| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 51 | Crazy excerpt from a very long email my psycho ex (whom I dated for 6 weeks, 3 years ago) sent me. The ‘substances’ he’s referring to is just weed 🙄 dodged. a. bullet. | MALE DEPRAVITY | daintydangerous | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 02:28 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 41 | Daily reminder that men don’t consider women’s backbreaking unpaid labour as real ‘work’Anyone wanna go shopping with me I haven't bought my 10,000 pairs of shoes or my $20,000 dress yet this month | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 03:11 PM |
| 17 | Dear Men: Your Opinion Holds No Value Here. Did We Fucking Stutter?Thank you for all the work you do to keep this subreddit a safe space for women and women only. It’s so valuable ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 12:03 AM |
| 66 | The men are realizing, we are leveling up. Their 2 hour long conversations, about a book they read in 2001, no longer interest us. Filling up their egos, no longer interest us. Being with them, while they suck up the energy of a whole room, no longer interest us.Lmao clearly he was just intimidated by an intelligent woman. Making fun of someone for reading is sooo pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 04:21 PM |
| 24 | Question regarding a unique situationYep. Don’t even think about dating until your mental health is in check. | /r/askFDS | 16/08/20 11:38 PM |
| 9 | When women say no, it's a negotiation.I’m so glad I found FDS and I stopped arguing with men like this. They never learn and they drain your energy like parasites. In their mind, as long as you keep talking, they have a shot at getting in your pants. Blocking hurts them waaaaaaay more than anything you could say to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 05:47 PM |
| 20 | WUT?!Sounds like this guy has a tiny dick... just saying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 10:42 PM |
| 20 | Can we send an FDS rescue squad for this woman?Good for you! Any man who pressures you into doing a sex act that you don’t want to do, and especially one that causes you pain, is an asshole. And like, I don’t have any data to back this up, but I’d bet modern men’s obsession with blowjobs is totally because of porn. 100 years ago men wouldn’t even think to ask their partners to put their mouths on their dick, and now so many of them feel like they’re entitled to a bj a day. It’s madness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 06:45 PM |
| 44 | Can we send an FDS rescue squad for this woman?Yeah that how I feel about it too. Pretty much 100% of the time I’ve had sex with a man, he’s gotten off. Plus going down on a woman is way more pleasant than going down on a man. Throats are not made to have things jammed down them. I firmly believe that most men like blowjobs so much because they know they’re gross and uncomfortable for us. (No hate to ladies who like giving blowjobs—y’all do what makes you happy) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 03:26 PM |
| 95 | Can we send an FDS rescue squad for this woman?I flat out do not give blowjobs anymore. I have chronic pain in my jaw and I used to fight through it, but I’m over it. Sex is so focused on male pleasure anyway, I feel no need to do this particular action that’s always been so painful and degrading for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 03:13 PM |
| 12 | Today I told my bf some of thing things he do bothers me and he responded with the fact that I tell him he gutted me hurts himIt is hard. Brew some tea, reread the handbook. You deserve better, and you gotta throw out the trash to get better. It sucks but you can do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 06:19 AM |
| 29 | Make sure he smiles with his eyesStraight up, this is a sign a man is a sociopath. Not having normal emotional responses to things is BAD. anyone who is like this is very likely dangerous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 08:43 PM |
| 85 | Scrote wants his girlfriend to fulfill his perverted fantasy but gets upset at the thought of her wanting him to change 🤦🏻♀️Thank god the comments are mostly sane. This is despicable. Her boyfriend wants her to start talking and dressing like a child because it will make him happier in the relationship???? Girl nah. That lvm deserves to be single and alone with his anime girls forever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Why are some women always offended when someone doesn't support sex work?That’s literally so stupid because that’s not even what trafficking means. The definition of trafficking is FORCED WORK it has nothing to do with moving from one country to another, people just think it does because of the other definitions of the word traffic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 02:41 AM |
| 21 | To you who message me warning about FDSThis all the way. Men have a vested interest in convincing us that we NEED them and it is not true. Being single is not bad. Focus on making yourself happy. Having NVM and even LVM in your life is much much worse than being single. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 07:31 PM |
| 8 | He’s not picking me up from the airport-is this LVM behavior?20 minutes???? I wouldn’t be surprised if this is some weird power play on his part. You deserve better sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Dont wait around for menYour original comment definitely implied you thought it was immature and lesser, but good that you’ve changed your opinion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 05:38 AM |
| 2 | Dont wait around for menTotally reasonable that you prefer text. Just saying, there are plenty of reasons why other people prefer other means of communication. You’re not better or worse for liking one over the other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 03:36 AM |
| 4 | Dont wait around for menThat only works if everyone has an iPhone. FB messenger is FAR superior than the texting app and I don’t want men to have my phone number | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 12:17 AM |
| 23 | Crazy excerpt from a very long email my psycho ex (whom I dated for 6 weeks, 3 years ago) sent me. The ‘substances’ he’s referring to is just weed 🙄 dodged. a. bullet.Yeahhhhh definitely one of the more deranged men I tolerated in my pickme days. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 02:34 AM |
| 17 | Crazy excerpt from a very long email my psycho ex (whom I dated for 6 weeks, 3 years ago) sent me. The ‘substances’ he’s referring to is just weed 🙄 dodged. a. bullet.He sent this a few months ago. I have no idea why?? I live like 2000 miles away now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 02:33 AM |
| 32 | Crazy excerpt from a very long email my psycho ex (whom I dated for 6 weeks, 3 years ago) sent me. The ‘substances’ he’s referring to is just weed 🙄 dodged. a. bullet.Oh the bunny thing is bc he has a bunny fetish 🙄🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 02:29 AM |
| 57 | Even FDS isn’t safe from Incels. I meant to say I hope it IS coddling but now I’m glad for autocorrect.I love how when men have issues with a woman’s ideology they immediately jump to she deserves violence done to her. It’s reeeeaaaally unhinged and doesn’t... help their argument... at all... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 11:31 PM |
| 12 | No NOT Worship the Golden Calf Sis!It is not women getting cosmetic surgery that has normalized it. It was normalized for them by the beauty industry, companies run by men. Even if all women stopped getting cosmetic surgery, men would still see highly edited pictures of models everywhere, and hold us to that standard. So if a woman wants to get a tummy tuck so she likes her body better and feels more attractive, let her. I don’t think it will ever been expected of women to undergo cosmetic procedures directly after giving birth. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 09:58 PM |
| 15 | Only LV males degrade other men who...If more men start acting this way more women would realize they don’t have to settle for cum stained lvm and they’d stop getting their dick wet with no effort | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 06:41 PM |
| 9 | I'm so done with menTruth. Learning when someone is engaging with you in bad faith and walking away is the best thing you can do for your sanity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 12:48 AM |
| 9 | [Mildly Trending] /r/FemaleDatingStrategy - Female dating strategy (+238 subscribers today; 140% trend score)That’s how I found it 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 07:12 AM |
| 51 | Don't.The thing is, EVERY time there’s a ‘first incident,’ there’s more incidents. Every single time someone had disrespected me, and i allowed them to remain in my life, more disrespect followed. In the good friendships and relationships I’ve had, they are NEVER disrespectful. I don’t need to sit them down and explain how to treat me, they just treat me well. You won’t make any progress trying to teach people to treat you well. They know how to treat people well, they just don’t want to, and you’re n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 09:50 PM |
| 2 | NVM unexpectedly strangles girlfriend during sex and injures her, top comment from pickmeisha blames her for not warning him prior that she wasn’t into being strangled...:/ that just makes me sad and scared for her. So messed up that violence in sex is so normalized that people actually believe that you need to tell someone not to strangle you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 09:38 PM |
| 43 | is it weird to not want to kiss an OLD 2nd date?Not insane! You are allowed to decide what pace you want to move at, and any man who is worth your time won’t pressure you to move faster. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 03:58 AM |
| 18 | What a catch 🙄... at least he’s honest? The fastest of left swipes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 11:26 PM |
| 4 | NVM unexpectedly strangles girlfriend during sex and injures her, top comment from pickmeisha blames her for not warning him prior that she wasn’t into being strangled...GOD this thread pissed me off. The victim blaming is nauseating. If a chick was into ball-busting and kicked him in the nuts half way through sex NO ONE would say “well did you tell her you didn’t want her to kick you in the nuts?” Like “I thought you might be into it” is NOT an excuse to ASSULT SOMEONE which is what happened to this poor girl. :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 02:12 AM |
| 5 | For those of us who were in abusive relationships:Abusers have a vested interest in convincing you that your reactions to their abuse are the problem, not their shitty behavior itself. (I struggle to internalize this but this sub is helping me get there) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 11:01 PM |
| 8 | Activism and the HVMAny man who is EVER dismissive of your feelings does not care about you. NVM want you to be ‘easy’ and will bully you out of expressing your feelings. HVM will listen to you, comfort you, and work to understand your point of view. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 12:21 AM |
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