table 1). These correlations were examined to see if any women in our samples showed a significant preference for weaker men. They did not. None of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:32 PM
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Actually a speed dating study I read was saying that the man's height was having a marginal effect on the chance that the woman had to want to meet the man again. The fa tors for men to be chosen were: - facial attractiveness (0.49) - body attractiveness (0.33) - sociosexuality (0.24) - openness (0.2) - height (0.17) - education (0.16) - shyness (-0.15) - bmi (-0.13) - income (0.13)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:25 PM
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That is partly true. I am an average guy and I have 2 types of outfit: the normal ones aka discreet. I am introverted, I don't want to be seen (and I have been assaulted in the street several times when I was younger and I definitely prefer to be invisible and discreet when I am not in a safe environment). the more fancy ones: i wear it when I am in a safe environment (my job, in some safe cities...) or when I have to look good (dates, special events...). I have to say that I received quite some…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:33 PM
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These stats are shocking!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:59 PM
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33M here, I consider myself average or slightly below average on looks. I was single during 10 years and I had 3 ONS and 2 FWB during a few months. So my experience is that I could meet a woman for something casual every 2 years (and I let you imagine than a ONS every 2 years is frustrating)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:58 PM
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