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Good
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 07:43 PM
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Ok I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:05 PM
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Can you say with a straight face that a woman who is madly in love with a man would sit back and do nothing for all of these events? When compared to men, yes I could see a woman doing nothing for all these events. Is it really hard for you to imagine a girl in love getting excited for these events but specifically for what she shall receive? Perhaps she will love his dumb horrible gifts because she loves him but it's really not a stretch to imagine her not getting him anything in return. Also d…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:44 PM
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Why do you need to be taught?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:06 PM
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I'm talking about people in general and you are talking about your small area...yet somehow I'm US centric and your not Dutch centric? Amazing logic 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:03 PM
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Go ahead and paint a picture of me in your mind based off your feelings. It's seems like it's a universal trait and not something specific to your small corner of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:00 PM
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You want me to tell you why you should care?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:52 AM
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Ok? Do people outside your small area not exist or?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:51 AM
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How did I know that's exactly what you were going to say? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:50 AM
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Ok well I have to say I don't think that's close to being the majorities experience
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:48 AM
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So why aren't you with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:47 AM
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Because modern women don’t want these expensive gifts. They don’t want “love through money” or transactional love. Bro what? looks and status and money. Most women don’t care about these things Bro WHAT?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:45 AM
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They just gotta be there and talk to me. Nothing more. Do you think girls like you are the majority?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:39 AM
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Solid answer
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:33 AM
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Do you think girls like you are the majority?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:28 AM
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You need game to be treated decently as a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:28 AM
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Do you think girls like you are the majority?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:27 AM
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the first thing men tell me is that I picked the wrong man or should have vetted better or whatever Yes this was my first thought. I'll ask anyway. I also paid his rent, medical bills and groceries for 8 months Why? I genuinely loved him. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:04 AM
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Was she hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 09:59 PM
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Disagree that people (specifically young men) choose to put themselves in situations that most perceive as miserable because "its comfortable". Also if you have money, people will want to be around you by default
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 12:18 PM
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I thought they got rid of making girls message first
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:44 PM
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Holy based
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:26 PM
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Disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 10:49 PM
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You seem defensive but maybe I'm reading into that. Maybe he was always a lost cause and you couldn’t of done anything. Does he live with your parents still?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 10:42 PM
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It seems like your help was encouragement and nothing else. Maybe you did all you could, idk your life story so idk what was possible and what wasn't. You said he's anxious, a shut in, and needs to work on his social skills. Maybe you could've gotten his friends, your friends and/or anybody who was open to helping him/you and hung out together at your house routinely. Constant exposure to people being at least somewhat friendly with him will decrease his anxiety, increase his social skills and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:01 AM
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Did you ever try and help your brother?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 12:30 PM
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How successful is very successful? Does he make money from shows or mostly social media/sponsors?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 12:24 PM
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Lmao you are dense
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 06:15 AM
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Like I said before, nothing to do with religion. Keep trying to somehow twist my own morals against me when you don't know what I believe or why I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 06:09 AM
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Not being a hedonist has nothing to do with Religion. I don't appreciate the obvious snarky comment that you will likely deny
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 05:57 AM
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I'm not a hedonist
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 05:34 AM
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Nasty
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 04:55 AM
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Cougar alert ⚠️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:08 AM
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Gross
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:06 AM
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I completely agree with you and I hold those same values. I think a lot of guys would love to meet a girl like you but you seem to be a needle in the haystack lol. I wouldn't put too much stock into what the Tate brothers say or do. I think the men who go to the extremes like that were always gonna be somewhat of a bad apple. They have always existed but now because of the internet you see them easier. I also want to get married to the love of my life and be buried next to eachother for all of e…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 03:50 AM
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If we expect women to understand men's reality in dating, we have to understand theirs. "If we expect billionaires to understand the poors problems then we need the poor to understand the billionaires problems"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 03:40 AM
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I mean I really can't give you specific advice because I don't know you or your hypothetical love interest. General advice: take things slow, does he respect your boundaries, does he pressure or guilt trip you, does he get upset when you don't do what he wants you to, does he treat others with manners and respect, does he have addictive or narcissistic traits, does he have a good work ethic, is he thoughtful and considerate, are his actions consistent with his words, are his friends and family g…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 03:12 AM
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Nobody is asking women to mind read. It is also not possible to stop bad men from lying. It is up to you to properly vet a man
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 02:23 AM
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Do you know how ridiculous it is to say swiping right is exhausting?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 02:19 AM
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Your a woman. Ofc you want to date multiple people at once
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:54 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:38 AM
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Good job. Do you think other women would benefit from taking a similar approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:37 AM
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So you do expect women to be mind-readers? If she asks him what his intentions are and he says something serious is she supposed to think it's a lie? But also women considering men liars until proven otherwise (ei "hoops") is misandry I guess? Women always say stuff like this and sometimes it genuinely makes me wonder if their struggle with nuance is biologically tied Women don't need to assume whatever a man says is a lie OR the truth. It doesn't need to be one or the other. Why can't you just …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:36 AM
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Yes it's probably disease ridden
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:08 AM
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Reading a guy's profile because he might have not read hers made her overwhelmed with pressure? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 11:11 PM
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Im also wondering where the pressure is coming from
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 11:09 PM
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That's a good idea but that doesn't change the instinctual love a desire a man has for a woman and family. You'll create a lot more stories of how a person who committed suicide was "the life of the party, always laughing and smiling" etc
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 08:16 AM
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Can we make them do challenges over a pit of crocodiles or something? Let's try to spice things up a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:15 PM
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That's why you need at least 1 side chick
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:05 PM
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Haha hope you both enjoy your meal. One last question if I may, is he on trt now? Doing enough steroids where you reach 300lbs will severely compromise the bodies natural hormone production, it's very hard for most people to go to 0 exogenous hormones both physically and mentally after extensive use.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 01:00 AM
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You're crazy but good for you I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 12:51 AM
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So you are attracted to this? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:24 PM
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Why is it weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:05 PM
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That's crazy! Did he post on social media or get his pro card? Or was it mostly just for himself?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:05 PM
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At least fat people have some muscle. I've never heard anyone say they like skinnyfat. You sure you mean skinnyfat?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 12:49 PM
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Idk man I haven't seen normal chicks get built like a brick wall from casually benching. Still seems very odd to me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 12:45 PM
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300lbs as a bodybuilder? He had to have been an ifbb pro then right? How tall is he?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 12:43 PM
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Bro what?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:03 AM
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Google says 28 bmi is 22-25 bf% which I don't think is too far off for the shirtless guy but the hockey players are definitely leaner than that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:19 AM
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Is your son a real bodybuilder or is he a guy who goes to the gym and exercises like a bodybuilder?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:00 AM
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That twiggy girl is a little weird looking, the Farrah chick is hot tho. Unfortunate she died from ass cancer
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:55 AM
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They just don't know the proper definitions of terms like "lean" or "bulky". You can read between the lines and take a good guess of what they mean
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:41 AM
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25% is a bit on the high end
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:38 AM
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Who the hell likes skinnyfat? That's the worst combo
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:36 AM
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Indian
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:36 AM
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It pretty much comes down to they like being muscular and want to be the best so bad they take tons of steroids that damage their organs are shorten their lifespan.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:24 AM
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Bfp>bmi
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 01:53 AM
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Bmi and bfp aren't the same
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 01:50 AM
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Ngl that's pretty odd. Bench is a staple exercise even for girls. Maybe you mean you've never seen a girl who is good at bench be attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 01:37 AM
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The steroids aren't making them skinny. They are using steroids to not be skinny but it doesn't really work for them because of bad genetics, diet and exercise
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 01:15 AM
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It's np bro
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 01:05 AM
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He will die younger than if he doesn't lower the amount of steroids he's on in the not so distant future. Although some guys are pretty resistant to steroids side effects so he might make it awhile longer than you'd expect. Other guys die really young like Dallas McCarver who was only 26
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 01:05 AM
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All you need to do is Google "do bones get stronger from exercise?" and you'll be corrected
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 12:25 AM
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It's not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 11:05 PM
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I don't believe they are lying but I also don't believe people who say they've seen aliens are lying either
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 10:33 PM
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Ask my roster
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 10:05 PM
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Imo she's mid
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 10:02 PM
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Her face is definitely weird and her waist looks big and blocky when she's not wearing a corset with her boobs popping out. Her boobs are great tho
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:57 PM
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Who was the attractive girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:40 PM
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he struggles with social cues because those dates are weird af If you live a fit lifestyle it really isn't weird. Maybe the obvious thing is that you don't live a fit lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:37 PM
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There are teenagers on steroids that are so skinny they look borderline anorexic. Most people don't look crazy when taking steroids
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:19 PM
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Maybe until you fall off a chair and break a hip because your bones are so fragile
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:11 PM
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You'd love Nick Walker
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:08 PM
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Bro, to them a ton of muscle is bulky. Even Frank Zane is bulky to them. Also to be fair, Nick Walker is pretty bulky lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:02 PM
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You could find out yourself but my schedule is full
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 06:40 AM
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The best there ever will be
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 06:28 AM
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Female propaganda
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 06:06 AM
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Because the female orgasm is fake, a myth, an old folk tale, fantasy, propaganda
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 05:38 AM
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I have a strong skin color preference, Is that the same as your skin color or different?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 05:13 AM
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Based?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:54 AM
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Occasional conversations might happen with other dudes, not chicks
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:08 AM
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she is single, and sparks are flying, that would be a good time to ask her out. Most people don't live in Disney movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:02 AM
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That's true but I still think the discrepancy is concerning and it also grows over time. The sexlessness isn't much different in the last 3 months but the sexual occurrence gap will be worse in the last 2-3 years
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:59 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 07:21 PM
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Your links say male virgins grew from 4% to 10% and female virgins grew from 5% to 7%. Even using your numbers male virginity rates have relatively increased 150% in the last decade while female virginity rates have only increased 40%. That means male virginity is increasing 3.75x faster than female virginity. These are not small differences. We can't ignore social stigmas either. Men are incentivized to lie about 'not' being virgins and women are incentivized to lie about being virgins. You don…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 07:20 PM
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Doesn't these studies point towards women having sex with the same few men? The rise of sexlessness in men is growing 3x faster than in women and men are about twice as likely to be virgins than women. How else would you explain this discrepancy? Especially when you consider most men and women are inclined to lie in the opposite direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 12:28 PM
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It's not a bad guess for a girl who is older and supposedly pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 11:33 AM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 01:52 PM
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Why won't u answer
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 01:49 PM
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Just answer the semantic question. Is it all or most or something else now
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 01:43 PM
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You dodged my first point but yes women spend more time with kids. I disagree but I'm tired, so maybe Yes this is true but the younger generation of women aren't very desirable either
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 01:42 PM
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Women of any age now are part of a dual income. No they are not. Most women that age are not married or cohabitating so they have separated incomes I answered No you didn't. The question what was your definition of submissive, you used 2 different definitions and I asked you to clarify. I didn't ask what you did in your own relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 01:26 PM
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My point was that now women heavily participate to paying the bills while still doing housework. Making their overall contribution more valuable.And, because they outearn men, they don’t really need a provider Only young women out earn men and young women do not pay bills or do housework at this stage in their life. The study refered to breadwinners Thanks for the clarification but it proves that you weren't consistent with your terminology. You've used providers, primarily providers, contributo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 12:41 PM
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Technological development. Washing machines, dish washers, robo vacuums etc. all significantly reduce the time and effort it takes to take care of the house. https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2013/03/14/chapter-5-americans-time-at-paid-work-housework-child-care-1965-to-2011/ Fathers do 1.5 more hours work per week than mothers when accounting for paid work, household chores and childcare. The things that women valued men for back in the day can now be found elsewhere. It's possible the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 12:08 PM
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I guess, I don’t understand your point. I don’t see why women should spend their money on men. You were comparing how men and women financially contribute to a relationship then mentioned that young women out earn young men. I'm saying that despite those young women out earning men they do not spend their money on men. Young men on the other hand do spend their money on women. I don't think you are consistent with your terminology. You said "primary provider" which implies a secondary provider b…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 12:02 PM
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I never claimed women were overall the providers. I said most men don’t provide anymore. If you are sharing bills you are not a provider, you're a contributor. I really don't care which gender are providers or contributors. My point was that young women do not spend their money on men despite earning more than them. Side note. If a man shares bills makes him a contributo (not a provider) how is it possible that less than 30% of men are "primary providers" like you said earlier? No. That’s a trap…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 10:52 AM
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Statistically women are still doing the brunt of the household and childcare, EVEN when they work full time. False
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 09:12 PM
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Those who do choose to be homemakers do not do less than before. Incorrect Women who are the main providers of their household also work one hour more at home. Incorrect the quality of men has decreased Has their quality decreased or has their value been replicated by other things?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 08:55 PM
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women between 18-25 outearn men. Those women also don't use their money to provide for a man. I only owe submission to my husband. This is a good value to have but things don't magically change once you get married. How do you handle reserving certain treatments for your husband? Don't you want to display your wifey quality to your boyfriend? How do you know you like giving him that treatment and how do you know he appreciates and deserves that treatment?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:50 AM
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The point is words don't get women pregnant. If she blindly believes his words over his actions then she's at fault
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:34 AM
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I didn't know a mans words could get a woman pregnant! Aren't we amazing?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 08:55 PM
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Single moms are worse than single dads because you can actively see the kids with single moms? I never said "worse". We are talking about known deadbeats We are talking about all deadbeats and many of them are unknown. So you seem to think you're training women to...stop being single moms? How's that working out for you? No idea but it's a worthy cause to fight for. This in and of itself exactly speaks to the moral superiority of women. We have a connection to our children men will never have. L…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 08:52 PM
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Which lie do men say that get women pregnant?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 08:24 PM
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Yes. It's hard judge absent fathers because they are absent. And it hard to tell which men ditched their kids because... the kids aren't around him lol. It's very easy to judge single mothers because the kids being present will always be a reminder that she is one. Nobody is gonna assume a child free man is child free because he abandoned his kids. Could you imagine people assuming a woman doesn't have kids because she aborted them all? Men generally care less about what others think about them …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 08:20 PM
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i forgot men always take no for an answer Well you should report those men to the police, unless your ok with rapist being free. and never lie about anything either! Not sure what lie gets you pregnant but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 07:07 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 07:05 PM
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If she got millions then it mightve been worth putting up with her BS
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 07:05 PM
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Yes but it's harder to judge them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 12:25 PM
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I'm sure you have loads of statistics about this There are statistics that prove single mothers are harmful to society
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 12:23 PM
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Where are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 12:10 PM
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Men raised by single moms respect single moms. False. Even women will disagree with you on this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 12:08 PM
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It discourages other women from making the same mistakes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 12:02 PM
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Requires too much accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 11:31 AM
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Sounds like you can get those benefits by getting her pregnant yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 11:28 AM
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If you played it right you could've mooched off her
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 11:25 AM
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What? Your talking about hugs? White people are probably the most comfortable with hugging friends. I've never heard it ever be considered gay, you live in a weird world. There was even a tiktok trend where black dudes called their friends and said goodnight and everytime the other dude was like wtf igga are u gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 02:54 AM
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I can tell you didn't read the last of his reply
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:25 PM
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The majority of women experience significant loss of libido post and pre partum Why are single moms down to get around town then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:23 PM
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What's up with you and this anti white thing? Tons of blacks and Hispanics don't feel up their friends either
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:17 PM
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He did nothing wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:02 PM
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What about tradpill?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 08:03 PM
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Why are you bluepill?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:29 PM
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Hot girl who has hot lesbian scissor orgies ✂️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:37 AM
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He has a super hot girlfriend now
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 07:41 PM
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God forbid a guy be stoic 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 07:11 PM
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Why is the guy boring
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 04:22 AM
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I know it's well known, it just stood out to me that something so small/simple/stupid (running a red) could invoke this feeling in them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 07:55 PM
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Even my own girlfriend likes it when I run a red light This is so stupid but I know it's true for many if not most girls, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 07:31 PM
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I feel sorry for how clueless you are. What does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 07:17 PM
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Do you think girls mature faster?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 07:02 PM
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Ignorance is bliss
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 06:28 AM
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That's not really an interest in your job, it's an interest in an experience you had.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 04:59 AM
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I'll try to watch it later, thanks for the rec
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 08:30 AM
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No, I've pointed out how making something illegal doesn't automatically make the law effectively enforceable. Especially in the digital sphere where new sites and workarounds appear faster than the law can react.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 08:53 AM
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Yea definitely odd
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 08:10 AM
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For every site they take down 10 more will pop up. There are literally sites on the clear net that show child abuse. Obviously the government can take out the big dogs but that will just create small hydra heads
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 08:09 AM
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I think porn is too attached to our society to outright ban it. Also enforcing the ban would be impossible. I suggest raising the age to participate in its creation to 20 or 21 by advocating for "No teens in porn" and then taxing their earnings significantly more than normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 07:59 AM
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I think you are one of a few people to actually give an answer to this question that I mostly agree with. Although I usually say technology/advancement
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 07:48 AM
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still wears polos from middle school The exact shirts or similar ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 07:23 AM
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Just wondering about the type of chick that would do that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 07:11 AM
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Wasn't there a study that showed that more young men actually want to be committed/ start a family more than young women do?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 06:46 AM
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Is she hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 06:20 AM
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And they say women are the empathetic gender
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 06:18 AM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 03:51 AM
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Does she need more donars?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 03:20 AM
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Do you acknowledge at least that you're capable of shaping those environments? Some of them yes, some of them no. If it is my area/environment I will shape it as I see fit. If it's not my area it's not my problem. I don't visit another person's house and move the pictures on the walls around because I don't like how they have them displayed yk. In your life and social settings, does the majority enjoy being unaccommodating and rigid? No, but I think sometimes they should be less accomodating and…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 08:19 AM
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Invitation under the condition that they won't interact with you is something that I would find strange I understand that but I'm saying I think it is more rude to say "your not allowed to come" vs "you can come but I probably won't interact with you much because I'm going to be occupied" I'm having trouble imagining a scenario where a man would want to listen to taylor swift live, but doesn't have any idea about the conversations these women are talking about relating to her and her songs. He c…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 02:39 AM
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Many people yes. Mormons are indeed...uhh unique?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 01:11 AM
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Woman take
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 12:57 AM
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It's the most true with Mormons but even young Mormons are being less strict these days
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 12:52 AM
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I don't have any links for you but in many churches now, men are the majority
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:53 PM
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I've always found it interesting that when men are victimized because of their own stupid actions EVERYONE calls him a dumbass who should've know better but when a woman is victimized because of her stupid actions she has no fault and deserves all the sympathy in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:51 PM
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While a Mormon woman or conservative Christian woman will only accept someone in their religion or committed to converting Lmao that's untrue in the vast majority of the west
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:38 PM
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Sounds shitty. If it were me I'd either join in the social gathering, or if I truly had nothing in common with them (unusual) I wouldn't go. You don't have to go? The whole point is being polite to your partner and inviting them even if they don't enjoy the event, they are free to decline the invite. why'd he go at all? Seems like he's putting up with an experience he doesn't enjoy for little reason. Because he wanted to listen to taylor swift live? Because his girlfriend wanted him to come? The…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:25 PM
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I don't think that's weird. What do you think should happen if a person in a relationship wants to do something the other person doesn't like? Would you tell them they can't come with you? To me that's more rude than not interacting much with them for a little while. Why isn't the man being a friend to the rest of the group? Because the rest of the group does not have much in common with him, he is just there to chaperone them and his girlfriend. A better example might be something along the lin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 10:49 PM
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Haha I like it 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 09:29 PM
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That's nice to hear but please don't get your hopes up. I don't want you to think it's definitely going to work when nothing could come of it easily. I just want you to be in an environment where genuinely good women are more likely to be because once they get to know you, you'll have a way better shot of finding the right woman
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 08:12 AM
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Doing a little pre-ordering huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 01:08 AM
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Yea I agree with that. We could discuss the prevalence of it among genders but who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 08:29 PM
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But I thought it was "wrong" for men to think of sex as something they "get" from their wives? Is it not a mutual exchange? A woman wanting more material things from her husband because her friends husband gets her more stuff is NOT a mutual exchange?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 08:25 PM
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Are you the type of people that would enjoy a few days camping? I went camping in an area with no signal for 4days and it really helped clear my mind, wish I stayed longer. I suggest it if you are okay with the outdoors
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 08:13 PM
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Random theory: Women like travel so much because their ancestors were taken from village to village via conquest
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 08:03 PM
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I don't think that's an equivalent?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 07:53 PM
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Most women are really into media tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 07:51 PM
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i drive by colleges and high schools, i have eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 07:28 PM
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You sound like a good guy. You should try and consistently be in an environment where women are there and they have a higher likelihood of caring more about heart rather than looks. I know it's a drag but you could consider volunteering with animals, homeless, mentally ill, or the elderly. There is often women there who genuinely want to help people and they usually genuinely don't care about looks as much as normal. I met this chick who took care of people with special needs everyday and she wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 07:21 PM
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It's not "I will not interact with you" it's "I might not interact with you very much". I don't see the problem with being the background character for a night. Have you ever seen a group of girls go out drinking and one brings their boyfriend along as a designated driver/bodyguard? In this scenario the boyfriend is with the group but may not interact with the girls much because it's their night not his. Same thing could happen if a dude was having a fantasy football get together or something. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 08:52 PM
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I'd go sometimes and not go other times. Do you think this is a weird scenario or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:23 PM
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I'd say "ok" and that's it. Do you think I'd be mad or sad or something? Not sure why you asked this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:27 PM
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I'd tell her outright that it's possible I don't talk or interact with her much so she shouldn't get upset. Although I think after she comes along a few times she will learn the vibe and adjust so she fits in better and then be more of a participant rather than a spectator.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:13 PM
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Gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:56 AM
2

Was it long before you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:24 AM
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Good for them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:19 AM
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she had a very low n count She wanted to wait until marriage So was it low or 0?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:48 AM
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I would say "hey I want to go do this, do you wanna come?"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 12:14 AM
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Imo there are times I may want to spend time with people that doesn't involve her but if she wants to come along she is still allowed to but she has to realize I may not interact with her much.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:03 PM
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Yea
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 12:06 PM
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If you point out why a dude is attractive I can see it but alot of the time its difficult for me to see it on my own. For example I don't see the appeal in guys like Timothy kardashian or Harry styles
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 11:06 AM
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Yea
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 10:58 AM
1

Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 07:35 PM
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Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 07:27 PM
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Which concert?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 07:25 PM
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large fb with girls/women in my similar demographic and we have definitely come to a consensus that we see women we find attractive (even as straight women) more on average, than we do attractive men This is why guys say all girls are actually bisexual
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 07:18 PM
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It should've been me! Not him! Damn that's love 4real, happy for you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 05:57 PM
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What does "cycle through boyfriends" entail?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 06:59 AM
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She more or less expected that the guy she would get with would want to move into her mom's house in the finished basement and raise the kids there. What was she like? Was she hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 12:53 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:41 AM
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What a Chad. One day I'll get there
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:50 AM
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Did I assume?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:49 AM
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Did he know she was rich at first?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:50 AM
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Nice. How did he meet her?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:09 AM
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Are they also strippers?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:11 AM
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Lol yeah let's compare hookups vs having sex with your spouse. Totally similar, not different at all really. Wild
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 03:50 AM
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It doesn't matter if it normal or expected. It still is hoe behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 09:35 PM
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Hoe phase vs hoe moments
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 09:07 AM
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If you find them attractive you might want to stick around their social circle for awhile, they have a higher chance of finding a single friend who is at least somewhat like them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 05:11 AM
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I'm pretty sure young men are actually starting to outnumber women in church attendance
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 05:09 AM
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It's okay, I hate them too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:08 AM
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Just explain why you hate swedes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 08:48 AM
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Why do you hate swedes then
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 01:42 AM
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Danish detected?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 01:32 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 10:39 PM
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Do I sense a little victim blaming in your tone? Hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 09:30 PM
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Get with the times ol man
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 09:05 PM
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Ah ok 👍 I thought you were saying it's gross like a fact, not a preference
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 09:04 PM
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Why is it gross? We all control our partners to some degree
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 08:51 PM
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You seem to actually have a heart. How did your perception of women change after listening to these guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 08:34 PM
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Maybe they're right
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 08:32 PM
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Norwegian detected?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 08:28 PM
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You have no concept of what it's like to be a victim of an immigrant family, nor any compassion. I pray that you don't have to gain that compassion the hard way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 08:19 PM
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Have you considered going on a low dose trt? (dont go above 200mg) I think it could help alot of guys become more attractive to females. I also tried Facebook dating and got way better results. They seem way more open and down to earth than every other dating app, although there was also WAY more single moms and a few druggies, criminals, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 08:10 PM
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I think men using women for casual sex is heavily overblown, especially for the younger generation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 07:58 PM
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Men do it when they can
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 07:54 PM
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I generally only see men say that after women complain about a dude they were dating
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 07:47 PM
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You really want to tell people what is and isn't trauma? Seems like that could easily be used against you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 06:58 PM
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Why? This way we both get what we want
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 09:59 PM
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That's kinda cute ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 08:24 PM
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Then you should get a maid and we will get a sidechick
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 08:04 PM
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Ok just don't think about it that much and try your best in the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:22 AM
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go all in and have a baby Babies always fix relationships lol He should rip off the band-aid now by quitting his job and seeing how she reacts. Might as well speed up the process
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:57 AM
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A better question is would she have even married him or been in a long relationship with him if he behaved like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:39 AM
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Did she say any of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:30 AM
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The reason many relationships like that fail, is because the MEN feel less than Gaslight gatekeep girlboss
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:29 AM
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woman can be the one to order them around I'm sure they'd love that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:23 AM
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that would be a ridiculous thing to expect women to live up to. True, my standards are only M cups and a double backflip
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:30 AM
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Wait so ugly, fat, single mom, druggie women (as the OP described) have a very easy time dating? Well they usually have a pack of baby daddies so obviously they are getting some dates
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:02 PM
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Most people Women*
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 11:47 PM
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Then why has calling men incels become mainstream?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 12:50 PM
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Most of the men here have no experience at all, they're just mindlessly parroting manosphere nonsense Why is it so common for men to have no experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:00 AM
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Actually men do MORE work than women when you combine hours at work, housework and childcare. This is why women aren't interested in men anymore. Why aren't women interested in men if that's false?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:51 PM
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I knew a dude who got kicked out by his mom when he refused to take care of his illegitimate baby that his gf was trying to pin on him after she cheated. The gf moved in with his mom lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:23 PM
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You should have asked her how many men she's had sex with. Now thats an interesting question
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 02:04 AM
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The guys whole argument is "I knew a guy who slept underneath a bridge and ate food out of the trash who became a millionaire overnight, homeless people have zero excuses"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:45 AM
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Which comment got deleted? I still see it. My response It is NOT mean, harsh, or cruel to ask why a person improved themselves after their marriage ended but not during it. Honestly that's one of the most ridiculous things I've heard. So your perspective is maybe this maybe that maybe he was bad....uhhhh okay? Maybe he was a great husband and she was a shitty wife but I'm not gonna frame my opinion on something I don't know is true or not. My perspective is based on the facts we have which is Sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 07:03 PM
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Is he wrong though? Which part was mean, nasty, harsh or cruel? I don't see it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:53 PM
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5-7 is good Aka average at minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:29 PM
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I like this analogy alot. If I meet an amazing woman who is interested in me when I already have a girlfriend I would never dump my gf. A compromise is perfectly reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:48 PM
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Ogling at a dude at work is a step towards a path of cheating which is arguably worse than just getting dumped
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:37 PM
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You've never seen a girl ogle at an attractive dude at work then realize she had a boyfriend the whole time?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:13 PM
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Sounds great tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:37 AM
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Late reply. The first 2 posts I looked at were false allegations, still seems like it's a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 10:09 PM
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Tell me why the first 2 posts I looked at were false allegations? Lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 10:06 PM
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Women will never be the pursuers until There is no "until". There is nothing men can do socially to make women the default approachers. I suppose killing half of the world's male population could work
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:40 PM
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Higher success rate
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:07 PM
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Lmao true
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:07 PM
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and even some who like women who seem outwardly hostile towards them. Ngl I like those toxic chicks that tell me to shut the fuck up when I try to talk to them but they also get mad when I show interest in another girl
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 04:35 PM
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That's not a good argument
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:38 PM
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Completely agree 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 04:51 AM
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What type of pretty is your sister? Normal pretty, above average pretty, girl next door pretty, WOW pretty, model pretty? I understand it might be hard to properly describe her attractiveness but do your best to imagine how she would come across to a stranger
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:02 AM
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Some women just come off as unapproachable. Maybe you and your sister come off as "Don't talk to me" and not cute, shy, soft etc
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:26 PM
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Me and the homies with tall muscle mommies
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:51 PM
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statistically a woman is more likely to be beaten or killed by her partner than anybody else Who would've thought that the person you spend the most time with has the most opportunity to hurt you. It's the same reason most car accident happen when you are close to your home.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:49 PM
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Ok? Which part implies I'd do the same if I could?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:44 PM
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Men are not attracted to virgin women I'd disagree with that but perhaps it's a cultural difference “is something wrong with you?” Maybe they think she's lying and is secretly a hoe or former prostitute but if she's generally attractive I don't think most men would have a problem with a virgin woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:42 PM
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That's some odd behavior from them. Did you happen to become more attractive during this time? Also are you still modest or a slut like your username? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:09 PM
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Ah ok
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:56 PM
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Ahhh I gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:48 PM
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Most men are not interested in virgins It's not a problem for the majority of men Almost every guy that wasn’t interested in me when I was a virgin jumped through a lot of hoops to be in a relationship with me after the fact Why? What changed? Some of my “guy friends” even tried and sabotage my relationship with my husband That's weird asf. Is your husband your first boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:47 PM
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I married my first boyfriend W
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:43 PM
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I understand be frustrated by inconsistency but how do you know these people are being inconsistent?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:37 PM
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No? Why do you come to that conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:29 PM
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In this context?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:28 PM
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What's wrong with slut shaming
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:24 PM
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Give an example
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:23 PM
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Where do you view these groups? Mostly on Facebook?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:17 PM
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You sound ridiculous. Imagine a woman saying "men rape people" and a man replying "No, shitty people rape people, regardless of gender"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:16 PM
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However I will say that they are huge in my area, so much so that nearly every man on the dating market will show up on them, and very accurate. That's surprising to me. Where do you view these large groups? Facebook?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:11 PM
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appears to be about half and half. Honestly that sounds ridiculous but I'll believe you Also why does it matter? Men are free to join and vet women as well Men don't have as much of a need to vet women this way. If you look at dating statistics by age way more young women are in relationships than young men, which doesn't make sense unless women are dating the same men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:01 PM
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Women have more options than men. Women think they 'deserve' certain treatment and if they don't get it from their partner they are more likely to look elsewhere for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:58 PM
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I haven't seen that. Surely they are outnumbered 10:1 or so
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:52 PM
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I'm sure it was group dependent and most groups were fine and properly served their purpose but there were definitely groups that were toxic and harmful. Weren't there also groups that were banned or disbanded? I'm pretty sure this resulted in those same women creating their own apps to continue their agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:51 PM
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I'm not arguing that it's only a female trait? I'm arguing this behavior disproportionately is performed by women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:40 PM
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Ha ha nice try, but it proves that a certain percentage of men are untrustworthy, shit people that women vetted before gambling on sharing a man. This is so obviously true it does not need to be proved. It's the exact same for females but you don't see men creating 'Are we dating the same woman'. Probably because women do date the same small % of men. seriously just did exactly what I said and tried to find fault with women I did not try to find fault with women. I gave you a reason some men had…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:18 PM
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"Demisexual" is stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 07:12 PM
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Didn't men not like 'Are we dating the same guy' because the women were making up false allegations against them? Wasn't there a lot of women claiming he mistreated her when he never even went on a date with her? Weren't women getting pictures of random men from social media and those men weren't even on dating apps? Also doesn't the existence of 'Are we dating the same guy' prove that women were dating the same small % of desirable men? At the very least it helps their claim of the 80/20 rule, …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 07:04 PM
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Men don't have as many options as women so it doesn't happen nearly as often. You could argue that men would do it just as much it not more than women would it they had equal opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 06:48 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 06:45 PM
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Because I’m not giving someone like 40k for a car? You said you didn't have the money for a car. In reality you did have the money but didn't want to spend it on him that way. Well now I want a boyfriend so I have one. I’ve enjoyed fuck buddies in the past. So around the time you were dating the broke artists you wanted a fuck buddy not a boyfriend. Correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:19 PM
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Did you want a boyfriend or a fuck buddy? If you wanted a boyfriend why would you only support them for a year? I don’t have the money to like buy him a car but yeah I’ve been the one who pays for all the trips and dates and buys them clothes and stuff. If you can afford to pay for all their trips, dates, clothes, gifts etc how do you not have enough money to buy them a car?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:08 PM
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if I’m honest I wouldn’t be interested in a forever relationship. Then what's the point if you're only willing to support him for a year? It sounds like you want a fuck buddy or boy toy, not a relationship. money kept coming up. From him; not me. I didn’t talk about it unless he did. Sometimes money needs to be talked about. Especially when you have none. I’ll play sugar mama. I’ll support a pretty boy. I’ve done it twice before Damn chick how rich are you? Is it your money or your parents money…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:55 AM
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Let me ask you a question. What would of happened if you and the broke artists dude really connected and he never broke up with you? Do you not think their would have been an issues created by your wealth gap? Do you not think you would have grown frustrated with him having no money?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:42 AM
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Let me ask you a question. What would of happened if you and the broke artists dude really connected and he never broke up with you? Do you not think their would have been an issues created by your wealth gap? Do you not think you would have grown frustrated with him having no money?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:42 AM
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Why would a man want to get into a relationship with a woman who often takes herself on vacations when he can barely afford rent? It would be only a matter of time before their difference of income became an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:32 AM
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Do you disagree?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:16 AM
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Well, Gisele left Brady. And then banged the masseuse. She was banging him long before she divorced Brady.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:10 AM
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Still not a moment
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:52 AM
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It's not that niche that women will monkey branch to more desirable men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:37 AM
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You can’t get fat in a moment
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:07 AM
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Cool story, thx for the reply
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 12:44 AM
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There's probably a direct correlation between girls that really like lean guys and how much they use social media
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 12:19 AM
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I definitely see way more fat men with slim wives Poland be like
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 12:16 AM
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Probably yea
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 12:05 AM
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Ah ok
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:56 PM
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When I fall for someone no other men exist. As you should
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:52 PM
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You don't think that's true?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:49 PM
2

people would rather throw the baby at a man-eating predator as a sacrifice
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:48 PM
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people would rather throw the baby at a man-eating predator as a sacrifice
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:48 PM
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There’s amazingly hot women that have only ever dated two men their entire lives. WHERE? Like seriously, I’ve been lucky enough to have a beautiful woman fall for me and she saw me as so handsome. She literally said “I’m not attracted to anyone else” and she behaved like that, because she’d never even dated anyone else and we were best friends! How did you fumble?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:45 PM
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There’s amazingly hot women that have only ever dated two men their entire lives. WHERE? Like seriously, I’ve been lucky enough to have a beautiful woman fall for me and she saw me as so handsome. She literally said “I’m not attracted to anyone else” and she behaved like that, because she’d never even dated anyone else and we were best friends! How did you fumble?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:44 PM
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I agree with you but I'd say men's attraction is also relative to some degree. For example if there is 1 pretty woman at the bar and 5 even prettier women walk into the bar most men would say think "wow 6 pretty women are in the bar" But if there is 1 pretty woman in the bar and 10 extremely pretty walked into the bar and you asked the men they would have a higher chance of saying "10 pretty women are in the bar and 1 girl that is decent". If you disagree just make the hypothetical more extreme
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:40 PM
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Fair to say men's attraction is more absolute and women's attraction is more relative?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:25 PM
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because not only was he physically attractive Nice save
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:11 PM
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try saying you're not into short guys around there parts I think most women are open and honest about not liking short guys
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:00 PM
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Do your kids know about redpill?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:08 PM
1

Men and women cheat about the same amount
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:35 AM
1

You think me and Bubba deserve to be in jail?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:17 PM
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at least you admitted that you just made up a statistic Nope didn't do that You can't find the study because the study doesn't exist Ok We didn't poll women 150 years to figure out how happy they were in relationships I wasn't about all time So just to clarify you don't think women choosing to stay single at extremely high rates is an indicator that women aren't happy with alot of their potential relationships? What about the high divorce rates too?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:54 PM
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In jail I met a big buff dude named Bubba. You know what Bubba was in doing time for? Because he looked at a girl while she was doing hip thrusts for tiktok...poor dude never had a fighting chance
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:49 PM
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And then the cops beat me up and took me to jail. Which is exactly why men don't approach women anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:41 PM
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Women are not complaining more than usual. True. Women have always complained alot You also just made it up that women are less happy in relationships nowadays. I didnt make it up and was looking for the study but I can't find it. Do you disagree women's happiness while single is at an all time high?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:40 PM
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I tried approaching a cute girl I've seen that walks home at night. I walk behind her just close enough to where she can hear my footsteps to make her aware I'm there then start breathing heavily because I'm nervous and I follow her for awhile building up the courage to take the leap and approach her.... she was walking pretty fast at this point so I had to run to catch up with her and then she pepper sprayed me and called the cops.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:17 PM
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So by YOUR metric, no, women don't have high standards at all Ehhh Most women are in relationships, or sleeping around, or will soon be in relationships that they want to be in Women are complaining about dating alot nowadays. Fewer women are happy in relationships and fewer are pursuing relationships in general, this is especially common among gen z Also, based on YOUR definition, there's a similar amount of men who shoot way above their league, and therefore have standards that are too high fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:10 PM
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I do not think it's the exact same everytime but I do think after enough attempts you will start doing similar things you've done it the past
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:49 PM
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I gave an example of what a can make a standard high or not and it seems like you've interpreted it as me saying many women have this high standard, I did not. Also to say men and women have equally high standards based off one example is extremely imprecise. Yea that list is too generic to be useful, it need to be broken down more. -she must be attracted to the man -he must have similar values to her -he must have a compatible personality with her How rare are the things that most women find at…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:42 PM
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You think it's different every time then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:17 AM
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Labeling a standard as high or low should be on how common it is and how easily achievable it is for yourself and your partner. An average girl who only wants to date tall rich millionaire famous athletes has astronomically high standards but if Serena Williams had those same standards they would not be considered high standards at all. Do you think you could semi accurately make a list of female standards or do you think it varies too much?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:15 AM
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So at no point you think trying the same thing over and over and expecting a different result is insanity?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:03 AM
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That’s what dating is What if they can't even make it that far? You’re already expecting to always fail. What if they do always fail?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:49 AM
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Appreciate the accountability but I'm not sure it's really needed here. Teenagers are allowed to be a little dumb and naive lol Glad ur happy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:21 AM
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Can I ask the ages? Sorry you went through that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:42 AM
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Can I ask why you were with a below average guy who also was a cheater?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:23 AM
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If no luck, do the plan again. Keep doing the list until you see results. So keep trying over and over, failure after failure?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:11 AM
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Women don't have "high standards." Ehhhh Glad we agree overall tho. How many women do you think would agree with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:03 AM
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So... preselection
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:39 AM
2

spewing nonsense about women's dating options that you don't understand. Help him understand by explaining where ne went wrong then
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:35 AM
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Just haven't had the opportunity I'm sure women would love this answer
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:23 AM
1

So how does a person with no drive become a person with drive? How does he maintain the drive he acquires when he experiences failure after failure?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:19 AM
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they have higher standards So we agree women have higher standards than men? I've been seeing women deny this recently. What do you think the average woman's opinion on this is?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:35 PM
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People have done experiments to find out how much paying helps. Watch the video "Are dating apps pay to win?" By Zachary Smigel for a full breakdown It I remember correctly it depends on which premium plan you pay for but overall no premium plan is even close to being worth the money
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:23 PM
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Do companies extort men or do women extort men? I dont think I've ever seen a company tell women "if he doesn't give you a gift he doesn't love you" but I've definitely heard many women say that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:33 AM
10

You may not like it but this is what the peak male physique looks like
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:31 PM
2

People choosing their job over their partner will never not surprise me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:54 AM
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Nah that's a green flag and if you disagree you are wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:18 PM
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Kinda sounds like the relationship ended? Or is it still going strong?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:23 PM
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That's not normal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:22 PM
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The difference is if she's dating a normal guy vs Chad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:12 PM
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Those women are.... not the best anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:36 AM
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Smaller attraction range, higher standards, lower libido = less variety Women are more likely to get stuck on their "high setting" and compare their current partners with their previous partners and are also more likely to "monkey branch" to what they believe is a better partner. Men want more variety because they are the opposite of what's listed above. Do you think men or women are more likely to ask their partner for a threesome? The answer is obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:57 AM
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Well first of all most women have a smaller attraction range than men. Wouldn't you agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:07 PM
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If we exclude the men with little to no standards, I still think men have a much wider attraction range than women. I think most men and women would agree too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:50 AM
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I think even most women would agree that men's attraction range in much wider than women's. Although it may come along with a statement like "all men are dogs" or "men will fuck anything"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:15 AM
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I'm just wondering how wide of a net you think womens desires are. Ofc there is some variance and some women are willing to settle for less than their ideal but it seems we disagree on the amount. Do you think that women's attraction range is way smaller than men's or pretty comparable?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:32 AM
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Nothing is wrong with that. It's wrong we aren't importing big booty Latinas by the millions tho
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 12:38 AM
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Unfortunately that's a losing battle
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 11:54 PM
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Women don't want variety more than men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 10:58 PM
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So where is the overlap?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:46 PM
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Can you give me an example of wide variance in height, hair color, hair style, and physique? I agree with habits and hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:24 PM
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Wide variance as in?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:12 PM
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Yah, that’s why men are having trouble attracting women for relationships - because women get SO much from those. No it's because men don't meet women's high standards or "expectations"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 07:35 PM
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when it's highly varied Is it tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 07:22 PM
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Good women 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 07:18 PM
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👉👌
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:07 AM
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So you have no interest in having a real conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:29 PM
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No your right that's what I meant. I was being sarcastic and I guess if you didn't read my previous comment it wouldn't come across that way. I'll edit it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:22 PM
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You don't respond to anything proving men are struggling way more than women? if most men agreed not to initiate it would have to stop. What would stop? It's impossible to get the majority of men to all agree do something. If men stopped initiating women would NOT initiate nearly as much as men are currently and they would likely only initiate with a small percentage of desirable men. It would only make things worse. I don't believe this by the way I'm just presenting what is commonly said to wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:12 PM
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To some extent, yes. They struggle to pick one they are happy with long term, they do not struggle to get dates. Men initiate and pursue women way more than the opposite. Men are rejected way more than women. Women break up with men more Women initiate divorce more Men are more likely to try and find substitutes for a relationship like... Prostitutes, onlyfans girls, hourly hired girlfriends, realistic sex dolls, AI girlfriends etc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:01 PM
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I don't think statistics showing historically low marriage rates combined with high divorce rates prove the average man doesn't struggle with dating - if anything it proves they ARE struggling
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:30 PM
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What's your point? Unless I'm missing something I agree with this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:15 PM
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Then men need to stop doing that and take responsibility for their enabling behaviours. Unfortunately I think it's basically a necessity for dating. Most men already struggle in the dating scene, if they were completely stop spending money on women then their odds would plummet. Just like women are told its their fault for being attracted to muscular men. Haven't heard that 1 b4
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:05 PM
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Thanks for the great convo! It was very civil and pleasant which is pretty rare nowadays on the internet lol. Glad to hear you have a good family too, make sure you always appreciate them! <3
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:41 PM
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I think it can be more difficult to identify golddiggers because men spending money on the woman is usually part of the courting process and an expectation once in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:24 PM
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Obviously there are some men who are blind to the obvious signs a woman is a golddigger. Obviously there are things they can do to minimize being used by a golddigger. Are you happy with that response?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:22 PM
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Yea I'd probably say you are "nudging her in the right direction" and not "challenging" her. Even if we change "challenging" to "nudging" I still think most women wouldn't pick C. I understand you agreeing with her after a bad breakup but do you think you would eventually "nudge" your friend if you did not have a good boyfriend? Like if after you moved on from your ex you stayed single. I will admit it is less common for women to do these confrontations online. It really is a “conversations betw…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:19 PM
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It's interesting the way you are trying to make it seem like he said only women can be deceived when he never said anything that would indicate that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:02 PM
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Just to specify - This does NOT mean you should date men you find unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:54 AM
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If women should know men are abusers on sight men should know they are gold diggers ect. I mean yea there are often signs for both.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:52 AM
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That's not how life works if you think people can pick less abusive partners as women the same is true for men. You think you can't choose less abusive partners? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:49 AM
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Honestly I think at least a couple of the women will change their minds (a), probably not completely adopt the views of the 4 women but at least somewhat. I agree most would probably pick B I worded (C) badly. Perhaps instead of calling their opinion "wrong" I should have said "challenged their opinion" Do you think not challenging the 4 women's views that men aren't valuable is a little dangerous or bad for society? Or is it simply none of their business? But most women do want a man - them say…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:47 AM
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I agree with you but many of them say they don't need or want a man. I ask this question because I see plenty of women talking down on men but don't see any talking positively about men. So let's assume you are right and the majority of women (6/10) have a somewhat positive view of men, if those women saw other women loudly and proudly talking down on men (4/10). Do you think the 6 women are more likely to (A.) Be influenced by the other women and change their answer. (B.) Keep their opinion the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:27 AM
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Or maybe there's more to love and dating than just physical attraction. I agree. I also never said anything that contradicts this. Redpills BEG and WAIL women to give them LVM a chance and when I date someone who's not a ten I'm now a villain because he has to work harder to make me attracted. I haven't seen redpill beg women to date Low Value Men although I guess maybe you interpret it that way because you think anybody who isn't a 10 is automatically low value to you. I'm now a villain because…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:11 AM
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I'm tired so maybe I'm not reading it correctly but I also don't understand why you can't answer my questions
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 10:46 AM
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you're not compatible with me if you're insecure enough to comb through all my past partners and decide one by one if i made them wait long enough. Ok Anyway, is it anyone else's fault but your own if your girl felt more secure and more attracted to her ex, so she had sex with him sooner? Just accept that you're not that guy. If she had me jump through more hoops than her ex then yea obviously I'm not that guy. I'd rather leave and be that guy for someone else. Plus, if i'm not ready to have sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 10:44 AM
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I don't know the point of it so I'm not sure what's supposed to click. I could explain how I understand it if you'd like
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 10:36 AM
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How is this scenario relevant? Is it supposed to be contradictory?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 10:34 AM
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Yes. How is it contradictory?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 10:24 AM
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Who is harmed in the process if I decide I want to have sex faster with someone? Physically? No one. Emotionally? Potentially your future partner. Why is it when women say they don't have casual sex right away there will be flocks of men rushing to say "OKAY BUT YOU BETTER NOT FUCK CHAD THEN WHEN YOU GET THE CHANCE." It's not about "Don't fuck Chad" its about don’t drop your standards for him. Men don't want to get with a girl who made him jump through hoops but didn't make other guys do the sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 10:10 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 09:47 AM
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Don't be so picky ≠ date ugly dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 09:33 AM
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Why did you date an ugly guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 07:17 AM
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Maybe it is technically Chad treatment but should it be? I don't think so
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 07:14 AM
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I would argue it’s the women who give away their bodies to men that can’t do anything for them, that are the whores. So most women are whores? A woman having sex with a man that she loves is a whore because he is broke and can't provide?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 07:10 AM
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Your standards (if true) seem perfectly reasonable. Thank you/good job Idk if the guy meant that you'd get raped...that's a pretty big statement but either way it was not a nice thing to say It's only bad imo if you abandon your standards for "Chad" and then regain them for an average Joe. If your standards were consistent throughout it does not make you less valuable at all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:54 AM
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W this is perfectly fine and reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:45 AM
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Who is saying only Chads can be assholes?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:41 AM
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How is saying "give a decent guy a chance" and "pick better" contradictory?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:38 AM
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Guys aren't telling women to get with guys they aren't attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:15 AM
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Ok let's say 6/10 would agree with you. If the first four women loudly proclaimed men are worthless and don't add any value to their life, do you think the remaining 6 would still agree with you or would their answer change?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:52 AM
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Which country
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:20 AM
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If you were to ask 10 random women this question how many do you think would give a similar answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:24 AM
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I would much rather have someone point me the way than be a shoulder to cry on. A shoulder to cry on becomes a dick to ride on
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:06 PM
1

I have heard stories from women who were in abusive relationships. They generally say the abuse is physical, emotional, manipulation/coercion etc but I've not heard BC sabotage. I'd be willing to bet if abused women were surveyed BC tampering would be low on the list. Maybe I'm wrong tho 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:19 PM
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Would cold also render them ineffective? Messing with BC seems pretty extreme and hopefully pretty rare, I don't think most men or women would have the knowledge of how to render it ineffective.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:04 PM
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Thanks for the info. Not finding anything on Google about it except about other medications
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:19 AM
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W opinion Fuck the haters
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 07:59 AM
1

Why is that a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 12:10 PM
1

Everything depends on how attractive you are
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 09:20 AM
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Thanks for having consistent standards
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 09:16 AM
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Would you go for a woman who's 195cm? Yes...if you know one that tall send her my way
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 07:40 PM
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How tall? How fat? What's your face look like? If you're 6'4, not very fat and have a decent face then I'd bet a good amount of women would be into you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 11:09 AM
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This isn't asking for much, honestly it should be the bare minimum. Nah 4real tho you made a pretty good list, most things are accurate or not far off. Other girls seem to gotten a couple things right then dropped the ball
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:40 AM
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This really isn't asking much
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:06 AM
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Bro what did you do
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:02 AM
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Standards can increase the odds of feeling special but if it was just about feeling special for women then it would override any standards they have. I also don't understand how feeling special relates to friendships at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 06:51 AM
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I'm not sure what your getting at
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:27 AM
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So you'd agree it's not just about feeling special for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:12 AM
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Yea thats bad but it's not terrible. Are you open to taking semaglutides? (Weightloss drugs)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:08 PM
2

How tall are you? 6ft4 400lbs and 5'6 400lbs are drastically different
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:00 PM
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You make it sound like it's impossible to find a guy who's willing to wait. It's not THAT rare
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:58 PM
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I don't think guys saying they "just want a gf" but then explaining what their ideal gf would be like is contradictory.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:55 PM
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Come to the dark side brother
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:28 PM
2

How much you weigh big dog?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:14 PM
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Do you say that to all the women with checklists?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:03 PM
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That's true but maybe since you have fewer options the options you do have are better/more serious. For example using dating apps I've heard of a few guys taking bad pictures, making a bad profile and seemingly the most important part; listing yourself as short. They obviously don't get many matches but they weren't getting matches anyway lol, but the few matches that happen seem to be of higher quality Just trying to see the bright side of things
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:01 PM
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Didn't address my points but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:49 PM
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Women do the exact same thing. How many women think a man being ugly is a deal breaker? What about short, poor, small dick, non vibrant social life, no status? The VAST majority of them, as in 99% of women. If it was just about feeling special these things wouldn't matter to women Men want to feel special too. That's why men get upset that she made him wait and work for things when she gave it away easily to another man before
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:41 PM
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Did you plant the tree?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:09 PM
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Why though? Why what? I’m in a relationship with him, not society I'm not asking you about your relationship I know a drop dead gorgeous girl who’s exclusively into obese men. Send her my number Is there a point you’re trying to get to with this bizarre line of questioning? I'm explaining to you what a Chad and Stacy are...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:04 PM
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It's not about what he finds attractive it's about what society finds attractive. A Chad can be into fat chicks but that doesn't make the fat girl a Stacey. I’m 5’6, slim and athletic, straight teeth and good bone structure These are traits society finds attractive. So just to clarify, you do think most of society would consider you quite attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:58 PM
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Just cuz ur w him doesn't make you a Stacey Do you think you are equivalent to him attractiveness wise according to society?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:53 PM
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Stacey = female Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:48 PM
1

Are you a Stacey?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:46 PM
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Having traits that women find attractive like height, looks, money, confidence etc. Resulting in them being capable of having a high success rate with females. 6'2 is already in the top 10% of male heights, then throw in good looks and he is easily in the top 5% for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:43 PM
1

You don't even know what Chad means
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:33 PM
1

Isn't it such a coinkydink that the best guys are always chads
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:30 PM
1

Classic
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:26 PM
1

What's ur boyfriend look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:58 AM
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It might go like that if hes an above average guy and every woman he approached already liked him but if it's just a regular dude approaching then I invision much more rejection
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:01 PM
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I knew we had different ideas on how it would play out but I didn't expect it to be so drastic 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:38 PM
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I really want to get a group of average guys and have them record themselves approaching women using whatever method women say they prefer and see their results. I think it would be an entertaining youtube series and we could see if men's or women's opinion is closer to reality. vibe that they like you, it’s 50/50 that they will say yes Yea its probably is close to 50/50 when the guy thinks the woman likes him. How often do you think the average guy thinks a woman is interested in him? We don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:28 PM
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Making small talk with many women What is "many" women? How many chances does the average guy have to engage in a conversation where the woman deems it appropriate? It just seems like random luck if she thinks the setting is appropriate because other women would think it's inappropriate. Pretty high success. Maybe 50/50. You're telling me you think most men only need to ask 2 women to find success? Do you really think men would prefer to complain about being alone than just asking out 2 women? N…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:57 PM
1

Ur*
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:57 PM
1

Your welcome
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:56 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:54 PM
2

Did you reply to the wrong person?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:51 PM
1

I never said that. You know I never said that. You are purposefully putting words in my mouth. Stop
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:50 PM
1

You can find out when she answers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:08 AM
1

I just realized you aren't who I was talking to. Why did you respond to a question that wasn't for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:02 AM
1

You know everything about his behavior but don't know what he looks like?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:44 AM
1

Ok let's assume an average guy starts approaching lots of women irl. What do you think his success rate would be?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:42 AM
0

Don't wanna answer huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:31 AM
0

What does new bf look like
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:04 AM
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Men also have a much wider attraction range compared to women though. So even if looks is 80% of what men are looking for in a relationship that does not mean he is only attracted to the top 20% of women. This is why most people agree men have lower standards than women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:57 AM
1

So you think men cheat less?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 01:32 PM
3

Men have higher libidos, a wider attraction range and generally desire variety more than women. I think its basically a given men would cheat more than women if given equal opportunity
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 06:15 AM
3

?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 05:58 AM
2

My childrens best interest is my best interest
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 05:46 AM
0

L state
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 05:33 AM
3

Overall I think men and women cheat roughly about the same amount but men would cheat mire if they had the opportunity
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 05:25 AM
3

she gets everything on the asset split? Not everything but she should definitely get preferential treatment I think physical abuse should warrant this as well. Sure why not? We'd have to throw away claims of abuse with no police reports and only "proof" of small injuries like small bruises that could be from anything, especially if the accused abuser has no history of domestic violence. If the accused has a history of previous domestic violence, the victim has proof of severe injuries and has re…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:01 AM
1

Maybe women shouldn't give men emotional baggage then
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 05:48 PM
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W
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:47 AM
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She ain't a lady if she ain't 180
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:32 AM
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If she 210 count ya boy in
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:32 AM
1

That's why we multiply by 3
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:05 PM
1

Your description sounds like a womans
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:24 PM
1

W rizz?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:45 PM
1

3 matches a week resulting in a couple dates a month is a very high success rate. It would be a good success rate even with 10matches a week
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:43 PM
1

SNAP OUT OF IT
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 10:03 AM
1

Are you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:34 AM
2

Tomboy w
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:50 PM
1

Banger
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:26 PM
1

The thread is about victim blaming, that's why the title is "Sometimes its okay to blame the victim" and not "Sometimes it's okay to blame women who are raped" Women who have faced sexual assault is the main subject, not the only subject. The post author even used a man getting mugged as an example of victim blaming. Other people have done the same throughout the thread. I said people (men & women) should learn from past experiences to avoid becoming a victim again.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:40 AM
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I said men AND women should learn from past experiences. I did not say "women should learn their lesson" and I did not say anything that specifically applied to sexual assault either. Twisting my words is pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:09 AM
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I didnt say that but sure, go ahead. Are you gonna stop befriending women once they victimize you too?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:27 AM
1

Okay let's say a friend keeps getting hurt doing the same thing over and over. They are not your patient. Do you still refuse to tell them to be more careful? You just let them continue to hurt themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 12:07 AM
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I am saying men and women should learn from previous experiences. If a person repeatedly puts themselves in a situation where they have been a victim before and they continue to be a victim then they are partially at fault too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:49 PM
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Why? Maybe because he wanted to explore another culture, idk... Now it’s perfectly fair in my opinion to have certain deal breakers from the past for me that’s alcoholism and drug abuse. And I also think if a man or woman has deal breakers regarding number of sexual partners that’s their choice. My point was that someone who thinks that way is just a bad match for me. Ok gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:06 PM
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What if he traveled to a poor country to use sex workers
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:22 PM
1

Did you purposely skip where you said "Should have been a little more careful" and "think real carefully about what they could have done differently" because it obviously applied more to my statement than "wear seatbelt lol"?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:19 PM
1

Please elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:13 PM
1

The first time you are a victim is a learning lesson, every time after you need to look at yourself and the mirror and ask yourself what you did to put yourself in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:04 PM
1

I know you aren't serious but what if you treat the same patient 2 or even 3+ times for the exact same thing? Don't you think that's legitimate advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:59 AM
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If a man got wasted and stoned with his friends, passed out on the couch and got his phone stolen, then what? The first time is a lesson, the second time is naivety, the third time is idiocy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:56 AM
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I mean after a while you got to let the sack refill
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:38 AM
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Is it a double standard when most men would be very happy to engage in the same acts they did with the "hotter" girls in the past with their wife but most women wouldn't be willing/happy/excited to do the same with their husbands? Also there are a good chunk of men who actually refuse to go down on women or have sex that solely focuses on the woman until he is married to his special woman. Women generally do the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:13 AM
1

You should have accepted him for who he truly is
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 08:27 PM
1

It's not the "jock look" it's the "Adam Sandler " look
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 08:25 PM
1

Loose pussy propaganda
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 06:04 AM
-1

Yes they are
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:25 AM
-1

Stop with this loose pussy propaganda
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 12:45 AM
1

Idk why it's hard for people to understand that many men want to be the best their girl has ever had in general (not just sex). It's not an unreasonable desire
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 12:39 AM
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By other women who like big d they are
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 11:24 PM
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men with small penis issues often being bad people Small dick = bad person... got it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 11:23 PM
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Yea I've heard it from women usually when they are bored and nothing else to do and the conversation kinda floats that way. Although usually women say something along the lines of "I'm not a size queen but...(something that indicates they like big D)"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 11:16 PM
1

Yea...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 10:58 PM
2

It's only gay if he has sex with other males. If he is having sex with a woman at the end of the night, neither opinion moves him any closer to "gay" So a man imagining his girlfriend was a man while having sex with her is not gay AT ALL?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 10:37 PM
2

Which is more gay? Guy 1 who chooses a conventionally attractive girlfriend to specifically show her off to other males Or Guy 2 who chooses a conventionally unattractive girlfriend because he genuinely finds her attractive and doesn't care what other males think of her
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 10:22 PM
1

Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 10:02 PM
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Making every one at a party think your hot shit because your girlfriend is extremely hot does sound fun but only once or twice. Any guy who chooses a girlfriend so they he can specifically show her off to other males is kinda gay
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 10:01 PM
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Alot of girls (most) want to be unique so the girls who embrace being generic are actually the unique ones
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 09:53 PM
1

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 10:25 PM
1

It would be getting even
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:34 AM
1

Just sleep with the daughter?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:31 AM
-1

None of his teammates like him
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:16 AM
0

Russ is a perfect example of a cuck
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:11 AM
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Russell Wilson is a cuck and none of his teammates like him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:49 PM
1

Based?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:45 PM
1

"I was born a man"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:36 PM
4

Yes, I'm sleeping with our son ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:35 PM
4

No? Idk how you are getting this impression
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:21 PM
4

Yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:20 PM
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What? It did make sense before?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:09 PM
2

Sarcasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 09:49 PM
8

Thanks for being honest. It may not be nice but it makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 09:41 PM
8

Do you really think you are really going to get truthful answers? In what world do you think women will openly admit "yea my hookups were way more attractive than my boyfriend/husband"? They aren't necessarily lying either, it's possible that their standards and preferences changed as time went on and they genuinely believe their partner is currently more attractive than previous hookups. To get an accurate answer you would need to see things like how they texted their friends when talking about…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 09:38 PM
3

they’re disappointed you dont put yourself out there. Why tho? I don't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:57 AM
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They're taking it as you indirectly asking them to hype you up. That's foreign to me but makes sense. Why do they get upset when he doesn't approach though?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:47 AM
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none of my friends have the same type at all In my experience that's quite odd. I have literally seen girls turn guys down in a not so nice matter to only change their mind when they see other women who aren't even necessarily their friends find the same guy attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:05 AM
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Cucks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:00 AM
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Hoes in different area codes is one thing. So let's say he travels out of state for work once a month, is he okay to bang other girls when he's away? also speaks to a deficit in our home life How? He is still having as much sex both of you want to have together. There is no emotional or romantic attachment with his side chick, all she does is provide additional sexual pleasure and stress relief
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:02 AM
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Ok so let's say your husband has sex with a female coworker everyday during lunch break. There is a zero percent chance he gets her pregnant or gets an std. Their relationship is strictly sexual and he barely talks to her outside of sex and has zero contact with her in non work hours. Him having sex with her reduces his overall stress significantly and makes him appreciate how amazing you are even more than he already does. Are you okay with your husband continuing this behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:00 AM
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Thanks, I thought of it in my Bugatti
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:12 AM
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You don't have a Bugatti because you're poor
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:55 AM
1

What color is your Bugatti?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:32 AM
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You said you are okay with the fact that he cheated on you in the past. You and another woman both had sex with him in the small time frame. I am asking you to clarify that you are ok with the fact you previously shared him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:14 PM
1

Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:06 PM
0

What color is your Bugatti?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:02 PM
1

Ight
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:02 PM
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I wasn't asking you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:01 PM
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Yea I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:56 PM
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I know it depends on the women but I was asking a general question. Unless you think it varies too much to make a generalization
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:53 PM
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Is your husband aware of how long his leash is?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:50 PM
1

Damn...you single?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:45 PM
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I guess but where do most women draw the line if it's not at 1? What if he cheats once every 5years? 3years? 2years? 1year? I don't think most women would be ok with their man cheating once a year but you'd be surprised by the amount of women who would be willing to give a man a threesome as a birthday gift so maybe I'm just off the mark
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:44 PM
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So you are okay with knowing you shared him in the past?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:40 PM
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if it had no noticeable impact on our marriage. Ok your husband fucks his work wife at lunch once a week but it makes him less irritable at home and it makes him appreciate how amazing you are even more than he already does. There is a zero percent chance he gets her pregnant or gets an std. Are you okay with him continuing this behavior because not only does it not have a negative impact on your marriage but actually a positive impact.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:37 PM
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I think you don't know another woman
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:30 PM
1

Name another woman
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:26 PM
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What exactly did they do while monkey branching that was hidden and would be considered a breach of trust? I think women can monkey branch without breaching their partners trust and without needing to hide their actions
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:25 PM
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Ok him making out with a chick once 5 years ago isn't a big deal. What if 5years ago he passionately made out with her everyday for a month while fondling her body over her clothes? He didn't have sex with her, he didn't see her naked, he didn't do oral etc
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:23 PM
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Name another woman
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:12 PM
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I'm not asking about you specifically. I am asking if women who don't think previous cheating is that big of a deal give some legitimacy to the claim "women are OK sharing the top % of men"? (Obviously not all women) Also if you are ok with your partner previously cheating in the past then you basically were ok with temporarily sharing him
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:10 PM
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Thanks for being honest
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:02 PM
2

Get ova here bb
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:00 PM
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do I really care if he made out with Becky at a conference 5 years ago? It's crazy women here are openly saying cheating isn't a big deal
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:58 PM
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If he stepped out once but didn’t bring anything home & didn’t knock anyone up, I don’t need to know about it. I can't imagine a man ever saying this but I have heard women say this before. Doesn't this give some legitimacy to the claim "women are ok sharing the top % of men"?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:56 PM
1

What? Did you not understand my comment or am I not understanding yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:39 PM
1

Hit me up girl
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:37 PM
2

It's Britney bitch ✨️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:17 PM
1

uh no we say this constantly and men say "no good men are everywhere" Doesn't this statement give legitimacy to the premise that "women only find the top 20% of men attractive"? This is also because men and women have a different definitions of "good men".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:12 PM
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Name a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:03 PM
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Thats only for hookups It's more common for hookups but is still common for relationships. Men have a much wider attraction range than women do. If you made men choose between a 9/10 in looks but he has to put in 10/10 effort to have a relationship with her vs a 6/10 in looks but he has to put in 5/10 effort to have a relationship with her a TON of men would choose the less physically attractive woman
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:53 PM
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Assume the women weren't wearing makeup or the man puts the same amount of effort into his appearance as she does... now who is more attractive on average?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:46 PM
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That may sound reasonable on the surface but is a man who works from home and has been married to his stay at home wife for 10years reasonable when he asks her for a paternity test? I don't think so
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:15 PM
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The real debate should be when is asking for a paternity test reasonable and what is a reasonable response from the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:09 PM
1

The real debate should be when is asking for a paternity test reasonable and what is a reasonable response from the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:06 PM
1

Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:56 PM
0

Monkey branching is obviously wrong but is it cheating if it didn't involve sexual/romantic activities?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:53 PM
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Maybe I'm wrong but I don't think he literally meant "nobody gives a fuck about the fidelity aspect" but meant "the fidelity aspect is WAY less important than the paternity aspect"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:50 PM
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You sound like a wokie pointing out the extremely rare edge cases when a generalization is made. Is a paternity test inherently a fidelity test? No.... But is it often a fidelity test at the very least by proxy? Yes Most men who get paternity tests are getting them for a reason (paternity). Of course they don't want their girlfriends cheating on them but they REALLY REALLY don't want to raise another man's kid for 18years
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:42 PM
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(Fun fact, 2 of the last 3 women I dated before my wife also made substantially more money than me). Now, I ain't sayin' he a gold digger...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 06:37 PM
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Men make it clear that who they’ll masturbate with and who they’ll be seen in public with are two different things True but you still see quite alot of fat chicks with boyfriends irl I think trans porn is pretty popular too That's mostly from porn addiction men have literally killed trans women for sleeping with them without disclosing their transness. Not disclosing it is equivalent to rape
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 06:07 AM
1

Why does it also happen to couples that spent the majority of their time together and had sex often
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 06:05 AM
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An average female being sexually attracted to her husband when she’s horny does not at all necessarily mean that she has the same compulsory interest in sex as the typical male. But why does it happen drastically more often for many couples after they get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:54 PM
1

That's why I said I misunderstand you. Dexascans still aren't very good
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:03 PM
1

Something you learn during small talk. Like?????
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:21 PM
1

A decently muscular man who is 15% bf is impressive compared to real average people. You spend too much time looking at genetic anomalies online
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:53 PM
1

Where did I say that? It was when you quoted the dexa scan website but I just reread what you said specifically and I might have misunderstood you Bulky is also used to describe people with high muscle mass and high fat mass. "And high fat mass" for most men that is over 15%bf
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:49 PM
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18bfp for a lady is impressive but still a realistic goal for many. I figured you'd say around 15% lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:44 PM
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Entertain me for a second. What bfp do you think you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:39 PM
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Dexascans are 98-99% accurate No they aren't lmao. Did you just copy what the Google ai said? Hydrostatic tests aren't even close to that accurate but it's still more accurate than dexa scans 15%bf on an average man is impressive, 15% on a athletic man is normal, 15% on a bodybuilder is fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:22 PM
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You don't even know what you are arguing. Of course some people look more athletic than others at the same bodyfat? Nobody disagrees with that, it's irrelevant to the conversation. Bulky is a term for bodyfat percentage and caloric surplus not how athletic a person looks, have you never gone on a bulk before? Lmao You are so insecure you can't even engage in a conversation with the possibility of being incorrect so you resort to using your gender as a shield for your fragile ego. I have to quest…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:03 PM
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All these numbers are way off. Idek how you are in the bb world and think 15%bf for men is average and how you don't know how inaccurate dexascans are...cmon this is basic stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:47 PM
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Most girls don't even like guys lower than 15% bf, even including most fit girls. Only the very fit girls in the bb industry appreciate men near 10%bf Bulky is a term for bf%. Thats why you go on a "bulk". You really can't be 15% bf and "bulky" ya know
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:41 PM
1

And who is making that argument? Did you just make that up in your head?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:32 PM
1

You should know at least something about them that makes you want to get to know them better. Like????
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:22 PM
1

Idkwym
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:20 PM
1

The problem is that many men and women don't agree on what is perfectly fine. True but I think women unfairly label fine relationships as bad alot Yes, there are women who will cheat on or leave perfectly good relationships just as there are men that will do the same. I don't think it's the norm or either gender. I specifically said fine not good relationships for a reason. Women often label boring "fine" relationships as bad which doesn't accurately represent the relationship. It's okay to end …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:19 PM
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15% is kind of high for an athletic man Not really but it depends on the sport 15% is even high for a competitive woman Which sport? 15% is very low for most females. I hover at 19-20% as a woman when I'm not cutting b You bodybuild?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:01 PM
1

My bad I'm tired
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:37 AM
1

No I said I disagree that roe being removed was bad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:32 AM
1

It seemed like "I know everything about this and you know nothing about it"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:21 AM
1

That seemed passive aggressive. I was just stating a difference in opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:18 AM
1

Yall some snacks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:13 AM
1

How much do you weigh?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:09 AM
2

Damn boy he thicc
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:06 AM
0

I meant the end part
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:04 AM
-1

I usually agree with you flan but not at all on this one
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:51 AM
3

15% isn't that low
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:42 AM
0

which still means you can't get an unnecessary abortion after week 22 I think that's what's supposed to happen on paper but often doesn't. I think it would be really interesting for you to call abortion clinics near you and act like you need an abortion even though its past the legal time frame, you could even try to guilt trip them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:39 AM
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How do you decide when the baby gets to have its own body?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:30 AM
1

What's his height and weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:15 AM
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It literally happens all the time idk why they deny it. Maybe they are coping because they don't want to admit that they have done it themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:18 AM
2

probably much narrower than what women men would consider attractive. Thanks for acknowledging this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:15 AM
-1

many women genuinely like dad bods Most women don't actually know what a dad bod looks like
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:14 AM
1

you are basing your perception of reality on sexist, angry internet people. I think we can safely say women wanting tall men is not just an internet thing lol. When have you ever heard a girl say she wants a short guy irl, never
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:13 AM
1

Bbw being one of the most popular porn categories proves alot of men are into fat women Mens attractiveness range is way wider than females range
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:57 AM
1

She's got you trained real good 👍 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:12 AM
1

My statement: "Alot of guys wifes stop having sex with them" Your statement: "well alot of guys must be shitty husbands" That is bluepill simp behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:08 AM
1

Simpill
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:03 AM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:00 AM
2

"Not everyone use dating apps so your experience using them are irrelevant" is not a great argument
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:00 AM
1

You are bluepill
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:58 AM
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women would be more happy to be single than to be in a bad relationship Problem is alot of what women consider "bad relationships" aren't actually bad but labeled it to justify why she feels unhappy in a perfectly fine relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:57 AM
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Change your tag to bluepill
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:47 AM
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Nice! good for you. But you know it happens to alot of other guys
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:36 AM
3

And although many women may have similar preferences Mhmm if they all had the same taste then other guys would get no matches at all. That happens...many men get close to no matches
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:40 AM
3

it’s an algorithm It's an algorithm that shows the men most women found attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:38 AM
11

Old shows you the best ranked profiles And why are they the best ranked profiles....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:36 AM
-2

Idk, why do women get a ton of conveniently timed headaches as soon as they get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:32 AM
2

I joking btw
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:30 AM
-4

Remember he isn't your's it's just your turn
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:25 AM
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the only person I've ever been intimate with W
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:22 AM
-1

11? Damn what a hoe 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:18 AM
1

What would make him a 10?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:14 AM
1

A guy walking up to a woman and instantly asking her out is creepy. He knows nothing about her I thought the point of the date was getting to know eachother but I guess the guy should know everything about her before the date, my mistake
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 05:11 AM
1

Where you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:58 AM
1

He's a cute guy but not a 9 or 10. Is he an 8 then? Wdym by "cute"? Is he more "yea he's kinda cute" or "Oh! He's cute"? The ladies were feeling him. What does this mean? We're they just staring at him? Talking to their friends about him? Blushing? Trying to get his attention and engage w him? How old is your nephew and how old were the girls that were interested in him?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:42 AM
1

What's your height, weight, and body type/bodyfat percentage? I'm assuming your face and charisma ain't all that but you can correct me if im wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:26 AM
4

IT'S MY TURN!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:15 AM
1

It's almost always a woman asking for this
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:05 PM
2

No
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:28 PM
2

He did agree to her request but he made no request of his own
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:58 PM
3

She is the one who wanted him to only get sexual satisfaction from her - he agreed to only get sexual satisfaction from her He did not request that she only gets sexual satisfaction from him - if he's not in the mood she can go watch porn and masterbate
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:54 PM
5

If she's the one that needs the relationship to be that way I think the man has some wiggle room
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:45 PM
7

I'm fine with this as long as she recognizes it's her duty to sexually satisfy me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 04:50 PM
9

If she ain't like this I don't want her
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 04:49 PM
44

and it comes with the responsibility to actually fulfill your partner's sexual needs. That's the kicker right there
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 04:46 PM
1

👍
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:34 AM
1

Ok gotcha. I don't understand multiple relationships but whatever 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:33 AM
1

You had the standard relationship before you were wealthy? I remember you being in a throuple but not the "dyad"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:25 AM
2

Idk why people make up terms for normal stuff. Just say that lol I was gonna ask how you handle having 3 chicks but I think I remember you being wealthy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:20 AM
1

I remember seeing you a long time ago in a different sub. What's a dyad?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:09 AM
0

It's happened multiple times where female professional athletes have been beaten by male high-schoolers. Some old guys also beat pro female athletes 12-0 in soccer
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 07:10 PM
1

Yes and they only perform slightly better after 200miles
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 07:07 PM
1

A lady linked it below, apparently females run about half a percent faster than the men AFTER they have ran 200miles
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 06:59 PM
2

Just because women have outpaced men by half a percent per mile AFTER they have ran 200miles does not mean females are better ultramarathoners lol. When you have such niche sports you can't even get a good sample size of men and women. There is a good chance men capable of that level of cardio are doing other more popular sports that pay more but women don't have as many options for sports as men so a higher % of female athletes will be congregated in this specific area.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 06:49 PM
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I think you're thinking of women performing evenly or slightly better than men at a certain stage of extreme endurance sports. Like after running 100miles women will run a certain amount of miles quicker than the men. I think it's not that women perform better than men after running 100miles, it's just that they don't have the same performance decline. ie their performance declines by 13% while men's drops by 15%
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 06:32 PM
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No? I think it will increase the quality of the conversations and have people actually put time attention and effort into a match instead of jumping to the 20 things. I feel we might be misunderstanding eachother here though. Wasn't that the point of your 5 match cap suggestion?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:35 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:28 PM
1

Because you find them attractive/a good fit based on their profile and will converse with them when your current conversations have died out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:11 PM
1

Oh I thought you were being sarcastic lol, ty
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:03 PM
1

You can maintain a genuine conversation with more than 5 matches at a time and not get people mixed up? You generally aren't having a conversation with all your matches at once. Perhaps 10-15 matches would be excessive if they were all active. You could have a timer for the max amount of time of not engaging with a new match, once the times up you will automatically me unmatched to boost match activity
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:02 PM
1

Wym?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:54 PM
1

A 5 match cap seems low to me. Maybe everyone can start at 5matches and you unlock more matches over time. I think a 10-15 match cap would be good. I think users would get annoyed of leaving reviews before unmatching. A star rating system would be better imo. An optional review could be tied to their star rating though. Also I wouldn't allow users who have sent over a certain amount of messages to eachother to instantly unmatch a person. Instead I would have an unmatch "que" that would take 12-2…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:35 PM
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I think the increased match quality would be worth the lower match odds I'd prefer 10% less chance of a match BUT 20% higher quality matches over 20% higher match odds and 10% less match quality
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:56 PM
2

I just haven't seen you b4 and you seemed like cool chick
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:16 AM
1

How long have you been on ppd?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 07:15 AM
1

W
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 07:09 AM
1

Honestly pretty good ideas. I would definitely tweak them quite a bit but the general idea is consistent
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 07:02 AM
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I think that by artificially increasing the selectiveness of men, women will become less selective due to a reduced amount of matches. I understand but I think I disagree. If a chick swipes on a dude when she has limited matches available that means she's seriously interested in him. If she has 5 matches she's interested in then her selection consists of 5 dudes at a time giving each guy who matched with her a 20% chance she favors him over the rest. Also the 5 guys who matched with her all have…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 06:57 AM
1

That makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 06:18 AM
1

How many times did you lie? (a lot)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:08 AM
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Right, that was my point - it makes dating “hard” instead of “fun”. The question from OP was about what was hard for women when dating. For me, I personally find having to mitigate risk of rape and pregnancy is hard and not fun. Not getting drunk and not having sex with people you hardly know is hard to you? That's pretty unbelievable to me but whatever I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:02 AM
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It's not even close to the same thing. that right there proves we just provide more No it doesn't lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:57 AM
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It’s the reason men chase us and not the other way around. I think men chase women because of temperament and sex drive, not because they are more valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:32 AM
3

the average guy is less valuable than the average woman Why do you mean by that? Explain
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:26 AM
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Do men overestimate value or do women underestimate value? I think it may actually be both. Women have so many options that they underestimate their options value Men have so few options that they overestimate their options value
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:10 AM
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No, I generally don't fantasize about women in general though. If I fantasized about a woman it would be because she's hot, not because I want a love story. It I fantasized about love it would likely be about a really nice girl I knew from a long time ago, looks wouldn't matter much. Now that I think about it I did have a few dreams about an ugly girl I used to know
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:55 AM
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people who want to get into something serious. I said hideous not insidious
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:43 AM
1

You're pretty damn cool flan
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:42 AM
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OP claims women get thousands of dates by just logging on. No he claimed its possible for a woman to get thousands of MATCHES not dates, that's a big difference. While it may not be likely, it's 100% possible for a woman to get thousands of matches if she consistently put herself out there. They are gonna go out with every one to filter them? Wouldn’t that take a really long time? It's not hard to filter through dating profiles, just pick the ones you really like that also reciprocate. The real …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:33 AM
1

Which is where the hideous people are
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 12:39 AM
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What techniques do you use to filter the men who want only sex but say they want a relationship from the ones who actually want a relationship? There is no reliable way to consistently do this over text imo. What you can do is go on dates and get a much better idea in person. How do you tell the difference between someone you click with and someone pretending to click because they want sex? And someone with thousands of matches, like you think you would get as a woman, is probably extremely hot …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 12:05 AM
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6 years of this same thing, again and again and again, to finally find my boyfriend You still with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:53 PM
1

Is the fantasy really about true love if it only includes attractive men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:40 PM
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Why is your ass so hairy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:24 PM
1

Ok then why is it such a big coincidence that in every fantasy where the woman sacrifices for true love the guy is always very attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:11 PM
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Sometimes you need to die for the greater good. My original point still stands though. In women's fantasies the hot bad boy picks them and gives her everything she wants and in men's fantasies they are sacrificing for others. What's the explanation for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:02 PM
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Yea
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:44 PM
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Yes, men fantasize about dying for a just cause
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:42 PM
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How do you explain the fantasies where they die and get no praise or admiration?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:39 PM
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In most mens fantasies they became the hero not for praise or admiration but to beat the evil bad guy. Fantasies where they have an extreme challenge to overcome and they fight tooth and nail to save the people they love, even if it involves sacrificing themselves so they can be proud of themselves is drastically more common then fantasies where they become the hero to get praise and attention from others
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:35 PM
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Huh? Idk what you mean. You seen this yet? Lol https://youtu.be/qaGrqwp8wvY?si=l0THMZc1oDM6j6ng
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:24 PM
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She’s so desirable and amazing she brings out his gentle side. I've seen this is a very common thought in women's fantasies...do men do this at all? If men did do this what are the odds women would call them a misogynist and narcissistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:04 PM
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So are women... and one version is attractive only in fiction 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:59 PM
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He gives the woman everything she wants without the indignity of her having to ask for it. Kinda funny how women's fantasies are where the hot bad boy picks her and gives her everything she wants and men's fantasies are about sacrificing themselves for others lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:54 PM
1

These girls throat more hotdogs then joey chestnut
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:03 AM
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Redpill are not a monolith 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:00 AM
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Women have literally admitted this though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:14 AM
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I'd rather not speak on your own experiences but I'm sorry that you went through that. Honestly that sounds absolutely ridiculous. "How many are a way to cover up their cheating?" Less than you'd probably expect. I have no idea how often it happens so it's not more or less than I expect but I know for a fact it does actually happen I'm going to be honest, I'm not entirely sure what your point is. My point was a response to you saying "If it's such a small percentage of men, how have 1 in 6 women…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:58 AM
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Rape is a hard thing to accurately get data on. People have different definitions of what rape is. Is a slightly intoxicated man a rapist for having sex with a heavily intoxicated woman? Does your answer change if she was flirting with him when she was sober? What is the intoxication difference consensual sex vs rape? Is a girl getting pressured into sex by her boyfriend rape? Did a girl who didn't want to have sex but didn't say anything to indicate that get raped even though she went along wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:16 AM
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It's normal in alabama #RollTide
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:10 PM
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If men aren't dangerous, why do the men who love and care about their wife, daughter, etc, worry about them when in the presence of men they don't know? It's not "men are dangerous" or "men aren't dangerous", it's "SOME men are dangerous and a man you don't know may or may not be dangerous" therefore you should be aware, observant and cautious until you know them better. This does not mean act like all men are dangerous. It's unfair to treat the majority of men as inherently dangerous when in re…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:08 PM
1

Yea I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:19 AM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:26 PM
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That still sounds like the only reason they care is completely from external factors. I don't think that's a particularly good reason to care about a partners job and luckily I don't think most men are like that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:11 AM
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Honestly it sounds like the guys you dated didn't care but their families did and they caved to family pressure Do guys who pursue women with good jobs actually care that she has a good job or do they just know women with good jobs and decent incomes are less likely to be financially illiterate or gold diggers? And more likely to be approved of by family and friends, have something to relate to, common interests and common experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:08 AM
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I don't think "intimidated" is the right word either but that may be because soo many women call men "intimidated" and "insecure" as an insult that men are automatically closed off to those terms. Are men intimidated by a woman earning more than him? I don't think so. I guess they could possibly be insecure about it but I'm not sure. When I think of a man being intimidated by a woman it's usually when approaching her because she's extremely attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:57 AM
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I think women have a higher threshold for who they consider good looking but over all care about looks less than men I think that's pretty accurate. Idk if I would say they care "less" about looks than men, well at least significantly less but I would say when looking for a partner it takes up a smaller % of the pie. Women's attractiveness range is much smaller than men's but they are much more willing to step outside of that range if the man's other attributes are good enough. Men have a much l…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:43 AM
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men with prestigious high paying careers are not always humble nor would I say they are more humble than women. I think men are often more on the extreme ends of things while women are more in the middle. For example... Who is the most humble person? Probably a man. Who is the least humble person? Probably a man. Most women won't be loudly in your face about how much better her job is and how much she out earns a man but she may constantly do small things to remind you of it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:23 AM
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W
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:55 PM
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I'll try and lay out my points more clearly A 50/50 gender ratio is NOT optimal because people do NOT behave optimally If people DID behave optimally then a 50/50 gender ratio WOULD be optimal Each gender faces certain issues as a consequence of our current gender ratio A different gender ratio could limit these issues and overall be more beneficial to both sexes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:37 AM
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It's obviously a made up example to display that 50/50 isn't optimal It seems like you don't really want to engage in good faith
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:36 AM
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If 90% of women want a mate and 100% of men want a mate then automatically 10% of me get screwed BUT if there were 10% more women then it would be possible for every man to find a mate
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:28 AM
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No I'm not, in fact I'm actually doing the opposite. There is a gender imbalance of how many people do or don't want to find a mate. That further proves 50/50 is not optimal
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:19 AM
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Ok I'll change equivalent to acceptable, either way it impacts the likelihood of a person finding a mate
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:10 AM
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Well for 50/50 to be truly optimal then you would need people of both sexes to behave optimally. For example men generally have higher sex drives which leads to them pursuing women more than vice versa, women generally have higher standards, even the difference in amount of homosexuals between sexes will impact the likelihood of a person to find an equivalent mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:03 AM
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Well the people who make up society don't act optimally, if they did then 50/50 would also be an optimal gender ratio
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:48 AM
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But theoretically there is a more optimal alternative
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:44 AM
1

I think you may have cracked the code
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:42 PM
2

A distribution that doesn't cause issues doesn't make it an optimal distribution
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:37 PM
1

I even think 60/40 is too much, people don't understand how big of a difference even 5% is
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:33 PM
1

💯
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:13 PM
1

The good ol days
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:12 PM
2

Quick maffs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:10 PM
1

200iq
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:10 PM
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She's the one that's providing the service, nobody is making her have sex with anyone. A possible consequence is that she gets pregnant from providing the service If a gym goer drops a barbell and cracks the floor is it the gym goers responsibility or the gym owners responsibility to replace it? It's obviously the gym owners responsibility If a customer spills food on the floor at a restaurant who should clean it up? Yes the customer made the mess but it's the restaurants responsibility to take …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:27 AM
0

Why is a man getting a prostitute that he will never see again pregnant a consequence?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 03:58 AM
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Don't people have to deal with the possible consequences of their actions themselves? If a prostitute gets pregnant isn't that just a consequence of her actions? Ideally the man would help support the child but should he be obligated to? If a jewelry store owner didn't lock the stores door at night and was robbed isn't that his fault? If a guy hurts himself because he crashed drunk driving isn't that his fault? If a man shoots himself in the leg because he forgot to put the safety on isn't that …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 03:43 AM
1

Sooo.... bowchickawowwow
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 02:29 AM
1

It's not an ulterior motive! Didn't you read the hashtag? #4TheGreaterGood
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:59 AM
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If I must bear the burden of having lots of hot steamy sex with many hot women in order for girls to have more power then I will take on the consequences for the greater good. 😣 #GirlPower #4TheGreaterGood #RememberMySacrifice #LuckiestManOnEarth
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:36 AM
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More girl more power
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:21 AM
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40+ countries only allow them when there is risk to the pregnant persons health, and another 40+ only allow them for cases of rape, incest, etc… Why is this bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:54 AM
1

Why is chess separated by gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:51 AM
1

Why do you not want girls to have power?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:43 AM
1

Agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:41 AM
2

Girl power
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:36 AM
1

The 10% difference is offset by the women who prefer to be single and the women who share the top level men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:35 AM
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More women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:33 AM
1

This is the correct answer
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:33 AM
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51/49 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:56 PM
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If you frame it that way I think they would agree with your interpretation of what they mean when they say it but what do they actually mean by "bad relationship"? I think that's where I'd wager that when they say that a "bad relationship" doesn't mean a relationship of conflict or abuse but a relationship with an average Joe. Nothing wrong with him but also nothing amazing about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:53 PM
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rampant increase in sexually deviant behavior among women and an overall drop in quality of life and economic output as primary outcomes of such a lopsided sex ratio. Worth it? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:47 PM
1

I see no flaws in your logic... well played
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:45 PM
0

💯
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:42 PM
1

I think its more achievable with slightly more women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:36 PM
2

Do you disagree with the women here who say women would rather be single?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:35 PM
1

Exactly 💯 in a polygamous society they might get a little extra poon but in reality the top guys will just be even more flooded in poon
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:24 PM
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It's a win for women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:21 PM
3

You got to at least take Sunday off to rest like God wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:20 PM
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A win is a win
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:16 PM
1

A win is a win
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:15 PM
2

Slayyyy 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:03 PM
3

That would only work for so long until the men learned to prevent it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:02 PM
1

The woman wouldn't yet abused, the men would just kill eachother to aquire her
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:58 PM
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It isn't pro-women, it's purely to sexually benefit men. Stop being a pick me, women would rule the world if they outnumbered men No way to physically do that without reducing the number of men. ?Wat
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:55 PM
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They don't want to reduce the number of men, they want to increase the number of women. Funny how men are actually pro women when they are labeled as misogynists 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:43 PM
2

Your line of thinking is logical, unfortunately theirs isnt
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:35 PM
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I have actually written multiple posts about this same exact question but never actually posted them because I didn't want to put in the effort of making it fluid and coherent lol My answer is that if 100males are born then 110-120 females should be born, so about 115. This is already quite a big change considering males are naturally born more often 105m/100f, then add in many societies are much more likely to abort female babies. Any gender ratio too extreme is just going to fuck up society fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:27 PM
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Yea same...for sure haha totally too big
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:37 PM
1

I'm not sure about that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 03:06 AM
1

Is status more attractive than looks or does status just put you in a bigger spotlight to be noticed by women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:57 AM
2

Tortas need love too 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:46 AM
1

Need more tren
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:44 AM
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It's still not inherently incompatible. Unless the guy wants a truly 100% strict traditional woman like she's not allowed to look or talk to another man without his permission, well actually she's not allowed to do anything without his permission really. I don't think most men are thinking of this when they say they want a traditional woman though, at least I hope not
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 02:26 PM
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There are tons of men and women in seemingly good relationships with people who aren't their #1
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 12:52 AM
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I have a feeling this is completely made up and none of this happened lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 11:19 PM
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Ah I see that now. You kinda just went along with his comment and didn't overtly say you agreed so I didn't clock it. My b
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 11:17 PM
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I'm against all forms of hookup culture and still see it as insulting Not the kind of comment to end the relationship over but one to where I'm thinking "wtf why would she say that, guess she doesn't view me the way I thought she did "
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 11:15 PM
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No but it sounds like that's what she meant
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:50 PM
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Yes but you still specifically called out the man lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:50 PM
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The idea of being relationship material She never said this lol women who agree with you must have some low self esteem thinking the only value they have are their bodies. Big baseless assumptions
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:49 PM
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Ya know what I think I've fallen into the delusional area of the internet I'm pretty confident a large % of women in real life would agree what she said could easily be interpreted as insulting/negative I'm done with this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:40 PM
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Both of them seem bad at communicating with each other. See that is a perfectly fine and fair statement to make but you specifically called out the man for it when arguably it applies to the woman more
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:29 PM
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Again. She didn't say that. She said she wouldn't of had a hookup with him but would marry him. Presumably because he's not hot enough for a hookup but good enough for marriage. Obviously he and most men view it as an insult
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:27 PM
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Obviously her bf and most men think it's phrased as an insult She never said "just" a hookup or a fwb Men hear "your not hot enough for a hookup but good enough to marry"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:25 PM
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He's not capable of adult conversation when she's the one that supposedly misspoke, had to ask her friends for understanding and then she posted it on the internet for everyone to give their input in their private relationship without him knowing? Cmon
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:15 PM
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Not attractive enough
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:08 PM
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🎵 drown myself in alcohol, that shit never helps at all 🎵
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:06 PM
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Is it really a compliment if it was phrased as an insult? If a guy says to a girl "your tighter than I thought you'd be for a girl who gets around" should she take it as a compliment? No, she should and would take it like he thought she was a loose whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:04 PM
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Or maybe she's in the wrong for phrasing a compliment as an insult
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 09:59 PM
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That's how it should be but unfortunately she didn't call him husband material, she said he wasn't hookup material
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 09:56 PM
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W woman
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 09:51 PM
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That's the goal
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:13 PM
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the whole reason it's divisive is that some people can understand what was meant and some can't. it's not a difficult stretch to recognise what was meant, no? You answered your own question
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:37 PM
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Bro forgot a comma, calm down
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:10 PM
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Maybe that's what they meant but that's not what they said
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:57 PM
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Dang man, I'm sorry. I appreciate you telling your story, I think it could really save alot of young men from going down the wrong path. I have to ask a few questions if I may Are you/were you a pushover? Were you unattractive or significantly less attractive than her? How was your experiences with women before her? Have you ever suspected infidelity from her? Did you at least get the things you wanted most from the relationship? What do you regret most? Any chance of you moving on?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:55 PM
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Yes marriage material is more than just being attractive but it requires time and opportunity to determine if a man is marriage material or not. Do you think women are more likely to give attractive men or ugly men time and opportunity to prove they are marriage material?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:46 PM
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I also disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:14 PM
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Ok that's not an answer to the question
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:02 PM
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It seems like you're being purposefully dense but I'll still break it down further Do you think an attractive man and an ugly man can acquire casual sex at the same rate?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 05:53 PM
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Ok I'll end with what are the odds that everyone else is wrong and you are right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 05:47 PM
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relationship requires a higher degree of attractiveness than casual sex This is why ugly dudes are all having casual sex and attractive dudes are all in relationships right? Cmon
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 05:38 PM
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sorry you think LTR sex is bad, that seems like a personal problem, not my business. So women in relationships shouldn't complain about their sex life because it's always good huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 05:21 PM
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sex in a relationship is better than sex with a hookup That's a big assumption that unfortunately I don't think is as common as you think. Let's assume you are correct though, if sex in a relationship is better than hookups with a fwb... why did she have hookups and fwbs at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 05:15 PM
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I guess finding them equally attractive isn't terrible like finding an ex more attractive than your current partner but generally most men want to be their girlfriends #1 ever. They want to hear something like "all of my exes are ugly compared to you, I can't believe I ever liked them at all, every day you blow my mind, I wish I met you sooner so I didn't have to deal with them" they DON'T want to hear "you are equally attractive to my previous partner"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:58 PM
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Based blue pill
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 11:23 AM
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Clubs often disproportionately have taller men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 11:05 AM
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I certainly wouldn't have hooked up with my husband, because I hookup with NO ONE. That's GREAT BUT THATS NOT WHAT THE OP SAID Maybe the woman isn't comfortable having sex without commitment, maybe she's not into hookups, maybe she wants to feel an emotinal connection. If ANY of that stuff applied to OP then she would have NEVER said her original comment! Can you imagine a scenario where you tell your husband word for word what OP told her BF?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 11:01 AM
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Actually she coincidentally gets sudden headaches for a lifetime
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:53 AM
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Lmao ok
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:48 AM
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Chill with the personal insults
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:43 AM
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So just to confirm you think your husband and old FWB equally attractive? Correct me if im wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:33 AM
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I'll give my phrasing of the question. You had a FWB (let's call him Matt) You meet a man and go on to date him and he becomes your husband (let's call him John) Fwb=Matt Husband =John Let's assume in this hypothetical scenario that you don't marry John, when dating John you come to the conclusion that things aren't gonna work out and break up You are interested in having 10 hookups a month with a FWB, both Matt and John are available and interested. Their personality has no effect on the qualit…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 09:10 AM
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I'm not gonna explain to you what somebody else may or may not have meant
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 05:39 AM
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Probably your tag
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 05:36 AM
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does not extend to violating others human rights. Children are human and have rights. Parental abuse is not protected bc it violates another person's rights. Everyone's personal human rights and freedoms only go as far as not harming another individual. You cannot harm your children bc children are people and human I'm glad we completely 100% agree that we should protect the lives of ALL children and humans, including the unborn.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 10:54 AM
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Why are affair babies an inconvenience for them if they view women as incubators?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 02:18 AM
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Drafting them would be retarded Based Drafting MEN is retarded Double based
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:05 AM
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Oh wow! A pick me! Classic! Just kidding W woman
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:00 AM
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Ok why do women have any rights at all if men just want to use then as incubators? Why did men create condoms and birth control? Why do men allow condoms and birth control to be produced, sold and consumed?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:56 AM
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Idk about the hypothetical odds of women cheating in the hypothetical scenario where women are drafted as medics. It will definitely happen but idk if it would be more or less if women weren't drafted
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:53 AM
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Autobots rollout 🤖
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:49 AM
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You claim men wanting women to be eligible to be drafted is proof of their misogynistic nature, I asked you to specify and you said it doesn't matter if it's nature or nurture. My claim is woman gaining more rights is proof that it's not true, why would misogynists give women more rights, why would misogynists exclude women from being sent to war to die, why would misogynists not send ONLY women to fight wars so they can live. If men wanted to they could do all of those things because of their "…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:48 AM
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Better to have it and not need it then to need it and not have it men even still register with selective service is out of no one telling us not to "Us".... so are you a man or woman like your flare says
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:40 AM
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I looooove Boeing ❤️ 😍 💖
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:37 AM
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Its relevant, you can refuse to answer if you'd like
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:36 AM
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Thank you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:34 AM
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So parents should be able to keep their kids inside 24/7 and not let them go to school because it's inside their house?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:32 AM
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Do you think women have more freedom or less freedom than let's say 300years ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:31 AM
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Do you think the government should have any say about what you do in the privacy of your own home?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:15 AM
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Nah the draft is needed for dire situations, let's just draft women too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:12 AM
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Don't boys have a physical advantage over girls even before puberty?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:10 AM
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proof of men’s vindictive and misogynistic nature to begin with. So you think most if not all men are like this naturally?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:08 AM
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Thanks for being reasonable Wives already cheat on their military husbands at a very high rate tho
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:04 AM
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I'm advocating for women to be drafted as medics, idk how other men would want a female draft to work. Yea I just disagree with the second part
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:59 PM
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I'm advocating for drafting women to be medics not soldiers. I have no idea what other men would want from a hypothetical female draft
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:57 PM
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Ok maybe that would be an issue for small countries but not one for the size of the US, you don't draft too many people from specific areas already. Even if it could apply to a large country like the US, the drafted female medics would have a extremely low casualty rate compared to the drafted men. Most would just go back home after service
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:54 PM
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how the country will repopulate I don't understand how you came to this conclusion? Not all women would be drafted which is the same for men (otherwise countries who have used the draft wouldn't have any population after, gender doesnt matter) the women who were drafted would replace the men who were drafted, the women drafted would save mens lives (allowing them to start families)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:49 PM
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It seems like you are implying it's the better option
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:42 PM
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Yea drafting women to be front line soldiers would actually probably be a hindrance unless they were used as meat shields in trenches but they still would provide value as medics
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:41 PM
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Women can be drafted to be medics
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:39 PM
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Because you don't abandon family? What kind of heartless unsympathetic person are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:36 PM
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They do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 11:59 PM
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I understand but don't agree. A beautiful poor woman who has the opportunity to date men of all classes choosing to specifically date wealthy men is not necessarily a gold digger. A woman choosing to specifically date wealthy men that she doesn't like except for his wealth is a gold digger. Is a person who only dates a certain race a fetishist? Possibly not not necessarily
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 11:57 PM
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Womp womp
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:40 AM
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Why do you assume all women who would date a passport bro are gold diggers?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:26 AM
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Considering most men notice most women...yes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:16 AM
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It's only an insult to the people it applies to
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:10 AM
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Women can seek wealthy men without being gold diggers
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:48 AM
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LMAO classic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:38 AM
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They get most of the attention from the top 20% of guys
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:31 PM
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Appreciate the honesty
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 11:59 PM
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I think men have friendly associates but don't value them the same as women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 08:43 PM
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If everything is abuse then the term abuse holds no weight
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 08:40 PM
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So you wouldn't CARE AT ALL if you found out your man had slept with thousands of prostitutes before he got with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:12 PM
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I'm not specifically talking about the options in the original post. I asked if body count mattered, you didn't say yes or no but implied all that mattered was love, so I'm asking if body count doesn't matter and only love matters then what's the issue with your man occasionally having consensual sex with another woman when you are unable to as long as he only loves you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 10:15 PM
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So you are okay with your man occasionally using prostitutes for sex (NOT LOVE) when you couldn't have sex with him? For example during pregnancy, medical energy, distance, or dead libido?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 10:03 PM
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Baaaased
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:57 PM
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So bodycount matters?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:57 PM
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Yea I agree but it seems like other women here think if it's anything less than full capacity then the man is immoral
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:09 AM
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Depends on the situation, could completely kill all ties with the child or keep everything the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:06 AM
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I just thought it could've been sarcasm because I saw all these other chicks saying "it doesn't matter if it's biologically your kid, your still the parent no matter what"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 11:49 PM
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Is this sarcasm? Why do you love it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 11:16 PM
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Cuz baby mommas are gonna baby momma
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 11:02 PM
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I dont think most men expect to get close to their dream woman on paper though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:22 PM
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Some affection > no affection
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 11:07 AM
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Some affection > no affection
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 11:06 AM
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Some affection> no affection
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 11:01 AM
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Suffering from success #MoMoneyMoProblems
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 10:54 AM
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Assuming we are into eachother I see no issue here? Maybe there is a higher chance of a dead bedroom? Being the only special one for my wife sounds like a plus tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 02:31 PM
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Tbh I don't think it's insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 03:40 PM
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I think one reason I’m always able to orgasm from penetrative sex is because I have a porn reel in my head during the act Most women would freak out if a man said this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 01:04 PM
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Men are not a monolith, stop generalizing them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 01:01 PM
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Calling out women when they are only in a familiar place is not as useful or impactful as if it was done in general. neither you nor I have any reason to label those trolls specifically as "feminists" Considering I was the one with the anti feminist take and she was the one with the pro feminist take I think it's safe to assume the majority of the downvotes were from women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:28 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 11:16 AM
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Ok good for you but I'm not talking about you in particular
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 11:08 AM
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I'm not saying it doesn't happen, I'm sure it does happen but im unsure how often it does happen because I don't hang out in feminist spaces and rarely see feminist point it out. Usually it's just other girls supporting their nasty unfeminist comments. For example the other day I was having a nice conversation with a feminist lady here (I forgot her name) about why some men are cautious around women who label themselves as a feminist and "true" feminist might be better calling themselves egalita…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:15 AM
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My mistake, it's just that so many western women hate on the foreign women that PPBs pursue. Of course their are women in East and SEA asia who want to take advantage of men but that's no different than anywhere else in the world. PPBs like their odds better in non western countries
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:36 AM
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Lmao you refuse to see another perspective Maybe men think dating has regressed and women need to evolve instead of asking men to regress
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:22 AM
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Nah if women found more guys attractive and guys couldn't get a girl then it's his fault Many men misrepresent what they actually want and many women misinterpret what he means. Men DO want women to choose better, men do NOT want women to get pumped and dumped or be in abusive relationships But men also WANT women to NOT have unreasonable and unrealistic standards that they struggle to meet or cannot meet at all. Men want women to reevaluate their standards and determine if they are reasonable o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:06 AM
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Nothing is wrong with it as long as you acknowledge it, don't complain when/if you don't find a man that meets your standards, don't cry when/if you get pumped and dumped and don't trick a guy into thinking he is the love of your life when/if you become desperate. Many men misrepresent what they actually want and many women misinterpret what he means. Men DO want women to choose better, men do NOT want women to get pumped and dumped or be in abusive relationships But men also WANT women to NOT h…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:01 AM
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Press X to doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:25 AM
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You like saltine crackers?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:22 AM
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It's crazy how men will make a generalization about women that is often true and not even negative but then western women will negatively and inaccurately generalize women from 3rd world countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:16 AM
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Nah they will still make exceptions for Chad's, just not as many
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:11 AM
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I dont see any feminists calling out all the bitter angry impostors who are using the movement to spew venom and spread hatred for men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:10 AM
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Doesn't sound like many women think being a PassportGal is attractive or beneficial
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:05 AM
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Ok let's assume I do travel in those circles, can you please point me in the direction of the PassportGals circles?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:58 AM
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Either way you find most men unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:55 AM
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Ok western women can go to the non western well off countries where the men will slave away to please her and western men will go to the unfortunate countries where the women will appreciate what he provides. Sounds like everyone wins I wonder why I haven't heard of any PassportGals tho...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:53 AM
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Chad>simp Simp>nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:48 AM
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How many women are ok with being the breadwinner and taking care of their foreign boyfriends? I would wager it's not near the amount of men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:45 AM
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Haha no I don't think so
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:38 AM
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Isn't that a pretty big problem? Who's fault is it? Who needs to change?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:32 AM
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Once the uniqueness of the "exotic" accent wears off we will see how much she likes the foreign man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:26 AM
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I thought they understood it well
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:22 AM
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Chica.......
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 11:59 PM
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I know you didn't actually mean it but it's true. Many men ignore the signals and signs that she didn't actually love him because he was infatuated and blinded by a pretty girl actually being interested in him, desperation will do that to ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 11:56 PM
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That was a pretty easy question to answer. I appreciate you not lying but why would I waste my time explaining when you won't see another perspective no matter what
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 11:11 PM
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Are you actually interested or do you just wanna be right
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 10:53 PM
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Nope, your premise is just flawed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:54 PM
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Dog distribution system W
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:46 PM
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Yea you're right it's actually pretty blatant
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 10:51 PM
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Yea idk man
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 10:31 PM
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more people are maimed by dogs then bears How are you implying the animal named "Man's best friend" is more dangerous than a fricking bear...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 10:30 PM
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This has some misandric undertones
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 10:22 PM
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This has got to be one if the stupidest comments ever
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 10:14 PM
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Why are you bringing up claiming if I didn't say anything about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 06:16 AM
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Bro the amount of women I've heard say they are the same is insane, honestly it's depressing to think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:38 AM
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When did I claim you claimed to be relatable?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:10 AM
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I got overwhelmed with options Haha sooo relatable... yea
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 02:51 AM
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No there is 4 pics look at them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 11:07 PM
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Did you scroll to the other pics?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:41 PM
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Just look at this https://np.reddit.com/r/justlookatit/s/DF4zvcVM2E
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:36 PM
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Maybe but alot definitely do it on purpose
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:22 PM
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Alot of latina women make their husbands fat by cooking to much food so other women don't look at him, I think it's cute
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:28 PM
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Nah he's an uggo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 11:13 AM
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That dude is so ugly I don't get it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 11:13 AM
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Their scale puts most people into the middle (average) A person being a genuine 1 or 2 is very rare just like a person being a 9 or 10 is very rare
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 10:37 AM
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He's like 5'5 he ain't jacked
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 10:16 AM
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Probably more isolated advanced village style societies
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 10:34 PM
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Hold on... let them cook 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 10:25 PM
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So a trial girlfriend, got it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 04:17 AM
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danger of becoming trauma bonded Ugh goals
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:06 PM
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Lol not what happened
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:35 AM
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No, it's about not killing babies
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:34 AM
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Most cannot live comfortably on one salary but yes they can usually survive. I don't think most people who say otherwise know what it's like to be poor and not have any luxuries. You really start to have problems when you have multiple kids
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:26 AM
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my sister has never been with another man than my brother Ayoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:03 AM
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The good ol days
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:01 AM
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Woman averages 2 matches per day on tinder Do women only swipe twice or...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:40 AM
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The % of women who actively chose single motherhood is very small. The number of women who won't have kids because they genuinely don't want any is also small. 1/3 of all young people today will never marry. Maybe if women were more receptive to average guys that wouldn't be the case most people are just bypass playing the game at all. Most men are since they were the ones that initiate the vast majority of relationships thirties women aren’t waiting around to pounce on some poor beta The amount…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:35 AM
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I never mentioned anything about a woman needing a husband
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:00 AM
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There is no longer a stigma surrounding being single and no longer a need to be provided for monetarily. So why WOULD it increase? It would increase because of that very same mentality. They don't need no man until they realize they need a man to have a family and they don't have all the time in the world so she better just pick a decent one, even if he isn't her ideal at all. My point….There was a time when a woman HAD to get married to eat, to have basic living necessities , to have children, …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:52 AM
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But there are teachers enforcing no cellphone in class rules so it’s doable. What is the school supposed to do when kids literally bring burner phones, when kids simply refuse to give their phones to the teachers, when the teacher has to stop every 3 mins to take a kids phone and argue with them about it, when the majority of class time is taking phones away and not teaching, when parents bitch the school out for preventing them from contacting their child, when they get sued because the phone b…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:12 AM
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Do you think it's becoming more or less common for women to settle once they reach a certain age?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:00 AM
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Do you think it's becoming more common or less common?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:40 AM
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Do you disagree that it happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:37 AM
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Not until they get older and women are ready to settle for the average Joe
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:32 AM
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When every kid has one, you can't really ban them You can try for a couple weeks but eventually you realize it's pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:31 AM
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Depending on how you define "going well" it may actually be the minority of men The majority of the men who retreat to comfort won't have success even if they put themselves out there
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:29 AM
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If it's already not going well for men then why shouldn't they retreat to comfort?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:11 AM
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They weren't getting laid anyways, might as well enjoy yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:04 AM
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I think there have actually been studies that showed video games can be good for young males Obviously video game addiction in adulthood is a different story
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:50 AM
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Guys play games because it's engaging, it requires skill, it's mentally challenging, they can feel accomplished, beating other players makes them feel good, it's competitive, it's socialize them with other men who have a common interest (the game), they also don't/can't get publicly criticized while playing etc Women are addicted to texting and social media because.... they get attention, validation, what else? I think its better to be addicted to video games than social media, whether you are a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:21 AM
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I think women do it a considerable amount more
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:08 AM
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I know people who probably text more than talk in person Male to female ratio?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:55 PM
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Might gotta hit one last time then bounce
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:40 PM
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You don't automatically swipe right just because they are somewhat attractive, otherwise you'd constantly be swiping right Does it matter when according to your graph women reject 95% of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:24 PM
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Then fuck that hoe
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:14 PM
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Love, respect, time, attention, loyalty, comfortable sitting in silence doing nothing together
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:03 PM
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At least abusive girls show they care
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:55 AM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:12 AM
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I don't understand how that's ironic. Do feminists not cook? Is feminists giving birth ironic because that's their gender role?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:35 AM
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In a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 04:24 AM
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I don't listen to music so I had no idea it was from a song
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 03:19 AM
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Yea I remember your flair. I don't think it was confusing at all, in fact I immediately understood what it meant. It was a good flair tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:58 AM
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Trying to save the true feminist goals and perception is noble. Saying you are egalitarian is easier than explaining yourself when people wrongfully assume something about you but if everyone switched to claiming egalitarian it would probably only be a matter of time before that perception was destroyed by extremists again. I think most women nowadays who would call themselves true feminist deny labels all together and say they just want equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:53 AM
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No they don’t. But I can tag you in the comments of women complaining about a) Pre-made bouquet of flowers and b) roses because they are generic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:45 AM
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I think men are cautious of feminists in general because They justify the crazy things the extreme feminist say They don't call out the crazy feminist They ignore all men's issues despite claiming to want equality for ALL genders It's better for women to claim they are egalitarian
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:34 AM
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The vast majority of men do not complain about about 15-25 minute meals like boxed macaroni and cheese. Tons of women complain about pre made bouquet of flowers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:15 AM
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Are you sure you don't hate men even a little bit?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:10 AM
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I must be missing it; where is the ironic fact?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:07 AM
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I think its fair to be cautious around women who quickly mention that they are a feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:06 AM
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It takes significant effort when women here are commenting that a pre-made bouquet of flowers is unacceptable while a quick meal is like 15-25mins of work
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:05 AM
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Cooking is a low effort activity but many women don't want to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:57 AM
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Serious question... do you hate men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:45 AM
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If a woman wants (desires) her boyfriend to get her flowers but he doesn't; will she always be resentful?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:44 AM
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I don't expect a girl to cook but I'd like her too, also our future kids are gonna have to be fed
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:14 AM
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You don't understand he IS the table
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:00 AM
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Yes he desires it, he does not expect it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 12:59 AM
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I got husband some home-cooked chicken soup when he caught a cold and we'd gone just on a few dates That was nice of you I'm also a feminist which renders me undateable for a lot of men here Why do you care about that if you're married? Strange comment imo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 12:57 AM
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Do you think it's possible that the reason it got more attention in 2019 is because it matched people's personal and observed experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 11:05 PM
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It's just hard for me to believe that the data collected is accurate. It's almost like those studies that try to find out who cheats more; men or women. It's just not feasible to get enough accurate data that is representative of the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 10:17 PM
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Why does the graph show women are significantly more sexless than men but the article says men are 1% more sexless than women? According to that data there has been a good size gap between 2014-2019, not just 2019. There was also a stretch in the late 90s that was the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 09:52 PM
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The minority of women are currently participating in casual sex but the majority have participated in it at least once
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 09:17 PM
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How does it make sense that a large % of women suddenly aren't having sex and a large group of men are starting to have sex? Both happened at the exact same time? How did they get this information? Was it a random survey? Was it advertised to volunteers? Where did they get this information? I think that having people aged 30-35 really alters this data alot too. I'd like to see what the numbers would be for people under 30 Overall this data seems weird
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 09:15 PM
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Males were having significantly higher rates of sexlessness. Doesn't this kinda mean women are having sex with the same small % of men? Aka Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:24 PM
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Then do it anyway for Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:38 PM
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What if your hobbies and interests are all male dominated and the few (if any) women there are taken
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:30 PM
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She said most girls are dating guys with X trait She also said most guys don't have X trait That means most women are dating the same guys (sharing) What else am I supposed to believe besides they are dating the same guy? She probably just misspoke
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:59 AM
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I think you consistently have the best responses I see here W
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:49 AM
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Slaaaay queen 👸 ✨️ 💖 period!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:46 AM
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There aren't lots of super hot guys Those men are the equals most women are dating. Huh? Isn't this just saying most women want Chad and are sharing? I dont think you meant to write that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:42 AM
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Empress is a good title because you can't call them queens otherwise it would be stolen valor
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:56 PM
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100% bro, we should have a trans women's day to celebrate them being women (This is not sarcasm reddit, I'm literally an Aries ♈️)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:07 PM
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Bitches be crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:22 PM
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I said maybe it feels the same. I think the orgasm would still feel better with a partner even if it didn't involve intimacy I don't think men and women's orgasms are incredibly different but I also think it's wrong to say they are different
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:00 PM
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said their orgasms feel the same. Maybe the orgasm itself feels the same but the satisfaction you get after is not the same. For example I don't particularly like dry humping but despite that the orgasm from dry humping my partner would be more satisfying than masturbation. Dry humping was just an example for an possible sex act btw I suppose we look at items differently then. No worries. Do you not think some items have more emotional significance than others? If you had an item that had been i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:48 AM
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My orgasms with my bf are just as powerful, no more no less, than the ones I give myself. Unfortunately from what I've seen women say I think this might be standard. It explains women saying they don't need men because they have a vibrator, it explains women not being interested in men the same amount men are into women, it explains why women's desire for their husbands fades more than vise versa, it explains why women complain their husbands pout and complain about not getting sex enough. I'm n…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:19 AM
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W answer
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:06 AM
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Orgasms feel better with someone you love, masturbation can't replace that feeling Maybe it's like a wife losing her wedding ring so her husband's buys her a new ring to replace it, yes it's a pretty ring but it doesn't replace the wedding ring
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:03 AM
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I don't think it's a replacement for either
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:53 AM
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How do you think the world would be if say 50 percent of women experienced a 20 percent drop in their intensity of desire? Revolution
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:55 AM
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Yeah it's zoomer talk/slang and I thought just saying W or L was dumb at first but it's convenient to convey a general feeling without going into detail
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:04 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:59 AM
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Are you the same person who didn't understand this last time? W = good/win/agree or just positive in general.... L is the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:55 AM
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If we had matching libidos I'd be a little upset because it would seem like she thinks her masturbating is an equivalent method of sexual release If she had a much higher libido I wouldn't care
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:53 AM
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W
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:50 AM
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"Another way to get it" I've only heard women say things like this. I don't think men generally think masturbation is a substitute for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:41 AM
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That doesn't necessarily mean they'd have a higher sex drive. Generally yes it does, female athletes and trans men have repeatedly shown increased libido when taking test Women aren't little men. We are different. I didn't say they were the same When they gave gay men testosterone they just turned into Hornier gay men. So your saying testosterone increases sex drive They didn't magically turn straight. That would mean the cause for attraction to females isn't testosterone related. I never said i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:00 AM
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Are men willing to wife up every attractive women they see? No Does he see multiple women a day that are attractive enough to wife up? Yea The "only for sex" zone based on looks isn't very big
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:33 PM
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I guess everyone has skeletons in their closet
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:30 PM
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If they can get a super hot woman then they aren't delusional Staying in a country filled with women with high standards and expecting an attractive partner with good personality is delusional, that's why they became passport bros
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:28 PM
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Masculine lesbians have more testosterone than straight girls for 1
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:26 PM
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Idk why people are having a hard time understanding you. It's completely reasonable to want to be your partners number 1 choice
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:56 AM
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Why would a man want to be with her after that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:54 AM
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She tried to get Chad, couldn't secure him and settled for you...why should any man be okay with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:52 AM
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You aren't supposed to make personal remarks. My apologies All you have is literal bias. How is it bias? what is masculinity to you? I asked you first
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:33 AM
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An example is a husband and wife eat lunch at home before going out to an event and don't get back home until late at night. They get home and the wife is upset that their is dirty dishes in the sink and on the table from lunch earlier in the day. She wants them cleaned and put away now but the husband is tired after being out all night and says he will do the dishes tomorrow morning. The husband heads to bed but the wife remembers she hates seeing dirty dishes in the morning so she does the dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:02 AM
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We are messy and basically over grown teenagers. At least you're self aware You talk like you have 0 relationship experience, and all you learned about sexual/romantic relationships is from the internet. Classic. Don't engage with anything specific, don't provide anything of value, put the other person below you by acting like you know more than them when you have no basis to do so. If I cut my hair short and start only wearing baggy clothes would that make me more horny??? It sounds like your e…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:43 AM
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The signs for what? Love isn't predictable. People will hurt eachother. You can be in love without being blinded by it. If you've had your heart broken more than once you should be able to see the signs. I don't even know why I have to explain that to you. Honestly is hilarious that you are a lesbian but think a lesbian wearing male clothes and sitting a specific way makes them masculine. Maybe you've been around more straight girls than me but apparently you've dodged the masculine lesbians, ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:32 AM
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Tiktok screenshot = I Win
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:47 AM
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Of course they want super hot women? Most people want a super hot partner? Passport bros would still be a thing even if they couldn't get the super hot girls
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:46 AM
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Male equivalent would be about 5ft5
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:41 AM
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Maybe I went to the wrong churches but I've never seen a church girl actually want a stereotypical church boy. In fact I've literally seen all the single girls at a church agree to not date any of the guys at the church, why? Because they viewed the church guys as (I hate to use this word) as nerdy betas.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:39 AM
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cry over ratty men. Hate to be that guy but if it's a reoccurring problem maybe your girlfriends just like bad boys? If not why are they so bad at choosing a partner? Can't they see the signs? You have a point about the women here not being normal but I'd also argue your perspective is skewed because your a lesbian. I think lesbians attraction range and libido is probably closer to men's than regular women, especially masculine lesbians. Men literally only see young women as attractive. Past 30 …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:35 AM
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Lmao I can see it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:06 AM
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I completely disagree and would argue it's not just a difference of opinion but actually incorrect. I think men's attraction range is way bigger than women's. How many times have you seen women on this very sub say they only see a guy they are attracted to a couple times a month? Men see women they are attracted to daily. Women say most men are NPCs that they don't even know exist while most men say most women are attractive. Maybe women go outside their attraction range more than men but even t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:01 AM
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Took awhile but finally got the relevant info out
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:48 AM
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I’ve honestly never met a woman who wasn’t intelligent Bruh cmon... that's ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:20 AM
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Let me ask a question to clarify... Do you think the average man's attraction range is about the same as women's? A bit bigger or smaller than women's? Or significantly bigger or smaller than women's?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:19 AM
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Men will do it just not right when you want them to
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:13 AM
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Yes and that includes getting uppies
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:27 AM
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What's is there to talk about? They usually deflect, deny or blame you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:11 AM
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Everything that needs to get done will get done, just not when you want it to or how you want it to
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:09 AM
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It usually doesn't start out blatantly
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:23 AM
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