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Depends. Are men shallow because they want to date an attractive woman? I really don't see much wrong with a woman wanting someone successful. It's not just about wanting gifts or nice things. It can be about security and not worrying about money. Sure there are certainly gold diggers or women who use their looks to live a certain lifestyle. But I think most people people just want love and to be secure.
/r/ExRedPill22/01/20 09:51 PM
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I was broke most of my life and didn't start making money till after I met my wife so I can only speak from my experience but the kind of women interested only in money are shallow and not worth my time.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/20 09:39 PM
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I think red pill is probably more niche than you think. I'm guessing only a small portion of a certain age group has even heard about it let alone practice it.
/r/ExRedPill21/09/19 01:40 PM
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I agree. I did AA for the first year and was completely sober before I relapsed for almost another a year. When I got clean the second time I did work through all 12 steps and I learned a great deal about myself. I learned that I had a resentments and it was really enlightening to look back and see the part I played in my own demise. Also I learned that I couldnt entirely trust my own brain. I always thought I knew what I needed to do but yet always ended up back in a bad situation. By relying o…
/r/ExRedPill20/09/19 03:12 PM
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It doesn't come overnight. I was an opiate addict from 18-28 (36 now). That first year sober was rough, so many emotions and insecurities I hadn't felt in a long time. After being on drugs for such a long time you will want everything fixed right away but sorry to tell you it will take years and it's an ongoing process. Just stay clean and focus on fixing the tangibles and discovering yourself with come with time.
/r/ExRedPill20/09/19 02:45 AM
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It might not be the asshole they are attracted to. It's probably the assholes confidence or popularity (or looks). It's important to remember that while you self conscious so are a lot of women, especially in highschool and college. A lot of times they all go for the same "asshole" because they are insecure and that guy represents "fitting in" or at least "fitting the mold". I hooked up with a lot of girls in my single days, but I also wasn't picky. I was picky who I got into a relationship with…
/r/ExRedPill20/09/19 02:41 AM
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I did preface that "it was gonna come off as shitty" but my thought was if your gonna be an asshole, do it while your young. Maybe you will learn from it, maybe you wont. I'm sorry that your dating life was quiet in college. Sounds like you would have preferred it otherwise. I meant no disrespect.
/r/ExRedPill20/09/19 02:25 AM
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This may seem shitty but sounds like your in college and college is a time to date around, make mistakes, sleep with lots of people. You sound self aware enough to see what's going on. Eventually you will grow out of it (or not) but I used to cheat on gfs and be an asshole when I was in my twenties and Im very happily married now at 36 with kids and what not.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/19 07:55 PM
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This is great advice. This guy is suffering from insecurity to say the least. Possibly depression but can't tell. But the thing about clitoral stimulation is spot on. My wife only gets off from clictoral play and it has nothing to do with my member's size.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/19 01:37 AM
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Woman only craved assholes in high school and college which was was basically because of their own insecurity and the need to feel popular. Remember everyone is going through the own journey and I found many of the "hot chicks" in those days were the most insecure. I know because I was an asshole guy and I prayed on insecure women. In the end I learned I was insecure myself and I used those women to feel better about myself. I'm 36 now and id say most of the single women I know are looking for a…
/r/ExRedPill02/09/19 06:14 PM
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I think you're over thinking this. I guess by your definition I am a natural or was before I met my wife but I've had sex pretty consistently from age 15 through today at 35 (never going more than a month or two without it). If you're all up in your own head which by this post I'm going to guess you are, you miss the opportunity to connect with someone. I'm not the best looking guy, but I'm confident and funny and don't mind being myself which is a little weird. I think confidence is the absolut…
/r/ExRedPill25/08/19 02:42 AM
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My mom and dad never went to divorce court. They just did the right thing and split things fifty fifty. My dad also promised my sister a car when she graduated college and made good on it. My wife and I keep all our finances seperate and have about the same amount of money more or less and earn about the same. She earns more. If our marriage doesn't work out, I wouldn't fight her. We would just split it all.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/19 03:21 PM
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Ahh I assumed you didn't want to see her and her date/ex. Not sure why you would care about her friends but one thing I've learned with women is it's always better to just not fight. Let them think they are right, even if they are not. Who cares. Makes them happy.
/r/ExRedPill13/08/19 10:40 PM
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The better answer as to why you don't want to see the pictures is "I don't care about your life before we met, I only care about how you are now" or something like that. When I met my wife I never wanted to know how many sexual partners she had before me or what her last boyfriends were like. For starters I don't want to talk about my exes or how many people I've been with (she might find it gross), and secondly it's none of my business. What we did talk about STDs and whether or not we had them…
/r/ExRedPill13/08/19 10:14 PM
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I didn't mention personality or looks. Obviously when dating someone you want to be physically attracted to them and them to you. In some cases someone can attract someone they aren't attracted to but it's not a good start and a lot to overcome.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/19 03:44 AM
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Well when I met my wife I was dead broke and had nothing popping career wise. She on the other hand had an MBA, owned a home (i was renting a room in someone's house) , and she had a great job. As we started dating she helped push me to want more for myself in the most unselfish way possible. Just by her being herself I wanted to do better for myself. After a few years my career started to take off and eventually my income surpassed hers even though this past year she started making more again. …
/r/ExRedPill06/08/19 03:38 AM
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I think you're overthinking this. I've had sex pretty consistently since I'm 15 and now I'm 36 and been married for several years at this point as well. I still get off pretty quickly but it's not that big deal if you make sure your partner gets off first (fingers, mouth).
/r/ExRedPill16/07/19 08:53 PM
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I'll admit. I'm not a healthy person. I'm naturally lean. But I don't work out or eat well. And I smoke (although I vape now instead at my wife's request). I'm athletic and like playing sports. But running and lifting weights bores me. But I always thought that if I did gain weight and didn't like how I looked, that I would force myself to stay in shape.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/19 02:39 PM
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I always had a full dating life (before I married), had friends and hobbies, and was not depressed. I broke up with some girls, others left me. Sometimes it hurt, sometimes I barely noticed. The thing I don't like about the first guy is he did all these things just to get woman, not for himself. You don't need to play games to get girls and trick them in to liking you. Your world should not revolve around getting woman that's true. But you also don't need to ignore things woman are interested li…
/r/ExRedPill13/07/19 02:11 PM
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How are you meeting so many women with schizophrenia? I've met one person with schizophrenia my entire life and I'm 36. Are you just using that term loosely to mean crazy or do they really have it? Edit: nevermind I just re-read and see you have it to. Probably want to stay away unmedicated schizophrenic women As for your question. You can be friends with woman but I find my relationships with girls are different than my guy friends and the older you get the less girl friends you have. When I wa…
/r/ExRedPill12/07/19 03:31 AM
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