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dammit_joyce/r/RedPillWives11/07/18 04:55 PM
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I’m happy to chat! I’m 30 and also in the southern us
/r/RedPillWives23/05/22 01:03 AM
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It seems like you’re attempting to gather views for this video rather than authentically seeking advice. In the off chance you do want help: You’re 30. Your biological clock is ticking. If there is a good man who is ready to be a father and husband in the short term who shows interest in you, make it work. Shape yourself into what he needs. Do not call him a boy. Prepare delicious, nourishing meals to share with him. Don’t whine, bitch, or nag. Be a soft, encouraging place for him to land and re…
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/19 12:58 AM
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He might claim to be RP, but he is not a captain. His actions were not worthy of your respect or trust. You were right to leave and I’m proud of you for having him blocked on all platforms. Contact at this point won’t do anything beyond giving him the opportunity to string you along. Keep working on yourself and keep looking for a man who will be a true leader and provider when you’re ready.
/r/RedPillWives12/08/18 12:13 AM
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I’m so happy to see this update!!! I’m thrilled that your husband is noticing and acknowledging all your efforts. You’re doing amazing. Keep up the awesome work!
/r/RedPillWives11/08/18 02:20 AM
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I’ve never been big, so I don’t have a ton of advice. But I wanted to say good on you for acknowledging that it is a problem and wanting to correct it. That’s generally the hardest part. CICO (calories in, calories out) is essential. There are tons of articles about it and calorie tracking apps out there to help you. Find communities that will help you stay on track. I have a huge repertoire of healthy dinner recipes. If you ever run out of ideas feel free to pm me :)
/r/RedPillWives25/07/18 05:53 PM
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It has been a long road! I had a lot of resentment before discovering the RPW mentality and it almost ruined us. You're so right that no one really discusses how to be a good wife anymore and that it has become a title rather than a lifestyle. No one wants to admit there are changes and "sacrifices" that have to be made in order to be a good wife. I actually refrain from explaining a lot of my perspectives pertaining to RPW in my day-to-day life because of the negativity it generates. People see…
/r/RedPillWives18/07/18 12:06 PM
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I’m about four chapters into Skin in the Game and I’m really enjoying it thus far. Thank you for the recommendation! It seems someone here doesn’t approve of Peterson or Taleb and is down voting us, sorry about that.
/r/RedPillWives13/07/18 11:05 PM
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We’re always looking for books to read! Is there one you’d suggest starting with?
/r/RedPillWives13/07/18 04:20 PM
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I love the idea of going to a Jordan Peterson meet-up. I actually got my husband his book for Father’s Day. My husband is one of the most personable individuals I’ve met. Unfortunately, he’s in a management position and having chosen staff over to socialize could been seen as favoritism. We’ve discussed it but decided we can’t go that route.
/r/RedPillWives13/07/18 11:03 AM
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I feel for you and I can absolutely relate. My parents never taught me how to clean and my father would ridicule me when I tried to tidy up his home in an attempt to gain his approval. I think step one needs to be a shift in perspective. You have a worthy, appreciative captain and you need to keep his ship in the state he deserves. He isn’t going to mock you if there’s a learning curve, he’s going to appreciate and desire you that much more. If I have a tough day - and trust me, I have my fair s…
/r/RedPillWives13/07/18 03:45 AM
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My husband and I have been discussing finding a church, but I hadn’t considered the potential for meeting other moms. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWives12/07/18 05:37 PM
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I tried the Peanut app to meet other moms, but didn’t have much luck. MOPS seems to be the main mom meetup in the area, but it takes place during the work day so I unfortunately can’t attend. My oldest starts VPK in a month, so I’m holding out hope we might meet a nice family through his class.
/r/RedPillWives12/07/18 05:35 PM
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Over the weekend I made pickles, pickled eggs, and chocolate zucchini bread for snacks during the week. I had cabbage that desperately needed to be used, so Sunday was grilled fish tacos with shredded cabbage, spicy mango salsa, and cojita served with a spinach/kale/avocado salad, beans, and rice. Monday I made roasted spatchcock chicken with zucchini, carrots, and brussels sprouts and Sunday's leftover salad. I also baked a boule of homemade sourdough bread. The gizzards went to the pup, and th…
/r/RedPillWives28/06/18 07:24 PM
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I have two young boys (4 and 1). The older knows how to put away his clothes and how to help with household chores (dishes, vacuuming, mopping, laundry, etc.). He helps me cook and bake bread from scratch. I will do the same with our youngest. Regardless of gender roles everyone should know how to maintain a clean home, cook a delicious meal, change a tire, and keep track of finances. I refuse to send my children into the world without those skills. That being said, my husband will teach our boy…
/r/RedPillWives25/06/18 02:03 PM
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Suzanne Venker. She’s an author and all of her books expand upon being a RPW in today’s toxically feminist society.
/r/RedPillWives19/06/18 11:00 PM
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I absolutely agree. I expect my husband to be involved in our children’s lives, but I don’t set requirements of x amount of diapers changed or any of that nonsense. I know too many families where the SAHM expects her husband to come home from work and immediately take over. That just doesn’t sit right with me. My husband has a wonderful relationship with our boys and it’s on his terms. He isn’t half heartedly tolerating their company to get a nagging wife off his back.
/r/RedPillWives21/03/18 07:55 PM
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I work full time, keep a clean home, cook all our meals from scratch, bake homemade bread, and take care of our 3 year old and 10 month old. My husband adds salt to the well because I can’t lift the bags. We pay to have the lawn mowed. Everything else is me. The caveat is that I work 40 hours a week but I do so remotely from our household and I make a little less than I would in office.
/r/RedPillWives20/03/18 06:50 PM
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I think you need to reset your expectations and just come to see the home as your job. For example, if your household were a company, you would be the “store” manager (overseeing and scheduling day-to-day tasks) while your husband would be a regional manager (overseeing your work, making large financial calls, stepping in when there’s a crisis). This is how my husband and I have come to view our arrangement and it has helped me a lot. I work remotely full time while caring for our 3 year old and…
/r/RedPillWives20/03/18 06:31 PM
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It’s definitely worth offering :)
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/18 08:08 PM
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He doesn’t have any chores, lol. But I do have a nice meal planned.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/18 06:03 PM
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I had considered the chore route, but I make sure just about everything is taken care of so he can relax and spend time with us when he's home. His only expected task is to add salt to the well because the bags are so damn heavy. I think I'll go the craft route and make something for him with the boys. I'm going to do a smoked salmon and asparagus eggs benedict with homemade sourdough English muffins for breakfast. Then dinner will be a grilled romaine salad with bacon and blue cheese crumbles, …
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/18 04:15 PM
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