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| 1 | Hey guys. Not divorced yet but she’s drifting away fast. I’m become somewhat unhinged with despair trying to change her mind but I think it’s only making it worse and her decision easier. Any advice for how I can be to hope for a change in the outcomeI'd pay money to see your face when reality hits and my words are replaying in your head. Have fun while it lasts. 😂 | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/08/21 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Hey guys. Not divorced yet but she’s drifting away fast. I’m become somewhat unhinged with despair trying to change her mind but I think it’s only making it worse and her decision easier. Any advice for how I can be to hope for a change in the outcomeAll of these questions are "it depends". I've always taken out 10% to 30% of my check in cash as spending money and to out away in a lockbox for emergency savings. (1) Hence my taking out cash is a normal behavior. For you I don't know. (2) So it depends. Are you willing to be homeless because you're worried about what the judge might do? If so, then you really need to speak to someone about what a real divorce looks like. Divorce isn't what you see on tv or movies where it's something that happ… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/08/21 08:45 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend friend is getting married and she wants prenupsThis is good for him if it's n all or none prenup. Meaning: they leave with what they brought in and only with what they made or contributed to while married. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/08/21 08:46 PM |
| 3 | Hey guys. Not divorced yet but she’s drifting away fast. I’m become somewhat unhinged with despair trying to change her mind but I think it’s only making it worse and her decision easier. Any advice for how I can be to hope for a change in the outcomeThey ALL do this. Take it personal but don't take it like you're the only one. This'll make sense when your head is clearer. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/08/21 03:11 PM |
| 3 | Hey guys. Not divorced yet but she’s drifting away fast. I’m become somewhat unhinged with despair trying to change her mind but I think it’s only making it worse and her decision easier. Any advice for how I can be to hope for a change in the outcomeNot knowing the full picture, here are the general things I would suggest: There's no changing her mind. It's tough, but your ONLY option is to think about yourself and plan your divorce strategy ahead of time. The clock is ticking. If she's at the point that she doesn't want to listen and work things out, then she's already started making her arrangements and is putting things in place. And sorry, there's more than likely another man or men waiting in the background. Plus, all of her friends an… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/08/21 03:09 PM |
| 3 | (29M, 27F) - My wife has moved in with her family, and demanded I make changes in order to get her back home. Married 4 years. We have no kids, no assets.. she works part time, and I’m full time, making 100k. I feel so lonely, but i’m tired of trying to fight to bring her home. I need guidance..Brother, the first thing you need to do is go see a mental health provider. You really don't want to get a divorce in the emotional state that you're in right now. If she left the house of her own will, then you can claim abandonment. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/08/21 02:48 AM |
| 3 | Won at temporary orders hearingOpposing council might try to prolong the case by rescheduling. Make sure you're paying more child support than you owe until things settle down. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/08/21 07:27 PM |
| 5 | Won at temporary orders hearingDon't celebrate too early. Start putting away money for child support. The State will most likely miscalculate how much you owe between now and shortly after the finalized divorce. Your legal fees might skyrocket between now and the final decree. Because your wife might start to do some dumb shit that will eat up your projected legal budget. Make sure your decree denies her from moving outside of your current city or county. She will try to move out of state to spite you and get more child suppo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/08/21 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Seeking adviceIt depends on the State. In some, like Texas, they'll still get half of all assets regardless of when and who acquired it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/08/21 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Seeking adviceThis is a toughy. You have to provide the state that you live in for clearer guidance. As you already stated, a lawyer will be required. I wouldn't go back to the house to live, or for anything other than your belongings, because she'll undoubtedly try to get a domestic violation charge put on you. You should also work on getting documentation to show that you didn't abandon the house and family. Try to get her to admit in an email that she kicked you out of the house. Maybe the lawyer can use t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/08/21 04:50 AM |
| 18 | Don’t know what to doDo NOT take her back unless you're willing to know that she has a thing for sleeping with other people. If that something you can live with then at least make some rules around it. Finally, and most important, if you do take her back make her sign a post numptual that favors you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/08/21 02:00 PM |
| 3 | US Population Could Shrink for First Time on Record: ReportYes, average testosterone and sperm counts are down worldwide in young males. So, I'm not surprised if their libidos are also sub par. | /r/MGTOW2 | 02/08/21 06:01 AM |
| 7 | US Population Could Shrink for First Time on Record: ReportSignificantly less. | /r/MGTOW2 | 02/08/21 01:15 AM |
| 6 | US Population Could Shrink for First Time on Record: ReportWe need this, badly. I hope and pray that society collapses on gynocentrism. Let it all be put to the test. Then watch as balance is restored. It's just a matter of time before China and Russia make their move. | /r/MGTOW2 | 02/08/21 01:14 AM |
| 6 | The Gym is the new Nightclub.It's Reddit, dude. You can post the obvious, but if it goes against SJW religion, the downvoters and censors are triggered. | /r/MGTOW2 | 02/08/21 12:37 AM |
| 3 | 50/50 custody, child support due to wage differentialIn the beginning, put some money aside just in case you have to pay more than you think. They like to hit you with unexpected back child support statements for whatever legal or administrative reasons they can come up with. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/08/21 12:05 AM |
| 2 | Clip: Why to avoid contact with women in the workplace.This. | /r/MGTOW2 | 01/08/21 08:48 PM |
| 3 | Clip: Why to avoid contact with women in the workplace.I am a lower key version of this at work myself. I've had two false accusations made against me at different periods of time at difference companies. Never again. | /r/MGTOW2 | 01/08/21 08:48 PM |
| 7 | The Gym is the new Nightclub.A Men Only gym sounds entirely too close to a "bath house". | /r/MGTOW2 | 01/08/21 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Can’t get a settlement. Gonna have to go to trial. Lots of false accusations to face. Well fellas, it totally sucks!Go back and try to find any and all documents that support your side. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/07/21 07:54 PM |
| 4 | Future living expensesYes! Get some paperwork from an apartment complex or new home development. Say you might have to move closer to be able to pick up the children when leaving work. Make sure it's written in your divorce decree that she cannot leave the city or county for a new home with the children. Be adamant about that. Women love moving to separate you from your child. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/07/21 07:41 PM |
| 4 | Future living expensesNew clothes Gym Membership Gas for picking up your kids New home expenses Legal fees Retirement reassessment More tax payments | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/07/21 07:35 PM |
| 6 | My girlfriend cosigned my mortgage. I paid the mortgage for 4 years, plus a $125,000 down payment. She paid the utilities. Now she wants halfDepending on where you live, you are common law married. Prepare to get fucked with no Vaseline. | /r/MGTOW2 | 31/07/21 06:15 AM |
| 3 | Accepting Feelings too soon?Yup, they're going to use that date to determine child support. They're also going to make him responsible for all of the family's and home's expenses. This guy is toast. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/07/21 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Accepting Feelings too soon?You're not angry now. That's ok. You'll need all that energy to power through the divorce. Then fight the State regarding child support. The trauma from watching your daughter be turned against you. Try to put things back together. If that doesn't work, you better file first. Otherwise .... | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/07/21 11:01 PM |
| 7 | How to communicate when angry?Email: Limit your communication to two sentences, max. Type them in a text editor first before sending them in an email. Be as objective, factual, and robotic as possible in your writing prose. Text messages: Do not return text messages immediately after receiving them unless it's a certified life and death emergency. Children: If your kids tell you something that pisses you off. Sleep on it and address it the next day with a clearer head. In the interim, go for a long walk to cool down and burn… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/07/21 06:59 PM |
| 0 | How to not lose all to a gold diggerLaw enforcement shares tools in a very small ecosystem. Knowledge spreads. What is considered high tech today and.may be used exclusively by the FBI will be low tech tomorrow and used by low level police, forensic accountants, and private detectives. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/07/21 06:52 PM |
| 2 | How to not lose all to a gold diggerSorry to burst your bubble, but Bitcoin is the worst way to hide your wealth. The FBI has openly admitted that they love when criminals believe this and try to use BTC for criminal activities because it's so easy to follow the transactions. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/07/21 03:37 AM |
| 1 | How to not lose all to a gold diggerThere's so much info already out there. At this point, dudes just need to get their money together, update their passports, and buy their tickets before borders are shut down permanently. The System is trying to restrict free movement and overall human interaction. An ignorant population is easier to control. An isolated population is easier to depopulate. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/21 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Nobody notices this? 🤨"overhead"? | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/21 09:25 PM |
| 0 | How to not lose all to a gold diggerColombia/Panama, West Africa, and southeast Asia. You're right that AWALT. However, in many of these countries men are "men" and they're still in control of their households. I'm not entirely against marriage or women. I'm against what it and they have become, respectively, in The West. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/21 08:52 PM |
| 7 | Nobody notices this? 🤨This is womanist led propaganda. As you implied, most men are not "abusing" their wives. What they've sold society is that all men should have to pay for the minority. Hence, the onus falls at the feet of the majority of men. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/21 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Nobody notices this? 🤨It's because The System makes money off of failed relationships, but especially failed marriages. They, The System, literally incentivizes women to kill their unborn children, divorce their husbands on a whim, neglect their children for their careers, and destroy their overall family's wealth and bloodlines. Think of all the wealth that would be accumulated in a strong family. The Lion share is transferred directly to The System and its support structures. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/21 08:37 PM |
| 4 | How to not lose all to a gold diggerI'm planning my escape from the US to move overseas. I'll live as a digital nomad where women and society are more balanced. The US and The West are heading off a cliff with no return to what made it great in the first place. The pro XX ideology will eventually destroy "America" from within. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/21 08:26 PM |
| 6 | How to not lose all to a gold diggerBut you most likely brought her ... wait for it ... to The West. Are you seeing a pattern here? You have to go there AND STAY THERE for the duration of the marriage. The system is specifically set up for women to destroy and extract wealth from men so other people can also make money out of the process. Think about the lawyers, the police, the jails, the courts, child support system, the IRS, the realtors, the retailers, lock smiths, storage unit operators, moving companies, etc. All of them are… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/21 08:06 PM |
| 5 | How to not lose all to a gold diggerBro, I'm not trying to be mean, but if you live in The West, do NOT get married unless she makes significantly more than you - like Paris Hilton heiress money. Do not cohabitate either because that opens you up to common law marriage risks. Go overseas and marry a foreigner if you simply have to get married for emotional reasons. Even then, there's still no guarantees that things wont go south. If you get married in the West in 2021 and beyond whatever happens to you afterwards is your fault. Wh… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/21 08:00 PM |
| 4 | How to not lose all to a gold diggerFreeAgentLifestyle | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/21 07:54 PM |
| 3 | How to not lose all to a gold diggerFirst, you cannot get married in the West and expect to not get a divorce and to not lose a lot. Your money is just a part of that lot to lose. Second, if you've already made the mistake of marriage, you have to do the following: 1) Insurance policy: Gold, silver, diamonds at an undisclosed location that you, your brother, father know about. Either bury it on family land that your father owns or put them in a storage unit that the wife doesn't know about. Make sure it's not in your name. Check i… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/21 07:51 PM |
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