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Don't follow anybody who says you shouldn't be eating pussy. Hahaha. What utter garbage
/r/seduction04/02/25 01:32 PM
3

Use the fact you are standing and can close the distance.
/r/seduction15/12/24 07:46 AM
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I love cooking, sure, but being stuck with a person I might not like in a 3h class and dinner? No. First dates should allow you to also get out of it after a drink, in my opinion.
/r/seduction13/09/24 09:56 AM
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Cooking class on a first date? Haha
/r/seduction13/09/24 07:24 AM
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Need to be quick and make the decision. No thinking, just doing.
/r/seduction13/04/24 06:23 AM
1

Make a joke out of it: "I have at least 3 dates per day. Is that too much?" Or the like
/r/seduction06/10/22 06:43 AM
0

"I didn't take you for the flakey type" Send her that
/r/seduction13/09/22 11:55 AM
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Learn cold approach so you can go after women you want, not the women that happen to be on apps and match you.
/r/seduction23/08/22 04:35 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/c/PlayingWithFireDating/videos
/r/seduction27/07/22 02:18 PM
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1) sexual innuendos and making jokes about stuff that then lead to it 2) no, be careful. Giving away too much will leave you with nothing to keep her interested and she might just won't meet up with you anymore. Girls don't want to hear "I'll ram my schlong in".... A lot of women enjoy reading a scenario that builds up and consists of teasing, kissing, maybe slight exhibitionism and such things. Write a story. Send it to her. She'll read it again and again while masturbating and it will leave he…
/r/seduction21/07/22 10:07 AM
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I think it's fine. Always depends on the interaction and how much chemistry you felt there was. On the day of the date, check in with her. That means a bit of banter seeing how her day goes and asking something in regards to the date "picked out a cute outfit for later yet?" or something to check that the date is still on. You have to have these 2 steps. Don't just ask "we still on for later?".
/r/seduction13/07/22 11:05 AM
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There is certain ways of avoiding flakes.bthey will happen. Just the nature of online Dating where it can be hard to build connection, but when you're able to lead the interaction and then check in on the day with her you can spot the flakers.
/r/seduction13/07/22 07:43 AM
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I got and get that fairly regular. I like to dress well. Used to bother me a lot when I was younger and trying to find my confident, "manly" self, now I tend to laugh about it.
/r/seduction08/07/22 05:40 PM
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Obviously you don't have any text game either then. Check out the "Playing With Fire" channel and learn that.
/r/seduction06/07/22 03:54 PM
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You didn't fully answer my question.
/r/seduction06/07/22 02:38 PM
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You're probably not building enough connection/chemistry during those interactions, hence they don't reply anymore. Do they fully not answer or it just fizzles out? Text game is another skill that comes into here, less important if you built connection, but if they're just short interactions and you get the number, then you need to do the connection building via text.
/r/seduction06/07/22 02:16 PM
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"damn, I love kissing you"
/r/seduction27/06/22 04:35 PM
3

I'd say work on your social skills, social circle and inner well-being first/in parallel. Things will come from that.
/r/seduction25/06/22 06:44 PM
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I wonder if it had to do with the apps ' algorithms changing to make you pay for premium services.
/r/seduction04/06/22 04:26 PM
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The Natural Lifestyles.
/r/seduction15/05/22 08:23 PM
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Careful, there is literally people out there that try to get free dinners like this. Suggest a drink and see how she reacts. If she's super adamant about it, I'd not go. Dinner first dates in general are s bad idea.
/r/seduction13/05/22 02:55 PM
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You have to escalate next time otherwise you're friend zoning yourself.
/r/seduction09/05/22 08:32 PM
2

You seem cool. Let's grab a drink and see if we click. And then: What's your schedule like?
/r/seduction09/05/22 07:40 PM
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It's actually easy to gauge her interest on IG etc. If she likes your stuff or reacts to your reactions to her stories it's already a good sign. You can make a comment on her story and use that to start chatting, then bring up a meet up. Then take it from there.
/r/seduction26/04/22 03:48 PM
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The forum is great.
/r/seduction18/04/22 02:12 PM
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Don't double text and don't send such an invested message like you're suggesting. Ignore her not answering and move on. She'll probably come back.
/r/seduction12/04/22 08:24 AM
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First of all, don't be so hung up on her. Get alternatives and then you're less needy about this one. Give it a day or and then write something like "Still thinking?/Don't think to hard now"
/r/seduction28/03/22 08:55 PM
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2 set = 2 girls. 3 set = 3 girls.
/r/seduction27/03/22 07:59 PM
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You don't say "I wanna only have casual relationships", but word it differently: "I want to focus on myself and develop my career and personally and don't want to invest time and energy into finding a partner and building a relationship". If you have to explain at all. I doubt it though, especially how young you are. Those questions like "why are you single?" will happen more the closer you get to 30.
/r/seduction13/03/22 08:14 PM
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Can't you just go to the Hostel bar for drinks, but stay at an Airbnb anyway?
/r/seduction08/03/22 08:52 PM
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Was going to same thing
/r/seduction01/03/22 01:36 AM
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"Chasing" her? You already hooked up. If you like her and want to have some form of relationship ask your friends for her details and message her. If not, don't.
/r/seduction13/02/22 12:21 PM
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Don't focus on OLD. Learn street game, day game, basically chatting to people on the street/shop/library/gym etc. Also, you need to build a social life that is maybe not about sitting at home playing video games or painting models. You need other things that get you out. Or maybe join a power lifting club instead of just going to the gym on your own. Or got to a CrossFit gym (I know, different, but you could do that for a class a week). CrossFit boxes are super social places! With a more out-of-…
/r/seduction13/02/22 08:58 AM
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You seem both young and inexperienced. So, be nice to yourself and proud. You did well and she seems interested. Just a matter of time. How old are you?
/r/seduction13/02/22 07:41 AM
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What's "smv" stand for?
/r/seduction11/02/22 12:18 PM
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Weird experience. I wonder what she was on about or has just no self awareness at all.
/r/seduction09/02/22 10:44 PM
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I'm impressed by how many people just completely missed OP's point.
/r/seduction09/02/22 10:37 PM
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Polarise. Ask her out. Get a clear answer if she wants to meet your or not. Depending on the outcome next steps: a) set up a date b) move on and don't give her more mental space
/r/seduction28/01/22 01:10 PM
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Man, this is how I did it. Give credit where it's due. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/dekr1t/she_is_rooting_for_you/
/r/seduction25/12/21 09:56 PM
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Go Bowling instead.
/r/seduction24/12/21 01:54 PM
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Read "She Comes First".
/r/seduction03/10/21 05:10 PM
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Jazz/Blues gigs attracts a slightly older clientele. (I'm a singer and plenty of them there)
/r/seduction10/09/21 06:54 AM
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For all the guys in this thread, read "She Comes First". Thank me later.
/r/seduction30/08/21 04:57 PM
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What I don't get is, sex is better with experience. Those young girls might have perfect skin and such, but less experience. And it's more fun when the woman knows what she likes, can relax better and equally knows better what to do with a man. What's your takes on that?
/r/TheRedPill23/10/20 06:55 AM
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Street game. No excuse now not to work on it...
/r/seduction20/06/20 07:31 PM
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Check this video out (and also the comments): https://youtu.be/y_pGong8-68
/r/seduction24/05/20 02:53 PM
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Wanna come over to see my hamster? Maybe you can show me your badger in return!
/r/seduction29/12/19 05:08 PM
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Check this out: https://understandingrelationships.com/pickup-date-questions-that-build-attraction/13871
/r/seduction15/12/19 05:42 PM
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I hear you and also currently looking for new ideas. One thing that I have started recently. Beach volleyball: it's a simple sport that is very easy to learn and can be played with a mixed team of genders, age and ability. It also draws in a mixed group of people, locals, internationals and even just visitors. It loans itself to "Hey, do you want to go for a drink after?". Food markets, I mean the foodie truck markets. Usually it's on for a day or two, people come to hang out for a few hours, gr…
/r/seduction04/12/19 01:15 PM
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Check contacts.google.com or the equivalent for iPhones. (Unless you specifically had account sync turned off)
/r/seduction03/12/19 08:29 PM
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I understand your point, but it also shows what people will think outside of our community. And that can only help make the community better.
/r/seduction05/11/19 11:43 AM
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The point of this video, a "compilation" at that, is to show how even PUAs who are confident and know how to approach on the street, still will get rejected and this is a normal part of it. Girls have boyfriends, are in a rush, just got layed off, whatever... What the video demonstrates well, that despite the rejections he is not losing his frame and just having fun with it. This already demonstrates his vulnerability, which makes him an attractive and confident man.
/r/seduction30/10/19 04:39 PM
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I don´t think that was the point of him making this video.
/r/seduction30/10/19 04:37 PM
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Watch literally any in-field daygame video. For example watch some "The Natural Lifestyle" videos.
/r/seduction30/10/19 04:27 PM
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"PUA" has moved on since the days of "The Game" and all these routines. It's moved to natural game and authenticity. Read "3% Ma" by Corey Wayne and "Models" by Mark Manson. That will get you into PUA in 2019.
/r/seduction30/10/19 04:25 PM
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Not the point of the question.
/r/seduction25/10/19 06:48 PM
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Would be interesting to hear which parts you object with.
/r/seduction23/10/19 02:28 PM
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Immature boys having success doesn't necessarily translate well into "health, long-term relationships".
/r/seduction23/10/19 11:53 AM
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You can let her make 90% of the talking by directing the conversation by asking the right questions/opening topics. This way she also is the one "investing" in you, which in turn puts you in the upper hand.
/r/seduction21/10/19 10:36 AM
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Read Models by Mark Manson. All explained in there.
/r/seduction19/10/19 10:22 AM
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I feel weird going out on my own. How do you do it? Just stand at the bar?
/r/seduction17/10/19 07:38 PM
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That's exactly that point. Thinking of approaching women in a more positive light can help you build that confidence.
/r/seduction08/10/19 04:00 PM
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In my case, it really helped me bring some puzzle pieces together in my head (I´m working on myself a lot at the moment, reading a few things and combine it with therapy). And the book made me think different about certain things and got me a bit out of the anxiety state and actively approach.
/r/seduction08/10/19 10:44 AM
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The repetitive nature of seeing that woman needs to be made a bit more clear in your text (which makes a good point). Otherwise one just assumes you're talking about normal day/night game where this doesn't make sense.
/r/seduction08/10/19 10:08 AM
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See my reply to user playruf.
/r/seduction08/10/19 08:06 AM
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A quick excerpt from the intro chapter "A Quick Note to Female and LGBT Readers" The popularity of Models has brought it to the attention of a number of people that the book was not originally conceptualized and written for. A number of single women, as well as gay, lesbian, bi, and trans people have emailed me over the years asking if the book’s concepts apply to them. At first, this surprised me. And then what surprised me more is that as I went through the concepts in the book, I realized tha…
/r/seduction08/10/19 08:02 AM
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This book can be read by everyone.
/r/seduction08/10/19 06:48 AM
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Says it right at the top
/r/seduction07/10/19 08:01 PM
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Thanks. Will fix!
/r/seduction07/10/19 04:36 PM
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Of course. But this book is about getting men confident and work through their anxieties and beliefs they have constructed for themselves. There is always exceptions to the rule.
/r/seduction07/10/19 04:23 PM
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Glad to hear you find it useful
/r/seduction07/10/19 03:42 PM
1

The other day I was "eye flirting" with a girl on the metro who was on the phone. Wrote my number on a piece of paper and gave it to her when I got off the metro.
/r/seduction05/10/19 04:41 PM
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Read Models by Mark Manson.
/r/seduction02/10/19 11:25 AM
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Tell us some stories!
/r/seduction30/09/19 08:56 PM
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Women in the UK are specially hard in comparison to other countries (US is specifcally easy). My experience was that they shit test you a lot and have a huge wall that one needs to climb over. Took me a long time to learn (I come from a different country). Don't give up.
/r/seduction30/09/19 01:51 PM
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Very needy. The party one is good, the rest I wouldn't write.
/r/seduction27/09/19 12:07 PM
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Thanks for writing this up! Just found it via the search and will try this!
/r/seduction26/09/19 11:20 AM
1

operation man-dime What's that reference mean?
/r/seduction26/09/19 11:15 AM
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This is great. Has anybody got any tricks/rituals/practical tips to zap them out of the anxiety state to prepare themselves for an approach/starting a session?
/r/seduction26/09/19 11:04 AM
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