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| 1 | Being hookup material is much better than being husband material.Money frees up your wallet not your mind | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 04:48 PM |
| 2 | How does it feel like to be hit on/approached by a creepy guy?I’m autistic and from an early age i was generally “trained” by society to hide it and my awkwardness by just being quiet. At least that’s what I (42m) was taught. nowadays they are taught to embrace it and anyone they affect can just deal with it, But the naturally extroverted narcissistic ones use that excuse a lot to dismiss more than just being creepy, Failing at your job must be autism. No friends, autism… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 02:38 PM |
| 2 | How does it feel like to be hit on/approached by a creepy guy?As a bystander that would like to help, are there signs I can pick up on that’s says “get this guy away from me” I know women that have felt it will have some sense that’s is happening and will intervene, but as a guy who has tried to step in when another man seemed to be getting overtly aggressive only to be told by the girl to butt out it’s her bf .. I’m happily in a relationship and not trying to be some white knight or anything either, just want everyone to feel safe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 02:26 PM |
| 2 | "Men care about penis size more than women do!" - that's bullshit.My gf is always going on about my size and how big / perfect fit I am for her. By my ex never mentioned it besides saying once (in 10 yrs) that her ex before me was a bit bigger. But honestly idc as long as they enjoyed it while they had it ¯_(ツ)_/¯ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 12:57 PM |
| 2 | Men Peak in Attractiveness to Young Women in their TwentiesMy (42m) gf (35f) has made it very clear that I’m much more attractive now as a silver fox, than any pic she’s seen of me in my 20s.. so ymmv | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Men are tired with the gamesYou’re right, in a sense. As a very introverted, I often console myself by saying “the juice isn’t worth the squeeze”—but I know that’s kind of a cop-out. I’ve only ever asked one person (irl) out, and that was when I was 15 (now 42). It wasn’t a bad experience—we actually ended up in a relationship for five years. After that, I was single for a couple of years until my ex-wife asked me out. Then, after our relationship ended, I was single for a few more years. During that time, I tried using da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 02:01 PM |
| 3 | Men are tired with the gamesBecause of some terrible disgusting and deplorable men, the current generation (starting with some millennials and younger) have been conditioned to believe all women fear us. So the good man have learned not to approach women we don’t know or in public or in the gym, etc.,, leaving the only options being the apps which now because of it greatly skew against us. So if you are fortunate to get a date in the first place, you’re made to feel like you have to earn it by provide everything. So most o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 08:11 PM |
| -1 | As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men.It explains a large number of “no sparks“ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 12:30 AM |
| 2 | If you are not traditional, but you want traditional values, you are hypocrite. This goes for both Genders.You have to specify with traditional values you’re talking about. Your Croatian traditions are not the same as you’d find in a west African village, Philippine province, or Inuit hut | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 10:40 AM |
| 2 | Are married men happier and more successful because they’re married or are they married because they’re happier and more successfulGenerally successful people are successful in many areas of life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/24 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Most Blue Pill men are just “sneaky fuckers” practicing sexual mimicry.So, Men who intentionally join the friend zone in an attempt to get sex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 09:43 AM |
| 32 | What’s your opinion on the 4B movement coming to America?Oh no! The 0 women fighting for my attention has now dropped to 0 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 01:18 AM |
| 4 | Not settling until mid 40s? Ending up cheating statistically?The first of the millennials are in their low 40s, what boomers are you talking about ? The cheating is an age and availability thing. If women were found more attractive as the aged, I believe there wouldn’t be a significant difference. I was married at 25 for 10 yrs before my ex wife cheated on me when she was 36…. But, she cheated on me with an older man in his 40s… so ¯\(ツ)/¯ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 05:59 PM |
| 7 | If women started approaching men, they would still end up approaching a minority of themThe man you are describing makes sense because a dominant man who approaches generally has a higher level of testosterone, but that also comes with anger, violence, and generally isn’t easy to get along with because finding a middle ground or compromise is considered losing (everything is a competition when you’re high on T). You don’t want a man that is dominant, you want a man with high testosterone and has a high libido that doesn’t need to be chased down for a kiss . high testosterone is gre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 10:31 PM |
| 7 | If women started approaching men, they would still end up approaching a minority of themWomen don’t approach because they don’t have to. It’s just that simple | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 09:56 PM |
| 3 | If women started approaching men, they would still end up approaching a minority of themWe know.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 09:53 PM |
| 1 | The idea women are loved unconditionallyA father may value HIS son more than a daughter but his neighbors value his daughter more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 02:25 AM |
| 1 | The idea women are loved unconditionallyWeight for a man or woman can change with diet. Only in extreme cases does CICO not fix things. But I’m 5’10 and nothing short of experimental surgery am I get to the mythical 6’ status. Also, I don’t have makeup to hide my ugly either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 01:39 PM |
| 1 | The idea women are loved unconditionallyYou’re answering your own post… women don’t commit crimes because they don’t have to 🙄. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 01:33 PM |
| 2 | The idea women are loved unconditionallyBoys were preferred over girls for the selfish reasons of the parents. If society decided for them, it would be different. Son were seen as a financial investment (because society instilled a man is better at money) while women were a burden. Also ancient china (before 1 child) believed having no sons was a curse and humiliating to the whole family | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 01:31 PM |
| 1 | The idea women are loved unconditionallyBecause a lower interest rate (illegal if true) is equally comparable to a hug from someone with who just loves you for being you. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 01:24 PM |
| 2 | The idea women are loved unconditionallyYou get what you put in. If I go into an interaction with a man expecting a different response… I’ll get one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 01:20 PM |
| 1 | The idea women are loved unconditionallyIronically, your reply in and of itself answers your own question. He spent time (after giving women the benefit of the doubt) commenting just to have a woman invalidate it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 01:19 PM |
| 1 | The idea women are loved unconditionallyThe problem is women are capable of the latter, while men can’t do the former. Leading to an unbalanced narrative. It’s weight v height all over again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 01:12 PM |
| 1 | The idea women are loved unconditionallyThe statement is meant to be proportional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 01:11 PM |
| 1 | "You have to work 10 times harder than your grandfathers for women 10 times worse."Dating and sex are tangential to his point. Men aren’t going around fat shaming or bullying women just by having standards. However we are made to feel like it. On the other hand women seemed to be empowered and justified in have them. Ironically exacerbating the problem is how one of the most discussed attributes of weight and height can be managed while the other cannot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 01:27 PM |
| 1 | I Think It’s Okay To Reject A Girl Based On Her Weight.Because if women don’t have to date down, they won’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 11:37 AM |
| 3 | Will AI boyfriends make males obsolete?Women would go insane, they always need something to complain about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 10:04 PM |
| – | The Hottest Women Are MILFSDidn’t PH just released 2023 results? … it wasn’t milfs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 02:50 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Most young guys struggle in dating because of the society and time we live in, not because of themselvesThe internet’s cult of personality pendulum has swung the other way and gave women the freedoms men used to have. If women don’t recognize its trajectory, and halt it somewhere in the middle, there will be a tipping point where the ostracizing men revolt and start voting for laws regulating a woman’s body, just to have some perceived semblance of control. it will snow ball until it gains enough momentum to swing the other way, and as a dumb man, I can tell you, we won’t be smart enough to slow i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 10:32 PM |
| 8 | CMV: Most young guys struggle in dating because of the society and time we live in, not because of themselvesDoes this take into account the pollee’s history of being approached? If i was an unattractive woman I’d love to be approached. But the attractive ones are the ones that don’t want it anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 10:21 PM |
| 3 | A lot of men are justifiably annoyed by a culture that blames them for the male gaze yet pumps "wet ass pussy" into the airwavesIt’s should be, but many women have adopted it and manipulated it to be just another weapon in a arsenal of the victims mindset | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 12:26 PM |
| 2 | A lot of men are justifiably annoyed by a culture that blames them for the male gaze yet pumps "wet ass pussy" into the airwavesMen mansplain to everyone, that’s how many of us process communication , through examples and experience. We talk to other men like that and they understand and talk like that back. It’s only when a man talks to a woman like she’s just another man that it’s interpreted as mansplaining. We’re not talking down to you or assuming you don’t know. It’s just our default to reiterate the important bits, because it will be our fault when something goes wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 12:23 PM |
| 1 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.🙋🏽♂️as a single dad - I am a 50/50 man that does all things… feel free to update your post now that we’ve met | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 10:12 PM |
| 1 | If sex is water, women have to survive on the ocean, men in the desert.… Men : goes on an expedition through the Sahara to find the promised one Woman: takes a cruise, complains she can’t reach the bottled water behind the wall of liquor and free Buffet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 03:01 PM |
| – | Becoming averse to sex with husband (25F) newly marriedReal talk: God is not real and you should stop using it as a scapegoat for your situation. You have 2 options. Divorce him and rekindle your femme fatale days (good luck with your new imaginary friend) or accept you have to fuck the monster you hate. I mean he would have to be if you can’t bring yourself to fuck the noble handsome intelligent man you married. And what would more moolah do for you anyways | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/10/23 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Seen repeated claims “there are more attractive women then men.”Just because fat people eat more doesn’t mean their food tastes better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Men taking a portion or all of themselves away is not manipulative or toxic“Not just sex” there are other ways to show affection besides intercourse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Men taking a portion or all of themselves away is not manipulative or toxicAny relationship that doesn’t involve sexual relations (not just sex), is a friendship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Men taking a portion or all of themselves away is not manipulative or toxicIt’s all about expectations. You’re meant to shoot your shot early and unambiguously. If you gain her trust and friendship as a way to slow burn into a relationship, you’re misleading your intentions and I see where someone would feel upset if that trust and friendship was taken away because sex didn’t happen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 10:32 AM |
| 2 | What happens when people "give up"?Not your typical answer- I’m not unattractive and I was married to my then hot wife for over 10 yrs and have 2 kids from it. But I’m not the type that like to do things more than once. I had the experience, now 5 yrs post separation, I’m in no rush to get back into a relationship. I’m content being single and 39. I’m not opposed to it, just not actively trying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 12:15 PM |
| 1 | What issues do you actually feel for women about?Can confirm, been practicing for about 30yrs and still haven’t been able to get more the 3ft, and that with effort and cheating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 08:04 PM |
| 2 | "It was the same back in the old days" is a common misconception among the younger posters on hereMaking up numbers isn’t helping your point… Actually, accountable, data https://www.sealevels.org/ Feel free to look at the late 1800 to now. It weirdly lines up with industrialization and very unlike the ebb and flow of the rest of time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 09:33 PM |
| 2 | "It was the same back in the old days" is a common misconception among the younger posters on hereSo you make no distinction between what a grifter is and anyone else… so you don’t use the word for what it actually means and instead have swapped out for “people I disagree with” I get it. “Grifter” is your “jabroni” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 09:12 PM |
| 1 | "It was the same back in the old days" is a common misconception among the younger posters on hereNo, I just saw a post referencing something in the current zeitgeist (which in and of it self was referencing that periods zeitgeist) and assumed you “watched the movie and didn’t actually read the book” my apologies for any gatekeeping | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 09:09 PM |
| 1 | "It was the same back in the old days" is a common misconception among the younger posters on hereNot old enough to see the difference, or too old to be effected by it personally | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 08:42 PM |
| 1 | "It was the same back in the old days" is a common misconception among the younger posters on hereIf the solutions were 100% we wouldn’t be having this debate… it’s the PROBLEM we’re 100% on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 08:32 PM |
| 1 | "It was the same back in the old days" is a common misconception among the younger posters on here… I watch stranger things, so I’m obviously qualified to make a really weak and unsupported analogy… I’m in my 40s and had witness the satanic panic first hand, and your the moron here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 08:28 PM |
| 2 | "It was the same back in the old days" is a common misconception among the younger posters on hereYou’ve been saying grifters a lot…. Maybe you take the time to learn what it means, and realize the people you’re referring to aren’t them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 08:26 PM |
| 3 | "It was the same back in the old days" is a common misconception among the younger posters on hereEverything changes… just not this fast. When climates used to change do to natural occurrences, humans had the time to migrate away from it. But now it’s changing so fast, and we can’t pack up and move as easy. not to mention that we have less places to migrate to, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 08:23 PM |
| 2 | "It was the same back in the old days" is a common misconception among the younger posters on hereI think the problem is it’s a poor use of defining terminology. “Climate change” should be called “the growingly wide and sporadic derivation for the norm, in so far as the “weather” we have come to expect is no longer present and it’s scientifically proven our fault” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 08:18 PM |
| 0 | The number of men not having sex within the past year tripled between 2008 and 2018. Why is that?I blame the slider that sets the app preferences. It’s like setting the volume to an even number… it’s cathartic for women to set desires like height to 6 than 5’10 . This also explains why European women set it to 180cm, even tho that is 5’10 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 06:55 PM |
| 2 | The amount of effort men put into their female friendships is SEVERELY DISPROPORTIONATE to the amount of effort females put into their male friendshipsWhen I do I favor for anyone, I do it because I want to help. I don’t expect any reciprocation of a favor in turn. The problem is I don’t ask for help either, unless I need another physical body because I can’t do it alone, in which case I’m calling a dude … if I wanted help painting my nails or picking out a new outfit, I bet my female friends would be happy to help. But there’s the rub, I would t ask. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 06:04 PM |
| 1 | The amount of effort men put into their female friendships is SEVERELY DISPROPORTIONATE to the amount of effort females put into their male friendshipsyes, but no. I may or may not want to have sex with my female friends, but what I do for them in terms of favors is equal to what I would do for my male friends. the only issue is I cant and wouldnt expect a female to return the favor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 03:53 PM |
| 1 | How do you explain the apparent lack of women?statistically if the the top 5 were 30%, 25%, 25%, 15%, and 4%. it would be the majority... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 03:27 PM |
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