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Sounds very similar to my story. Expect I didn’t make millions of from crypto. From the outside a had a life the people envied but deep down I was fucking miserable. Everything you mentioned sounded like things people where expecting from you. To be a better son, better husband, more successful in the eyes of others. I don’t think you mentioned a single thing that you liked or enjoyed. Had something similar happen to me during a talk with my therapist. I only focused on what others wanted and wh…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/22 02:01 AM
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I have a 1 year old and I can’t imagine how I would feel if anything happened to him. I am sorry for your loss and the only thing I can say to you is to live your best life. As a son I know that is exactly what I would want for my dad. Don’t focus on the loss and cherish all the time you where lucky to have his presence. You have to live on and find happiness for him.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/20 12:03 AM
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http://www.wellingtonlair.com/community/index.php?topic=7.0
/r/seduction24/12/12 03:07 PM
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In my personal opinion, its not if you have money but rather how money makes you feel. Yes rich guys do get laid more, not bc they are rich but bc the way they behave bc they are rich. Just imagine you walk into a club with a large amount of money to spend on your birthday night. You are going to walk in like you fucking own the place, have better body language, more confidence when talking to people etc. THIS is what attracts girls, not the fact that you are rich, sure some girls will sleep wit…
/r/seduction17/09/12 08:47 PM
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I guess you are right, there are different and in fact better ways i could have dealt with those situations, I am against violence and have only gotten into a fight once in my life. When i try those thing i do them with tact, in other words i read the situation and know that i am not going to get my ass kicked. I know i might be pushing it too far and one day it might backfire on me. I am a calmed person and i am always happy to meet and talk to new people but if i don't know you and you start p…
/r/seduction20/04/12 03:23 PM
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very well played , it reminds me of bugs bunny and elmer fudd , no matter how bad elmer would try to catch bugs , bugs would just turn around and do the complete opposite of the expected behavior and and kiss him, which drove him nuts. Im pretty sure that is how that guy felt.
/r/seduction09/04/12 08:28 PM
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Common man its not like he grabbed his ass, although i do agree with you that some guys especially if they are drunk will get pissed and punch you right away, not everyone will. You have to be able to read the moment and see if you can pull it off. One time this guy wouldn't get off my back bc i the girl he liked was all over me, he was being rude and insulting and would not stop following me, this guy clearly wanted to fight me and he would have clearly destroyed me if it would have come to tha…
/r/seduction09/04/12 08:24 PM
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hey, i ran into the exact same question once and this forum post right here helped me on how to react toshit tests, http://www.wellingtonlair.com/community/index.php?topic=7.0 I recommend reading the whole thing
/r/seduction03/02/12 08:18 PM
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it depends, follow this rules: 1.Are you buying the drink bc you want to open her, impress her? -Dont buy the drink. There's a bunch of AA's out there willing to to this 2 . Are you buying the drink bc you are having a great time with this person and you have known her for more that 30-60 mins. -buy the drink, let her get the next one. 3 . Did she ask you to buy her a drink? -If you are on a date then yes -If you are not on a date then no Bonus answers if you dont give a shit and want to have fu…
/r/seduction03/02/12 08:10 PM
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do whatever comes to your head and have fun with it, it does not matter what you do or say as long as you own it!! whatever you do, dont lose your frame. "she had heard that one before so clearly I need better shit". you should have gone with something along the lines of."oh, you have heard that before?!!? Dont hate me bc your clothes dont suit you. Tell you what, next time i can help you pick out something sexier" then you could have grabbed her hand twirled her and said something like "yep, th…
/r/seduction03/02/12 07:55 PM
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i love it when this happens, its an instant opener. I usually go with something simple like" Think sexy!" after i take the picture, i say " eeww, that was horrible! i said think sexy!!! is that the best you can do? Try a little bit harder this time!" ( you can also use this occasion to single out your target and tease only her). This is a great opener, i think that this might have started as them seeing you as inferior ( maybe not inferior per say, but more like "hey you rando guy, come and take…
/r/seduction02/12/11 04:20 PM
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or even better just hand them something , weather its a drink or a cigarette "hold this for me". This will get their attention, they are waiting for you
/r/seduction03/11/11 08:25 PM
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I would go with agreeing and exaggerating everything out of proportion just so she can see how stupid she is being. Similar case to this happened recently and i went with something along the lines of , omg you should totally get a boobjob i think you would totally rock some double E's , i hear bra's have evolved to the point that you would have no back pain. This got me laughs and we bantered about it for a bit. Just say whats on your head and have fun with it, no need for canned material.
/r/seduction20/10/11 05:40 PM
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Plz listen to this guy. Because of the loud music, talking might not be a suitable solution. You dont want to have the awkward yelling on the dance floor convo, just smile give here a twirl and dance. Break the damn circle whenever you can, dont get in one if possible.
/r/seduction26/09/11 08:54 PM
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Dont stress about it man, we all start somewhere bad . But yeah, we tend to think in a more logical way which usually ends ups working against us. Dont stress to much about her being the only girl in your class, trust me on this I was a computer science major and there where no girls in my whole major. The upside is, you are still in college and there are boatloads of new people to meet
/r/seduction22/09/11 05:05 PM
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Exactly what enf0rcer said, dont burn bridges, and if you can start flirting with other girls in your classrom, that's even better. I dont know what people have against just being friends. Girls are great pivots and hanging around them makes you more attractive. However if you have extreme oneitis i would agree with them and try to stay away. In the future dont be afraid to go for what you want, because some girls open that window of chance for a brief period of time. Hold your frame and be more…
/r/seduction22/09/11 02:14 PM
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Hey man , I know exactly how you feel , 2 months back after a couple of dates and nights that led nowhere i started to get very discouraged. I stopped going out completely. I focused on working out and playing video games. Dont get me wrong i love doing both of these but i could only do it for like 3 weeks until it hit me :it was a Friday night , I was in front of my pc playing tf2 when i realized that, playing video games was a lame way to spend a friday night. And it got me thinking: why am I …
/r/seduction20/09/11 06:01 PM
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kino escalation
/r/seduction20/09/11 04:52 PM
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That is what makes it awesome, everyone probably looks like an idiot but the fact that you had the confidence to do it and the i dont give a shit what anyone thinks personality what makes it sexy
/r/seduction20/09/11 04:50 PM
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i have tried this one on the gym but i guess it could work in this case too. If target has headphones just stand of them and when they look at you, bring your hands to your ears as if you are removing headphones, when they do ask them ' i am sorry but you looked super focused and i was wondering what you where listening to'. From her you can tease her about her music selection. Now if this is a setting where you know that you will see her again, you can just say thank you and eject. Next time yo…
/r/seduction15/08/11 06:40 PM
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read the title and this popped into my head: " Life would be boring without those :) , it will be our dirty secret ;) " This will show that it wasn't a big deal for you (DHV?), by saying that its a secret she can feel comfortable of any1 or you thinking she is a slut and more importantly it make her feel comfortable leaving the window open for more "mistakes" to happen.
/r/seduction08/08/11 05:51 PM
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since you already know them the hardest part is done, no just dont forget kino/escalate
/r/seduction28/07/11 05:27 PM
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Im latino and we do the kiss thing too, here in the US is a hit or miss, there are some girls that love it, and there are some girls that pull back and wonder wtf you are doing
/r/seduction26/07/11 05:35 PM
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I have never ran into that but i guess i would say something like " Oooh really? and why is that?" And wait for whatever answer she will say and say " That's cute" or you could take it all the way and go with "that's cute, you remind me of my little cousin, i can totally see it now, you are just missing the little tiara" and than change the subject completely. If she wants to go back to the subject i would go on a story on how she dresses up as a princess and she told me that exact thing last ti…
/r/seduction20/07/11 02:24 PM
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"I know! you could end up in jail just by looking at me like that" Or my response to how old are you ( i usually get this shit test bc i am young) Flip the question on them and guess a high number like off by 8 and then say "(disapointed)i'm 24 but if you where 5 years younger i would be all over you. We can still be friends tho :) "
/r/seduction15/07/11 01:59 PM
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I wouldnt remember names and forgot to kino escalate
/r/seduction29/06/11 01:39 PM
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As long as the conversation is flowing the rest should not matter. Personally if it would have been me, I would have gone with something outrageous like, "you think its me?! Nooo way, I have 5 girlfriends and they all know about each other."
/r/seduction15/06/11 07:21 PM
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Try this one next time, pick a random line and act super surprised, then enthusiastically ask her "do you know what this line means?!?!" when she say no and asks what say this " this line says you are very gullible, did you really believe me :) ".
/r/seduction15/06/11 05:02 PM
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Just keep ignoring her until she realizes that she no longer has a negaive effect on you and hopefully then she will stop. She is clearly doing this to hurt you but why does she want to hurt you is a completely other question. It could be many different reasons, she hates you bc you left her, maybe she is just psycho, maybe she has low self esteem and feels bad and the fact that she sees that you can live ( and are doing great without her) makes her angry. Try to not let it get to you , get your…
/r/seduction11/06/11 12:53 AM
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sounds like a case of you put your dick in crazy to me, dont over analyze it , ignore her, I would say block her phone number and tell your friends and fam to do the same but given that she has your daughters this is not an option.Stay strong my friend
/r/seduction10/06/11 04:17 PM
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There is a lot of apps out there that summarize basic and key concepts, so i think it would be a nice approach if your app helped you DO instead of thinking. Something like a challenge of the day or something that spits out something random (GO DO THIS NOW) like an opener would be fun.
/r/seduction09/06/11 03:01 PM
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I know ppl usually recommend to take the lead and be the one that makes the plans, but by saying Prepare something interesting for me , is he conveying more value? By stating I am better you should entertain me? What do you guys think?
/r/seduction17/05/11 02:15 PM
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I think that i can relate how you are feeling. This emotional brick wall is so strong that i feel that i am getting to the point where I am starting to develop a cynical outlook on girls and relationships overall. Nevertheless i am still not over my oneitis and i would drop everything for her :/
/r/seduction17/05/11 02:10 PM
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Guilty over here. Started reading this in order to get over her, then I changed and managed to get her and then i had to move across the country because of a job and had to leave her. This can be a great distraction but i would be lying if i told you guys i am over my oneitis. I guess its partially my fault because i still keep in contact with her (skype, txt, email,etc.) and arrange plans to meet each other 1 or twice every year. I know that i should just forget about her, a part of me is telli…
/r/seduction17/05/11 02:01 PM
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I am actually against canned material or routines, I actually tried them and had great success with them but i just felt fake and not myself while using them. They did give me confidence to start approaching more, but other than that, i find them awful, i felt like a robot taking all the fun away from social interaction. And yes you are right, they have the right mindset, they do take more risks than the average Joe, have great body language (well maybe okish). But most of these guys couldn't ho…
/r/seduction11/05/11 02:31 PM
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These are not puas, motsly a bunch of good looking dudes. I am not going to lie, some of the where naturals but most of them where terrible, i found myself cringing at the terrible stuff they tried using and how that even worked for them. I can only imagine what happened on the scenes they edited out, hahahaha but you can also learn from mistakes, right? Look for the episode of Cajun, he's the only pua on that show and he ran tight game. The judges where bashing him on his looks b4 he started an…
/r/seduction10/05/11 08:07 PM
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hey man next time pull out your phone and hand it to her and with a cocky smile say "put your phone number in there, so we can hang out later" Dont ask , tell her (assuming you have some rapport already like in this case).
/r/seduction10/05/11 06:44 PM
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hey man next time pull out your phone and hand it to her and with a cocky smile say "put your phone number in there, so we can hang out later" Dont ask , tell her (assuming you have some rapport already like in this case).
/r/seduction10/05/11 06:44 PM
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hey man next time pull out your phone and hand it to her and with a cocky smile say "put your phone number in there, so we can hang out later" Dont ask , tell her (assuming you have some rapport already like in this case).
/r/seduction10/05/11 06:44 PM
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Hey man, there's not much that i can say from such a short field report but here are a couple of things that i would suggest. First of all, whatever you do dont tell her how you feel, especially if you dont sense attraction from her. Dont let her pick where you are going, be alpha, you take the decisions. Try picking a place that you know well ( +points if you know the bartenders/waiters). The more prepared you are the better. This means reserving a table ahead of time or planing places where to…
/r/seduction08/05/11 12:29 AM
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i was wondering the exact same thing :/ . i guess im going to try a fake phone and my spam email address just in case
/r/seduction03/05/11 06:55 PM
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hey, i live in dc and would love to hear more about it
/r/seduction02/05/11 03:20 PM
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how did it go ?
/r/seduction27/04/11 08:28 PM
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Yeah I agree with you , i should have linked the original one, but i was in a rush when typing it and just did a google image search, will keep that in mind for the next time.
/r/seduction13/04/11 01:58 PM
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I completely agree with you man i tried sarging a couple of times by myself and this is how it would go: I would try to open a set, crash it horribly and then my frame would go to shits. I would stand around the bar, think about great situational openers and whatnot but not do anything about it. Than i would go home pissed at me bc i knew what to do how to do it but i stopped myself. Next time you go out you gotta remember to crash the car man!
/r/seduction13/04/11 01:57 PM
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I happened to meet him in a bar while he was sarging and he mentioned something about frame control and i instantly knew he was into pickup. Which was pretty cool bc at this point I was just beginning (to apply the things, unfortunately i read a whole lot first b4 i grew the balls to actually try it) and my old friends where all afc's and they always brought my frame down or made me feel bad every time i tried something and it didn't work. Makes me kinda wish we had like a secret sign or handsha…
/r/seduction13/04/11 01:52 PM
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I just remembered one , one of my buddies taught me this, Its pretty much a palm reading bit with a twist. You might have to read a bit about palm reading so you know some of the common lines (love, life, etc.) Then after having gone with the bs for a while act surprised go "OMG do you know what this line stands for?!?!!?" and she will act interested and ask what it is. and then tell her " this one means you are gullible". I have field tested this and i have always gotten a good reaction from it…
/r/seduction13/04/11 01:51 PM
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I happened to meet my wing at a bar while he was sarging and I think he mentioned something about frame control and i knew he was reading pua material. Giving him value is very imp. i am not going to lie i followed your wingman rules and I think that is one of the reasons why he is always so happy to help me.
/r/seduction13/04/11 01:39 PM
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It worked, like the op said, there has to attraction before you do this, i had been working on this girl for a while now and to be honest i should have gone for the kiss earlier but i started to get in my head an kept pushing it off.
/r/seduction13/04/11 01:34 PM
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i tried the second one but instead of saying using my lips i said I can kiss you without you feeling it.
/r/seduction11/04/11 06:40 PM
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This happened to me this weekend, and i smiled and went straight for the kiss, but then again I was in a rave , i dont think this would have tried this in any other place. i would go with what nexism said don't forget to add the cocky smile at the end.
/r/seduction11/04/11 03:59 PM
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Hey man I got a CS degree and i felt just like you did, but it gets better, i remember i used to think , who fucking uses matrices or newtons interpolation?!?!. But as i got into my senior year i got projects where i actually could apply these things everything clicked. When you use matrices to move 3d objects in a game or use newtons interpolation to calculate the trajectory of an incoming rocket in order to be shot with a missile it turns into awesome
/r/seduction11/04/11 02:12 PM
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A good way of getting numbers is I talk about something i am doing in the near future, party, concert, event ( anything). If she looks genuinely interested (something more enthusiastic than just if she said , oh cool.) then say something like the following:- you should totally come! -her response. -what's the best way to get in touch with you? if she says fb or gives you an email this is usually a bad sign so pull out a little recalibrate and try again later. This way she is the one that is givi…
/r/seduction21/03/11 03:41 PM
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Even though you know it, not every1 else knows you are a high value man. However from what you wrote it doesn't seem like a shit test but rather her personality. I have ran into a couple of girls like that. You simply didn't click together , usually i would either ignore the smart ass comments or out smart ass her. Even though you knew that it wasnt going to work out, the important thing is never to loose your frame. Show her that your reality is stronger than hers.
/r/seduction18/03/11 06:42 PM
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Hey man I am i think i know how you feel I am latino and i used to have a similar barrier than the one you have. I came to the US just for college and when i came here I found out that latinos are famous for being sketch or working on the shit that no1 else wants to do. I was self concision about being different and to make things worse English is not my first language . At first i felt exactly how you described it, but because of my fear i stopped trying to even socialize with others and shield…
/r/seduction11/03/11 03:36 AM
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seems like you are getting stuck in your head, stop over thinking and go with the flow
/r/seduction11/03/11 03:14 AM
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Well he mentioned that he was the friend with a penis and that he had not told her how he felt. I dont know the specifics but it sounds like he was in the exact same position where i was. I always put her needs in front of mine, I was always there for her when she needed me,always did everything that she wanted and told me to, because i thought that if i did this , she would like me. And yes this works wonders if you want to be her friend only but this generates no attraction whatsoever;Doormats…
/r/seduction06/03/11 06:19 PM
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hey man i was there too but dont get your hopes down, if you really like this girl getting out of the ljbf zone is not impossible but you will have to change your approach completely. I went from her telling me 'omg you are my best friend, like the brother i never had' to her jumping on me. Its a good thing you realized this
/r/seduction04/03/11 08:59 PM
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am I the only one that misread the bagging with banging and read the whole field report waiting for the turning point? Good fr i liked how detailed it was
/r/seduction22/02/11 11:49 PM
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som1 posted this link on shit tests a while ago, it helped me out a lot -on shit tests- here you go guys
/r/seduction21/02/11 06:35 PM
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not a chance u have to own the braces! ( thats like 3k $ worth of bling in your mouth right there! ) dont be affraid to smile, confidence > looks
/r/seduction03/02/11 05:06 PM
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Sounds like a huge bitch. My advise would be never to show irritation , that is what she is looking for always be cool. Respond with something that will show her how you don't care and how stupid she is being. On the first case I would have replied with something like "OMG! I guess we shop at the same store then!" followed by big smile, this will most likely would have shut her up. For the next one i would have replied with something like "Oh i am sorry next time ill try to illustrate it with pr…
/r/seduction28/01/11 05:32 AM
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what if she likes him and is nervous and thats why she wants more ppl in? You have more background on whats going on, go with your gut
/r/seduction21/01/11 11:24 PM
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First of all let me tell you something, there is nothing wrong with you in the sense that you need "fixing", you are NOT BROKEN. I know how you might feel about pretending to be confident but you got to start somewhere, i cant remember where i read this but it went something like this"there are no boring people in this world, just boring interactions between them". Start out by pretending that you are confident , get out of your comfort zone and put yourself out there. Don't make the mistake of …
/r/seduction14/01/11 04:27 PM
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looks like you are getting shittested I think the "who knows" might have been too much for som1 you barely know. Next time try something like this. Her:"dont expect anything romantic" you:"woooooah slow down there, i barely even know you and you are thinking about romance" smile
/r/seduction14/01/11 03:48 PM
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you should have done a freeze out and tried again later
/r/seduction01/01/11 12:24 AM
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This might sound really lame but every time i run into a situation like this i think about bugs bunny: Elmer fud was always trying to hunt him and what did bugs do? he kissed him, this made fud angrier. Now im not trying to say kiss the guy but just play it cool or act the complete opposite way he expects you to react. This will make him look like an idiot and you like an alpha.
/r/seduction29/12/10 09:12 PM
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i dont know if this is the one he is talking about but i uploaded this one a while ago http://www.easy-share.com/1912681253/TUGTTAPG.pdf let me know if it doesnt work i can reupload it
/r/seduction22/12/10 03:21 PM
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Me:hey, do you want to play rape? Her:No! Me: Thats the spirit!!
/r/seduction13/12/10 04:13 PM
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what he said, i hope u keep writing ur fr with these references
/r/seduction13/12/10 02:24 PM
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Hahahahaha, I can see your point, to be honest i dont know where that came from and if I had had time to think about it I would have never used that word especially since I am only 23 and that word seems something only old ppl would use, but hey i just went with it
/r/seduction08/12/10 09:00 PM
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Hey dont worry about the gay rumors. I have also started being very social and on top of that i started working out a lot and dressing up nicely. My friends/coworkers joke around that I or what i wear is gay but deep down i think that they are just jealous. When you go out and start flirting and getting positive responses from girls they will shut up for sure. Its just them being amogs or most likely their inner afc lashing out, dont put too much thought into it and great job keep it up
/r/seduction07/12/10 09:18 PM
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If they happen to be wearing headphones while studying : walk up to her and do the take of your headphones movement: When she does, ask her: I am sorry but i couldnt help to notice how focused you look, I am listening to X band and it's just not doing it for me. What are you listening to? This has always gotten me a response from there u can transition whatever you want. Now, if you see the girl studying there often, you can eject right after she answers and just about you are about to leave ask…
/r/seduction06/12/10 06:12 PM
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upvoted you, as harsh as it sounds, you are right, you could have used a friendlier tone but hey, its still good advice.
/r/seduction01/12/10 06:01 AM
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Very true, i happen to be on the last stop on the way back from dc (vienna) and i have done a couple of # closes and met pretty interesting people on my way back home from partying. Every1 is just as bored as you are, just start talking !
/r/seduction01/12/10 05:56 AM
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what part of latin america? i might be able to help you out if u gave us more details
/r/seduction21/11/10 09:46 PM
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upvote for linking the right time of the video
/r/seduction18/11/10 07:57 PM
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maybe a reschedule instead of a cancel?
/r/seduction18/11/10 07:56 PM
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dont stress about openers, think back about all the the ppl u know , what was the first thing you said to each other? i can hardly remember a single one. That is just your AFC coming out ( there is no reason why you should think like that).As long as you keep the conversation interesting you should be good
/r/seduction18/11/10 06:12 PM
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3 second rule man, if by 3 seconds u dont know what to say , just say whatever comes out first. I dont know why but we tend to over-stress with openers, just think about what was the first thing any1 you have ever met told you, honestly I could not remember a single one, just say whatever and own it. Its easier said than done, I know, I still have trouble with it, I once opened a hb7 with "why is everything so wet?" (we where both walking out the metro station, and it was clear that it had been …
/r/seduction16/11/10 03:53 AM
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if som1 i dont know asks me to buy them a drink i go ( say it with a big smile and lots of confidence) "im sorry i usually dont buy drinks to ppl that i dont know/just met" they usually either introduce themselves or just stare at you. then i go "Tell you what, im going to do an exception, lets play a game, loser buys" then i proceed to do the 5 question game http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_hsD4V4UFCg This game has never failed me and drink scammers love it (there is no better feeling when they …
/r/seduction16/11/10 03:25 AM
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Hey man , glad it worked out for you, that was very clever! Im new to seddit myself and I know how you feel; it has started opening many doors to me . Not just in meeting girls but in having more self confidence and just having more fun
/r/seduction14/11/10 08:18 PM
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just wanted to touch on your "an a PUA "take a hint", so to speak?" question. I might have misunderstood the question but here is my go. PUAs are the best one in taking hints, depending on how deep you get into the material, you get into the psychological of how people act and why they do it. A good PUA strives to be able to understand and read the social dynamics of the situation and act accordingly. An example for this is, while opening a set try and look at their feet, usually if they change …
/r/seduction06/11/10 04:39 PM
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Dont equate pua = guy who wants to bang or pua = asshole. In my personal experience a PUA is a person that understands social dynamics and can use them in his advantage to present himself as the best form of himself. While yes, you can find canned materials in here or some gimmicks you can use, most of them are designed to give you confidence and let your true self come out. Society has a way of repressing who we are and i didnt even realize it until i started reading pua materials. For example …
/r/seduction06/11/10 04:29 PM
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nothing to loose i say go for it
/r/seduction05/11/10 07:37 PM
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Hey man if you hate clubs try something more suited for you. There are many places you can go. But if u like clubs and are having trouble getting that initial rush to get in state try meditation, i cant remember where i read this but it worked for me. When you are by yourself in your room, close your eyes and imagine someone badass/cool/confident in a white room, for me is james bond or george clooney in oceans 11 (no homo here, just picture someone who has a great state/presence) . Think about …
/r/seduction05/11/10 07:34 PM
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i personally go for the kiss waaay b4 the end of the date, i have tried the end of the night thing and its always very awkward, whether the kiss is received or not
/r/seduction05/11/10 06:45 PM
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hahahaha , u got amog'd by a girl, dont let this happen again, ever, you dont have to act like a dick and make it clear u r not interested, i liked the gps like apuaa sugested
/r/seduction05/11/10 06:41 PM
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hey man, you are worrying for nothing. While yes having money to splurge once in a while might be nice, its completely unnecessary. Although, i do have to admit that sometimes i need my liquid courage :P . Some might recommend getting water, I usually got with club soda ( i like it better and it looks more like a drink), it is rare when some1 asks me why i am not drinking but usually a simple excuse works just fine( i have to wake up early tomorrow, im the dd, etc.) u could also turn it into a n…
/r/seduction05/11/10 05:07 PM
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say fuck it, kino and kiss
/r/seduction04/11/10 04:30 PM
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girl was prolly scared shitless
/r/seduction04/11/10 04:08 PM
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lol
/r/seduction02/11/10 06:49 PM
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sounds like a fun idea man, let us know how it works
/r/seduction02/11/10 02:12 PM
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give this one a read, it was made by love systems, it helped me, Its not about canned materials but about the basics, however there are examples in there of what would be good and what not to do (found many things i used to do in the what not to do area, which felt awefull but at least now i know ) http://www.easy-share.com/1912681253/TUGTTAPG.pdf let me know what you think if you do read it
/r/seduction02/11/10 02:10 PM
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hey man here is a link on a pdf on texting/phone which help me a lot, i hope it helps you too, let me know what you think about it if you do read it http://www.easy-share.com/1912681253/TUGTTAPG.pdf
/r/seduction02/11/10 02:05 PM
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hey man, I recently graduated from college and moved to the area, have made a few friends but they are afc's, and no matter how hard i try to bring them to a good state, they always end up bringing mine down , it would be nice to meet high energy ppl to go out with, and learn a thing or two ( im new to this "game" thing).
/r/seduction02/11/10 01:54 PM
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Any1 else from seedit from the DC area? I am new to the area and also kinda new to this "gaming" , I have made a couple of friends already but they are afc's and no matter how much i try to bring them to a good state, they kinda end up dragging mine down, I know i should be able to handle this but i think that going out with a high energy group/ppl would help me a lot
/r/seduction01/11/10 02:35 PM
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i kinda found myself in a similar situation, in my case i ended up being friend zoned, she would start going out with dbags and came running to me every time they wouldnt work out (but just as a friend). I had a huughe crush on this girl so it was hard to move on, every time i tried to, she would pull me back and if i tried to see other girls she would go crazy jealous. That was one of the most emotionally painful time of my life. If u think she likes you like that, I would recommend escalating …
/r/seduction27/10/10 02:00 PM
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Ugh, its like that where i am too, thats why i never open a tab, Every time i get my first drink i leave a GOOD tip and ask for the bartenders name, shake his hand and let him know that i will be ordering more but dont want to open a tab bc i always forget to close it (always go back to the same bartender). If you leave a good tip the first few times and call them by their name they would usually start giving me free drinks. When you are about to leave go back to the bartender and say bye,yhx an…
/r/seduction21/10/10 02:10 PM
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this is the first file hosting site i could find that didnt require me to sign up, sry if there is a long wait time http://www.easy-share.com/1912681253/TUGTTAPG.pdf let me know if that doesnt work i can always email it. Give that book a look i found myself going "Omg i did this!, no shit i got no reply" when i read the do not do this! examples. Hahaha Thanks for the cigarette routine!
/r/seduction21/10/10 02:00 PM
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Great story man, Ill have to try the cigarette bit, i usually just end up giving them one and chat with them but that sounds better! I would say your phone skills need some improvement. Here are some things i have read in a cellphone book which has helped me tons. 1. When getting her number always try for her to save your number on her phone. That way she wont see a random ass number when you call/txt. If it is possible try to grab her phone and save yourself in it, get creative and save yoursel…
/r/seduction20/10/10 07:40 PM
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i have a book on phone game if u want it, which help me a lot, find myself thinking to myself "omg i cant believe i did this many times as i read the examples of what NOT to do :P ) http://www.easy-share.com/1912681253/TUGTTAPG.pdf (this is the first time i have uploaded something with this site, so i dont know if it will work, send me a msg if the link is down ill email it to ya) let me know if it helps and how it went!
/r/seduction19/10/10 03:40 PM
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I tried this this approach to build some rapport at the gym http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UbLOnAZ2BOo , it worked wonders for me, but this only would work if you see her often at the gym
/r/seduction19/10/10 12:15 AM
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cant believe no1 has mentioned barney stinson from how i met your mom! hahahha but yeah dude dont try to mirror som1 just find yourself
/r/seduction15/10/10 01:39 PM
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there's a thin line between creepy and flrity , that line is called confidence. Just be confident and natural and you can pretty much say anything to open!
/r/seduction15/10/10 01:36 PM
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this is when you go, i dont know, im looking for them, they seem to have gotten lost. This always gets a few laughs
/r/seduction08/10/10 11:57 PM
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I agree with michiganrag, if it helps you take some pressure off set a time constrain at the beginning " I an on my way to ... " have a small conversation build some rapport and get her number and then peace out
/r/seduction07/10/10 04:07 AM
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genius!
/r/seduction06/10/10 02:15 PM
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live in vienna, VA
/r/seduction04/10/10 01:29 AM
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