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| 8 | Guys Who've Been Through Divorce: What Was the HARDEST Part to Get Used To?For me it was not seeing my son, except one weekend every two weeks and me taking him to school , and then it was the loneliness, not sharing a bed with someone who you once held close, and learning to unlove somebody, it all takes time get over that but it does get easier and better and now I love doing stuff on my own, and you will too in time dude, just gotta keep moving forward and talk about how you feel mentally, don’t let any negative thoughts fester and boil over, and you’ll be ok | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/12/25 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Survey: how much custody % do you have as the father?50/50 | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/02/25 01:17 AM |
| 6 | The divorce subreddit is sickening!!!!Sorry to hear that brother, how’re you holding up | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/01/25 01:08 PM |
| 16 | The divorce subreddit is sickening!!!!Funnily enough my ex wife used that term too the ole death by a thousand cuts bullshit, she cheated on me with an ex from before we met, 15 years wasted | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/01/25 12:24 AM |
| 4 | Am I an asshole for saying this:I have to be on good-ish terms with my ex wife as we have a son together but if no kids were involved I’d burn all her shit and piss on the ashes | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/11/24 07:33 PM |
| 4 | How to deal with upcoming AnniversaryThe first one since separating was tough I was stressed about it for ages, I stupidly got married on my birthday but in 2023 I spent it’s with our son, and this year I spent it with our son again and my father and it didn’t even enter my mind really this year | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/08/24 11:01 PM |
| 12 | Is your new girlfriend way better than your ex wife?King energy | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/08/24 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Is your new girlfriend way better than your ex wife?Yes | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/08/24 10:16 PM |
| 3 | What are the best/worst aspects of life post-divorce? What has helped you rise again?You got this dude 🫡🫡 | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/24 11:48 PM |
| 3 | What are the best/worst aspects of life post-divorce? What has helped you rise again?Good luck dude, we’re all here for ya, and you will get through this, and remember someone will always be around to listen if your feeling low, I found that moving into a new flat or house at first is lonely as fuck, and that’s when the darker side of thinking comes out but when that happens please call or talk to someone, too many men lose their lives to this stuff cos they think no one will listen cos of the old school ways of men don’t talk about feelings and we just get on with it mindset, i… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/24 11:42 PM |
| 3 | What are the best/worst aspects of life post-divorce? What has helped you rise again?Yeah it’s really hard using dating apps, I stopped using them tbh as they were a nightmare, one other thing I can say is don’t hold onto it, whatever happened with you both don’t hold onto it, let it go and move on, take the time you need to recover when meeting people new, become happy with yourself being on your own, I don’t have the answers as to why my ex wife of ten years cheated on me and she won’t tell me, I’ve stopped asking and left it in the past, we only talk about our son and we get … | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/24 11:21 PM |
| 5 | What are the best/worst aspects of life post-divorce? What has helped you rise again?Dating apps suck, it’s gonna be lonely but when you get your own place you answer to no one else and it’s great, being a divorced male mostly assume your the reason why | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/24 10:40 PM |
| 1 | World changed right before my eyes.Thanks I guess | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/04/24 12:59 PM |
| 6 | World changed right before my eyes.I’m sorry to hear that man, you and your son ok | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/04/24 12:09 AM |
| 5 | I don't know, guys....It will get better dude, I separated from my ex wife in 2022, divorce is now in finalisation end of month, it’s hard to going back to being single, it’s hard to get back out there and start dating due to apps and all new kinds of etiquette that I missed as I was with someone since I was 19, I’m 37 this year, it’s hard but you’re doing something you’re going to the gym and being active instead of wallowing, learn to love yourself and love being on your own which is the harder part, we’ve all had … | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/24 10:45 PM |
| 6 | She moved on super quickMy ex wife didn’t, she had no problem cheating or what it would to our son or how he felt, just unreal shit | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/03/24 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Please tell me it gets betterIt gets better and easier dude, I’m 18 months in, now and I’ve just started dating again, it hurts, it’s hard but you’ll be ok dude I promise | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/03/24 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Did you sleep with your x-wife after the divorce?Oh yeah been hitting the gym for a solid 14 months now, so I’m deffo healthier than I was than when all this started with the ex wife 🤣 | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/02/24 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Did you sleep with your x-wife after the divorce?Fucking hope so, I’m dating someone after over year of separation and fixing myself and yeah I wanna perform pretty fucking well 🤣🤣 | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/02/24 11:34 PM |
| 3 | Did you sleep with your x-wife after the divorce?No, I did for the first few months we were separated, more of a cathartic kinda thing for both of us but that was nearly a year ago now, and my divorce is being finalised in April so nope | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/02/24 11:32 PM |
| 5 | Will she ever regret or have any remorse for what she did?Nah, my ex wife has never shown remorse for what she did | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/02/24 12:08 AM |
| 7 | Has anyone’s Ex-wife ever apologized for putting them through hell?Nope, my ex wife has held no remorse or accountability for her actions, it’s weird cos it’s like she’s completely separated what she did from everything else’s she’s seeing a new guy now and has been for 6 months, but in her head fully believes that what she did never really kind of happened and doesn’t acknowledge any of the pain it’s caused me, it’s bizarre | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/02/24 12:21 AM |
| 3 | Check this outDamn, my life in pictures | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/03/23 04:55 PM |
| 3 | What is divorce? A man's perspective.Man, I feel all those right now | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/02/23 07:41 AM |
| 1 | I'm so scared of the unknown, what the other side looks like.And you pal, you got this bro | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/02/23 12:24 PM |
| 1 | I'm so scared of the unknown, what the other side looks like.I’m in the same boat as you brother, I live in the uk but the principle still applies, I moved out at her suggestion, she did the cheating but I did what I thought best for myself and son, I was genuinely convinced separation would fix things now I’m living in a box room all alone, I see my son daily for school which is great but like you all my friends have settled down so going out and meeting people is quite difficult and at times that loneliness really creeps in | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/02/23 07:43 AM |
| 2 | Love yourself and your kids!Pretty much yeah, we still get on great but yeah, I’m living back with my mother and Brother, we’re giving it till end of feb then deciding, hoping she buys me out of half the house we own cos I don’t want it and I need home for my son, so yeah | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/02/23 12:05 AM |
| 2 | Love yourself and your kids!Wish I told myself that 8 months ago | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/23 07:20 PM |
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