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| 3 | Emotionaly ConfusedSame happened to me after 16 years. Heartless beings out there. It doesn't reflect on your worth, just their selfishness. You will be fucked up for a while, like a year or two but you'll find happiness in yourself again. You aren't alone, keep standing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/08/26 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Wife told me she wasn’t in love with me and wanted a divorce end of march. I moved out 3 weeks ago. Tonight she cried and asked me to move back inThat is beyond brutal, sorry you went through this, no one deserves that, hope you have friends and family not related to her at all to support you | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/26 11:31 AM |
| 1 | My (30m) wife (35f) has told me she’s moving out next month, after 12 years married. Canada.Yes honestly it is this, makes no sense otherwise | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/04/26 01:52 AM |
| 2 | CPTSD/PMDD divorce?That's one of the key traits of people with cluster b personality disorders. They think all their problems are due to other people's behaviour, not their own. People with bpd struggle immensely with emotional regulation so they often use other people to regulate their emotions. That's probably the unconditional support you refer to. I was with my ex who had BPD for 16 years, it was a living nightmare, a roller coaster of highs and lows, of never being enough and always being made the villain. I … | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/03/26 03:17 PM |
| 3 | CPTSD/PMDD divorce?Sounds like BPD rather than CPTSD, might want to look into it. If it is, it is a very serious and difficult disorder to treat and would explain everything you've been going through. Most relationships like this don't last unless they take accountability and work on themselves. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/03/26 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Update - I’ve posted here a couple of times about my situation. I’m 7-8 months into this thing and wanted to provide you all with another update.Odds are terrible for affairs being long term, once the honeymoon period dies, she will be hit with the grief of your 16 year relationship ending. Will be pretty hard for her to maintain the happy facade at that point. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/26 02:59 AM |
| 1 | I can’t cope with the loss of the time and the guilt that it’s somehow all my fault even though obviously I didn’t deserve thisCheaters are cowards and they live in shame, glad you didn't join that club, better to be betrayed than be the betrayer. It sucks right now but it will get better, do some journaling, vent out your anger and keep active. My wife also cheated and is with her new boyfriend, fuck her and fuck him but I am no cuck, they are dead to me, I will rebuild myself from scratch and be reborn a new. Fuck it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/02/26 02:12 PM |
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