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| 2 | So we need to start dressing better...where do you guys do your shopping? | dang3r_muffin | /r/seduction | 27/07/15 04:40 AM | |
| 1 | Spent the weekend cold approaching (review) | Field Report | dang3r_muffin | /r/seduction | 22/06/20 12:36 AM |
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| 1 | A Simple, but effective Testbulking for 5 years?? | /r/seduction | 29/10/20 01:41 AM |
| 2 | Approached 2 girls sitting with each other last night at the barIMO, I think MOST day approaches are better for this reason. this is 100% based on my own personal experience but I've often run into more girls unreceptive in bars/nightclubs than I have during the day.(keep in mind, that this may seem harder than it is at a bar given the atmosphere, but you'll quickly learn it's not). I'm not sure where you live, but for me, sunsets in my area where people workout or watch the sunset are perfect places. There are always new people around the area watching the … | /r/seduction | 18/10/20 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Should you texting after you invite her out?Everyone's different man. You'd know better than we would. For context I've set up a date with a girl who owned her own business and was very busy, we set up a date and time and that was perfect. Met another girl recently who was recently unemployed, and was more interested in trying to text periodically. Point is, there's really no rule and nothing wrong with just using text to set the date up, or occasionally some small text talk (just nothing overboard) | /r/seduction | 13/10/20 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else here deleted Instagram?Been off of it for a couple years, can confirm it's a better way of life. Also, in terms of dating, I haven't run into many issues without having it. Usually when I meet someone, and we get to that topic I let them know I don't use social media and it turns into a conversation about that topic. I've had girls tell me it's a breath of fresh air etc. It allowed me to focus more on what I was doing in the moment, and also pick up more books and start reading etc. | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 03:08 PM |
| 0 | She is not replying to your texts? MOVE ON instantly.this. | /r/seduction | 14/09/20 08:43 PM |
| 3 | Is 28 too late to start hooking up more?are you kidding? 28 you can be just getting started! | /r/seduction | 08/08/20 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Places to game in San Diego?the boardwalk/beach man. I'm in north county and have been gaming at the beach. DM me I'd be down to meet up and do some beach day game together. | /r/seduction | 10/07/20 04:23 PM |
| 1 | I don’t get many dates but whenever I do, it seems that I catch girls by surprise when we finally meet in person.Same here man. I literally just started using hinge because of this whole Covid thing. I thrive in real person interactions. I’ve been getting better at cold approaches (was used to being at college where it’s a lot easier). This whole Covid thing is really making it difficult around here. Anyways, I’ve had hinge for 4-5 days and have been chatting with a few girls, one we seemed to be doing really well and she even asked me to show her how to slackline (one of my favorite activities) asked for … | /r/seduction | 08/07/20 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Can't direct approachHave you tried taking cold showers? It's often mentioned here and there's ted talks on it's benefits. (cold showers help with that mental side of things, where you know the shower is going to be freezing cold, but you do it anyway, then after it's over you warm up and it's like it never happened... | /r/seduction | 01/07/20 06:36 AM |
| 2 | Underrated venues for huntingSpent all weekend approaching at or near the beach! good times | /r/seduction | 22/06/20 12:57 AM |
| 3 | What’s your go to first date idea that isn’t dinner and/or a movie ?Came here to say this. Been my go-to first date for a while and can't tell you how many times I've been complimented or told that it was fun and different. As he said too, it's physical but in a fun not weird way. | /r/seduction | 17/06/20 03:05 AM |
| 2 | How do I get her to have sex in my car?Hey man, if you both start kissing thats really the only escalation you need. If what you say is true and both of you have this sexual tension building, it'll just progress from there. Don't be afraid to lead the interaction to the back, again, as you said, she most likely wants the same thing. IMO there really isn't much of a "step by step guide" as you asked for. With that said, there's also the "Let's lay in the back and listen to some music" or something along those lines. Good luck buddy! | /r/seduction | 12/04/20 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Corona and datingThis. | /r/seduction | 12/03/20 06:45 AM |
| 1 | My boss sent me to a training bootcamp. I arrived late and was seated next to a cutie for it.There was no spelling errors, you completely removed the sentences I quoted haha. Anyways, no point in continuing this. Good luck with your journey. | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 09:27 AM |
| 1 | My boss sent me to a training bootcamp. I arrived late and was seated next to a cutie for it.A little ironic how you talk about being your true self, and being open and honest and not worrying about rejection, then go and edit your post. Again, you're looking way to into this, I've never used this cube thing, but it's literally meant for something fun. Who doesn't like to have a little fun, lighten up dude! | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 09:15 AM |
| 4 | My boss sent me to a training bootcamp. I arrived late and was seated next to a cutie for it.You're taking this way to seriously. Really just meant to be something fun. Also, you said everywhere you claim it's a "gimmick" and that "everywhere you look people talk about the cube and "getting the girl" Just typed in the psychological cube in google and the first 5 websites say nothing about getting a girl. https://owlcation.com/social-sciences/quick-personality-test https://naomimailhot.com/the-cube-personality-test-what-does-it-reveal-about-you/ https://www.personality-and-aptitude-caree… | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Bad news: Didn't get the number. Good new: I had the balls to approach.lol, ok bud. | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Bad news: Didn't get the number. Good new: I had the balls to approach.Sorry but there's no "guarantee's" IMO OP played it right. Good introduction, back and fourth chatter, then back to each others workouts. No number, but not the end of the world. They'll more than likely continue seeing each other where he can continue to build on what he started. | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 07:35 AM |
| 2 | What I want to do?pls help..!dude, please.... chalk this one up and move on.. you don't want a girl like this I promise. Plenty PLENTY more out there. | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 06:59 AM |
| 1 | I don't have the energy for clubsI'm 29, not sure If i've grown out of this but I'm also over clubs. Few months ago last time I went to one and ended up leaving super early. I'm not sure how I used to even do it, can't talk or initiate any kind of conversation. I'd honestly rather stay home then go to a club at this point and I used to always go. If you're talking alternative for a night scene I'd recommend breweries, I'm more into a laid back vibe now with friends and maybe some local music. I'm a huge fan of some of the brewe… | /r/seduction | 27/10/18 09:36 AM |
| 2 | Have times changed or is it just me?07' here. times have 100% changed it's not just you. | /r/seduction | 30/05/18 05:15 AM |
| 1 | How good looking do you need to be to get consistent matches on tinder these days?whatever it is your struggling with. creating a profile and swiping then sitting back waiting for matches is IMO the easy way. the feeling you have when you see an attractive person and approach them, conversation goes well and you get a number, have a date then eventually seal the deal is just way more satisfying. Approaching anyone for that regard, males too which could lead to a friendship, just something about the pure interaction from start to finish that's much more organic ya know? | /r/seduction | 14/04/18 05:50 AM |
| 1 | How good looking do you need to be to get consistent matches on tinder these days?yes. iphone. | /r/seduction | 14/04/18 05:48 AM |
| 13 | How good looking do you need to be to get consistent matches on tinder these days?I recently bought a cheap tripod (20 bucks) with a wireless remote for A) take pictures that don’t look like selfies and B) take time lapse videos for sunsets. Updated my pictures on profile and added small filter changes to give pictures more of a “professional” look. It didn’t take long and it was easy, started getting matches within days after the change, before that I had 1. My point is, I’m not sure what your profile looks like, but just like yourself put some effort into it. With all that … | /r/seduction | 13/04/18 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Models by Mark Manson - What is Neediness?thank you for this reply | /r/seduction | 08/04/18 03:41 AM |
| 2 | How much does age matter? Late 20sI’ll be 29 next week, 28 was my best year to date in terms of engagement and success with woman ages 20-27. Many other factors besides age that play a bigger part, I wouldn’t let that get into your head amigo. Have fun out there! | /r/seduction | 04/04/18 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Failed today on a girl who was a 9-10. Advice to do betteridk why but i got a laugh at some of your post...in a good way. like others said, sounds like you were both comfortable throughout your interaction together, either another date or 2 to make things happen. remember good things can happen quickly, great things can take time. out of curiosity how old are you OP, do you live in the dorms on campus? | /r/seduction | 04/04/18 04:30 AM |
| 3 | I want to hookup with my roommate.I have experience with this, also in my early 20's and I say it depends on the people. You know yourself and your roommate better than anyone on the internet. My experience with this worked out fine, we were friends for a couple years before we got a place with another person, after this we spent more time together (obviously living together) and started this sexual connection. it started out as flirting, then watching movies/tv together in her room or mine, then inevitably to sex. We never star… | /r/seduction | 07/02/18 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Looking for a pua partner in the socal area. Let's learn together.I'm in san diego... | /r/seduction | 20/06/17 07:20 AM |
| 2 | The downside with being attractiveuh, yeah this is all wrong. | /r/seduction | 29/04/17 10:23 PM |
| 2 | If you're an American that went to a college loaded with hot girls, will any environment rival that kind of setting once you get older?I'm 26 at a community college in san diego...it's a beach community college, tons of hot chicks. I went from working a full time job (career) to giving it up and getting back in school. From my experience, I couldn't think of any other instance where there would be so many good looking girls. Most are younger, but from my experience the younger girls are less likely to get clingy. I did party a few times up in isla vista when i was 21-23. So I guess my answer is no, there isn't another environme… | /r/seduction | 13/09/15 08:42 AM |
| 1 | 26 years old and after years of reading, have never been able to beat approach anxietyI know baby steps have been mentioned here, I would suggest to start with mark's "ask 25 attractive girls a day for the time" or any other very simple question... I've been doing this, and have yet to get a single weird look, or odd reaction. It will help get you more comfortable with the initial approach, without feeling like you need to start or keep a conversation going. Do this until you're completely comfortable then start to add to it...after they give you the time " thanks, and how's your… | /r/seduction | 03/09/15 05:12 PM |
| 2 | What does everyone think about pursuing girls at your jobs?I've been wondering this same question, gone on a few dates with this girl from my work, ended up kissing her a few nights ago at the end of this party. We don't talk about this stuff at work though, I'm not sure where it's leading too (or if it's leading anywhere) but I only work there part time, school is my main focus. If it were a full time career, I would probably have different feelings about it. | /r/seduction | 30/08/15 05:20 PM |
| 2 | [FR] College campuses are daygame heaven + tipscan confirm...2nd day of new semester yesterday, was like walkingaround in heaven. My question is, is there any given rule on dating within the classroom? We got put into groups yesterday, already was vibing with this girl, so walked to her car yesterday after class had some great conversation (it's psychology class). Just curious since we'll be in the same class for a few months | /r/seduction | 27/08/15 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Seduction without alcohol?I attended meetings for a year, can confirm. Most are pretty crazy, that said, I was too when I first got into the program. Girls of AA are like a crowded parking lot, they are either taken or handicap. | /r/seduction | 11/08/15 05:39 PM |
| 1 | So we need to start dressing better...where do you guys do your shopping?wow, thanks for the detailed reply. I will check this out! | /r/seduction | 11/08/15 05:32 PM |
| 1 | So we need to start dressing better...where do you guys do your shopping?Thanks! Yeah, i'm just trying to change the way I dress to make it appear as though I actually give a shit about myself. | /r/seduction | 28/07/15 03:46 AM |
| 1 | So we need to start dressing better...where do you guys do your shopping?Cool, local mall not far I'll try Macy's and maybe Nordstrom | /r/seduction | 27/07/15 03:08 PM |
| 1 | So we need to start dressing better...where do you guys do your shopping?I'll check them out, thanks! | /r/seduction | 27/07/15 03:08 PM |
| 1 | So we need to start dressing better...where do you guys do your shopping?cool, I used to stop by Ross frequently, I'll start checking back in, always seemed to be a hit or miss on what they have. | /r/seduction | 27/07/15 05:00 AM |
| 1 | So we need to start dressing better...where do you guys do your shopping?26, thanks i'll check it out! | /r/seduction | 27/07/15 04:59 AM |
| 2 | How to party without drinking/very little drinking?If you want to not think to much about drinking or not drinking, you can simply walk around with a cup filled with either water, or juice. Nobody is going to know what the difference is, and you can focus more on your game rather than stressing about what people are going to think of you not drinking. | /r/seduction | 30/06/15 07:22 PM |
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