dambachern Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	I don't know how to replicate what I did months ago Preach!	/r/seduction	08/10/20 05:50 PM
0	How would I go about transitioning making girls laugh to flirting? Again, you’re wrong. People are more varied, fluid, flexible, and unpredictable. Your attempts to define your world have constructed a mental prison and you are its captive. I am growing so tired of your incessant negativity that I won’t continue responding. I hope one day you will see that there is much much much more to loving yourself and loving others than external beauty. Til then, kindly keep your toxic pessimism to yourself.	/r/seduction	07/10/20 08:21 PM
0	How would I go about transitioning making girls laugh to flirting? “We all know women are superficial...” is simply not true. If you find your mindset is not making you happier, consider changing it. The world is full of hope	/r/seduction	07/10/20 01:55 AM
1	How would I go about transitioning making girls laugh to flirting? I’m afraid your confirmation bias is clouding you from seeing the possibilities	/r/seduction	06/10/20 09:23 PM
1	How do you guys pickup highly sarcastic women that seem bitchy when approached? Ask her friend what her name is and wait	/r/seduction	04/10/20 04:18 AM
0	How would I go about transitioning making girls laugh to flirting? I’m so sorry for your pain	/r/seduction	04/10/20 02:13 AM
1	How would I go about transitioning making girls laugh to flirting? You’re calling me a moron, but I didn’t use the word ugly in my original message. You did, and then ran away with your own weird rule book/pity party. I will use the word ugly now, and it’s to describe the energy you’re bringing to this conversation. My client is a beautiful person, and that makes it totally understandable why he could marry someone so much more physically attractive than himself. Beauty is just as much a mindset as it is physical features	/r/seduction	30/09/20 06:57 PM
1	How would I go about transitioning making girls laugh to flirting? He’s not ugly, he’s average, but his wife is much more attractive so he’s “uglier” than she is, relatively	/r/seduction	29/09/20 03:15 PM
2	How would I go about transitioning making girls laugh to flirting? The latter makes you a loser	/r/seduction	29/09/20 07:42 AM
5	How would I go about transitioning making girls laugh to flirting? One of my clients is an average looking dude but his wife is smokin hot. Thing is, he is one of the nicest, most radiant people I’ve ever met, so that even though pictures of him are unfortunate, when you meet him in person he actually BECOMES very handsome because he carries himself with kindness, warmth, and confidence	/r/seduction	28/09/20 11:04 PM
3	Where do I even start? Self Love IS my seduction technique	/r/seduction	25/09/20 03:50 PM
18	Where do I even start? I’m active but I don’t go to the gym. I did not graduate college, and though I’m financially stable and debt free, I live modestly and don’t have much money or assets to my name. That said, I have no trouble attracting women. Not ALL women, of course, but few do. I love the life i live, I love who I am, and I believe in my ability to sense a genuine connection enough to not worry when it doesn’t occur. At square zero, what you need to know is that when the attraction is mutual and real, you just…	/r/seduction	25/09/20 01:36 AM
39	Cute guy approached me but I got nervous Dude you’re dope. You know it. You gotta breathe it. You gotta wear it proudly. Find out the best parts of you and show that shit like you know you’re made of magic. I believe in you and some girl is gonna be so lucky you were brave.	/r/seduction	23/09/20 12:33 AM
2	Does weed impair anyone else's charisma/out going vibe? You can seduce as an introvert, it just takes more body language and eye contact. Charm has many masks	/r/seduction	06/09/20 03:04 PM
-1	When shit hits the fan, women have to rely on men. Lol	/r/seduction	06/09/20 02:11 PM
-1	Guys I fucking did it. Hey bud take a breath. I think what people are trying to express is that tactics to appear genuine are not the same as being genuine. Ultimately, they are looking out for OP by showing him that PUA tactics will not last long enough to develop a real relationship with someone. On top of that, these tactics show a continued dependence on someone else’s approval - he’s only worthy if his tactics work. At the heart of it, true love is much easier to find through vulnerability, genuineness, and compa…	/r/seduction	04/09/20 12:23 AM
5	Guys I fucking did it. The Book Of Life	/r/seduction	04/09/20 12:20 AM
19	Guys I fucking did it. Quack	/r/seduction	04/09/20 12:19 AM
5	Just a small "Hi" Almost every person I’ve dated. I am sensitive and have sort sighted judgment about romance	/r/seduction	25/08/20 02:39 PM
5	Just a small "Hi" Saying hi takes a lot of courage, but it takes a lot more to handle the emotional and psychological pressure of a relationship	/r/seduction	25/08/20 02:24 PM
0	I approach my first girl in over three years, it's a start for now... This is a big move, but you’ve got a lot of work to go from just talking to a stranger to actually seducing them	/r/seduction	17/08/20 03:43 PM
1	You're not a "nice guy" You're a pussy and scared of rejection. “You’re alright” lol	/r/seduction	14/08/20 03:36 PM
2	Is 28 too late to start hooking up more? No way is it too late! Keep putting yourself out there!	/r/seduction	08/08/20 05:14 PM
5	How do I stop getting attracted to every girl I see or meet? Start talking to people, asking people out, flirting. Make this kind of thing a normal, regular practice and you will feel less needy.	/r/seduction	06/08/20 04:35 PM
6	Fear not rejection, fear not getting rejected enough I’m glad being a self proclaim “sexist” is working for you in getting girls. Personally, I’ve been using transparency, genuinity, and actually working on improving myself as my tactic not just for “getting girls” but for establishing actual mutual connection as well as, and this one’s important, mutual respect for and from the WOMEN I date	/r/seduction	28/07/20 06:53 PM
4	Fear not rejection, fear not getting rejected enough But they’re not fish, they’re people	/r/seduction	28/07/20 06:48 PM
4	Besides confidence, what qualities attract women? These rules will keep you chained. They are fictional	/r/seduction	18/07/20 04:46 PM
1	Besides confidence, what qualities attract women? Still a losing game, you’re still comparing yourself to others.	/r/seduction	18/07/20 04:45 PM
3	Besides confidence, what qualities attract women? This is 100% projection. We manifest what we believe	/r/seduction	18/07/20 04:45 PM
2	What turns a girl on in general and conversations? It’s less about what you say and more about HOW you say it. Simple words with flirtatious eye contact will go waaaay further than blatant innuendo	/r/seduction	16/07/20 07:43 PM
2	First date ever at 28 and got rejected next day Best advice is not think about it too much and just keep going on more dates. You’re a smart guy and you’ll figure it out along the way.	/r/seduction	14/07/20 05:37 AM
2	Does height matter? Ram Dass - Be Here Now	/r/seduction	12/07/20 03:48 PM
2	Does height matter? That’s just it. You’re already there. You’ve always been there. Everyone and everything is so miraculous for even being able to exist. Beauty and love and wisdom and happiness and connection, they are all the same place. And we never have to leave.	/r/seduction	12/07/20 05:20 AM
11	Does height matter? In my experience I get a lot more positive interactions and connection with EVERYONE when I am being authentic and confident. I fucking love who I am and I have no shame in sharing myself with my dates. Also, I have a better time when I don’t care so much. You don’t need to find the right way to act or the right way to be to “get girls”. That’s a fool’s chase and won’t lead you to a deeper happiness or deeper love. Once you fall in love with yourself, and start living life like you love yourself…	/r/seduction	11/07/20 07:39 PM
18	Does height matter? There’s your problem. You’re allowing your potential romantic partners to determine your worth, if you’re “good enough.” Once you realize that you are hot shit, the height won’t matter so much. You’ll drive girls crazy because they’ll see a man who knows his worth, isn’t caught up in petty or superficial things, and knows he’s a catch. That shit is contagious, and will go a lot further than looks or height in finding a quality partner.	/r/seduction	11/07/20 07:34 PM
12	[GUIDE] If you need to remember one seduction advice : EYE CONTACT You just have to be attractive to your date, that’s way more than just your looks	/r/seduction	10/07/20 07:43 AM
1	"Nothing is more threatening and simultaneously attractive to a woman than a man who knows his value to women and the world." Making excuses won’t make progress	/r/seduction	03/07/20 04:23 PM
0	"Nothing is more threatening and simultaneously attractive to a woman than a man who knows his value to women and the world." Anyone can find a reason they aren’t perfect. It’s about making who you are work for you. Most people would be happier being with someone compatible, not just someone traditionally “hot”	/r/seduction	03/07/20 04:21 PM
1	"Nothing is more threatening and simultaneously attractive to a woman than a man who knows his value to women and the world." Be honest and transparent	/r/seduction	03/07/20 11:47 AM
3	"Nothing is more threatening and simultaneously attractive to a woman than a man who knows his value to women and the world." It can be. Flaws can be super attractive. It’s all in how you wear it	/r/seduction	03/07/20 11:46 AM
0	"Nothing is more threatening and simultaneously attractive to a woman than a man who knows his value to women and the world." I hope you’re able to work through your stuff bud	/r/seduction	03/07/20 11:45 AM
2	Do most women have some sort of bravado when texting? Dunno if it’s women, or just a lot of people nowadays. Technology has changed the way we interact	/r/seduction	03/07/20 02:06 AM
7	Trigger ATTRACTION Switches to avoid friend-zone Lol I’m not down with the idea that looks matter more to men than women. There are shallow and deep people of any gender. Confidence, leadership, and having a life to share are all great ideas. I just don’t need to be pandered to as “one of the guys” when we are all so vastly complex and intricate. No one size fits all smdh	/r/seduction	27/06/20 12:20 AM
0	I am extremely good at picking up women, here's how I do it I don’t care about downvotes, I am more concerned with the bad energy I put out	/r/seduction	06/05/20 09:11 PM
0	I am extremely good at picking up women, here's how I do it Yea sorry for bein a jerk, that’s on me	/r/seduction	06/05/20 04:57 PM
-5	I am extremely good at picking up women, here's how I do it Keep laughing my friend, you are the joke	/r/seduction	05/05/20 10:33 PM
-14	I am extremely good at picking up women, here's how I do it Nah bud, your emojis aren’t fooling anyone. I have a great sense of humor but I don’t detect any here	/r/seduction	05/05/20 10:30 PM
-10	I am extremely good at picking up women, here's how I do it That’s impossible though, so it’s not a very well thought out joke. 2/10	/r/seduction	05/05/20 10:27 PM
-4	I am extremely good at picking up women, here's how I do it What is the other “height”?	/r/seduction	05/05/20 10:07 PM
1	The Power Of Rejection - Getting Beautiful Women To NOT Take You For Granted Sounds like you’re the one stuck in a romantic comedy my friend	/r/seduction	22/04/20 04:34 PM
2	The Power Of Rejection - Getting Beautiful Women To NOT Take You For Granted Sure, I’ll explain. Looking for ways to demand respect is inherently flawed, because you are establishing that any disrespect thrown your way won’t be tolerated. This creates a rule, to be broken. Commanding respect; however, has less to do with shutting others down and more to do with inspiring admiration. It’s about being proactive, about SHOWING respect first and being willing to be patient as others acclimate to that. When you are truly confident, you won’t be phased by the pettiness and can…	/r/seduction	22/04/20 12:18 AM
-5	The Power Of Rejection - Getting Beautiful Women To NOT Take You For Granted This is backwards. If you’re truly a high value man, you won’t be too insecure to make others feel good about themselves. This is some backwards manipulation stuff	/r/seduction	21/04/20 06:23 PM
2	Why you must tell the girl you like that you like her Direct is good, but obfuscation is more fun. You know what you want and you can show it to her without our right saying it. It’s more flirty that way, and shows a deeper confidence and restraint. You can say a lot with your eyes that will have her curious for more. It’s a dance, just have fun and do what feels right.	/r/seduction	13/04/20 03:03 PM
0	Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing women Ah yes wise one, share with me how I can taste the sweet pussy fruit like you do	/r/seduction	17/03/20 06:12 PM
3	Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing women So you’re saying I should jump on and bite the neck of women I’m interested in?	/r/seduction	17/03/20 06:08 PM
1	Shut up and let them talk “Look interested” lol jesus christ	/r/seduction	15/03/20 02:08 PM
5	Do men normally hit their peak later than women? This thread is so toxic	/r/seduction	14/03/20 05:35 PM
7	Alternatives to stop jerking off so much? Sex became way more enjoyable once I stopped looking to bed the hottest person I could, and started to see how energy flowed between us. Some of my most enjoyable sexual experiences were with people whose pictures might not have gotten my engine roaring but the connection we created in person was electric. That’s the kinda sex you need if you’re jerking it that many times a day. Passion, my man, you’ll know it when it visits.	/r/seduction	09/03/20 10:17 PM
5	We all know we can't make a girl attracted to us. So if the girl is attracted to us, what's the point in gaming her? And just because you sleep together doesn’t necessarily mean she’s into you	/r/seduction	07/03/20 01:10 AM
2	Why do girl lose interest (apparently) after being super interested in the beginning You’re obviously overthinking things. You have no idea what happened on her end, so stop trying to understand everyone though dating apps, leave your house, and try to strike up real romance in person. It will save you a lot of head scratching	/r/seduction	26/02/20 03:44 PM
7	Think about that Lol women aren’t creatures, and there isn’t ONE perspective that all women share. I know plenty of women who aren’t dismissive in the way that you describe. Treat people with vulnerability and respect and they will be much more attracted to you.	/r/seduction	21/02/20 12:08 AM
3	How to stop being seen as a friend and become more attractive? We all do things we don’t like for a chance of brief enjoyment. Want to enjoy your food? Want to see a movie? Want to go have an adventure? Chances are you’ll have to do something you don’t like to make that happen. It can be nerve wracking and anxiety inducing to try and charm someone we’re interested in, but real connection and potentially love are usually worth it	/r/seduction	15/02/20 05:21 PM
14	How to stop being seen as a friend and become more attractive? You’re right. The world is unfair and life is harder for you than anyone else. Don’t try to improve, just complain and justify why it’s not worth trying.	/r/seduction	15/02/20 04:38 PM
10	How to stop being seen as a friend and become more attractive? Don’t make this into a victim thing. No one is “forced” to be playful and charming, but it often helps grease the wheels and you should think about expanding your comfort zone instead of digging on yourself	/r/seduction	15/02/20 03:58 PM
2	Wild pickup line actually worked What you learned is that honesty is the best pick up line	/r/seduction	19/01/20 04:31 PM
1	Approached two, got two numbers Oh pobre, no	/r/seduction	06/11/19 09:51 AM
1	Approached two, got two numbers Nah, this wouldn’t be a big deal to a chad	/r/seduction	06/11/19 09:37 AM
-1	Getting Laid Will Not Solve Your Problems None of those 5 things are missing from my life, yet I am still chronically and severely depressed , and somehow I am still getting laid	/r/seduction	04/11/19 05:08 AM
2	I never realized how complicated sex can be That... didn’t happen	/r/seduction	27/10/19 09:57 PM