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He told me "all men are dogs, even me." So they're loyal, protective, and you can get them to behave the way that you want them with operant conditioning? I've never understood why "men are dogs" is considered an insult. Dogs are great. Yeah, they're smelly and don't wear pants. I guess dogs can be monsters if they're raised wrong, but men and women can both be even bigger monsters. I just don't understand why dogs have to be the butt of that insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:13 AM
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Well I know of one guy that got away with 34 felonies
/r/MensRights25/01/26 10:34 PM
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Yeah well there are certain things that men can do to women and get away with that wouldn't work out too well for a woman trying the same thing. It's all violence and it's all wrong. The truth is that anyone can have plot armor. It takes a lot of schmoozing bullshitting type behavior, but anyone can learn how to do it. That shit comes at a cost though. Everything does.
/r/MensRights25/01/26 09:45 AM
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Three lefts makes a right. Some people seem to think that two wrongs make a right, but no, the recipe calls for three lefts. Hop in your car and try it out if you don't believe me.
/r/MensRights25/01/26 09:31 AM
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I can immediately tell I'm not going on a 4th date with a girl if there's still no kissing by the 3rd date
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 05:56 AM
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Yeah there are plenty of sex workers in every country. They might charge more, but once you factor in travel costs the cost is more or less the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 09:23 PM
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The last sentence was a question....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:25 AM
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Have you thought that maybe some women can sense that kind of thing, while others can't, even if they think they can? There are certainly women who can recognize the red flags of an abusive man. A lot of women live long, full lives without ever being abused. Some of those women even sleep around quite a bit. I think a lot of what you hear about that kind of thing, especially on the Internet, is just people blowing hot air. That doesn't mean that it's impossible to sense that kind of thing though…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 06:55 AM
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Feminism smells like cheese
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 12:42 AM
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I did google it myself. I even googled it again after your second comment to make sure I didn't miss something. Vitiligo only makes skin lighter, not darker. The affected areas lose pigmentation. Where it appears on your skin and the progression of it can vary, but it never makes skin darker.
/r/MensRights09/10/25 06:26 PM
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Vitiligo makes skin lighter. It'll make brown skinned people look white but it doesn't work the other way around. Michael Jackson had that shit and people made fun of him for it all the time.
/r/MensRights09/10/25 06:12 PM
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Well she's insulting him for a trait that he grew into. Also I know exactly where she is coming from with that little man energy. I thought the dude was shorter than 5' 10" until I read this post. The dude reminds me of Lord Farquaad from Shrek. It's probably because every time he speaks he surrounds himself with people taller than him. Idk if he thinks that makes him look tough or something, but it does make him look short.
/r/MensRights09/10/25 05:49 PM
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The tax break would be counter productive. It would take a lot of tax money to set up all of that other stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 09:17 PM
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People have and continue to date without a dating coach, tax break, abuser registry or dating event involved anywhere in their relationship. Yeah but those things could make the dating experience better for people. As it is the only dating help available to most people are dating apps. Those apps have a financial incentive to keep people on them. They aren't set up in a way that facilitates long term relationships. Idk about the tax break bit. You would need tax money for government sponsored da…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 09:15 PM
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That actually makes a lot of sense
/r/MensRights08/09/25 03:39 PM
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Him being stuck with my ex is revenge enough. Letting his wife know what he's up to helps make that happen. You're right though. Moving on and reclaiming your peace is more important than any kind of revenge.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/25 05:42 AM
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I mean I'd be mad at the guy she cheated with too. I wouldn't be as mad at him as I am with her, and I wouldn't get violent with him, but if I find myself with an opportunity to screw him over, or even just make him nervous, I'll take advantage of that opportunity for sure. The only way I'd go out of my way to do any of that is if he is cheating on someone too. Him having to deal with my cheating whore of an ex is really punishment by itself, and that could be quite the slow burn.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/25 09:54 PM
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It's a bus not Epstein's private jet.
/r/MensRights07/08/25 08:10 PM
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They might do it again if the situation is just right. How many times have you heard someone wake up with a bad hangover and say they'll never drink again? At least a few I would imagine. How many of those people drank again? Most of them probably. I see your point though. Now that I think about it my comment doesn't really add anything meaningful to the conversation. Imma still hit the post button though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 06:16 PM
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That's a misleading statistic. It's like the last time I saw my doctor she pointed out that more people die from alcohol than from opioids. While that is true, opioids are still more deadly. If I took opioids they would be more likely to kill me than alcohol would. The only reason alcohol kills more people is because it's much more accessible. Likewise 73% of women might have had casual sex at some point in their lives, but how many of those women did it on a regular basis? I'd imagine a lot of …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 06:11 PM
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Yup and a lot of women are willing to wait a long time for that guy if they need to. Just look at all the women with boyfriends in prison. Yeah they usually cheat on him eventually, but until they do she can make herself believe that he is the perfect boyfriend. He will tell her exactly what she wants to hear and she never has to deal with him doing any of the things that annoy her.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/25 07:42 PM
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So this all sounds real good. The concept does make a lot of sense. I've kind of thought the same thing for a while now, but I haven't followed those thoughts to a solid conclusion as you did here. You described this whole thing very well. My only hang up is the fact that you sell custom companion dolls. If women start taking time off from dating as you suggest, there will be less women in the dating pool. That means single men will stay single longer, which could lead to more sales for you. I'm…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/25 07:35 PM
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Break up dude. Do it for yourself. It's over anyways. If you go radio silent you're going to keep hoping to hear from her. It'll just prolong your suffering.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/25 06:28 AM
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That's it right there. It's a numbers game. You're going to get rejected more often than you'll be successful. That's how it is for most guys, even good looking ones. Most rejections aren't even about you. It's about her circumstances at that moment. You got to take the rejections in stride and move on. There are billions of women on the planet. Even if only one in a million are into you, that's still 4,000 women who would eat onion rings off of your boner. I guarantee your odds are better than …
/r/TheRedPill27/07/25 07:37 PM
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You just gotta make the mistakes and try and learn from it. Note that getting rejected is not necessarily a mistake on your part. Bouncing back from rejection is one idea that PUAs have right. Most of the time when you get rejected it has less to do with you than it does where a girl is at mentally and emotionally when you approach. Social skills are like any other skill, the more time you spend using it the better you get at it. No books or advice can replace lived experience.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/25 04:56 AM
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Maybe that does happen, but I think it's much more common that they mean it when they say FWB is fine. They just change their minds and start to want a relationship later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:39 AM
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A DNA test will only tell you who your father is if you've identified a person who might be your father and got a sample of their DNA. I guess if you had access to a large database of DNA samples with the identities of the people that they came for you could compare your DNA to that if your father's DNA was in that database. That's why I refuse to do any of that 23 and me.com bullshit
/r/MensRights09/07/25 04:21 AM
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I don't think RP is interested in helping women. According to them women have enough help. They are there to help men. That doesn't mean that they aim to hurt women. The official philosophy seems pretty neutral on what happens to women. A lot of their followers seem like they are out to hurt women though, which is what makes them problematic.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/25 04:56 AM
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Yeah computing wouldn't be what it is today if not for the OG hackers at MIT. We'd still be doing batch processing like dummies
/r/MensRights20/04/25 07:42 AM
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"Women have always been the primary victims of war. Women lose their husbands, their fathers, their sons in combat." Their husbands, fathers, and sons are dead. They died. They are the victims of death..
/r/MensRights20/04/25 04:30 AM
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You have some good points with everything except for programming. While it was men who obsessively built the first computers, programming the things was almost an afterthought at first. They left programming the first machine to women mostly. I don't have time right now to go into all the details, but it's actually pretty interesting. Here's a link if you want to learn more https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&cd=&ved=2ahUKEwiPlvWuueWMAxVHBzQIHYOvJ-wQFnoECF8QBQ&url=https%3A%2F%2Fen.wikiped…
/r/MensRights20/04/25 01:24 AM
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Well yeah I would expect pegging to be on the table if she did it with an ex. That's not the argument you're making though. Your argument is "if her ex did it, so should her new partner". No one is making that argument though because no one would want to go all reciprocal with that argument. That opens the door for insisting upon all kinds of crazy bullshit. I could say my ex ate the corn off my dick after I fucked her in the ass. There's no way to verify that shit. Even if my ex did do that, sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 04:07 AM
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Fair enough
/r/MensRights13/01/25 04:04 AM
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That first paragraph just sounds like ADHD
/r/MensRights12/01/25 06:54 AM
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it's not just that very few know the meaning of the word I'll bite. What does it mean then?
/r/MensRights18/12/24 07:12 AM
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When there's not a reasonable, reliable, and effective method for dealing with non compliance, that means enforcement isn't happening. There's only so many hours in a day, and kids grow up so fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 02:32 AM
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I also have ADHD . Yeah banging chicks and doing drugs is great. Everyone gets dopamine hits from that. That doesnt mean they reading has to be painful
/r/TheRedPill12/12/24 02:15 AM
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I get dopamine hits from white papers and man pages. Maybe I'm just weird like that though. Idk
/r/TheRedPill11/12/24 04:30 AM
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It's SUPER impressive he was able to run a 3rd campaign and win again, after losing his 2nd campaign, It's less impressive once you realize that he could only manage to win against women. Zing!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 08:09 AM
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I was gonna say, if y'all do a joint account, make sure to keep your personal accounts as well. That way you'll have your money, her money, and y'alls money. I wouldn't even get a debit card for the joint account. That shit is for bills and/or big ticket items
/r/askMRP18/11/24 10:05 PM
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I suspect this guy was doomed either way… either hands up and he gets stabbed or keeps hands on the knife and the cop shoots him. I'd rather take my chances with the knife. The human body can take a lot more stabbing than it can shooting
/r/MensRights18/11/24 05:15 AM
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men arent wired for monagamy and women are so all relationships are niserable for the woman unless she's blissfully ignorant and in denial" That's not what I got out of Red pill at all. The whole concept of women's hypergamy is all about a dualistic mating strategy. As in women want a good provider for a long term mate and an assertive, attractive man for sex. According to RP it's difficult for one man to embody both traits, especially long term. So women are inclined to have two or more men in …
/r/ExRedPill15/11/24 12:33 PM
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Then half the time he fails in his development so hard that she has ends up eating the loss and kicking him to the curb after way too long. The other half of the time he does level up, but then decides to explore other options and either leaves her or cheats on her. It does work out the way she intended every now and then, but that doesn't get a half. It's more like a rounding error.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:49 AM
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If you go on enough dates, eventually one of them will be successful, in whatever way you define success. You gotta go on some more dates though or else it will never happen
/r/ExRedPill06/11/24 10:27 PM
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Yup. I like to put the phone down and see how long their monologue will go before they notice that I haven't said anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 10:41 PM
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"insecure girl who wants a pet for a man". Ooh let me guess, the say things like " it means more if you type out " l love you" all the way, every time". I remind them that this ain't build a dude workshop. If they want someone to tell them exactly what they want to hear all the time, they make chat bots for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 10:40 PM
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I kind of see where you are coming from. The fact that they hate anyone at all is a cause for concern. If they gotta hate someone, hating women that they are attracted to would be much worse than hating women that they aren't attracted to.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/24 12:46 AM
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If a starving person with nothing to eat asks you for food, you don't feed them glass ffs. More like you don't feed them a dick! Amiright?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:54 PM
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I'm just gonna ignore this one until it goes the way of that dress that no one could agree on what color it was. It's pretty much the same thing in the sense that nothing you can say on the subject will change anyone's mind and at the end of the day it doesn't fucking matter. I guess I'm not completely ignoring it as I have lurked in a few comment sections on the topic. I'll admit, I was tempted to give my two cents, but everything has been said already. I think the most telling view is the wome…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/24 06:11 AM
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Great post. Just want to point out one small thing. Some of us have issues, related to attention, impulsivity, or even hallucinations, that are so severe, medication is needed. The first 3 words of that sentence got me listening to Insane Clown Posse for the last hour or so. That is all.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/24 11:55 PM
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Women are not rational. They just do things that make no sense to a man’s mind. You don’t need to try and figure out reasons or what this could all possibly mean. But i don’t try to understand why This is it right here. Never try to understand women. Do you know who does understand women? Women do, and they hate each other. Just do your thing, in your frame and if women want to be around for that, cool. If not, it's their loss.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/23 03:42 AM
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Not only that but since she knows damn well you didn't want marriage, if you do fuck around and wife her, she will resent you for not giving her the prince charming fairytale marriage that Disney has made her feel entitled to. That'll be her justification for withholding all of the "wifey" benefits you're supposedly enjoying.
/r/askMRP15/11/23 12:42 AM
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Shit I've seen 4s do that if you let them
/r/TheRedPill30/09/23 11:33 AM
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slow clap
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/23 04:44 AM
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Yup. I like having the house to myself. Then I can read or game or work on a project without my old lady wanting me to pay attention to her while she doesn't do anything. Yeah I'll ask her where she is, but it's to see how long I have to myself rather than to check in on her. If she was with a dude, I doubt she would forget to tell you that she was going to be studying with this female friend and this is her address and a bunch of other unnecessary fictitious details. Like do you think that if s…
/r/askMRP17/08/23 03:04 AM
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And if that's what you like then for you it's time well spent. It all depends on what you value
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:18 AM
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He'd be paying with his time that way . Time is more valuable than money. You can always make more money. You can't make more time. You only get a finite amount of time, and there's not even a way to tell how much you have left. A person who doesn't feel that building relationships is a good use of their time, but that having sex is, could easily justify spending a lot of money for sex. It tracks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:05 AM
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So what you're saying is that women control who women are attracted to, collectively. That still means that when an individual woman says she doesn't control who she is attracted to that she isn't telling the truth. I don't know if they have a pleases and sparkles counsel like south park (wouldn't put it past them), but it's a collective driving that car for sure. Certain women get a lot more time at the wheel than others too. By your logic a Russian soldier in Ukraine decided each individual pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:07 AM
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First of all, I love your username. Second, while I agree with you that a situations level of awareness should cater to the worst outcome, as those folks checking out the Titanic would probably now agree, thats not what I'm talking about. What I'm saying is that when you simply say that "men are predators" , it carries the same connotation as if you say "men are black" or "men are gay". You don't have to say the word all. It's implied. This can easily be sidestepped by saying something like "man…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 08:30 AM
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That's a pretty misleading example you chose there. Men actually are taller than women more often than not. Are you suggesting that men are predators more often than not? That's what your example seems to suggest, and that is certainly not the case. The amount of men who are predators is no where near the amount of men who are taller than women. The actual number of men who are taller than women would be pretty hard to pin down. Which men and women would you count? I guess you could go by averag…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:27 AM
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Instead of outright blaming hormones, which is accurate, I like to say women's reproductive system needs more maintenance than men's do. It means the same dann thing but doesn't cause SJWs to derail the conversation like they tend to do when you blame anything on hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:53 AM
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Well you're partly right. Men do pay more attention to women they find more attractive. Now ugly is pretty much universally ugly. A decent guy will be nice to her, but only a guy who feels like he doesn't have many options is gonna take her out. I'm mainly talking about her face too. A lot of guys prefer a big girl. I know as I am one of them. Skinny girls don't even do it for me. That brings me to my next point. The difference between pretty and average is largely subjective. Every guy has diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:32 PM
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And just talking to women is horribly incomplete advice at best. There are just so many things a man can say to a woman that won't land him a date, but relatively few that will. If I say to a woman "nice tits wanna fuck?" 999 out of 1000 times she won't respond positively (that 1 tho..). Thats talking to her though. Based on what you said that's all it takes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 01:51 PM
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I didn't see anything about rockets in that comment
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 01:47 PM
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Yeah but men put effort into looking good for dates too. On top of putting in the effort to land and plan the date. Men also need to at least be prepared to pay for the entire first date. Doing otherwise will result in auto rejection from enough women to make it unwise to suggest splitting the bill. Each woman has some little thing or another like that which will instantly cause her to lose interest and there's no way to know what they are ahead of time. Generally they will go ahead and finish t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 01:41 PM
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People laugh at people who get offended though haha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 11:29 AM
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You don't know what she owns and she got a job so she clearly isn't completely broke. I think its telling that a man is telling you what he, a man wants in a woman, and you're all nu uh this is what men really want. Yea, there are men who only care about looks and status. Men like that tend to be "career men" (I assume you aren't talking about the trades or anything useful. Probably more like an office manager who's actual job description is rather vague an i right?) Thats also the kind of man w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 11:27 AM
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I mean you're right that there is a good chance that her friend isn't jealous and is in fact putting herself in between her and the guy making unwanted advances at her request. That's still cockblocking though. Its consensual and useful cockblocking. There's nothing wrong with it, but its still cockblocking in the same way that killing someone in self defense is still killing however justified it may be.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:40 AM
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There are quite a few when it comes to alcohol use and abuse, which happened to be the first thing I searched for. Alcohol consumption is most definitely a behavior. It took me less than two minutes. Just because you didn't look for anything that contradicts your worldview, and thus didn't find anything, doesn't mean it doesn't exist. https://news.yale.edu/2020/05/25/problems-alcohol-29-gene-variants-may-explain-why https://www.verywellmind.com/alcoholism-is-it-inherited-63171
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 07:03 PM
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In your example the ginger person's genetics contributed to other people's behavior towards them. A good example would be a society where everyone treats ginger people horribly and as a result ginger people suffer worse outcomes. That isn't the same as a person's genes affecting their own behavior, for instance a predisposition towards consuming alcohol in excess. You're basically admitting that genes contribute to behavior, but claiming that it doesn't count because sometimes people overemphasi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:47 AM
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Genetics can't contribute without contributing though. That doesn't even make sense. If something contributes, that means it contributes. If it didn't contribute then it wouldn't contribute. Y'all are talking about a person's genetics influencing their behavior, then you go on to use an example of how other people behave towards a person with a particular expression of their genes, namely "gingers". Disregarding genetic influence on behavior is disingenuous. By doing so you miss the chance to re…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 03:22 AM
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The trick is to raise the children right and wait for the old assholes to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 03:52 AM
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Idk about the average woman, but I can say for sure that a lot of women don't want a 50/50 partnership. Look up "littles" if you don't believe me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:28 PM
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Amoral means morals are not a factor at all. It doesn't mean negative morals. That would be immoral. The red pill ideal is to compare notes on how to make yourself attractive to women, and be aware of common problems that attractive face. The fact that they claim to be amoral means that a person can use this information in a way that is respectful to women, or to just pump and dump as many women as they can. The information isn't good or bad it's just how it is. Now whether or not TRP lives up t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:24 PM
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It kind of does make you a little bit of an asshole, but you have every right to be a little bit of an asshole, before or after a rejection. I find being a little bit of an asshole a good way to be. Fun fact: assholes live longer, but only when they are ok with being an asshole. Being an unapologetic asshole is a low stress way to live. Stress makes your body produce cortisone which makes you age faster. By being an asshole, there's no need to stress about what others think of you. Not only that…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:32 AM
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I heard something like that too. I think it's like one of those old laws in the South that basically only applied if the dead guy was black. Or it might be that you can use that as a legal defense to get the charge dropped from murder to manslaughter idk
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 03:15 AM
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I was gonna remember it anyways because I was legit scared at first. This happened in Texas. Everyone is strapped out there. Dude meant it when he said he would to kill me. That's kind of why I wasn't there when he got back. I decided to lay low for a bit cuz I kind of thought he would come back. I didn't think it would be like that though. My friend did not pass those stickers on to me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:32 AM
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Yeah prostitutes definitely leave something to be desired, but it's a much simpler, arguably more honest, transaction. It all depends on what you're looking for really. You should definitely check out a video game bar if they are in your area . If not pool or darts can be a decent substitute. They aren't as good in my opinion because it puts you and her in adversarial roles rather than co-operative, but it can still help stimulate conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:12 AM
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I had something similar happen. Was making out with this girl by her car. Boyfriend rolls up, tells me if he sees me near her again he'll kill me. They drive off. Boyfriend comes back half an hour later. I had already went somewhere else but he found my buddies next door, apologized, and gave them some Linkin park stickers. Shit was wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:54 PM
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Also, "temperament" isn't something that shuts down PUA, because it just means you have to use PUA tools differently and that's pretty much it. What I meant was that different temperaments require a different approach. I'm glad we agree on that. It's like what they tell trainee scammers in those Nigerian call centers, no one is immune to being scammed, they just haven't heard the right script. As far as dinner daters go, getting mad at a woman for doing woman shit is dumb. Its like getting mad a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 08:57 AM
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It's not necessarily when they are done right, it's when they are done to the right woman. These tactics only work on certain women. They won't work on women who have already heard about the tactics like OP, or women who just have a certain temperament. Women who get picked up with PUA tactics are mostly out hoping to hook up in the first place. They might be hoping to find a relationship and end up getting pumped and dumped. Hopefully she'll learn the signs of that kind of thing and avoid it in…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:54 AM
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Well you know how women feel about controlling men. Can't have a man who maintains control of his vehicle like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:15 AM
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Yup. Years ago before I had even heard of Redhill, I got in shape and got my life together for my child's mother. I didn't even pretend like it was for my. My baby momma could've given a rats ass. I cringe thinking of the time I spent trying to think of the perfect thing to say and worrying about what she was up to. Well eventually I stumbled upon a girl who did appreciate all of the work I had done on myself. I didn't know a pussy could get so wet. I ain't proud of this, but she left her bf for…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/23 10:19 PM
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Dude why are your hamburgers so shitty? Maybe its because I cook for a living, but my hamburgers I make at home are so much better than Burger King. The sports bar down the street can give me a run for my money, but with access to their kitchen and ingredients I would make a Burger that I like better than the ones on their menu. And unpopular opinion, I'd rather jack off than get a shitty hand job. Actually I'd rather jack off than go through the whole process of convincing a girl to give me a h…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:30 AM
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Well yeah, but TRP also encourages men to become better in life and achieve some value. I haven't heard or read anything about FDS encouraging women to get better or increase their own value. All I hear about is them trying to force men to become better in life and achieve the things what women value. Let's face it, value is subjective. If the subs are opposites, they are opposite like two sides of the same coin.
/r/ExRedPill25/02/23 12:13 PM
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Well I wouldn't say it wasn't really a date. It's more like a date was all that it was and we both knew it, although I wasn't always sure if she knew that I knew it. I've been in a ltr for a few years now, so I don't remember much of the conversations. We mostly just talked about random bullshit. It was a lot of talking about whatever was going on in the moment. The one that stands out the most is the girl who brought her little lap dog every time. She had just moved across the country and was s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 01:15 PM
1

She won't be shamed though. Maybe she should be, but that's not how things work these days. I've found that video game bars are actually great for first dates. Play a co op game and you won't run out of things to talk about. You can always talk about the game. They do serve food at those places though, so you should be prepared to pay. I always budget at least $50 for a date. The way I look at it, thats just how much a date costs. I could pay significantly more for a date with a professional whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 01:02 PM
1

From what I've seen its either a sense of entitlement, rationalizations backed by cognitive dissonance, or plain old oblivious adherence to tradition with no self reflection whatsoever. It can also be any kind of blend of these traits. Luckily women like this seem to be the minority, at least in my experience. There were a few times where I figured out someone was just in it for the food and I took her out another time or two anyways. I looked at it as a practice date at that point and just didn…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 12:50 PM
1

I mean I pretty much just come prepared to pay for everything the first few dates just to avoid awkward situations. You best believe I be judging though. Sometimes women just hit you up when they're hungry even though they don't really like you like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 12:11 PM
16

Tell him you don't want to. That isn't the same as saying no. Saying you can't puts him into problem solving mode. Saying you can't can be dishonest. If you say you don't want to, not only are you being authentic to yourself, he won't have as much to push back on. Sure, he can try and make you want to do the thing, and if he somehow succeeds, as in actually changes your mind to where you now want to do the thing, well thats pretty cool. If he doesn't convince you, then you have a choice. Don't d…
/r/RedPillWives25/12/22 02:17 AM
1

If I wait a long weeks or months just for her to finally go starfish mode, I will lose some of my interest. Maybe if her personality is amazing and we really click I'll try and work through that, but I've never really clicked with a girl that imposes arbitrarily wait times like that. I am aware of the sunk cost fallacy. Sometimes you gotta cut your losses and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 05:35 AM
1

Idk, tacos and burritos?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:23 AM
3

I mean, you like what you like though. If you could just train yourself to be attracted to a certain type of person then Christians would have prayed all of they gay away by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 11:26 PM
9

I dated a girl that I didn't know she was white until it was too late. I thought she was Mexican. No, she was just the recipe for Mexican. Her dad was Native American and her mom was Spanish. Shit was wild
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 11:24 PM
1

Its a numbers game. Approach a number of women and your game will get better. A good amount of your no's aren't even your fault. She might be marriage or her ex looked like you or she has diarrhea.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:17 AM
3

One time I made a comment online about a very specific type of woman. Specifically a church lady who won't say the word cock, but will suck one as long as it doesn't belong to her husband. Several women told me in varying ways what a piece of shit I am for "attacking women". Trying to explain that I wasn't attacking anyone, but that I was just making fun of women who engage in the behavior I described got me nowhere of course.
/r/AntiFeminists09/11/22 12:55 AM
3

Rub her butt
/r/askMRP28/10/22 10:42 AM
20

So I live in the U.S. and I moved out of my parents house and across the country when I was 19. I couldn't even go raid my mommas fridge after I moved out. I lived on my own like that for about a decade. When I was in my late 20s my mother found herself in an abusive relationship. I bought her a plane ticket to where I live and let her stay at my place until she got on her feet. Well in the few months that my mom lived at my house, at least 3 different women lost interest in me as a potential ro…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:27 AM
5

I did that once. I even used a really fat chicks photo. Dudes were blowing my shit up
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:21 PM
1

But if I say "woman, where's my dinner?" They get all huffy
/r/AntiFeminists05/01/22 08:18 PM
1

But if I say "woman, where's my dinner?" They get all huffy
/r/AntiFeminists05/01/22 08:18 PM
1

But if I say "woman, where's my dinner?" They get all huffy
/r/AntiFeminists05/01/22 08:17 PM
10

You gotta "lose" the money by gambling. Go to a casino, get a bunch of chips, play a few games, then cash out but don't tell anyone
/r/askTRP16/06/21 07:57 PM
1

I fuggin love it man
/r/MGTOW07/06/21 10:17 PM
1

As long as you aren't saying sorry all the time you're good. You can say please and still be assertive. The thing about please is, it doesn't have to mean you are making a request or asking for something. When I tell my son " please pick up your trash" he knows he better not make me tell him again. It's all about phrasing and tone. If I said "will you please pick up your trash" he'd probably think he had a choice. Tone is important too. You want to end your sentence using a lower tone of voice t…
/r/askTRP07/06/21 09:45 PM
1

So I am a 35 year old man and I've been in an ltr for about 5 years now. Before I met her I had been in probably 15-20 relationships. I decided that if my next relationship didn't work out, I'd just stay single for the rest of my life. This was before learning of Mgtow, so that though seemed pretty unusual to me at the time. I thought I made the concept up, granted I put it in a break glass in case of emergency box. Well since I wanted to have the best chance I could at things working out, I dec…
/r/MGTOW06/06/21 11:17 PM
19

Great read. The bit about emotions is taken the wrong way by a lot of people. People new to stoicism often try to suppress their emotions to the point where they don't feel emotions at all, which is understandable. It is a difficult concept to explain and to understand. The thing is, psychopaths are the only people who avoid feeling emotions, and they didn't decide to do so. The explanation that really hit home for me was to think of emotions like alarms. They are there to let you know something…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/21 08:12 PM
2

I wouldn't have it any other way. So many people put themselves in the role of a child and treat their employer like their parents. They are so afraid of upsetting their employer that they sacrifice hobbies, social life, and even their health, all for a company that would replace them in a week if they dropped dead and let them go without notice if it would help their bottom line. I don't play that shit. Don't get me wrong, I take my work seriously, and I do my best, but I work to attain resourc…
/r/MGTOW04/06/21 08:26 PM
2

I learned to cook real quick after moving from Texas to Oregon and realizing that if I wanted good bbq and Cajun food I would have to learn to cook it myself. Now I cook for a living, which is much, much different from cooking at home. The pay didn't used to be great, but now that I'm looking for work after milking unemployment for a while after the restaurant I worked at shut down, I am discovering restaurants all over are hiring people with less experience than me at 25% or more than what I wa…
/r/MGTOW03/06/21 01:59 PM
1

That price is too high. I'll just die. Then I won't need either
/r/MGTOW08/05/21 11:39 AM
1

That's what my dad always say, but he said tires or tits. Then I grew up and got into IT because he didn't tell me computers are the same way
/r/MGTOW07/05/21 10:37 PM
2

I set mine up so texts and other notifications don't make a sound or vibrate. All my people know that if they need me immediately they'd better call and if I don't answer they'd better leave a message explaining why they called if they want me to call back
/r/MGTOW07/05/21 10:35 PM
6

Staring at your investments is one of the worst things you can do on your phone. That leads to tweaking your Portfolio which leads to getting nickel and dimed to death with fees. Check those fuckers once or twice a day, then read up on the current events that relate to whatever markets you're invested in.
/r/MGTOW07/05/21 10:33 PM
5

Well that's pretty hyperbolic. If she was texting 50 dudes she would have time to bitch about her simp gaming. His game time is her pussy tingle time. More like she's texting 10 people, including her girlfriend that she uses for cover and company when she hooks up with her 3 or 4 side pieces
/r/MGTOW07/05/21 10:29 PM
0

the main reason a condom pops is if you are using them the wrong way meaning you put the condom on wrong or not enough lube and its statistically not common. Condoms are 98% effective My dick is between condom sizes with a noticeable left curve. I'd say condoms either break or fall off about 15-20% of my fucks with them depending on if I go with big or regular condoms. My partner and I are not getting 98% disease protection. It's still probably close to 98% pregnancy prevention so long as it's s…
/r/ExRedPill07/05/21 08:19 AM
1

Well now I'm going to search for a case like that. (Video or it didn't happen with those hats). I'd imagine that cases with a woman who is inclined to do that don't make it to real court. I never married, but I believe when both parties are agreeable like that the divorce can be settled by some kind of arbitration process. Correct me if I'm wrong
/r/MGTOW06/05/21 01:35 PM
2

I mean, I get where you're coming from, but most " little people" will never even see 65 mil in their lives, so from that perspective, he is getting hit much harder than the average person. What I don't understand is how the court determined that she needs 65 million when the majority of women get through a divorce being awarded a few figures less. That kind of inconsistentcy shows that divorce proceeding are more about punishment than anyone's well being. The entire court system seems to be pun…
/r/MGTOW04/05/21 10:04 PM
3

The only time they do stand up it court is when both parties still agree to the terms of the prenup at the time of the divorce. So yeah prenups stand up great for the people who don't need them
/r/MGTOW04/05/21 09:51 PM
1

The look on Bills face says "Its more than I want to spend, but it's worth it to be rid of the bitch"
/r/MGTOW04/05/21 09:48 PM
1

Lol that's the truth. I was fucking with one girl who told me about a $30 an hour job she passed on because she would have had to work outside. Granted this was southeast Texas, but I'd work inside a dead horse for $30 an hour. To top it all off she turned out to be a dead lay. I told her she needs to roll over if she's gonna sleep so I can fit on the bed too. Didn't see her again after that
/r/MGTOW26/03/21 12:40 AM
0

I was fucking with a chick like that. I friendzoned her. Then she told me about her boyfriend in prison who doesn't even have a shot at parole for 20 years. She has what I call perfect boyfriend syndrome. See she wants a guy that checks all the boxes and tells her exactly what she wants to hear. No man will tell a women what she wants to hear like a prisoner. He sweet talks her so good that her hamster checks the boxes for him, and since they don't see one another regularly he doesn't fuck up th…
/r/askTRP19/03/21 01:19 PM
9

I was geared up to buy some btc to get drugs with back then, but I ended up meeting a guy with slightly better prices. A drug dealer ruined my life.
/r/MGTOW217/03/21 12:17 AM
23

I had a girl do that. Took all of 2 weeks. The conversation went like this Her: I just really miss you y'know. You're a good man Me: I'm sorry. You should've thought about that before you broke up with me. Her:.... Me: Was there anything else Her: Can't we just get coffee and talk Me: I don't drink coffee. I'm taking my client to (local titty bar) later. I banged her after the titty bar. She got really upset when I left after the 5 pump special. For some reason she thought we were back together.
/r/MGTOW15/03/21 01:38 AM
1

I said that but intended to hop on the pussy wagon. Once It didn't work out the way I thought it would
/r/MGTOW15/03/21 01:27 AM
2

Either in heat, pregnant, or nursing
/r/MGTOW14/03/21 03:44 AM
3

Where is rent still $500 a month? In my area your lucky to be able to rent a single bedroom for $500.
/r/RedPillWives11/03/21 05:41 AM
6

Oh I cook for a living dude
/r/MGTOW09/03/21 12:27 AM
9

I'm a man and when I'm working for someone else I always try to work as a duty. Any enthusiasm i might display is entirely unintentional
/r/MGTOW08/03/21 11:40 PM
2

Agreed
/r/askMRP02/03/21 07:47 AM
3

That's something
/r/askTRP28/02/21 01:39 PM
-1

That being said, every woman has some pussy that never been fucked. You just need length to get to it
/r/askTRP28/02/21 12:11 AM
3

I mean, my junk is wider than a wizard sleeve so that don't bother me. It's short af though. They call me tuna can. I don't bottom out, but I'll stretch out the entrance
/r/askTRP28/02/21 12:08 AM
1

I understand where you're coming from. I prefer fat chicks, some dudes like dick, and pooping turns you on. It's still gross though
/r/askTRP27/02/21 10:48 PM
-1

I thought it was funny, and who are you to say what belongs in places?
/r/TheRedPill27/02/21 10:13 PM
5

Like my dad said, any piece of ass you pass up is a piece of ass you ain't never gonna get. I would've let been like "Look bbdoll, I can't waive your rent payment, but I might could be convinced to give you a little more time to pay it. Note that if she gets more than a month or so behind , the chances of her ever getting caught up are slim to nil. You might end up giving her a free month anyway, so make sure that is an acceptable outcome. Everyone pays for ass one way or another.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 10:11 PM
9

Well of course people from New Orleans are gonna have plague immunity. Have you even been to Mardi Gras?
/r/MGTOW18/02/21 07:05 PM
1

Yes they are describing motivation that started for others, and developed into intrinsic motivation. It tends to happen once you see positive results, especially if they are results you didn't originally consider, such as feeling better from getting healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 02:21 AM
1

Tell me about it. They threw in a few lotteries so that a few lucky men can move up the ladder with some hard work(stock market, hollywood, I would say the actual lottery but most people end up broke after winning that), bit without a lot of luck a guy is pretty much stuck at the bottom if they're born there. But hey, it's arguably more difficult for women to marry up now, so fuck the system right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 02:03 AM
11

I mean King Henry converted a nation from Catholicism so he could divorce a wife that didn't bear him a son. Js
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 09:16 AM
3

I can see why you might want to get out of that habit when the reason for it leaves, but you're telling me you can get in the habit of doing something daily for months, and the entire habit just goes away? Nothing triggers or reminds you of that habit? I find that hard to believe. Not only that, but how does one just stop being vain? Furthermore, going to the gym is a good habit. That in itself is a reason to continue, even if your vanity somehow vanishes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 03:49 AM
1

Well that just proves you aren't an incel. They can't get behind
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 03:44 AM
4

What happens if you stop being vain? Well you would already be in the habit of going to the gym, so continuing to do so wouldn't take as much effort as a cold start.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 01:25 AM
3

Well there seems to be a few schools of thought on that in the red pill community. While a lot of men absolutely only use those changes just to get laid, I have also seen encouragement towards outcome independence. Basically you do you and you'll either get laid or you won't. Let us not forget mgtow is part of the red pill family, and that is literally full of men who decided to go their own way and stop dating all together
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 01:23 AM
10

From what I've read about TRP they encourage you to focus your effort on being the best version of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 09:08 PM
1

Well there are 2 ways to avoid being involuntarily celibate. You can get laid, or volunteer to not get laid. The second one is the only one you can do by yourself. The cool part is, while you can't do both at the same time, there is nothing stopping you from doing each one of them at different times. What a lot of people do when faced with your kind of dilemma is just go ahead and be voluntarily celibate for a while. Sometimes another person comes around and makes them change their minds. Someti…
/r/ExRedPill05/02/21 07:56 AM
4

No problem. I will say that like these other guys were saying, a woman approaching a man is rare. When it does happen be prepared to escalate because she probably used up most her courage on the approach. Now that I think about it, I tend to also say a bunch of off the wall nonsense. One time on my plenty of fish profile I got drunk and put some really weird shit for my description. One part of it went into detail about my fear of swallowing staples. A few girls messaged me first. Sometimes thei…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/21 10:01 AM
7

I've had girls approach me a couple few times. One time on Christmas Eve a stripper bought me a beer at the strip club because she liked a joke she overheard me saying. Until fairly recently I was pretty oblivious to ladies attentions too. My buddies would point out how chicks were checking me out because I didn't notice. I'm not even exceptionally good looking. I have a total dad bod, but it's the type that you get from manual labor and beer. I only lift at work and only when I have to. Granted…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/21 08:59 AM
3

You rinse beer cans because if you don't you end up with ants.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/21 01:12 AM
1

Well yeah but it's a slippery slope. The difference between these platforms and traditional outlets is that with traditional platforms the editorial process happens before it is broadcast. With theses online platforms users publish content, then the platform is only able to edit content after it is published. This means if someone doesn't like the editorial process, they'll be able to find violations if they look hard enough
/r/MGTOW04/01/21 08:32 PM
1

The US slid some internet fuckery into its newest long awaited pandemic relief bill. I can't recall the details, but its something along the lines of platforms that let users post content no longer being protected from accountability for content posted by users. It might not be forever, but the internet is written in ink. By that analogy, the EU is burning books, while the US is trying to control the press. Even when history doesn't repeat itself, it does rhyme.
/r/MGTOW04/01/21 11:24 AM
4

Of course. We got along well enough for most of history without it. We could end up even better off for it, either through the lack of distraction, or knowledge gained as attempts to rebuild are carried out.
/r/MGTOW04/01/21 07:45 AM
7

I hope the internet is forever. From what I understand the physical infrastructure of the internet consists of around 10 big nodes of servers (6 are in the US) then relayed through levels of smaller servers. Any number of things could take those out. Solar flares, asteroid, nuclear war, a very well planned and executed terror attack. With how stupid things have been lately it might even be gophers or some goofy shit.
/r/MGTOW04/01/21 03:29 AM
1

Well I'm just not seeing that based on the data available
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 06:38 PM
0

Well apparently there's more ugly men according to this survey. Idk what to tell you man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 06:12 AM
0

Well all this chart tells me is that women are objectively more attractive than men. I already knew that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 08:19 PM
1

Neo classical metal ftw
/r/MGTOW26/12/20 10:15 AM
2

I listen to neo classical metal during the holiday season. It's more betterer that way. Weeds out the weak.
/r/MGTOW26/12/20 10:14 AM
0

Yayy for awards! That makes me way happier than it should.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 01:11 AM
6

It's like I always say. She will always remember her first, her last, and that one crazy motherfucker. You'll know if you're her first, you'd be a fool to count on being her last, so stick your thumb in her butt or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 10:30 PM
-4

When the baby gets hungry while your wife is sleeping you can just give it your wife's titty. You don't even have to wake her up. She'll probbly be less bitchy than normal when she does wake up.
/r/askMRP12/12/20 10:14 AM
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