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I never said anything about putting in the effort for someone who isn't into you.
/r/seduction21/03/22 10:38 AM
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Although I agree with you to some extent but bitter truth is that sometimes, you're just not much of a catch. If you've gone over tons and tons women who aren't showing a burning desire towards you... then guess who's the common denominator? I know ya'll are gonna downvote me for this and you can suck it. If you wanna play the blame game instead of actually working to improve then you're not better than those entitled toxic feminists.
/r/seduction17/03/22 04:57 PM
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Let's break that down... what exactly do you do
/r/seduction11/03/22 06:37 AM
1

Not worth the headache chief.
/r/seduction11/03/22 06:36 AM
3

She said nothing cause she doesn't know what to say next (Which is pretty common for women tbh lol) Just do your thing. You got this.
/r/seduction10/03/22 04:03 PM
5

Just like what Roger Sterling said, "Who cares." Once you try to decode a women's mind, you're dead in the water. Do what you fucking want.
/r/seduction10/03/22 12:16 PM
2

Screw with many, talk to one.
/r/seduction10/03/22 12:09 PM
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how do you approach
/r/seduction09/03/22 06:02 AM
1

We need more posts like this
/r/seduction09/03/22 04:24 AM
19

NEVER EVER BASE your decision around women. if you hate social media then don't be on it.
/r/seduction08/03/22 06:51 AM
1

Try it with her friends. Hot girls have hot friends.
/r/seduction08/03/22 05:19 AM
1

Please take the time to learn game and pick up instead of just asking a broad ass question. Develop the skill. Put in the work.
/r/seduction08/03/22 05:17 AM
1

Drew Da Human has a book on this. Check it out
/r/seduction08/03/22 05:13 AM
2

I wouldn't use asking for help as a pickup But it absolutely works like a charm when escalating.
/r/seduction08/03/22 05:10 AM
1

Cause contrary to toxic belief... looks isn't everything. Don't get me wrong having looks is awesome but not the end all be all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 05:02 AM
3

in my experience... if a chick is boring,,, pretty much means you're boring her
/r/seduction08/03/22 04:55 AM
8

This is one of the worst advice I have ever read. Not because it doesn't work but because learning an instrument just for the sole purpose of getting laid is absolutely pathetic and desperate. No to mention... learning an instrument ain't no walk in the fucking park. Learn an instrument IF and only IF you want to.
/r/seduction07/03/22 07:33 PM
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You're just being petty... like that child who wants that new thing because the kids around him are getting it. If the day does come that guys getting flowers and chocolates are normalize, I'm certain there's still something else you'll whine about... because you know deep down this isn't about "equality", it's about your insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:38 AM
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Thank you for posting this. We need to take a stand to this toxic whiny shit.
/r/seduction04/03/22 05:45 AM
1

HELL NOTHING WRONG WITH RECEIVING FLOWERS BUT DO WE HAVE TO ACT LIKE A SPOILED CHILD ABOUT IT????
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:50 AM
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The post was about how women will openly just do that shit as if it's no big deal Guys do horrible shit too. Ever heard of cat calling? Cheating? Spiking drinks? My sister has been cheated on by a guy and still traumatized until now. I knew a girl who got her drink spiked and got raped. I don't understand the narrow minded approach ya'll have with social dynamics. Both guys and girls can be major assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:49 AM
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Yes same shit, both statements are despicable so I'm not so sure what you're getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:42 PM
4

RP dudes be saying that men and women are fundamentally different but is begging to be thirsted over for their looks just like a woman. What next? You're gonna bitch and moan on how guys should receive flowers on valentines day? By the way, I'm considered a good looking dude but I rather have girls compliment me on personality than focusing on my fucking face.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:09 PM
1

Does going to therapy for our insecurities actually work?
/r/seduction03/03/22 03:03 PM
0

Don't think of it as "complimenting an older woman" but think of it on how to compliment the fucking person.
/r/seduction02/03/22 04:42 AM
1

How about working on yourself instead of "learning about evolution." The fuck is happening with ya'll.
/r/seduction23/02/22 03:30 PM
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imo, the pick-up line wasn't the biggest sin here (although yeah it could be better) It was your transition. You basically just said: "You're hot, let's get a drink" The fuck?
/r/seduction22/02/22 08:50 PM
1

Who cares if women are mean and jaded? That shouldn't affect your behavior. Sitting around whining and crying that women are mean is a waste of time and loser behavior. This is exactly what I've been trying to say to a lot of guys. MORE POWER TO YOU BROTHA
/r/seduction22/02/22 04:25 PM
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pfft what a scam
/r/seduction19/02/22 04:29 PM
2

Didn't the therapist help you cope?
/r/seduction11/02/22 04:17 PM
1

I want to understand why you can't just STOP doing it? I mean you're already aware what you're doing wrong... what's stopping you from actually stopping yourself?
/r/seduction11/02/22 03:28 PM
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Good for you my man
/r/seduction04/02/22 09:09 AM
13

The missing ingredient is GAME.
/r/seduction04/02/22 07:51 AM
2

Focus on what you want and lead the way. Go forth, young padawan
/r/seduction04/02/22 07:46 AM
1

what type of design
/r/seduction03/02/22 07:32 PM
1

Hid3out advertising
/r/seduction03/02/22 06:15 PM
4

You kiss the lips... then the neck then the chest grab her ass strip her naked... etc etc. enjoy her body when you're kissing that's the point
/r/seduction03/02/22 03:11 PM
10

finally someone said it lol.
/r/seduction03/02/22 03:04 PM
2

Don't work on your strategies... WORK ON YO GOD DAMN SELF FOOL.
/r/seduction03/02/22 03:03 PM
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Should've asked for a date when you had the chance bud. The goal of talking online is to schedule a meetup that's it. That's hindsight... what you can do now imo is text her again... have a seductive conversation then ask her out.
/r/seduction03/02/22 02:58 PM
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THIS ONE. As one wise man said. Hang out, have fun, Hook up.
/r/seduction03/02/22 02:52 PM
2

Something tells me your vibe is repelling women more than your "ugly" face lol
/r/seduction03/02/22 02:46 PM
1

If you're not hot then mother fucker don't rely on IG
/r/seduction03/02/22 02:43 PM
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Are you asking because you've yet to find yours and you want some ideas on how to find it or you just want to snoop into my private life lol
/r/seduction03/02/22 02:38 PM
1

How about going to youtube or reading some books... escalation is a skill
/r/seduction02/02/22 03:23 PM
3

"I am a good guy" The problem lies in here.... lol guys who says "I'm a good guy" means either one of the two things 1. They're not really a good guy 2. They have nothing else to offer... which makes them boring AF Fix this and women will start finding YOU not the other way around.
/r/seduction02/02/22 10:07 AM
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You need a passion, a hobby, or a purpose or whatever the hell you want to call it. This will make her fight for your attention.
/r/seduction02/02/22 10:03 AM
2

Here's a tip... know what your common interests are and use that instead to ask her out. "Hey, I remember you telling me before you're into xyxyx. I'm going to xyxyxy you should come along"
/r/seduction26/01/22 06:54 AM
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Hope you learned something and calibrate
/r/seduction12/01/22 01:25 PM
4

What exactly does this "dataS and science" say about coffee dates?
/r/seduction11/01/22 05:28 PM
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Live your life with a philosophy or an ideology and people will see you as interesting. The problem with most people these days is that they consume media like a zombie. FUCKING THINK AND HAVE AN OPINION ON SHIT. Here's an example: This girl I dated on tinder was telling me how she didn't connect with her previous date. She told me she texted him and she said she was sorry. I said she shouldn't apologize because no one should apologize for something they don't regret. Saying sorry for the sake o…
/r/seduction11/01/22 04:17 AM
1

Fucking rockstar brotha
/r/seduction10/01/22 07:27 AM
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Love it. You were having fun and you didn't give a shit.
/r/seduction09/01/22 09:23 AM
3

What were you doing when they came up to you?
/r/seduction09/01/22 03:30 AM
7

This is fucking amazing
/r/seduction09/01/22 03:22 AM
2

The problem with "just be natural" or "be organic" is that although it's 100% true and is the ideal solution. A lot of guys just can't do it... if they can they wouldn't be asking the question in the first place
/r/seduction07/01/22 04:21 PM
0

I wouldn't want to drive for an hour just for sex too if that's what you're asking.
/r/seduction07/01/22 04:17 PM
1

You don't have to be confident mate... but you do have to be comfortable.
/r/seduction07/01/22 04:16 PM
1

Dude are you telling me right now that you have to be successful first before you can be confident? I can name a bunch of celebrities that aren't talented per se and I'm sure you can too. And Van Gogh died poor but no one can dispute his talents.
/r/seduction07/01/22 12:43 PM
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Here's a "text trick" that worked for me ever since. If we really have a great and interesting topic: I'd reply right away. I'm establishing that bond, If it's just the simple formalities like wyd or what u up to: it would usually take within an hour or so BECAUSE I'm actually doing something. That's the key. To actually have something else to do rather that just play texting games. As ridiculous as it sounds, women will smell your bullshit.
/r/seduction07/01/22 09:23 AM
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Confidence isn't a magic cure-all. All I'm saying is that celebrities are paid to be confident that's all. He can't showcase those talents if he wan't confident in the first place and if he couldn't showcase those talents then he won't be rich.
/r/seduction07/01/22 09:16 AM
2

A more useful answer is that it is possible to reignite that attraction if YOU WANT TO
/r/seduction06/01/22 04:58 PM
2

Send her a text to invite her over? This ain't rocket science people damn
/r/seduction06/01/22 04:56 PM
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Kevin hart got rich because he's confident. It's literally the job of every celebrity
/r/seduction06/01/22 04:41 PM
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In my experience most girls won't want to head home with a guy they've just met no matter how charming he is - fair enough, they'd rather not risk getting drugged/raped/murdered. You've had a shitty experience then. Assess how you look and the vibe you're giving. Trust is given based on the vibe you're giving. Most girls don't want to talk about ~deep or personal~ things in a place with loud music and bright lights (plus you can barely even hear each other) You ask them to go out so you can talk…
/r/seduction06/01/22 01:23 PM
2

"How about I answer you in person"
/r/seduction06/01/22 12:38 PM
2

Damn... is this even seddit? What's with all the pussified comments damn. Anyway... you should not have looked away. You're trying to be more than friends remember? So act like one. Go Hot & Cold
/r/seduction05/01/22 02:23 AM
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Most of these wholesome advice are gonna get you friendzoned. Seems to me that you were going with the flow too much. She was just having fun with you and being comfortable but she wasn't sexually aroused. Be a challenge. PS: bcool's advice is great too.
/r/seduction03/01/22 02:56 PM
1

Stop with this "numbers game" mentality and actually start calibrating and learning from your rejections instead of just "going for it" like these dweebs like to preach.
/r/seduction03/01/22 01:59 PM
0

Okay let's talk about this. If you could please expound on what you're saying because I don't want to misunderstand you before I respond. And no I'm not 18. I'm pushing 30
/r/seduction31/12/21 02:58 PM
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That's very cute... was he able to get your number at least? Cause if he didn't then it doesn't matter how adorable it was. FOCUS ON THE RESULTS NOT THE EFFORT PEOPLE
/r/seduction31/12/21 02:20 PM
1

Ya'll are fucking pussies I swear to god. Whatever happened to the guys who love to take on a challenge? You talked for days before you asked her out. Wrong. What exactly did you talk about? Seems like boring shit to me and you failed to flirt. I'm so into the whole abundance mindset thing but ya'll are barely trying. You think you're all hot shit but you're not. Downvote me all you want but you know it's the truth.
/r/seduction28/12/21 05:25 PM
1

Tbh, sounds like she thinks of you as just a reliable friend who she can toy with whenever she's bored.
/r/seduction05/12/21 11:41 AM
7

I feel like woman think all men are just out to just fuck, rape and do all types of torturous unconsentual creepy shit. Why do you even think that
/r/seduction05/12/21 09:48 AM
1

"Hey trouble"
/r/seduction05/12/21 05:43 AM
1

I can't tell you the exact step by step since I wasn't there so you have to learn going kino (physical contact) and escalation by LOOKING IT UP
/r/seduction05/12/21 05:33 AM
1

I'm not so sure who got lost in the conversation. Let me repeat what I said: When you are on a date. Your main job is to build attraction so "brushing upon things you talked about" won't cut it. You have to FLIRT, SEDUCE, TEASE&BANTER, PUSH/PULL/ ETC.
/r/seduction04/12/21 08:42 PM
1

First date? There was no teasing or flirting. Here is your problem. Your job on a date is to seduce the girl, not be her buddy. You were already texting for two months for christ's sake. Also, I meant how did you respond to how she answered your questions?
/r/seduction04/12/21 07:02 PM
1

Ask for her opinion on something and go from there.
/r/seduction04/12/21 04:20 PM
1

Your post is gone. But if I remember it correctly, you hugged, complimented her, asked questions and played something and you went for the kiss. How did you respond to her questions? Were you able to touch her? How did you flirt with her? for example, tease and banter 2 steps forward one step back.
/r/seduction04/12/21 04:08 PM
1

I then asked if she has any siblings and then her attitude kinda changed... Again, you two have been texting for two months and you just brought that shit up on your third date. How I look at it is that you're just trying to come up with stuff to talk about just for the sake of it. (Girls can sense this) But the major hole here the was lack of escalation i.e. yes you didn't flirt properly. You sounded like you were playing safe too much.
/r/seduction04/12/21 10:32 AM
3

Boy, if you're still talking about trivial shit like what music she into on your third stinking date then you can bet your ass that "relationship" is gonna go downhill. Learn how to properly escalate.
/r/seduction04/12/21 07:40 AM
1

If you want results, start developing a growth mindset by asking what you could've done better. It's basic stuff like this that is commonly overlooked on this sub
/r/seduction03/12/21 08:27 PM
3

That's the problem. Ya'll patting this man's back for "at least doing it" where in fact the main point of "failing" is to LEARN from it, not to put it up on a scoreboard. "Hey name I've been meaning to ask you but are you busy this weekend would you want to do something" There are far more better ways to ask someone out and anyone who's been on the game long enough knows it.
/r/seduction03/12/21 03:53 PM
0

What did you learn from this
/r/seduction03/12/21 12:06 PM
7

hi i just saw you from over there and wanted to talk to you... sounds creepy as shit
/r/seduction28/11/21 03:05 AM
2

You don't need confidence. You just need to be comfortable. Don't put her on a pedestal
/r/seduction26/11/21 02:17 AM
1

Bro what do YOU bring to the table? Those dudes sounds awesome to me that's why they get the booty
/r/seduction24/11/21 11:15 AM
1

Imitate a confident person... even someone you see on tv or a movie
/r/seduction22/11/21 05:02 PM
9

Here are some questions that I ask that just struck a chord with my date. what is your biggest regret? If there's something else you want to do for a living, what would it be and what's stopping you from doing it? What did you learn from your past relationship? Would you rather go to the past or to the future? What's something that you wouldn't want your parents to know? If you'll get a second chance to meet a deceased loved, what would you tell them? Some of these question would be fucking odd …
/r/seduction18/11/21 04:26 PM
1

Probably has another guy
/r/seduction17/11/21 12:27 PM
56

People who do this shit should be banned
/r/seduction15/11/21 05:02 PM
2

That's like an sos to get boned bruh
/r/seduction15/11/21 07:09 AM
27

Right on the money with what the previous guy said... but just to keep it shorter, when girls say you're too nice it just says you're a chump. You have to be more assertive.
/r/seduction13/11/21 02:37 PM
2

Hey ____, this is (OP name), we met at the comedy show. What did you think about the show tonight? and the rest of the comments are all okay
/r/seduction13/11/21 02:34 PM
1

Use a wingman
/r/seduction13/11/21 11:55 AM
7

you’re really beautiful. OP, please don't say this
/r/seduction13/11/21 09:53 AM
1

One technique I use to overcome this is I just ask strangers for directions in the middle of the city. Start with everyone, to warm yourself up. The old man. The business person. The grandma. The mom. The cyclist. The dude having a cigarette. The person waiting for a bus. Damn, this is exactly what I did. Are you some kind of twin or something lol
/r/seduction12/11/21 04:06 PM
1

You wouldn't want to words "date" and "soon" on the same sentence from a girl. That practically means never.
/r/seduction12/11/21 10:19 AM
4

Look him up on youtube and you'll see tons of video analysis on his game. He's that good.
/r/seduction12/11/21 10:14 AM
3

This isn't my expertise because I'm more of a silent type but you should check out Russell Brand, he is a riot but also has this powerful vibe that seduces women.
/r/seduction12/11/21 09:09 AM
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The key word here is "Goofy." Yes, women likes funny guys BUT unless you're able to mix that with a little bit of seductive and manly aura then you will just be a friend.
/r/seduction12/11/21 06:38 AM
1

I completely agree with you on that although I'd like to clarify that I'm not encouraging anyone to be full of themselves... Just stating a remark that will move her is enough. Guys don't have to keep pushing it. Like I said they have to be respectful. But you're right on the money on what you said about being in the moment, nothing beats being present and just having fun. Unfortunately though, a lot of guys aren't there yet. So this advice is for guys who are struggling to hold a conversation..…
/r/seduction12/11/21 04:56 AM
1

Shoot sorry about that. Will keep that in mind. Anyway I'd love to know more about your experience though when you said there's no reason to. Care to expound on that?
/r/seduction11/11/21 07:20 PM
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So in my example, I challenged her because I was opposed to something she did and I explained why. When you simp and don't agree to everything she says, you're giving that signal that you are your own man and you ain't like the rest that are frothing at her feet... which challenges her. But like I said, you don't disagree for the sake of disagreeing cause she'll know.
/r/seduction11/11/21 06:40 PM
1

My man, you gotta read the whole thing.
/r/seduction11/11/21 06:22 PM
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Just be careful with this advice. I can already see many guys attempting this in the wrong way and ending up in the friendzone. Absolutely that's why I said to challenge her.
/r/seduction11/11/21 03:56 AM
1

let's back up a minute... what exactly happens when you're on a date and what are you struggling with.
/r/seduction10/11/21 07:41 AM
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virgin, the reason why isn't because I don't have game though. I was raised mormon, and up until age 22-23 hot girls CONSTANTLY threw themselves at me. Not kidding. Told me they wanted to date me, told me they liked me, would give me thei Oh shit I'm sorry about that lol But actually after rereading your post, I would still standby to what I said. It seems you really need to learn game because your problem is flirting and escalation
/r/seduction10/11/21 05:14 AM
2

Sorry are you talking about cold approach or when you're already trying to escalate?
/r/seduction10/11/21 05:09 AM
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because I don't have game though For the life of me, I can't understand why some guys are like this... if you already know the cause of your problem, then maybe try addressing it??? LEARN GAME god damn.
/r/seduction09/11/21 08:42 PM
24

How about complimenting them that has nothing to do with their physical appearance. Done this numerous times and oh god does it work.
/r/seduction09/11/21 07:56 PM
9

I'm talking about a scenario when you're already close with her as a friend and if you want to transition smoothly... OP said he's already touching the arms and waist. If that's the case then you can start brushing the hair... and once you got the green light on that.. lower back. What you're talking about would make sense if ya'll are already under the impression that you want to date.
/r/seduction06/11/21 04:16 AM
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Everyone's gonna cram the proverbial "just do it" and "don't be shy" advice to you but the truth is... if it's that easy you wouldn't be posting in the first place. It is true that you just got to be a little more confident and there's a way to do that naturally without forcing yourself. Give yourself a REASON to be confident. The fuck do I mean? If you ask Jesus to walk on water he would with zero fucks given because he knows he has the Lord Almighty to back him up. Now to you, how can you conv…
/r/seduction05/11/21 09:18 PM
1

My man, you're about to reach the promised land lol just ask them to hang out
/r/seduction05/11/21 09:04 PM
1

If you are trying to do a complete 180 on your personality just to get your dick wet then don't
/r/seduction05/11/21 09:02 PM
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You don't touch the ass unless you guys are at that point already. Hug her, brush her hair, play with her hands, wrap your arm around your shoulder then try touching her lower back (This is powerful) Once you're able to touch her lower back on multiple occasions (without her getting creeped out of course) then you my friend, almost in the home run. Ask her to "hang out"
/r/seduction05/11/21 08:49 PM
1

Boy, I had slept with gorgeous women with zero intentions of knocking them up. And I bet a lot of guys can say the same. I like boobs because it's sexy. I like a women's ass because gets me harder than a rock. I want a beautiful face because it turns me on. That's it. Getting so hung up on evolutionary bullshit will not get you laid.
/r/seduction05/11/21 05:41 PM
5

It's amusing when people try to overcomplicate attraction. Girls like tall guys is as the same as why guys like girls with beautiful faces, big booty or a nice rack etc. because it's ATTRACTIVE, it's that simple we don't have to study shit to understand this. What you should be asking is what else can you do to be attractive.. as in how can you be a man of value. And there are plenty of things you can do that doesn't involve your height. Granted, yes there are a lot of women who would prefer som…
/r/seduction05/11/21 01:18 PM
1

Some guys are just trying to get laid without showing any substance at all. They're as bland as a wall. That's my point.
/r/seduction04/11/21 06:30 PM
4

I used to have the same struggle because I was pressuring myself to never run out of things to say. When I shifted my mindset to "get to know her and have fun" everything went smoother.
/r/seduction04/11/21 06:01 PM
1

Elaborate on still no luck. What scenario are you exactly having and what do you mean by low swing rate
/r/seduction04/11/21 05:55 PM
22

I'm sure he's missing out on a very beautiful family 😊
/r/seduction04/11/21 04:56 PM
1

Something you are genuinely interested in. You gotta consume that shit. If you want to be funny, you don't just try to make people laugh, you watch funny skits, you surround yourself with funny people. etc.
/r/seduction04/11/21 04:33 PM
1

Meet new people.
/r/seduction04/11/21 04:26 PM
97

He probably hates ya'll lol
/r/seduction04/11/21 04:18 PM
3

There are literally billions of choices... humor is one of it and is very potent. If you want to be humorous, then yes practice humor. Make sure to do something you're comfortable with... something that you will LIVE BY and not just do to get laid because unless you're good at bullshitting, girls will know you're faking it.
/r/seduction04/11/21 04:17 PM
5

I'm not telling you to be rational. Some will find your personality repulsive, some will see it attractive. My current girl absolutely despises guys who banters because she hates guys who talk too much. My point is to add some substance into your life because no woman would fuck a wall.
/r/seduction04/11/21 04:02 PM
2

Basically be fake and play your charachter as it is , why chain yourself to your body ? Who says anything about faking it?
/r/seduction04/11/21 03:55 PM
9

Banter works because it shows you have a playful personality. Hence again, personality. Here's an example from my experience: This one girl that I was eyeing for a long time went head over heels for me because according to her, I was rational. Whenever we talk about something, I would always consider both perspective and I don't come into a conclusion based on my prejudices. And that shit made her panties wet. It sounds airy-fairy sure but this was actually the first time that was able to score …
/r/seduction04/11/21 03:52 PM
2

I respect the bravado but this doesn't sound inspiring at all She's still gonna get married with some asshole. Should've kissed her when you had a moment and then convinced her that the other guy ain't worth it. These types of women are at their weakest when their getting kissed
/r/seduction04/11/21 02:22 PM
2

what can you offer on a conversation? What do you look like? What's your insecurity? (I guess the fact that you're not out of your parents house) Are you fun? Or boring? Have you looked into learning game? What makes you different than the other guys? Why should a girl have sex with you? Describe your fashion sense? Have you considered finding out what are girls into?????
/r/seduction03/11/21 07:08 PM
2

Are you serious? That's the only thing you took away from what I said?
/r/seduction03/11/21 10:20 AM
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If you can't match with anyone on dating apps then what makes you think girls would honk your horn on IG? Not trying to be harsh here my man but it seems to me you gotta work on giving girls a REASON for them to give you their time of day. Law of cause and effect bro. World doesn't revolve around "please give me a chance!"
/r/seduction03/11/21 10:08 AM
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First, if going to a bar is your weakness then don't go. There are literally thousands of places where you can meet women. (library, park, coffee shop, etc.) Not saying you should never do it. Bar is great, clubbing is fun... but you gotta start being comfortable with yourself first before you dive in. Second, assess why are girls not into you? have a solid conversation with yourself... what EXACTLY do you bring to the table? Third, learn more about game and pickup by reading the books or watch …
/r/seduction03/11/21 10:04 AM
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There a whole lot to it than just being straight edge lol
/r/seduction03/11/21 07:10 AM
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Learned this the hard way 😂
/r/seduction03/11/21 07:09 AM
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What are you suppose to do with a girl's number? hang it on a wall? Lol TEXT HER
/r/seduction01/11/21 02:02 PM
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First rule about approaching people: Don't give a fuck
/r/seduction01/11/21 02:02 PM
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Start working on yourself so you can live a bad ass life and someday she'll start crawling back
/r/seduction01/11/21 02:01 PM
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This is called "resistance" — mankind's greatest enemy. Hitler wanted to be an artist but resistance got him so he became history's greatest asshole. Solution? Start with visualizations.
/r/seduction01/11/21 01:59 PM
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I can't believe no one here suggested to ask the girl to go out of the club with you so you could talk. It's a classic PUA move.
/r/seduction01/11/21 01:53 PM
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I think next question is do you want to have fuck her? Fucking friends could cause a lot of complications unless you really want to lol
/r/seduction01/11/21 01:50 PM
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You can imply back that you ain't interested it will break her frame
/r/seduction01/11/21 01:47 PM
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Start with youtube. My personal favorites are Coach Kyle and mindful attraction. Read books if you can.
/r/seduction29/10/21 05:11 PM
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Good man, good luck
/r/seduction29/10/21 05:09 PM
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but my game is literally shit when I speak in English. I am fluent in English but i just can’t flirt well. Here's your problem... solution should be clear as day. Learn game in english
/r/seduction29/10/21 03:00 PM
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Go cold and evaluate
/r/seduction29/10/21 02:59 PM
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Make sure she's on your socials Hang out with other girls and live your life. Don't post too much, it would look like you're trying too hard Proceed with ZERO expectations (because nothing in this world is 100% effective.)
/r/seduction29/10/21 02:55 PM
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First congrats on being aware of it. That's the first massive step. Here's what I did that others might find silly I literally copied my favorite tv show character. Practiced, rehearsed and analyzed his body language
/r/seduction29/10/21 02:48 PM
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A lot fucking better than not doing anything and jack off let me tell you
/r/seduction28/10/21 01:43 PM
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OP please listen to the rest of the comments. Work on your mental health. Learn gratitude learn how to be present, get therapy or read Eckhart Tolle's book "The power of now" It's not alcohol that's the problem nor is it the lack of girls. It's how you perceive yourself.
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:00 AM
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"Let me think about it" means no in all aspects of life lol
/r/seduction28/10/21 05:56 AM
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