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Ok I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:05 PM
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Can you say with a straight face that a woman who is madly in love with a man would sit back and do nothing for all of these events? When compared to men, yes I could see a woman doing nothing for all these events. Is it really hard for you to imagine a girl in love getting excited for these events but specifically for what she shall receive? Perhaps she will love his dumb horrible gifts because she loves him but it's really not a stretch to imagine her not getting him anything in return. Also d…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:44 PM
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Why do you need to be taught?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:06 PM
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Ok? Do people outside your small area not exist or?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:51 AM
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How did I know that's exactly what you were going to say? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:50 AM
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Ok well I have to say I don't think that's close to being the majorities experience
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:48 AM
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So why aren't you with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:47 AM
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Because modern women don’t want these expensive gifts. They don’t want “love through money” or transactional love. Bro what? looks and status and money. Most women don’t care about these things Bro WHAT?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:45 AM
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They just gotta be there and talk to me. Nothing more. Do you think girls like you are the majority?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:39 AM
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Solid answer
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:33 AM
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Do you think girls like you are the majority?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:28 AM
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You need game to be treated decently as a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:28 AM
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Do you think girls like you are the majority?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:27 AM
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the first thing men tell me is that I picked the wrong man or should have vetted better or whatever Yes this was my first thought. I'll ask anyway. I also paid his rent, medical bills and groceries for 8 months Why? I genuinely loved him. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:04 AM

Was she hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 09:59 PM

Disagree that people (specifically young men) choose to put themselves in situations that most perceive as miserable because "its comfortable". Also if you have money, people will want to be around you by default
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 12:18 PM

I thought they got rid of making girls message first
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:44 PM
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Disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 10:49 PM
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You seem defensive but maybe I'm reading into that. Maybe he was always a lost cause and you couldn’t of done anything. Does he live with your parents still?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 10:42 PM
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It seems like your help was encouragement and nothing else. Maybe you did all you could, idk your life story so idk what was possible and what wasn't. You said he's anxious, a shut in, and needs to work on his social skills. Maybe you could've gotten his friends, your friends and/or anybody who was open to helping him/you and hung out together at your house routinely. Constant exposure to people being at least somewhat friendly with him will decrease his anxiety, increase his social skills and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:01 AM
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Did you ever try and help your brother?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 12:30 PM
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How successful is very successful? Does he make money from shows or mostly social media/sponsors?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 12:24 PM
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I'm not a hedonist
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 05:34 AM
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Nasty
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 04:55 AM
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Cougar alert ⚠️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:08 AM
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Gross
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:06 AM
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If we expect women to understand men's reality in dating, we have to understand theirs. "If we expect billionaires to understand the poors problems then we need the poor to understand the billionaires problems"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 03:40 AM
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Nobody is asking women to mind read. It is also not possible to stop bad men from lying. It is up to you to properly vet a man
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 02:23 AM
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Do you know how ridiculous it is to say swiping right is exhausting?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 02:19 AM
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Your a woman. Ofc you want to date multiple people at once
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:54 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:38 AM
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Good job. Do you think other women would benefit from taking a similar approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:37 AM
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So you do expect women to be mind-readers? If she asks him what his intentions are and he says something serious is she supposed to think it's a lie? But also women considering men liars until proven otherwise (ei "hoops") is misandry I guess? Women always say stuff like this and sometimes it genuinely makes me wonder if their struggle with nuance is biologically tied Women don't need to assume whatever a man says is a lie OR the truth. It doesn't need to be one or the other. Why can't you just …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:36 AM
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Yes it's probably disease ridden
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:08 AM
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Reading a guy's profile because he might have not read hers made her overwhelmed with pressure? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 11:11 PM
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Im also wondering where the pressure is coming from
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 11:09 PM
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Can we make them do challenges over a pit of crocodiles or something? Let's try to spice things up a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:15 PM
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That's why you need at least 1 side chick
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:05 PM
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Haha hope you both enjoy your meal. One last question if I may, is he on trt now? Doing enough steroids where you reach 300lbs will severely compromise the bodies natural hormone production, it's very hard for most people to go to 0 exogenous hormones both physically and mentally after extensive use.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 01:00 AM
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You're crazy but good for you I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 12:51 AM
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So you are attracted to this? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:24 PM
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That's crazy! Did he post on social media or get his pro card? Or was it mostly just for himself?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:05 PM
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At least fat people have some muscle. I've never heard anyone say they like skinnyfat. You sure you mean skinnyfat?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 12:49 PM
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Idk man I haven't seen normal chicks get built like a brick wall from casually benching. Still seems very odd to me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 12:45 PM
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300lbs as a bodybuilder? He had to have been an ifbb pro then right? How tall is he?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 12:43 PM
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Google says 28 bmi is 22-25 bf% which I don't think is too far off for the shirtless guy but the hockey players are definitely leaner than that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:19 AM
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Is your son a real bodybuilder or is he a guy who goes to the gym and exercises like a bodybuilder?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:00 AM
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That twiggy girl is a little weird looking, the Farrah chick is hot tho. Unfortunate she died from ass cancer
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:55 AM
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They just don't know the proper definitions of terms like "lean" or "bulky". You can read between the lines and take a good guess of what they mean
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:41 AM
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25% is a bit on the high end
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:38 AM
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Who the hell likes skinnyfat? That's the worst combo
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:36 AM
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Indian
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:36 AM
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It pretty much comes down to they like being muscular and want to be the best so bad they take tons of steroids that damage their organs are shorten their lifespan.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:24 AM
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Bfp>bmi
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 01:53 AM
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Bmi and bfp aren't the same
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 01:50 AM
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Ngl that's pretty odd. Bench is a staple exercise even for girls. Maybe you mean you've never seen a girl who is good at bench be attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 01:37 AM
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The steroids aren't making them skinny. They are using steroids to not be skinny but it doesn't really work for them because of bad genetics, diet and exercise
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 01:15 AM
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It's np bro
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 01:05 AM
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He will die younger than if he doesn't lower the amount of steroids he's on in the not so distant future. Although some guys are pretty resistant to steroids side effects so he might make it awhile longer than you'd expect. Other guys die really young like Dallas McCarver who was only 26
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 01:05 AM
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All you need to do is Google "do bones get stronger from exercise?" and you'll be corrected
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 12:25 AM
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I don't believe they are lying but I also don't believe people who say they've seen aliens are lying either
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 10:33 PM
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Imo she's mid
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 10:02 PM
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Her face is definitely weird and her waist looks big and blocky when she's not wearing a corset with her boobs popping out. Her boobs are great tho
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:57 PM
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Who was the attractive girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:40 PM
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he struggles with social cues because those dates are weird af If you live a fit lifestyle it really isn't weird. Maybe the obvious thing is that you don't live a fit lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:37 PM
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There are teenagers on steroids that are so skinny they look borderline anorexic. Most people don't look crazy when taking steroids
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:19 PM
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Maybe until you fall off a chair and break a hip because your bones are so fragile
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:11 PM
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You'd love Nick Walker
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:08 PM
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Bro, to them a ton of muscle is bulky. Even Frank Zane is bulky to them. Also to be fair, Nick Walker is pretty bulky lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:02 PM
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You could find out yourself but my schedule is full
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 06:40 AM
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The best there ever will be
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 06:28 AM
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Female propaganda
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 06:06 AM
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Because the female orgasm is fake, a myth, an old folk tale, fantasy, propaganda
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 05:38 AM
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I have a strong skin color preference, Is that the same as your skin color or different?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 05:13 AM
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Based?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:54 AM
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Occasional conversations might happen with other dudes, not chicks
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:08 AM
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she is single, and sparks are flying, that would be a good time to ask her out. Most people don't live in Disney movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:02 AM
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That's true but I still think the discrepancy is concerning and it also grows over time. The sexlessness isn't much different in the last 3 months but the sexual occurrence gap will be worse in the last 2-3 years
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:59 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 07:21 PM
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Your links say male virgins grew from 4% to 10% and female virgins grew from 5% to 7%. Even using your numbers male virginity rates have relatively increased 150% in the last decade while female virginity rates have only increased 40%. That means male virginity is increasing 3.75x faster than female virginity. These are not small differences. We can't ignore social stigmas either. Men are incentivized to lie about 'not' being virgins and women are incentivized to lie about being virgins. You don…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 07:20 PM
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Doesn't these studies point towards women having sex with the same few men? The rise of sexlessness in men is growing 3x faster than in women and men are about twice as likely to be virgins than women. How else would you explain this discrepancy? Especially when you consider most men and women are inclined to lie in the opposite direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 12:28 PM
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It's not a bad guess for a girl who is older and supposedly pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 11:33 AM
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Statistically women are still doing the brunt of the household and childcare, EVEN when they work full time. False
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 09:12 PM
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I didn't know a mans words could get a woman pregnant! Aren't we amazing?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 08:55 PM
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Single moms are worse than single dads because you can actively see the kids with single moms? I never said "worse". We are talking about known deadbeats We are talking about all deadbeats and many of them are unknown. So you seem to think you're training women to...stop being single moms? How's that working out for you? No idea but it's a worthy cause to fight for. This in and of itself exactly speaks to the moral superiority of women. We have a connection to our children men will never have. L…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 08:52 PM
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Which lie do men say that get women pregnant?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 08:24 PM
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Yes. It's hard judge absent fathers because they are absent. And it hard to tell which men ditched their kids because... the kids aren't around him lol. It's very easy to judge single mothers because the kids being present will always be a reminder that she is one. Nobody is gonna assume a child free man is child free because he abandoned his kids. Could you imagine people assuming a woman doesn't have kids because she aborted them all? Men generally care less about what others think about them …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 08:20 PM
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i forgot men always take no for an answer Well you should report those men to the police, unless your ok with rapist being free. and never lie about anything either! Not sure what lie gets you pregnant but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 07:07 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 07:05 PM
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If she got millions then it mightve been worth putting up with her BS
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 07:05 PM
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Yes but it's harder to judge them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 12:25 PM
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I'm sure you have loads of statistics about this There are statistics that prove single mothers are harmful to society
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 12:23 PM
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Where are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 12:10 PM
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Men raised by single moms respect single moms. False. Even women will disagree with you on this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 12:08 PM
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It discourages other women from making the same mistakes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 12:02 PM
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Requires too much accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 11:31 AM
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Sounds like you can get those benefits by getting her pregnant yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 11:28 AM
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If you played it right you could've mooched off her
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 11:25 AM
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What? Your talking about hugs? White people are probably the most comfortable with hugging friends. I've never heard it ever be considered gay, you live in a weird world. There was even a tiktok trend where black dudes called their friends and said goodnight and everytime the other dude was like wtf igga are u gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 02:54 AM
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I can tell you didn't read the last of his reply
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:25 PM
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The majority of women experience significant loss of libido post and pre partum Why are single moms down to get around town then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:23 PM
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What's up with you and this anti white thing? Tons of blacks and Hispanics don't feel up their friends either
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:17 PM
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He did nothing wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:02 PM

What about tradpill?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 08:03 PM

Why are you bluepill?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:29 PM
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Hot girl who has hot lesbian scissor orgies ✂️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:37 AM
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He has a super hot girlfriend now
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 07:41 PM
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God forbid a guy be stoic 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 07:11 PM
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Why is the guy boring
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 04:22 AM
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I know it's well known, it just stood out to me that something so small/simple/stupid (running a red) could invoke this feeling in them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 07:55 PM
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Even my own girlfriend likes it when I run a red light This is so stupid but I know it's true for many if not most girls, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 07:31 PM
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I feel sorry for how clueless you are. What does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 07:17 PM
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Do you think girls mature faster?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 07:02 PM
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Ignorance is bliss
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 06:28 AM
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That's not really an interest in your job, it's an interest in an experience you had.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 04:59 AM
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Many people yes. Mormons are indeed...uhh unique?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 01:11 AM

Woman take
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 12:57 AM
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It's the most true with Mormons but even young Mormons are being less strict these days
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 12:52 AM
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I don't have any links for you but in many churches now, men are the majority
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:53 PM
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I've always found it interesting that when men are victimized because of their own stupid actions EVERYONE calls him a dumbass who should've know better but when a woman is victimized because of her stupid actions she has no fault and deserves all the sympathy in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:51 PM
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While a Mormon woman or conservative Christian woman will only accept someone in their religion or committed to converting Lmao that's untrue in the vast majority of the west
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:38 PM
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Haha I like it 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 09:29 PM
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That's nice to hear but please don't get your hopes up. I don't want you to think it's definitely going to work when nothing could come of it easily. I just want you to be in an environment where genuinely good women are more likely to be because once they get to know you, you'll have a way better shot of finding the right woman
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 08:12 AM
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Doing a little pre-ordering huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 01:08 AM
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Random theory: Women like travel so much because their ancestors were taken from village to village via conquest
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 08:03 PM
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I don't think that's an equivalent?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 07:53 PM
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Most women are really into media tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 07:51 PM
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i drive by colleges and high schools, i have eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 07:28 PM
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You sound like a good guy. You should try and consistently be in an environment where women are there and they have a higher likelihood of caring more about heart rather than looks. I know it's a drag but you could consider volunteering with animals, homeless, mentally ill, or the elderly. There is often women there who genuinely want to help people and they usually genuinely don't care about looks as much as normal. I met this chick who took care of people with special needs everyday and she wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 07:21 PM
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Gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:56 AM
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Was it long before you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:24 AM
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Good for them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:19 AM
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she had a very low n count She wanted to wait until marriage So was it low or 0?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:48 AM
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Yea
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 12:06 PM

If you point out why a dude is attractive I can see it but alot of the time its difficult for me to see it on my own. For example I don't see the appeal in guys like Timothy kardashian or Harry styles
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 11:06 AM
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Yea
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 10:58 AM
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Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 07:27 PM
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Which concert?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 07:25 PM

large fb with girls/women in my similar demographic and we have definitely come to a consensus that we see women we find attractive (even as straight women) more on average, than we do attractive men This is why guys say all girls are actually bisexual
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 07:18 PM
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It should've been me! Not him! Damn that's love 4real, happy for you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 05:57 PM
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What does "cycle through boyfriends" entail?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 06:59 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:41 AM
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What a Chad. One day I'll get there
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:50 AM
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Did I assume?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:49 AM
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Did he know she was rich at first?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:50 AM
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Nice. How did he meet her?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:09 AM
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Are they also strippers?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:11 AM
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Lol yeah let's compare hookups vs having sex with your spouse. Totally similar, not different at all really. Wild
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 03:50 AM
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It doesn't matter if it normal or expected. It still is hoe behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 09:35 PM
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Hoe phase vs hoe moments
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 09:07 AM
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Just explain why you hate swedes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 08:48 AM
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Why do you hate swedes then
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 01:42 AM
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Danish detected?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 01:32 PM
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Get with the times ol man
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 09:05 PM
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Ah ok 👍 I thought you were saying it's gross like a fact, not a preference
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 09:04 PM
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Why is it gross? We all control our partners to some degree
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 08:51 PM
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You seem to actually have a heart. How did your perception of women change after listening to these guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 08:34 PM
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Maybe they're right
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 08:32 PM
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Norwegian detected?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 08:28 PM
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You have no concept of what it's like to be a victim of an immigrant family, nor any compassion. I pray that you don't have to gain that compassion the hard way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 08:19 PM
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Have you considered going on a low dose trt? (dont go above 200mg) I think it could help alot of guys become more attractive to females. I also tried Facebook dating and got way better results. They seem way more open and down to earth than every other dating app, although there was also WAY more single moms and a few druggies, criminals, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 08:10 PM
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I think men using women for casual sex is heavily overblown, especially for the younger generation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 07:58 PM
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Men do it when they can
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 07:54 PM
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I generally only see men say that after women complain about a dude they were dating
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 07:47 PM
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You really want to tell people what is and isn't trauma? Seems like that could easily be used against you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 06:58 PM
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Why? This way we both get what we want
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 09:59 PM
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That's kinda cute ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 08:24 PM
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Then you should get a maid and we will get a sidechick
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 08:04 PM
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The reason many relationships like that fail, is because the MEN feel less than Gaslight gatekeep girlboss
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:29 AM
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woman can be the one to order them around I'm sure they'd love that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:23 AM
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that would be a ridiculous thing to expect women to live up to. True, my standards are only M cups and a double backflip
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:30 AM
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Wait so ugly, fat, single mom, druggie women (as the OP described) have a very easy time dating? Well they usually have a pack of baby daddies so obviously they are getting some dates
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:02 PM
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Most people Women*
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 11:47 PM
1

Then why has calling men incels become mainstream?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 12:50 PM
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Most of the men here have no experience at all, they're just mindlessly parroting manosphere nonsense Why is it so common for men to have no experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:00 AM
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Actually men do MORE work than women when you combine hours at work, housework and childcare. This is why women aren't interested in men anymore. Why aren't women interested in men if that's false?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:51 PM

You should have asked her how many men she's had sex with. Now thats an interesting question
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 02:04 AM

The guys whole argument is "I knew a guy who slept underneath a bridge and ate food out of the trash who became a millionaire overnight, homeless people have zero excuses"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:45 AM

Which comment got deleted? I still see it. My response It is NOT mean, harsh, or cruel to ask why a person improved themselves after their marriage ended but not during it. Honestly that's one of the most ridiculous things I've heard. So your perspective is maybe this maybe that maybe he was bad....uhhhh okay? Maybe he was a great husband and she was a shitty wife but I'm not gonna frame my opinion on something I don't know is true or not. My perspective is based on the facts we have which is Sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 07:03 PM

Is he wrong though? Which part was mean, nasty, harsh or cruel? I don't see it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:53 PM
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5-7 is good Aka average at minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:29 PM
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I like this analogy alot. If I meet an amazing woman who is interested in me when I already have a girlfriend I would never dump my gf. A compromise is perfectly reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:48 PM
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Ogling at a dude at work is a step towards a path of cheating which is arguably worse than just getting dumped
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:37 PM
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You've never seen a girl ogle at an attractive dude at work then realize she had a boyfriend the whole time?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:13 PM
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Sounds great tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:37 AM
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Women will never be the pursuers until There is no "until". There is nothing men can do socially to make women the default approachers. I suppose killing half of the world's male population could work
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:40 PM
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Higher success rate
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:07 PM
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Lmao true
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:07 PM
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and even some who like women who seem outwardly hostile towards them. Ngl I like those toxic chicks that tell me to shut the fuck up when I try to talk to them but they also get mad when I show interest in another girl
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 04:35 PM

Completely agree 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 04:51 AM
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Some women just come off as unapproachable. Maybe you and your sister come off as "Don't talk to me" and not cute, shy, soft etc
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:26 PM
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Me and the homies with tall muscle mommies
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:51 PM
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statistically a woman is more likely to be beaten or killed by her partner than anybody else Who would've thought that the person you spend the most time with has the most opportunity to hurt you. It's the same reason most car accident happen when you are close to your home.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:49 PM

Men are not attracted to virgin women I'd disagree with that but perhaps it's a cultural difference “is something wrong with you?” Maybe they think she's lying and is secretly a hoe or former prostitute but if she's generally attractive I don't think most men would have a problem with a virgin woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:42 PM

That's some odd behavior from them. Did you happen to become more attractive during this time? Also are you still modest or a slut like your username? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:09 PM

Ah ok
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:56 PM

Most men are not interested in virgins It's not a problem for the majority of men Almost every guy that wasn’t interested in me when I was a virgin jumped through a lot of hoops to be in a relationship with me after the fact Why? What changed? Some of my “guy friends” even tried and sabotage my relationship with my husband That's weird asf. Is your husband your first boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:47 PM

I married my first boyfriend W
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:43 PM

What's wrong with slut shaming
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:24 PM

Give an example
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:23 PM

However I will say that they are huge in my area, so much so that nearly every man on the dating market will show up on them, and very accurate. That's surprising to me. Where do you view these large groups? Facebook?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:11 PM

appears to be about half and half. Honestly that sounds ridiculous but I'll believe you Also why does it matter? Men are free to join and vet women as well Men don't have as much of a need to vet women this way. If you look at dating statistics by age way more young women are in relationships than young men, which doesn't make sense unless women are dating the same men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:01 PM

I haven't seen that. Surely they are outnumbered 10:1 or so
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:52 PM

I'm sure it was group dependent and most groups were fine and properly served their purpose but there were definitely groups that were toxic and harmful. Weren't there also groups that were banned or disbanded? I'm pretty sure this resulted in those same women creating their own apps to continue their agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:51 PM

Ha ha nice try, but it proves that a certain percentage of men are untrustworthy, shit people that women vetted before gambling on sharing a man. This is so obviously true it does not need to be proved. It's the exact same for females but you don't see men creating 'Are we dating the same woman'. Probably because women do date the same small % of men. seriously just did exactly what I said and tried to find fault with women I did not try to find fault with women. I gave you a reason some men had…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:18 PM

"Demisexual" is stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 07:12 PM
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Didn't men not like 'Are we dating the same guy' because the women were making up false allegations against them? Wasn't there a lot of women claiming he mistreated her when he never even went on a date with her? Weren't women getting pictures of random men from social media and those men weren't even on dating apps? Also doesn't the existence of 'Are we dating the same guy' prove that women were dating the same small % of desirable men? At the very least it helps their claim of the 80/20 rule, …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 07:04 PM
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Men don't have as many options as women so it doesn't happen nearly as often. You could argue that men would do it just as much it not more than women would it they had equal opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 06:48 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 06:45 PM
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Because I’m not giving someone like 40k for a car? You said you didn't have the money for a car. In reality you did have the money but didn't want to spend it on him that way. Well now I want a boyfriend so I have one. I’ve enjoyed fuck buddies in the past. So around the time you were dating the broke artists you wanted a fuck buddy not a boyfriend. Correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:19 PM
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Did you want a boyfriend or a fuck buddy? If you wanted a boyfriend why would you only support them for a year? I don’t have the money to like buy him a car but yeah I’ve been the one who pays for all the trips and dates and buys them clothes and stuff. If you can afford to pay for all their trips, dates, clothes, gifts etc how do you not have enough money to buy them a car?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:08 PM
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if I’m honest I wouldn’t be interested in a forever relationship. Then what's the point if you're only willing to support him for a year? It sounds like you want a fuck buddy or boy toy, not a relationship. money kept coming up. From him; not me. I didn’t talk about it unless he did. Sometimes money needs to be talked about. Especially when you have none. I’ll play sugar mama. I’ll support a pretty boy. I’ve done it twice before Damn chick how rich are you? Is it your money or your parents money…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:55 AM
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Let me ask you a question. What would of happened if you and the broke artists dude really connected and he never broke up with you? Do you not think their would have been an issues created by your wealth gap? Do you not think you would have grown frustrated with him having no money?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:42 AM
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Why would a man want to get into a relationship with a woman who often takes herself on vacations when he can barely afford rent? It would be only a matter of time before their difference of income became an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:32 AM
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Do you disagree?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:16 AM
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Well, Gisele left Brady. And then banged the masseuse. She was banging him long before she divorced Brady.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:10 AM
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Still not a moment
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:52 AM
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It's not that niche that women will monkey branch to more desirable men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:37 AM
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You can’t get fat in a moment
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:07 AM
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Cool story, thx for the reply
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 12:44 AM
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There's probably a direct correlation between girls that really like lean guys and how much they use social media
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 12:19 AM
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I definitely see way more fat men with slim wives Poland be like
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 12:16 AM
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Probably yea
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 12:05 AM
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Ah ok
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:56 PM
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When I fall for someone no other men exist. As you should
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:52 PM
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You don't think that's true?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:49 PM
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people would rather throw the baby at a man-eating predator as a sacrifice
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:48 PM
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people would rather throw the baby at a man-eating predator as a sacrifice
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:48 PM
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There’s amazingly hot women that have only ever dated two men their entire lives. WHERE? Like seriously, I’ve been lucky enough to have a beautiful woman fall for me and she saw me as so handsome. She literally said “I’m not attracted to anyone else” and she behaved like that, because she’d never even dated anyone else and we were best friends! How did you fumble?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:45 PM
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There’s amazingly hot women that have only ever dated two men their entire lives. WHERE? Like seriously, I’ve been lucky enough to have a beautiful woman fall for me and she saw me as so handsome. She literally said “I’m not attracted to anyone else” and she behaved like that, because she’d never even dated anyone else and we were best friends! How did you fumble?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:44 PM
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I agree with you but I'd say men's attraction is also relative to some degree. For example if there is 1 pretty woman at the bar and 5 even prettier women walk into the bar most men would say think "wow 6 pretty women are in the bar" But if there is 1 pretty woman in the bar and 10 extremely pretty walked into the bar and you asked the men they would have a higher chance of saying "10 pretty women are in the bar and 1 girl that is decent". If you disagree just make the hypothetical more extreme
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:40 PM
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Fair to say men's attraction is more absolute and women's attraction is more relative?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:25 PM

because not only was he physically attractive Nice save
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:11 PM

try saying you're not into short guys around there parts I think most women are open and honest about not liking short guys
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:00 PM
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Do your kids know about redpill?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:08 PM
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Men and women cheat about the same amount
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:35 AM
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Appreciate the accountability but I'm not sure it's really needed here. Teenagers are allowed to be a little dumb and naive lol Glad ur happy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:21 AM
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Can I ask the ages? Sorry you went through that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:42 AM
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Can I ask why you were with a below average guy who also was a cheater?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:23 AM
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So... preselection
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:39 AM
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spewing nonsense about women's dating options that you don't understand. Help him understand by explaining where ne went wrong then
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:35 AM
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Just haven't had the opportunity I'm sure women would love this answer
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:23 AM
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they have higher standards So we agree women have higher standards than men? I've been seeing women deny this recently. What do you think the average woman's opinion on this is?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:35 PM
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People have done experiments to find out how much paying helps. Watch the video "Are dating apps pay to win?" By Zachary Smigel for a full breakdown It I remember correctly it depends on which premium plan you pay for but overall no premium plan is even close to being worth the money
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:23 PM
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Do companies extort men or do women extort men? I dont think I've ever seen a company tell women "if he doesn't give you a gift he doesn't love you" but I've definitely heard many women say that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:33 AM
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You may not like it but this is what the peak male physique looks like
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:31 PM
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People choosing their job over their partner will never not surprise me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:54 AM
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Nah that's a green flag and if you disagree you are wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:18 PM
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Kinda sounds like the relationship ended? Or is it still going strong?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:23 PM
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That's not normal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:22 PM
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The difference is if she's dating a normal guy vs Chad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:12 PM
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Those women are.... not the best anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:36 AM

Well first of all most women have a smaller attraction range than men. Wouldn't you agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:07 PM
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Unfortunately that's a losing battle
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 11:54 PM
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Women don't want variety more than men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 10:58 PM
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So where is the overlap?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:46 PM
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Can you give me an example of wide variance in height, hair color, hair style, and physique? I agree with habits and hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:24 PM
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Wide variance as in?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:12 PM
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Yah, that’s why men are having trouble attracting women for relationships - because women get SO much from those. No it's because men don't meet women's high standards or "expectations"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 07:35 PM
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when it's highly varied Is it tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 07:22 PM
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👉👌
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:07 AM
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No your right that's what I meant. I was being sarcastic and I guess if you didn't read my previous comment it wouldn't come across that way. I'll edit it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:22 PM
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I don't think statistics showing historically low marriage rates combined with high divorce rates prove the average man doesn't struggle with dating - if anything it proves they ARE struggling
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:30 PM
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What's your point? Unless I'm missing something I agree with this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:15 PM
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Then men need to stop doing that and take responsibility for their enabling behaviours. Unfortunately I think it's basically a necessity for dating. Most men already struggle in the dating scene, if they were completely stop spending money on women then their odds would plummet. Just like women are told its their fault for being attracted to muscular men. Haven't heard that 1 b4
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:05 PM
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I think it can be more difficult to identify golddiggers because men spending money on the woman is usually part of the courting process and an expectation once in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:24 PM
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Obviously there are some men who are blind to the obvious signs a woman is a golddigger. Obviously there are things they can do to minimize being used by a golddigger. Are you happy with that response?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:22 PM
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It's interesting the way you are trying to make it seem like he said only women can be deceived when he never said anything that would indicate that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:02 PM
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Just to specify - This does NOT mean you should date men you find unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:54 AM
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If women should know men are abusers on sight men should know they are gold diggers ect. I mean yea there are often signs for both.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:52 AM
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That's not how life works if you think people can pick less abusive partners as women the same is true for men. You think you can't choose less abusive partners? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:49 AM
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Honestly I think at least a couple of the women will change their minds (a), probably not completely adopt the views of the 4 women but at least somewhat. I agree most would probably pick B I worded (C) badly. Perhaps instead of calling their opinion "wrong" I should have said "challenged their opinion" Do you think not challenging the 4 women's views that men aren't valuable is a little dangerous or bad for society? Or is it simply none of their business? But most women do want a man - them say…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:47 AM
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I agree with you but many of them say they don't need or want a man. I ask this question because I see plenty of women talking down on men but don't see any talking positively about men. So let's assume you are right and the majority of women (6/10) have a somewhat positive view of men, if those women saw other women loudly and proudly talking down on men (4/10). Do you think the 6 women are more likely to (A.) Be influenced by the other women and change their answer. (B.) Keep their opinion the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:27 AM
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you're not compatible with me if you're insecure enough to comb through all my past partners and decide one by one if i made them wait long enough. Ok Anyway, is it anyone else's fault but your own if your girl felt more secure and more attracted to her ex, so she had sex with him sooner? Just accept that you're not that guy. If she had me jump through more hoops than her ex then yea obviously I'm not that guy. I'd rather leave and be that guy for someone else. Plus, if i'm not ready to have sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 10:44 AM
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Who is harmed in the process if I decide I want to have sex faster with someone? Physically? No one. Emotionally? Potentially your future partner. Why is it when women say they don't have casual sex right away there will be flocks of men rushing to say "OKAY BUT YOU BETTER NOT FUCK CHAD THEN WHEN YOU GET THE CHANCE." It's not about "Don't fuck Chad" its about don’t drop your standards for him. Men don't want to get with a girl who made him jump through hoops but didn't make other guys do the sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 10:10 AM
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Don't be so picky ≠ date ugly dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 09:33 AM
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Why did you date an ugly guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 07:17 AM
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Your standards (if true) seem perfectly reasonable. Thank you/good job Idk if the guy meant that you'd get raped...that's a pretty big statement but either way it was not a nice thing to say It's only bad imo if you abandon your standards for "Chad" and then regain them for an average Joe. If your standards were consistent throughout it does not make you less valuable at all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:54 AM
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Who is saying only Chads can be assholes?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:41 AM
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Guys aren't telling women to get with guys they aren't attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:15 AM
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Ok let's say 6/10 would agree with you. If the first four women loudly proclaimed men are worthless and don't add any value to their life, do you think the remaining 6 would still agree with you or would their answer change?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:52 AM
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Which country
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:20 AM
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If you were to ask 10 random women this question how many do you think would give a similar answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:24 AM
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I would much rather have someone point me the way than be a shoulder to cry on. A shoulder to cry on becomes a dick to ride on
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:06 PM
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I have heard stories from women who were in abusive relationships. They generally say the abuse is physical, emotional, manipulation/coercion etc but I've not heard BC sabotage. I'd be willing to bet if abused women were surveyed BC tampering would be low on the list. Maybe I'm wrong tho 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:19 PM
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Would cold also render them ineffective? Messing with BC seems pretty extreme and hopefully pretty rare, I don't think most men or women would have the knowledge of how to render it ineffective.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:04 PM
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Thanks for the info. Not finding anything on Google about it except about other medications
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:19 AM
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W opinion Fuck the haters
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 07:59 AM
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Why is that a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 12:10 PM
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Everything depends on how attractive you are
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 09:20 AM
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Would you go for a woman who's 195cm? Yes...if you know one that tall send her my way
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 07:40 PM
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How tall? How fat? What's your face look like? If you're 6'4, not very fat and have a decent face then I'd bet a good amount of women would be into you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 11:09 AM
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This isn't asking for much, honestly it should be the bare minimum. Nah 4real tho you made a pretty good list, most things are accurate or not far off. Other girls seem to gotten a couple things right then dropped the ball
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:40 AM
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Bro what did you do
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:02 AM
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Standards can increase the odds of feeling special but if it was just about feeling special for women then it would override any standards they have. I also don't understand how feeling special relates to friendships at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 06:51 AM
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I'm not sure what your getting at
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:27 AM
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So you'd agree it's not just about feeling special for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:12 AM
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Yea thats bad but it's not terrible. Are you open to taking semaglutides? (Weightloss drugs)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:08 PM
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How tall are you? 6ft4 400lbs and 5'6 400lbs are drastically different
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:00 PM
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You make it sound like it's impossible to find a guy who's willing to wait. It's not THAT rare
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:58 PM
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I don't think guys saying they "just want a gf" but then explaining what their ideal gf would be like is contradictory.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:55 PM
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Come to the dark side brother
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:28 PM
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How much you weigh big dog?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:14 PM
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Do you say that to all the women with checklists?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:03 PM
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That's true but maybe since you have fewer options the options you do have are better/more serious. For example using dating apps I've heard of a few guys taking bad pictures, making a bad profile and seemingly the most important part; listing yourself as short. They obviously don't get many matches but they weren't getting matches anyway lol, but the few matches that happen seem to be of higher quality Just trying to see the bright side of things
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:01 PM
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Didn't address my points but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:49 PM
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Women do the exact same thing. How many women think a man being ugly is a deal breaker? What about short, poor, small dick, non vibrant social life, no status? The VAST majority of them, as in 99% of women. If it was just about feeling special these things wouldn't matter to women Men want to feel special too. That's why men get upset that she made him wait and work for things when she gave it away easily to another man before
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:41 PM
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Did you plant the tree?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:09 PM
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You know everything about his behavior but don't know what he looks like?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:44 AM
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Ok let's assume an average guy starts approaching lots of women irl. What do you think his success rate would be?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:42 AM
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Don't wanna answer huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:31 AM
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What does new bf look like
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:04 AM
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Men also have a much wider attraction range compared to women though. So even if looks is 80% of what men are looking for in a relationship that does not mean he is only attracted to the top 20% of women. This is why most people agree men have lower standards than women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:57 AM
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So you think men cheat less?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 01:32 PM
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Men have higher libidos, a wider attraction range and generally desire variety more than women. I think its basically a given men would cheat more than women if given equal opportunity
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 06:15 AM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 05:58 AM
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My childrens best interest is my best interest
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 05:46 AM
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L state
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 05:33 AM
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Overall I think men and women cheat roughly about the same amount but men would cheat mire if they had the opportunity
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 05:25 AM
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she gets everything on the asset split? Not everything but she should definitely get preferential treatment I think physical abuse should warrant this as well. Sure why not? We'd have to throw away claims of abuse with no police reports and only "proof" of small injuries like small bruises that could be from anything, especially if the accused abuser has no history of domestic violence. If the accused has a history of previous domestic violence, the victim has proof of severe injuries and has re…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:01 AM

W
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:47 AM

She ain't a lady if she ain't 180
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:32 AM

If she 210 count ya boy in
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:32 AM
1

That's why we multiply by 3
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:05 PM
1

W rizz?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:45 PM
1

3 matches a week resulting in a couple dates a month is a very high success rate. It would be a good success rate even with 10matches a week
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:43 PM
2

Tomboy w
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:50 PM
1

Banger
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:26 PM
1

I said men AND women should learn from past experiences. I did not say "women should learn their lesson" and I did not say anything that specifically applied to sexual assault either. Twisting my words is pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:09 AM
1

I didnt say that but sure, go ahead. Are you gonna stop befriending women once they victimize you too?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:27 AM
1

Okay let's say a friend keeps getting hurt doing the same thing over and over. They are not your patient. Do you still refuse to tell them to be more careful? You just let them continue to hurt themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 12:07 AM
1

I am saying men and women should learn from previous experiences. If a person repeatedly puts themselves in a situation where they have been a victim before and they continue to be a victim then they are partially at fault too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:49 PM
1

Why? Maybe because he wanted to explore another culture, idk... Now it’s perfectly fair in my opinion to have certain deal breakers from the past for me that’s alcoholism and drug abuse. And I also think if a man or woman has deal breakers regarding number of sexual partners that’s their choice. My point was that someone who thinks that way is just a bad match for me. Ok gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:06 PM
0

What if he traveled to a poor country to use sex workers
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:22 PM
1

Did you purposely skip where you said "Should have been a little more careful" and "think real carefully about what they could have done differently" because it obviously applied more to my statement than "wear seatbelt lol"?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:19 PM
1

Please elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:13 PM
1

The first time you are a victim is a learning lesson, every time after you need to look at yourself and the mirror and ask yourself what you did to put yourself in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:04 PM
1

I know you aren't serious but what if you treat the same patient 2 or even 3+ times for the exact same thing? Don't you think that's legitimate advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:59 AM
1

If a man got wasted and stoned with his friends, passed out on the couch and got his phone stolen, then what? The first time is a lesson, the second time is naivety, the third time is idiocy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:56 AM
0

I mean after a while you got to let the sack refill
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:38 AM
1

Is it a double standard when most men would be very happy to engage in the same acts they did with the "hotter" girls in the past with their wife but most women wouldn't be willing/happy/excited to do the same with their husbands? Also there are a good chunk of men who actually refuse to go down on women or have sex that solely focuses on the woman until he is married to his special woman. Women generally do the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:13 AM
1

You should have accepted him for who he truly is
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 08:27 PM
1

It's not the "jock look" it's the "Adam Sandler " look
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 08:25 PM
1

Loose pussy propaganda
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 06:04 AM
-1

Yes they are
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:25 AM
-1

Stop with this loose pussy propaganda
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 12:45 AM
-2

By other women who like big d they are
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 11:24 PM
5

men with small penis issues often being bad people Small dick = bad person... got it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 11:23 PM
4

Yea I've heard it from women usually when they are bored and nothing else to do and the conversation kinda floats that way. Although usually women say something along the lines of "I'm not a size queen but...(something that indicates they like big D)"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 11:16 PM
2

It's only gay if he has sex with other males. If he is having sex with a woman at the end of the night, neither opinion moves him any closer to "gay" So a man imagining his girlfriend was a man while having sex with her is not gay AT ALL?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 10:37 PM
2

Which is more gay? Guy 1 who chooses a conventionally attractive girlfriend to specifically show her off to other males Or Guy 2 who chooses a conventionally unattractive girlfriend because he genuinely finds her attractive and doesn't care what other males think of her
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 10:22 PM
1

Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 10:02 PM
3

Making every one at a party think your hot shit because your girlfriend is extremely hot does sound fun but only once or twice. Any guy who chooses a girlfriend so they he can specifically show her off to other males is kinda gay
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 10:01 PM
1

Alot of girls (most) want to be unique so the girls who embrace being generic are actually the unique ones
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 09:53 PM
1

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 10:25 PM
1

It would be getting even
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:34 AM
1

Just sleep with the daughter?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:31 AM
-1

None of his teammates like him
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:16 AM
0

Russ is a perfect example of a cuck
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:11 AM
0

Russell Wilson is a cuck and none of his teammates like him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:49 PM
1

Based?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:45 PM
1

"I was born a man"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:36 PM
4

Yes, I'm sleeping with our son ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:35 PM
4

No? Idk how you are getting this impression
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:21 PM
4

Yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:20 PM
7

What? It did make sense before?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:09 PM
2

Sarcasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 09:49 PM
8

Thanks for being honest. It may not be nice but it makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 09:41 PM
3

they’re disappointed you dont put yourself out there. Why tho? I don't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:57 AM
4

They're taking it as you indirectly asking them to hype you up. That's foreign to me but makes sense. Why do they get upset when he doesn't approach though?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:47 AM
4

none of my friends have the same type at all In my experience that's quite odd. I have literally seen girls turn guys down in a not so nice matter to only change their mind when they see other women who aren't even necessarily their friends find the same guy attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:05 AM
-1

Cucks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:00 AM
2

Hoes in different area codes is one thing. So let's say he travels out of state for work once a month, is he okay to bang other girls when he's away? also speaks to a deficit in our home life How? He is still having as much sex both of you want to have together. There is no emotional or romantic attachment with his side chick, all she does is provide additional sexual pleasure and stress relief
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:02 AM
1

Ok so let's say your husband has sex with a female coworker everyday during lunch break. There is a zero percent chance he gets her pregnant or gets an std. Their relationship is strictly sexual and he barely talks to her outside of sex and has zero contact with her in non work hours. Him having sex with her reduces his overall stress significantly and makes him appreciate how amazing you are even more than he already does. Are you okay with your husband continuing this behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:00 AM
1

Thanks, I thought of it in my Bugatti
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:12 AM
1

You don't have a Bugatti because you're poor
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:55 AM
1

What color is your Bugatti?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:32 AM
1

You said you are okay with the fact that he cheated on you in the past. You and another woman both had sex with him in the small time frame. I am asking you to clarify that you are ok with the fact you previously shared him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:14 PM
0

What color is your Bugatti?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:02 PM
1

Ight
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:02 PM
-1

I wasn't asking you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:01 PM
1

Yea I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:56 PM
1

I know it depends on the women but I was asking a general question. Unless you think it varies too much to make a generalization
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:53 PM
5

Is your husband aware of how long his leash is?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:50 PM
1

Damn...you single?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:45 PM
0

I guess but where do most women draw the line if it's not at 1? What if he cheats once every 5years? 3years? 2years? 1year? I don't think most women would be ok with their man cheating once a year but you'd be surprised by the amount of women who would be willing to give a man a threesome as a birthday gift so maybe I'm just off the mark
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:44 PM
-2

So you are okay with knowing you shared him in the past?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:40 PM
1

if it had no noticeable impact on our marriage. Ok your husband fucks his work wife at lunch once a week but it makes him less irritable at home and it makes him appreciate how amazing you are even more than he already does. There is a zero percent chance he gets her pregnant or gets an std. Are you okay with him continuing this behavior because not only does it not have a negative impact on your marriage but actually a positive impact.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:37 PM
1

I think you don't know another woman
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:30 PM
1

Name another woman
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:26 PM
0

What exactly did they do while monkey branching that was hidden and would be considered a breach of trust? I think women can monkey branch without breaching their partners trust and without needing to hide their actions
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:25 PM
0

Ok him making out with a chick once 5 years ago isn't a big deal. What if 5years ago he passionately made out with her everyday for a month while fondling her body over her clothes? He didn't have sex with her, he didn't see her naked, he didn't do oral etc
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:23 PM
1

Name another woman
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:12 PM
-2

I'm not asking about you specifically. I am asking if women who don't think previous cheating is that big of a deal give some legitimacy to the claim "women are OK sharing the top % of men"? (Obviously not all women) Also if you are ok with your partner previously cheating in the past then you basically were ok with temporarily sharing him
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:10 PM
1

Thanks for being honest
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:02 PM
2

Get ova here bb
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:00 PM
3

do I really care if he made out with Becky at a conference 5 years ago? It's crazy women here are openly saying cheating isn't a big deal
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:58 PM
0

If he stepped out once but didn’t bring anything home & didn’t knock anyone up, I don’t need to know about it. I can't imagine a man ever saying this but I have heard women say this before. Doesn't this give some legitimacy to the claim "women are ok sharing the top % of men"?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:56 PM
1

What? Did you not understand my comment or am I not understanding yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:39 PM
1

Hit me up girl
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:37 PM
2

It's Britney bitch ✨️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:17 PM
1

uh no we say this constantly and men say "no good men are everywhere" Doesn't this statement give legitimacy to the premise that "women only find the top 20% of men attractive"? This is also because men and women have a different definitions of "good men".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:12 PM
1

Name a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:03 PM
1

Thats only for hookups It's more common for hookups but is still common for relationships. Men have a much wider attraction range than women do. If you made men choose between a 9/10 in looks but he has to put in 10/10 effort to have a relationship with her vs a 6/10 in looks but he has to put in 5/10 effort to have a relationship with her a TON of men would choose the less physically attractive woman
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:53 PM
1

Assume the women weren't wearing makeup or the man puts the same amount of effort into his appearance as she does... now who is more attractive on average?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:46 PM
6

That may sound reasonable on the surface but is a man who works from home and has been married to his stay at home wife for 10years reasonable when he asks her for a paternity test? I don't think so
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:15 PM
1

The real debate should be when is asking for a paternity test reasonable and what is a reasonable response from the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:06 PM
1

Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:56 PM
0

Monkey branching is obviously wrong but is it cheating if it didn't involve sexual/romantic activities?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:53 PM
1

Maybe I'm wrong but I don't think he literally meant "nobody gives a fuck about the fidelity aspect" but meant "the fidelity aspect is WAY less important than the paternity aspect"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:50 PM
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You sound like a wokie pointing out the extremely rare edge cases when a generalization is made. Is a paternity test inherently a fidelity test? No.... But is it often a fidelity test at the very least by proxy? Yes Most men who get paternity tests are getting them for a reason (paternity). Of course they don't want their girlfriends cheating on them but they REALLY REALLY don't want to raise another man's kid for 18years
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:42 PM
6

(Fun fact, 2 of the last 3 women I dated before my wife also made substantially more money than me). Now, I ain't sayin' he a gold digger...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 06:37 PM
2

Men make it clear that who they’ll masturbate with and who they’ll be seen in public with are two different things True but you still see quite alot of fat chicks with boyfriends irl I think trans porn is pretty popular too That's mostly from porn addiction men have literally killed trans women for sleeping with them without disclosing their transness. Not disclosing it is equivalent to rape
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 06:07 AM
1

Why does it also happen to couples that spent the majority of their time together and had sex often
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 06:05 AM
-2

An average female being sexually attracted to her husband when she’s horny does not at all necessarily mean that she has the same compulsory interest in sex as the typical male. But why does it happen drastically more often for many couples after they get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:54 PM
1

Something you learn during small talk. Like?????
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:21 PM
1

All these numbers are way off. Idek how you are in the bb world and think 15%bf for men is average and how you don't know how inaccurate dexascans are...cmon this is basic stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:47 PM
1

Most girls don't even like guys lower than 15% bf, even including most fit girls. Only the very fit girls in the bb industry appreciate men near 10%bf Bulky is a term for bf%. Thats why you go on a "bulk". You really can't be 15% bf and "bulky" ya know
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:41 PM
1

And who is making that argument? Did you just make that up in your head?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:32 PM
1

You should know at least something about them that makes you want to get to know them better. Like????
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:22 PM
1

Idkwym
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:20 PM
1

15% is kind of high for an athletic man Not really but it depends on the sport 15% is even high for a competitive woman Which sport? 15% is very low for most females. I hover at 19-20% as a woman when I'm not cutting b You bodybuild?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:01 PM
1

Yall some snacks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:13 AM
1

How much do you weigh?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:09 AM
2

Damn boy he thicc
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:06 AM
0

I meant the end part
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:04 AM
-1

I usually agree with you flan but not at all on this one
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:51 AM
3

15% isn't that low
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:42 AM
0

which still means you can't get an unnecessary abortion after week 22 I think that's what's supposed to happen on paper but often doesn't. I think it would be really interesting for you to call abortion clinics near you and act like you need an abortion even though its past the legal time frame, you could even try to guilt trip them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:39 AM
-1

How do you decide when the baby gets to have its own body?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:30 AM
1

What's his height and weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:15 AM
7

It literally happens all the time idk why they deny it. Maybe they are coping because they don't want to admit that they have done it themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:18 AM
2

probably much narrower than what women men would consider attractive. Thanks for acknowledging this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:15 AM
-1

many women genuinely like dad bods Most women don't actually know what a dad bod looks like
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:14 AM
1

Bbw being one of the most popular porn categories proves alot of men are into fat women Mens attractiveness range is way wider than females range
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:57 AM
2

"Not everyone use dating apps so your experience using them are irrelevant" is not a great argument
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:00 AM
1

You are bluepill
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:58 AM
-2

Change your tag to bluepill
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:47 AM
-4

Nice! good for you. But you know it happens to alot of other guys
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:36 AM
3

And although many women may have similar preferences Mhmm if they all had the same taste then other guys would get no matches at all. That happens...many men get close to no matches
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:40 AM
3

it’s an algorithm It's an algorithm that shows the men most women found attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:38 AM
11

Old shows you the best ranked profiles And why are they the best ranked profiles....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:36 AM
-2

Idk, why do women get a ton of conveniently timed headaches as soon as they get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:32 AM
2

I joking btw
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:30 AM
-4

Remember he isn't your's it's just your turn
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:25 AM
-5

the only person I've ever been intimate with W
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:22 AM
-1

11? Damn what a hoe 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:18 AM
1

What would make him a 10?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:14 AM
1

A guy walking up to a woman and instantly asking her out is creepy. He knows nothing about her I thought the point of the date was getting to know eachother but I guess the guy should know everything about her before the date, my mistake
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 05:11 AM
1

Where you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:58 AM
1

He's a cute guy but not a 9 or 10. Is he an 8 then? Wdym by "cute"? Is he more "yea he's kinda cute" or "Oh! He's cute"? The ladies were feeling him. What does this mean? We're they just staring at him? Talking to their friends about him? Blushing? Trying to get his attention and engage w him? How old is your nephew and how old were the girls that were interested in him?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:42 AM
1

What's your height, weight, and body type/bodyfat percentage? I'm assuming your face and charisma ain't all that but you can correct me if im wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:26 AM
4

IT'S MY TURN!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:15 AM
2

No
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:28 PM
2

He did agree to her request but he made no request of his own
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:58 PM
3

She is the one who wanted him to only get sexual satisfaction from her - he agreed to only get sexual satisfaction from her He did not request that she only gets sexual satisfaction from him - if he's not in the mood she can go watch porn and masterbate
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:54 PM
5

If she's the one that needs the relationship to be that way I think the man has some wiggle room
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:45 PM
7

I'm fine with this as long as she recognizes it's her duty to sexually satisfy me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 04:50 PM
9

If she ain't like this I don't want her
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 04:49 PM
44

and it comes with the responsibility to actually fulfill your partner's sexual needs. That's the kicker right there
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 04:46 PM
1

👍
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:34 AM
1

Ok gotcha. I don't understand multiple relationships but whatever 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:33 AM
1

You had the standard relationship before you were wealthy? I remember you being in a throuple but not the "dyad"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:25 AM
2

Idk why people make up terms for normal stuff. Just say that lol I was gonna ask how you handle having 3 chicks but I think I remember you being wealthy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:20 AM
1

I remember seeing you a long time ago in a different sub. What's a dyad?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:09 AM
0

It's happened multiple times where female professional athletes have been beaten by male high-schoolers. Some old guys also beat pro female athletes 12-0 in soccer
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 07:10 PM
1

Yes and they only perform slightly better after 200miles
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 07:07 PM
1

A lady linked it below, apparently females run about half a percent faster than the men AFTER they have ran 200miles
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 06:59 PM
2

Just because women have outpaced men by half a percent per mile AFTER they have ran 200miles does not mean females are better ultramarathoners lol. When you have such niche sports you can't even get a good sample size of men and women. There is a good chance men capable of that level of cardio are doing other more popular sports that pay more but women don't have as many options for sports as men so a higher % of female athletes will be congregated in this specific area.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 06:49 PM
1

I think you're thinking of women performing evenly or slightly better than men at a certain stage of extreme endurance sports. Like after running 100miles women will run a certain amount of miles quicker than the men. I think it's not that women perform better than men after running 100miles, it's just that they don't have the same performance decline. ie their performance declines by 13% while men's drops by 15%
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 06:32 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:28 PM
1

Because you find them attractive/a good fit based on their profile and will converse with them when your current conversations have died out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:11 PM
1

Oh I thought you were being sarcastic lol, ty
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:03 PM
1

You can maintain a genuine conversation with more than 5 matches at a time and not get people mixed up? You generally aren't having a conversation with all your matches at once. Perhaps 10-15 matches would be excessive if they were all active. You could have a timer for the max amount of time of not engaging with a new match, once the times up you will automatically me unmatched to boost match activity
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:02 PM
1

Wym?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:54 PM
1

A 5 match cap seems low to me. Maybe everyone can start at 5matches and you unlock more matches over time. I think a 10-15 match cap would be good. I think users would get annoyed of leaving reviews before unmatching. A star rating system would be better imo. An optional review could be tied to their star rating though. Also I wouldn't allow users who have sent over a certain amount of messages to eachother to instantly unmatch a person. Instead I would have an unmatch "que" that would take 12-2…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:35 PM
2

I think the increased match quality would be worth the lower match odds I'd prefer 10% less chance of a match BUT 20% higher quality matches over 20% higher match odds and 10% less match quality
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:56 PM
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Honestly pretty good ideas. I would definitely tweak them quite a bit but the general idea is consistent
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 07:02 AM
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I think that by artificially increasing the selectiveness of men, women will become less selective due to a reduced amount of matches. I understand but I think I disagree. If a chick swipes on a dude when she has limited matches available that means she's seriously interested in him. If she has 5 matches she's interested in then her selection consists of 5 dudes at a time giving each guy who matched with her a 20% chance she favors him over the rest. Also the 5 guys who matched with her all have…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 06:57 AM
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How many times did you lie? (a lot)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:08 AM
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Right, that was my point - it makes dating “hard” instead of “fun”. The question from OP was about what was hard for women when dating. For me, I personally find having to mitigate risk of rape and pregnancy is hard and not fun. Not getting drunk and not having sex with people you hardly know is hard to you? That's pretty unbelievable to me but whatever I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:02 AM
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It's not even close to the same thing. that right there proves we just provide more No it doesn't lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:57 AM
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It’s the reason men chase us and not the other way around. I think men chase women because of temperament and sex drive, not because they are more valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:32 AM
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the average guy is less valuable than the average woman Why do you mean by that? Explain
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:26 AM
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Do men overestimate value or do women underestimate value? I think it may actually be both. Women have so many options that they underestimate their options value Men have so few options that they overestimate their options value
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:10 AM
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You're pretty damn cool flan
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:42 AM
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OP claims women get thousands of dates by just logging on. No he claimed its possible for a woman to get thousands of MATCHES not dates, that's a big difference. While it may not be likely, it's 100% possible for a woman to get thousands of matches if she consistently put herself out there. They are gonna go out with every one to filter them? Wouldn’t that take a really long time? It's not hard to filter through dating profiles, just pick the ones you really like that also reciprocate. The real …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:33 AM
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Which is where the hideous people are
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 12:39 AM
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What techniques do you use to filter the men who want only sex but say they want a relationship from the ones who actually want a relationship? There is no reliable way to consistently do this over text imo. What you can do is go on dates and get a much better idea in person. How do you tell the difference between someone you click with and someone pretending to click because they want sex? And someone with thousands of matches, like you think you would get as a woman, is probably extremely hot …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 12:05 AM
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6 years of this same thing, again and again and again, to finally find my boyfriend You still with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:53 PM

Why is your ass so hairy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:24 PM

Yea
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:44 PM

Yes, men fantasize about dying for a just cause
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:42 PM

How do you explain the fantasies where they die and get no praise or admiration?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:39 PM

In most mens fantasies they became the hero not for praise or admiration but to beat the evil bad guy. Fantasies where they have an extreme challenge to overcome and they fight tooth and nail to save the people they love, even if it involves sacrificing themselves so they can be proud of themselves is drastically more common then fantasies where they become the hero to get praise and attention from others
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:35 PM

Huh? Idk what you mean. You seen this yet? Lol https://youtu.be/qaGrqwp8wvY?si=l0THMZc1oDM6j6ng
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:24 PM

She’s so desirable and amazing she brings out his gentle side. I've seen this is a very common thought in women's fantasies...do men do this at all? If men did do this what are the odds women would call them a misogynist and narcissistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:04 PM

So are women... and one version is attractive only in fiction 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:59 PM

He gives the woman everything she wants without the indignity of her having to ask for it. Kinda funny how women's fantasies are where the hot bad boy picks her and gives her everything she wants and men's fantasies are about sacrificing themselves for others lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:54 PM
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These girls throat more hotdogs then joey chestnut
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:03 AM
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Redpill are not a monolith 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:00 AM

Women have literally admitted this though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:14 AM

Rape is a hard thing to accurately get data on. People have different definitions of what rape is. Is a slightly intoxicated man a rapist for having sex with a heavily intoxicated woman? Does your answer change if she was flirting with him when she was sober? What is the intoxication difference consensual sex vs rape? Is a girl getting pressured into sex by her boyfriend rape? Did a girl who didn't want to have sex but didn't say anything to indicate that get raped even though she went along wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:16 AM

It's normal in alabama #RollTide
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:10 PM

If men aren't dangerous, why do the men who love and care about their wife, daughter, etc, worry about them when in the presence of men they don't know? It's not "men are dangerous" or "men aren't dangerous", it's "SOME men are dangerous and a man you don't know may or may not be dangerous" therefore you should be aware, observant and cautious until you know them better. This does not mean act like all men are dangerous. It's unfair to treat the majority of men as inherently dangerous when in re…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:08 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:26 PM
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That still sounds like the only reason they care is completely from external factors. I don't think that's a particularly good reason to care about a partners job and luckily I don't think most men are like that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:11 AM
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Honestly it sounds like the guys you dated didn't care but their families did and they caved to family pressure Do guys who pursue women with good jobs actually care that she has a good job or do they just know women with good jobs and decent incomes are less likely to be financially illiterate or gold diggers? And more likely to be approved of by family and friends, have something to relate to, common interests and common experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:08 AM
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I don't think "intimidated" is the right word either but that may be because soo many women call men "intimidated" and "insecure" as an insult that men are automatically closed off to those terms. Are men intimidated by a woman earning more than him? I don't think so. I guess they could possibly be insecure about it but I'm not sure. When I think of a man being intimidated by a woman it's usually when approaching her because she's extremely attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:57 AM
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I think women have a higher threshold for who they consider good looking but over all care about looks less than men I think that's pretty accurate. Idk if I would say they care "less" about looks than men, well at least significantly less but I would say when looking for a partner it takes up a smaller % of the pie. Women's attractiveness range is much smaller than men's but they are much more willing to step outside of that range if the man's other attributes are good enough. Men have a much l…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:43 AM
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men with prestigious high paying careers are not always humble nor would I say they are more humble than women. I think men are often more on the extreme ends of things while women are more in the middle. For example... Who is the most humble person? Probably a man. Who is the least humble person? Probably a man. Most women won't be loudly in your face about how much better her job is and how much she out earns a man but she may constantly do small things to remind you of it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:23 AM
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Well for 50/50 to be truly optimal then you would need people of both sexes to behave optimally. For example men generally have higher sex drives which leads to them pursuing women more than vice versa, women generally have higher standards, even the difference in amount of homosexuals between sexes will impact the likelihood of a person to find an equivalent mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:03 AM
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Well the people who make up society don't act optimally, if they did then 50/50 would also be an optimal gender ratio
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:48 AM
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But theoretically there is a more optimal alternative
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:44 AM
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I think you may have cracked the code
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:42 PM
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A distribution that doesn't cause issues doesn't make it an optimal distribution
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:37 PM
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I even think 60/40 is too much, people don't understand how big of a difference even 5% is
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:33 PM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:13 PM
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The good ol days
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:12 PM
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Quick maffs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:10 PM
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She's the one that's providing the service, nobody is making her have sex with anyone. A possible consequence is that she gets pregnant from providing the service If a gym goer drops a barbell and cracks the floor is it the gym goers responsibility or the gym owners responsibility to replace it? It's obviously the gym owners responsibility If a customer spills food on the floor at a restaurant who should clean it up? Yes the customer made the mess but it's the restaurants responsibility to take …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:27 AM
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Why is a man getting a prostitute that he will never see again pregnant a consequence?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 03:58 AM
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Don't people have to deal with the possible consequences of their actions themselves? If a prostitute gets pregnant isn't that just a consequence of her actions? Ideally the man would help support the child but should he be obligated to? If a jewelry store owner didn't lock the stores door at night and was robbed isn't that his fault? If a guy hurts himself because he crashed drunk driving isn't that his fault? If a man shoots himself in the leg because he forgot to put the safety on isn't that …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 03:43 AM
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40+ countries only allow them when there is risk to the pregnant persons health, and another 40+ only allow them for cases of rape, incest, etc… Why is this bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:54 AM
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Girl power
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:36 AM
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The 10% difference is offset by the women who prefer to be single and the women who share the top level men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:35 AM
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More women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:33 AM
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This is the correct answer
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:33 AM
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51/49 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:56 PM
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If you frame it that way I think they would agree with your interpretation of what they mean when they say it but what do they actually mean by "bad relationship"? I think that's where I'd wager that when they say that a "bad relationship" doesn't mean a relationship of conflict or abuse but a relationship with an average Joe. Nothing wrong with him but also nothing amazing about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:53 PM
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rampant increase in sexually deviant behavior among women and an overall drop in quality of life and economic output as primary outcomes of such a lopsided sex ratio. Worth it? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:47 PM
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I see no flaws in your logic... well played
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:45 PM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:42 PM
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I think its more achievable with slightly more women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:36 PM
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Do you disagree with the women here who say women would rather be single?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:35 PM
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Exactly 💯 in a polygamous society they might get a little extra poon but in reality the top guys will just be even more flooded in poon
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:24 PM
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It's a win for women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:21 PM
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You got to at least take Sunday off to rest like God wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:20 PM
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A win is a win
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:16 PM
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Slayyyy 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:03 PM
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That would only work for so long until the men learned to prevent it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:02 PM
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The woman wouldn't yet abused, the men would just kill eachother to aquire her
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:58 PM

It isn't pro-women, it's purely to sexually benefit men. Stop being a pick me, women would rule the world if they outnumbered men No way to physically do that without reducing the number of men. ?Wat
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:55 PM
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They don't want to reduce the number of men, they want to increase the number of women. Funny how men are actually pro women when they are labeled as misogynists 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:43 PM
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Your line of thinking is logical, unfortunately theirs isnt
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:35 PM
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I have actually written multiple posts about this same exact question but never actually posted them because I didn't want to put in the effort of making it fluid and coherent lol My answer is that if 100males are born then 110-120 females should be born, so about 115. This is already quite a big change considering males are naturally born more often 105m/100f, then add in many societies are much more likely to abort female babies. Any gender ratio too extreme is just going to fuck up society fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:27 PM

Yea same...for sure haha totally too big
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:37 PM
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I'm not sure about that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 03:06 AM
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Is status more attractive than looks or does status just put you in a bigger spotlight to be noticed by women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:57 AM
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Tortas need love too 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:46 AM
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Need more tren
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:44 AM
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It's still not inherently incompatible. Unless the guy wants a truly 100% strict traditional woman like she's not allowed to look or talk to another man without his permission, well actually she's not allowed to do anything without his permission really. I don't think most men are thinking of this when they say they want a traditional woman though, at least I hope not
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 02:26 PM

I also disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:14 PM

sorry you think LTR sex is bad, that seems like a personal problem, not my business. So women in relationships shouldn't complain about their sex life because it's always good huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 05:21 PM

sex in a relationship is better than sex with a hookup That's a big assumption that unfortunately I don't think is as common as you think. Let's assume you are correct though, if sex in a relationship is better than hookups with a fwb... why did she have hookups and fwbs at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 05:15 PM

Based blue pill
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 11:23 AM

I certainly wouldn't have hooked up with my husband, because I hookup with NO ONE. That's GREAT BUT THATS NOT WHAT THE OP SAID Maybe the woman isn't comfortable having sex without commitment, maybe she's not into hookups, maybe she wants to feel an emotinal connection. If ANY of that stuff applied to OP then she would have NEVER said her original comment! Can you imagine a scenario where you tell your husband word for word what OP told her BF?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 11:01 AM
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I'm not gonna explain to you what somebody else may or may not have meant
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 05:39 AM
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Probably your tag
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 05:36 AM
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Drafting them would be retarded Based Drafting MEN is retarded Double based
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:05 AM
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Oh wow! A pick me! Classic! Just kidding W woman
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:00 AM
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Idk about the hypothetical odds of women cheating in the hypothetical scenario where women are drafted as medics. It will definitely happen but idk if it would be more or less if women weren't drafted
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:53 AM
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Autobots rollout 🤖
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:49 AM
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Better to have it and not need it then to need it and not have it men even still register with selective service is out of no one telling us not to "Us".... so are you a man or woman like your flare says
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:40 AM
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Thank you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:34 AM
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So parents should be able to keep their kids inside 24/7 and not let them go to school because it's inside their house?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:32 AM
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Do you think the government should have any say about what you do in the privacy of your own home?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:15 AM
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Nah the draft is needed for dire situations, let's just draft women too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:12 AM
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Don't boys have a physical advantage over girls even before puberty?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:10 AM
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Thanks for being reasonable Wives already cheat on their military husbands at a very high rate tho
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:04 AM
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I'm advocating for women to be drafted as medics, idk how other men would want a female draft to work. Yea I just disagree with the second part
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:59 PM
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I'm advocating for drafting women to be medics not soldiers. I have no idea what other men would want from a hypothetical female draft
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:57 PM
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Ok maybe that would be an issue for small countries but not one for the size of the US, you don't draft too many people from specific areas already. Even if it could apply to a large country like the US, the drafted female medics would have a extremely low casualty rate compared to the drafted men. Most would just go back home after service
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:54 PM
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how the country will repopulate I don't understand how you came to this conclusion? Not all women would be drafted which is the same for men (otherwise countries who have used the draft wouldn't have any population after, gender doesnt matter) the women who were drafted would replace the men who were drafted, the women drafted would save mens lives (allowing them to start families)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:49 PM
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It seems like you are implying it's the better option
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:42 PM
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Yea drafting women to be front line soldiers would actually probably be a hindrance unless they were used as meat shields in trenches but they still would provide value as medics
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:41 PM
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Women can be drafted to be medics
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:39 PM
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Because you don't abandon family? What kind of heartless unsympathetic person are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:36 PM
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They do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 11:59 PM
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Womp womp
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:40 AM
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Why do you assume all women who would date a passport bro are gold diggers?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:26 AM
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Considering most men notice most women...yes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:16 AM
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It's only an insult to the people it applies to
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:10 AM
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LMAO classic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:38 AM

They get most of the attention from the top 20% of guys
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:31 PM
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Appreciate the honesty
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 11:59 PM
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I think men have friendly associates but don't value them the same as women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 08:43 PM
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If everything is abuse then the term abuse holds no weight
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 08:40 PM
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I'm not specifically talking about the options in the original post. I asked if body count mattered, you didn't say yes or no but implied all that mattered was love, so I'm asking if body count doesn't matter and only love matters then what's the issue with your man occasionally having consensual sex with another woman when you are unable to as long as he only loves you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 10:15 PM
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So you are okay with your man occasionally using prostitutes for sex (NOT LOVE) when you couldn't have sex with him? For example during pregnancy, medical energy, distance, or dead libido?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 10:03 PM
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Baaaased
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:57 PM
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So bodycount matters?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:57 PM
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Yea I agree but it seems like other women here think if it's anything less than full capacity then the man is immoral
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:09 AM
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Depends on the situation, could completely kill all ties with the child or keep everything the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:06 AM
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I just thought it could've been sarcasm because I saw all these other chicks saying "it doesn't matter if it's biologically your kid, your still the parent no matter what"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 11:49 PM
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Is this sarcasm? Why do you love it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 11:16 PM
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Cuz baby mommas are gonna baby momma
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 11:02 PM
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I dont think most men expect to get close to their dream woman on paper though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:22 PM
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Some affection > no affection
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 11:07 AM
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Some affection > no affection
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 11:06 AM
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Some affection> no affection
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 11:01 AM
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Suffering from success #MoMoneyMoProblems
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 10:54 AM
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Assuming we are into eachother I see no issue here? Maybe there is a higher chance of a dead bedroom? Being the only special one for my wife sounds like a plus tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 02:31 PM
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Tbh I don't think it's insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 03:40 PM
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I think one reason I’m always able to orgasm from penetrative sex is because I have a porn reel in my head during the act Most women would freak out if a man said this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 01:04 PM
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Men are not a monolith, stop generalizing them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 01:01 PM
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You like saltine crackers?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:22 AM
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Ok western women can go to the non western well off countries where the men will slave away to please her and western men will go to the unfortunate countries where the women will appreciate what he provides. Sounds like everyone wins I wonder why I haven't heard of any PassportGals tho...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:53 AM
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Chad>simp Simp>nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:48 AM
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How many women are ok with being the breadwinner and taking care of their foreign boyfriends? I would wager it's not near the amount of men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:45 AM
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Haha no I don't think so
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:38 AM
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Isn't that a pretty big problem? Who's fault is it? Who needs to change?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:32 AM
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Once the uniqueness of the "exotic" accent wears off we will see how much she likes the foreign man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:26 AM

I thought they understood it well
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:22 AM
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I know you didn't actually mean it but it's true. Many men ignore the signals and signs that she didn't actually love him because he was infatuated and blinded by a pretty girl actually being interested in him, desperation will do that to ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 11:56 PM
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Nope, your premise is just flawed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:54 PM
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Dog distribution system W
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:46 PM
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Yea you're right it's actually pretty blatant
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 10:51 PM
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Yea idk man
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 10:31 PM
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more people are maimed by dogs then bears How are you implying the animal named "Man's best friend" is more dangerous than a fricking bear...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 10:30 PM
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This has some misandric undertones
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 10:22 PM
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This has got to be one if the stupidest comments ever
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 10:14 PM

Bro the amount of women I've heard say they are the same is insane, honestly it's depressing to think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:38 AM
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When did I claim you claimed to be relatable?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:10 AM
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I got overwhelmed with options Haha sooo relatable... yea
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 02:51 AM
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No there is 4 pics look at them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 11:07 PM
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Did you scroll to the other pics?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:41 PM
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Just look at this https://np.reddit.com/r/justlookatit/s/DF4zvcVM2E
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:36 PM
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Maybe but alot definitely do it on purpose
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:22 PM
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Alot of latina women make their husbands fat by cooking to much food so other women don't look at him, I think it's cute
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:28 PM
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Nah he's an uggo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 11:13 AM
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That dude is so ugly I don't get it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 11:13 AM
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Their scale puts most people into the middle (average) A person being a genuine 1 or 2 is very rare just like a person being a 9 or 10 is very rare
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 10:37 AM
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Probably more isolated advanced village style societies
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 10:34 PM
2

Hold on... let them cook 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 10:25 PM
1

So a trial girlfriend, got it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 04:17 AM
1

danger of becoming trauma bonded Ugh goals
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:06 PM
1

No, it's about not killing babies
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:34 AM
2

Most cannot live comfortably on one salary but yes they can usually survive. I don't think most people who say otherwise know what it's like to be poor and not have any luxuries. You really start to have problems when you have multiple kids
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:26 AM

my sister has never been with another man than my brother Ayoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:03 AM

The good ol days
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:01 AM

Woman averages 2 matches per day on tinder Do women only swipe twice or...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:40 AM

But there are teachers enforcing no cellphone in class rules so it’s doable. What is the school supposed to do when kids literally bring burner phones, when kids simply refuse to give their phones to the teachers, when the teacher has to stop every 3 mins to take a kids phone and argue with them about it, when the majority of class time is taking phones away and not teaching, when parents bitch the school out for preventing them from contacting their child, when they get sued because the phone b…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:12 AM

When every kid has one, you can't really ban them You can try for a couple weeks but eventually you realize it's pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:31 AM

Guys play games because it's engaging, it requires skill, it's mentally challenging, they can feel accomplished, beating other players makes them feel good, it's competitive, it's socialize them with other men who have a common interest (the game), they also don't/can't get publicly criticized while playing etc Women are addicted to texting and social media because.... they get attention, validation, what else? I think its better to be addicted to video games than social media, whether you are a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:21 AM

I think women do it a considerable amount more
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:08 AM

I know people who probably text more than talk in person Male to female ratio?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:55 PM
1

Might gotta hit one last time then bounce
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:40 PM
4

You don't automatically swipe right just because they are somewhat attractive, otherwise you'd constantly be swiping right Does it matter when according to your graph women reject 95% of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:24 PM
0

Then fuck that hoe
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:14 PM
2

Love, respect, time, attention, loyalty, comfortable sitting in silence doing nothing together
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:03 PM
0

At least abusive girls show they care
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:55 AM
1

What
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:12 AM
2

I don't understand how that's ironic. Do feminists not cook? Is feminists giving birth ironic because that's their gender role?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:35 AM
2

In a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 04:24 AM
1

Trying to save the true feminist goals and perception is noble. Saying you are egalitarian is easier than explaining yourself when people wrongfully assume something about you but if everyone switched to claiming egalitarian it would probably only be a matter of time before that perception was destroyed by extremists again. I think most women nowadays who would call themselves true feminist deny labels all together and say they just want equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:53 AM
-3

I think men are cautious of feminists in general because They justify the crazy things the extreme feminist say They don't call out the crazy feminist They ignore all men's issues despite claiming to want equality for ALL genders It's better for women to claim they are egalitarian
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:34 AM
2

Are you sure you don't hate men even a little bit?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:10 AM
3

I must be missing it; where is the ironic fact?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:07 AM
-2

I think its fair to be cautious around women who quickly mention that they are a feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:06 AM
3

Cooking is a low effort activity but many women don't want to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:57 AM
3

Serious question... do you hate men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:45 AM
6

If a woman wants (desires) her boyfriend to get her flowers but he doesn't; will she always be resentful?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:44 AM
2

I don't expect a girl to cook but I'd like her too, also our future kids are gonna have to be fed
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:14 AM
7

You don't understand he IS the table
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:00 AM
10

Yes he desires it, he does not expect it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 12:59 AM
-1

I got husband some home-cooked chicken soup when he caught a cold and we'd gone just on a few dates That was nice of you I'm also a feminist which renders me undateable for a lot of men here Why do you care about that if you're married? Strange comment imo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 12:57 AM
2

Why does the graph show women are significantly more sexless than men but the article says men are 1% more sexless than women? According to that data there has been a good size gap between 2014-2019, not just 2019. There was also a stretch in the late 90s that was the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 09:52 PM
2

The minority of women are currently participating in casual sex but the majority have participated in it at least once
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 09:17 PM
3

How does it make sense that a large % of women suddenly aren't having sex and a large group of men are starting to have sex? Both happened at the exact same time? How did they get this information? Was it a random survey? Was it advertised to volunteers? Where did they get this information? I think that having people aged 30-35 really alters this data alot too. I'd like to see what the numbers would be for people under 30 Overall this data seems weird
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 09:15 PM
14

Males were having significantly higher rates of sexlessness. Doesn't this kinda mean women are having sex with the same small % of men? Aka Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:24 PM
6

Then do it anyway for Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:38 PM
4

What if your hobbies and interests are all male dominated and the few (if any) women there are taken
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:30 PM
4

She said most girls are dating guys with X trait She also said most guys don't have X trait That means most women are dating the same guys (sharing) What else am I supposed to believe besides they are dating the same guy? She probably just misspoke
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:59 AM
3

I think you consistently have the best responses I see here W
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:49 AM
8

There aren't lots of super hot guys Those men are the equals most women are dating. Huh? Isn't this just saying most women want Chad and are sharing? I dont think you meant to write that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:42 AM
2

Empress is a good title because you can't call them queens otherwise it would be stolen valor
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:56 PM
3

100% bro, we should have a trans women's day to celebrate them being women (This is not sarcasm reddit, I'm literally an Aries ♈️)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:07 PM

Bitches be crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:22 PM
0

said their orgasms feel the same. Maybe the orgasm itself feels the same but the satisfaction you get after is not the same. For example I don't particularly like dry humping but despite that the orgasm from dry humping my partner would be more satisfying than masturbation. Dry humping was just an example for an possible sex act btw I suppose we look at items differently then. No worries. Do you not think some items have more emotional significance than others? If you had an item that had been i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:48 AM
1

My orgasms with my bf are just as powerful, no more no less, than the ones I give myself. Unfortunately from what I've seen women say I think this might be standard. It explains women saying they don't need men because they have a vibrator, it explains women not being interested in men the same amount men are into women, it explains why women's desire for their husbands fades more than vise versa, it explains why women complain their husbands pout and complain about not getting sex enough. I'm n…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:19 AM
0

W answer
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:06 AM
-4

Orgasms feel better with someone you love, masturbation can't replace that feeling Maybe it's like a wife losing her wedding ring so her husband's buys her a new ring to replace it, yes it's a pretty ring but it doesn't replace the wedding ring
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:03 AM
0

I don't think it's a replacement for either
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:53 AM

How do you think the world would be if say 50 percent of women experienced a 20 percent drop in their intensity of desire? Revolution
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:55 AM
2

Are you the same person who didn't understand this last time? W = good/win/agree or just positive in general.... L is the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:55 AM
1

If we had matching libidos I'd be a little upset because it would seem like she thinks her masturbating is an equivalent method of sexual release If she had a much higher libido I wouldn't care
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:53 AM
2

W
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:50 AM
2

"Another way to get it" I've only heard women say things like this. I don't think men generally think masturbation is a substitute for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:41 AM
1

Are men willing to wife up every attractive women they see? No Does he see multiple women a day that are attractive enough to wife up? Yea The "only for sex" zone based on looks isn't very big
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:33 PM
1

I guess everyone has skeletons in their closet
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:30 PM
6

Idk why people are having a hard time understanding you. It's completely reasonable to want to be your partners number 1 choice
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:56 AM
1

Why would a man want to be with her after that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:54 AM
3

She tried to get Chad, couldn't secure him and settled for you...why should any man be okay with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:52 AM
2

An example is a husband and wife eat lunch at home before going out to an event and don't get back home until late at night. They get home and the wife is upset that their is dirty dishes in the sink and on the table from lunch earlier in the day. She wants them cleaned and put away now but the husband is tired after being out all night and says he will do the dishes tomorrow morning. The husband heads to bed but the wife remembers she hates seeing dirty dishes in the morning so she does the dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:02 AM
4

Tiktok screenshot = I Win
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:47 AM
2

Of course they want super hot women? Most people want a super hot partner? Passport bros would still be a thing even if they couldn't get the super hot girls
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:46 AM
3

Male equivalent would be about 5ft5
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:41 AM
8

Maybe I went to the wrong churches but I've never seen a church girl actually want a stereotypical church boy. In fact I've literally seen all the single girls at a church agree to not date any of the guys at the church, why? Because they viewed the church guys as (I hate to use this word) as nerdy betas.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:39 AM
4

cry over ratty men. Hate to be that guy but if it's a reoccurring problem maybe your girlfriends just like bad boys? If not why are they so bad at choosing a partner? Can't they see the signs? You have a point about the women here not being normal but I'd also argue your perspective is skewed because your a lesbian. I think lesbians attraction range and libido is probably closer to men's than regular women, especially masculine lesbians. Men literally only see young women as attractive. Past 30 …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:35 AM
4

Lmao I can see it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:06 AM
5

I completely disagree and would argue it's not just a difference of opinion but actually incorrect. I think men's attraction range is way bigger than women's. How many times have you seen women on this very sub say they only see a guy they are attracted to a couple times a month? Men see women they are attracted to daily. Women say most men are NPCs that they don't even know exist while most men say most women are attractive. Maybe women go outside their attraction range more than men but even t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:01 AM
8

I’ve honestly never met a woman who wasn’t intelligent Bruh cmon... that's ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:20 AM
6

Let me ask a question to clarify... Do you think the average man's attraction range is about the same as women's? A bit bigger or smaller than women's? Or significantly bigger or smaller than women's?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:19 AM
2

Men will do it just not right when you want them to
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:13 AM
4

Yes and that includes getting uppies
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:27 AM
4

What's is there to talk about? They usually deflect, deny or blame you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:11 AM
4

Everything that needs to get done will get done, just not when you want it to or how you want it to
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:09 AM
2

It usually doesn't start out blatantly
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:23 AM
-2

Lol ok whatever you say all wise one
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:19 AM
-6

Because it doesn’t get done It doesn't get done the way you want it or when you want it done without using your words to communicate
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:16 AM
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Women see a man that isn't actively doing what she wants and assume he won't do it at all. Maybe he just didn't want to do it then and it could wait but he's willing to do it if you ask him to. Why is it so hard to use your words to communicate I think this issue happens so often because generally women have a lower threshold of how messy their environment is and thus women are more naturally inclined to clean
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:45 PM
5

Oh here we go again
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:16 PM
-9

Sorry men aren't mind readers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:13 PM
3

There is a huge difference between 1. unhealthily wanting approval from your friends to the point where they dictate how you feel about something; and 2. valuing and respecting your friends opinion, so you take it into consideration but not let their opinion dictate your own opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 02:35 PM
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Depends on alot of things but it's definitely possible my peers opinion could alter my opinion of a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 02:22 PM
1

☕️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 02:17 PM
7

Women hate dating younger guys
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:30 PM
7

Men under 30
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:21 PM
0

He had needs
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:23 AM

DogsLivesMatter
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:26 PM

Oh you freaky freaky
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:53 PM
-2

That masturbation isn't a sufficient way to relieve sexual hunger? Yea thats what I'm saying, at least it's not sufficient over a long period of time or if there is something better available (sex)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:46 AM
-2

The part where you can eat alone or together
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:30 AM
-1

Ngl I agreed with everything until the masterbation part
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:51 PM
2

Depends on the fruit tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:49 PM
4

You claim you can't know anything about a person just based on their appearance but then you are also certain a random person on the internet couldn't keep up with you physically. Hypocrisy much lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:45 PM
4

We've all been there
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:07 PM

I would treat them like a black mayor. LMAOO
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:00 PM

men lack the resilience that women have for whatever reason so the suicide rate will probably never be the same Women literally attempt more than men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:09 PM

It's hilarious how the solution you offer is "imprison men" and not "women should help men" Really kind of drives the point home
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:04 PM

Unfortunately some guys have the simp gene built it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:57 PM
1

Oh...duh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 09:01 AM
2

Sometimes we have W moments and sometimes we have L moments. No biggie
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:12 AM
2

W is used as a general term win/good/etc nowadays...basically I said W because I liked your answers and how you formulated them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:09 AM
2

Here queen you dropped this W Pretty sure #4 just means she has the same libido as him btw
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:03 AM
2

If chicks who are into combat sports and motorcycles are red flags please send me their @ so I can block them and avoid them at all costs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:51 AM
1

I interact with such women a lot Where when how?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:47 AM
1

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:46 AM
1

I agree but it highly depends on how she expresses herself through
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:44 AM
1

W hobbyist
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:43 AM
1

Tom Brady learned this lesson the hard way
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:42 AM
0

Enjoy watching a sport doesn't mean she gets turned on watching men get hurt... cmon man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:41 AM
1

Idk why some women deny this. It's evident this is a real phenomenon. You don't even need to be at the level of a celebrity. How often do you hear women thirst/brag/desire a man with a specific job/career/occupation? The answer is decently often, not an every day occurrence but it's not rare either. You've likely heard a woman brag about dating a doctor, lawyer, athlete, CEO, business owner, something along those lines. The job title doesn't even need to be exceptional. How often do you hear men…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:44 PM
0

Thats ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:23 PM
1

It's weird that you want that specifically with a dating app. Most people want the best possible service. If the dating app didn't align with a persons morals but worked well I doubt many people would choose not to use it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:14 AM

Idk about immediately getting kisses... lmao Ok I was just seeing where you drew the line. Based on your previous responses I thought you would say you would still leave him
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 12:20 AM
0

I'm sure there are women that want to be able to drive if they want to...but would rather be a passenger princess in reality Not everything has to make sense, humans aren't always sensible That's like a prisoner fighting for freedom and once it's granted, staying in their cell That literally happens
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 12:18 AM

What if you could have some side dick. Would you still leave him or would you stay? on par with a healthy sexual 20 year old man W
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 12:11 AM
1

In that case you at least get to have sex with someone you find attractive. Pretty sure most women find that worse
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:55 PM
1

That's a good ass question. Maybe women want to be able to ask men for a date but don't actually want to do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:44 PM
1

Can you explain why?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:38 PM
1

So every company you financially support you agree with their ethos
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:36 PM
2

W
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:05 PM
2

If she was saying that would you disagree?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:04 PM
2

Make sure to ask them if they are a serial killer before you meet up with them, just to be safe
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:03 PM

They also often think dating older men is cool/adventurous,exciting
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 10:53 PM
2

Ok here We don't like the responsibility because it's too hard We complain and the whole experiment gets shut down because women don't know what they want https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/sGEDrdhKy2 https://www.forbes.com/sites/kimelsesser/2024/05/03/men-can-now-initiate-conversations-on-bumble-heres-why-it-matters/?sh=6938c8c86cad
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 10:45 PM
2

Yes the risk to reward ratio when it comes to meeting up with strange women from the internet is not worth it a lot of the time 😬 there was just a case about a young man that got imprisoned for decades because she falsely accused him of rape and spread the accusations all over social media 🙃 there's another case where a young man met with a woman from tinder and was found stabbed to death after the date because he didn't pay for her kids dinner...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 10:34 PM
3

Cmon you know they are rare
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 10:19 PM
2

Men will literally have a woman try to sell his kidneys and keep going back because the opportunity to meet women, regardless of the risks or how it happens, is so valuable to them. This is so funny because this isn't even hyperbole. It's definitely happening WAY more than people would think
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 10:19 PM

I'll have been with my boyfriend for 20 years this October I would not stay in a romantic relationship with him. Damn you're harsh... ? If your wife of 10 years had her tongue, vagina, and clitoris removed + was deeply traumatized and no longer wanted sex with you but would cuddle and kiss you all day...would you stay? YES Absolutely I would stay with her no matter what. My love for my wife isn't going to just disappear because she is unable to have sex with me anymore. I think a partner should …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 10:07 PM

Young girls often love older men. I think he'll be able to get a young girl pretty easily
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:43 PM
3

Who cares if it's a win for the RP, thinking that you have to always be against a side is ridiculous. It's very common that women want to be able to do something but not ACTUALLY do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:41 PM

Deflection
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:03 PM
1

b 40k guy Not enough info but #2 Both Idk it depends but #1 50k present man Depends but I guess small pp guy Definitely the virgin Not enough info
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:55 PM

He also had prostate and tongue cancer and had them amputated... His family and friends abandoned him and he doesn't have much of a libido anymore. All forms of sex are deeply traumatic for him due to his amputations. He is okay with you privately masterbating He still wants to be intimate with you as long as it's not sexual He is willing to give you massages, hold hands, cuddle, kiss, hug, talk all day long etc He is against all forms of open relationships. Do you stay with him or do you leave …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:53 PM

So if he had dick cancer and had his dick amputated you would break up with him? L woman
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:30 PM

Unless they are on tren
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:17 PM

Is Minnesota really like that? Even in the big cities?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:02 PM

His height alone is in the top 5% of men, add in everything else and he is easily in the top 1%. The only thing he doesn't have is a level of really high status/ fame
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:01 PM

They don't realize how rare that is
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:47 PM

It sounds like your from a country where people don't need cars to get around. Women here absolutely judge you on what car you drive
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:46 PM

True, even the young ones will want him
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:12 PM

How many Chads have you ever met that were named Jake? The answer is slim to none
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:10 PM

My question was why did you claim he was boring while simultaneously acknowledging you know nothing about him
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:06 PM

Why did you date him in the first place then?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:01 PM

You literally say OP didn't provide enough info to know anything about him yet you claim to know he has no personality and is thus "boring". Lol wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:59 PM

I swear females like feminine energy nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:54 PM

I've never met a cool dude that was named Jake...tell him to change his name
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:48 PM

I'm not gonna compete with another man for a woman's attention, fuck that he can have her
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:02 PM

(like black ppl) 🤓” ?????? Weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:42 PM
2

Maher is kinda homely. May I suggest lieke klaver for example?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 02:28 AM
1

What's your wrist circumference?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 02:25 AM
0

Skeletons do differentiate from one another, there are larger frames and smaller frames. The area where it's probably the most noticeable is the ribcage. The odds of your skeletal frame being too large to be attractive is quite low and it's probably just excess body fat with bad fat distribution.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:55 PM
5

I've seen some women that just have a fat faces despite not being very much overweight, just unfortunate fat distribution genetics. Fat hands and wrists on the other hand have a very very high correlation with being pretty overweight
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:46 PM
1

Nah an amazon woman is lieke klaver not a shorty
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:39 PM
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I thought they mostly do. I see men complain that women claim they need a guy who is 6ft plus, they point out the odds of a girl getting a guy that height, they point out girls saying they don't care about height but all her exes are coincidentally tall, they point out all the women who say he struggles getting a girl to like him because he is insecure not because he is short...but I don't think I've heard any man say women need to change what they are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:20 PM
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Okay, what's wrong with him playing video games the same amount of time he would be doing his other "masculine" hobbies that you approve of?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 01:27 AM
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Then why do you care if he plays video games every now and then?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:23 PM
1

I understand and agree with you about everything except for the "no matter how distant" part. What if she had conservative parents and was in a rebellious stage and folded to peer pressure and became an activist for 2 years in college, then kinda chilled out but still mostly had the same beliefs for 2 more years and after she left college she realized she was the classic stupid student and moved on to be normal or even conservative like her parents... I see no reason why a person wouldn't date h…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:20 PM
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Only if he comes to yoga, pilates, and cooks with me though. Why? Are you not doing hobbies with him because you enjoy them?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:49 PM
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If I can tell her favorite color is pink without asking her
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:22 PM
1

Will you participate in those hobbies with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:20 PM
1

I mean....yea
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:17 PM
2

any history of far-Left activism, no matter how distant Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:12 PM
2

That's a dumb comparison. Reformed prostitute addict is better imo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:58 PM
2

Ahhh rats
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:53 PM
4

That's crazy...you should give me her number so I can block her just in case she tries to call me....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:50 PM
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WTF IS A KILOMETER 🇺🇸 🇺🇸 🇺🇸 🦅🦅🦅
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:49 PM
1

You still got her number?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:44 PM
1

Was she hot at least?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:35 PM
4

On the first date?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:25 PM
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I don't know why it's a foreign concept that doing something that makes the person you love happy, can also make YOU happy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:36 PM
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You sound cool. Are your girl friends also "pick me's" or are they "normal" girls lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:36 PM

But he has unbeatable swag
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:18 PM

You think they'd still be attractive if they were 3ft tall?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:58 PM
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True liberals aren't bad, it's the progressives you got to watch for
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:49 AM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:48 AM

Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:29 AM

She could've been drugged and not remember it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:52 PM

Real talk what's the downside of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:41 PM

What if it was standard procedure for a nurse/doctor to privately ask the supposed father if he wants a paternity test before signing the birth certificate? He could then say "Babe I didn't ask for one, they recommended one and I said sure because why not?" He gets the dna test and she doesn't feel like he accusing her off cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:33 PM

Thank you for being sympathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:11 PM

If your partner is distraught about something related to you and you could relieve that distress but you refuse to, choosing to happily watch them suffer...then you are wrecking the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:07 PM

I think basically nobody would have a problem if the standard was that a nurse/doctor would privately ask the supposed father if he wants a DNA/paternity test done. He's not specifically requesting one and thus accusing the mother of cheating (according to girls online). It's not mandatory but completely available. It would also be nice if the man who signed the birth certificate could have the option to request a paternity test from the hospital 30-60days after the baby was born and they would …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:58 PM

Im fine with my man living 3ith his own insanity That IS wrecking the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:26 PM

She has to be a troll, this is just too absurd
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:21 PM

Why won't you answer the question?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:20 PM

When do those children get rights? When are they considered people?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:14 PM

Because he is a dickhead, it's really that simple The real question is why do men like that have no problem getting women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 11:06 PM

Asking the real questions
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 11:04 PM
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Or maybe they sought out people who had similar experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 10:05 PM
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So a man should approach every woman he finds attractive? I thought girls discouraged cold approaching? Unless I'm misunderstanding you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:07 PM
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How does he know its like being a dancing monkey if he's never tried?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:56 PM
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Press X to doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:49 PM

If Sarah is also a party girl then she matches with Brad well. I was more thinking Sarah just fell for a party boys charm and that she wasn't a party girl herself. Her friends encouraged her to pursue a relationship with him instead of telling her to be cautious about him because his actions with previous girls would hurt her. I think more women should support, encourage, praise their friends for pursuing a relationship with a normal solid good guy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:45 PM

I don't really watch TV or movies lol. I think you're too focused on the exact wording rather than the meaning/purpose of those words. My point is I see women encourage and enable eachothers bad/negative behaviors way more than encourage good/positive behaviors
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:33 PM

Which oart makes you say that? Are you saying the dialog I gave the women in the example sounds like something I heard on TV?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:49 PM

I don't know about "holding women accountable" but I think women encouraging their female friends to give the nice guy a chance and to be cautious of "Chad" could help. Emily: "Sarah I thought you said you wanted a man to commit to you, treat you like a queen and cherish you forever?" Sarah: "I do, I'm hoping Brad feels the same way" Emily: "Do you really want to put in a ton of effort to hopefully get Brad to commit to you when he 20 ex girlfriends, goes to parties and constantly hooks up with …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:51 PM
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Very funny
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:37 AM
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A ton of women are toxic or have serious issues
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:36 AM
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I haven't seen it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:57 AM
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But even women who do feel this way still get into and stay in relationships with men, that's why they keep their female friends close because they provide things her man is incapable of. I'm asking why do women who feel this way not just move in and live with other women? Like you said in the movie Bride Wars they married men but viewed eachother as soulmates. What's the purpose of being in a relationship with someone who only takes time away from their soulmate?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:58 AM
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What's the point of being in a relationship with a man then? Why don't women just move in together because women offer more than men do? It can't be the sex because women always say men suck in bed, are selfish, not as good as a vibe etc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:33 AM
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So now you want women to oppress men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:18 AM
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I dont think during any of the LTRs ive had in my life I felt as if they were ‘filling my soul’ more than seeing some decades long friends I sure hope you are in the minority because it would be extremely sad if most women felt this way
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:45 PM
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Yup, I suppose things will eventually get better considering the Y chromosome is dying out
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:35 PM
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It's only a matter of time before someone in the male friend group mentions doing something for female attention and to get there attention requires money
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:23 PM
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Men are generally on the extremes of most things
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:17 PM
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Female attention
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:15 PM
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It's probably biological
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:13 PM
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"What's wrong with dating apps?" Then you say what's wrong with dating apps I never said I wanted them banned either. certain population of men Aka most*
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:51 AM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:45 AM
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W
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:41 AM
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You new here?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:25 AM

Men rape and bears kill You: not all bears kill... Sure sounds like you are inferring all men rape
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:01 AM

Must be nice
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:16 PM

The water the man finds is dirty and will make him sick of from a poisonous plant
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:33 PM

How?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:30 PM

Is this not accurate in your experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:27 PM

Women can literally wake up tomorrow & start chasing men and all these "disadvantages" would disappear for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:18 PM
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No? I assume you think men who don't like promiscuous women are insecure that she is going to leave them for her hot ex or cheat with the next hot guy that shows interest in her; is that correct? I think it's more likely that he would assume that she has a type and assume he must be ugly too if she is into him lol. She's probably just as likely to leave or cheat on him, the difference is she'd leave and cheat on you with a butt ugly dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 06:40 PM
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I think the ideal for men would probably be pushing 110women per 100 men. Maybe like 108w100m
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 06:57 PM
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I was going to write a post awhile back about the ideal gender ratio but never ended up posting it. The summary of it was, what do you think is the ideal gender ratio is for men without screwing over women and society? 105women per 100 men? 110? 115? 120?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 10:20 PM

What will it tell?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:30 AM

Send her my way, I'm desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:07 AM

Fucking lucky bastard
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:24 AM

It's not that exaggerated but yes, it's not uncommon. They often get the men they want too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:54 PM

Honestly L username.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:41 PM

It's definitely overplayed but men have very low standards compared to women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:40 PM

Modern women do that all the time too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:37 PM
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Oh yea for sure, the majority of guys wouldn't cheat. I'm just saying if men had the same amount of opportunities to cheat that women do, men would cheat more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:13 PM
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I find it fascinating how women's self esteem is internally related but for men it's externally related
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:16 PM
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People argue about which gender cheats more and I'm not sure which actually cheats more but I do know if men had the same opportunity to cheat, they would definitely cheat more
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:14 PM

You are literally saying it's impossible to make friends if you don't already have friends
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 06:23 PM

"Go out with friends to make friends" ahh yes that makes sense Don't you see how some might not be able to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 06:13 PM

"Just make friends lol" Very helpful
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 05:54 PM

How do they fix that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 05:46 PM

It does kinda sound like that...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:19 PM
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Believe it or not, you can use nukes on a population and still not commit genocide
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:58 PM
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I always thought of tomboys as a girl who was "one of the boys". She doesn't like dresses, nails, makeup, getting her hair all fancy, the color pink etc She likes getting dirty, playing sports, catching lizards, playing with bugs, muscle cars, motorcycles etc From what I've seen supposed modern "tomboys" are just lesbians (which don't count) and hippy girls, girls who want to be different for the sake of being different, feminist girls who reject anything girly, or girls who dress like tomboys f…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:15 AM

W woman
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:03 AM

Lol ok
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 09:23 PM
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Nothing innately masculine about it. Is anything outside of strict biological differences inherently masculine or feminine? That's why I said "for me" one of my first sexual experiences was with a girl who didn't shave anything at all That's probably why you like hairy women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:02 PM
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I don't know tbh. I think it crosses into the manly realm too much for me. Google "hairy female legs" and tell me you find that attractive. Just to make sure we're on the same page
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:55 PM

No. It implies some women don't do that. I could play your game and say you are implying that ALL women reevaluate their standards but I'd rather not. Unless you actually think all women reevaluate their standards...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:52 PM
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Yea I'm not getting it lol, oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:48 PM

I never said they didn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:47 PM

Nobody wants women to date men they don't like. At least I haven't seen anyone say that. What they want is for women to reevaluate their standards. Not necessarily change, just reevaluate. "Are my standards realistic? Are they rational? Are they really that important? Do my past relationships follow my standards? Etc" Maybe none of your standards will change, maybe they will.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:13 PM

Cmon bro you know guys will do some wild shit to bust a fat nut
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:01 PM

It has to be somewhat playful. "Why is she looking at you like that" is more of a reminder that "you are mine" and that she'd fight a bitch for flirting with me. It's a little possessive but it's fun and shows she cares. Now if she's genuinely mad at you and not tongue in cheek at all and then brings it up in a serious argument a month later then it's an actual problem and not fun at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:52 PM

Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:25 PM

There is a huge difference between feisty and bitchy. Feisty women are often fun while bitchy women are usually not. Although it the line between them can sometimes be unclear
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:21 PM

Unfortunately "my girl" doesn't exist, it was just an example lol. Hopefully one day I understand how it could be a little confusing but I think it just comes down to actions that show you care about your partner. Even if it's displayed in controlling, possessive and irrational ways. Only to a certain extent though. Slightly crazy is fun, very crazy is exhausting and dangerous lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:17 PM

I think alot of men want a woman who is traditional but also not a boring doormat with no opinions of her own. The respect she gives you initially feels really good but if it's constant and unquestioned then it feels unearned and like she is basically saying "yes master". It's not a coincidence that so many guys like "crazy" latinas. They will take care of you and appreciate you but will also smack tf outta you. My girl getting mad at me because the waitress smiled at me 0.1 seconds too long but…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:01 PM
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Both women sound okay if you tone them down by 20% but I guess I'd choose girl B because I don't mind tomboys and girl As personality is a bit of a turn off I'm really interested in the type of women that chose guy B though. I thought most women would easily choose guy A even if he wasn't traditionally her type. If you chose guy B I'm assuming you're from or live in a very liberal city with very feminist social circle who all have their head shaved and hair dyed etc
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 05:30 PM
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You got to give me an example of what the hairy legs look like because I'm really struggling to understand how you could possibly find it attractive. I can understand not minding her having some hair on her legs but finding it attractive is a step too far for me. Maybe I can understand if the hair is really thin and light blonde to where it blends in with her skin?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 05:22 PM
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Do real tomboys exist anymore? I looked up tomboys and all I saw was lesbians (I don't think they count) and other types of women dressing up as tomboys as a fashion statement, not because they were actually tomboys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 05:01 PM
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Bro how did you find a girl like that?😭 I don't think I have a type but if I did a tomboy with the characteristics that you listed rank pretty high up there
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 04:57 PM
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I support war
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:13 AM
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Would you agree the percentage of men with no luck and percentage of women with no luck are pretty damn different?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:17 AM
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Yup, I'm not saying having a doomer mindset is good but the stability and predictability softens the blow. I'm basically gonna repeat my last comment. Imagine you think you're gonna have a good day but it was actually a bad day. Most people say "OK no problem, we all have bad days, tomorrow will be different" but the next day comes and it's another bad day, and the next day and the next day etc. Eventually you tired of having your hopes crushed, so you start to think it's going to be a bad day a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 03:57 AM
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With a doomer mindset bad things can't hurt you as much because it's what you expected. When you have your hopes shattered it feels like your gonna die
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 03:42 AM
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Why can't men travel to other countries looking for marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:49 AM
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So you think men should become passport bros?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:28 AM
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Why is that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:04 AM
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I don't think that's been true since the 90s for men, for women its barely above 50%. So its a new phenomenon but it's still consistently trending downwards
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:45 PM
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women would still want the same percentage of men. I dont think that's true but it would be true within 2 generations because it would be all they've ever known
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:39 PM
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In some circles yes but that's not even close to the majority. If it was, men would be rioting
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:35 PM
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Women from other countries behave differently
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:14 PM
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Are you okay? Who hurt you? Why the projection?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:29 AM
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Nah when you are tall, built, handsome, rich and famous the insecurity is seen as cute, humble etc
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 12:54 AM
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Why would his personality make it more difficult for him? He's literally everything you said women love
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 12:25 AM
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What gender ratio do you think would be ideal for men? I was going to make a post awhile ago asking this question and talk about the gender population imbalance and laying out all the ways it would be romantically beneficial for men if there were more women than men. Unexpected consequences and benefits for both men, women and society as a whole etc I wanted a semi realistic answer that wouldn't completely screw over women and society. So obviously not twice the amount of women than men. Conside…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 12:21 AM
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Yea I'd like to avoid that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 01:37 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 11:42 PM
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Cuban men are short to you because you are used to American men. Cuban men aren't short to Cuban women. Even if Cuban women thought Cuban men were short, they probably have a thousand more important things to worry about. 99% of women prefer tall men, I think it's cause and effect not self fulfilling. Yes there are insecure tall men and confident short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:31 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:39 PM
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They want more
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:26 PM
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I think men don't like women and women don't like men...both are true Men don't like women because of the expectations they place on them Women don't like men because men no longer provide them anything of value that they can't aquire themselves The difference is that there is something in the male brain that makes him want a woman and apparently women don't have that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:18 PM
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I think I'd rather keep a good amount of room for improvement because putting all my effort into improving as much as I possibly can and still having zero success would be soul crushing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:57 PM
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I'd argue women are more likely to admit being lonely than men are What each gender consider lonely is different Women recognize they are lonely quicker than men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:51 PM
2

What happens when they improve themselves but still get no luck
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:38 PM
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I think your the exception. I have heard many women check out guys because he looks like "insert currently popular and trending man here"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:58 PM
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Somewhat yes but would it be to the same or even similar degree?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:53 PM
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What a man and woman would consider a good female role model in media would probably be pretty different
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:44 PM
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People with social skills also treat people without social skills like a different species. They knowingly or unknowingly ostracize them, never allowing them to gain social skills in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:41 PM
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L
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:25 PM
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men do not have a stronger libido women are primed for sex during ovulation only. Your the type of dude to say a woman who only wants sex once a year has the same libido as a man who wants sex 10 times a day
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:41 PM
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Bragging about something you put no effort into and have no influence or control over is Rtarded
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:37 PM
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They talk about the same thing over and over too. You still don't have legroom just like the last 10,000 times? What a fucking surprise lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:21 PM
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That's a great example. I recently saw a post on r/tall mocking how people on r/short are jaded, angry, insecure etc. I'm just like...really? You're mad that a guy who is 5'4 is upset that he gets treated like shit by society because he's short, something he has no control over??? Have some fucking empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:03 PM
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That's just sad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:53 PM
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That is an extremely unsympathetic view that I doubt you would have if it was about a woman. Most incels don't purposefully become incels because of one minor incident. They become incels because of repeated failures and not getting any positive reinforcement from the opposite sex. They often think something is inherently wrong with them until they find a community of people that have had the same exact experiences as them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:16 PM
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Yes there is an argument that less gender exclusive incentives would benefit men in terms of dating but I wonder about the unforseen consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:39 PM
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That's too vague of a question to answer. Should women be paid less than men when they have the same quality, same time, same experience, same qualifications etc? No...of course not Should women stop getting as much benefits from certain incentives for the sake of diversity, equity, equality, and inclusion? Probably Or women could start taking pride in financially taking care of her boyfriend/husband/partner/family and actually spending her money on them without complaining like most men are exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:28 PM
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It's like when women claim "incels don't have success with women because they act like incels". Nobody is born an incel...they are incels because women don't like them...not the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:13 PM
2

Should there be any restrictions on abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:57 AM
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Ok so what restrictions do you think should be placed around abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:29 AM
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It's not a right https://www.instagram.com/p/Co8EPeLu5p8/?igsh=MWZnZ3h5bDJ0bTg3Nw==
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 11:11 PM
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Abortion is not a right lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 10:45 PM
2

Sad but true
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 09:59 PM
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Hopefully it gains in popularity and all the crazy ladies will be off the market and regular good women will become the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 09:56 PM
-2

What rights were taken away from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 09:42 PM
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The US wouldn't let that happen
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 09:36 PM
0

Exactly 💯 People always trying to start a problem when there isn't one
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 09:32 PM
1

What's wrong with what he said? I see no issues
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 09:31 PM
1

I think its extremely niche and won't gain much traction at all
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:41 PM
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At the end of the day I think it's completely reasonable to want and even expect to be your partners #1 (aka first choice) If im with a girl and she mentions how she misses her ex even a little bit the relationship is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:04 PM
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Lol wtf...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 11:51 AM
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W
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 11:48 AM
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I guess he shouldn't announce that he cheated on you either. What you don't know can't hurt you after all
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 10:38 AM
5

I'm sure you'd really like it if your man said "hmm I think your in the top 10 of my the girls I've been with but I'm not sure"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 09:04 PM
1

True
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:27 AM
3

Chyna was probably hot before the steroids but definitely not after. She literally has HGH head. I don't particularly think Margot Robbie is stunning like many people claim but she's definitely pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:28 PM
1

Thank you for the direct and concise answer. I appreciate your input. How long of hair do you prefer? Less than shoulder length, shoulder length, longer than shoulder length or all the way down to the crack? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:52 PM
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Thank you. Cosmetics in general prove that women value how men perceive their looks. I understand what you mean when you say women compete with eachother, but what are they competing for? Aren't they competing to be better perceived by people in general but often times specifically men? If men didn't exist do you think women would still compete with eachother even close to the same extent?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:48 PM
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You seem oddly defensive. I have not prescribed any traits to you. I don't know what you're attracted to, that's why I asked. men with short hair cannot be attractive to me, even if they are the kinds of guys who can "pull off long hair" but dont have it. its a niche requirement for attraction to me This is the type of answer I was looking for. It's literally all you had to say. I was actually going to give an example with big tits and it's the opposite conclusion as yours. If a man likes big ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 12:50 PM
1

I don't think you understand what I'm saying
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 12:29 PM
2

He's not like other gir....men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 12:16 PM
2

Men care about compliments too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:57 AM
1

I was gonna say puberty but I remember competing for girls attention in 1st grade so I'd say as soon as boys and girls interact with eachother. I've even seen toddlers get defensive over a member of the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:56 AM
2

I completely agree with you. If I'm genuinely attracted to my wife I couldn't care less if others found her attractive, in fact like you I'd prefer they didn't pay her attention. If I wasn't that attracted to my wife and other people often said she was unattractive and I could've done better than it would effect me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:51 AM
6

Women get much more validation than men, since it's abundant they don't necessarily feel like it's that valuable. Even women who don't like male attention subconsciously value it. Take a woman who is usually constantly catcalled suddenly wasn't catcalled at all, her self esteem would nose dive. Another example is if men stopped being thirsty on a woman's social media posts. Men get less validation from the opposite sex so they view it as valuable. Men remember when women compliment them years af…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:32 AM
1

Obviously you wouldn't be attracted to ugly men just because they have long hair. People generally think it's hard for men to pull off long hair, so men who do have long hair are often above average in attractiveness, regardless of the hairstyle they have. I'm asking are you genuinely attracted to long hair on men or are you only attracted to the men who can pull it off, because they are above average in attractiveness? For example: A woman has a crush on a man and thinks hes really handsome, sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:18 AM
0

What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:10 AM
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Long hair on men or men that can pull off long hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 04:09 AM
2

Mid
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 04:08 AM
2

Thank you, I appreciate this response
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 04:16 PM
3

Millions of people are currently in relationships like this and billions of people in the past have been too. I think people who have been truly lonely would love a relationship like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 02:43 PM
3

That's true a large percentage of the the time but there are also alot of fuckboys
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 02:23 PM
6

It's a big enough issue to where alot of people complain about it, check out the GenZ subreddit for example. Despite what many women say, it's not just socially inept autistic incels who get little to no romantic interest from the opposite sex. Just because it's easy for the girls you know doesn't mean it's just as easy for the guys
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 08:32 PM
9

I hear a decent amount of parents wonder why their kids, specifically sons aren't dating
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 08:21 PM
12

Man why do girls say shit like that? You were dating for 4months not 4weeks
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 08:03 PM
0

Nice dude
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 11:54 AM
1

It seems like your joking but framing it that way would probably work well for a lot of men. She would think "wow I get to have sex with him" instead of "ugh I have to have sex with him"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 11:04 AM
3

I've seen it. Christian girl was waiting for marriage and rejected a decent dude who was into her because she "wasn't ready" then fucked the dude who pumped and dumped all her friends and was surprised he did the same to her, then she came back to the dude who she rejected and STILL wanted him to wait for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 02:03 AM
3

Initiate, Reciprocate, Appreciate
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 09:51 PM
1

I guess, but it sucks when nobody shows up to your funeral. How did you and your husband get together? Opposites attract?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 08:44 AM
1

Connection with beyond acquaintance is what I was thinking too. A quick check a couple times a year might be a bit low though. So yea we are on the same page, idk how you know that many people lol. Maybe I'm the odd one out but it seems normal nowadays to only have a couple genuine friends and mostly stay in your own bubble. Even when you try to make a friend you often aren't really trying to make a friend but trying to make a whole friend group be open to you. Sometimes even new individual frie…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 08:31 AM
0

It comes down to how you define and measure fame. Famous person 1: has 1 million fans Famous person 2: has 800,000 fans Famous person 1 is obviously more famous right? Well what if famous person 1 fans only think of her once a month while famous person 2 fans think of him once a week? Even though famous person 1 has more fans overall, famous person 2 will get much more overall fan attention. Who is more famous between these people?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:21 AM
1

Are you talking about people we have ever known or actively know?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:00 AM
1

Maybe it's a normal amount for extroverted people? I definitely don't know that many people and I don't think the social and extroverted people I know, know that many people either but I could be wrong. Unless we are talking about people we know from years ago and rarely talk to?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:49 AM
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I forgot my point in asking but I think you vaguely knowing travis name shows his level of fame, it's still nothing compared to Taylor's though. I don't think Simone Biles is as famous as many people here think, although she is still 100x more famous than Jonathan Owen's. I'd argue Travis pre dating Swift was more famous than Simone Biles
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:53 AM
1

How do you know that many people? Let alone that many virgins until marriage? That's crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 12:38 PM
0

Did you know about Travis before Taylor?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 12:03 PM
0

Is it really hard to believe a male professional athlete didn't know a female professional athlete? He likely only pays attention to his sport with the occasional glance at other male sports because they are so popular. When does simone even get in the headlines? Maybe a yearly competition but usually only around the Olympics.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 11:37 AM
6

Him rn
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 08:47 AM
2

The perfect personality with very little attraction > terrible personality and heavy attraction... 10/10 times Very good but still normal personality with very little attraction vs below average personality with heavy attraction is a tougher choice
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 08:12 AM
1

Death grip, tension in relationship, unable to relax during sex, women in porn act like they enjoy sex more than women irl. Idk just stuff I thought of
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 06:01 PM

You sound like my future ex girlfriend What you doin girl? 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 05:53 PM
1

The divorce rates skyrocketing because of wifes catching their husbands fucking the robot maid would be hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:41 AM
1

W man's Teach me your ways please
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:55 AM

That is kinda gross....and hot
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:24 AM
1

In general I wouldn't care if she watched it. If she had a new attractive coworker and her porn searches matched their description I would have a problem but I think most people would feel the same. Why is porn cheating to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:19 AM
1

Do you think porn is cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:03 AM
0

Do you think porn is cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:58 AM
1

What does this mean
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:54 AM
1

Sounds like dudes I'd be friends with too. Nice to hear yall still friends
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 11:31 PM
1

Maybe his toe was too long like in shallow Hal
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:04 PM
1

He likes em big
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:28 AM
1

That's not even a relationship at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:32 AM
1

But it's likely only a matter of time before he brings it up again. It's like a woman who has a simp in the friendzone, she rejected him once and agreed to stay friends as long as he knows she's not interested but he will eventually try again. Also the thought of the dude checking me out or fantasizing about me is gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:21 AM
1

I basically feel the same but if I make a good friend and didn't learn he was gay until way after we were friends I'd be completely comfortable around him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:08 AM
1

Even your friend saying that to you... it would make me uncomfortable and not want to be around them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:05 AM
1

If you really pressed them on the issue they would probably agree with you but would still think it's really fucking gay
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:55 AM
6

That actually seems like it could be really popular. I wonder why it's not a thing in Japan, unless it is I didn't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:38 AM
5

I'm assuming she kisses, cuddles, hold hands, and confides in him at least to some degree. If there was absolutely no form of affection then the man probably finds some comfort in being able to tell himself "at least I'm not alone"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 02:10 AM
2

To feel like at least 1 person in the world desires him and get some form of affection
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:37 AM
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