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Conversationdark_helmt8/r/seduction28/12/21 03:47 AM
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This is the way.
/r/seduction03/07/22 10:57 PM
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I'll offer an alternative view point. Why should anyone talk to you? Do you deserve it? Are you active in your community in some way helping people or are you living your life for yourself? I'm asking not to shame but to reorient. Often times, men focus on what's in front of them - looks, money, weight, height, social media etc, which isnt wrong, it's just a small part of the picture. Every one of us can take some time to make the world a little bit better through our community - prof. org, reli…
/r/seduction03/07/22 10:55 PM
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If I were you, I would do this in steps to ultimately get a phone number ASAP. DMs are not how you want to communicate. Send a brief message saying hello, mentioning youre the guy with the nice accent and even nicer genes, then ask if she remembers you. If you get an answer back in the affirmative, the next step would be mentioning that she actually caught you off guard that day with all the wonderful attention she showed you and that you didn't have the presence of mind to ask for her phone num…
/r/seduction02/07/22 06:54 PM
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Can take the hoe out dat club, but dat club tryina ease up in dat hoe, playa hahaha. Dodged a bullet homie, don't meet girls in clubs bro, those type bitches brains need further development.
/r/seduction02/07/22 11:36 AM
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Ask questions about her non stop. Play of certain answers. I wouldnt get more complicated than that at this point.
/r/seduction02/07/22 05:44 AM
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Na, it's a rant and a generalization. It adds nothing.
/r/seduction01/07/22 11:43 PM
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This has nothing to do with seduction
/r/seduction01/07/22 11:37 PM
6

This is the way
/r/seduction01/07/22 08:43 PM
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Great question. It's a term that has it's origins from the earliest PUA speakers like David D'Angelo. It means a man only focuses on chasing after and obcessing over one girl. Not dating, hooking up, or talking to anyone else except the one. This also involves un-reciprocated feelings and totally unrealistic fantasy of the girl. It's an unhealthy obsessive infatuation, that doesn't do anyone any good. Not to be confused with dating, finding a good girl, and establishing a relationship.
/r/seduction01/07/22 08:11 PM
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Gladly. It's putting an investment of time, money, or effort where it doesn't belong and unnaturally accelerating the progress of the relationship Im in, whatever type it is (date, hookup, girlfriend). Examples would be taking dates to really expensive restaurants or destinations, financially supporting a girlfriend in some way (not even a big way, I once paid $500 for my ex's medical cert and drove her to and from a few times). Note Im not being asked to do any of this, there are no demands. I'…
/r/seduction01/07/22 07:36 PM
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Dont get oneitis over anyone while dating Half ass nothing in a relationship Dont fuck crazy Dont act like a husband to a girlfriend, or a boyfriend to a date. Women are terrified of obesity, so dont gain weight.
/r/seduction01/07/22 08:19 AM
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Yes. It's one of the biggest displays of masculinity and it's a total game changer. But it's not just the move. It's the whole package. Career, education, leadership/service in the community, caring for oneself, maintaining a household, having a life, having friends, having a project or investments to work on, and so on. They will shoot you out of sky when they see all this working together in a balanced, happy harmony, and they'll want to be a part of the world you created. And as far as the ho…
/r/seduction30/06/22 07:03 PM
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Why wouldn't you just go meet her in person? Chad's boning her down because he didn't have an encyclopedic game of texting. Texting for weeks on end is what girls and their homosexual best friends do with eachother to gossip. You displayed feminine traits and she let you go, as she should have.
/r/seduction30/06/22 06:23 PM
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I will send you dps and youll see the wisdom and excellence of the geniusnessocity of the brilltasticness of this innovation, and maybe afterwards not take every post on reddit seriously
/r/seduction28/06/22 10:31 PM
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Jesus, so much negging in these responses. Brotha, an evolved form of negging is flipping whole social paradigms. For example, if the subject if relationships or love or marriage comes up, depending on if it's a light hearted discussion or not, I'll say something like "Ill need my engagement ring to be at least 500 karats, more karats than bugs bunny. Remember my wishes." If shes having any work or money related issues, Ill say "we gotta get you making some serious cash, poppa needs his vette." …
/r/seduction28/06/22 10:13 PM
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Please don't listen to anyone saying not to pursue this. This woman is not married, hopefully has no kids, and is on the rocks with someone she thinks is a bf - in other words, she's fair game. Do whatever you want because no vow is being broken here. You can be the rebound, the f-toy, the new bf, whatever, just try to avoid the complication of a love triangle. And you did the right thing here: you set up a get together in a few days to give her time to think and bf a chance to fix things. You g…
/r/seduction28/06/22 02:40 PM
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It is clearly clear that you spreading uninformativitiness. Shame.
/r/seduction28/06/22 03:35 AM
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No
/r/seduction28/06/22 02:14 AM
12

Send dick pics to her immediately
/r/seduction28/06/22 01:39 AM
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On your first point, not sure what you mean. There are literally infinite scenarios for men to be labeled as creeps, rightly or wrongly. And I cant answer the dick pic theory cause it's kinda like chicken and the egg. If dick pics didn't work at all, would any guy send them? They might not work on you, but if they didn't entice at all, then why do such a plurality of men use them? Are they all creeps? Or have some found genuine success with sending some heat with their pants monsters to dtf girl…
/r/seduction27/06/22 11:14 PM
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Missed the mark there bud. At this point, guys might consider themselves lucky to be labeled a creep by someone they see. Most men are labeled creeps well before they ever meet with a woman. People call men creeps over dating apps, text and social media, often times just for messaging an uninterested person. That single interaction often results in the "creep" label, among many other reasons and infinite scenarios. The word is completely overused and misused.
/r/seduction27/06/22 08:01 PM
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How is this related to seduction?
/r/seduction27/06/22 04:39 PM
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No
/r/seduction27/06/22 04:37 AM
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I was in a brief 6 month relationship with a girl who liked really really rough sex. Im not sure if thats along the same lines of what you're saying, but she liked getting slapped, spit on, stepped on, choked hard, tied up and raped under different circumstances by me. Over time, I got less rough, and she seriously called me out on it by, and Im paraphrasing here, calling me a pussy and stopped seeing me. I found out later she was seeing me while her fiance was in prison for aggravated assault a…
/r/seduction25/06/22 06:47 PM
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Unblock her, but don't pursue or contact. She might reach out one day, and when she ask her out. Go after other girls. Bro, if I had to guess shes getting deep dicked by Chad and doesnt have time for anyone. Lesson learned for you is dont friendzone yourself. You dont make friends a girl you want to get with.
/r/seduction25/06/22 03:20 AM
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Confess feelings when you want to get engaged. Otherwise, why?
/r/seduction24/06/22 09:42 PM
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That makes more sense. I think you need to be upfront and honest. Just say what you want. If you make it clear that you are interested in non-exclusive casual relationships in the beginning, you'll feel better. That also means no more typical dates. Think bars, night clubs (pick a type like salsa, swing, jazz, whatever), dancing, then straight home. Or going to a beach, laying out, then straight home. But most of the time its staying home. No feeding her, no hand holding, no parks, no romance ou…
/r/seduction24/06/22 06:24 PM
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Don't engage in a relationship discussion or if the issue is forced say you're taking things slow. By keeping your feelings ambiguous, it will create attraction. Also and most importantly, you gotta be up to date on your in-bed techniques. If it's all casual, you gotta be in shape and a really great lover. That doesn't just mean being giving either, making her orgasm should be par for the course, its about understanding the woman completely and treating her accordingly in bed (rough, gentle, fre…
/r/seduction24/06/22 05:57 PM
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Emotional damage 😂😂😂 Its a song sweetypea, untwist your little panties https://youtu.be/JylbxFYc83k
/r/seduction24/06/22 03:24 PM
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Yeah, it's too late. Too late. Too late. Too late for love.
/r/seduction24/06/22 06:28 AM
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Ok Shakespeare
/r/seduction23/06/22 08:45 PM
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If the world worked the way you think it does, we would not have a society. Try again
/r/seduction23/06/22 08:37 PM
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Thanks brotha
/r/seduction23/06/22 12:47 AM
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Look man, I would say it isn't important but that would be a lie. Im 39 now, seeing a 29 year old confirmed virgin whos never had a bf bc she was in medical school up until now. Every man I know who ive told this to does the exact same impressed nod and says "jackpot." And I really feel that way. No baggage, no ex bf trauma, no cheating victim cautions, no date rp issues, no OLD trauma, nothing, nada. It feels like a vacation. Everything we do is a first for her and she's loving every minute lik…
/r/seduction22/06/22 11:29 PM
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Does it matter? You be about your business and keep up the hunt. If one ghosts, flakes, or loses interest, it's not move on to the next one, it's you have one or more lined up in front to keep you busy. With this one, if you hear from her again, I would recommend the following: Dont burn the bridge. Dont appear frustrated or overly cool. Meet up only under specific circumstances, your choice on the approach. Option 1: Offer to meet up again, but make it clear that she has to come over. You've be…
/r/seduction22/06/22 05:22 PM
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Politics and seduction have nothing to do with eachother. If it's important to you, that's fine, I would just advise that it's something that's more for an LTR. And I wouldn't feel the next to share first, feel the person out first and then play it cool. You never know, they might feel the same way. It's just a turnoff for most women to get machine gunned with politics.
/r/seduction21/06/22 02:22 AM
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Where did you learn from?
/r/seduction20/06/22 11:16 PM
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This isnt for the OP, but a warning to others reading. If you don't have your shit together by 40, then it's going to be personally devastating and very hard to recover from. There can be one or two things out of whack, but when it's everything, one's mind by that time has warped into a victim's mentality where it's almost impossible to conduct true self assessment, accept advice, not blame others, and even begin to try to make small, incremental improvements. The mind is basically used to lazin…
/r/seduction20/06/22 07:50 PM
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Gentlemen, comon! This is a no brainer. When you get confirmation that she is coming over, whether you are with her in person, phone call or text, all you do is say the following: "Btw sweetnessness, I need to be up very early in the morning so I have to call it a night at around XXPM. Im leaving to go visit my buddy in [insert city that is over fours away]. I need to go to sleep around [time]. Is that cool?" Or say I have an early meeting for a project, class, work, literally anything. Either w…
/r/seduction18/06/22 01:51 AM
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No
/r/seduction14/06/22 06:52 AM
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I would try a different tactic. Try joining a professional network or some organization where youll do some good for people while having exposure to single women. Try it out and see if you just make plain conversation. Point is, take it slow, practice and put yourself in a place or two that doesn't involve online dating or cold approaches alone.
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:50 PM
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Cant fix stupid
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:46 PM
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You shouldve said "Magnums baby, please."
/r/seduction08/01/22 01:12 AM
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That's not true. That's impossible!!
/r/seduction07/01/22 08:38 PM
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Im not encouraging anything here, but if you look at the effectiveness of pull n pray vs condoms, its surprisingly not that far off. But im still praying like a mofo https://www.google.com/amp/s/abcnews.go.com/amp/Health/Economy/sex-study-pull-withdrawal-method-rivals-condoms-birth/story%3Fid%3D7688558
/r/seduction07/01/22 08:00 PM
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Na, pull n pray. Its rare that I see someone birth control.
/r/seduction07/01/22 06:28 PM
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I needed to edit the post. I wanted to say I wear em the first few times, then we get tested.
/r/seduction07/01/22 05:17 PM
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I dont wear them unless its the first few times. Then I get tested and so does the girl and then we toss the condoms. Try trojan large or a sleeve, those can be fun
/r/seduction07/01/22 04:38 PM
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Why did this immediately set off Bang Bro scenarios in my demented head? If she asked me to her get something in the broom closet, like a cleaner or an orgasm, or rub out a difficult spot on her heyhey with my tongue, Id be like Mr Clean for sure.
/r/seduction07/01/22 01:14 AM
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Ok, that makes more sense, my bad
/r/seduction07/01/22 12:50 AM
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$3200???? Brrrrrrrrrooooooo, that's insane money for 3 meetings. Unless they are the Dating Christ incarnate come down from heaven, ready to bless you with hypnotic powers of seduction, and horse c@ck energy, Id pass. There's nothing you can learn these days from PUA and Dating coaches on youtube, patreon, and books.
/r/seduction07/01/22 12:41 AM
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Dont do anything, dont say anything, and dont stop paying attention to your friend. This is a silly little girl acting like a €¥&$. Whenever she needs D, provide it and then walk away knowing that its just your turn this time and it'll be someone else's turn tomorrow. She'll come back to you for more, and enjoy it. Just don't do anything dumb like thinking it'll last, getting back together, expressing your feelings or what she says. Be chill, have fun and hook up
/r/seduction04/01/22 08:33 PM
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With this particular girl, I wouldn't do anything. She is using you for whatever reason. If the sex is good and she gives it, then keep going. Don't take her out anywhere, don't spend money, just cook/snack/drink at home a lot and keep it casual. Don't text/call her first and when or if she does, set up time to see eachother right away and then stop talking over the phone. The more important thing to do is to pursue other women immediately. You don't have a relationship with this present girl so…
/r/seduction04/01/22 08:15 PM
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No, flaking is different than not being available. You can just say that you're not available one day but are on others. And don't tell anyone what you're doing so you can remain mysterious. Flakes are like used diapers - utterly useless and belong in the trash.
/r/seduction29/12/21 02:06 AM
1

Not rambling AT ALL. Thank you for writing truth. It's a big help and getting all these great comments reinforces what Im trying to do. You mentioned "don't let anyone tell you otherwise"... In the past, so many people did. Nowadays, if someone says something like that, I have to call them out for patronizing me. Im so sick of the bullshit. I used to think people were being nice, but now, I look at it as belittling behavior.
/r/seduction28/12/21 10:25 AM
2

Thanks for saying! So good to hear!
/r/seduction28/12/21 10:20 AM
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Thanks again!
/r/seduction28/12/21 10:19 AM
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I hear you. The thing Im tired of is dating trash. My last girlfriend dumped me over text because she got back together with her fiance who was in prison for trying to kill someone (nothing I knew of course when we were together). This is not everyday of course, but ive been dating women of the wrong type for years because when Im fat I get desperate when I see someone liking me, so I get sucked in fast and let a lot of shit slide. Me being overweight is a big reason for that desperation. When I…
/r/seduction28/12/21 09:18 AM
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This is great brotha, thank you! Subscribed
/r/seduction28/12/21 09:10 AM
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That couldn't have been easy to share, thank you so much!! I have a question for you. If your man that you mention had been more fit, would he have been the one? Im asking becsuse After so many years of being rejected many if the girls I reach out to, I know that same thing you describe happened to me. Or if I was dating or in a relationship and I was fat at the time, I imagine that Id be easier to walk away from. Real talk
/r/seduction28/12/21 08:55 AM
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Fuck bro, I hope not. Im at a good place in life, I have a great family, solid career and education. I invest everything I make. I have a professional network I created where we help place hundreds of people into interview rooms and jobs every year. My game is solid and I learn more everyday. But I say I hope not because, assuming I drop the weight, I hope there isnt some other massive hurdle I have to overcome.
/r/seduction28/12/21 08:51 AM
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It does, thank you!!
/r/seduction28/12/21 08:45 AM
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I wouldn't call it shallowness though. It's part preferences, part biology. I want the very best - good upbringing, education, family, morals, personality, kind hearted, feminine, and good looking. But I have to be at my best for what I want.
/r/seduction28/12/21 08:44 AM
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Right on brotha. Appreciate the honesty
/r/seduction28/12/21 08:42 AM
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And about muai thai, I had taken it for 16 years, along with boxing and Jiu Jitsu before my weight caught up with me recently. I was never able to pick up though directly from the gym. I just moved to a new city though, so Ill see how it goes when I join a new gym after I drop a few pounds.
/r/seduction28/12/21 08:08 AM
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Thank you brotha. I know that having noticeable biceps, visible jawline and well toned legs help a lot. What's your experience?
/r/seduction28/12/21 08:03 AM
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Word... its taken me a long time to figure that out and hearing the truth from good honest people like yourself is always refreshing. It's weird. I was always cycling between chubby/fat and fit. Everytime I was fat, some people would tell me that I look great. When I was fit, those same people would say that I look weird and say I lost too much weight or put on too much muscle. No one would ever say come out and say "your getting moon faced, drop the weight" or conversely "Youre looking good, bu…
/r/seduction28/12/21 07:59 AM
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This is great insight! Thank you!!
/r/seduction28/12/21 07:53 AM
1

Let me ask it another way... if you have a pair of twins, all other things being equal and to your taste, you would take the fit one and not obese one?
/r/seduction28/12/21 06:11 AM
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Thank you! Is there anything someone can be doing as far as activity to make him seem more attractive? E.G. some martial art, weighttraining, biking, swimming, pole vaulting etc? Which of these or something else would be more attractive to you personally?!
/r/seduction28/12/21 06:10 AM
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Right on, thank you!
/r/seduction28/12/21 06:07 AM
5

Right on, thanks brotha.
/r/seduction28/12/21 04:33 AM
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As long as she knows you're in it as a casual partner and nothing more, and she accepts it, then you're. Your tegrity isn't worth a lay
/r/seduction28/12/21 02:48 AM
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This is the way
/r/seduction27/12/21 05:25 AM
3

Put a burger king onion ring in a shoe box and then stand on your head. Then recite the following as you shove the box in her face: "Duuuuhhhh have you seen my baseball. I like baseball. You mine now." As mankind has progressed through the centuries and eons, this great courtship tradition has endured. Now we pass the baton to you.
/r/seduction27/12/21 05:23 AM
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Nope. I was 37, she was 24. It lasted about 6 months before she moved on. And when she decided to move on, I let it happen and didn't try to stop her. Mine had nowhere near the following on insta yours does, but she still needed the attention from that nearly daily selfie. By around month 5, she had mentioned serious relationship and I told her that as long as she kept getting Chads sliding into her DMs and booty calls on her phone from these near daily selfies, I could never be serious. Couple …
/r/seduction26/12/21 09:38 AM
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Its just your turn with her brotha. Any girl who's life revolves around instagram is not relationship material. Enjoy yourself, have fun, hook up, and be chill AF. Never even mention her social media or anything, and Im saying this from experience. Also, dont flash money or give her any. Think hiking and nature dates and cooking at home a lot. The moment she senses insecurity, it's over. Eventually she'll get a Chad sliding into her DMs and drift away and itll be the next guys turn.
/r/seduction26/12/21 04:41 AM
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Generally, you need the following: Masculine frame of mind Money, lots of it Visible muscles Be over 5'8" in height Have some sort of status Most importantly, you need game
/r/seduction26/12/21 03:56 AM
14

"That'll be $999.99 ma'am."
/r/seduction24/12/21 09:09 AM
1

No, cleaely he means lollipop
/r/seduction23/12/21 06:55 PM
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Dont respond to the trolls bud, its bad for you
/r/seduction23/12/21 05:48 PM
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Every woman Ive ever been with told me that their previous boyfriends would never go down on them, never engage in foreplay and never focused on their pleasure. I made it a point to be a student of sex and to study everything I can, from the ancient texts all the way to learning from instructional videos from sites like pornhub. This was one of the best decisions Ive ever made. When i make a woman orgasm, it separates me from the previous, more selfish men she had been with in more ways than jus…
/r/seduction23/12/21 09:50 AM
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Living alone has it's advantages. From my experience, women prefer it because they generally don't like sharing spaces or being quiet during sex, among other reasons. But it's your life...if you like living with roommates, then by alll means.
/r/seduction22/12/21 11:57 AM
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No
/r/seduction21/12/21 04:56 PM
1

Can you define "everything?" when you say you want everything to be easier.
/r/seduction21/12/21 08:07 AM
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No bro, Im 38 and I dont own a home. I invest everything I make and I decided that I wouldn't buy a home without being married and the support of a spouse.
/r/seduction21/12/21 02:42 AM
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Just introduce yourself and talk to him
/r/seduction21/12/21 02:31 AM
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Gotta do it bro, get in there
/r/seduction20/12/21 10:16 PM
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Dude, next time you're out for a walk, just hold her hand. If you're not sure she'll hold it back, just stick out your elbow. She'll either hold it or not, and if she does, just be slick and transition elbow to hand, grasp her hand and squeeze lightly. Youll know she's in if at any point she squeezes back. If she wasn't interested, she wouldnt take the time to write, call, text or meet up. Just dont write or use the phone anymore, meet up and show your interest physically.
/r/seduction20/12/21 07:46 AM
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I know what you mean. If you can do a bit research, on FB, Instagram, etc, and see if she's constantly posting selfies. Look at the poses themselves. Her pose, smile, position of hands.... does it look like shes having a blast in those photos or just taking them for self worship and free online attention? Also, when you ask her out, her reaction can be revealing. On a first date, I only do tea/coffee at a local spot thats nice, but obviously its no five star restaurant. I gauge her reaction: was…
/r/seduction20/12/21 12:40 AM
0

Why date a single mother? You cannot ever be first priority. I would move on unless you're looking for a quick lay, in which case, you should be allowing her to pursuing you.
/r/seduction19/12/21 10:20 AM
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I dont
/r/seduction06/12/21 09:15 PM
2

Got it, makes sense. Good luck brotha
/r/seduction06/12/21 06:58 AM
4

I wouldn't look at it as her giving you another chance. Tell her you want to hang out again. Try making a nice dinner at your place and set the mood with some candles and such. If she blows you off or ghosts, then you'll know to move on to the next one. You didn't do anything wrong, so there is nothing to forgive or give another chance for. Does that make sense?
/r/seduction06/12/21 06:31 AM
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I use every possible way. Good photos go up on every OLD out there and I dont do any swiping except the ones I think swiped on me. Post the same photos on FB, Insta, and good one on LinkedIn (obviously nothing provocative). I let girls come to me with looks, likes, views, random messages. I rarely initiate contact online. I do all if my own shopping and cooking, so I dont get anything delivered. So I get exposure to malls, grocers, bakers, and farmers markets, great places to meet people and pra…
/r/seduction06/12/21 06:18 AM
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It's common for the first time. The only thing to do is flip the script and go down on the girl. The next time before you get together, be fap-free, make sure you read kama sutra, study your oral technique, and never mention it to anyone, especially her. If she asks what happened, tell that it's very common among men their first time and it's got nothing to do with her. Then bang her brains out
/r/seduction06/12/21 06:03 AM
1

Stop choking her
/r/seduction04/12/21 06:32 PM
2

Let me check her out first. Im a professional.
/r/seduction01/12/21 11:40 PM
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It might hurt, so please send me any girls so I can check for you. I'm a professional.
/r/seduction01/12/21 07:25 PM
6

Get off social media and get her phone number so you can call her to set up a date. Social media is only for introduction, not communicating.
/r/seduction29/11/21 10:57 PM
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As a guy, one of the most important things things is keeping sex fresh. That means pleasuring her completely, everytime. It also means being very adventurous and fulfilling eachothers fantasies, within reason.
/r/seduction29/11/21 04:52 PM
1

Indeed
/r/seduction29/11/21 02:13 PM
3

For guys, its muscles and money. For girls, boob job
/r/seduction29/11/21 04:08 AM
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She's airtight right now with Todd and Chad balls deep in her at each end. And then you send her a text, which she would laugh at but can't because her mouth is full and there are two hands around her throat cause she's kinky. Just picture that scene every time you think about sending your funny little texts to girls who ghosted you.
/r/seduction28/11/21 11:32 PM
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Brotha, there are a million reasons why. Point is that you approached and had conversation. The next time, don't let the opportunity slip - ask for her phone number on the spot. If she says no, move on. Sliding into DMs is beta and common, she probably has 20 guys a day do that, so its easy for her to think of you as pedestrian or even a creep (I hate that word, and those who just toss it out arbitrarily, so apologies). You'll do better with the next one
/r/seduction17/11/21 03:06 AM
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Dude, you did great. Don't be so attached to the outcome, having the nerve to do cold approach like that is a muscle few men know how to exercise. Keep at it, modify your approach as you learn from each encounter. You're on the right path. So, not only was it not dumb, but you're doing the right thing by trying and learning. There are a million reasons why a girl would say no, so who cares! Keep at it
/r/seduction16/11/21 09:44 PM
2

Keep dating other women and let her know you are doing that.
/r/seduction16/11/21 04:18 PM
10

Ya, that's your question, right?
/r/seduction16/11/21 03:31 AM
59

Less??? Try more, by a factor of several hundred.
/r/seduction16/11/21 02:52 AM
1

Love this OP, keep the good word coming
/r/seduction15/11/21 06:09 AM
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Try salsa. Girls love salsa. If you get good salsa, you can transition into tango. Tango is one of the leading causes of wap
/r/seduction15/11/21 06:03 AM
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Ditch the b*tch and move on right away. Like literally today. Say that getting to know her was a gift, but that you both want different things, and that if she ever wants to HOOK UP, to call you and come over. Leave it there, no explanations, no emotion. Ice cold. Walk away and lose her shit on social media, phone, email etc and NEVER contact her again, under any circumstances, even if she catches fire. Give her the gift of losing you. You've essentially become her little purse dog she takes aro…
/r/seduction15/11/21 12:38 AM
1

I know what you mean when you said it. I did the same thing between lessons and clubs
/r/seduction14/11/21 11:26 PM
1

Brotha, you had the right idea with the classes. The clubs or the actual events are not the ideal places because your social value might not be as high at those places (e.g. not owning the club, not being the best dancer, not looking like a male model etc....). I would focus your efforts on the classes entirely.
/r/seduction14/11/21 06:01 PM
1

Just go say hi with a smile
/r/seduction14/11/21 05:04 PM
3

Yes, and if they smell good, say that. If they are wearing nice shoes or have a nice purse, mention those. But one at a time, dont be compliment machine. By being specific, theyll remember it more. If youre a cheeky bastard like me, youll say "dress sexy" like a cave man just before you stop texting or hang up the phone when setting your date up (obviously not the first date, you have to have some chemistry before you use this). If she does dress sexy when you meet up, then definitely say it. If…
/r/seduction14/11/21 05:01 PM
1

Bro, im 38 and I still have a babyface. Its a great advantage if you add a beard and get shredded. Start hitting the gym and lifting like a madman.
/r/seduction14/11/21 04:47 PM
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Bro, you live on an island east of Africa. You cant get laid there
/r/seduction14/11/21 04:32 PM
11

Whatta bunch a marooons, he means use telekinesis
/r/seduction14/11/21 03:59 PM
22

"Only one who lives by no code would deny the bro code" - Bro Code, article 6, section 1.
/r/seduction14/11/21 06:38 AM
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Lol, why do you think she wants to fuck? Comon man, it's for revenge/retaliation/spite and/or the knowledge that she ruins your friendship with him. If you do it, word will definitely spread and soon no one who knows you will really trust you. This is why bro code exists, for psycho trash-ass snatch. If I were you, let him know she came on to you, that you didn't take the bait, and told her to f-off.
/r/seduction14/11/21 06:35 AM
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I'd recommend to take some kind of martial art training. Think mui thai, mma, or jui-jitsu. You'll get fit(ter) and confidence from being able to fight. You'll carry yourself in a different way and it fits perfectly with women feeling safe with you. Any supplements create dependency. Its like taking viagra every time you want to F. Eventually you cant get hard without it. Grass fed beef, fat cell reduction via weight loss, avoiding dairy and soy, hitting things, exercise, and regular sex & sleep…
/r/seduction13/11/21 01:29 AM
3

This is the way
/r/seduction12/11/21 10:29 PM
3

Because she's playing some kind of game with you. That boyfriend she's talking about might be some simp trailing after her and shes just enjoying the attention and social credit. Or she wants a sure thing before she breaks up with that guy and moves on. Or he doesnt exist. Either way, its games. She wouldn't have mentioned it to you if she was a normal, balanced human who knew what she was doing. Whatever happens, this one's for casual use only, because she's not trustworthy. Dont get attached. …
/r/seduction12/11/21 03:15 AM
2

Brotha, something tells me that if you got another part time job, hopefully with mo money, she'll automagicalistlike dump her bf and be available. And if that doesn't happen, then definitely ask her out if you have nothing to lose.
/r/seduction11/11/21 11:12 PM
1

Think of it as practice. If you want to try with a few others first, go for it to see how you can adjust your approach. Also, make sure your photos all demonstrate high value. But dont expect anything. She might be dating someone, have 200 other dms in her box, or not into randos. Worth a shot, but you may want to use your friend for the approach to arrange a get together, might work better.
/r/seduction06/11/21 10:43 PM
1

Dont text, call
/r/seduction06/11/21 10:38 PM
1

When you want something, ask for it. Be direct, say "Come get some coffee with me tonight" or "I want to grab a drink with you and get to know you better." If she says yes, take down her number, not social media bs, and say you cant wait. If she says no, say "if you ever change your mind, let me know" with a smile and move on to the next one.
/r/seduction06/11/21 09:57 PM
1

This is the way
/r/seduction06/11/21 09:53 PM
2

Na bro, you're thinking about it the wrong way. You're learning to dance not to pick up chicks at the dance lesson. You're doing it bc you want to learn so you can take your date salsa dancing because it's in your seduction toolkit and its sexy as hell. If you do strike up a conversation, dont do pick up game. If any guy or girl asks why you're there or how you're doing, just say literally, "I need to up my dance game and I'll take any help I can get." The point is to get good so you throw some …
/r/seduction06/11/21 09:48 PM
2

God bless, and never forget, if she ever thinks about loose skin or whatever, whip out your checkbook and say "I will cover any boobjob above DDs madam." Say it classy like that. We support the societal proliferation of ginormous tatas for this is the way.
/r/seduction06/11/21 09:34 PM
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Jesus, some ruthless people here. If I were you, I wouldnt do anything except show her a healthy lifestyle, just like you have planned. Always eat healthy with her, lots of elaborate salads, seafood, proteins, and no a lot of carbs or sweets. Dont ever mention it, just live it. If she ever says that she wants something unhealthy, dont rebuke her, just point her to something really good thats healthy. Think of dropping healthy lunches for her at work or tracking your steps as you two walk around.…
/r/seduction06/11/21 08:35 PM
1

You did? Wanna hang out sometime?
/r/seduction06/11/21 04:56 PM
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Not triggered lol, why would I be triggered? You said it, he likes porn more than your stale sexual abilities. Did you ever wear any sexy crouchless outfits? Wake him up with a world class pornstar blowjob? Twerk his dick after giving him a lap dance in fishnets? Grab his dick and shove it up your ass with a smile on your face? Grab his hand yell "Choke me!" Walk around with a butt plug and then ask him to adjust it for you? Crawl over his lap and demand punishment from daddy for being a bad gir…
/r/seduction06/11/21 12:22 AM
1

Porn > you in bed. Got it
/r/seduction06/11/21 12:11 AM
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Thats your opinion as a agro-feminist soy boy, and you're entitled to it. And im glad theres beta boys like you to marry the used up trash, keep it up.
/r/seduction05/11/21 11:34 PM
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No. Its because virgin girls or girls who have lower body counts tend to have better upbringings, better/non divorced family backgrounds, are generally not victims of sexual assault and they tend to value thenselves and their sexuality more. Thats what I want in a wife, among other qualities of course, but the aforementioned list is important to me. I dont really care about the opinions of women in this, so your cute attempts at calling me creepy or predatory are for my opinion is typical of a f…
/r/seduction05/11/21 07:37 PM
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Of course, but that's the beauty of game. You get to be choosy. If you have your standards for both wifey and the quick lay, you can just keep looking and enjoying yourself for as long as you want
/r/seduction05/11/21 03:46 PM
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Depends on what you're trying to do. If you're looking for a relationship toward marriage, find a virgin or as close to 0 as possible. So you'll aim for younger girls. If you're looking for lays, then it doesn't matter much expect the higher the count, usually the better the sex but shorter time things will last between you.
/r/seduction05/11/21 03:40 PM
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Take her to a sex shop and have start picking out toys.
/r/seduction04/11/21 11:06 PM
2

What rule? You planted a seed with a prospect who needs to hear that, nothing more. In this case rules dont apply bc shes hooked on dufus and conveying feelings/direct interest is what's required. Right on, rules shmules
/r/seduction04/11/21 08:58 AM
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Keep initiating and escalating, you have her in your hands. I always use my "house rules" too. Rule 1: no bras allowed because I hare them. Rule 2: she cant wear clothes because I demand easy access. Rule 3: Its a man's world and she'll do what I say or else spanking. Just work your way up to each rule. Going down on her like a pro tends to open up many doors too. Good luck!
/r/seduction04/11/21 07:58 AM
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This is the way
/r/seduction03/11/21 07:05 PM
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