dapperbrogrammer Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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713	FR - My story - She is not who you think she is, 15 years to find this out (the hard way) Jesus, that's enough red pill for today.	/r/TheRedPill	30/06/15 05:16 PM
6	(Not Just) Another Post About Lifting: Reasons beyond health and fitness Awesome. It was depressing to realize that your looks dictate so many aspects of your social interactions, but that has given me more motivation to get my swoleness in order no matter what. After losing 70 pounds, people treat me so much better. I can only imagine what the future holds after losing 30 more and starting proper bulks (your post gives a glimpse!).	/r/TheRedPill	04/06/15 07:57 AM
2	I have a web of inferiority complexes (about my height, looks, and so on). I am not happy. What can I do? 5'6" is a hindrance, not a road block. Totally workable, but you gotta turn your other weaknesses into strengths. If you aren't lifting, lift. If you aren't the best dressed guy in the room in most situations, fix that. Self-improvement by itself is one of the most rewarding things you can do. Do it!	/r/askTRP	25/05/15 09:14 PM
1	I have a web of inferiority complexes (about my height, looks, and so on). I am not happy. What can I do? How short? Do you feel that your social skills are subpar because of your introversion? If yes, then keep developing them. Socializing will become more enjoyable, you'll feel more relaxed and thus social situations won't tax you as much. These factors will drive you to socialize more. A virtuous cycle. You say you are lazy. For that you gotta man up, there aren't any shortcuts. Keep in mind that successful men are treated better, so substituting laziness for determination will help all areas of …	/r/askTRP	25/05/15 09:01 PM
18	The difference a year can make: my two polar opposite NYE parties. Uplifting story, though it would be better suited for the thankTRP sub. Congrats on beating social anxiety, I know how it feels. It's funny how quickly you can turn things around when you know which things to work on and have the motivation for it.	/r/TheRedPill	25/05/15 03:11 PM
5	Entrepreneurship I agree with you, good post. I co-founded a business a couple years ago while in university and it was a lot harder than I thought. It failed within a year. We didn't have enough skills and experience, but the founding experience really pointed out the things I need to improve to succeed. Maybe I'll give it a new go in a couple years. If you have experience in the industry you're going for, and you can do sales & marketing, go for it. You have a chance of success. If you're thinking about foundi…	/r/TheRedPill	24/05/15 03:27 PM
1	Why Red Pillers Are (Probably) Sexy As Fuck Yes, I agree that people in the top 20% do find their way here and find the sub interesting. Especially if they have relationship problems. But like you said about getting a book and going out getting laid - you didn't need to finish the book because you didn't have a problem to fix. You got laid anyway, you just found it interesting and fun. So for you this stuff is optional but for the bottom 80%, they absolutely need to get this shit down to fix their problems. That's why those already in the…	/r/TheRedPill	27/04/15 07:31 PM
3	Why Red Pillers Are (Probably) Sexy As Fuck I agree that the ego is very sensitive to all things sexual. Example: the ubiquitousness of "size doesn't matter" thinking with relation to boobs, dicks and height. I think your theory applies well to the majority, I just pointed out some exceptions.	/r/TheRedPill	27/04/15 07:00 PM
10	Why Red Pillers Are (Probably) Sexy As Fuck Well, a certain demographic of Red Pillers. Smart people who have read TRP for even a short amount of time would know to be wary of following you on a twitter account with their photo.	/r/TheRedPill	27/04/15 06:44 PM
13	Why Red Pillers Are (Probably) Sexy As Fuck The ones that are already in the top 20% aren't as likely to find their way to this sub, because they don't have problems with women in general. People come here to fix their problems with women and stay to fix their life. Those who gain fast success already have an average to semi-high SMV that they raise quickly but shedding a few pounds of fat, gaining a few pounds of muscle and adjusting their attitude to women. I suspect most FRs and posts come from these guys. For the bottom SMV guys, they…	/r/TheRedPill	27/04/15 06:03 PM
6	My take on "looks don't matter" statements No need to sell out. Dressing well doesn't equal dressing fashionably. Go for a timeless, masculine look with quality clothes. You say your clothes fit your form so you're well on your way already.	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/15 05:28 PM
10	My take on "looks don't matter" statements Agreed. We have social fears because before civilization came along, failing socially could have you ousted from your tribe. You'd likely die. We haven't evolved to the new reality of civilization where that risk is much smaller. Similarly women will want to fuck the top dog in their tribe, because before civilization there probably wasn't another tribe nearby and if you didn't fuck the top dog, the tribe risked extinction. Nowadays tribes are abundant and women would optimize their reproductive…	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/15 10:27 AM
9	My take on "looks don't matter" statements I've witnessed that effect. Maybe looks are a heuristic to status and pre-selection. A good looking guy is high status and pre-selected by default in a woman's eyes while a below average guy is the opposite. But when the social hierarchy these men operate in becomes evident to the woman, the defaults are corrected and she likely goes for the top dog if he passes the fuckable bar. If that's the below average looking guy, women rationalize with "if he gives me the tingles, then he must be hot". If…	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/15 06:59 AM
5	My take on "looks don't matter" statements You only mention the wide-reaching super high status indicators. You are correct, a lot of time and effort is needed to achieve those. Contextual status like being a wildly popular guy in your social circles is far more easy to acquire.	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/15 06:15 AM
4	You are just the best right now. OP's and your post made me think about what we should expect from relationships. Reading about OP's experience was depressing. You walk and talk the red pill, hit the gym with your girl (because SHE is mate guarding) and a couple seconds of eye contact later, your girl cheating or branch swinging is only contingent on whether Chad wants to or not. Being in the anger phase, I want to rationalize that maybe she's just a hoe. The alternative AWALT reality seems so grim: you really can't depend an o…	/r/TheRedPill	08/04/15 09:56 AM
3	"I pay more in rent, of course, cause she's got a mortgage" Let's say you book a bed in a 2-person shared room in a hostel. Both you and the stranger that has booked the other spot pay $50 for the night. That would be the market value. Even if you earned 200k a year and the other guy earned 10k, you'd still pay $50 each. This is fair, right? Now enter your SO. You book the same shared room for the two of you. If you both pay the $50, there is no subsidizing. You both pay the market value. If you pay a part of her portion, then you are subsidizing her. If…	/r/TheRedPill	02/04/15 05:00 PM
6	"I pay more in rent, of course, cause she's got a mortgage" I didn't downvote you but I do disagree with you. People should pay the amount that the service (in this case housing) is valued on the market, not an amount based on how much they're making money. Otherwise someone is subsidizing someone. That's not necessarily bad, as long as the subsidizer understands the situation and is fine with it. Your way of thinking is similar to the Nordic welfare states and their social support programs.	/r/TheRedPill	02/04/15 10:13 AM
0	Should I dump my LTR and go monk mode? I had also gotten overweight during my previous 5 year relationship and am now losing weight and lifting. After unplugging I saw that the relationship is done but wanted to keep it going for a while to have regular sex and practice RP behavior while increasing my SMV - very similar to your situation. In the end she left shortly after my unplugging, primarily due to outside factors (long story). So how am I doing now? My SMV is still low and as such it is hard to get girls currently (N 2,5 months…	/r/askTRP	30/03/15 03:02 PM
5	[FR] Realizing TRP in my parents I had a somewhat similar experience after receiving my copy of the RP goggles. My father is quite BP in our family but all the advice he gives me on career and work aligns with RP. For example: Don't hesitate with decisions; make your best guess and go with that. Risks are inherent in business. If you later find out you were wrong, reassess the situation. For every decision you're going to get shit from somebody who didn't like it. Don't let that distract you. Express your opinion strongly. That…	/r/TheRedPill	29/03/15 09:18 PM
4	A Guide To Being Ugly It's hard to quantify how much women appreciate looks to other features compared to men. This is what we are arguing about and we won't ever reach an exact conclusion. We know from our own experience that looks are very important for us men, but on the other hand when faced with a lesser SMV girl that has charm and other good traits, we can find heaps more value in them. We have some leeway for looks. And if we have leeway for looks, then sure as hell women have too. But how large is that leeway…	/r/TheRedPill	28/03/15 01:33 AM
4	I lost the genetic lottery when it came to looks, and had a terrible upbringing that messed up my self-esteem and shit. Otherwise, I am actually better than most people. I am constantly miserable. Where to go from here? Eating healthy and lifting (or other exercise) will not only improve your physical attractiveness but also mental health. You will feel happier solely by doing those. And as always, you have to do the best with the cards you've been dealt. I'm not exactly a winner in the genetic lottery either, and it annoys me at times. It's easy to cockblock yourself with these negative thoughts, directly through not taking action or indirectly by having generally low confidence, but that's something we have t…	/r/askTRP	24/03/15 10:51 PM
3	How do you cope with the guilt after coaxing a girl to cheat on her boyfriend with you? As a guy who was on the BB side of a very similar scenario several months ago, right before unplugging, don't see it as fucking up their relationship. It was already fucked up; the BB will just be the last to know. On the flipside, he might actually learn something about the harshness of life and ultimately be better off for it. For me it was a much needed wakeup call, albeit a stingy one.	/r/askTRP	24/03/15 03:46 PM