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SEEKING ADVICEdangermommi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 10:52 PM
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it’s truly terrifying. i know firsthand, as my job is to prevent this. I work for an organization that combats CP and online sexual abuse, including self-generated CP (nudes) and online grooming. if you or anyone who has kids needs resources for how to talk to your kids about online grooming early on (kids as young as 9 are being asked for nudes), feel free to PM me. if you have a little sister or brother or daughter between 9-17, I also have resources that directly speak to teens and kids about…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 07:35 AM
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i have 6 best friends and 5 of us are in serious relationships...still we fantasize about this ALLLLL THE TIME. i love the idea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 12:54 AM
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i always tell my single queens who stick around with men that don’t eat them out that there are men out there who will if they just raised the bar. my man is willing to eat me out when i’m on my period for god’s sake. it’s not impossible, they just gotta let these LVMs go!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 04:11 PM
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def hear you. but i think listening to the entire album in entirety softens this claim a bit. “holy terrain” for example is a song i associate with a hvw setting her boundaries re: the kind of man who deserves her. “fallen alien” is an angry ballad about realizing a guy ain’t shit and her finally coming to terms that he doesn’t deserve her. while other songs like “mirrored heart” reek of pickmeisha-ish lyrics, i still think heartbreak is a valid wake up call to awakening your inner FDS-self!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 02:57 AM
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sounds like a total softboi!!! way more dangerous than the “fuckboi”. there are several articles about this type and even an IG page dedicated to funny ass, creepy ass texts from them. @beam_me_up_softboi if you need a good laugh or (or a guide to avoidance)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 07:56 PM
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i’m so sorry that you’re going through this. birth control has adverse side effects, from physical to emotional/mental. please don’t feel the need to sacrifice your health for convenience, not even your own if you’re into condomless sex with boo. i have the nexplanon and am getting it removed next week after 5 years of worsening depression with it. we are social conditioned to carry this burden and it’s BULLSHIT. no more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 10:55 PM
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met the love of my life on hinge, but i also thoroughly and curbed virtually every other man on there. my sister also met her soon-to-be fiancé there. yes, it can be a cesspool but all OLD is, is a tool. i don’t think it’s any different than a bar or places you hang out - there will always be grimy dudes. it’s exhausting but when you get the hang of not focusing on being disappointed long, it becomes a lot easier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 01:18 AM
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i’ve always been thicker than my bfs and they haven’t minded it one bit. and any fool who did, could gtfo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 09:18 PM
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Retweet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 12:45 AM
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thanks for your insight! this is what i’m leaning more towards. he finally gave me head last night but still didn’t want me to reciprocate or escalate into sex. i asked him if he wasn’t ready and he said “it’s more fun when we do things one at a time. your pleasure’s more important than mine.” i can’t help but still feel suspicious, though. but i’m going to take his word for it and carefully see how this goes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 10:36 PM
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thank you so much for laying down the possible scenarios ❤️my first instinct was to lean on the negatives, but it’s not productive to speculate. i think the sooner i bring it up as we get serious, the better both parties will be in the long run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 02:43 AM
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thank you! it was not, thank god. he preys on young women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 02:43 PM
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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 05:20 AM
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queer gal here. can confirm. i will hardcore stare at a girl for her eyes and her hair and her face if she’s pretty but that’s about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 01:26 AM
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receptive but detached. i love that. thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 03:44 PM
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I want to try to make them wonder! what is usually your response if they ask you what you’re looking for?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 12:44 AM
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so glad this is happening. really love what i’ve learned from this sub, but some nuggets of toxic language i think makes it hard to recommend to friends. thank you moderators. i can put my girlfriends on this sub now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 11:36 PM
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maybe there’s a facebook group for it in your city? i’m a part of one in my city, and it’s crazy the amount of people i’ve ran into on OLD apps that have popped up on there. life and energy saver for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 05:27 PM
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Good to know haha! Thanks for the heads up. I was thinking more in the context of people of color (Latinos, Blacks, Asians) but if their families spent generations in the US, there might be little to no difference in their approach to life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 03:36 PM
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Well, shit. Time to date older then. I’m wondering if ethnic background or upbringing differs in these statistics? I’ve found from experience men from immigrant families are so much more mature and hard-working.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 03:22 AM
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Yep. This. It’s not about how much money they actually have either. I’ve been on dates with men who’ve made as much or more than me and they asked we split appetizers (blocked afterwards ofc). My sister once told me hypothetically it’s better to be with a guy who would spend his last $20 to make you happy than a guy who has $200 and is asking you to split a dinner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 12:06 AM
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i don’t have the answer to that! my struggle comes with actually getting women to talk to me longer than a day, as we all know we usually play hard to get. but i’ve found that leaning into their interests and starting the conversation with that is a winning strategy (seems like common sense to us, but i think empathy is actually often overlooked by trying to be too interesting or too funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 03:07 AM
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As a woman who dates both men and women...i’ve been spending more time talking with women for this exact reason. WOMEN ARE FUCKIN AMAZING LET ME TELL YA
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 11:14 PM
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THIS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 11:12 PM
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working on grad school applications! just got promoted to take over new projects at work learning to cook more elaborate meals spending this time being single strengthening my friendships with my dope ass lady squad! writing more poetry and music getting help from my mentor on how to stack my money right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 04:25 AM
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this sounds so much like my friend. apparently he’s worth all the abuse because he doesn’t cheat and he eats her cooking...lordddd 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 03:06 PM
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i don’t think it’s healthy to keep such a huge part of your identity hidden from someone you’re considering having a relationship with. while it may thirst up some men and have them fantasizing or sexualizing it, i just see that as an indicator that they’re not the right partner for me. i’ve had previous relationships where this part of my identity wasn’t sexualized at all. in fact, the other extreme i’ve experienced was that my ex was constantly jealous and suspicious of my friendships with wom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 02:29 AM
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