| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 17 | CMV: neurodivergent/guys on the spectrum should seek partners on the spectrumYep we are fucked and not I the good way homie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 12:09 AM |
| 0 | Men can't cold approach, but they can't ask out their female friends either. What options are we left with?Eh I'd say more common but I wouldn't say uncommon for men to do the same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Men can't cold approach, but they can't ask out their female friends either. What options are we left with?Breakups. “I’m your gf why do you want to hang out with guy friends??” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 09:30 PM |
| 2 | Where have all the good men gone?low T due im curious how this came to be about and what if anything you've done to counteract it? (also have a similar injury probably) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 03:23 AM |
| 5 | Where have all the good men gone?white collar these days (left bluecollar becuase I fucked up my spine too badly) 25 and make 72K / year right now...Im a fucking ghost lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 02:49 AM |
| 6 | Dating apps have caused the destruction of actual, meaningful loveThey're definitely not nice and why i don't associate with them anymore but they're easy enough to see online | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 10:10 PM |
| 9 | Dating apps have caused the destruction of actual, meaningful loveNone of us are recording or calling the cops over a polite gentleman lmao I know several males that can prove otherwise on this. you might be a good person but there are a lot of people who flat out aren't (goes both ways obviously lol) you're right I glossed over the "potential" note so my bad and sorry about that one. TBF you're cautious around men you don't know which Id say is smart. I was extremely cautious around women for the longest time. I will note one thing a lot of people forget (and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 08:41 PM |
| 3 | Dating apps have caused the destruction of actual, meaningful loveWhy do I feel this discussion would be radically different if a man was complaining? Because it would be the complete opposite. As it is its a pleasant discussion bordering on "Oh its not you its them" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 08:36 PM |
| 11 | Dating apps have caused the destruction of actual, meaningful loveI assume every single man is a potential danger This is also another reason we don't do cold approaches. What do we face when cold approaching? hella rejection, ridicule, getting posted up on social media for others to laugh at, the risk of being "MeToo'd"... A lot of us guys have gotten the message loud and clear to stay far away from women. I'm glad I met my SO when I did because I don't think id personally be able to deal with this new set of "dating standards" (I don't disagree at all that a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 08:34 PM |
| 4 | Many women would probably be struggling with dating if they were menFormer mechanic now stem (CS) 6'1" and fairly leaned/toned. I have surfer vibes I'm told and dating still sucks Your brother is pretty fucking spot on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 12:20 AM |
| 2 | Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex?Always interesting to see someone who is similar to me and my sister. Im 24 nd my sister is 31 and we have an amazing sibling relationship. She comes to me for things about her husband she wants to improve on and I go to her about things I want to improve on for my GF. The ironic part is I dealt with the same thing as your brother for a bit through highschool...I was always told I was "conventionally" attractive as a guy (6'1 good hair but acne but a decent physique due to being a heavily active… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 03:20 PM |
| 7 | Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex?I completely forgot about myself being in sales and a top salesman for two years and realizing the tactics used in sales massively help with dating and learning about people....Damn thanks for making me remember how useful that is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 03:10 PM |
| 8 | Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex?What inspired me to change mysef? My first time being intimate took less than 24 hours for her to cheat on me with her sisters fiance of ~4 years.... after that I became a gym bro for a while and dropped around 50 ish pounds and bulked a bit and settled to go back to school and get physically fit! Got tired of being shafted. now I'm with a lovely woman who I could see myself marrying even if we have our problems we're slowly working through. communication is definitely key. I hit the gym and put… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 02:50 PM |
| 6 | Men struggle with dating and sex. So, what women struggle with?Don't forget the kink/over-sexualization of disabled people....That was a gross one I learned about somewhat recently | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Am I supposed to assume every nice thing a guy does for me is to get in my pants? It feels wrongYou go off of how other. Men act to women they're not intimate with. Ive rebuilt and done work on cads for friends I have no feelings other than platonic for. Every guy is different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Serious question: Body hair?Male here. In my experience hairy isn't an issue. Being unkempt or unclean is..... I started seriously redoing my hair every where. Better lines better fades better looks and I got more attention and compliments on it. A good hair cut and beard can definitely. Help E. My so agrees with this as well. And I'm. Borderline a wookie | /r/askFDS | 07/04/20 07:02 PM |
| 2 | How are teenagers able to get laid and find relationships so easily!That's useful info. Thank you! :) | /r/seduction | 18/03/20 09:45 AM |
| 2 | How are teenagers able to get laid and find relationships so easily!fair enough. do you legit just go "that person looks cute. imma introduce myself and compliment them" ? seems easy enough but hard to not be awkard. I applaud you guys for getting to that level. I'm still working on that... | /r/seduction | 18/03/20 01:52 AM |
| 1 | How are teenagers able to get laid and find relationships so easily!Any tips for where you approach? Bar and hobby activities I presume? | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Are men just not that attractive?I used to rock a buzzcut damn near for ten years. Finally put down the clippers and let it grow out to 4" I get more compliments but that doesn't change what women think about men date wise ime. If you're a 6.even with good hair you're still a 6 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/20 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Men aren’t less shallow than women; they’re just hornier.thats fair. I never followed his personal life other than him being a bit nutty lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Men aren’t less shallow than women; they’re just hornier.Isn't the latest person Depp was with a abusive lying person who later admitted she did it to one up him or whatever? Also this sub has always confused me with how strong the decide is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 04:34 PM |
| 2 | how to flirt with shy guy updatethats awesome! :) my last LTR she responded positively to just going for it. but my current one she does not. everyone is different! feel things out and later talk them out with your guy. good luck to you and hope you two have many fun nights :) | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 11:25 PM |
| 7 | how to flirt with shy guy updateBe very careful about that. While some shy guys would be ecstatic over it. Others would flip. Communicate and feel out his response and vibe before/while doing it. | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 09:36 PM |
| 22 | Self-help notesA week ago I started going to sleep around the same time. 930-1030 and waking up at 720 daily. It's mind blowing how much better I feel. And at least twice a week going out for a walk in the woods or state park... It's nice to! | /r/seduction | 10/07/19 08:21 PM |
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