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One thing to consider is that women have better peripheral vision than men, while men have better distance vision. If you are near a woman, she can keep an eye on you even if she's not looking at you. Try doing the same thing from 15 meters away (50 feet). In that situation you have better vision than them. Also, women are right to distrust random men. If they keep averting you even if she knows she can trust you, then you can say there's something wrong with them or with you.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/23 10:40 PM
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It's quite rare for a ONS to migrate to a relationship. It usually starts as a fling, in which there may be sex, but it only happens as long as there is possibility of a relationship coming later. Sex on a third date is not casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:59 PM
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Most women want relationships. If she asks for a relationship and you say no, many women will stop seeing you, even if you have already made sex (or maybe they keep seeing you, but they won't be exclusive).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:39 PM
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I can see some women commenting: "I don't do ONS!"; "I did ONS but it was awful, dating is much better!". Some women obviously do ONS. And when they do, they can aim pretty high in the SMV market, creating the distortions that are actually pretty natural for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:36 PM
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Casual sex is a VERY hypergamic activity. Since an attractive man can get a lot of casual sex if he lowers his standard and some men have no trouble going out with a different woman every week for years, the economy of this activity is very distorted. But while women are gatekeepers of sex and of the first dates, men are gatekeepers of relationships. In relationships, men have about the same power as women (I'm not talking about divorce laws here), so it tends to even out. Offering relationships…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:20 PM
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The red pill, originally, was a reference from the Matrix movie in which you take a pill to see the reality behind the pretty simulation. It mainly focused on the dual female nature (and how to game it), but the original concept is much more vast than that. It's about an objective and honest view of reality. I think neurodivergent people require a completely different set of red pill truths, the regular red pill is tailored for neurotypical guys that are having problems with the simulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 04:14 AM

Yeah, the early stages of dating is a lot of hard work for men. You have to read the signals of someone you barely know, you have to be interesting and put in effort without looking desperate, you have to lead the conversation towards sex with an appropriate pace… That is VERY draining if you don’t have much in common with the other person, but quite easy if you have a lot in common. A movie and coffee is good enough if you have endless things to talk about. But if you have very different tastes…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:04 PM
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Judging from your profile, I think you are being a bit harsh on yourself. If you click with someone, it won't be small imperfections that will stop them. Do something you love and you will give off a better personal energy, if you think that's a problem. Are you in college? It's much easier to find like minded people there.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/23 07:41 PM
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Yeah, it looks great. I'm more into AOW4 now, but I'll check FF16 before ER DLC.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:43 PM
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You bought the cat game, didn't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:14 PM
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When I, or anyone really, talk about human behavior we are talking about statistical behavior. Of course there will be a single guy's house with 50 pillows and a woman that repairs bikes on her garage. They just won't be typical. And there's nothing wrong with spending money on hobbies, just don't go into debt.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:32 PM
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Also modern apartments with a view and anything instagram worthy. Guys can happily live in a shack on the mountains. This feminine instinct can be totally vain, but it can also generate clean and organized environments (I'm not saying that women should do all the cleaning, but they do usually set the standard of what clean and organized is). Males and females do complement one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:15 PM
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Girls like pretty stuff, boys like toys. That goes on to adulthood. Never ask a guy how much he spent on PC parts, guitars, boat, guns (in the US), etc. Guys can spend heavily on their toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 12:33 PM
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Sail the red seas, brother. I've done it as well, but it's not for everyone.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/23 09:45 PM
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Without menstruation or any disease, it's not demeaning at all.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/23 08:23 PM
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A gyno will definitely drop a lot of panties. There just might be some fungus involved. Being funny is sort of a multiplier. If you are reasonably attractive and funny, you absolutely suck the oxygen out of every other guy in the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:36 PM
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Having a doctorate won't drop any panties. Being funny drops panties. Understanding nuance and being able to talk about any subject drops a few panties and some boxers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:18 PM
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It's more common for girls to become jaded in online dating, but it can happen to guys as well. That happens if your expectations are extremely low. On the other hand, having high expectations is a recipe for disaster in OLD. Try to be more forgiving for OLD messages. If he ghosts you on WhatsApp (or whatever you use for personal messages) then it's a different story. Edited
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/23 01:32 PM
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Yeah, the chilness that she's describing is that one you get when you have absolute zero initiative. There's no anxiety if you are not initiating anything.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/23 01:46 PM
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Great post. Loneliness is a risk factor for many things. It's far easier to be depressed or alcoholic if you are lonely. If you don't like team sports like me (I'm clumsy as fuck), I suggest hiking groups or diving. These activities need to be done in a group for safety and they are great for conversation. The top limit to these activities is also pretty insane, you can go as hard as you want. You sure can have friends in other cities, just make sure to travel there frequently. Online contact is…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/23 05:11 PM
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Women usually work with a long list of minimum requirements. You won't date many people if you are missing front teeth, no matter how rich you are. Once all the minimum requirements are met (and height is one of them), then she can entertain the idea that the man's advances are welcome. Resources is certainly one of the requirements, but it usually gets priority after they are 25. If a young guy has a reasonable expectation to be employed (good college, for example), it's good enough for young w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 08:50 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 02:38 PM
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Fuckzoned girls usually get bad sex. They seem to prefer no sex than bad sex. Friendzoned guys also may get a nice friendship with a cool girl, but they are usually treated like trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:08 PM
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All these social commentaries are statistical. Guys are far more friendzoned than girls, girls get fuckzoned more than guys. Of course the reverse might happen. Statistically, it indeed must happen. Your personal experience just happens to align with the less common variant. Like I said, the issue is someone not getting what they want and settling for scraps.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:06 PM
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A simp/slut may stick around, in hopes of changing their mind. But the fuckboy/slut is being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 10:19 PM
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You can be honest about a vague promise. "I don't want a relationship right now, but we can keep seeing each other."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:39 PM
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People may be more dishonest now because the social circles are less interconnected. If you know someone through tinder in a big city, chances are that you don't have any friends in common with that person. The simp/slut may not have the clarity of mind to see what's going on, but if they have friends in common, they have a chance of being told the truth. The fuckboy/princess might also be shamed into behaving better if they have some skin in the game. Would you be friends with someone that is u…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:33 PM
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Fuckzone is the female equivalent of the male friendzone. The issue is not about friendship or sex themselves, but how one person gets what they want, right now, while the other gets a vague promise that they might one day get what they want. I usually blame the simp/slut here. The only way out is for them to love and respect themselves enough to not be satisfied with scraps. The fuckboy/princess don't really have a fault if they are honest about the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:05 PM
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I find the best method is how it was done before internet: Get a non nerdy hobby, make friends, invite them to your house, go to their house, meet their friends. By then you should meet 20+ people, all of them with a reasonable expectation that you’re not weird. It’s shooting fish in a barrel then.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:40 PM
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For extreme cases, yeah. I think some women might not like a guy that made an unnecessary surgery, if she finds out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 07:02 PM
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Many different reasonings for an individual go to war: vengeance, money (in the past there were much more wars of conquest), religion... But rape and female slaves were also common.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 06:25 PM
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Yeah, lift for yourself. That's why it's so dumb to use steroids, particularly if you are short. Losing fat is far better if you want to be eye candy for women, though a social life is far more important if you want to meet women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 06:12 PM
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Men used to go to war to get women lol. It's always been like that. Middle aged men usually date younger and it creates unbalance. Even if a 20 year old girl would not date a middle aged guy, 35 year old women will and the market is skewed. It's even worse in polygamic societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 06:07 PM
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Yeah, that's a difference between men and women. Feelings are more important than sex for women. For men, sex is not exactly more important than feelings, they are two different needs that don't overlap as much as they do with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:23 PM
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Excess sleep may be a symptom of depression. Is he actually sleeping or just hiding in the room? Too much alcohol may be the answer, but then he has to drink a lot
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/22 09:06 PM
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Yeah. If women want to know what OLD feels like for a man, create a profile with no pictures, no instagram link, just words. OLD is a failed strategy and unnatural. OLD is very convenient, but I’m ditching it because it simply gives me way worse results than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:57 PM
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It’s a dance. Man is noticed by women, who may allow him (through body language or through third parties) to properly introduce himself to women, who may show further interest or be annoyed by him… Without coercion, women will always have a final say in each interaction, but men have the burden of initiative.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:59 PM
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If you want to seduce a woman with looks alone, yeah you will have to be close to a model. It’s the same if a woman wants to attract a guy on wits alone
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:53 PM
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I don’t know where you live, but in some cultures ( like slavics) smiling is a very private thing. As to whether being warm and friendly is appropriate or not, it all comes down to context. If you know the other person, warmth is forgivable even if you’re in a romantic date. Just introduce the guy you’re with. But a random drunken dude in a party should be at most acknowledged if you are with someone.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 03:06 AM
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Man here and I have zero control and jealousy issues. But some women flirt with other men without noticing, like using girly voices automatically. Maybe because she’s just used to doing that to gain more sympathy. Imagine a man complementing the appearance of a waitress while you’re by his side and you get the idea. If you are not actively flirting with other guys, he’s insecure. It also helps if you clearly signal to others that you’re with him, I wouldn’t mind a girl talking for an hour with a…
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/22 05:04 PM
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The idea is to find a non nerd hobby that you actually like. It may take a while, but it’s worth it. There are a lot of stealth nerdy girls… any girl that reads good stuff like philosophy, or that works with science, or that has a weird hobby I would call nerdy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 02:47 AM
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I think it will be easier to bring a nerdy girl into your hobbies than trying to meet one through nerd hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 12:49 AM
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Well, just walk out of the relationship in that case. Staying in an unfulfilling relationship is the best example of scarcity mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:43 PM
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As usual in relationships, it’s all about how it is framed. If he’s too eager for a relationship, it will be off. If he’s open to the idea of a relationship, without pushing it, women will probably see it as a bonus. There are objective reasons for a guy to prefer relationships, even from the perspective of sex. 1-way more frequent sex, though it will be with the same woman 2- you get to know each other and can do more kinky stuff 3- sober sex. And of course relationships are fun in themselves i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 02:19 PM
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That’s an unusual cupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 08:51 PM
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Don’t get in a car with stranger ( hi uber) Don’t believe what you read on the internet Russia and China are reasonable now, maybe we should travel there Don’t put personal information on the internet ( it’s still true though)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:59 PM
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Look, when a man strikes a conversation with a woman and asks her to go to a bar, she knows what’s going on. It’s not necessary to “lie”. When a girl refuses to go to his apartment alone after going out for two weeks, she also knows what she’s doing. It’s fair game for the guy to play the dread game, unless they are both teenagers. Women understand this game better than men and there’s no need to be explicit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:22 PM
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If two people are having a negotiation with no strings attached (eg a tourist buying something before he takes a plane), neither party has any motive for playing fair if they can get away from it. The buyer can pay with fake money and get away, for example. That’s why women like to meet guys from an established social circle. If he lies, his reputation is on the line. If you want nsa sex with some girl from your social circle, you better be upfront about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:28 AM
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The analogy of casual sex with heroin is better than you imagine
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 06:59 PM
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If you are not going to offer stability and comfort, you better have other good things going on. And some women will always be out of reach, but not all. From my experience, psychopaths can get women even when they are neck deep in debt
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 05:23 PM
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Damn man I hope you find other meaningful things to pursue besides women. Women hate when they are the end goal of a man. ​ And I hope you find someone that will love you regardless of money and upbringing.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/22 05:17 PM
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Great post. I think you are being precipitated when you say that hypergamy doesn't exist, but I do believe that some of the relationships that girls cultivate are a sort of rehearsal for the real thing. If it's only a rehearsal, it's okay to be overly dramatic and push boundaries. It makes a lot of sense. And men do the same thing, but not for romantic relationships. Boys role-play hierarchical relationships, in which the hierarchy is based on experience and aptitude. And through that, boys lear…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/22 05:04 PM
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That’s what fathers (and mothers) used to do. People would live in smaller towns and marry much younger as well, so parental guidance wouldn’t be so awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 02:02 PM
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In other news, attractive and high status people can use false promises to trick low status people into their own wicked schemes. The difference between the male and female dual mating strategies is how the female strategy is much more obfuscated. The AFBB strategy is also about how the BB might raise the AF kid unaware, and that's why it has a much larger cultural impact, though with modern technology this risk is diminished.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 12:15 AM
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You wouldn't know your brothers if they were not your brothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 04:12 PM
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Being a dominant man is more than being a cis het male. You will find 70-80% dominant men in an environment that filters for dominancy, like politics. You won't find that 70% of dentists are dominant.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:43 PM
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I remember some statistics that about one third of men are more submissive, one third is dominant and one third is in between. ​ Answering your question: If you think about men as a whole, no, there are a lot of men that don't like dominant women. Dominant men will be puzzled by dominant women, but they won't be attracted. BUT, the number of men that apreciate dominant women is far greater than the number of dominant women. It's an easy dating scene, if the woman likes more submissive men. The p…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:00 PM
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Only other women will see female sexual aggresion as disgusting, as they see it as unfair competition. Men may find the woman herself disgusting, not her sexual initiative.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:16 PM
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Dominant in some aspect. You can still be bubbly and submissive in other aspects
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 03:34 PM
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There are more submissive men than dominant women. It's a very bad dating market for submissive men. You need to offer something in order to compete and you can't expect them to fix your life. Put yourself in their position, would you date yourself if you wearing their shoes? But what you offer must be something true of you. It's more than money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 03:17 PM
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You’ve described what you want, and there’s no problem with that. The question is what you’re offering in return. You really should see what dominant women want, you can’t be weak and receiving in every aspect of the relationship. As some comments have said, dominant women often want even more dominant men, but you don’t have to completely change yourself. You need to have some aspects in your life in which you call the shots, in order to be respected.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:40 PM
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The whole plot of matrix resurrections is that neo is having a psychotic breakdown. Simping is just a part of his delusional fantasy and I think the movie can be seen as very cynical of neo's lofty goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 12:30 PM
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Gaining muscle also hugely improves your confidence and your energy levels and that's very attractive. Sex is also much more fun if you can lift your partner lol Meatheads have justifiably a bad connotation in many womens' minds, but it's not like you get like that by accident. You won't regret lifting weights.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:15 PM
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Red Pill for long term monogamous relationships has many differences from the Red Pill for ONSs, and one won't work well in the shoes of the other. A main goal of Monogamous RP is child rearing, for example. Negging might work for ONS, but it is awful in LTR. And if he's immature, no amount of red or blue pill can fix that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 08:35 PM
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Our ancestors did not sacrifice for the ungrateful. Screw that. Communities were tight knitted and genetically homogenous. If men were not sacrificing for their direct descendants, they were at least doing it for their nephews and for people they would have known their entire life. They were sacrificing for ideals that, untrue as they may be, were around and prevalent for centuries. Self sacrifice demands a purpose. You can't take that out of the equation. Women understand that only after they h…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/20 01:54 AM
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It's called the oldest profession in the world for a reason. That choice has been on the table of every woman since the dawn of time, specially if you consider loveless marriages into higher status as a form of prostitution. With modern medicine, that job is safer than ever, but unless you are derelict the psychological burden is greater than the financial benefit. You may sell your time and energy, but don't sell your soul. There are many shades of gray here, don't start at the far end
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 04:52 PM
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Sure. I'm really glad you get treatment
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 03:12 PM
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The same way bpd men, though toxic,don't have many issues finding women to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 02:37 PM
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"Neurotypical women" is a harmless expression that sounds so much offensive. Something an angry incel would say. "You neurotypical c*unt!"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 02:33 PM
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Sure. I am just starting in the rabbit hole
/r/TheRedPill08/02/20 04:16 AM
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A comment on jogging: I have a small length difference on my left leg, which had not really bothered me during my entire life, but it caused an annoying pain on my right knee that made me stop jogging (I didn't know the cause at the time) Now that I have fixed it with an imsole, running feels great again! Also my posture is better. Forcing your body to its limit does create an opportunity for you to optimize it.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/20 02:52 AM
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I think it's best to see those societies as having this hierarchy: alpha men, beta men, alpha women (more beautiful, rich or smart ones), rest of women, rest of men. Most men were in the rest pie, ie working on land owned by some alpha, starving or dying in battle. Most of these men would not reproduce.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/19 10:46 PM
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Vagina brain is a nice name for the female Id, the impulsive part of her brain. It does respond well to kino and alcohol. But the head brain doesn't necessarily have to be out of the party, it's just harder to engage it. How do you appeal to her headbrain? You do it by creating Social Proof (the female head brain likes status) and by making her imagination work for you.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/19 06:05 PM
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" I don't intend to die old in a bed." Be careful with that kind of thought. You can still have a lot of fun at 50 or 60 if you don't fuck with your health now. I live in Rio. Another aspect of night clubs is how damn fun they are if you are in a group. It's the best place to drink a beer with a friend, even if you don't want to pay girls. The raw environment is great for brutally honest conversations and dark humour. The girls you'll meet are faking, of course, but you can see the interaction a…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/19 05:00 PM
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And a far smaller chance of blackmail through pregnancy, or the threat of the girl nuking your marriage.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/19 04:45 PM
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It may be for many reasons. It could be a experiment in social engineering, or maybe it was something latent in german culture. I don't know GDR very well to say. But a good sex ed, or any sexual liberation, is certainly not a necessary feature in a communist regime. Mao's China was very repressive in that regard, as it was seen as a bourgeois deviation.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/18 02:46 AM
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Making a girl orgasm isn't something intuitive for most guys, but it is not rocket science either. I can see better sex ed being responsible for the difference, supposing the data is true.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/18 09:43 PM
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You may need social proof as well then. True power, instead of gimmicks. Check Putin's height to see what I mean.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 04:22 PM
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It seems he is an introvert and you're an extrovert. For an introvert, to have an interaction with another person is an effort, it drains them. That energy is a precious resource and introverts hate to spend it on chit chat. Try to have some project or plan to talk with him, something to engage him. Introverts improve as they age. That social energy increases with the decades. But on the mean time, try to lure him out of his shell with something interesting. Alcohol and physical touch are cheat …
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/18 10:32 PM
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That's because the children of the guy are usually with their mother. It's rare for a single guy to have children living with him, maybe for widowers
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/18 02:56 PM
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Or she can find a guy that already has kids. But it does happen that she gets pregnant again and the guy leaves again...
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/18 01:49 PM
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Yeah, many of the aggressive feminists have an Animus out of control.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/18 05:46 AM
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Oh sure, an extended family won't be much of a help for a SM trying to find a partner. That hole goes deeper. I think an extended family is great in preventing a woman to be a SM in the first place: a girl can't bring the drug dealer thug to Christmas.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/18 05:28 AM
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Sexbots should diminish the need for prostitution. That technology is weird now, but it walks only forward. With birth control and the LV men opting out, the bigger problem here is population shrinking. Some countries are already giving great incentives for families. I feel the solution to all this shit is in extended families. Not only to help the single mothers, but I think a extended family creates a safer psychological environment for women, so they may have the peace of mind to search for a…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/18 03:51 AM
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Let's think on the population as a whole: how is it possible for every woman to achieve hypergamy, to mate with men of a higher status than her? It is by exclusion of the lower status men, and the higher status men mating with several women. There is no other way. It may be through polygamy, in which a high status man marries a new wife every 5-10 years but he keeps the old ones, or through serial monogamy, in which the older wives are discarded. This abandonment of the old family was deadly in …
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/18 10:34 PM
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If a woman wants to motivate her man, she should not nag or shame, and definitely not insult. She should instead celebrate any small step in the right direction, and shut up otherwise. It's basic pavlovian conditioning. She should do positive associations, connecting evolution with pleasure. It works. Negative association, which is connecting bad behavior with punishment, works just as well. But it has the nasty consequence of (in his mind) associating bad feelings with her presence and (in her …
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 09:59 PM
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My suggestion is to move the boys to martial arts. There are plenty of dojos with traditional japanese and chinese values and some organize summer camps. MMA is less traditional, but many teachers still follow japanese values. Many dojos are pretty independent from one another (except for competitions), so if you are not happy at one place, you can go to another. This independence also prevents top-down inclusiveness BS.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 04:59 PM
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With practice, it becomes easier to play chess with every interaction. It's the "unconcious competence" phase that was posted here some days ago.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 05:45 PM
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It's a copypasta, ignore the original commentary. But Dostoiveski is such a rich source that the "clean your room" phrase does have a use. In "Crime and Punishment", the protagonist is a nihilistic blue pilled that lives alone in a filthy and depressing room. His room reflects the state of his mind.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 05:22 PM
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Money opens the legs, but it doesn't make her pussy wet.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 07:57 PM
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I'm not advocating for men to not marry. I just want to give a clear insight in what the data is telling us, and that it is wrong to deduce that men will earn much more if they marry. You marry the man that you date. I myself think that "the profit" for men in marriage is that that they can find someone much more responsible, commited and sane if they offer marriage. I don't think many cohabiting women make lunch for their husband.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/17 08:15 PM
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The aei document says that there is a correlation between marriage and earnings for men (married men earn more), but this does not mean that there is a causation link. Married men do work more and more responsibly, but the inverse is also true: to work hard causes marriage, ie the hard working men are "marriage material" and are more targeted by women that want to marry. I know very few unmarried high achievers. The female marriage personal income penalty seems due to having kids.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/17 07:25 PM
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Some guys are more afraid of marriage (divorce rape) than having kids. What is his family's experience concerning marriage? Are his parents still together? Maybe he has some very specific issues with marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/17 08:16 PM
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Ok, ty
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/17 08:17 PM
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Give them a reason to accept you. Get your foot on the door somehow, by being generous for example (but not too much or they will see you as a beta working horse). Then do something intriguing that will get their attention and memory. You can control the narrative of your group dynamic.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 12:34 PM
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To learn to respect yourself, write down whatever objective reasons you have that are truely valuable. Writing things down has a profound effect. It seems that it becomes more "real", and the parts of your brain that were denying it are suddenly convinced. To write negative thoughts, and why they untrue/unhelpful, is also beneficial. Writing your thoughts is important to change your frame/perspective, because self esteem is mostly a perspective issue. You don't have to show your writings to anyo…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/17 09:00 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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