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We're social animals, despite the differences un gender, I find that men and women like similar things in friends. A good sense of humor, shared interests and being able to blend with mixed company are some of the most common characteristics I see among friend groups. These traits are also very important when dating, because first: they allow you to meet potencial dates. Second: people don't tend to isolate their partners unless it's a very casual relationship, and even in casual dating people s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 01:31 AM
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Being sheltered may keep you away from harm and most struggles, but it also keeps you away from learning experiences, from opportunities to better yourself and from experiencing a sense of true fullfilment. Nothing risked nothing gained. There's a reason why the expression 'guilded cage' exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 01:16 AM
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My upbringing was very liberal compared to some stories here and it feels like people in this sphere are waiting to hear about how it failed, but emotionaly I'd say it was very succesful. I had a very care free childhood, my parents (my father especially) were pretty laid back, women in my family tended to be educated and worked, gender roles weren't strictly enforced and neither was religion tho we identified as catholics. My dad raised me in my teens (mom passed) and a moment that sticks out f…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 12:37 AM
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The term 'financial abortion' feels like such a misnomer to me, having an abortion means they child won't even exist, if a guy doesn't want to pay child support why doesn't he opt for termination of parental rights? Sure, he'd have to go through the beaurocracy and maybe get an atourney, it's a legal process afterall. But this process already exists, if men are so tired and so oppressed by pregnant women why aren't more opting to sever their paternal rights? An argument could be that it's costly…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 09:29 PM
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Well clearly it's about power, she was wielding a weapon. And I say it's beyond the pill because frankly I don't take any of them seriously out of the context of Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 03:49 AM
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It's funny, because I esa analysing this the other day while watching Keane concerts and their vocalist, Tom Chaplin, has a round baby face, but I still find him attractive and it's made me think about how some men overestimate masculinity sometimes or don't believe it when women express certain preferences. Being honest, I'm terribly superficial so an ugly man can't compensate with masculinity alone, I already have a hairy, grumpy man who changes my oil, he's called my mechanic. Pretty boys and…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 03:08 AM
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When people talk about status in dating I assume we are refering to somewhat stable people and their preferences and options. This is far from those cases, that woman is insane, her victims dating status is irrelevant because he's not in a typical dating scenario, he's just been raped and this sort of analysis seems insensitive in my opinion. There are some things that go beyond the pill. I hope the man gets justice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 02:54 AM
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Can confirm. Low n-count, neurotic, over critical, not hung up on or have weird expectations about sex but I hate being touched by strangers so why the fuck with I sleep with one on a first date! Thank the gods for my boyfriend for being cute and most of all tolerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 04:50 PM
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I consider myself to be 5 or 6/10 un terms of looks and can bump myself up to 7 or even an 8 with clothing and makeup (my face is nice and I'm in good shape). Most of the men who were most forward with me I'd rate as around 3-5, they were very nice and polite, but I just wasn't feeling it. The men I liked weren't models or varsity athletes, some were very skinny and others kinda chunky and one was actually shorter than me, but tended to have handsome features and nice hair, I'd describe them as …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 04:35 PM
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This. I don't have a sexual history before my current partner, but I had a lot of intense crushes. My last serious crush before my boyfriend was honestly, gorgeous, he was a really beautiful man and good with kids to boot, I never slept with him (I could barely talk to the guy) but even if I had, he moved his precious face out of the country, I can't follow him right now, what was I gonna do? Wait around forever to see him again? My boyfriend had an ex before me. If they hadn't broken up and I h…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:39 PM
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What is a more likely and reasonable answer: is the OP a misogynist (Feminist answer) or are the users accusing him of being one simply insecure themselves of approaching the Wall and thus projecting (Red-Pill answer)? Both. OP may not be a loud mouth lady hater but his preference is still rooted in valuing women for their youth which is a bit out dated and that raises people's (women's) hackles. Now with cosmetics and better health care a person with good genes can look youthful in their thirti…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 07:16 PM
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Counter arguments: https://www.google.co.ve/amp/s/jezebel.com/why-are-you-still-rejecting-short-guys-1729897406/amp https://www.google.co.ve/amp/s/m.mic.com/articles/amp/27294/what-women-want-will-we-ever-stop-stigmatizing-short-men And before you state that these women are making tall women victims, what they're trying to point out is that height is viewed as a gendered trait and short men and tall women both challenge gender norms and that makes people uncomfortable. A strict preference for sk…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 12:24 PM
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Meh, it's the same thing, you're still stating a physical preference. "Healthy bmi", everyone knows what that means. I've always thought that it's sorta trashy to state a preference that way and useless on platforms like Tinder, you're profile should be about you so others can vet YOU. Posting "I want a hot person" doesn't work, you get hot people by going after them. If you don't want fat chicks don't swipe right on girls with no body pics and dated photos. If you want tall guys get a pair of h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 11:49 AM
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We're talking actual magnetic resonance imaging, right? Not some weird pill lingo?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 04:32 AM
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In a way, I do view my relationships as investments given the work they take and how I plan to make them pay out, but I don't agree with your approach, you're trying to group men into very narrow categories when there are thousands of them. I've met men with stereotypical 'beta' and 'gamma' traits, push overs, boring, unassuming, a bit asocial, who still swore up and down that they would settle down later in life after a period of nsa sex. They may or may not be successful, if they aren't, it wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 04:12 AM
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For men. 5/10: Andy Samberg (https://aboveaverage.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/andysamberg.png) and Jordan Peele (https://vignette.wikia.nocookie.net/epicrapbattlesofhistory/images/7/77/Jordan_Peele.png/revision/latest?cb=20170121203005) would be my celebrity examples. Their bodies don't stand out, they have slightly wonky (big nose, big chin) features, but are still symmetrical and have pleasant smiles. Good grooming can make quite an impact,they can both clean up quite nicely: (https://www.g…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 03:04 AM
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So the silent mysterious type? This sounds exactly like my type in high school, back when I was a dorky teen with low self esteem I would always get crushes on that one guy who would always be alone or the quietest one within a group of people, given that I already found physically attractive of course.The thing about the quiet guy is that you can plaster over any sort of romantic fantasy you want on him. He could be dark and brooding. He could be a closet romantic. He could be observant and pen…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 12:49 AM
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I find neither one reassuring, just because you're honest about casual sex doesn't mean you can't be manipulative in other ways, which is why I don't care for short term relationships in general. I have nothing against non monogamy and casual sex because there are plenty of people who are high sex drive, low on jealousy, not ready or willing to put in the effort and resources for the long term and there's nothing wrong with that, so there is no excuse for lying and stringing people along.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 12:05 AM
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How about, neither. I'm not into casual sex, which seems to be the main focus of RP and therefore not of my taste but it's true that if a man promised commitment and acted interested in this only to manipulate me for sex I would find it despicable. Good for you for being straight forward with your casual partners, I figure this should be standard for all people who have casual sex. What do you want, a medal for basic human decency?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 11:47 PM
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And you're crisis here is because you can't get away with the same behaviour? Dude, there's nothing wrong with wanting NSA sex but sadly women have really high expectations for hook ups and when things are purely physical looks are going to win overall, you just gotta roll with the punches
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 03:04 AM
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Phenotypes can be modified externally. If you're so hung up on having what "Chad" has bulk up at the gym, get some platform shoes, slimming clothes and save up for cosmetic procedures.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 03:00 AM
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These men are flat-out different than other men. They have an almost electric presence that changes everything around them. He is disproportionately successful because of this: he scares, excites, intimidates, and naturally leads by turn. I have never met a man like this in my (fulfilling happy) life. The most electrifying man I've ever met was this comedian I saw once and he was just really funny and energetic but I wouldn't date him. Honestly a man like you describe sounds like he'd be exhaust…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 02:51 AM
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So basically a hot man trying to kiss up to me? I'd be all for it! He doesn't have to be overly political but he must have genuine respect for women, I don't do phonies. I don't feel like I'm able to answer this accurately from my perspective, but I consider myself fairly average if sorta plain and considering I've never had much in the way of male attention (much less from very attractive men) the idea of a very sexy man going beyond being just respectful but encouraging women is sexy as hell. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 02:30 AM
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Coming from someone who has only had sex in the context of established relationships, if I'm with you (general you) for the relationship it's because I really want to fuck you and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 01:46 AM
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Ok , I see, buuut, there are also women who aren't interested in sex, married young, have only been with one partner, have severe dissabilities and even if a horribly disfigured woman could still have sex, she may be too insecure to look for it. And like you said, most women aren't looking to rack up numbers, so why do some men still feel inadequate? Even with the numbers slightly in the women's favor, the genders still have similar numbers, why would people place any importance on numbers? Actu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 05:31 PM
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I was merely using my life experience as an example. Guys can be clueless, but even clueless guys can get laid. The problem is when men get desperate. I think one of few good arguments about red pill is make men improve themselves and find value because dating is purely conditional, no one dates without getting something in return obviously, that's why taking the pussy of the pedestal is good for men and women, men become more selecting and can access better relationships and women don't feel li…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 05:15 PM
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I'll give you that, I'm not into competition and neither is my partner (I actually find hyper competitive men annoying), that means we can set aside a little extra time for family or side projects. Hyper competitive, hyper demanding jobs with a family life are hard to balance and if you're couple you're either going to need outside help (delegating at job, nannies at home) or one of you has to step down. Time is a limited resource, no one is denying that. What I disgree with is the implication t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 04:57 PM
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Eleven in your teens is quite a number, me being someone who didn't have sex until adulthood, I find it impressive because I don't remember having the patience, security, maturity or skill to attract partners, and I was a girl!! Some would say all I would have to do was be more open to approaches but even that has it's struggles, and frankly, most of the boys and young men I knew didn't inspire much in me so without even trying to reject them they'd loose interest, jerky snot nosed acne riddled …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 04:35 PM
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Yes, women HATE boredom with a passion I think people in general hate being bored. Hell, any mildly intelligent animal with a fast enough metabolism hates being bored, it's natural (see border collies) much more than they hate being poor Yes, because i can just get a job if I need money. Believe or not most women are looking into becoming gold diggers, we're just as resigned as men to the fact that we have to hustle for ourselves. When a guy (or anyone else) bores me I have to grind my teeth and…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 04:24 PM
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I won't lie and say I'm some statistician when clearly I am not, I'm just trying to picture the bell curves in my head and to me they mostly overlap, so a man (and lots of women) trying to break through that curve are going to have an uphill battle. Personally, I don't feel it's worth it for either gender but then again I've never been one to play the numbers game. Someone also mentioned it being a smal sample size, that's certainly a concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 04:00 PM
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I love children and taking care of small animals. I like my career and the thought process that goes into it. I can enjoy both intellectual stimulation and tenderness, it's not an either/or kinda thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 06:36 AM
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Good for you for rejecting the bull. I'll admit I've been told about moms who treat their sons like "little lady killers", it's honestly disturbing for a parent to be that involved in their childs love life. As for the BB thing, I have my doubts. Speaking as a woman, if a man inspired that much boredom or disdain in me, there's no amount of money that would make me be with him in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 06:26 AM
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Ding ding ding ding. Allow me to correct one thing, it's not even about rape! Interacting with taken men is just over all comfortable because you feel no sense of obligation towards them. When you suspect a man is single and hitting on you you feel guarded and kinda guilty about the moment you'll have to implicitly or explicitly reject him. When you know a man has partner it's such a relief because you can just act like yourself without a care about how he takes it' 'he's got a girlfriend/wife' …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 05:06 AM
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Plenty of nerds both attractive and unnatractive have no filter, it's why I friendzone a lot of them in fact. It's great fun over a few drinks on a weekend, but I don't want my boyfriend talking about me the way some of the guys I know snark about other people, no thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 01:36 PM
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If anything his more alpha traits, such as lack of filter and risk taking, are bigger issues than any.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 01:11 PM
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Confidence is attractive in both genders, it's just that it looks different depending on gender presentation. My boyfriend said that he liked that I was generally out going and brainy. On the flipside, I love that he's generally positive and happy go lucky. He felt attracted to me because I get along with people but was also unique and not part of the crowd. I like that he doesn't let things keep him down, for example, he sucks at certain sports but he doesn't get down on himself or angry, he ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 01:08 PM
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This is one of the things that terrifies me as a woman who wants kids. I'm going to have to balloon up, live with a pseudoparasite for at least 7 months, go through the trial of birth, have my sleep cut nearly in half, breast feed for anywhere from 6 months up to 2 years so that my partner can drag his feet and be over all uninterested. I don't want to shit on men, I was raised by a wonderful single father who was very involved even when my mom was alive, that's why I keep my standards high and …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 12:54 PM
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I'm personaly vying for latino supremacy. We're sexy, proud, easily jump borders, many of us are bilingual and racialy ambiguous in many cases. Get ready for reggaeton, Chavo reruns and real football (not that crap with the helmets), perras
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 02:22 AM
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I'm not in favor of socialism, between being kept by a man or the government, I choose to educate myself and work for my money so I can spend it on booze, shoes and birth control to use with the men of my choosing. Sexual appeal or nothing, you weeners.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 01:58 AM
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The one thing i'm going to agree with you is that, yes, I would tolerate a bit of bad behavior from a hot guy as opposed to an ugly guy, but that's just because I want the hot guy, it's the same when a guy's with a bitchy ugly girl and he'll usually just ignore her but will tolerate a bitchy girl he finds attractive. But there's a limit, and if the guy goes beyond what's acceptable it won't matter how hot he is, if he mistreats me or others (physicaly or psychologicaly) I'm not going to stand fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 12:30 PM
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Speaking solely for myself, I don't think about ever going back to the men I rejected, they could become famous desirable movie stars, and I'd be thinking 'damn, that's nice but I was indifferent to them before, it wouldn't be fair to get on them now'. There will always be attractive men out there, some get there sooner or later, but when I like a guy I like him and that's it, he could have been a nerdy looser at some point, but if I met him during a good time in his life and start something wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 02:18 AM
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Unless the man got his money through corruption or some criminal activity, I agree, more power to him. I was simply stating that a persons wealth won't make me want them, it'll just make me want their wealth XD also, I love my little car, it just kinda sucks that as young person with surplus energy and no cataracts I don't have the money for an awesome car, welp
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 02:10 AM
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Speaking for myself, no, wealth does not produce arousal or physical attraction. Once I saw a man as old as my grampa driving a Camaro, I didn't feel any sort of attraction towards the old man, I just felt pitiful and sad at the thougth that I'll maybe have to spend the rest of my life busting my hump for the slight chance of having my dream while my young energetic ass is stuck with a shitty sedan :/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 11:39 PM
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This is sadly true, we (as a society) have a dismally low opinion of males, that's why the phrase "boys will be boys" exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 06:43 PM
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This is a really illustrative way of explaining consent, kudos for the awesome analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 05:43 PM
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You and I are both the same, yet on opposite sides. Face>body, but I like men with softer facial features, and I melt for kind puppydog eyes, no matter the color, my partner's just happen to be light blue
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 05:34 PM
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Considering I didn't get into the sex/relationship game until later than most of my peers, I'll say I counted as incel, just for the sake of argument. Physically, I'd place myself as squarely average, on the skinny-fit side, so it might have made me more or less attractive depending on who you ask, I was really athletic during that time, yet there were fat and unfit women who got flirts, sex and relationships while I remained single (no grudges btw, it was just how things were). I was (still am)…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 05:15 PM
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In a perfect world, sensitive nice guys would all look as cute as John Krasinski, but alas, one has to balance out physical attraction with emotional compatibility. There have been many kind and intelligent men in my life who simply didn't arouse me, cest la vie. That's the wonderful thing about movies/tv, the real love interest is always good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 02:54 AM
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women going for these men are not the brightest/safest/most ambitious themselves Bingo, here. Women who have invested in their education and careers aren't going to waste their time with these men. A woman who dreams of quiet dates with a bottle of cabernet isn't going to have much in common with some thug who chugs cheap malt liquor. Even when women are in their party phase, most will invest in birth control and avoid accidents.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 03:23 PM
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I dislike the whole "80/20" too, it's so reductionist. But it gets thrown around a lot, and I figured, if the men belonging to this 80 percent so desire sex and for a woman to want them, would it be ok if the women felt this way about them and a few other guys. It's kinda like a corollary to "would women be willing to share an alpha/chad?"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 10:26 PM
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The level of commitment is irrelevant, so is the money. The thing is, your only other option is singledom. You either fuck with her, or you don't fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 10:17 PM
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On the contrary, I don't care about his fame, I still think the guy's great. I was disagreeing with what you said that it would be over for him, the band broke up years ago, but they still have a following. I was just saying, that this was in terms of looks, his fame and money are irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 10:12 PM
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See, this is why I'm not framing it as casual sex, per se. The man is involved with the woman, the woman is involved with the man, she just happens to be involved with a few other men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 10:01 PM
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If it's because of his fame, no. We were talking about purely physical features, he's just an example (he's married). Another example would be Haley Joel Osment in his early twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 09:52 PM
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I never said the women I talked to were being dishonest, I just disagree with their argument. My type would probably be close to Frank Iero, the guitarist from My Chemical Romance
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 09:06 PM
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Buuuuuullllllll. Some women have told me this, but personaly, I love me some eye candy. The thing is, people don't believe women when we say we are attracted to certain unique things, men think the only type of man who can get us wet has to be 6 feet tall, squared jaw and squared shoulder, and built like a tank. I sincerely looove men with round faces and nice lips, I like thick arms, but I don't mind them being more fat than muscle, I want something to cuddle with, and I really don't care about…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 08:57 PM
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Well I'm sorry dude, dating is shit. Everyone, men, women, transgender people complain about it, the reasons may differ, but everyone has a beef with their dating life. And as I said, I was venting, I've never told a guy that to his face, if someone is going to die alone it will be by their own hand, not mine. I can't put an ugly guy "in his place", I have no authority over him, my looks or my vagina don't hold any special power, all I have jurisdiction over is my own person, the only thing I ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 08:43 PM
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Oh my god, this bullshit. No. Just, no. I have been hit on by, without mincing words, ugly dudes, and thought I didn't find them physically appealing, I acknowledge that they were all really nice and polite about it, I don't remember an instant of harrassment on my part (I feel very lucky for that), so take it from me, right hand over my heart, I bear no ill will to an ugly guy who hits on me, so long as his behaviour is appropriatte. That being said, I was uncomfortable when these guys proposit…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 08:28 PM
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You wanted a plate?! Fuck, dude, I almost felt sorry for you. I realize you must be down on yourself and feeling a bit insecure, like maybe there's something you could have done differently, but you can't. She's just not that into you, bro. Since you're feeling a bit like a chick at the moment, I'm going to thoughtfully give you some female advice, next time you find yourself with a sexy someone, actually discuss what you want (casual, ons, ltr) instead of jumping into bed and finding out things…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/18 11:53 PM
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What about the women who choose to leave the dating game? Spinsters, crazy cat ladies, child free women? They've existed forever and few seem to care. I actually heard a statistic that said that more than half of the asexual community is female. Soooo, accounting for gay/bi women who won't really care that much, and if you believe the people here that say women are more tolerant of polygamy, that would have to be a lot of men. Right now, mgtow just sound like a bunch of male spinsters
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 12:19 PM
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It depends on the type of ugly, if we're talking terrible bone structure, deformity, serious skin condition, then nope; I know non of this is a persons fault or something that one can easily control, but it's unfair to them to be used out of pity and desperation and it sucks for me to have lie about my need for attraction. Now, taking Giamatti specificaly, he's really not that bad, he has a nice smile and full cheeks (I happen to like round faces), the biggest issue would be age, but if I was cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 05:34 PM
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If she finds him attractive, he can miss most reasonable expectations and she won't care. Don't guys do this as well when they bang hot crazy chicks?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 09:44 PM
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Honestly, I don't understand why people make demands on their profile, your profile is about you, not other people. When people put demands or wants, especially when very specific, I assume the person is an entitled ass with no personality. A profile should be a short description of what you consider your best features in the hope that someone might like it and maybe message you, I just talked about my career and made a few stupid jokes, as a woman, this probably didn't mean much to most guys, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 08:34 PM
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