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She met and was/is fucking someone else. I’ve seen this movie many many times before. This is exactly what happened. I’d bet a whole paycheck on it. She cheated on you and the quicker you accept that the quicker you start your healing journey. Don’t go back to her or be a simp and start contacting her to get answers. You never will. Move on with your life bro. She is gone.
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/24 12:45 AM
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Those are the worst. I was in a long term relationship with a covert narcissist woman. The worst relationship that I have ever been in in my life. Once I caught on tho, it was game over for her, she tried to weasel her way into my life but I shut her down so decisively, she has never attempted again since that day. I’m a total ghost. She was so evil and yes you are right, they have this negative affect where they get off on doing really disrespectful shit to others. I’m very familiar with that s…
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/24 12:57 PM
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Mark my words if you don’t do this and reconcile with her, she WILL cheat again. I repeat. She will cheat again. What you had is gone forever. You said it yourself, you cannot trust her. Keep it moving. Dig deep down and find the courage to move on. That’s the only path you have left to a peaceful life.
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/24 02:38 AM
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You will be fucked over the moment you hand that passport over. Last I checked you only need a social security card and a state issued ID to open a bank account. Additionally your daughter is 18 and legally an adult, you and her can go open the bank account together. No parent is needed for that.
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/24 05:39 PM
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Been there done that. Personality disorders ain’t no joke to deal with in a relationship. I made it out like a ghost as soon as I understood what I was dealing with.
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/24 11:47 PM
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This is very sad to read. RIP to him. Fuck! These tales are getting way too common.
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/24 10:52 PM
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This is BP logic. Wake up!
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 01:45 AM
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These kinda stories make me seethe to core. Why go back to a woman that broke up with you? That shit doesn’t make any sense at all to me. I could never do that.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 02:27 PM
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Preach on brother. This should be a post on its own or at least the top comment. Many men can be saved if they read this.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 02:54 AM
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Wait what happened? Was this sub featured on CNN?
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 10:16 PM
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For all that is good and holy, listen to the advise given here, and run as far away from that woman, as you can. Never ever contact her again. I don’t care if she shows up in nothing but a bathrobe at your front door. Run! If there is ever a red flag scenario. This is one. Source: Experience.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 12:45 AM
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No. You aren’t wrong. I cannot just let my kids go. My story is similar to OPs.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 05:45 PM
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I heard it another way. To put it simply - nothing good happens after midnight when you're out and about. I
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 08:11 PM
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Good luck and Godspeed with the house hunting. I remember going through this but at the end of the day it's a great feeling to own a building.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 08:39 PM
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Be careful what you wish for and count yourself lucky to be given this insight.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 02:01 AM
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Dude! This is such an underrated comment. It should be up top. You have spoken like a thousand wise men. Trust me I know because I've been through the "war". One of the best decisions I ever made in my life was to file for divorce. It ain't pretty but for me it was absolutely a worthwhile decision.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 01:37 AM
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Yes. "Few hours a day" did not make sense to me. Always text with purpose.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/17 01:02 AM
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Doing some quick mental math, I am slightly younger than you, and now also jealous of how easy you made this sound. Good report. I live around 5 miles away from a major hospital, I think I'll reactivate my bumble account.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 01:25 AM
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Thanks. I would never put up pics of them. They have zero social media presence, especially Facebook. But you get where I'm from and have good points.
/r/askTRP11/06/17 04:33 AM
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Only on weekends when the ex has custody, or if I really am pressed, I can hire a babysitter for a few hours. Basically I have 4 days to play with a month. Six if you count Sunday's. If I'm working on a major project on my house, I typically loose 2 days. Speaking of projects. I built a gym in my garage for lifting to keep in shape as TRP recommends. I have been on a handful of dates recently using this routine. Why do you ask?
/r/askTRP05/06/17 12:14 AM
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10-4
/r/askTRP04/06/17 06:14 PM
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Yes, there is an old people Tinder. That's where I met and fucked your mother.
/r/askTRP04/06/17 06:10 PM
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I was with you until the political comment.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 03:19 AM
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You are right. It's very cringeworthy. Had a similar experience, except the 40 year old and brother part, and we were basically the same age. Stay strong!
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 12:57 AM
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I understand that it's sad to find a place where most of the group has a common purpose, but you still find the negative asswipe spouting nonsense. You cannot let it get into your head,because you give them the satisfaction of breaking your frame. I feel the same way when I read some posts on here, but at the end of the day, racism is a fact of world we live in. I essentially cherry pick what suits me and digest that. We do not live in a utopia so you are left with 2 choices: Accept and move on.…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 11:40 PM
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Yes. Tri-state. I can't speak for others, but I generally do okay out here, in the different facets of life. I can't really complain, because I know there are others that have it worse.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 02:53 PM
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No. I'm on the other end - east coast. There are several pockets of Asians out here. Mostly stick to themselves but not all. BTW I have tried with Asian women. There used to be a hot East Asian woman working close to my job a few years ago. To me she was smoking hot. We crossed paths often and my physical attraction to her was intense. Needless to say all my efforts went nowhere. She just wasn't gonna have it. Maybe it was because I was black, maybe due something else, but thanks to TRP I really…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 03:10 AM
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Here is where I am coming from. Once I was at party and happened to hit it off with a white woman. An Asian guy who I was with, insinuated that it was easier for me because I was black and he is Asian, therefore the end result would've been different for him. This happened on another occasion when I hang out with him. I could tell he wanted the same results as I was getting, but I felt that he put the women on such a high pedestal that he was very scared to approach. My response generally told h…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 04:07 PM
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Yikes! Looks like you are having a hard time swallowing a good dose of the truth. I'm not sure what black people you associate with but you've generalized us a lot with your post. I frankly don't care about the conquests of Asian men or any other race for that matter. You want to fuck white women for the rest of your life, by all means go for it. My broader point is that I have noticed many Asian men put white women on a severely high pedestal, and it is unclear to me what's hella special about …
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 03:43 PM
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Full disclosure I am a black guy. My kids are bi-racial (half white). I am about to invest in a shit tonne of baseball bats because I have a daughter. I have had several compliments about her hair, how she should be a child model etc. My point is you are right, bi-racial females will have it easier. I have interacted with one or two Eastern Europeans (the Slavs) and it was a baptism by fire. It's unreal how racist they can be. I have been on this earth long enough to take it in stride, so it doe…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 02:15 PM
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Best thing that I've read today.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 01:34 AM
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This post slightly gleans to the anger phase. I get it because I know I am there. Right about now, I feel minimal motivation to talk to women. In fact, I get a slight feeling of disgust when I see a woman that I find attractive. Either way my focus is on building my self worth e.g. my health and a hobby.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 01:17 AM
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Good man. Herd mentality can sometimes lead to very dark places.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 01:00 AM
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Good man. Herd mentality can sometimes lead to very dark places.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 01:00 AM
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I don't know how the rest of this interaction went, but I do hope that your sister did not do anything further to push this guy off the ledge. Call me soft but I hope that he will one day see the light, though at 35 and this naive, I highly doubt that that will happen anytime soon or if at all. I have an acquaintance (call him an acquaintance because we were friends in elementary school but now we rarely hang out but still keep in touch). Anyway, his wife posted on Facebook the other day how he …
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 12:12 AM
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Seriously. Do not drink and drive. One of the rules of TRP is maintaining a healthy lifestyle, this includes being a responsible man. I don't want to sound like a party pooper, and I get it, life is about enjoying yourself. However, let this be a lesson, next time you may not get off as easy and that could lead down a rabbit hole of a slew of problems. You are on the right track. one can see that since you are here on this sub. A good strategy, for instance would've been calling it in, once you …
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 03:29 AM
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Serious: I have never watched the notebook. Anyway stay strong dude and do not give in to the temptation of succumbing to her power play. Just by the fact that you wrote a lengthy post about her, leads me to suspect that you still have strong feelings for her. I'd recommend that you keep your mind occupied on other things other than her. Go to the gym, visit some friends etc
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 12:45 PM
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I'm surprised that no one mentioned this to you. She clearly was illegal and married you for the green card. She played the long game and hang in there until she got what she wanted. I'm sorry to say it but she never really cared about you or loved you. You got got! Don't ever marry an illegal. EVER. I don't care how good looking she is.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 07:36 PM
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Thank you for doing this. It's a must knowledge for every man worth their salt. And everyone should take action on it.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 04:49 PM
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Yes they are my kids. And I agree I have to be cautious with single mothers. Very cautious because I have seen first hand how she has tried to use them as a way to get back at me. Thank you for your input.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 02:38 AM
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True. But what if they were getting ganngbanged the night before going to Whole Foods? That's a real scenario.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 04:57 PM
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No it's a solid post. Thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 04:25 PM
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Can tell from your spelling that you are European.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 02:52 PM
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This was hard to read dude. I am frankly happy that you turned out okay. Unreal what some kids have to go through.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 12:59 AM
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Not true. They may spend more time in the gym doing other workouts other than lifting. Either way I have backed up theory with actual science.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 12:43 PM
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Overtraining is not good because your body gets fatigued and even possibly impact your workout schedule because you feel like crap.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 12:35 PM
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During the last holiday season, there was a day that I happened to drink more than I typically do, it took me a week to get back into routine. I learned my lesson since. I'd rather choose to work out than drink on any given day.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 06:17 PM
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I'm a TRP subscriber so obviously a guy. Was curious about this sub so gave it a visit and this is the first post that I read. 1- I see people telling you to wait for that SPECIAL guy. There is NO ONE special. Swallow that. There are some good ones and there are some bad ones. No one special for you or me or anyone else. Get that into your head to avoid making a mistake when looking for a partner. 2- Stop focusing on rankings ( you can look at my history, never mention rankings). Yes I know the …
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/17 08:23 AM
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I'm not saying that you have to be a Greek god to pull women, however, being in prime shape will definitely raise you SMV to optimal levels. Look I'm not saying that you will not get laid if out of shape. My broader point is that you will get optimal results when in shape. Why limit yourself to a half assed physique when YOU CAN achieve more?
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 09:22 PM
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Can't wait and appreciate the effort that is going into this.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 02:32 AM
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I kept that in my back pocket for the time when she acts up. Trust me she will act up and that's when I will Pull the trigger to recalibrate things. That and end she was pretty much left broke, I was not gonna hit her when she was down at that point in time. Call it beta but I didn't want to do it then. She had suffered enough.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 02:00 AM
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I am one of the very few and far between cases where I got divorced and granted primary custody of the children. I pay no alimony or child support. As a matter of fact, the mother can pay child support if I wished that to happen (a judge asked me this in court and I thought he was asking my ex at first, only to realize that the question was to me). You have to fight for your rights. I did. Essentially I was not divorce raped. Life is sweet right about now.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 08:59 PM
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I will probably get down-voted into oblivion for this but I don't care. I don't know why everyone is getting their panties all in a bunch because of this march. Its every American's right to go out and voice their displeasure or pleasure with the government (in a civil way of course). Just because we disagree with another person's point of view, does not necessarily mean that we have carte blanche to disparage them and treat them like outcasts. I get it, they're women and screw feminism right. T…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 02:36 PM
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I hear you and it makes sense regarding the low matches. I plan on updating my profile soon and we shall see. 50 to 100 is a pipe dream for me right now.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 11:25 PM
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I live in the east coast. Around 30 miles away from Manhattan. I lift and I have average looks IMO, so I can attest that the match rate is slightly higher. I get 2 to 3 matches a week when active everyday ( i typically layoff tinder when I have max 2 dates lined up). Anyway, this is a high rate for me since I exerted minimal effort in my pics and bio. I'd say I'm closing in on 10 decent matches within the first 12 months since I first hopped onto Tinder, which was maybe 4 months ago. I mean I've…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 02:21 AM
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I don't know about this one but you are entitled to your opinion.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 05:42 PM
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This is the one of the most valuable posts that I have seen this week. I understand that people have different political leanings and others have different philosophies about racial relations, however, no one gives a fuck. There are other subs to discuss these specific topics. Bottom line is are you improving yourself by being here. I will repeat that the core question to truly ask is, ARE YOU IMPROVING YOURSELF?
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 05:28 PM
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To be honest I am more left leaning politically and I still believe in RP teachings. It naturally just makes sense to me. I have learned to steer clear of any political discussions. We live in a very polarized political era and I'd rather focus my energy on self improvement and getting laid. As someone else said on here before, forget everything else and focus on you - your tombstone will have only one name which is yours - live your life.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 02:02 PM
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I RARELY post or comment anywhere else other than here. And most of all even my best friend of over 15 years does not know I swallowed the pill months ago. I come here to learn and add value to myself, share what I can and leave it at that. TRP is the best kept secret in my life ever.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 03:27 AM
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Perhaps they are, but my bigger point is that you may not necessarily receive the feedback that you are looking for in this sub.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 04:24 PM
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I think that you are in the wrong part of town.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 04:00 PM
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This post made my average sex life look mega average now. This type of lifestyle is totally alien to me.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 08:57 PM
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I have been on TRP for about 6 months now. It has been a tremendous resource in figuring out how to improve my life and dealing with women (my favorite). Having said that, I believe that we can only be a strong as our weakest link, which means that as this sub continues to grow, we will see more and more mixed messages/posts on here. I am always vigilant of garbage posts using my best judgement and I appreciate a post like this, which helps reset our minds and puts the focus right back where it …
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 04:03 AM
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You forgot the first rule of red pill. You do not talk about red pill. Especially to your date in this case.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 10:53 AM
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Yes there was dread. I went to the gym just so I can get out of the house at the time for alone time and so my physique improved as a result. I absolutely couldn't stand being around her during the last year of marriage.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 01:02 PM
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Don't do it. You can be around for them post divorce. It has been done before because I do it. Don't ever stay because of the kids.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 02:49 AM
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You are right on the money.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 02:38 AM
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You have no control of your own house. You should not be banished to life in your room in your own home. My advise to you is, either make your entire a comfortable living space for you or get a divorce. I hate to break it to you but you are living in despair right now. I know because I used to be you before. You need a heavy dose of RP in your life right now
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 02:29 AM
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I got divorced and one of the major reasons was financial, specifically around the stay at home mom philosophy. I believed that we would be stronger partners if we both worked but my ex not so much. The house was always a mess when I got home, I did all the cleaning, cooking, and even giving the kids baths. And this was after eight hours or so at work. Needless to say, I am a much healthier and happier man now. Our children are also happier especially since they do not have to endure the argumen…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 02:20 AM
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I'm not sure why you are seeking validation from social media and in particular Facebook. Social media is a major waste of valuable time. You are a PM so it sounds like you are educated enough to know that as part of the RP principles, never seek validation especially from social media. I suggest that you start weaning yourself off FB and use that time to do something that helps improve your life.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 01:04 AM
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This is a bad idea. For the love of everything that's holy, I recommend that you proceed and stay away from your friend's daughter. There are plenty of real grown women out there for you to go after.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 12:56 AM
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Very good FR. It motivates many on here including myself.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 07:33 PM
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Keep at it. Don't mess up your long term friendships
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 12:22 AM
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I understand that she is your step sister and you trust her but boy are you both wrong. I emphasize that texting should be used for practical purposes only e.g logistics. Please get your head out of the sand.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 12:12 AM
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What are you doing here anyway? You are way out of your zone.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 05:23 PM
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This! Always take it at face value when a woman tells you this.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 08:41 PM
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I'm 37. To be fair I don't walk around acting like an entitled douchebag. My philosophy is that if I walk up to girls like - oh look how much money I make - then I'm just asking for trouble. I try to be down to earth as possible while still maintain an RP frame.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 11:39 PM
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I'm not sure how you did it. I make a very decent salary and my game has to be top drawer to get a date. Either way I am focused on self improvement both physically and mentally. The women will come if I continue to develop RP principles. Good for you tho. PS: In my opinion I have average looks but I am considered short as well just like you are. Agree never let that get into your head.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 09:59 PM
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I got the flashbulb eyes 3 times (that I am aware of). I was in my early twenties and totally BP. I was confused and had no clue what it meant. I wish I had read this post before then.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 05:13 PM
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This is the most unfortunate and unbelievable thing that I have read on here about a BP guy. He needs help stat.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 10:13 AM
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Needed this shot in the arm.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 02:32 AM
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Yea. The rational part of me wants nothing to do with it. My other brain though is hungry for this woman.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 07:42 PM
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You hit the nail on the head. I would be successful if I can go for the jugular without caring/fear of result. My journey continues. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 05:58 PM
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Thank you. I needed to be told that. You have made my day stranger! Happy Holidays.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 04:49 PM
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Someone please enlighten me.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 03:26 AM
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I don't get tinder lays as often as I have read others get on here. but when I do it goes down on the first date.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 02:44 AM
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Agreed. I am mentally telling myself that this is a test so that it becomes truth to me...day game is the way to go although I will remain active on Tinder just in case.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 07:55 PM
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Never...I am perfectly happy with myself as is.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 05:40 PM
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