darcross Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	[FR] - Better Than Nothing...	Field Report	darcross	/r/seduction	30/05/14 01:11 PM
2	Seddit, what do you make of these mixed signals?		darcross	/r/seduction	03/06/14 01:10 PM

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1	Confidence is not "She will like me." Confidence is "I'll be fine whether she likes me or not." haha ofcourse, but the way I see it is that a person that is better than me is there because of his/hers life experience which has been different that mine (and maybe with different looks, whichs matters). But as far as self worth, you are the same. No difference. And now you can use a person that you se as "better than you" to learn and improve yourself, you know you habe the potential to be that or better. Once you frame it that way, eventually strat you interact with others, that would have b…	/r/seduction	13/06/14 01:17 PM
98	Confidence is not "She will like me." Confidence is "I'll be fine whether she likes me or not." I have always seen confidence as knowing that no-one person is better than me. Therefore we are all equal in our own ways. Once you realize this then no-one will be too intimidating. It makes you carry yourself in such a way that others will interpret as confident.	/r/seduction	12/06/14 08:07 PM
1	How to escalate correctly my go to line is "i've been wanting to kiss you all [afternoon, night, since we met]. It doesn't mean that it works everytime, but at least its out there now between the two of you. If she isn't shaking her head in rejection right away just go for it. maybe grab her face and bring it towards you. If she stops you dont let it be a weird thing, just say sorry I just had to do it, but please continue with you story haha	/r/seduction	06/06/14 01:57 PM
1	Witty seduction? It's my pleasure. Let us know how it goes!	/r/seduction	05/06/14 12:12 PM
1	Seddit, what do you make of these mixed signals? So I totally missed this comment yesterday. It makes a lot more sense why you wished me good luck taking advice from women lol. So quickly after we started hanging out last night the topic of our last time together came up and then she asked me if i had cheated before haha I realized that she wanted us to have sex and finish what we didn't last time, she just didn't know how to deal with the guilt i guess. I told her that yes, i've cheated once. Her next question was, did you feel guilty? from t…	/r/seduction	04/06/14 07:55 PM
1	Seddit, what do you make of these mixed signals? haha touché... Thank you thank you... I am not gonna go in with any pre-dispositions. If I can tell that there is a possibility of ending up in my house i am going to seize it. And the way her and I interact, I am not surprised that we will talk about sex and about the last time we were together (we have had a few conversations about that night). I think I will be able to tell where her mind is, and hopefully I can steer it in one direction or another. Thanks for all the good advice! I will drop…	/r/seduction	03/06/14 10:47 PM
1	Seddit, what do you make of these mixed signals? I can take advice from anyone and give it the merrit i think it deserves. I see the value of wonkywilla's comment. It has happened to me before that thanks to not being a pig I got the best laid "the next time the girl appeard". I don't see the issue. But for tonight I am going more with daveinaustin990's advice below. Im going for the kill if flows right. We will see. She just texted me that she is excited about tonight so wish me luck again!	/r/seduction	03/06/14 09:28 PM
2	Seddit, what do you make of these mixed signals? Very true! She had a bf before we had our night, and now she has a new one. So maybe next time she will be single and remember that I was good company nonetheless. Thanks a lot!	/r/seduction	03/06/14 03:24 PM
2	Seddit, what do you make of these mixed signals? Thanks! What kills me, and I am wondering if it kills her too, is that last time we were both pretty blownaway and knowing that if we fucked it will be explosive. I am going to follow your advice and be light. We are going to some places that i am certain she is going to love, and I am going to be the best company i know how to be. I will calibrate to her and play by ear. Wish me luck!	/r/seduction	03/06/14 03:23 PM
3	To tell them they're cute or not. Well said... you have to have a sense of your surroundings. Be aware of where you are and what is happening. Before approaching someone to chat, the most obvious thing you have in common is that you are in the same place experiencing the momment. The next thing should be that you start experiencing it together. I only use the "I thought you were [cute, elegant, interesting, intriguing, funny] when I'm in a place where and a situation in which there is already a sort of hotness in the air, like a…	/r/seduction	03/06/14 12:44 PM
2	Witty seduction? My advice is listen to NPR all day long. Their shows not only bring you the news but they also do really good analysis of the news. After a week of listening to your local NPR station you will be pretty up to date with everything. If its a little hard to digest in the beginnig, listen to NPR's game show "wait wait don't tell me". Its a news quiz game-show performed by comedians, writters and actors. They have to be witty in order to survive in that show and I think it can help you develop your o…	/r/seduction	02/06/14 06:45 PM
1	Does the game change a bit if you already know the person, for example I have met and flirt with this girl before, but I have no idea how to appraoch her now. I would say that would work. Tell her you want to catch up soon first. See what she replies and calibrate to her answer. If she seems interested, just say "there are a couple good places in town, just let me know when you are free and we will plan something"... then hit whatever magazine or weekly newspaper in your town that has a local-restaurant reviews column. Im sure you can find some nice, relaxed places with really good food. Nothing too fancy or she will feel like you guys are on a full o…	/r/seduction	02/06/14 05:20 AM
1	Does the game change a bit if you already know the person, for example I have met and flirt with this girl before, but I have no idea how to appraoch her now. My advicr is just to relax. This is not a big deal, actually its fun amd exciting to sort of reconnect with an old classmate. I would say something like ,, hey how`ve you been? I would love to catch up soon, let me know when you are free and hopefully we can grab a quick drink. nice, sweet amd short. I think that not trying too hard is always the best.... good luck!!	/r/seduction	01/06/14 09:53 PM
4	Seduction at concerts HAHA yeah, not an ideal setting. Eye contact is really all you got, and once it happens you can't waste anytime, go and try to interact (dancing, asking about the obvious reason you are there (about the band's new album, or this is my first time seeing this dj).... If everything goes ok, at the end I like asking if they know where the best afterparty is, kind of inplying that you are down to not let the fun be over when the show is over. good luck!	/r/seduction	21/05/14 09:34 PM