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Red Pill Exampledarchetype/r/TheRedPill15/08/19 08:16 PM
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i.e. if she's at the point where she wants to see other guys and you're not okay with it... kill your ego, drop her, and move on
/r/TheRedPill29/12/20 04:20 PM
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I hope we all understand that reddit is not the type of place to share the sort of sentiments that this guy did. While society IRL is still quite locked under the BP lens, social media platforms like reddit--and especially relationship advice--are overwhelmed with depressing individuals who are just looking to bring others down with them. They have no real, actionable advice and I'd be willing to bet at least 1/3rd of the users on there have ever been with a woman. You're better off finding a st…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/20 07:19 PM
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Buying a house was one of the best life decisions I ever made. Not only did it help divert my attention away from pussy and all the other dumb shit happening in the world, it also gave me expanded financial intentions and responsibilities. I know that any improvement I make to this place (when done correctly), will only up the home value and improve my financial gains. It feels so good calling a place my own and looking forward to that next project. Building and creating things is what men were …
/r/TheRedPill22/10/20 05:14 PM
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I don't think comparing women to cancer or taxes is fair. OP's argument was that women can serve as one form of motivation as we strive to improve ourselves. Testosterone is a helluva drug and can sure kick your ass into gear better than most other things. Now obviously women aren't the ultimate goal, since your primary motivator should be to live a healthier lifestyle and feel better about yourself. But if you're focused on becoming the best man you can be, it's much easier to overcome and acce…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 04:57 PM
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Thanks for posting an article and not providing any theory, dissection, or analysis on how it relates to red pill theory. I guess this is a re-blogging subreddit now.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 10:54 PM
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Good topic but I think the major point you missed is that building, creating, fixing, and tackling problems yourself creates positive feedback loops. Those healthy short-term and long-term dopamine rushes that stem from a sense of pride and accomplishment (and hopefully a job well done) help fuel your feelings of increased confidence, self-reliance, and the urge to do more. Self-reliance is so important (to a certain extent) and what we should always strive for as red-pilled men.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 12:23 AM
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Doesn't matter if you're with friends or by yourself (would be best if you're solo for a first date situation). The point is that you're doing something YOU want to do regardless if someone else comes along for the ride. You're going to have fun no matter what. You're doing this for yourself, not for her. In fact, don't even phrase it as a date in your head, cuz then you'll just be let down if she does decline. You shouldn't even be worried if she questions why none of your friends are with you.…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/19 12:33 AM
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Posting videos without any dissection or analysis just turns this subreddit into a re-blog site. There's a reason why posts are required as original content self-posts covering an interesting topic in a well-written format. Allows the forum to be opened up for more organized discussion. Leave the re-vomiting of content and video blogging to females and their pinterest boards.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/19 06:52 PM
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I don't understand. You flaked on her--a move that girls typically pull on guys they're not interested in--and then you mentally labeled yourself as an orbiter
/r/TheRedPill04/06/19 11:14 PM
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You said it. Regardless of what happens with this quarantine, reddit in general has turned into the post-wall girlfriend who I have lost all attraction toward, wasting my time and not improving my life in the slightest. It's time to dump her and move on.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/18 02:53 PM
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Been doing more bent-over rows and deadlifts to eliminate my rounded shoulders and APT but haven't seen any improvement over the past few months. Any suggestions on other workouts to try or do I just need to give it more time?
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 03:15 PM
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Great: Gave a successful presentation at a national conference. Keeping better tabs on spending and finances; on track to spend nearly $400 less this month based on past averages. Bad: My back acne has been horrendous lately, even though skin care routine is on point. Could be elevated stress levels (probably related to the presentation) or I need to give in and try medication. Neglecting daily responsibilities like cleaning the house and tending the yard. Making lists was helping a lot so need …
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 07:26 PM
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Cut out porn and masturbation. Stick to just sex.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/18 05:55 PM
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Great: Finished a fantastic book trilogy. Time spent reading is up, time spent in front of a screen is way down. Installed squat rack and bench in my home. Lifting and yoga almost every day. Gaining power in LTR. Simpy by speaking less, having conviction, and being more dominant in bed. Bad: Porn. Need to cut it out entirely. Drains my energy, cuts productivity in my daily routine, even affects my sex drive. I'm a completely different person when I don't fap. More assertive, talk deeper, lift ha…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 08:31 PM
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Ice skating, darts, billiards, rock-climbing gym, putt-putt. The setting doesn't really matter though--some of my best dates have been at janky dive bars.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 06:57 PM
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Good: Gym three times this week, with yoga and team sports on off-days. Feels great to be active almost everyday. Got all documents and finances in order to close on my first home next week. Fantastic night celebrating one-year anniversary with LTR. Scheduled a Vegas trip with friends to unwind and let loose. Bad: Need to be more assertive and comfortable making decisions in my new construction management role. Definitely a different beast compared to the cush office job I was so used to for so …
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 09:14 PM
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Right on. Also you may have better success on weekday nights for a first date since girls typically have plans with friends/family/other dudes on the weekends.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 09:25 PM
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How are you phrasing your message when asking them out? "Hey are you free to get drinks with me Friday?" or "Hey I'm gonna grab a drink at x at x time Friday, you should join me." I guarantee they are less likely to flake with the second one.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 06:17 PM
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I guarantee you're better off than 90% of the people you encounter on a day-to-day basis, and that's what you should get ingrained into your mind. The majority of people out in the world are gross losers who have nothing going on in their lives. Walk with that swagger, knowing straight up that you are more awesome than nearly everyone you see, and that should help you gain confidence. Also, slow down when talking with women and speak with purpose and meaning; it will help you take control of the…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/18 05:50 AM
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First get it out of your mind that you need to entertain them. You're a tall guy and if you are mildly attractive and in shape, it should be them doing most of the talking and trying to qualify themselves to you. Be sarcastic and playful; joke around and don't shy away if the conversation turns sexual. In fact amplify it. (Again, disclaimer, you must be attractive for this to work) Get out of your own head and don't think about it too much, you're not gonna see 90% of these people in a couple ye…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/18 02:15 AM
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It means you either ignore their argument or simply agree (even if you don't) and immediately try to deflate the conversation/divert it elsewhere. You want to give off the impression that what they stand for doesn't matter and no one gives a shit. They want you to engage and if you do that, you indirectly give them power and attention. Then more people hear about it and talk about it and it grows their cause.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/18 01:57 AM
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Great idea with listening to music or a podcast or even your favorite comedian on your drive in to work in the morning. Even better if you practice singing or talking along with it in a deep, commanding voice to warm up your vocal cords and get you in the mindset of "speaking and breathing with your balls", a concept Elliott Hulse talks about in some of his youtube videos.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/18 01:35 AM
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End of the date, say your goodbye very abruptly without letting her say anything ("Ok, see ya!") and start walking away. She'll seem confused and taken aback, especially if the date went really well. After a few steps, turn back around and say you forgot something; come at her hard and pull her into you (hand around the neck or waist), and then go to town. No asking for permission, just get in there and don't be a bitch about it.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/18 11:03 PM
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Yes, of course you should bang her. But you're already off to a bad start from trying to seek validation from your friends and from us. Follow your heart brahski. It will help your internal SMV. Having sex with chicks below your value will develop abundance mentality when you begin your red pill journey.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 11:29 PM
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For me personally I follow the golden rule: if I'm in an exclusive relationship I wouldn't want her to cheat on me so therefore I won't cheat on her. But really it just comes down to your own morals and since TRP is amoral by nature, it's up to your discretion.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 11:22 PM
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Arm around the shoulder/waist treats her like your companion. Holding hands treats her more like a child and gives you the opportunity to lead when moving through tight areas. Either are fine but ultimately who the fuck cares.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 06:21 PM
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So true, I mean god damn if I wanna build myself a shed or replace my kitchen sink I guarantee I can find at least 50 youtube videos to show me how. Back in the day, you probably had to find a manual at the library or tape every episode of This Old House....or your dad taught you how to do that shit and you two actually had something to bond over.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 11:32 PM
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Proper way to ask a girl on a date: Always pose it as a statement, not a question. Example: Gonna go see a show at the jazz club Wednesday night at 7. You should join me. Simple, straightforward, lays out the time and place in one sentence. You aren’t asking her if she’s free or where she wants to go or what she wants to do. You are going to do something awesome that night regardless if she’s free or not, and it would be sweet if she joined you. Girls hate having to plan stuff, especially dates.…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 07:20 PM
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HB 7.75? Wtf is this an RPG? What's your agility rating at bro? Jesus look you're either a 1 (would fuck) or a 0 (would not fuck). Just follow your gut here. You've seen the signs and the red flags. It sounds like you've already convinced yourself not to do this and your just asking us for an excuse to fuck this girl. Follow your gut.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 07:57 PM
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The polos are good especially if the short sleeves are riding up at least halfway along your biceps to show them off. If you want a cheap option though, get some v-necks, either normal or henly. Just run to Target and find a Merona, Mossimo, or Goodfellow brand v-neck. You can go even cheaper and just buy a fruit of the loom pack.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 10:59 PM
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I just want to mention how inspiring these weekly threads are, seeing all these hard-working men recount their successes and failures. Motivates the fuck outta me, that's for sure. Keep it up everyone.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 09:34 PM
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For beta men, ya it's normal. Kinda surprised you're seeing that on a construction site, though.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 05:50 PM
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An interesting thought and I think a similar theory is in one of the sidebar readings. Earlier teachings of Catholicism and Christianity basically set the blueprints for the modern nuclear family, and slut-shamed any man or women that committed adultery during marriage. I even think for a long time, only churches had the power to grant divorce (starting in the 16th century maybe?). And then for a long-time after that only the man could initiate a divorce. So ya it definitely provided structure. …
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 02:53 AM
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Cultivate a minimum of three hobbies to bring fulfillment to your life. One to keep you in shape, one to help express creativity, and one to make you money. Keep in mind, a hobby should be something you genuinely enjoy and find satisfaction in spending time improving. The money hobby is a tough one to foster, and more than likely the hardest to enjoy. Consider transforming your creative hobby into one that can make you money. If you’re good at painting or drawing, upload your art to a site that …
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 05:47 PM
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Going for girls below your looks will actually do wonders for your abundance mentality when you first start out on your red pill journey. But I agree never fuck fat women.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 06:04 PM
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Regardless of how you handle it, never self-deprecate and make it seem like you feel bad about your actions. That's the first step in failing a shit test. Just brush it off, respond with a sarcastic "Thank you!", and divert the conversation elsewhere. And good job talkin' up three girls. Next goal: Fuck all three. Get those plates spinnin.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 05:16 PM
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You'll just become another orbiter like everyone else unless you are a high SMV individual with an interesting life and interesting things to post on your feed. I say keep doing what you're doing, break the mold, and build up your SMV outside the virtual world.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 11:59 PM
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Highly recommend reading, or at least skimming through "Becoming a Supple Leopard" by Kelly Starrett. Changed my entire outlook on how I carry my posture in the weight room and in everyday life. Not sure if your injury was weight room related, but his methods will help prevent future problems. I've been able to find a few copies at the library.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 11:51 PM
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Post-hernia surgery and won't be able to lift for a couple months. Any recommendations for retaining muscle mass during this time? Unfortunately I tend to lose strength rather quickly if I break out of my lifting routine.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 05:52 PM
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The reflection journal is so, so good for your psyche. I had a breakdown similar to you at one point, walked over to the park and just started writing down a year-by-year summary of all my relationships with girls over the past 7 years or so. Not an extensive list by any means, but having it on paper where I could see how I acted pre- and post-TRP really put it in perspective of how things improved so drastically.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 09:49 PM
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His podcasts are also great. Not a ton of comedic material but just the way he speaks really gets me in the zone before an important meeting or a date with a girl. Notice I start to mimic his mannerisms and helps me slow down my speaking and annunciation.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 09:36 PM
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If you're in between then you'll have to utilize more of the intangibles of SMV: game and charisma
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 11:17 PM
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Pretty much. Imagine you're a chick and two different guys are picking on you and poking fun at you. 6'2" ripped Chad vs fat neckbeard Billy. Which one do you think will come across as playful and which one will come across as mean/creepy.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 04:28 AM
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What kind of flag does is raise if your girl isn't giving you any shit tests--or rather, if she does, they are more of the passive, subtle variety? Does this indicate I've got good command of the relationship or is there something she's hiding? An example of a subtle test would be her casually mentioning past sexual exploits or partners to see if she can get a reaction from me.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 02:37 AM
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My go-to is only 4 ingredients (excluding spices). Chicken and pineapple stir-fry. Dice up some chicken breast, coat it in paprika and a little brown mustard. Fry it up in a skillet with olive oil. Add in some diced bell pepper after the chicken is about 75% done. Add diced pineapple to the skillet when chicken is pretty much done. Let it simmer for a few minutes. Add contents of skillet to a plate of cooked brown rice. Add salt and pepper as desired. Tasty, filling, and can make a bunch of it f…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 06:43 PM
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I’d actually say my existing friend circle slowly started to evolve and strengthen as they saw me working hard to improve myself. The majority of them found inspiration from it; a few dumped their girlfriends and are now in monk mode, one friend actually found and embraced TRP on his own, and there’s maybe a couple who haven’t jumped on board yet, but you can tell the flame is there. It’s been an amazing transition to witness. We’ve started playing more organized sports together, traveling toget…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 09:37 PM
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It's essentially what you said, oneitis. Or putting her on a pedestal, the two correlate pretty well. But I like your term, the veil. You gotta learn to take off the veil or at least see through it; put yourself and your own needs first in the relationship, shut down her shit tests, she's no more special to you than say your best friend or anyone else you care about. In your mind, she is replaceable and your happiness, self-worth, and meaning in life are completely independent from how she treat…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 06:30 PM
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FR first and then some theorizing… FR: Out at the club with LTR and her single, tall blonde friend. Blondie is an 8 or 9 depending on your tastes (I more prefer the binary scale). She was horny and immediately set her sights on the first tall guy she sees, probably a 6’-6” dude, in great shape. For the first half hour she’s pining to get his attention; tries her best to rub up against him as he walks by us, but to no avail. This drives her absolutely nuts, and now every other guy is invisible to…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 09:30 PM
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You're in control, you set the pace, you do what you want. Fuck mood and tension, initiate the kiss and get rough, grope that ass and those breasts. Be wild, fast, and slobbery with her for a bit, then randomly throttle back instantly, hold her face in your hands and stare into her eyes for a few seconds (they love this gay disney shit, and frankly I do, too). Then get right back into it. Keep her on her toes. You own her right now and you're gonna make all her movements for her. Pull her close …
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 04:47 PM
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Never rely on her to make the first move. It’s your job as the man to initiate and escalate sexual situations. If you’re worried about the boyfriend, then just bang her and move on. Or don’t bang her, w/e. Either way, there’s no point dealing with the drama that could unfold, and it sounds like you have other plates to keep you occupied anyway. The roommate situation will happen from time to time and isn’t a big deal. Ideally you’re making friends with roomy leading up to that point and getting …
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 03:36 PM
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For those who haven't tried this yet, I recommend going out to lunch by yourself one day and just sit down, relax, and enjoy your meal without fiddling with your phone. Use this time to just slow down, appreciate what's happening around you, maybe try some form of meditating, anything to get away from the hustle and bustle of the work/school hysteria for awhile. But in addition, take the time to just observe everyone around you as well. It's kind of scary. Observe how nearly everyone in the food…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 01:08 AM
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A thing of beauty. The more your SMV rises, the more you start to notice girls acting more submissive and shall I say, beta, around YOU, instead of the other way around. Really puts it into perspective seeing it from the other side.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 01:41 AM
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The lies all serve as one big massive shit test. In my opinion, it's good that this structure exists because it helps to separate the alphas from the betas. Alphas will give a hearty chortle at the Disney-branded relationship model being forced down everyone's throat and continue to live life on their own terms. While betas, incapable of looking past the status quo and taking control of their own life, will continue to let the fantasy model dictate how they run their relationships. It's a win-wi…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 07:45 PM
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Day 7: I've missed quite a few days and it's been difficult to count and keep track of my nutrition intake, especially when eating out at restaurants and family/friend events. I was hitting my calorie goals in the first few days of this challenge, so I am going to keep up with the same routine, but focus on more protein intake at breakfast, as that is where I noticed I was lacking. I will pick back up on my tracking tomorrow for about a few days until I consistently hit my numbers, then I will b…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 05:41 PM
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Day 3: 2230 calories with 127g of protein.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 06:52 PM
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Day 2: 2085 calories with 92g of protein.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 04:17 PM
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Day 1: 2402 calories with 111g of protein.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 07:13 PM
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Darchetype will take part in the nutrition challenge. I will aim for about 2300 calories per day with about 155g of protein consumption.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 07:13 PM
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Day 31: Did not end this month well. 9 hours. Went to bed at 1:30am and woke up at 10:30am.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 12:26 AM
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Day 30: 7 hours. 1am to 9:30am. Woke up around 5:30 for an hour and a half or so before falling back to sleep.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 09:10 PM
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Day 29: 8 hours. 3:30am to 11:30am.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 07:03 PM
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Day 28: 8 hours. 12am to 8am.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 03:20 PM
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Day 27: 7 hours. 12:30am to 7:30am
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 03:03 PM
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Day 26: 8.5 hours. 10:30pm to 7am.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 03:19 PM
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Day 25: 10.25 hours. 11:15pm to 9:30am
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 09:08 PM
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Day 24: 7.5 hours. 11:30pm to 7am.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 11:41 PM
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Day 23: 9.5 hours. 12:30am to 10:00am.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 11:40 PM
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Day 22: 7.5 hours. 12am to 7:30am. Took about 2 hour nap before from 5pm to 7pm due to killer workout.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 05:49 PM
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Day 21: 8.5 hours. 11pm to 7:30am.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 05:59 PM
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Day 20: 7 hours. 12am to 7am.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 04:19 PM
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Day 19: 8.5 hours. 10:30pm to 7:00am.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 05:46 PM
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Day 18: 7 hours. 12:30am to 7:30am.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 02:48 PM
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Day 17: 8 hours. 12:30am to 8:30 am.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 02:48 PM
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Day 16: 8 hours. 2:30am to 10:30am
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 04:58 PM
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Day 15: 13 hours. 9:30pm to 10:30am.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 05:40 PM
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Day 14: 6 hours. 10:30pm to 4:30am.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 05:40 PM
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Day 13: 8.5 hours. 11pm to 7:30am.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 08:15 PM
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Day 12: 8.5 hours. 11pm to 7:30am.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 02:46 PM
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Day 11: 8 hours. 11:30pm to 7:30am
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 02:38 AM
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Day 10: 8 hours. 11:30pm to 7:30am.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 02:26 PM
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Day 9: 8.5 hours. Asleep at 12am. Awake at 8:30am.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 03:49 PM
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Day 8: 11 hours. 10:30pm to 9:30am.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 05:09 PM
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Day 7: 6.5 hours. Asleep at 10:30pm. Awake at 5am.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 02:06 AM
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Day 6: 8 hours. Asleep at 12:30am. Awake at 8:30am. Late to work
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 04:46 PM
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Day 5: 8 hours. Asleep at 11:30pm. Awake at 7:30am.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 04:14 PM
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Day 4: 8 hours. Asleep at 11:30pm. Awake at 7:30am.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 02:57 PM
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Day 3: 8.5 hours. Fell asleep at 11pm and woke up at 7:30am.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 02:51 PM
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Day 2: Got 8.5 hours of sleep. Went to bed at 1am. Woke up at 9:30.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 04:31 PM
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Day 1: Got 9.5 hours of sleep. Went to bed at 1:00am. Woke up at 7am to pee real quick then woke back up at 10:30am
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 04:59 PM
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darchetype will take part in this challenge
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 04:06 PM
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