dadu83 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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-1	Women In Their 50's Blame Men For Their 10+ Years of Celibacy Are you suggesting that if a person gets married in say, China, and then gets divorced in the US, then the US court cannot demand that alimony, etc. be paid?	/r/TheRedPill	23/10/15 02:17 PM
3	Tinder , Okc and Online dating - favoring girls ? There is a definite element of racial prejudice and it is beyond your control. However, this phenomenon is more prevalent in smaller towns as opposed to larger cities. Certain geographies also are unfavorable to men (e.g., Bay Area). Also, online dating is a numbers game so you gotta keep trying. Although I met my current (American) gf via Tinder, I was also very active in the real world and would recommend pursuing all available channels to meet women. The thing is: you anyway wouldn't want to …	/r/seduction	03/06/15 09:32 PM
9	My woman of one year wrote me a love letter. Very positive, very good... very telling. I have work to do. How exactly does one build excitement? My go-to is to do spontaneous stuff...like an impulse vacation on a long weekend or similar. But how does someone like OP who is a full-time dad manage to pull off something like that? I guess he could if he took the kids along (or maybe he finds a sitter for the weekend)? I am clueless about family life!	/r/TheRedPill	22/01/15 06:24 PM
6	The Friend Zone, A Reality check, wake up! This 'article' is terribly written with many grammatical errors and other inaccuracies. Also is just rehash of everything that's been said before; nothing new or original here.	/r/seduction	09/12/14 06:11 PM
1	First date: what to do, how to handle a LJBF response Why do you care to communicate that you are single and/or had any relationships? My reading of the RP material and forum posts suggests that women get turned on by knowing that the guy has already had past relationships, likes to fuck women, and so on. A form of pre-selection, I would infer. Further, now that I think of it, I believe that was my opener before seguing into sexually charged talk. If I would be confronted with LJBF I would thank her for her time and wish her all the best for her fu…	/r/askTRP	15/05/14 06:33 PM
1	Dating a virgin... 21 y.o. virgin female in the UK? Did you find her under a stone? I find it hard to believe. Anyways, you need to build her comfort and trust levels. You should start by bringing her over to your place; you can either do this by saying "Let's pre-game at my place at 6 pm before going out for drinks" or if you're confident enough that she will agree then you can offer to cook her dinner. I prefer the former since it is less threatening and gives her a chance to assess you. Then, of course, y'all g…	/r/askTRP	12/05/14 04:02 PM
1	Because this keeps coming up - sex on the first date. This is a good post and it's exactly where I am right now. Met this chick at a social networking event while on a business trip and set up a date with her. Did all the things I've been reading about such as going to multiple places (met for a drink at a bar, then dinner followed by a nightcap at a third place), kino, talking about sexual stuff, etc. While at the third place, which, incidentally was that bar at a hotel that I was staying at, I suggested we should go up to my room. It was slightly…	/r/seduction	08/05/14 06:50 PM
1	Beginner (at everything here), and looking to improve You should qualify and quantify what is meant by a "grating" personality. Ask your friends to be more specific: do you come across as needy? whiny? emotionally insecure? or just a plain-old jackass? Start hitting the gym if you can and couple that with healthier eating to promote weight loss and muscle buildup. I've never been overweight or fat, except for a mild beer belly. Nevertheless, for the longest time I kidded myself into thinking that the right woman will love me for what I am instead o…	/r/askTRP	07/05/14 06:25 PM
2	How to escalate/force decision to put out or get out? You need to figure out how to give her an orgasm without getting her panties off. Once you do that, I can't see how she can resist the D. I'd suggest some oral with panties on followed by stimulation over panties using a sex toy. Some sort of vibrator or massager will do the trick. Once she has that orgasm, just push the panties to the side or slip them off and put it in.	/r/askTRP	01/05/14 04:27 PM
2	Creating a social circle in a new town. Depends on the size of the town and the nature of the industry that you're in. I've lived as an expat in several cities and so have often had to move to new cities and start anew. Start with making friends with co-workers. They'll help you show town around. Be hospitable. Invite your new friends for dinner / drinks / a bbq and so on. Volunteer. Meet new people that way. The bar scene is always there but try to go during the early afternoon when people will look at you less threateningly.	/r/askTRP	30/04/14 06:53 PM
5	Give some advice to a virgin. Bang a few ugly girls so I can get some experience or just keep trying with good looking ones? The former. Get experience. Get over the nervousness. Once sex becomes 'just a thing' like eating or shitting, you'll be more comfortable and confident. That confidence will help you pull in better poon. All the best.	/r/askTRP	11/04/14 05:45 PM
4	How to get out of this relationship TRP way Some of the replies here have suggested that you vamoose without paying your debt. Personally, for me, that is a dishonorable thing to do. Folks have also suggested that if the roles were reversed, she would walk out on you without repaying and that is possibly entirely true but then again, honor and loyalty are qualities that only men really understand and strive to achieve. Now, you've put yourself in a sorry position and let me spell this out to you: *You are to blame for this sorry state of …	/r/askTRP	09/04/14 07:48 PM
1	This girl is trying to friendzone me, or awkwardly connect. your thoughts? Assuming that you have your own place my advice would be to invite her over to your place. If you feel she's as inexperienced as you say then something during the day might be easier to pull off as it is non-threatening (and if things go really well, who doesn't like a little afternoon delight?). If you're an above average cook, then maybe even cook something for her and y'all can 'watch a movie'. I'd make some moves during the movie and judge how it proceeds. The most important thing here I fee…	/r/askTRP	08/04/14 07:12 PM
3	Where did I go wrong? Heartfelt thanks to all those who've responded with tips and advice. To summarize the responses, this is what I've understood: a) Should have been casual/insouciant when asked if all I wanted to do was fuck. A non-sexual response or even something sexual but not blatant would have busted the Anti-Slut-Defense and I'd have made it. b) Should've played the 'fetch me a drink' test a little better. A little unsure what the best response would've been but as /u/mercuryg pointed out, I was a little to…	/r/askTRP	08/04/14 03:05 AM