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I know a 10/10 the blew her brains out at 36. Living life on easy mode has tradeoffs. When any challenges come up later in life, it is absolutely devastating to them since they never built a way to deal with how unfair life really can be.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/23 01:13 AM
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This, 100%. Modern women broke the social contract and men have walked away in the past 10-20 years and formed RP to deal with a completely unregulated SMP. Women need to remember that not too long ago, men were mostly out there getting a career, finding someone to marry and having kids. Then...birth control, Roe v Wade, no fault divorce, #metoo, online dating, etc. Women are increasingly recognizing they cannot just lay it all on the men while they walk around with this level of authority. Acco…
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/22 07:11 AM
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Please ladies, give up the fantasy of being even past a BMI of 25 is all that great ever. It only seems that way because women are nearly obese on average. Anyways, here is my take with before ans after pics to show just how much it matters to lose the weight: Warning: Male comment. BMI is huge. Lets take some actual before and after case studies as examples: https://www.reddit.com/r/intermittentfasting/comments/lfndql/posted_face_gains_yesterday_you_guys_gave_me_the/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_…
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/22 07:17 AM
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Good, ladies sort of forget they actually need to be driving towards that. The ladies being talked about in that video have spent too much time having "fun" and forgot to handle business.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/22 04:27 AM
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Way more money doesn't mean much. A guy even making $100k could get tired of paying >$800/month in outings (4 nights × $70 × 4 weeks). That is nearly 10% of gross pay at that point, not a small amount. Unless this dude is making way above that, the math says it is a lot. Cut the outings down to Friday night and the weekend. Cook some amazing meals the other nights. Try to pick up the incidentals along the way, like snacks, maybe some entry fees, etc. to even things out. Another thing I find odd …
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/22 02:46 AM
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Men have been so shamed about this emotion, even a mathematical genius has requested chemical castration to not offend the gynocracy: https://www.theatlantic.com/politics/archive/2015/01/the-blog-comment-that-achieved-an-internet-miracle/384539/ Original comment here: https://scottaaronson.blog/?p=2091#comment-326664 Yes, that is supposedly a smart person...
/r/ExRedPill15/05/22 08:04 AM
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Gym: https://twitter.com/SpeQx/status/1525126088539705345/photo/1 No Gym: https://twitter.com/Rich_Cooper/status/1525121824044068864/photo/1 See comment here for more motivational before and afters: https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/s4fico/weight_smv/hsqrn1m/?context=3
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/22 04:40 PM
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Good point. I met a female LMFT (Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist) who seemed to think we need only discuss feelings. I had to inform her, a lot of times both people should get a full physical and probably hit the gym first and see how things might change... Not something I've ever seen relationship therapists ever suggest. Men are primed to respond to you physically, they cannot control it. Your physicality is a proxy for your fertility and signals to them to invest. They can get some "wi…
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/22 05:17 PM
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In the anglosphere, it is just normal to degrade, criticize and judge men endlessly, then ask for tons of commitment on top of it. A guy merely having a preference is annoying. https://thefederalistpapers.org/us/woman-realizes-that-shes-been-accidentally-abusing-her-husband-this-whole-time
/r/ExRedPill10/05/22 04:19 PM
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This happens to guys, except they rarely get to access such great quality in terms of women sexually and it takes a lot longer. At some point a guy goes out and just pays for the goods out right and he is not quite the same after. Seen older guys warn the younger of this effect.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/22 11:13 PM
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The average woman is obese in many parts of the anglosphere, and the majority are overweight. It is not surprising he wouldn't be attracted to older women with those odds. If women kept themselves more in shape, likely the attraction level would be far higher even for older women.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/22 04:08 PM
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Thanks for the good review. This does correlate well with the anecdotal experiences I come across.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/22 04:01 PM
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That is what I meant by male and female. Men are under the assumption they willl feel better and it won't affect them to have a lot of partners. It does have a negative effect from what the number show.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/22 01:11 PM
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I'm gonna inject some data here that just shows body count is generally bad (male and female): https://ifstudies.org/blog/counterintuitive-trends-in-the-link-between-premarital-sex-and-marital-stability https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2018/10/sexual-partners-and-marital-happiness/573493/ A mental test I give some female friends is: "Did you ever do anything sexually in the past you would not do with your possible husband?" If they don't answer or change the subject, it may highlight w…
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/22 09:27 PM
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A common situation is when a woman will ask a guy to say pick say a rug at the store. He picks the cool zebra rug and the woman then speaks with implication: "Why would you pick that rug?" like with an attitude/snark. Guys can take attitude, but if it is constant, then it can get annoying and if it is over a personal criticism, then it may be taken more seriously. Most women are on auto-pilot and don't even realize they are constantly belittling their SO: https://thefederalistpapers.org/us/woman…
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/22 01:11 AM
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Writing is going to seem far more negative than in person. So try to bring criticism in person, maybe after bringing a healthy sandwich. If you are in the Anglosphere, be aware that men are bombarded with messages to man down, get in touch with their feelings and do whatever makes them happy (eat whatever, do whatever, it'll all work out in the end, etc.). There has basically been a 60 year war on masculinity. So be prepared for a battle as you try to tell him to essentially "man up" in our age …
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/22 08:30 PM
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I strongly suggest immediately employing intermittent fasting. I have compiled some before and after pics so people can see how much of a difference it makes and how even the biggest women can dramatically become hot: https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/s4fico/weight_smv/hsqrn1m/?context=3 Beyond looks, losing the weight is going to keep you functional into old age, keep the doctor bills down and of course the biggest thing will be just be better daily mental health: https://www.youtu…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/22 08:54 PM
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Here is one woman's take: https://notesfromaredpillgirl.com/2016/09/29/a-pre-feminism-tale/ But all decisions in life involve tradeoffs, man or woman. If you are aware of those tradeoffs, can accept the odds and timeline, then you may be able to play your cards in life to your advantage. Far better than ladies who just passively assume it will suddenly come together and find out time goes on without them: https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2008/03/marry-him/306651/ The career you are g…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/22 05:26 PM
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Another person's happiness is not your responsibility. When you love someone, you accept them and form some sense of duty to them for sure, not unconditionally. You have a lot of empathy and undestanding towards them and are no longer a fair weather fan.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/22 08:09 AM
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The book goes beyond even objective factors. Really gets into emotional factors that women impose that sabotage themselves. I also recommend Roosh's "Lady" to anyone under 30, but since you claim RPW, I think you can handle the content. But it likely overlaps with a ton of what you now know.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/22 05:42 AM
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This brings another point about why the book is a good read: It will stabilize your long term relationship. Many women devalue their partner over time (unintentionally) and start thinking the grass is greener elsewhere. When they throw the divorce in and hit the dating market again, they may have fun at first but quickly realize they might have had a far better deal then they thought and the dating market in later years is far more competitive then they could have imagined, they didn't realize t…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/22 03:49 AM
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She thought she had reasonable expectations of men and just had "good tastes" as she says in the book. But the whole book really confirms RP theory, hard not to laugh a few times as she simply comes to terms with gender dynamics, the wall, men's and women's primes, etc. She completes her epiphany phase too late as Rollo predicts. The term Alpha even gets thrown around in the book by the match maker. He must have been reading RP stuff from the early days. What is interesting is Gottlieb's book is…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/22 03:02 AM
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Here is a thing I got from the book: Gottlieb didn't think her standards were all that high either, but when she hired a match maker, he had to give her a reality check. Gottlieb also lived in a HCOL area (NY City). It is a useful account I recommend to many friends.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/22 10:03 PM
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Read Lori Gottlieb's "The Case for Settling for Mr. Goodenough" to see if you made some similar errors to her. At 30, considering the current low quality of women in the west, you are still in a fairly recoverable situation.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/22 09:42 PM
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I've heard it also referred to as the Golden Uterus Syndrome: https://shrink4men.com/2011/05/17/does-your-wife-or-ex-wife-have-a-golden-uterus-complex-15-characteristics-of-the-golden-uterus/
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/22 01:04 AM
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It is like someone intentionally made our society a gynocentric social order, with no accountability (#metoo, birth control, later term abortion), no fault divorce, endless entitlements (WIC, welfare, obamacare, alimony, etc.) and infinite sympathy (#believeallwomen) from the media just to see what might happen... A sign one is dealing with a degenerate Victimom™ is their kid's first set of teeth will require tons of dental work from the constant stream of processed food and lack of attention to…
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/22 10:59 PM
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This has been covered by the NRx community, basically the political/historical component of the red pill: https://radishmag.wordpress.com/2013/09/27/fair-sex/
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/22 09:46 PM
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I'll let this income graph in Figure 1 explain part of PP: https://www.stlouisfed.org/publications/regional-economist/october-2011/worth-your-weight-reexamining-the-link-between-obesity-and-wages
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/22 04:58 AM
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They were not getting the results they wanted with a BP mindset they did not know they had.. The RP mindset made more sense with their observations. The RP mindset produced results. RP is not a moral system. It is just empirical data compiled into a theory. They dove a little further into the subject and found that men in RP were far more approachable, likely had similar long term goals, etc. They changed their minds and are helping spread RP to other women. RP is going mainstream, but one canno…
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 10:04 PM
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Side bar and maybe start with some essays that lay out the gynocentric social order you will have to unplug from: • Understand that you’ve been conditioned to feel that men and any opinion they have are irrelevant to your being. Men should serve you and be thankful you gave them the opportunity to do so. • Understand that this social order is predicated on the female experience superseding, and being more legitimate, than the male experience. • Understand that Hypergamy and your innate self-inte…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/22 08:26 PM
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Wait until you lose the weight to date at all. Also, women commonly pull the weight loss thing before dumping a guy, it is a hamster move. Just leave now if that is your actual plan. Some reasons from my experience with the ladies: Dating will interrupt your fitness and diet routine negatively. Those dates with meals add up. If you use online dating then the cheap, unearned validation from swipes will kill your motivation. Fat logic will kick in. You will get into some kind of drama. Things migh…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/22 09:10 PM
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Many are pregnant, have kids or are married/engages in that list. Not mere thots on the market...
/r/ExRedPill10/02/22 08:14 AM
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By applying the subscriber metric, you are supporting my point even more. Mz. Cat Lady has <1k subscribers, but all but one RP lady I shared has well over 1k subscribers. It is growing as I can tell because people are looking for answers that make sense with their experience. Blue Pill is losing because it cannot reconcile the measureable results against the emotional framing it continues to promote. Birth rates at an all time low, marriage rates at all time low, sexlessnes rising, even femcels …
/r/ExRedPill10/02/22 08:03 AM
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One issue is that a lot of these women are in actual relationships, married, have kids and are relatively fit. Seems like they have skin in the game and live by what they preach. Let's compare this to Feminist Cat Lady Spinster: https://youtube.com/c/FeministCatLadySpinster This seems to be the female counter point that comes up on my youtube rabbit hole and it just does not impress at all.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/22 07:41 AM
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Is the fact women keep joining RP a sign of femcels too? https://youtube.com/c/RealFemSapien https://youtube.com/c/Torshaa https://youtube.com/channel/UCyR3jMVUgZadX9dHjuKFuMQ https://youtube.com/c/RebeccaBarrett https://youtube.com/c/KendraDLive https://youtube.com/channel/UC1c9f-E22EuRhA9y7wkZMKA https://youtube.com/c/BernadineBluntly https://youtube.com/c/TheFeminineTruth https://youtube.com/c/ChantelleSimone
/r/ExRedPill10/02/22 02:58 AM
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I just saw a statistic that lesbo videos are the top search for women in general for porn. So might not be a big deal.
/r/RedPillWives29/01/22 08:52 PM
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Some more support for your ideas: Sex and Culture by Unwin Unwin's study of 80 native cultures and 6 civilizations led him to conclude that the operant factor behind the cultural decay of a society is largely due to the loosening of sexual conventions and the lessening of monogamous relationships. He purports that through stricter sexual conventions such as abstinence, nations channel their sexual energy into aggressive expansion, conquering "less energetic" countries, as well as into art, scien…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/22 06:27 PM
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Warning: Pseudo-intellectual Evopsych Ideas I think this can also be related back to the genetic functions of men (single X chromosome) evolutionarily and why all their traits are on a far broader bell curve than women's; Environmental Fitness Testing Specialization Within Societies If every woman always mated with the most specialized (polygamy), strongest, most pathological men in society, a large civilization could not be created since all the big thinkers would not be blowing all their time …
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/22 04:42 AM
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We've barely advanced beyond the ancient Greeks: Yes, Zeus made this the greatest pain of all: Woman. If she seems to want to help that's when she does her keeper the most harm. A man who's with a woman can't get through a single day without a troubled mind. He'll never banish Hunger from his house: unwelcome, hateful lodger, hostile god. Just when a man seems most content at home and ready for enjoyment, by the grace of god or man, that's when she'll pick a fight, her battle-helmet flashing, fu…
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/22 11:16 PM
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Yeah, it just shows for the most part people eat too much and too often. Fairly easy fix for men and women.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/22 01:44 PM
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Standards from surveys I have read over time: Women: BMI 20, 20% body fat Men: BMI 25-26, 12-15% body fat In either case, only 5% or less of people ever achieve those numbers. To provide some perspective: For example, only 5% of men are even below 17% body fat, which when you take into account the high BMI is actually very hard to maintain yet a lot of women would consider it a typical physique on men in media and maybe even online dating ironically. Likely without much muscle definition. Marily…
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/22 01:38 PM
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Warning: Male comment. BMI is huge. Lets take some actual before and after case studies as examples: https://www.reddit.com/r/intermittentfasting/comments/lfndql/posted_face_gains_yesterday_you_guys_gave_me_the/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share https://www.reddit.com/r/intermittentfasting/comments/c7tw00/52_sw_135lbsish_to_116lbs_in_4_months/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share https://www.reddit.com/r/intermittentfasting/comments/muugfx/we_dont_have_a_full_length_mirror_at_home_so/?u…
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/22 08:29 AM
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Someone had the same idea: http://www.realfemsapien.com/
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/22 11:20 PM
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If a woman got her BMI down to 20 with 20% body fat, I'd be surprised if she was still unattractive in a physical SMV sense. Assuming that she has achieved the 20/20 gold standard and is still fugly, she could date older men who are more willing to take her on since their options are a lot worse among their peers. A woman can work on her feminine qualities, like cooking, being a great sexual partner (hit the gym), promoting her loyal qualities by dressing well and being agreeable, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/22 11:56 PM
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This is likely overly optimistic: As women become more red pill aware and put some limits on their hypergamy, the situation may relax. Women will search for compatible partners instead of trying to get the biggest, best alpha at all times. They may also stop dropping their husbands to get back on the CC every time they want some new tingles. Guys may then consider stopping going full MGTOW or being serial monogamists. For now, women will unconsciously act like M. P. and further make men defensiv…
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/22 11:48 PM
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It is entirely possible they have an arrangement. I've seen it with older couples that effectively have dead bedrooms. I've seen extreme cases on reddit of men getting permission to just have a sex doll in the house to get off on. Yeah...don't assume anything about a couple's finances or bedroom situation. My advice: Ask your bf if their parents are doing alright together and just say you were concerned since you heard the tinder noises. But beyond that, you could get drawn into a drama triangle…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/21 12:24 AM
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Yup. Hair and fitness will completely transform a woman into man bait. Here is someone age 42, she could compete with college students for attention: https://www.reddit.com/r/intermittentfasting/comments/r92nsv/before_pic_was_not_even_my_highest_been_walking/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/21 01:52 AM
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Yes exactly. We all know the "new toys" at the party. The joke is more on the lady then the guy. We just hope the guy's new toy is not gonna create drama at the party once she hits the bar. It happens...
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/21 03:43 AM
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This is an important point to gaining commitment. A woman sort of represents the more personal side of her mate. If they are argumentative, dress bad, look dumpy, etc. it is not a confidence builder for sure after those work events. From what I see, guys do selectively leave certain wives out of work events. I'm not gonna get into the patterns, but it is obvious who stays home and why.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/21 08:38 PM
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In the current era, women on average are so bad that even a divorced single post-wall mom who hits the gym, learns to talk to men with out SIGN language, shit tests, etc and just pays attention to the quality of sex is going to actually do far better than say a divorced woman decades ago. It isn't that hard to stand out when the competition is barely trying these days. Edit to include example of how dramatically just diet will change things: https://www.reddit.com/r/intermittentfasting/comments/…
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/21 06:29 PM
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Old but gold now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/11/21 12:02 AM
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You are right on that. Repressed feelings of inferiority is more accurate.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/11/21 02:30 AM
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They can become self-aware, but it usually takes a lot longer: https://www.elle.com/life-love/sex-relationships/advice/a10010/failure-to-launch-when-beauty-fades-323090/ https://www.bolde.com/ive-gotten-blown-off-men-much-lately-im-literally-questioning-everything/
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/21 05:46 PM
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She is uppity. Women will laugh at, or imprison a man trading his ability and resources for sex. But when women do the reverse, they want forgiveness later. However, just like the John, their value in some way has been diminished to the opposite sex. There is no going back. She is just having trouble accepting that she went down two pegs in value.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/21 03:19 AM
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Well start doing the math and create a game plan: https://igotstandardsbro.com/
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/21 12:10 AM
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Kill the hamster before it kills your relationship. Because you have broken those boundaries so thoroughly, they will be weaker the next time they are challenged. This is something you will have to consciously acknowledge and take precautions to avoid a big hypergamous flare up. Statistics show a second marriage is even less successful than a first marriage. For some women, this just spirals into non-stop monkey branching until they are too old to continue: https://www.elle.com/life-love/sex-rel…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/21 11:14 PM
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These "the dating scene is garbage" type posts should start by OP's posting their stats: height, weight, age. They do this in marriedRP. Basically to ensure the dude is not a lazy POS and the source of his own problems. Anyways, girls playing this game are making it obvious they want attention, and usually have high SMV. But long term they will not secure a stable relationship. Beyond the bedroom, the guy is going to tire of that attitude real fast. Better to use the honey and take it to where s…
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/21 01:49 AM
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If you want to start with basic american meals, The Food Lab by J. Kenji is a very good start. Every detail down to the degree and minute for a lot of meals, even salads.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/21 07:28 AM
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Age, height, weight of bother partners. Too high a BMI will cut into attraction, etc. What is the stress level? Like balls to the wall busy until bed time? Lots of arguing? Regular sleep for the guy? Diet? Drinking, drugs, too many carbs?
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/21 11:50 PM
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Intermittent fasting, check it out.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/21 03:52 PM
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I really like MarriedRP's pattern of posting OP's stats (height, weight, age, etc.) before their wall of text... Men get more emotional supply from thinner women. It is not something they can control. Other factors can be valued also such as loyalty and cooperation, but you can't get around the fact thinner means healthier, younger, more fertile and therefore more valuable at some primal level. Men have their rational side and can mitigate that feeling, especially if they know they are lower SMV…
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/21 07:56 AM
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I have learned that the therapy/counseling field is populated with an unusual amount of personality disordered, highly neurotic and dogmatic folks who have trouble organizing their own lives. I've encountered many obtaining degrees in psychology and licenses who have had some serious psychiatric episodes, mental breakdowns or involved in toxic situations. They seem to be attracted to these industries after being exposed to them during their own treatment. Possible weed out question would be: "Wh…
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/21 06:38 PM
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Age 23, still plenty of time. But it may take 6 months of physical work, reading, nun mode and accepting the red pill to be ready for today's brutal dating world where men see marriage as beta loser finishes last. You can still snag a guy with some optimism if you are prepared. After 30, then hard mode begins. 35+ is extreme mode. Physical Upgrades: Intermittent Fasting, weight training with PPL, aim for sub 25 BMI. Take before pics in 4 positions and record initial weight and post on the bathro…
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/21 06:44 AM
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This is one of those "Let's put feelz before realz" type requests. Don't do that here. There is plenty of that out in the blue pill echo chambers. Weight beyond a certain point will negatively affect anyone's SMV and RMV. Just accept that. If people posted their BMI here first thing before writing the rest of their posts, the correlation to dating, relationship and marriage difficulties would correlated very well. An inability to regulate one's fitness will unfortunately translate into other are…
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/21 07:17 PM
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The level of denial is extreme on the looks, weight and attitude areas. I think women are often too invested in these pretty lies to face reality. It would be too depressing.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/21 03:04 PM
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Trolling and sincere requests are hard to differentiate anymore. It is that ridiculous out there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/21 11:18 PM
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Each gender has a natural drive to maximize their sexual imperative. At some point a person just learns to be mature and control that drive for the greater good. Takes more frontal lobe power that hopefully was not destroyed in one's early 20's on drinking binges and casual sex.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/21 11:44 PM
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Go to BPDLovedones and Shrink4Men to gain understanding.
/r/ExRedPill28/08/21 10:25 PM
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It is not an ideology. It is a praxeology. The RP knowledge/theory is used for what purposes people want. Nihilistic, hedonistic motives dominate currently. But remember there are or were sites dedicated to a more meaningful way to deal with RP reality, see Dalrock and current RooshV. Also, many RP guys are married. One can use the theory of evolution to create deadly viruses or breed weiner dogs. RP theory is just the best theory of gender dynamics, it is not a moral stance or ideology. RP piss…
/r/ExRedPill24/08/21 05:45 AM
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When women are competing in the hamster Olympics (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fHji4P2B5sM) it is a better use of time to take on the nihilistic, hedonistic aspects of red pill rather then attempt to counteract them with uh, constructive principles (https://dalrock.wordpress.com/, https://www.rooshv.com/can-single-people-become-mature). Red Pill or Blue Pill, a guy can be taken to the cleaners because the hamster ain't happy. There are no consequences. Men are just reacting and taking Red Pil…
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/21 07:25 AM
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Beware that men's testosterone decreases ~20% after a year in a committed relationship. Roosh also warns of this in his book "Lady". You could take steps to help ensure he sleeps well, works out, low alcohol intake, good food etc, which coukd help.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/21 05:40 AM
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I've heard he was even harder on men as a consultant and there is probably video of it, so I think he is consistent. Just seems like he is destroying their delusions (as well as men's), not necessarily the women themselves. I think if they went to him and were interested in finding a guy appropriate for their level of attractiveness and baggage he likely would not be so offensive sounding. This is red meat for the most part to get people watching, it may just get old and evolve into something el…
/r/ExRedPill13/08/21 10:34 PM
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Yes. This is about maintaining boundaries. It could contribute to weaker boundaries later and make it harder to maintain an LTR.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/21 02:00 PM
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This is basically a crab bucket. The article is presenting this as a major win, when in fact it is a dire warning to other women. At 34, it took her 3 years, 138 dates, a career that allowed her to interact with driven men and a somewhat attractive physique to land a marriage. Average woman, take this as an extreme warning...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/21 05:48 AM
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Very important post. All guys need to read up on Cluster B stuff. A basic, accessible primer is the Shrink4Men.com website. Tons of first hand accounts, traits, abuse tactics, etc. Educating oneself helps to avoid investing more than a night in bed with these ladies and avoids the possible smear campaigns that come with them.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/21 07:47 PM
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Rollo Tomassi has some videos about being Captain Save a Hoe. May want to check out that music video, fun stuff.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/21 10:13 PM
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This is basically going to become the norm. Kevin Samuels is riding this wave all the way to the bank.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/21 03:25 AM
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https://igotstandardsbro.com/
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/21 06:30 PM
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When your RP'd this is dead obvious. For her BP'd mind , it is all a mystery....something must be wrong with these menz. 😏
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/21 11:59 PM
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You're BMI is ~34, medically obese. But there is definite potential and at 5'2", if you lose the weight, you've got a lot of taller males to choose from than say your 5'7" lady who'd like to wear long heels with their man. Don't date. Find a diet/meal plan and hit the gym. The dating scene will become demoralizing and suck up time to work on the issue. Immediately take a before picture (in several stances) and get to work and reading up. Cut living costs if possible (roommate) and get a personal…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/21 09:20 PM
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This really hits some major points of MGTOW hard without even criticizing the opposite 20 genders. Good stuff.
/r/MGTOW29/07/21 05:57 AM
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May be a prosocial psychopath? https://neurocritic.blogspot.com/2013/11/confessions-of-prosocial-psychopath.html
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/21 01:46 AM
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There are a lot more reasons for MGTOW than sex and relationships. Calling that a root cause is very naive. The anti-man legal system, misandrist environment, lack of suitable women to have anything beyond a sexual encounter with, volatile and litigious economic environment and sometimes a man's own limited means can all contribute MGTOW. Those are just some factors.
/r/MGTOW26/07/21 04:36 PM
2

Check out the sub raisedbynarcissists, might be useful.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/21 06:57 AM
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I agree, after 30, and especially after 35, MGTOW essentially becomes the more rational position to be in due to lack of options and the increasing cost of being involved with a female versus just doing what you want to do and getting a guaranteed ROI.
/r/MGTOW16/07/21 09:22 PM
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Epiphany Phase: Completed Panic Mode: Activated
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/07/21 05:33 PM
2

r/marriedredpill ?
/r/MGTOW14/07/21 08:44 PM
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Consider the average American female is like 170 lbs at 5'4" (I don't know what country you are from, so using USA as example). I don't think even being past age 25 will put you that far down in terms of attractiveness as long as you keep your figure, don't get nasty tattoos, piercings or a big attitude. You should be able to attract quality attention from men in their prime easily into your early 30's. The competition is just not that steep when the average female is practically obese and has a…
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/21 05:41 PM
2

Unplugging a dude directly can be dangerous. Look into Shrink4Men.com and see if anything may resonate with that situation. The coverage of the Cluster B behavioral patterns may at least get him moving in a productive direction. Full on MGTOW/TRP content may be too much for someone still fully BP'd.
/r/MGTOW29/06/21 06:00 PM
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Seems like some sort of pathological push-pull situation. Bail.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/21 02:36 PM
6

I remember Roosh said not to bang Denmark, makes sense 🤔
/r/MGTOW19/06/21 05:47 PM
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Where is that?
/r/MGTOW19/06/21 04:58 PM
1

Totally agree. The game has become far harder as the acceptable options have just shrunk in America. Even dolls are beating the real thing out in Austria: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4810660/Austrian-brothel-buys-SECOND-sex-doll-high-demand.html
/r/askTRP18/06/21 05:39 PM
2

Hypergamy can never be satisfied, a woman will always want more or feel things could have been better and not just in the sense of a male companion, but in general. However, I think both genders can sort of get stuck in a more general "hedonic treadmill" problem where they just adapt to whatever they have and want more. The word "enough" is probably the most useful word a person can understand to combat this pattern of thought. As Chris Rock said: "I've never met a happy woman in my life."
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/21 03:49 PM
1

This is similar to catching "Fleas" when dealing with a pathological person. The abused eventually adopts various traits of the abuser. By the time people come to check out the situation, one can hardly tell who is playing what role. See r/BPDLovedOnes sub for more info.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/21 10:16 PM
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Bonus post from NFARPG blog on this topic. I like the term "Fitness Testing to Destruction": https://notesfromaredpillgirl.com/2017/07/22/dont-be-that-woman/
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/21 10:09 PM
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Be glad you saw this issue now and not after 12 years in your own relationship: https://thefederalistpapers.org/us/woman-realizes-that-shes-been-accidentally-abusing-her-husband-this-whole-time?fbclid=IwAR2MyCPvcKh4DDufCKGqELMArgcUcYykXdSIf-faM5DrV6Df2-3bING1VzQ I find this subreddit to be a small glimmer of hope women might become acutely aware of their behaviors and throttle them for better.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/21 03:46 AM
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I usually share this article as possible check on whether someone needs to chill on the nagging/shit testing, etc. https://thefederalistpapers.org/us/woman-realizes-that-shes-been-accidentally-abusing-her-husband-this-whole-time?fbclid=IwAR2MyCPvcKh4DDufCKGqELMArgcUcYykXdSIf-faM5DrV6Df2-3bING1VzQ There are no specifics in your post, just comes off as completely emotional reasoning, beware the hamster....
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/21 04:46 PM
1

Reality continues to exist whether they want to believe it or not.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 06:26 AM
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Did some googling came across an old article about him: New law stops injustice of paying alimony forever (2013): Jeanie, who was divorced in New York after a 23-year marriage, was told she would get only three years of maintenance. While married to me in Massachusetts, she was forced to contribute income to supplement my payments to my ex-wife, or I would go to jail. She took on a second job.
/r/MGTOW08/06/21 11:45 PM
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The Wokestanian reddit ban war continues. Chair Person Ellen Pao approves.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/21 06:00 AM
2

bwahahahaha
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/21 12:04 AM
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Women, especially in the U.S., seriously underestimate the weight issue these days. But yeah, the guy's T levels and body fat% should be checked also. A guy loses a serious amount of testosterone once in a committed relationship and with today's lifestyles, it could be made far worse. Best to keep the weight down in general, once in your 50's, diabetes, non-alcoholic fatty liver disease and messed up joints will come to take out what is left of your sex life at that point. And the body is not go…
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/21 09:05 PM
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You just saved yourself a lot of headaches. Deal with your hormone issues by unplugging from the media as much as possible. Avoid porn/erotica and try not to watch too much TV which leaves all kinds of suggestions. Sublimate the urges with fitness and discipline. Whack off as you must but not become dependent on it. Get used to dealing with women as women. A big mistake guys make is going to work, school, etc. and thinking the ladies will take a joke, criticism or be accountable like a guy. Wome…
/r/MGTOW03/06/21 08:50 PM
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At least you are aware of this wide spread propensity right now, it took this woman 12 years to realize she was essentially abusing her husband and most never even wake up to it: https://thefederalistpapers.org/us/woman-realizes-that-shes-been-accidentally-abusing-her-husband-this-whole-time?fbclid=IwAR2MyCPvcKh4DDufCKGqELMArgcUcYykXdSIf-faM5DrV6Df2-3bING1VzQ
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/21 10:12 PM
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Considering that men face like a 95%+ rejection rate, turning them down is a drop in the ocean of rejection the average man experiences. Just be polite and don't assume it even affected their day.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/21 04:12 PM
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Need to just tell her to stop talking to these dudes, because it's still your turn, let them about when you're done. lulz
/r/MGTOW21/05/21 10:25 PM
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Women are saturated with attention online these days, so any game you throw is a drop in the ocean often times. A majority of women are overweight (70-80%) in America for example, so there are just not as many motivating prospects just walking around in public. One must lower their standards far more than 20-30 years ago when fat shaming was ok. Women have adopted irrational lists of things they want. For a Chad they want they will throw it out for sure. But in general it still means a ton of re…
/r/askTRP21/05/21 05:40 PM
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Cluster B should be mandatory reading. I feel like a broken record repeating BPDLovedOnes sub and Shrink4Men.com, but really it would totally save men a ton of time and grief. Perfect compliment to TRP. I have noticed I have become a total ice man around women and see a lot of their behavior as instinctive manipulation for time, attention and resources.
/r/MGTOW20/05/21 07:12 AM
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Thanks for the info from the ground level there. The headlines I've come across show some suppression of rap music and other areas of development Russia. Not as hardcore as China by far, but that was the impression I got that there was at least some action against wokeism's spread. Could be our media blowing things out of proportion.
/r/MGTOW19/05/21 02:22 PM
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I think China and Russia are learning from the results out here...they are eerily proactive in suppressing certain egalitarian developments. China is playing the long game.
/r/MGTOW19/05/21 06:24 AM
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I agree, there seems to be some type of plan. I am not as plugged into L.A. politics, just skim headlines and notices this increasing rapidly. We will likely hear more from our Latino brothers soon and may get a better understanding of who is pulling the strings.
/r/MGTOW19/05/21 04:52 AM
2

This is interesting. I didn't realize it would do that. I remember RooshV wrote awhile back in eastern europe or Russia, women were basically doing OMAD style IF (although not intentionally, it was just their habit there). I do know that going sub 20 BMI seems to cause menstrual issues, especially at 18 or below low BMI can cause infertility.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/21 05:12 PM
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I didn't say no carb. Just in the western world apparently restricting carb intake to major meals and less refined sources is practically considered low carb for many. Pasta and bread are likely alright in more practical portions, but personally I noticed less indigestion when people minimized these and substituted rice, corn and potatoes. I lost count of the obese vegetarians who don't understand their morning frappucino with pastry, lunch time pasta salad with sugary soda, large dinner and lit…
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/21 08:40 AM
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These are very good starts to unplugging and getting your mind clear. Some suggestions: Start removing refined sugar and flour (sodas, juices, snacks, pasta, etc.) and possibly employ intermittent fasting for more consistent insulin levels. Learn calistenics to have basic body weight exercises for strength and balanced muscles and employ some cardio. Most seem to report better digestive, more regular sleep, less back pain and less foggy headedness during the day. It can take awhile to unplug fro…
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/21 05:24 AM
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Those "weight loss" journeys rarely pan out. Might want to take a look at the intermittent fasting sub and see the before and after. In some cases, they do get their SMV back, but I think after 30, the residual effects of an extreme weight gain will always be there, like sagging skin, drooping face, etc.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 02:42 AM
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Agree, calistenics is a necessary tool everyone should master. Won't always have a gym available.
/r/MGTOW12/05/21 06:08 AM
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They could, but they won't bring to the table: Sexuality, loyalty and cooperation.
/r/MGTOW10/05/21 03:44 AM
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Don't talk about fight club... It will be like all the projections in "Inception" coming after you, they don't want their reality disturbed and will defend their own self-destruction. Just go Grey Man, Ice Guy, etc. At best you can be Socratic and allow them to explain themselves and let them trip over their inconsistencies without getting into your beliefs.
/r/MGTOW08/05/21 07:53 PM
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Women unknowingly condition themselves physically and mentally in their 20's to be attracted to certain kinds of men, especially the more they went through. This goes deeper than even alpha widow. It is like the guys with death grip syndrome, but mental.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/05/21 11:23 PM
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This is important. I think newly RP'd dudes really think Alpha types are getting sincere love and don't have anything to worry about. They are dealing with the same crap. They just have more access to it and can buffer it out with status, money or game. But nothing is enough for hypergamy.
/r/MGTOW07/05/21 01:54 PM
1

There is feminism outside the jungle, best to stay there.
/r/MGTOW05/05/21 02:36 PM
1

Save a lot of money. Go to some jungle. Marry a jungle princess. Stay in the jungle. Raise your jungle family.
/r/MGTOW05/05/21 07:30 AM
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The hamsterizations are just incredible.
/r/MGTOW05/05/21 07:26 AM
2

I didn't want to link... Is Bill Gates LVM?
/r/MGTOW05/05/21 06:58 AM
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Agree. When a guy shows up to FDS and they are debating how Bill Gates is a LVM, he can only conclude RP must be on to something...
/r/MGTOW04/05/21 09:27 PM
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I've been contemplating using the term "cliff" for what is going to happen in another 4-5 years time as FDS marches en masse toward some ill defined goal...they really have no end game.
/r/MGTOW04/05/21 09:26 PM
1

😂
/r/MGTOW04/05/21 01:54 PM
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Go to shrink4men.com and bpdlovedones sub and educate yourself thoroughly.
/r/MGTOW04/05/21 01:39 PM
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Second that. Do some time on Shrink4Men and the BPDLovedOnes sidebar and understand that cluster b stuff well, it will save your life.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 03:40 AM
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We really need to construct a flow diagram of how femlogik works so dudes understand there is no resolution is possible. I saw one for borderline personality disorder that was pretty good awhile back. SIGN language is practically a standard term now.
/r/MGTOW04/05/21 02:28 AM
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If you are scoring an HB7 rating already, you likely don't even need OLD at this age. Basically just go to meetups or places where the quality men are and see who says hello. If you go in prepared with a BMI < 25, correct clothing, some interesting things to say about yourself and approachable vibe, should not be a problem. Maybe just find out where the medical students drinking hole or study area is and snag them early?
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/21 07:51 PM
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You will want to dress with a feminine vibe (skirts, dresses, natural hair colors, etc.) that is not outright advertising the goods (i.e. yoga pants, super small shorts, crop top, etc.). Women have taken reading their intentions to super human levels, like practically requiring telepathy. Wisely dressing and proper IOI's will help to attract the correct attention. You can put your photos on photofeeler and get feed back. Put effort into them and test the waters there and see how you may be perce…
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/21 07:12 PM
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Read RooshV's book "Lady." Brutal, but would be helpful in your case for some basic girl game and how to vet men for LTR. I also recommend Lori Gottlieb's "Marry Him" in order to understand how picky one can become and how it may sabotage good prospects. Definitely some basics in there for making the most of a first date. At your age, physical state and temperament, you should not have much trouble attracting men whom you are also attracted to physically. You also don't seem like one of those tr…
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/21 05:37 PM
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MGTOW is not political or even partisan. There are plenty of criticisms thrown at libtards and cuckservatives. They are the same femtard garbage trying to extract time, money and resources from men in a rigged system. Just one political side that caters to a certain gender is butthurt and will throw everything and the kitchen sink at this sub to make themselves a priority and not the butt of jokes that contain hate facts....
/r/MGTOW03/05/21 04:32 AM
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The Misandry Bubble was covered 10+ years ago, the consequences are just now becoming highly visible. Men have adapted, become knowledgeable about the rigged system and are unplugging. I think the Manosphere may have reached some kind of critical mass now, even high schoolers are using the terminology from what I have read elsewhere. The next phase will likely involve normalizing sperm donor single mothers and celebrating them as heroes while finding ways to subsidize them.
/r/MGTOW02/05/21 07:51 AM
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I call this the "Iatrogenesis Strategy." Basically give them (or more commonly they self-administer) the tasty poison they think is the cure. It is sort of like when they are attracted to pathological liars promising fried ice. Also like when certain demographics vote (D) and wonder why they live in a crap hole decades later...
/r/MGTOW01/05/21 06:47 PM
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Agree and this behavior without checks and balances has some negative consequence even for the female: https://www.amazon.com/Marry-Him-Case-Settling-Enough/dp/045123216X The book is an incredible autobiography of what is going to happen even to succesful, attractive women in the next 4-5 years in the west as they become unbearable and convince themselves all men are trash.
/r/MGTOW01/05/21 05:37 PM
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Here is a good example of one woman transformed from loyal gf to an instathot: https://twitter.com/stillgray/status/1386794105594736641 That bf was giving his gf a pretty good life and he got dumped like trash. I see this even with married friends, they get dumped and have literally done nothing wrong besides give their overweight, rude, princesses a boring, comfy, predictable life? What is the female end game? To be 60 yo and still getting wined and dined? I mean what are they getting out of ac…
/r/MGTOW01/05/21 05:27 PM
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This is definitely a sign they are still delusional. Once they are on r/IntermittentFasting, r/fitness, r/nutrition, etc. they will have realized they were screwed years ago.
/r/MGTOW29/04/21 04:48 PM
1

The post seems close to trolling... Guys are actively looking in the 25-30 year age range for wifey material well into their 40's. Would say it's easier to nail a guy in his prime in this age range actually. Keep hitting the gym, skip the donuts, find where the men are, don't be sad, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/21 06:57 PM
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Don't feed the hamsters.
/r/MGTOW28/04/21 03:00 AM
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Some advice from a guy that has seen BFF's steal each other's men: Beware of hen sessions where women complain about their men. For the most part a guy will maintain his monogamy and some guys may actively maintain their boundaries with women by not getting involved in activities where temptation may inevitably occur (hanging out at bars alone, activities that may expose them to more single women, social media, etc.) or just keeping busy with their projects. Considering the majority of the popul…
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/21 06:18 PM
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Not sure this is really relevant here dude. Could be construed as trolling IMO. Ask the hapas subreddit, I'm sure they'll give you some interesting responses...lmao.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/21 12:49 AM
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Although I do agree MGTOWs eventually transcend what seems to be our staged political theatre, it is not political and hardly a well defined movement itself. It is an idea that causes men to unplug from extractive systems in general, whether they be our faux politics or rigged gender relations. So it can be hard to generalize with such a meme. But I do feel this meme myself. Like I am watching some pointless fight. As Rollo's show on Feminism observed, both sides (tradcons and liberals) are stil…
/r/MGTOW26/04/21 07:40 AM
5

See realworlddivorce.com for a primer.
/r/MGTOW26/04/21 06:34 AM
2

Men exiting the BS femcentric extractive system in general these days.
/r/MGTOW25/04/21 11:04 PM
2

RP should have at least shrink4men in the sidebar to allow that knowledge to spread. Would help those situations. But there is definitely a stigma to applying those terms by non-professionals.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 04:31 PM
1

You will have to force yourself to do meetups and get used to interacting with people you don't know well. I broke my introvertedness by having a regular drinking hole. However, try a trendy cafe and get to know the help and regulars without alcohol. You will find people are generally willing to make small talk and it will give you practice on reading people. Try to even make small talk with cashiers at the supermarket. There are opportunities to improve everywhere. Have something non work/schoo…
/r/askTRP24/04/21 09:09 AM
1

36 and killing it. Avoided the flab and potbelly so far. Got a late start at gym, but really turned it around by diving deep on the subject.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 08:56 AM
1

My basics are weights, meat protein and fats (test is part of cholesterol pathway, need fats, etc.), multi-vitamin with zinc and avoiding grains and refined sugar. Also keep the alcohol low, get sleep and keep the stress level low. That should help. At my age I am well built compared to others and have noticed these have led me to much higher strength and energy. Good luck.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 08:53 AM
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I am guessing you are in your 20's, common issue. Look at your diet and try to make it leaner. Pack on the meat, especially beef. And of course weight train/calistenics. Sleep well and cut down on substances. Basically try to stimulate testosterone and tissue growth. You should see nice results in 6 months. Considering many american indians were running 6-7' tall on a 90% meat diet and stacked (pre-indian gaming casinos) I trust low carb and high meat and avoid pasta now.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 08:42 AM
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Peak Hypergamy vs Manosphere Critical Mass? Bwuhahaha, this was inevitable. The misandry bubble must pop.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/21 07:27 AM
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Less than a year. I had already been weight training the previous year, but employed it to keep some basic fitness as gyms closed. I did not lose much weight on my bench 255 lbs down to 235 lbs when I got back in. Necessary as I traveled for work. So it kept me fairly fit, but not transformative. Biggest thing is doing bridges to strengthen my back, really removed upper back pain. They are the hardest exercise I do, read "Convict Conditioning" to learn more. If I took it more seriously, perhaps …
/r/askTRP24/04/21 07:24 AM
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Agree with above. Body weight calistenics is very overlooked and is nice for getting at those little stabilizer muscles. I throw sets in at work, plenty of spots for even pull ups.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 06:47 AM
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Cluster B is an epidemic. It is creepy how much of RP observations about female behavior overlap with the literature, just different labels. BPD/NPD should really be concepts learned as early as possible to not only deal with women but toxic people in general. Check BPDLovedOnes and Shrink4Men for plenty of case studies and examples.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 06:42 AM
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Women with their incessant talking really provide the best content to illustrate our points. It is really that ironic. Replicantphish and Casual Bachelor on youtube are making some money just commenting on female generated nonsense about men and dating. And they are hilarious to watch, highly recommend that Kate Bolick piece Replicantphish did.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 09:48 PM
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It is not uncommon for a woman to be delusional well into the 35-40 yo range given the Sex and The City timeline they internalized and the 30-something comedies they watched. The media profits from feeding their hamsterizations pretty little lies to keep them from the painful collapse of their egos. The better looking and higher achieving they were as a 20-something, the more delusional they will be as a 30-something. Some choice essays by/on women who have hit the wall, completed the epiphany p…
/r/askTRP23/04/21 08:40 PM
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LMFAO...
/r/MGTOW21/04/21 03:26 PM
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Agree, this looks like lovebombing. Watch out for narcissistic or borderline personality disorder. Relationships always start with a bang in those cases.
/r/MGTOW21/04/21 03:02 PM
2

Yeah, agree. It is one reason why I call FemaleDatingStrategy (FDS) a free zoo of RP behavior. Like every post puts the hamstering on display and one could clearly label all the RP behaviors. It is a field trip after studying up RP, lulz. Even anti-RP subs like exredpill are doing some extreme mental gymnastics to disprove concepts that seem readily apparent. Again, free advertising there also. I do not like that RP is presented as some dating strategy itself. It is a basic theory that fits the …
/r/MGTOW21/04/21 07:48 AM
5

Learn dollar origami and how to do a rubik's cube. Good little convo starters I can pull out anywhere.
/r/MGTOW19/04/21 03:34 AM
2

I've been following the media pumping up this narrative. Do you by any chance have some links of O'Keefe digging this up and also the link to the guy admitting it was not an asian hate crime. Trying to convince people of what is going on in my own life. It is hard, the tech overlords make sure this stuff is buried.
/r/MGTOW16/04/21 05:47 PM
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Read my mind. Encountered plenty of 3's that think their 7's. Their self-ratings are irrelevant. Should be standard to just put their BMI right in the post. Would clear up the confusion fast.
/r/MGTOW16/04/21 05:38 PM
1

Start reading realworlddivorce.com for your appropriate state if you are American. Maybe start downsizing?
/r/MGTOW16/04/21 05:36 PM
2

You can't just unplug people. They got deep ego investments. You will get a Cypher level backstabbing otherwise. Some dudes only unplug at rock bottom, especially when older.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 07:31 AM
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Perhaps these women are actually just pleasant to be around. As a dude that has dated a very attractive woman with BPD, most days I would have taken a few ranks lower for my own sanity. However, the pics of these celebs generally show the wine vs milk dynamic and I get a little chuckle from it regardless.
/r/MGTOW16/04/21 12:07 AM
2

This was becoming the typical experience way back when I started college. Going after girls was starting to get much more difficult (2000-2010) in the golden era of PUA's. And from what I can tell this has continued to get far worse. MGTOW and RP started during that time, but I was unfortunately ignorant and blew way too much time on dating that I now regret. In the past, before social media and online dating, making women a priority in your younger years may have yielded substantial results. Bu…
/r/MGTOW15/04/21 11:17 PM
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Really a timely topic. Don't give him an ultimatum. You may not like this, but this is one of those issues that can be worked out. Voice your concerns and defer to him and let him make up his mind on how to handle it. Was just talking the other day about how friends and I keep running into dudes on the juice. Like it is definitely obvious this is getting way more common. I feel it is skewing the online dating odds at this point. They seem to be ok from what I can tell, I don't know about long te…
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/21 11:05 PM
2

Red flags, definitely need to next at some point. You can go to BPDLovedOnes sub for more feedback, but don't ask for a diagnosis. I know, that is weird, but just reading the posts will give you some ideas. Also, try Shrink4Men for more material. Also, Rollo's post on The Rational Male about Borderline Personality Disorder is a good intro, coming from the personal experience of an RP founder himself. It is useful to read up on should you encounter pathological females or people in the future.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 08:43 PM
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Give here RooshV's "Lady" and just hope for the best...lulz. But yeah, what other commenters said, it is a losing battle to fight their nature in a society that basically enables and encourages it non-stop.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 05:57 PM
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Don't bother. It is obvious just from reading a few posts they are below average for sure. They are likely 49ers, HB4's that expect to be treated like the HB9 they were like 10+ years ago. The party ends, the music stops, lights on. Last call was ages ago. FDS is a useful recruiting tool from what I can tell. Any guy that visits there immediately sees RP truths and runs off into the Manosphere for their own sanity and the appropriate prescription (MGTOW, MRA, TRP, God Pill, etc.)
/r/MGTOW14/04/21 05:51 PM
1

A guy's testosterone also drops like 20% in a committed LTR, might have something to do with it? https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/13129483/#:~:text=To%20test%20this%20hypothesis%2C%20122,not%20involved%20in%20such%20relationships.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 05:28 PM
2

Pure power and emotional supply. I don't think there is any end goal really. The woketards enjoy cancelling people and the 2 minutes of hate they get to spew out on twatter. Without cancel culture, they would have to deal with their mediocre selves every day and not be able to project their shortcomings on to anyone else. They need it to feel better, it is going nowhere. There is no plan.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 05:14 PM
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You are like 10+ years ahead already. Because you are more introverted, you may want to read RooshV's "Lady", fairly brutal to anyone outside RP or over 30 (don't show friends that), but will give you a lot of tips to attract and keep men and comes close to actual "Lady Game". Lori Gottlieb's "Marry Him" will give some fairly realistic values to pursue in men over trivial objective things and provides a more realistic take on the dating/marriage/parenthood game. Although at your age, you can aff…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/21 07:22 PM
2

That is basically the pattern I see women rope guys into. I have to point it out and they are like year, this crap is annoying. I tell them, stop doing it.
/r/MGTOW07/04/21 05:00 PM
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To keep realistic and understand what you may have in terms of your blessings in marriage, even married women seem to get something out of this book, by a woman: https://www.amazon.com/Marry-Him-Case-Settling-Enough/dp/045123216X
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/21 01:22 AM
2

This is a fairly typical path for women who push the party life well into their late 20's. They hit the wall and don't have enough time to recondition themselves to attract and maintain an LTR easily. They could be offered an acceptable mate and they would just yawn. Once the epiphany phase is over, they go through a desperate phase to secure anything. Elizabeth Wurtzel married a guy 12 years younger than her. Kate Bolick is still hamstering hard and looks very tired of it in every media appeara…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/21 09:54 PM
3

Twitter, Unz Review, Substack, Zerohedge, etc.
/r/MGTOW06/04/21 05:29 PM
6

Start learning a new language, explore some of the non-feminized ladies elsewhere in the world if you want to later with it. Learn a trade skill and how to make money at a basic level with out the $100k degree if possible. Get into some kind of cool sport/martial arts thing. Learn how to cook great food also, will do wonders for your life at home. Start reading Aaron Clarey's books aimed at bachelors (Bachelor Pad Economics, Book of Numbers, etc.) to get an idea of what you are up against as a g…
/r/MGTOW05/04/21 06:40 PM
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I see this a lot, dudes respond far faster to female pleas for help and guys throw extra time at them to push things forward. I asked a female co-worker to print a document that was not working on my machine. She looked at me disgusted, said this was the only time she would do it. After that, I really distanced myself and felt each one can really take any interaction and spin it real fast into some BS claim. I never have lunch on site, or just ear a protein bar at my desk. Less contact the bette…
/r/MGTOW05/04/21 07:25 AM
17

Put 3 bullets in a revolver, take it for a spin and click....
/r/MGTOW05/04/21 05:36 AM
1

I feel in America, it is an issue here due to many factors. Women tend to be heavier, have high expectations of men (after lots of experience) and also have careers that limit their time on the dating scene. The men they may be pursuing who are entering the apex of their careers will be dating many years younger, like 25-30 for awhile and these women will feel an abrupt shift of attention away from them that can be brutal. Online dating also makes them feel there are tons of options, but they ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 09:08 AM
3

J. Kenji's "The Food Lab" is a favorite for learning the basics in the context of mostly American cooking and would provide a solid foundation, with the theoretical and empirical basis for various techniques and methods. I have always been thanked for showing people this book.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/21 08:56 AM
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Don't worry about it. There will be imitations, derivatives, etc. But overall, the spirit of RP is getting through and it is having an effect. In 4-5 years, women may even start lobbying for some changes. I doubt it. But RP is good for defense against gettting sucked into to a system that exists to feed off men.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 06:10 AM
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You are stimulated by the push-pull dynamic some men offer. It is natural, it feeds the hamster, but it tends to lead to more dysfunction and regret than you currently can comprehend. The issue if you keep going with the guys who offer this is you will be conditioned to entertain attention from those men later and you will have a hard time giving men that are LTR material much of chance, if at all. There won't be that "chemistry". Some essays about when the hamster won: https://www.elle.com/life…
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/21 07:50 PM
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SMV: Grow hair long, waist to hip ratio 0.7, no tatts, no weird piercings, 20% body fat, bmi 18-22. Straighten teeth and pay to remove or modify distracting facial features. Dress for the type of guy you want to attract. You will likely need to ready Rooshv's book "Lady" to get other important aspects correct if you want an LTR in this era.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 03:56 PM
2

I honestly don't need to cope. I just listen to my friends and family complain about their divorce rape, cheating gf's, non-stop drama. Pretty damn easy to just say hell no.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 07:01 PM
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MGTOW, TRP and the media smearing men in general is definitely having an effect. Bumble released a video of women defining commitment in an era of declining marriage rates see here.. A tsunami of single ladies is hitting their mid 30's and finding men likely left the marriage market 10 years ago...https://www.singularity2050.com/2010/01/the-misandry-bubble.html
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/21 06:34 PM
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Fish-Bicycle failure.
/r/MGTOW04/03/21 05:13 PM
1

I feel other cultures are RP without knowing it. That is their customs and processes generate an equivalent outcome that seems to be organized around those truths without such a rigorous explanation. My theory: those cultures still had immediate negative consequences for ignoring those truths.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 06:49 AM
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A BPD/NPD can be very high functioning in their work life, but be psycho in their personal lives. Read Shrink4Men and BPDLovedones sub for 1st hand accounts. I stay subbed to AskTRP for when Cluster B types come up. You could save yourself a lot of time by reading up on it.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 06:37 AM
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Old but gold. Still the first video I send to any dude getting their hopes up on OLD.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/21 04:57 PM
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I feel it is part of the victim culture women use to excuse their failings, avoid feeling shame and sometimes to make themselves seem like the better person. https://scholars-stage.blogspot.com/2015/09/honor-dignity-victimhood-and-death-of.html
/r/MGTOW27/02/21 11:56 PM
1

I regularly have to point men to Shrink4Men then Red Pill then even MGTOW these days. A divorce/discard wave going around me at the moment. Their minds are blown away, it all makes sense. Tell two men, then they tell two more... FreeMen = YOU + 2 +....2n Be patient it is working: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgpxfoT80wg
/r/MGTOW25/02/21 08:19 AM
1

I stick around for these self-awareness posts like this mostly.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/21 05:47 PM
2

Look into sperm donation, lots of post wall ladies need cheap sources....
/r/askTRP21/01/21 06:30 AM
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Yes, unfortunately. Keep stuff off the record as much as possible, helps in court.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 06:29 AM
1

It helps everything. Even at work. Hard to really explain all the benefits, but it just gives you that edge overall.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 08:23 AM
2

I think Friedan called this "The problem with no name." Her book from what I can tell bears some resemblance to the feminist movements in Korea at the moment.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/21 06:29 AM
1

More like women are correcting their perception of their vastly overrated SMV. The hamsters are squeaking a lot these days, engaging TradThot like strategies, FDS subreddit, freezing their eggs and of course engaging in polyamory. Onlyfans is stealing their simps and reminding them of what they are not bringing to the table. They sense something is wrong with the narrative they got sold long ago and are starting to see they have been living a pleasant lie...
/r/askTRP14/01/21 05:59 AM
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So true. A whole genre of post-wall revenge porn has been generated this past year that has us guys all snickering throughout the day now. As this movement of women to hide their slutty past continues, I hope they start going to the gym and lose the FUPAs. Would make things a lot easier on the eyes at least.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/01/21 10:07 PM
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It's an internet forum, I can't really know. It's a suggestion to look into. The high conflict, toxic years long drama and the issue she can be sleeping with the next dude within weeks suggests a BPD case. I know, AWALT, etc. But checking how bad your particular hamster is in life is not a bad idea. Even Rollo had a years long relationship with a pwBPD and posted about how extreme it was years ago.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 05:45 PM
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BPD is basically a completely feral woman. The hamster is running wild with practically no restraint. So yeah, women do this a lot in general. But BPD is just taking it to the extreme and far more dangerous. Men make the mistake they can control a pwBPD and get burned in court eventually. It is hard to realize the difference unless one experiences it themselves and linea up the behavior.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 05:16 PM
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I feel women are slowly becoming aware of the huge lie they got sold. The generation that grew up with Sex And The City is aging out with a large portion who are single, childless or single moms, with no hope of marriage, especially to someone they don't resent. This is why subs like FemaleDatingStrategy exists. This is why we see billboards to freeze their eggs. They feel there is a serious problem. Of course they will blame dudes for it instead of recognizing the actual issues. I increasingly …
/r/askTRP13/01/21 03:42 PM
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Go directy to BPDLovedOnes subreddit if necessary for more input on this situation. We read cases like this ALL THE TIME. Hell, this is mild and you got off easy. Make a quick stop by Shrink4Men.com for more clinical level material. Don't have the kid. It will be wielded like a weapon against you and they will likely come out very messed up. A Cluster B narcissist for example supposedly develops as early as 18- 24 months, and the environment you describe would be a breeding ground for this. Next…
/r/askTRP13/01/21 08:32 AM
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You are 23 with high smv and no income with a chick that sounds like a BPD head case. Next her, you got time. The big SMV market correction is underway and there will be tons of options/plates. Do not marry, even highly successful guys I know have barely made it a year with women with way less red flags before massive conflict.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 08:21 AM
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What precisely are you asking for in terms of marriage? I get the intent, I can respect that. But given our 40%+ divorce rate in a liberated sexual market in say murica at the moment, it does not seem like much of a thing really in terms of security. More like an insurance policy that can be cashed out with no adverse event by the less well off party. How about a church ceremony in front of god with rings exchanged? Is that enough? Or does government also need to be involved? Be precise about it…
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/21 06:25 AM
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...there is something disheartening about being unsure if a man will truly stick with you through thick and thin w/o being married. How does modern marriage resolve this? Known plenty of people heading toward divorce within a year of their appearance at a court house. We live in the no fault era, the state is not going out of its way to keep people together and people don't seem to take it all that seriously themselves once they hit some bumps. Einstein had to bribe his first wife with his Nobel…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/21 10:27 PM
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It helps immensely. But one only notices if they were not around as much of it and if they are more average in ways early on. A frat guy who jumps into a fairly good paying job through his connections after college is going to tell you it barely matters. A dude who is 1st gen college/trades/wealth will see a huge difference. Money smooths things out, makes things easier and more convenient. It really acts as a multiplier. But it will not get you out of having to have game. Otherwise it is just m…
/r/askTRP11/01/21 09:48 PM
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It's called a hoover out in the BPDLO forums. You may want to post the the story/timeline of the relationship there for some feedback. But beware, BPDLO is full of hardliners who will not encourage fixing the situation. Generally a Cluster B situation goes like this: They get a person with some type of charm they have, such as mirroring the other person's interests, morphing to their desires, telling trauma tales to gain sympathy, etc. The relationship will go through an idealization phase where…
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/21 08:19 AM
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Read the BPDLovedOnes subreddit. Sounds like a Cluster B... Possibly NPD (males seem to have higher rates of diagnosis) but it overlaps a lot with NPD. But regardless, accept it is a toxic situation and start to initiate no contact. Explaining what decent behavior is to your partner is unacceptable.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/21 08:07 AM
1

Seems like routine narcissistic abuse.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/20 07:02 PM
2

Unfortunately true, Roissy did the numbers awhile back on that. Makes the Monk mode easier out here 😂
/r/askTRP27/12/20 09:37 PM
1

Munchausen's Syndrome, basically another form of Cluster B behavior that could be classified as sociopathic.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/20 08:21 PM
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Some value, but not much. It can help to meet other women...if they don't fuck it up for you. The one sidedness you observe is what I have seen. When they are single, they will ask to hang out a lot, especially to mooch off some trip I am going on and really just drone on about whatever inane crap is bothering them. I really only talk to them when it is also entertaining for me, it is hilarious to see how they hit the wall and try to rationalize their post-wall dating life, telling me their nast…
/r/askTRP16/12/20 07:34 AM
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Check out the BPDLovedoens subreddit. You can vent there also, basically a common story there.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/20 05:44 PM
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🤮
/r/askTRP11/12/20 01:48 PM
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Generally yes. Less fat means less enzymatic conversion of testosterone to estrogen and related hormones.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 05:37 AM
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Do not LTR under any circumstances. They will discard you like traah eventually. Have fun tho.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 07:04 PM
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This happens. He could have codependent type tendencies that she manipulates. I agree with other posters, this is really not your responsibility and if she is a Cluster B, they are great at detecting people who have figured them out, going on smear campaigns and further isolating their victim. Buy "Psychopath Free" give it to him and advise he not get married until he has read it at least?
/r/askTRP05/12/20 02:06 PM
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They will be a lot less desperate. Usually still getting strung along by an alpha who they may attempt to trap with a pregnancy. I am from a more hood background, but it happens, it is how the 3 different daddies happen by 30. They just lower the price of entry until they can get guys again, but the wall inevitable takes its toll and even they won't bother.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 12:01 AM
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A Cluster B Hamster check should be standard for vetting women for all of TRP. Really would eliminate a lot of the confusion and unnecessary "Why" questions.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 06:53 PM
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This. If they have BPD, they hoover hard once they use up their new supply. Depends on the personality, not necessarily a reason needed. These feral hamsters really have no limits.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 06:29 PM
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pwBPD? This post looks like something we would discuss at BPDLO...don't get legally married with this background. Bad for everyone.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/20 06:32 PM
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TRP is right about that. Unstable backgrounds are a trait of many female pwBPDs, it conditions them to have weak identity and no empathy. They will find stable supply (simp/codependent) they can use as needed as they go about their idealization - devaluation - discard - hoover cycles. TRP describes a lot of Cluster B traits actually but applies different terms: monkey branching ~ discard; holding frame ~ grey rock, etc. But it takes the extreme stance of AWALT. BPDLO might be a more optimistic a…
/r/ExRedPill27/11/20 06:58 PM
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This posts sounds like it could be on BPDLovedOnes or AskTRP. TRP and the BPD forums seem to decribe people who have these toxic traits, but TRP suggests AWALT. The BPD forums call for no contact with these toxic people and to work on what makes you vulnerable to them (codependence, narcissism, rationalizing). Check out BPD stuff too.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/20 06:20 PM
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Basic side bar topic. TRP explanation: Branch swinging and lightswitching most likely. Personality disorder explanation: devaluation, new supply, discard. Possible hoover attempt in a few weeks or months. I favor the TRP explanation, from what little you explained.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 07:06 PM
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This. I find they will always be willing to message first and even setup a meeting time. They are acutely aware of their lower SMV and behave accordingly. In their 30's, they hang on to the hope of finding some awesome dude that will accept their not awesome choices. But usually they end up with a codependent type they can milk for babysitting and financial support while putting out very little. I know a guy that is cucked that bad, it is sad.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 08:59 PM
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Yes, that is how the post-wall entitlement starts.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 12:14 PM
2

100%
/r/askTRP13/11/20 09:03 AM
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BPD is its own thing for sure. But they will display NPD traits a lot. BPD is all over the place for sure, but it shares that low empathy, weak identity and egotistical/self-absorbed aspect with the rest of the Cluster B's.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 04:33 AM
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Glad it helps. Welcome to the club of dudes who have dated Cluster B(itches). Now you will understand Johnny Depp and that BPD/NPD Amber Heard on a whole other level. You'll get why Mel Gibson is screaming drunk on a phone to his sociopath gold digging wife. And you will see immediately just how insane these bitches can be, but no one will believe you 😂😐. You will recover, it will take time, but you will need to really think about why such an empty person is affecting you this way and work on th…
/r/askTRP11/11/20 03:54 PM
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S, It is still tough. For a TRP guy, BPD women may as well be heroin. You will attract them on OLD and in regular life and want that intensity again yourself, some claim to only be able to get off with them. Rollo Tomassi had his own multiyear relationship with one BPD he describes, eerily similar to most experiences. Usually the BPD affects codependent types the most by projecting and eventually transferring (Fleas, F.O.G.) their pathology onto their mate. For people with stronger identities, t…
/r/askTRP11/11/20 03:32 PM
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The sex issue gets encountered on the BPDLovedOnes forum a lot. The intensity is just way more than most can put out. Same shit happened to me and others. Even if you are confident, it can still get to you.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 03:11 PM
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Red Flag for sure, man or woman. Signs of pathology here, my interpretation: Charm/Hook: The guy is older, a "doctor", mirrors your desire for a relationship/marriage, reads your interests. Lovebombing/Idealization: Calling you soulmate, likely has sent you overly nice compliments. Why would he go after you like this? Possibly a narcissist (pwNPD). His apparent desperation to you may be a sign he is emotionally dependent, possibly looking for codependent. Proceed carefully.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/20 09:12 AM
2

Narcissism (in particular the personality disorder) is not simply self-interest. It is a severe character defect. Such people may be charming and confident at first, but in the end breed conflict everywhere because they have no concept of how they are really affecting others (empathy). They have a weak identity and really are just a hollow person wrapped in a sensitive ego. Eventually this short term charming strategy collapses against objective reality, in which case narcissistic collapse occur…
/r/askTRP23/10/20 10:42 PM
1

The post really seems to indicate you did some time on the Cluster B NPD and BPD forums in some way due to the terms you used (discard, hoover, trauma bond, etc.). You may have a BPD/co-dependent streak you need to work on big time. Basically, you need 100% no contact and to see a therapist. Like every trick in the book from Chads worked on you. Nun mode, therapy, self-improvement, keep reading up. You got a long ways to go babe. At least you are only 23, I'm 35M and there are still women my age…
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/20 08:06 AM
2

Nailed it.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 06:35 PM
2

As far as solutions, basically you will have to ask that psychopath I mentioned. Even trained therapists cannot really crack these people. I remained sane during it all because I read up on BPD/TRP, but it did not make it to where I could really prevent the cheating, since they just never reach a stable state and eventually they wear your frame down due to their obsessive and invasive level of attention. I've seen marriages destroyed by Cluster B's, nothing is ever enough. Best to not go further…
/r/askTRP07/10/20 09:40 AM
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They will cheat to maintain emotional supply once they enter the discard phase, usually with an orbiter on their DMs who has been being sympathetic during the devaluation phase. You basically have to maintain tons of leverage with future faking and be a sociopath to really enslave one. I saw one case of this, but the dude was virtually a psychopath 100% born for manipulation (sales guy, lol) and discarded her in the middle of her pregnancy...ruthless. I like the nuclear analogy since at any poin…
/r/askTRP07/10/20 09:32 AM
2

From my experience and some others it is real to them, like they believe it wholly, no way to be that kinky without actually "feeling" it. But they will split once they go into devaluation and it will seem like it was never there, like they hated you all along.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 09:03 AM
2

Hang out with another woman one night, see what she says. A BPD will explode over anything like that.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 08:39 AM
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Just read the BPDLovedones wiki well...then read their stories. Love bombing and extreme emotional instability after a few drinks are a sure sign. Also, they love playing the victim claiming their exes were all trash...but you are special, no one has ever treated her so well...ever 😉
/r/askTRP07/10/20 07:16 AM
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It will be a tough one in Amerika regardless. Due to your youth, you have all options on the table for now. Going to school is a big leg up, basically you will be with a lot of the top performers mentally and hopefully emotionally. Check out their backgrounds and screen for dudes that come from intact families and who had parent(s) that did not impose traumas on them (abandonment, neglect, manipulation, etc.). You are at an age where you can be that picky... Date seriously about 5 years age diff…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/20 05:55 AM
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Considering the climate in the U.S., the average dude has become adverse to marriage in general and is fine with LTR and is just not broaching the topic hoping it will not become an issue. I know, crappy, but it is what it is. One reason why I advise female friends to pay attention to if a guy comes from an intact family, he will sort of see that as the normal direction in the first place. And as some commenters have noted, quality of woman is also a variable. Often times the woman is deluded or…
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/20 07:18 PM
2

Looking at your post history, you are the prototype of what TRP talks about in modern relationships. Maybe ask the redpillwomen subreddit and read up there for a female perspective also? The forums out here on the male side are bound to be harsh or trolling.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/20 09:38 PM
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Agree with this. Guys will give a woman a big break on the their face if they are fit. A BMI below 25 is critical for this. Seen some skinny women with meh faces still pull quality guys, especially at ~BMI 20.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/20 10:16 PM
2

Bwahahaha, thanks for this. Going to bed now.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/20 10:52 AM
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I took a girl to a full nude strip club. Still fucked. Go for it.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 07:40 AM
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Your the one who had a "cursory read".... Cursory Reading: A cursory glance or examination is a brief one in which you do not pay much attention to detail. Congratulations, you played yourself.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 12:41 AM
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Alright, Top 20 posts from TRP subreddit (All Time): Google Fires Ph.D Biologist/Engineer For Claiming -- "On average, men and women biologically differ in many ways. HOW TO GET LAID LIKE A WARLORD: 37 Rules of Approaching Model-Tier Girls I have been practicing Stoicism for 3 years now and the quality of my life has increased dramatically because of these 3 exercises. One from each of the greats: Epictetus, Seneca, And Marcus Aurelius. Try them and tell me what you think in two weeks. [META] Re…
/r/askTRP18/08/20 12:21 AM
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In this one case I agree to a large extent given that the social norms advocate denying reality 😂
/r/askTRP17/08/20 10:27 PM
10

So true. TRP is a reaction to the degeneracy.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 08:31 PM
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I see TRP get accused of Cluster B disorders a lot, in particular narcissism and anti-social. But it does not qualify at all. Let's look at the DSM-5 for a sociopath/anti-social personality: Doesn’t respect social norms or laws. TRP does not advocate breaking laws or social norms. In fact, it advocates owning your shit (OYS) and being a good person. Lies, deceives others, uses false identities or nicknames, and uses others for personal gain. TRP does not advocate this and in fact tells men to be…
/r/askTRP17/08/20 08:06 PM
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Sounds like a Cluster B case at minimum with a substance problem for good measure. Possibly a Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD, emotional blackmail with suicide threats, etc.) or Anti-Social Personality Disorder (ASD, irritable, aggression). Read the BPD/BPD Loved Ones subreddits and side bars. These people's pathology tends to have a massive negative effect on anyone immediately involved with them, sleep deprivation being an unintentional tool to wear their victims down. "Dangerous Personal…
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/20 09:27 PM
8

That intensity is hard to pass up.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 08:18 PM
3

I love these case studies. Thanks for this.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/20 05:46 PM
2

Borderlines are known to actually be fairly high functioning in structured environments and are known to even work in the military, law, etc. Really, the problem is when they get into open ended situations (romantic relationships, stress) where things are more likely to not go their way or become unpredictable, they will inadvertently do things to exacerbate the situation. But not the forum for diagnosis for sure. Just something to consider.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/20 09:21 PM
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Did you ever have to go to a psychiatrist and get checked for Borderline Personality Disorder? The story line, drug use, volatile relationships, delusions, etc. fit fairly well with Cluster B traits in general. But good on you focusing inward and taking accountability. Really the only way to deal with things.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/20 09:09 PM
2

I agree, this is just psychological projection. These ladies need to see a shrink about that.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 09:54 PM
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Scope out BPDLovedones subreddit, people have similar stories... BPD people cause trauma bonding with their craziness, so you will be irrationally attached. They generally "hoover" their exes by mirroring their wants and trying to play nice. It's a trap. But I bet the sex was amaze ballz.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 12:59 AM
1

Good, just repeating my routine advice on researching Narc/BPD/Solipsism in women. Need to understand these things well or else these crazy ones will confuse you and drag you into a shit storm of accusations. Basic boundaries: She must ask permission to come over to your place or be invited, cannot use your phone, can't talk shit to you in public especially, you don't argue when they go through a rage, even in private or public, no borrowing money, do not apologize, etc. Just read TRP side bar r…
/r/askTRP31/07/20 10:29 PM
2

Routine Advice: She likely has borderline personality disorder (BPD), so read the BPD/BPDLovedones side bars. BPD women essentially have a feral hamster in their head that will rationalize them into delusional states or psychotic episodes. There is an idealization → devaluation → discard cycle, maybe with a hoover on you at the end to get you back into their crazy frame. Rock solid frame and strict boundaries are necessary if you want to keep sticking your dick into these crazy but addictive typ…
/r/askTRP31/07/20 09:26 PM
1

TRP and NRx compliment each other. TRP should not repeat what is already covered in NRx subs. All those books are referenced there. Just go there. TRP community already knows to keep educating themselves on human nature in general.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/20 07:55 PM
2

Yes, huge mistake by women that realize it until it is too late.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/20 07:23 AM
1

Do you have a varicocele? Usually left testicle, look it up, will lower T. Watch the drugs and alcohol, raises prolactin levels making erections harder to attain. Get some cardio, good nutrition and solid sleep for a week. No caffeine or anything else. No-Fap/Porn, etc.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 06:26 AM
1

Exactly. Red pill is about being aware and taking accountability. Both sides can have trouble with the solipsism/hamster discussion. ATRP routinely has questions like "Why did she do this complete non-sensical thing?" The answer is solipsism makes it all rational in their minds. I don't frequent MGTOW, so I cannot comment on them. But I can see how it attracts some Narcs and whiners for sure. Life is unfair for everyone.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/20 12:42 AM
3

Men do have natural narcissistic tendencies. However, TRP attacks "ego" protection routinely, there are many posts there about not letting a person's ego get in the way, not being defensive (DEER), etc. It is key to success not to be deluded. Men have an easier time being self-aware of these innate behaviors since they are naturally willing to consider objective results over their subjective feelings due to their "burden of performance" and the fact society sees nothing wrong with criticizing th…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/20 11:09 PM
13

I like to consider FDS a captive zoo of sloremonkies I can stop by and laugh at.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/20 06:53 PM
1

This behavior resembles traits of narcissistic personality disorder (NPD). You are already walking on egg shells, get responses that lack empathy about how they make you feel, eye rolling, put downs, etc. Read up on that subject well in the NPD subs.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/20 07:35 PM
2

NRx community would link to TRP related things and naturally I got sucked in.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 11:28 PM
1

The concept is difficult to master for either gender. Give it a few months of solid reading, here is a start: https://therationalmale.com/2015/09/02/solipsism-i/ This is not the forum for such an deep concept. Your screen name sounds smart, I am sure you will figure it.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 10:56 PM
0

Old Fish: "How is the water?" Young Fish: "What is water?"
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 10:41 PM
10

Easy part of TRP is understanding hypergamy and the conflicting sexual imperatives of the genders. Hard part is understanding female solipsism and the hamster and how it affects a woman's perception and reasoning. Even men on TRP still seem to have a difficult time with it for awhile. A search for solipsism on RPW turns up few results. On FDS, one result and it is by a man. By far the hardest concept a woman will encounter and I am not sure most can ever accept it, but posts about it and essays …
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 05:25 PM
3

HARD NEXT Even under the best circumstances, a year into an LTR, the wheels will fall off that situation, limerence/honey moon phase over, and will generally go downhill if she is not completely solid as a person. You need to vet way better. She seems to have BPD/NPD traits at a minimum. Read the BPD/BPDLovedOnes subreddit side bars for your own good, basically I feel this should be required reading to deal with the most feral hamsters, which she sounds like... Dread is not appropriate here, esp…
/r/askTRP24/07/20 04:58 PM
6

Agree, society is way too BP'd to see this as anything other than cynical at best or manipulative at worse. But the results speak for themselves, so as you wrote, just walk the walk and be glad there is a corner here to discuss.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 04:26 AM
3

When these non-RP dudes come across this, they look confused, like they just unlocked some dirty secret about their woman. It is really funny.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:24 PM
3

I am glad someone is experimenting with this, I don't care if it sounds messed up, LTR dudes need some ideas on this subject. Especially if they did not get Skinny Chick Insurance or vet for Pork Potential, strategies need to be explored. Daily weigh ins give quick, low cost, objective feedback. I think they can be incorporated into LTR/hard mode with some refinements that make it seem less fucked up.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 07:07 AM
10

It is an old term I shortened from CH that should be a common term IMO: https://heartiste.org/2008/11/12/porker-potential/ Also, look up "Skinny Chick Insurance", that needs to become a common term for LTR considerations.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 12:47 AM
11

Agree with this. It is an uphill battle rarely won, just bail out.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 09:41 PM
28

I think there was a post back in the day on Chateau Heartiste about some strategies. But losing weight and getting jacked can provide some low key dreading to coax her. Telling her "Hey, I just warmed up the scale for you, let me know how the numbers come out." Brings it up a notch. But basically, dread tactics may have to be used. I tested this out: I mentioned how many women lose their fertility because of too much weight because of hormonal issues with fat. Their ears perk up like coyote afte…
/r/askTRP21/07/20 09:38 PM
13

Good points. I have seen guys lose weight or start getting jacked while they are with fatty. They unintentionally dread their gf/wifey real bad, they are surprised by their reactions. Hilarious how that works every time. I need to go back and ask if they got more sex, but probably.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 08:50 PM
5

I thought you needed to be roided with 300g+ protein a day to justify working out that much 🤔
/r/askTRP20/07/20 06:06 AM
2

You can. Even a good one is a pain to deal with. They are in "therapy", want to hear wedding bells after a few bangs and are generally out of shape and ass in bed. Thousand cock stare with the string of "bad" relationships to justify their single lives. Also, grouchy and are a lot less impressed (shit test, I know...) with your accomplishments. Don't bother raw dogging these desperate women who would love a whoops kid. Go on ahead and bang em wrapped, but seriously stick to sub 30 whenever possi…
/r/askTRP17/07/20 06:29 AM
9

Separately, I agree with your overall assesment of FDS coping (hamstering) methods. It is entertaining how far they can twist things. The "women are happier than men" thing is BS because it is disproven by decades of research. Anecdotally, I routinely run into post-wall women as early as 25 already depressed, in therapy and drinking/pill popping to cope with their expanding asses. The various types of hamsters should be cataloged. I have called the BPD types "feral hamsters" so far. People get a…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/20 06:46 PM
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To me, visiting FDS is like a trip to the zoo that confirms all the behaviors I read about on NatGeo (TRP). I get to see captive sloremonkies flinging crap at pickmeisha's, sniffing asses for HVM/LVM odors in the search for that "big dick energy". The single post-wall sloremonkies shiver in a corner crying "porn sick men!". For fun, the visitors to the FDS zoo can hold up a mirror to these beasts and watch them deny they are sloremonkies while looking at their own reflection. It is a remarkable …
/r/TheRedPill16/07/20 05:49 PM
1

Modafinil sucks from my experience. Awake, but low appetite and feel weird.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 04:56 PM
27

There is always "issues"...
/r/askTRP16/07/20 04:11 PM
8

Wrong area. Go to RedPillWomen, they deal with non-RP dude situations there. We are gonna troll this. Please stop feeding us hamsters....
/r/askTRP16/07/20 03:09 AM
3

Hamstering is a primal survival mechanism females use to rationalize their extreme self-interest due to their innate solipsism, which makes them view the world as merely an extension of themselves. Throw in some hypergamy and even the horoscopes ("The stars even have something to do with Me! Me! Me!") will start to make sense and why war brides run off to the enemy. They can rationalize anything to their advantage. We men don't get it automatically because we are not born seeing the world as jus…
/r/askTRP16/07/20 12:24 AM
3

Books on borderline personality disorder would be a good start, lmao. My theory is these are merely feral hamsters. You can read https://radishmag.wordpress.com/2014/02/14/pump-and-dump/ for an example of the educated hamster at work in the case of Tracy Clark-Flory as she collides head on with the wall after a ride on the cock carousel. Always one of my favorite intros.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 12:10 AM
5

You have a woketard female. These are common. I got one I like to mess with, I was sure to be highly disagreeable, not argument level, but like saying some woketard book she was reading was ass. She is stalking me. Have fun. Agree and amplify when possible...
/r/askTRP15/07/20 11:57 PM
1

Got here due to links to the manosphere in general from the NRx/DarkEnlightenment side. Once I hit those side bars, I basically felt like I got the other half of the redpill finally and my life made total sense all the way down to my daily interactions.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 09:57 PM
20

LTR Cycle: Gets commitment → Bored of commitment → Be angry/depressed/hamster all the time → BF Reacts → Abuse! She lists or exaggerates all ex's possible flaws and situations (with interpretations!): He has pub night with his buddies regularly → alcoholic who ignores me. Does not tolerate disrespect → Verbally abusive asshole Concerned about her 100 orbiters and guy friends on social media → Super jealous Can't talk to her, so sometimes talk to friends, once in awhile the opposite sex → He Chea…
/r/askTRP15/07/20 05:21 PM
3

You can't win everyone over. Haters gonna hate. Low level narcissism on your part? Intense feelings of being envied are a symptom, maybe learn how to shake them off. Be sure you are not giving off harsh vibes (arrogance, dominating conversations, bragging).
/r/askTRP15/07/20 12:41 AM
4

Agree. Once I hit those numbers, people perceived me as fit looking automatically. Still need to work on waist to hip ratio. But opinions are likely to differ a lot.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 09:53 PM
1

Unz Review American Pravda series.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 03:08 AM
2

This question practically contains its own answer. Just throw in single mom and maybe BMI 25+? And light a match.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 08:03 PM
1

Try to become VP?
/r/askTRP09/07/20 11:00 PM
10

Truth. Are you in Murica? I observed the same. I can't even think of letting another one move in with me again at this point. Like what is the point in having this virtually useless person around?
/r/askTRP09/07/20 10:28 PM
9

I remember Scott Adams (Dilbert) saying that once he finally became a famous and rich cartoon artist, he was actually depressed and he says this is common when people reach their goals. His solution was to project outward more and pick up some meaningful causes, like help others, philanthropy in his case, etc. Kanye had depression and is running for president now, lmao
/r/askTRP09/07/20 08:38 PM
1

I saw someone reply on another post to just payout for an escort to get over that "big deal" feeling about women and sex when this comes up. May be a good idea to expedite the experience and focus more on just talking to women instead of trying to get the lay every time. Would make good use of your NoFap. Others will vehemently disagree, I know, I know....just an idea.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 08:33 PM
2

It really depends on the contact with those groups. Going out in the middle of white trash Oklahoma is not going be very successful for example. But an Arab in SoCal is getting white, asian, hispanic routinely. Even hairy ass armenian dudes and indian guys with that 7-11 accent can pull out there. Just move to a place where those populations are not considered so "different". Dallas is big city, so it should be possible. But it is an uphill battle regardless.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 08:05 PM
2

They pull for either side when it's convenient: Handing out sub-prime loans in a trailer park, white Middle of a race riot, Jewish
/r/askTRP09/07/20 07:53 PM
3

Hispanics are white or brown depending on when it's convenient for Murica. George Zimmerman, white. Guillermo del Torro, brown. But under the legal sense, they are white.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 07:35 PM
2

Brown dude here. Certain types of white women (caution) only go for say Mexican guys. Seen this start in grade school and it is common out on the west coast. But some issues with them I have found are they can be unhinged, trending toward BPD. White women on the bigger side (BMI 25+) think they can pull the brown card and get brown men automatically, not really true...but I see some egregious cases. A big factor is height really, but I have seen even sub 5'7" still pull taller white women. So ga…
/r/askTRP09/07/20 07:23 PM
3

Alpha widowed?
/r/askTRP09/07/20 07:08 PM
1

Yeah, was just making a point that HB8 was on the skinny side on top of it all. I hope you are right and will get over feeling blah so much.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 06:43 PM
1

Stick to yourself when it comes to comparisons, you will always lose when comparing yourself to others since you are only considering their strongest traits. Example: I knew a guy that had no trouble hooking up during his 20's and from the outside looked so confident, was completing a masters degree supposedly. But he had a bad alcohol problem and could never get a career going and had to constantly live off his daddy's money. Outside of the hook up scene and his nice paid for apartment, he was …
/r/askTRP09/07/20 06:12 PM
2

Reminds me of talking to a Korean woman about the supposed "yellow fever". I said it was BS, asian women are just skinnier than 90%+ of women and that is really getting them the attention. American men just don't get much BMI 20 action after their HS years, so even a 30 yo asian with a decent face can still pull pretty good in the states.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 05:40 PM
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This ▲ They even think they are hotter then they are by a ridiculous amount. Asked an HB3 to grade herself, she said HB7. Like WTF, where is this encouragement coming from?
/r/askTRP09/07/20 05:35 PM
1

Exactly, it is terrible. Food selfies need to be a faux pas...
/r/askTRP09/07/20 05:33 PM
1

Make sure you press the blue X button to doubt, my feelings are still not hurt for some reason.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 09:49 PM
1

I think I enjoyed that skinny one a lot more than I anticipated. Missed the boobs the bigger ones had.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 09:06 PM
2

Ok doc. So if I ever pull an HB10, 90% of chicks are gonna look like babushkas forever? fuuuu...
/r/askTRP08/07/20 09:03 PM
2

Got her number
/r/askTRP08/07/20 07:14 PM
2

Happens. You're young, but somethings I did as I got older. Get some daily cardio in, prefer running to biking. Quit the coffee and alcohol for a few weeks if not a month. Lower your BMI (aim for 25) or BF% (<20%) if it is not there. NoFap, etc. helps. Low carb for a few weeks with vitamin supps, but may need to up it for days where you need to do the deed. Get your sleep straight if it is erratic at all Be worried if you don't get solid morning wood, may need to see a doc then. Cialis does work…
/r/askTRP08/07/20 05:22 AM
2

Is that you? The beta shit goblin down the hall from me that always gots something in his mouth? I told you the first time I wanna see the actual video of him saying that about the Mexicans along with that "neo nazis are very fine people" one. Primary sources are important. Throw that coffee out too, that's for closers.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 03:58 AM
3

These sound like the reasons the majority of society should not have kids in my experience, snip away. Best reason for kids (I have heard): You have something to offer. Worst reasons: Because you feel you have to for whatever reason (age, SO, lonely, FOMO, peer pressure, etc.)
/r/askTRP08/07/20 12:48 AM
2

You sound like you might be rationalizing. Be careful. Read the BPD reddit, this case is very close. This coming from a guy who has dealt with this type plenty of times...I got too much daddy energy, it sux.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 12:27 AM
1

She sounds like a BPD case, fast hook up, already saying she loves you (probably just her favorite person (FP)), unwanted pregnancy, substance abuse most likely. Rape/being pressured into sex also seems to crop up in these cases, with no legal record. Read the BPD subreddit just in case. Things could be headed for some turbulence.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 12:03 AM
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just an example of typical convo with workplace woketards: Woketard: "Trump is a crazy racist man!" RP: "Really? Unfortunately, I don't watch the news since I am busy biking 20 miles and snowboarding. No TVs out there." Woketard: "Yeah, he is so terrible! Can't believe you don't know how it is." RP: "Show me a video of Cheeto Jesus saying some racist stuff. I wanna see." Woketard: Fails to produce any video, uncomfortable pause, goes on unhinged rant. Woketard: Leaves room. Does not mention it a…
/r/askTRP07/07/20 07:44 PM
3

It is worse than going full retard.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 07:21 PM
1

Your mileage may vary. America, 25-30, a lot of women sense something has changed.... Usually they are putting on a pound of makeup and are out at Lane Bryant instead of 21F and taking those super close selfies with the dog filter. The end has come for them...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 07:11 PM
1

Basically at 15-25, a girl barely needs to lift a finger to get the good times to come to her, probably blows time complaining about all the attention she gets and passes up tons of dudes who are decent LTR material, because "I Gets No Feelz". Society did not make it this way, nature did. Accept it, plan ahead. https://i.redd.it/0ged5mzjru351.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 07:03 PM
2

My personal experience is the more equal a woman is to me, the less interested she is in me, even if I have a high interest in her. Lost track of the number of times I've been ghosted by an "equal". But the file clerk, 10 years younger making 1/3 my income? She lives in bed with me. That bar tender 12 years younger that can barely spell? I got her number. Dudes have it hard initially. Women have essentially won the lottery age 15-25, but blew it looking for unicorns and playing the CC like slot …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 06:38 PM
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As Chris Rock said, "A woman ain't about to let sense fuck up her argument." A woman can rarely break her solipsism and become self aware of her nature. They will react badly if you try to explain (or "mansplain" in woketard). I see their arguments as the hypergamy hamster needing some stimulation by challenging you and seeing how you react primarily. Getting worked up is going to make the hamster unpredictable. One possible way to have handled this would be to agree and amplify: "Yeah, you are …
/r/askTRP07/07/20 06:21 PM
3

You can fight that beta shit goblin.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 05:37 PM
3

I agree with this. Most girls only game is their looks. Reading this stuff will make dealing with the wall way easier, vetting LTR options early on, as well as managing that post-honeymoon phase when the hypergamy hamster starts to get restless. Probably more likely to get and keep a HVM with this info really, despite the brutality of it.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 05:18 PM
-6

BP to RP easily? There is a guide in the side bar of RP that suggests it is actually difficult, with even a rage phase 🤔
/r/ExRedPill07/07/20 06:27 AM
5

No Frame. Like I said, don't care but ready for another round...
/r/askTRP07/07/20 06:05 AM
4

I think that hurt her more than him actually 🤔. Like what is her point? She is a cock connoisseur?
/r/askTRP07/07/20 06:00 AM
3

Exactly 😂
/r/askTRP07/07/20 05:47 AM
2

Your text was good IMO. If this is just a plate, leave it at that. She'll be branch swinging in no time. Her fellow hamster heads will be encouraging it. Need more details for ATRP. Girl age? Objective with her? Not clear here.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 05:06 AM
1

Use cabergoline to tank the prolactin? How does it happen?
/r/askTRP07/07/20 04:34 AM
3

Your case interests me due to your age. Not on TRT here, but I try to understand the area as I get older also. Any regular alcohol use and how much? What about varicocele (usually on the left teste)? Other drug use, in particular E? Diet includes plenty of animal protein? Lowering prolactin will supposedly decrease the refractory period after sex, do you notice any changes in that regard?
/r/askTRP07/07/20 03:01 AM
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Do it. Does not matter if you bust in 10. At 26, you should be able to reload pretty fast IIRC, lol. Act like you don't care and you'll be back for another round soon enough, they usually don't care initially, since they usually can't get off with a new guy anyways. Worry more about lasting too long or not finishing.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 02:52 AM
2

I make fun of it, I told one on OLD "How long was the train ride through all those countries sitting next to each other?" She actually replied and admitted it was just a euro trip and easy points.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 02:32 AM
12

I threw in some finger tricks during quarantine like dollar origami and rubik's cube. Portable gimmicks, good convo starter when used wisely.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 07:27 AM
7

DUIs are very common. Not minimizing it by any means, but realize everyone knows someone (if not themselves) who has one. It is a big deal in today's cancel culture, basically people's reactions vary from worse than child molester to trumped up traffic stop. It is a precrime in a way. Your employer may not actually judge you that badly. Clearances are another issue, depends. If it is your first, you might get let off with some stipulations, but blowing 0.1 makes it harder for sure. Get an attorn…
/r/askTRP05/07/20 09:38 PM
28

Women have a solipsistic view of the world. Talking to them about their true nature risks making them self-aware, which is very uncomfortable for them and can make them feel disgusted. I compare it to a kid watching a movie in the theatre. The kid is completely absorbed in the emotion and action and is going to get upset if you start talking about how movies are made, and this is the third remake, etc.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 05:10 PM
6

You are right, tons of flab. By 35, common as dirt. 70%+ overweight or obese and still going for hail mary hook ups with men out of their league. Maybe 5% BMI 20. And we have not even gotten to their face or what language they speak. Basically need to go offline and find where the women are and also have girlfriends who can get you more access. Don't settle, seen it happen way too many times. Guys don't look happy in those vacation pics where she is proudly holding up a donut 🤮
/r/askTRP05/07/20 04:00 PM
-1

RIo Linda is known to be bad, but the areas neighboring it are as bad if not worse. They luv da meth. But I live far away and still had an armed dude getting chased by a helicopter the other day in my hood. So, thinking about that CCW regardless 😅
/r/askTRP05/07/20 08:54 AM
1

Sacramento County or surrounding counties. Plenty of non-woketarded towns, while still having access to a large city population down the road. Don't bother mentioning RP to a Trump supporter there, they will have zero clue. Also, plenty of recreation opportunities. If you really DGAF, buy a trailer home and park it out in Rio Linda and move one of those Linda babes in....get CCW.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 08:36 AM
2

You don't know unless you try. And really, just being reliable and not doing stupid shit will put you miles ahead of anyone that is taller in that line of work. You will get passed on for sure, but there is work somewhere.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 07:52 AM
2

Become a guard (need to get a guard card online, etc.), get paid to stand at a post and check IDs at minimum. Not gonna pay well, but easy gig to tack on to whatever else you are doing. You got a bio degree, so you're gonna be overqualified, but that is sort of a feature not a bug from the people I talk to in it. Also, pick up shifts on the slow days as a bartender, maybe edge into the bigger money ones if you got a decent personality and can manage regulars.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 07:46 AM
1

Guard Card?
/r/askTRP05/07/20 07:41 AM
1

Nope. I will ask for critiques about my appearance, maybe vibe, but throw away the rest of that garbage coming out of their food hole as soon as it gets beyond that.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 05:46 AM
23

Totally agree with that summary. BPD Vet here, great practice for staying in frame, etc.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 04:16 AM
2

You are passing up FREE money right there. Just take the paternity test, here is why: It will give him a cheap ego boost that he told you something to do and you did it. Completely clears you forever on that topic. Now puts him in the wrong for doubting. Low key dreading him without an "I told you so". You could further play this to your advantage in some way, if you are careful. Need to look at things more as an opportunity instead of an attack all the time. FREE money ladies, it is sitting rig…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 07:43 PM
1

I would also like to add, women can actually say interesting things that are true beyond 2+2=4, but it is just RARE. Here is a blog by an asian female who seems to be a low key shitlord: https://elaineou.com/ However, don't be fooled by credentials or fame, just watch the TED talks by Deborah Lipstadt or Elizabeth Holmes to see the hamster at work. The blue pilled will fall for their stuff easily.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 07:23 PM
2

Bro to bro, thanks for the history lesson. But saying this to the hamster brained is hopeless, they will always counter with how menz kept them down, etc. So we are better off just picking at their logic and tongue tying them, rather then giving their hamster ample sentences to further rationalize.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 07:10 PM
6

Maybe a few females have something worth listening to, but taken as an average, you are wasting your time in public. They are mostly solipsistic and have invested little into their beliefs and just believe in whatever they think makes them haaapy. Have fun making them trip over their logic. I had a female at a bar tell me how there are matriarchal societies and how nice it must be. I asked her "So when is their next rocket launch to the moon? When I am getting some cancer cures?" She STFU so fas…
/r/askTRP03/07/20 06:50 PM
1

Seen this happen plenty of times, well into a woman's 30's. Women just lose all inhibition once the drinks get beyond 2. Seen shlammered a woman run off with a random dude at the end of a night at the bar, then their beta boyfriend is there the next afternoon with the police after filing some missing person report. She walks in with a jamba juice after getting out of mystery dude's car and just tells her bf: "I just slept on his couch." Phone was turned off also... So watch out for a girl that d…
/r/askTRP03/07/20 06:40 PM
2

I got weak, HB8, couldn't resist another go. 😂
/r/askTRP27/06/20 02:57 PM
22

Very true and sometimes dudes come back for another turn, then you go in for another yourself. Women can rationalize anything.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 05:26 AM
3

This will be my last post for awhile then.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/20 09:48 PM
-1

Too far off-topic now and this is turning into a debate instead of a discussion. PM me if necessary. Primary intention is to point out coping mechanisms the sexes employ to sustain their relationships against their impulses. The glossary of common terms seemed too pessimistic considering the content here.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/20 09:43 PM
-1

According to pre-historic genetic studies, up to 17 women had the children of one man on average. Which side of that sexual equation would you like to be on? Is that cheating? When marriage was introduced, it was still polygamist (see the bible). And likely was unfair to women. Further refinements of marriage necessitated laws to keep both men and women in line with society's edicts. So yes, lots of cheating on both sides and society has been trying to determine what the fairest system is for aw…
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/20 09:28 PM
2

Very useful and interesting. It is comforting to see how LTRs develop positively outside of low level RP theory.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/20 08:05 PM
1

This seems also like a useful concept that should be developed. Hopefully a catchy name can be created.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/20 08:03 PM
1

Occam's razor? It may just be that and I am thinking too much into it.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/20 07:42 PM
2

The discussion here has been very productive! The more accurate and constructive terminology may be this then? Marriage Goggles: The positive emotional filter that people in a LTR develop that allows them to comprehend the full value their partners bring to them, instead of as mere objects of desire. Thanks for entertaining a dude's ideas! Let me know if I should replace this post or maybe delete it and create another thread with a better term.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/20 07:01 PM
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This is getting off topic but I will only leave one reply since a lot of this is already covered in general RP theory: No contraception/abortion/state support imposed a big penalty on females to participate in the CC, since a single ride could result in poverty. This made commitment a big deal when talking to any man. Cuckoldery was a common issue in the past men dealt with because of this, think of the movie "Titanic". We forget that actually there were laws against male polygamist impulses, ou…
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/20 06:32 PM
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For sure. The 38-year-old single mom cannot leverage wife goggles in the wild to get a man to see the huge value she may have. She could eventually put wife goggles on a guy, but since that initial attraction is harder to trigger, it will take much more work and they have even less history to develop and a lower SMV to start with. So pair bonding and the development of wife goggles is hindered but not impossible. If the man is self-aware (RP) he may be able to get over all this faster?
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/20 06:03 PM
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Maybe a better term is marriage goggles? I do think both sexes have a way of appreciating their long term partner as a whole person in ways they could not if they met them as a stranger.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/20 05:56 PM
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This is exactly why the female perspective is needed for this term. They see the issue of RMV so much more clearly whereas a male might be looking at SMV when thinking about this too much actually. I always bold accepted acronyms and terms, I write a lot of technical documentation, so just a habit.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/20 05:52 PM
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The liberation of "female sexuality" (aka hypergamy) has caused an unintentional negative feed back loop where men now feel even more justified in engaging their polygamist desires which makes a longer time on the CC seem acceptable. The fact that Pornhub is as a popular as ever (polygamy) and OLD is huge (hypergamy) is no surprise. Controls were in place in the past to level the sexual playing field such as no effective contraception, no state support for unwed mothers and punishments for both …
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/20 05:47 PM
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I agree, I have seen this countless times with long married couples. They love to remember their youth together for sure, but at the same time they also love to see the whole history of changes since then. They don't resent each other for their changes and they are glad to have endured them together. Starting out with those good memories just makes it even easier to do this, especially for a guy. I am not suggesting every woman needs to be HB8 to get some wife goggles on her Captain, it can help…
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/20 05:20 PM
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They do, this is the hind brain polygamist instinct winning over the rational fore brain instinct unfortunately. I in no way suggest men are not capable of being as primal as hypergamist women, just that self-aware individuals have developed ways to cope with these impulses and understand the consequences of them.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/20 05:12 PM
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I think either this definition could be put under a different term or further refined to explain the concept. It has not been the only time I've seen men in long marriages refer to their wives in this manner, so it makes me think mentally they are simultaneously remembering their past with her and also appreciating the present value she adds to their lives together. I'm not married, so I have to leave it to the MRP/RPW crowd to really explain "Wife Goggles". But this is a useful start from a mal…
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/20 04:52 PM
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I felt this initial draft might be perceived negatively for sure by RPW. I am not suggesting this means husbands are only sticking around because their wives used to be HB8 or something. For sure, their history has contributed greatly to the SMV/RMV they also perceive, which is captured in the definition. Maybe a different term is more appropriate or this needs to be refined more so its positive implications are emphasized and it does not come off as cynical. But I think it is a good start to an…
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/20 04:41 PM
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