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can you name me an athlete or a celebrity That’s involuntary single?? Because they have a thousand options because they're attractive.
/r/seduction30/01/26 12:48 PM
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You just need a best friend of group of friends. A dating coach will drain you dry.
/r/seduction15/01/26 06:33 PM
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One of the best jobs to have is to sack groceries… because you will meet people in all walks of life
/r/seduction04/01/26 10:27 PM
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Good looking people get non commitment sex and uggy people like me can’t get commitment lol
/r/ExRedPill25/11/25 05:33 PM
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Hookup culture isn’t over. It’s easier than ever to sleep around and how is that not red pill? You can’t get into a relationship unless you settle or level up.
/r/ExRedPill19/11/25 02:26 PM
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I’m gonna be real with you. There’s a lot of guys your age that will sleep with older women or ugly women because it’s easier. So you could start there. But once you start being friends with hot women, you realize they’re not that unusual. They’re normal. And you gotta stop idolizing women.
/r/ExRedPill15/11/25 01:52 PM
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Find your vibe. Find your tribe. I’m a wall flower. So I find someone that gets that or pulls me out of my shell. I look for someone to show me their dance moves or hangout. Usually it’s a swing and a miss but I still enjoy myself. I only buy drinks if I feel a connection.
/r/seduction27/09/25 10:46 PM
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Same reason broke women attract men. Everyone has issues in life. It has nothing to do with gender.
/r/seduction26/09/25 03:54 PM
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Sleep with some uggy. Sorry. Attractive men sleep down and never commit. That’s why they’re called players.
/r/seduction20/09/25 05:32 PM
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Hey man we all are struggling. Usually it’s best to go live your life, make hobbies, find your passion, and stop wallowing. Never settle king.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/25 04:04 PM
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You probably don’t have enough friends. When you meet more women you’ll see they’re regular people who think like you.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/25 03:49 PM
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I’ve learned once I got rid of porn, celebrity worship, and comparison shopping, I found average people attractive.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/25 09:16 PM
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Date his leftovers lol they’ll be jaded and need a rebound
/r/ExRedPill26/12/24 04:28 PM
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The red pill is wrong because it focuses blame on one gender. Divorced has been happening longer than America has been around. There’s a lot of single dads too but they leave and aren’t as punished. Those are all three separate things but also linked. It’s a complicated problem. The government can’t force people to marry or.. to pick the right partner. Just provide some layer of protection for the abandoned kids. Usually the single dads will run from responsibility.
/r/ExRedPill10/12/24 03:44 PM
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I’m happy for yall. But trauma for guys comes out in bad ways. I can’t give grace to guys who lie and whine. I just move on with my day. I hope for many more years for yall!
/r/ExRedPill28/11/24 02:13 PM
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Go. Touch. Grass. Online debates are silly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:00 PM
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It’s called acceptance. I’ve had to get over my iq is below normal. Sad. But it is what it is. And change your picker. Stop trying to date models and OF chicks. Make real connections with people. Have hobbies. Get to know PEOPLE. stop putting yourself down.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/24 06:39 PM
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Don’t forget Ron Mexico 😂
/r/BlackPillScience09/07/24 09:31 PM
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And there’s your problem. Cool defense mechanism
/r/seduction01/06/24 05:48 PM
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OP please pick better people. Normal people don’t do this. Go get real hobbies and make friends.
/r/seduction01/06/24 05:00 PM
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Talk to the ugly ones because they’re the gatekeepers to the hot ones Then once you have an army of ugly ones, you can use them as orcs from lord of the rings to take down the hot ones castle
/r/seduction29/05/24 01:50 PM
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All of society is changing Sorry to say but the number of people that have a baby with somebody they love is very low Remember, love is grown not found
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 08:31 PM
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I love sat words.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:15 PM
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Remember They make different rules if they find them attractive Confidence and arrogance are confused and sometimes they find them attractive briefly It would be best to find out who you are. And not compare yourself
/r/ExRedPill25/04/24 01:17 PM
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I don’t think people realize we really don’t care what other people do with their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:12 PM
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It’s the Beyoncé jay z dilemma. They’re obviously in each others league Same with Selena Williams and Alexis ohanian…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 02:32 PM
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I just wish stem teachers made more than the gym teachers.. blanket teacher pay is so weird
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:47 PM
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Yes 🙌 live your best life. I’m a teacher and I can’t date stem majors unless they’re super into me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:37 PM
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Why have you been taken since 15?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:40 AM
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I hate rejecting people. I really prefer the slow fade. I just can’t imagine turning down another person….. 😔😟
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 04:28 PM
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Suck my.intellect
/r/seduction12/03/24 11:17 PM
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Men should chase money. Blah blah. And not text so often.
/r/seduction07/03/24 04:26 PM
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3% is so underrated Definitely worth it
/r/seduction07/03/24 03:52 PM
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Reddit is based on the bump model. People open their phones and want immediate engagement .
/r/seduction07/03/24 03:51 PM
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You need friends more than a girlfriend Someone to tell you the truth… and then you’ll get your answer
/r/seduction01/03/24 07:27 PM
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I think you need to delete Reddit for a while and go meet people out in the real world
/r/ExRedPill20/02/24 12:16 AM
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Honestly the more you give the better than the more you take I help out at charities and volunteering and the people who get the most out of it are enthusiastic givers Same with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:04 AM
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You’ll have the triple the number of people you meet Go out once a week?? Try three Joined one club? Join three
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 12:51 AM
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Look at Tom Brady. Buy low and sell high! He got his kids and dipped for better
/r/seduction14/02/24 07:09 PM
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My best dates are just hanging out Zero money involved Don’t be a simp for someone who just wants to use you
/r/seduction04/02/24 05:27 PM
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The cool thing about being a guy is that you get to pick your exercise so it could be MMA or it could be Photography anyway that you can burn calories
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 09:27 PM
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There’s a reason the baby boom happened in the good times in America Not hard to fathom Good economy means more kids
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:15 AM
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The reason he showed you is because he wasn’t into you either love
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:37 PM
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Oops sorry. Thanks for clarifying There is a psychological component you’re missing. People are attracted to others what’s inside of them. If you put 100 people in the room and have them pick somebody to talk to most likely, they would find somebody of similar age and experiences. There’s nothing wrong with you or other women. You just aren’t compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 02:41 PM
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Honestly, women are way more social than men so they have a lot more social cues that we don’t pick up on Don’t take it personally You probably just need more experience, talking with women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 02:33 PM
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People date at their level. We pay to see people above our level
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:07 PM
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True that. Like Tom Brady criticizing the current nfl 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:42 PM
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Have a better picker. All those people you over look… they’re probably in your league
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:05 PM
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Why can’t guys stay in their lane and stop mansplaining? People are allowed to pick their partner. And sometimes it doesn’t work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 01:27 PM
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You’re probably not dating in your league. Find your age and attributes and date within that. You probably can’t get a model.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:56 PM
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If guys would get off the dating apps they would be better off. But for now it’s a good time waster.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:26 PM
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I really wish I could make more friends because I feel like the less that I focus on Dating. I could just be happy with friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:40 PM
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No one wants to talk about Brady leaving his first BM for a hotter model?? He got what he deserved.
/r/seduction30/10/22 03:00 AM
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Social proof is real. Make sure you feel confident.
/r/seduction14/05/22 05:34 AM
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I’m 39 and think about a lovely woman from three years ago. Just take things one day at a time. There’s no pathway to healing. Sorry.
/r/seduction02/04/22 01:32 AM
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Delete photos Delete old DMs Throw away or hide momentos Never ever ask about her Just try and forget her ever day If you screw up, just try again the next day It took me two years to get over an ex
/r/seduction14/03/22 09:25 PM
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Know your league and smash within your zone. Don’t have an inflated sense of ego.
/r/seduction05/01/22 02:41 AM
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Getting to know yourself, loving yourself, seeing the most of yourself. What’s funny about virgins and incels, and people who haven’t had sex for years, is that they put way too much pressure on the end result. Imagine Tom Brady walking into the stadium demanding that he wins, really you just have to go out there and play every down as best as you can. Stop focusing on the end result. I’ve had sex. It’s not the best thing ever. I can take it or leave it. I’m glad I’m not a sex addict who uses pe…
/r/seduction25/12/21 08:04 PM
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This happened to me. Here’s some tips Be direct. No games make plans. Make plans on top of plans. It’s ok if she cancels. Always be making plans and stick with them. Making plans is like a BJ for a woman be vulnerable. I’m not saying cry. But let her see your hopes, fears, and future. Etc. don’t start fights through text. You’re replaceable LOL
/r/seduction14/12/21 02:27 AM
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If more men would date like a woman they would understand. I’m tall so I get hit on. If you don’t get hit on… then guess what? Don’t take I personally. Just keep being around people and don’t be a creep.
/r/seduction10/11/21 02:46 PM
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Facebook events Church events Meet up events Keep trying to find friends, social proof is gold. Go out seven days a week until you need a break. Never be strategic. Just go for the enjoyment of it. Don’t go trying to find a partner. Just be yourself and try to improve yourself. Have goals for yourself for the sake of goals.
/r/seduction31/10/21 09:24 PM
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It is what it is. If you had access to her phone you would find your answers. It’s best to let it be.
/r/seduction27/09/21 02:34 PM
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She’s lost or is losing interest. Just be patient and eventually she will see you were the better match. Hopefully by then you’ll move on.
/r/seduction27/09/21 11:08 AM
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I forgot where the post was but the quote was “to be interesting, you have to be interesting.” If you want to learn how to flirt you have to keep living your life. No words of advice helps like real world skills.
/r/seduction13/06/21 11:53 AM
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Also rejection can come weeks or months later. I follow a break up forum on Reddit and I noticed that a lot of people think that they’ve won someone. Like the old saying “she’s not yours it’s just your turn.”
/r/seduction10/06/21 12:25 PM
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It’s always a numbers game. You don’t get to choose who likes you and who stays. I alway recommend to strike while the iron is hot. Peoples attraction comes and goes. The more you learn the More you grow. After five years of dating, success and failures. I’m way more confident now.
/r/seduction26/05/21 02:32 PM
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There’s many avenues to dating. I have no problem making friends and being outgoing. Whether small groups or big groups. It was a shock to me when I found women love bomb. I only had to put in equal effort.
/r/seduction30/04/21 01:08 PM
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Relax Make friends Enjoy the moments when you can We can’t force life to happen. We have to accept what is and let go what’s not meant for us. Love yourself! Help others.
/r/seduction30/12/20 03:54 PM
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I’m sorry I can’t explain it. I didn’t invent it. It’s something I live. I’ve been very fortunate to have over 12 girlfriends and tons of friends so it’s normal for people to “leave me on read” or dump me out of the blue. Just another day. I’m not saying it’s easy. As a dude I cry a lot when I get rejected. But I listen to stoicism videos on YouTube weekly to calm me down.
/r/seduction25/12/20 11:32 AM
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You can’t win people over. Learn this now or after you send the text. Up to you.
/r/seduction24/12/20 06:37 PM
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All dating advice can be summarized as “date people who are into you.” There, pay me $35. When you work on yourself it will improve YOU. But people who knew you before won’t see your progress. Only the new people. Also Corys best quote is “attraction isn’t a choice.” That led me to stoicism and that also improved my dating life.
/r/seduction24/12/20 06:36 PM
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When you post a story, or a update that last 24 hours, it will show you who looks at it. So she can see he’s looking.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/12/20 06:33 PM
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Yeah but it’s funny that some people say it’s basic. I have always found success by going back to the basics.
/r/seduction14/12/20 06:13 PM
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I like to look at dating as we’re both on the same coin. But different sides. You are going to have an amazing time finding somebody that sparks your heart. And I hope you find it.
/r/seduction14/12/20 06:13 PM
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One thing that’s interesting about Hinge is that women will connected to their Instagram. And you can see the last couple of guys that they’ve dated. And you can get a good sense if you look like what they would want.
/r/seduction14/12/20 06:12 PM
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This is so good! A quality friend is worth 10x than online.
/r/seduction14/12/20 06:11 PM
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This is so true!
/r/seduction14/12/20 06:11 PM
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That is one thing that I don’t understand about today’s toxic dating culture. How can you bash the gender that you’re trying to date?
/r/seduction14/12/20 03:05 AM
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Thanks! No hate. I just wanted to spark discussion. A lot of women find me attractive but when they look at my Facebook page or they get to know me, they realize that I’m not as well-rounded as them.
/r/seduction14/12/20 03:04 AM
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I’ve dated lots of nurses who made good money and had time off. They loved going on vacations. They spoiled themselves all the time. I’m a teacher so we didn’t sync up well. And I appreciate the troll. It gives the post traction.
/r/seduction14/12/20 12:07 AM
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Save your money and join a hobby in your area. Houston has quite a few groups to pay to join. From there you’ll meet people. Remember how picky online people are.
/r/seduction11/12/20 06:17 PM
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The best part of online dating is rejecting people I don’t want to talk to... even if we match. I hear some get no matches. Makes me wonder what they’re doing. I get a few matches a day and pick and choose who to talk to.
/r/seduction11/12/20 06:16 PM
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Pro tip for next time. Take what you did and be proud but realize all the ways it went wrong. Don’t be outcome dependent, act quicker before you have time to think, be proud that you tried, talking to strangers is one of the hardest things in life. Keep in mind even if she was single and found you attractive, people aren’t expecting to meet the love of their life at the grocery store. They have a different mindset. I’m so so proud of you. I hope you do good next time. Also, she’s not rejecting y…
/r/seduction10/12/20 02:30 PM
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Pro tip. Know when to move on. Pick up skills is also knowing when a woman is wasting your time and stringing you along.
/r/seduction13/05/20 10:21 AM
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Abundance mindset!! The skills you learn now help you down the road!
/r/seduction21/03/20 11:08 AM
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I’m in a Facebook singles group and I enjoy the daily “men ain’t shit” post from women. They’re single moms with multiple baby daddies and they look like a cook at the Waffle House. Don’t get caught up with women you can’t have.
/r/seduction21/12/19 10:25 PM
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I appreciate it. I don’t always get it right. I’m trying to do better. Ty
/r/seduction14/12/19 11:34 AM
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The best feeling is when they choose you back!! So don’t build up scars. Face rejection and heal and wait for the right one.
/r/seduction09/11/19 12:50 AM
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This is helpful. Oneitis is a real problem! Ouch
/r/seduction29/10/19 08:37 AM
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I hate to sound cliche but it’s all about inner game. Date down for a while and build up your confidence. I’m not saying to lead them on. But if you’re attractive. Then date down to a woman that you feel comfortable with. Stop chasing butterflies. Relationships are about two people being together. Not one person chasing after someone else. Best of luck to you! I thought I was dating down one time, but it ended up being my best relationship ever.
/r/seduction21/10/19 09:32 AM
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Lmao!! I don’t know why women show photos of their unattractive moms. 🤣
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/09/19 10:22 AM
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There’s no one gonna talk about her mom back there?? That’s her future in the next 15 years 😂.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/09/19 10:21 AM
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God bless these women. Easy lays
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/19 12:31 AM
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Just my two cents. But after I get turned down I feel better by giving back. At church, non profit, I work at a school, etc. I realize that life isn’t about me. Those other people make the best decision they can at the time. Love yourself. I’m sorry this happened.
/r/seduction17/08/19 09:38 PM
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Not really. The real secret is whatever you feel comfortable with. All strategies are different and effective.
/r/seduction20/07/19 11:58 PM
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Hinge, Facebook singles groups, church singles events. We dm a lot. Also I strike out a lot in the DMs too.
/r/seduction20/07/19 11:57 PM
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Those are two different problems. Onitis leads you to being rejected, or the friendzone, or worse a bad relationship. Seeing couples every where you go is a healthy mindset and will make you more attractive. Your beliefs are what you see. Some other guys only see tight miniskirts. They don’t see couples because that isn’t what they want. Does that work for you??
/r/seduction01/06/19 10:09 PM
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Wow amen
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/19 12:15 PM
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I’m there right now. I have Oneitis so hard. Your post spoke to me on a deep level.
/r/seduction22/05/19 04:30 PM
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High quality stuff. Also I’m noticing that this works with making friends. I met a VP one time and I wanted to be his friend. But I came across as too needy and clingy. So next time I’ll be more like this.
/r/seduction18/01/19 02:22 PM
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Hey man. You do you.
/r/seduction13/01/19 02:19 AM
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These people will get what’s coming to them.
/r/seduction13/01/19 02:17 AM
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Bro work on yourself. It’s very simple. Increase your friendship circle first.
/r/seduction10/01/19 01:17 PM
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Be her friend. Girls aren’t dumpsters.
/r/seduction30/12/18 03:02 PM
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No they don’t. Women are like hawks. Fucking they swoop in for the kill. Source: I am friends with lots of women.
/r/seduction30/12/18 02:53 PM
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Girls love to lock a guy down the way guys love to bang girls. Don’t be surprised if you see people lose interest once they catch who they’re chasing. Since you’re happy I assume that’s not the case. I’m wishing you well. Keep the spark alive my man.
/r/seduction30/12/18 02:51 PM
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Girls pump the brakes leading up to sex. But they just want you to make them feel comfortable. Mark Manson talks about it. Shit testing are just stop signs. Not closed roads.
/r/seduction17/10/18 04:22 AM
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Find someone that you can tell likes you. There’s tons that do. Focus on those people and feed your ego my man. I will say Never use people. But you sound like you need some positive reps. I’m wishing you luck.
/r/seduction11/10/18 12:17 AM
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I hope I’m not too late to comment. I’m rooting for you. Self awareness is an incredible skill to have.
/r/seduction06/09/18 08:47 PM
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I’ve learned approaching is about confidence and practice. Might as well gain practice experience. Sounds like your confidence is shot. The guy that will eventually get those girls have no problem talking to them. Best of luck! You’ve got this.
/r/seduction24/08/18 11:59 AM
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You have incredible sexual vibes. Being confident is incredible. Keep practicing. Unfortunately chads have a lot of practice. LOL. You’ll get there.
/r/seduction18/05/18 03:10 AM
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Whenever I feel down I go out in public and look at other couples and see that getting a girl/Guy isn’t impossible. Most of us settle and date in our range. It makes life easier. Right now in our society there are tons of single people! Thousands and thousands. I would say find people in your life that want to lift you up and give you positive thoughts. By always thinking negative you’re holding yourself back. Most of the single girls I talk to feel the same way you do. They worry about their bo…
/r/seduction17/05/18 01:30 PM
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Jesus. You’ve never been chased. It’s the best feeling on earth. When she sees you with another girl she’ll chase you. You weren’t ready for her. She’s insecure and she isn’t looking for someone insecure. Move on.
/r/seduction15/05/18 12:53 AM
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Come here for a bro hug. It’ll be ok. Use her to motivate you to be better, learn the tips to help you shoot your shot next time. She wasn’t perfect. Kept telling yourself that. No one is. don’t miss the next one because you’re hung up on her.
/r/seduction15/05/18 12:51 AM
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Go find a photo of her and a common friend and then compliment the friend. She’ll react.
/r/seduction15/05/18 12:33 AM
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Say no. That’s what happened to Abraham Lincoln. Just say no
/r/seduction11/05/18 08:10 PM
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Step 1 comes first tho 👌
/r/seduction11/05/18 08:09 PM
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She’s not allowed to just take the kids. You need a temporary custody order and judges can do that for people who are separated.
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/18 02:37 AM
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Couples Mediation is the cheapest and quickest. Keep in mind she’s going to fight you tooth and nail. Divorce is very very expensive. Fight for everything you want. Also avvo has a great free list of lawyers. Most lawyers will do a free consultation. Don’t pay for a consultation.
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/18 02:35 AM
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Guys who get laid every night have low self esteem and settle for less attractive girls. Girls who get laid every night use sex as a weapon or business ploy to get ahead. Getting laid isn't the goal. The goal is to create deep meaningful relationships.
/r/seduction01/12/16 05:43 PM
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Build yourself up. You're valuable. It's like standing in a long line at the grocery store. What's the point? Focus on people who want to focus on you. Sorry to say the best thing for your situation is to focus on you and increase your value. I don't think she's showing you how valuable you are.
/r/seduction01/12/16 05:23 PM
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