dajamenu Archive

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5	creepy vs flirting? Girls categorize guys as creepy or attractive based on their vibe, not just their looks or profile. If you're landing in the creepy zone, there are likely several factors at play. This is (most of the time) not the girls fault. Just keep engaging and practicing your social skills, meeting new girls, and the reasons for this perception of you will become clearer. There's not enough info here to give you anything specific.	/r/seduction	07/03/24 12:05 AM
16	Best pua product? There's no pickup program that is going to save you. Nearly all of them are the same fundamental concepts repackaged with little differences, and taught in a different light.	/r/seduction	06/03/24 09:51 AM
1	I’m killer at making women laugh, but I quickly run into an issue in my interactions compliance (to sex) = attraction + investment OP you've got a build up of attraction by making then laugh and have a good time, but you aren't creating any investment. simply go for the personal (and logistical) questions at peaks of her attraction in the interaction. for example, you say something that makes her laugh, THEN ask for investment via a question e.g. "so do you study something?" then let her create investment in you by letting her talk. then later on you instead of asking for invest…	/r/seduction	11/10/22 01:37 AM
2	I am genuinely interested in a girl for the first time and I have absolutely no idea what I'm doing i know you'll hate what i'm about to say, but you need to communicate your feelings to her. This doesn't necessarily mean just straight up telling her, but she needs to know what you want out of the relationship some way or another. You could tell her directly, or you could subcommunicate it to her. If you get rejected, then move on. plenty of fish in the sea :)) don't get caught up in the following advice: "man, read this book mannn... models by mark manson... it'll change your whole perspectiv…	/r/seduction	07/10/22 02:10 PM
1	Women aren’t that complicated spot on	/r/seduction	30/09/22 05:45 PM
1	Am I being stupid and getting my hopes up go fuck 10 other women	/r/seduction	26/09/22 11:33 AM
0	I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2) you need to be top-tier good looking IN ADDITION TO being really confident and charismatic. Confidence by itself isn't going to cut it. bingo. lmao you haven't gamed then, because you have no idea.	/r/seduction	12/09/22 02:13 PM
3	I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2) This post is pretty accurate, and true. Lines up with what I'm experiencing.	/r/seduction	12/09/22 03:42 AM
26	Age detection? go to clubs enough that you know what 18+ looks like lmao.	/r/seduction	08/08/22 05:01 AM
3	very stupid question terrible advice.	/r/seduction	28/06/22 03:11 PM
3	This experience instilled my fear in approaching women. bro you are in the wrong sub.	/r/seduction	27/06/22 01:25 AM
1	how to pull girls from yoga class? if you're having trouble talking to strangers, do yourself a solid and go out to clubs n events. just get to the point where you have absolutely no problem talking to strangers, then get to a point where you're fine being open and honest with women.	/r/seduction	19/06/22 02:39 AM
5	If you flirt with enough sexy girls eventually one is going to like you Speculation	/r/seduction	22/05/22 12:32 PM
1	Getting physical while flirting lately i been watching pwf, jmulv, a.g hayden, but only for entertainment purposes. acquiring fundamentals isn't necessarily hard, you'll learn everything when u start approaching	/r/seduction	17/05/22 10:13 AM
–	Getting physical while flirting I highly suggest getting advice from multiple sources. you'll need a wider range of information other than rsd to remove biases, etc, especially if you're still learning how to be physical. i put my soul on that argument, because rsd alone puts you in a mental rabbithole. my take on physicality is that there's a time and place for it. if you aren't usually physical, than of course it will feel weird... but if you're physical generally, than its no big deal. it should be just another form of expr…	/r/seduction	17/05/22 05:35 AM
7	How do you initiate touching on a date? go out more bro there's no specific steps, except putting yourself in more opportunities where you can practise physicality.	/r/seduction	17/05/22 04:51 AM
1	Is she interested or being friendly or nothing at all? Should i interpret this as a romantic interest from her or is it a friendly gesture? Do girls often fake interest just to see if i would approach without being really interested? Get your answer from them directly via approaching. There's no alternative.	/r/seduction	13/05/22 06:28 AM
13	Approached a girl in the gym yeah bro. being honest and decisive is the most attractive thing you can do	/r/seduction	13/05/22 12:41 AM
1	How long Should I wait to text a girl after getting her number? You could do 'dread-game' where you wait specific intervals to make it seem like you're too busy for her,and she starts wondering, etc. but personally it's too much of a headache to care about that shit. text whenever you want, but make sure you're actually busy with other stuff or other girls. Set up dates as soon as possible. If you met her out at a club, meet her for dinner the next day. if she's busy, try the next day, etc.	/r/seduction	10/05/22 01:31 AM
–	What have you done that improve your overall success with women? I'd like to say I've tried every type of seductive strategy, and honestly the most effective 'strategy' for approaching seduction is being as authentic as possible. Basically be as honest as you possibly can with your intentions, what you say, your stories, and yourself. Imagine if there was an honesty-meter in every interaction... crank that shit up to the max. Sprinkle in a bit of male dominance to polarise the usual feminine energy of most conversations, get her logistics, and bang, 9/10 soli…	/r/seduction	09/05/22 03:18 AM
22	Question to all the guys who actively get lucky with girls probably feels like it, but i'd take a guess that your screening process is really efficient/effective.	/r/seduction	06/04/22 09:16 AM
1	I have RSD Derek The 10 commandments of game Pm me brother !!!!	/r/seduction	06/05/19 01:50 AM