| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 336 | A lot of the toxicity around pill spheres has to do with missing out on young love and stunted social development as a result | CMV | danielwastaken | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 09:55 PM |
| 50 | CMV: Contrary to what most on here believe, it seems much harder for men to get a long-term relationship than to hook-up. | CMV | danielwastaken | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 11:16 PM |
| 23 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average man | Debate | danielwastaken | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 02:11 PM |
| 15 | Inexperience in older men is a disadvantage, not a death sentence | Debate | danielwastaken | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 04:31 PM |
| 3 | CMV: It's better for men to show less affection to their partner | CMV | danielwastaken | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/19 04:12 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Virtually all men will eventually get sex/relationships, it's just happening later than it used to | CMV | danielwastaken | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 10:08 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manYou seem angry about something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 04:17 AM |
| 1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manMy definition of cold approaching is trying to meet strangers regardless of the setting, that's what my advice is based on. The men who aren’t social creature and who stake out public spaces pretending to be gregarious and outgoing are the real monsters who ultimately pushed women away from chatting with strange men. I don't support this behavior- it's a shame that some men do this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 03:54 AM |
| 1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manChasing a woman around a store until no one else is around, stalking and laying in wait at the women’s restroom, staring, watching, following, and studying a woman until you are certain she is alone is fucking predatory and creepy behavior and absolutely the reason cold approachers get 99 rejections for one phone number. Yeah that is very creepy behavior. The approach I'm talking about means approaching at social spaces instead of stalking women at stores and bathrooms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 03:31 AM |
| 1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manYou can hop over to the seduction sub and skim the posts for five minutes? I did, I see people talking about both their wins and their rejections- nothing about 99 rejections for 1 phone number. I even see a post about how you should be friends with women, very wholesome. Sure. Did you go up to a woman while she was standing with her friends or near a man/men? Or did you stare at her, study her, stalk her, and waylay her when no one else was around? Be honest, please, because it’s super duper ea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 03:07 AM |
| 1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manThe seduction and regional PUA groups and grifters admit freely that the odds are one phone number for 99 rejections Can you be more specific about who is saying this? Maybe name some names. Which turns cold approachers into pests, which results in those odds. Vicious cycle for thirty-forty years which sure makes it look like men just enjoy annoying and bullying women instead of actually desiring a connection. Can you explain how going up to a woman at the club and telling her you like her shirt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 02:54 AM |
| 1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manYes, you are both at an event so already have something in common, it is also a social space where people want to socialise with strangers (mostly). I said as much in the original post. Approaching at social spaces will get you the best results. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 01:05 AM |
| 1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manObvipusly nkt, that's that's there's a pink 'female' flair next to my make lol Oh, so you haven't experienced it yourself. That's interesting that you spoke on it with such certainty then. I've read it from cold approach forums. That was a while ago, the odds are waaay lower nowadays with OLD and the rise of anti socialness. r/seduction seems to say similarly. (Although it's hard to tell what they look like) Sounds like selection bias to me. I've also seen men on those forums who have had a lot … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 10:32 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manAre you speaking from experience as a man who's cold approached women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 07:18 PM |
| 2 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manWhen they say low they mean 5-10 percent. That's pretty good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 06:42 PM |
| 3 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manSays who? The men who fail at it or the ones who never approach? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 05:48 PM |
| 0 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manThe reason for approaching shouldn't be a sales pitch, it's obvious that you're coming up to a woman because she's attractive. You come up with a line because if you just say "I approached you because I thought you were hot" you look socially unaware. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 05:48 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manAll sex and relationships are based on sexual attraction, that's not something special to cold approaching. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 05:36 PM |
| -1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manDo you get shot in the head if a woman turns you down? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 04:46 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manPeople do benefit, the men who succeed benefit by getting dates/hookups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 04:45 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manThat's so obvious it doesn't need to be said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 03:36 PM |
| 0 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manCold approaching lets you start a conversation with whoever you might be interested in. It's best to do this at a bar/club or otherwise appropriate settings, but you can also work on starting conversations with people anywhere without necessarily trying to pick them up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 03:28 PM |
| -1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manDid you read my entire post? That's what I'm advising people to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 03:21 PM |
| 0 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manIf you're happy with your life then there's no need to change it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 03:16 PM |
| -1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manI'm saying it's best if you approach without romantic intention in public and approach with romantic intention at appropriate places. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 03:15 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manYes, that's what it means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 03:10 PM |
| 0 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manMany women do want to be approached at these places. Are you going to ignore what they want? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 03:01 PM |
| -1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manWhy do you care about what a handful of people are saying online? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 03:00 PM |
| 0 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manYou should talk to strangers at random places like stores and parks and cold approach at social areas like clubs and bars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 02:59 PM |
| 0 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manI don't think you should focus on it exclusively but it still works in 2025 (speaking from experience). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 02:28 PM |
| 0 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average man“Do not pray for an easy life, pray for the strength to endure a difficult one.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 02:27 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manI agree, but it's worth it to talk to people in public to get over approach anxiety. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.Precisely why PUAs fail 99% of the time This is not true from my experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls make the biggest deal about getting approached/hit on, even when done respectfully by a guy they find attractive?I think anywhere is a strong word, but I would tell most men cold approach is entirely unwelcome in the overwhelming majority of scenarios. This is just not true, and it's clear you're presenting your opinion as the truth to further your agenda | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadprisoner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 04:06 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathread21 is so young though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI agree, although it will probably be tougher past a certain point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWere you a virgin as well? How was it having your first relationship at that age | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 05:40 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDo you think it's over for yourself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat's special about 23? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 05:39 AM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIs 24 too late for a virgin man to have a normal romantic/sexual life? Actually asking for a friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 05:19 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEveryone has to settle, settling at 21 is much better than settling at 35 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 05:30 AM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHaving a porn addiction made me miss out on teen love- becoming too desensitized to sex made me ignore women and passed up on a lot of great and beautiful girls I could have gone out with. Guys 21 and below, do yourself a favor and stop watching porn. The you from 5 years from now will thank you for it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe parent has the right to do whatever is necessary for their own mental health, whether that means cutting them off or otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's the correct terminology to refer to an illegitimate child. You can still care for them, just not as your own flesh and blood, which they are not. That makes a big difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat sucks for the child, doesn't mean it's the man's responsibility to care for someone else's bastard. Also yes if someone lies about you in the sense that they were covering up your true identity you should be treated differently according to what you really are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 04:19 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMr rice president the president has been poisoned | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 04:07 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLeaving the child is not treating them badly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 04:05 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat's your secret, tell me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 02:46 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI guess I died at 18 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 02:46 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCan't make friends with work people if they're all 20 years older than you, and after a year of graduating most people move away from each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 02:46 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHarder to have a social life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 02:23 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDoes life end at 22(graduating college) or 30(hitting the wall)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 02:07 PM |
| 6 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe child is part of the ex's lie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 02:07 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis is usually only true for women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 05:04 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGetting insulted by a child is the worst- if you do nothing you're a bitch for getting roasted by a child and if you fight him you get labeled as "violent" and "crazy" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMaybe if you're into bowling balls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Inexperience in older men is a disadvantage, not a death sentenceI want to read that study because I've seen a few showing that the percentage of virgins still goes down significantly from 25-30. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Inexperience in older men is a disadvantage, not a death sentencesource? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 11:39 AM |
| 0 | Inexperience in older men is a disadvantage, not a death sentenceYou're right, they don't need saving, but I'm not trying to save anyone. You missed the point which is that people with those traits just need to get out of their own heads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 09:51 AM |
| 0 | Inexperience in older men is a disadvantage, not a death sentenceYou do, because you seem to have a problem with not being "saved" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 09:36 AM |
| -5 | Inexperience in older men is a disadvantage, not a death sentenceHe can take steps to make it so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 02:00 AM |
| 0 | Inexperience in older men is a disadvantage, not a death sentenceIf there were women who were interested before then there will be women who will be interested in the future. I was referring to the "hadn't noticed" part of what you said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 01:55 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadA 5'1 250 pound woman who cheats on you is always trash | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 01:47 AM |
| 0 | Inexperience in older men is a disadvantage, not a death sentenceIf you are unattractive and inexperienced then you should work on not being unattractive. This is a sizable minority of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 01:46 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadToo many guys are settling for absolute garbage these days when they could be doing so much better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Inexperience in older men is a disadvantage, not a death sentenceYes, but it needs to be done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Inexperience in older men is a disadvantage, not a death sentenceWhy do you think that you won't find love and sex when you literally said there were girls interested in you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 11:36 PM |
| -1 | Inexperience in older men is a disadvantage, not a death sentenceAnd? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 11:33 PM |
| 0 | Inexperience in older men is a disadvantage, not a death sentenceWhy is that a tiny fragment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 11:33 PM |
| -3 | Inexperience in older men is a disadvantage, not a death sentenceThat's what I'm saying, just be confident. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Inexperience in older men is a disadvantage, not a death sentenceWhy do you expect someone else to save you if you're ugly and socially anxious? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 11:32 PM |
| -1 | Inexperience in older men is a disadvantage, not a death sentenceThere are many reasons as to how that can happen. Someone who had a glow up or worked on their social skills after being socially awkward, someone who doesn't have the opportunities to meet women, someone who was previously too busy with work/school to date, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 07:48 PM |
| 3 | Inexperience in older men is a disadvantage, not a death sentenceNot something I would hope for but it'd be great if it did happen. I wouldn't look it as her being a teacher though bc that puts pressure on her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 07:05 PM |
| -2 | Inexperience in older men is a disadvantage, not a death sentenceWhy would they be slim to none? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadApplies to real life too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 06:35 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou must be a happy guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 06:34 PM |
| 7 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe key to men's happiness is to not take anger/hate from women seriously. They're lashing out and it probably has nothing to do with you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 06:25 PM |
| 0 | Inexperience in older men is a disadvantage, not a death sentenceWhy won't they get from point A to B? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 05:49 PM |
| -4 | Inexperience in older men is a disadvantage, not a death sentenceI'm not focusing on those who are ugly or extremely socially anxious because those people will be rejected for being ugly and socially anxious before they can be rejected for virginity. Work on those things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 05:48 PM |
| -1 | Inexperience in older men is a disadvantage, not a death sentenceKeep your chin up, you have no idea why she lost interest. People can be flaky for no reason in particular. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 05:45 PM |
| 0 | Inexperience in older men is a disadvantage, not a death sentenceBeing nervous can be attributed to many different reasons, doesn't mean that it's obvious they're a virgin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 05:43 PM |
| 3 | Inexperience in older men is a disadvantage, not a death sentenceNervous does not mean visibly frightened. Like I said, doesn't mean anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 05:26 PM |
| 4 | Inexperience in older men is a disadvantage, not a death sentenceThere are many reasons as to how that can happen. Someone who had a glow up or worked on their social skills after being socially awkward, someone who doesn't have the opportunities to meet women, someone who was previously too busy with work/school to date, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 05:22 PM |
| 0 | Inexperience in older men is a disadvantage, not a death sentenceThis is true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Inexperience in older men is a disadvantage, not a death sentenceHow would a makeout session make that obvious? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 05:03 PM |
| 0 | Inexperience in older men is a disadvantage, not a death sentencePeople get nervous, doesn't mean anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Inexperience in older men is a disadvantage, not a death sentenceIf you're going to scream at me have the decency to read the post beforehand so you know what you're talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 04:54 PM |
| 0 | Inexperience in older men is a disadvantage, not a death sentenceBefore you sleep with her there is no guaranteed way for a woman to tell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 04:35 PM |
| 19 | (fixed flair) It's easier for women to get laid, but they're much less likely to be satisfied with the experienceNo shit? This is very obvious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat thread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah I see it more as a disadvantage than anything else but there are many ways a man can make up for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 03:58 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThere's been half a dozen threads about inexperienced men having no choice but to date inexperienced women because all women are supposedly repulsed by virgins(not true). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 03:15 PM |
| 6 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe inexperience discourse is getting out of hand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's easier with at least one other person with you but definitely possible to do it alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 02:57 PM |
| 6 | it is insane for inexperienced men to seek inexperienced womenThe best thing for inexperienced older men is to just date in general since they have some catching up to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat kind of events are we talking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm debating getting with a 19 year old but idk if it's a good idea or not (I'm 23). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 02:46 PM |
| 11 | it is insane for inexperienced men to seek inexperienced womenI have a better idea, how about you just date who you like instead of being neurotic about whether the woman is experienced or not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 02:34 PM |
| 6 | Is it wrong for an inexperienced older man to prefer younger women due to them also being inexperienced?What do you mean by subjecting women to bad sex? A guy shouldn't sleep with anybody if he thinks he's bad at fucking is what you're saying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 01:08 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNext you'll be telling me that Lord of the Rings is one big symbolism for Christianity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 04:51 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadVirgins need to realize that there's no brand on them showing the world that they've never had sex. Not acting like a virgin is way more important than your status as one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Red pill gets a lot of things wrong but the biggest lie is that younger women are sexually attracted to older menDepends on how big the age gap is, a woman in her early 20s probably will not date or fuck a 40 year old. They will still be attracted to late 20s/early 30s men though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/23 02:34 AM |
| 4 | If the majority of men get no matches on dating apps, how do the majority of couples meet using apps, and how to the majority of people still get married?I wouldn't say cold approaching is doomed to fail 99 percent of the time, if an average guy gets good at talking to people through trial and error and significantly improves his fashion and appearance it's possible to have a good success rate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don't think they'll be into that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI matched with a girl on Tinder and then saw one of my other matches in one of her pictures. I'm pretty sure they're roommates but I'm talking to them both, what should I do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread@women what would you think of a guy with a body count of 3? Is that too low? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 02:19 AM |
| 5 | I had no clue how fragile my psyche was till I let myself fall in love.It's your first love, it always hits you the hardest. You'll get over it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThey'll never see it coming | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 05:26 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Virtually all men will eventually get sex/relationships, it's just happening later than it used toWhich is why guys under 30 should try as hard as they can while they're young. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread"Hey how you doing" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf you're hesitating to approach that baddie at the bar, just remember that you have the right to ask out every woman and that every woman has the right to say no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Not receiving sexual attention causes lot of issues and society doesn't acknowledge itApparently Polish women are voting for their conservative party bc they're angry that Ukrainian refugee women are stealing all their men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 11:27 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Virtually all men will eventually get sex/relationships, it's just happening later than it used toI don't got what they're looking for | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 10:57 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Virtually all men will eventually get sex/relationships, it's just happening later than it used toThat's their right, but I think that's a sad mindset at any age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 10:50 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Virtually all men will eventually get sex/relationships, it's just happening later than it used toBecause in my experience, women like relationships and they like sex especially if it's with a guy who has his shit together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 10:43 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Virtually all men will eventually get sex/relationships, it's just happening later than it used toI said partner, not wife | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 10:39 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Virtually all men will eventually get sex/relationships, it's just happening later than it used toYeah I'm not gonna deny it probably gets much harder after a certain age, but self-improvement can be done at any age. And the percentage of virgins gets lower after 40 too, like below 1 percent or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 10:37 PM |
| -1 | CMV: Virtually all men will eventually get sex/relationships, it's just happening later than it used toTherapy and having lots of sex in your 30s will help | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhich is what a guy watching porn regularly is doing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGives you unrealistic expectations about sex, causes erectile dysfunction, demotivates you to actually go out and get laid, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI assume the issue of desensitizing your mind is still there, but women don't get ED so probably not as a big a deal physically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 10:23 PM |
| -1 | CMV: Virtually all men will eventually get sex/relationships, it's just happening later than it used toI'd like to see a citation for that 45 percent stat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWatching porn regularly is one of the worst things a young guy can do to himself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell done | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAnybody else trying get over wasting their college years | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy would you do that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf you lost it at 20, I wouldn't even call you a late bloomer really, in my mind that's like 25+ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTo men who are late bloomers- even after finding success with sex/relationships, do you still get caught up in your past regrets and loneliness? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 10:39 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFailure is better than doing nothing. Knowing what not to do is half of the battle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soonI read it that way too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 05:45 PM |
| 3 | Pretty much every advice targeted at men is to make them to wait until they are too old to do anythingAm I the only one getting a sense of deju vu, I'm sure this exact post was made like a week ago | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMaybe some of those men are inexperienced themselves and think they'd be more compatible with younger women who have around the same life experience. Also, there's nothing weird about a 28 year old dating a 23 year old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 11:12 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSomething that I find really attractive about women is when they have contrasting likes and interests. Like if a girl likes heavy metal and deathcore while also loving "girly" things like cute dresses I get so much more into her. Do women feel the same about men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 09:58 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt is so much worse to know that you had a shot but missed it than to never have had a chance at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 02:20 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Contrary to what most on here believe, it seems much harder for men to get a long-term relationship than to hook-up.I was until a few months ago | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 05:37 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Contrary to what most on here believe, it seems much harder for men to get a long-term relationship than to hook-up.Why am I supposed to compare those | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 03:27 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Contrary to what most on here believe, it seems much harder for men to get a long-term relationship than to hook-up.Figure of speech | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 03:26 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Contrary to what most on here believe, it seems much harder for men to get a long-term relationship than to hook-up.I don't think they're being settled for either hence the quotation marks. I wouldn't say that having the skill to get a ONS makes it harder to get into a LTR, why do you think so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 01:35 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Contrary to what most on here believe, it seems much harder for men to get a long-term relationship than to hook-up.If a guy is willing to be rejected a lot then he can have regular sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 01:33 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Contrary to what most on here believe, it seems much harder for men to get a long-term relationship than to hook-up.What do you think the problem is then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 01:32 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Contrary to what most on here believe, it seems much harder for men to get a long-term relationship than to hook-up.I wouldn't say either is practically impossible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 01:32 AM |
| -1 | CMV: Contrary to what most on here believe, it seems much harder for men to get a long-term relationship than to hook-up.I never said anything about it being easy, I said it was easier | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 01:32 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Contrary to what most on here believe, it seems much harder for men to get a long-term relationship than to hook-up.23 and I live in a college town | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 12:06 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Contrary to what most on here believe, it seems much harder for men to get a long-term relationship than to hook-up.I don't know what kind of life those men have lived but I never had any of my hookups turn into LTRs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 12:02 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Contrary to what most on here believe, it seems much harder for men to get a long-term relationship than to hook-up.Which is why it's easier to hookup with a woman who's down to fuck. You don't need to make her feel comfortable about your social status or income for the foreseeable future. All you need to do is to charm her for one night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 12:01 AM |
| -4 | CMV: Contrary to what most on here believe, it seems much harder for men to get a long-term relationship than to hook-up.Even if they lack those things, I don't believe it's that hard for most guys to get to the point where they can date and hookup casually since superficial things are easier to improve. It's much harder for a guy to get his shit together to the point where he's mature enough to make a relationship last. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 11:52 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Contrary to what most on here believe, it seems much harder for men to get a long-term relationship than to hook-up.Even though the number of women willing to hook up might be lower, there's no guarantee that just because someone goes out on a date with you means that you'll ever see them again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI've seen plenty of ugly women who are shallow/vain/entitled as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow exactly are those two statements different? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah that sounds pretty bitchy to me. "Well, when you waste your time chasing 8s and up, of course you’ll see nothing but Prima Donnas. These women know they’re hot, and they know they can manipulate guys to do their bidding. Why wouldn't they be arrogant?" Here you implied that hot women are more likely to be prima donnas | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat's your definition of prima donna? You implied that, and no you didn't say that attractive men are more likely to be misogynistic, I used it as an example to show how you can't use looks to judge a person's personality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 11:18 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThere are plenty of examples of unattractive women being bitchy/rude. It makes no sense to assume looks have anything to do with how much of a bitch a woman is. It's like saying that attractive men are more likely to be misogynistic, there's no correlation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEveryone's hypocritical, it only matters if your hypocrisy prevents you from good results | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy do you care if someone's preference is hypocritical | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 09:58 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou realize ugly women can just as easily be prima donnas as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 09:55 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe reason sexually inexperienced guys go for virgins is because they believe non-virgin women will reject them almost immediately | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNormally I would feel the same but I never felt as much for any of my exes as much as I felt for this girl which is why it feels like such a huge missed opportunity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's been a year since my friend kissed me on the cheek while we were out at the bar and I didn't make a move on her after bc she had a boyfriend. They broke up last month bc he wasn't feeling it anymore and not a day goes by that I don't regret going for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 05:00 PM |
| 3 | A lot of the toxicity around pill spheres has to do with missing out on young love and stunted social development as a resultThe people who are saying that don't seem to be redpill themselves and there are also some people here who have never had any romantic experiences at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 02:50 AM |
| 6 | A lot of the toxicity around pill spheres has to do with missing out on young love and stunted social development as a resultIt is a revenge fantasy in the sense that a 50 year old woman is still going to have more options than a 50 year old man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 02:29 AM |
| 2 | A lot of the toxicity around pill spheres has to do with missing out on young love and stunted social development as a resultTherapy is usually the best option for people. It's just that sometimes people aren't in the right state of the mind to be able to seek it out for themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 02:26 AM |
| 7 | A lot of the toxicity around pill spheres has to do with missing out on young love and stunted social development as a resultCollege falls under the "early adult" category so you're not out of the ordinary there. In my experience things usually get harder for people after college and if you're an older virgin who never managed to lose it during school you have a much harder path ahead of you. I don't agree with most of the pill stuff besides generic health/fashion advice but I understand why socially ill-adjusted guys would be drawn to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 02:25 AM |
| 2 | A lot of the toxicity around pill spheres has to do with missing out on young love and stunted social development as a resultGlad you managed to get free of thinking that way, it's a terrible way to think even though it's easy to get into that mindset | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 10:10 PM |
| 29 | A lot of the toxicity around pill spheres has to do with missing out on young love and stunted social development as a resultHypocritical since I never take this advice but there's no point in dwelling on past mistakes. You couldn't have known better and now you do, so you know what to do in the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 10:09 PM |
| 2 | A lot of the toxicity around pill spheres has to do with missing out on young love and stunted social development as a resultNo, I agree it makes you unattractive if you're still stuck in that mindset but people in that situation usually aren't able to think rationally in the first place. If you're talking about me personally then I wouldn't say that I'm angry at anyone for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI wasn't born yet what came out then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread2019 was a great year for movies. 1917, Joker, Parasite, the Irishman. Can't believe that's already 4 year ago | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 06:15 PM |
| 1 | What is Creepiness?I'm sure I don't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 01:59 AM |
| 1 | What is Creepiness?What makes them male and not men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 01:00 AM |
| 2 | What is Creepiness?What's with you calling men "males"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAfter oral I realized was less attracted to her than I thought I was originally and didn't want to continue and string her along. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadA long-term relationship ideally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadRealized that the passion wasn't there after that one experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's not me it's for my friend :) But he appreciates it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 05:59 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat dating advice would you give to a 22 year old guy who graduated college a virgin but made out with several women and got/gave head a single time? Is he fucked due to his lack of experience or is there still hope for improvement? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 05:47 AM |
| 2 | CMV: It's better for men to show less affection to their partnerYou worded it a lot better than I did. I don't believe that showing no affection is a good idea, just that a lot of people do it way too much at times. I'm young and stupid tbh, I have no idea how to take control of relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/19 05:30 PM |
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