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That’s not the only data point. Surveys have been conducted in real life with real people.
/r/seduction03/07/24 05:50 AM
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Kobe wouldn’t sit around saying things like “well, confidence matters more than shooting % or doing the work” would he? That’s the bullshit I’m calling out. Data tells us confidence isn’t the most important thing. It helps, it gives you a leg up, but it’s factually not going to get you laid with every woman that sees height as the number one criteria. Guys like you will take that as me being negative, when I’m not. I’m just not a fan of frivolous falsehoods being sold off as being fact. Because …
/r/seduction03/07/24 05:49 AM
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Oh I do just fine with the ladies my man, don’t you worry about me. I just think it’s a joke when people make statements that are so obviously untrue. You might think the world is the center of the universe but we have telescopes and can see the fucking sun we revolve around. The same way you can say “confidence matters more than anything” when actual data tells us otherwise. Don’t talk in absolutes about things that are easily proven untrue, and guys like me won’t put you in the spot.
/r/seduction03/07/24 05:46 AM
1

Again, great pep talk, but no it’s not.
/r/seduction02/07/24 01:25 AM
10

wtf did I just read
/r/seduction02/07/24 12:50 AM
1

That’s true
/r/seduction02/07/24 12:49 AM
25

Imma say what I always say…. Statistics tell the real story, and height does actually matter, a lot. I get the pep talk, I really do, but that’s all fluff. The numbers say they matter. OKC used to put our trends metrics, and it was always the number one criteria for women on their site. Bumble’s CEO said in an interview it was the top qualifying factor for women when looking for guys. Anywhere you look this fact gets verified. PS: that doesn’t mean an individual can’t do well, and beat the odds.…
/r/seduction01/07/24 11:46 PM
85

You’ve over done it. Everything in life should be in moderation. No matter how good. Take time, get back to baseline, and ask yourself what’s most important in life.
/r/seduction12/05/24 04:01 AM
3

The only thing wrong with this story line is when she flirts with a bunch of dudes at a party to make him jealous. If dump her ass right there. Otherwise, the other scenarios are accidents. It’s not BP to recognize that, and to have compassion.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/22 05:48 PM
1

What makes you think this is easy?
/r/seduction16/08/22 08:58 PM
2

You failed. Listen you can not like what a girl says and also not be butt hurt about it. She was waiting for banter, she was waiting for wit, and instead you clammed up and took your ball(s) home. I think you were unprepared for her trying to show any sign of power, and you didn’t know how to challenge her. At the end of the day, every woman wants a guy that’ll take her blows and follow up with something that puts her in her place, or makes her chuckle to see that you’re made of Teflon.
/r/seduction21/07/22 03:44 PM
2

Us men love boobs. Doesn’t matter the size. Most of us are equal opportunists. That doesn’t mean we won’t stare at a pair of nice ones and even drool. But boobs are boobs, regardless of the shape or size.
/r/seduction02/06/22 05:06 AM
15

Meet up, have drinks, chat. If the mood is feeling right and the environment is right, use something you say as a reason to touch her (nudge her as a tease, or grab her hand for a second as you tell a joke, anything really). This is purely to break the seal. Then do it a bit more and if there is an opportunity have your knees touch at some point. Next, you should suggest going to a second location, a more intimate bar, or somewhere to listen to music, or a park bench, or your car to listen to mu…
/r/seduction17/05/22 06:12 AM
6

The other format is SO passive, especially for online dating. It’s like you’re trying to ask them out, without asking them out. It’s more ideal for a casual convo with a classmate or something.
/r/seduction09/05/22 03:31 PM
1

This.
/r/seduction09/05/22 03:30 PM
3

Errr… if they’re cute then it’s like a romcom. If they’re not it’s creepy. Let’s be real here that’s how it is.
/r/seduction23/03/22 05:08 AM
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Congrats on the sex!
/r/seduction14/03/22 11:14 PM
2

I don’t think any of my long term relationships have come from meeting women at a club. I did meet one of them at a concert, but the rest are from more traditional forms such as meeting through friends, work colleagues, or online dating.
/r/seduction06/03/22 09:06 AM
3

This has nothing to do about “care”, “needy”, not “abundance”. You’re clearly trying to make this more than it is. Your game plan as you’ve established it is: make contact, and then run. Makes absolutely no sense. You’re already out, you’re in a perfect setting, have some damn fun. And that doesn’t need to mean getting laid. Enjoy the company of your boys, enjoy the company of women, these aren’t exclusive from one another. Last weekend my friends and I got a table at a club. Some of us pulled w…
/r/seduction06/03/22 01:46 AM
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Lol what?! Dude, get on the dance floor and make use of the dark lighting, the music, the warmth, the fact that you have an excuse to get intimate. You’re going to take her on a date and attempt to recreate that entire environment from scratch?
/r/seduction05/03/22 08:32 PM
4

Yup. I thought life would be like Zack Morris in Saved by the Bell. Not the case.
/r/seduction01/01/22 01:47 AM
4

If you’ve already asked then you’ve already asked. She clearly hasn’t responded.
/r/seduction10/11/21 01:07 AM
15

You read it right, it’s written wrong.
/r/seduction03/11/21 04:27 AM
6

Women like this are a dime a dozen. There’s nothing unique going on here. If you like having your time waisted go for it. Filter these girls out faster and go for quality experiences and relationships. Tldr: you have absolutely nothing to show for your interactions other than what every other guy out there has already experienced at some point.
/r/seduction03/07/21 06:57 PM
12

Dude, you just found an attention seeker. That’s it. The only lesson here should be to have blocked her around 2 paragraphs into your story.
/r/seduction03/07/21 04:06 PM
18

I’m 5’2”. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and get to work. There are no shortcuts, and same rules apply. Pack on muscle, work on yourself, and walk around like you have the biggest cock in the place. Approach, and don’t ever think you’re less than or you don’t deserve.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 07:56 PM
1

She wouldn’t have gone out of her way to establish boundaries before they had hooked up. She read his intentions and put a stop to it.
/r/seduction18/05/21 02:56 PM
168

This was the right move. She’s not into you, don’t second guess anything. Move on and remove her from memory. If anything, if you ever stood a chance this would help you. But if you cave in as her friend, she knows she gets the admiration from you for free. Value yourself and make others value you.
/r/seduction18/05/21 03:00 AM
1

Every first time CEO is “faking” it. You’ve never been in that situation before and you’re doing your best to make each decision a good one. Now extrapolate that downward to every career or life move. If you don’t feel a slight bit of imposter syndrome at various stages then you’re simply not pushing yourself enough to go higher.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 12:05 AM
3

The guy hit a woman and you’re over here talking about “attraction”. Doesn’t matter if it turned her on, that’s a line that shouldn’t be crossed.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 10:39 PM
4

It could be a form of sexy flirting, or even desire to role play. Then again, she may want to actually do it.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 02:44 AM
7

Have a sense of humor and chill. She might just be showing her sexual appetite, she might just be joking around, or she might be real. Find out and act accordingly.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 01:16 AM
2

Have you tried the GOMAD diet? Gallon of milk a day. Utterly insane but it helped me break through my metabolism wall. You're not meant to do it longterm, but if yo do it for a month it helps you ingest the number of calories that you normally wouldn't be able to because its much easier to drink a gallon of milk than it is to ingest that equivalent food.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 06:44 PM
3

Didn’t bother reading any of that. Either hit her up and get back to it, or don’t.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 01:40 AM
13

One thing you have wrong is that this has nothing to do with “finding the one”, but everything to do with shamelessly doing whatever it takes to become a tiktok “celeb”.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 03:58 AM
2

Are you lifting heavy? I’ve found it helps
/r/askTRP19/11/20 04:26 PM
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Wat? I’m talking from experience man. I’m not a 2% anything, but I embody TRP. You can be bald but still have high smv, with a combo of working out, taking care of yourself, and having confidence. I’m a short dude too, but just by working out, keeping my head cleanly shaved, and always having a fun attitude I become the alpha in a lot of social circles.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 08:42 AM
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Rich no. Jacked, yes. Its hard to think of an bald celeb thats attractive and isn't jacked. Put on some muscle, and every insecurity you have about being bald will go out the door. Pretty soon, you wont look at that as a limitation, and you'll even forget you're bald.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 07:06 AM
2

Wait, you get matches? Look at this guy with his humble brag. Next you’ll be telling us you have a paying job, and health insurance.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 11:47 PM
3

Get some new pics dude. I think you’re living in fear or denial. This is coming from a dude that had to do the same thing a few years back. You’ll have so much more confidence when you’re past this.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 04:07 AM
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You're over thinking it. He's simply implying he has a leaner body that has mass to gain and lack of heavy equipment to do it.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 12:17 AM
23

Uhh wait till you get to 30 dude.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 06:16 PM
12

Sexual market value.. it’s in the side bar.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 11:46 PM
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Because good looking guys will happily fuck average women, so it makes them feel like they can dictate higher SMV guys. This is the premise of the Red Pill.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 09:59 PM
9

It seems weird to force this. Also it opens up a whole convo that you don’t want to have “what do you mean she was texting another guy? Who was he? How do you know? What did she say?... “ it becomes very hard to defend actions like that when the person you’re talking to doesn’t know the situation. 99/100 times you’ll come across as someone that just lost their cool the moment they were threatened by something. Silent confidence and stoicism means communicating without having to say anything at a…
/r/askTRP29/10/20 01:48 AM
7

Are you asking asktrp if you should wait till marriage? Let me grab the popcorn.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 04:26 AM
2

I’m pointing out the issue with your logistics man. Feels like you’re just strutting.
/r/askTRP13/09/20 04:51 PM
3

What if the first one lingers behind, decides to sit a little while longer?
/r/askTRP13/09/20 06:45 AM
2

I didn’t read any of that. Just get back on that horse and go again. You were nervous, it gets better.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 09:43 PM
1

Dude. Everyone here saying the 80/20 rule isn’t legit, isn’t short. That’s a hard deal breaker for most women, especially with OLD and the filters they’ve added. And to everyone saying don’t use OLD... Covid.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 02:34 AM
0

It’s too much. Anyone (and all the comments here) that tells you otherwise has no concept of risk assessment or an understanding of probabilities. They might as well be in the “abstinence is the best way to avoid pregnancy” camp. There is a reason why condoms are passed out in colleges and all of freakin Africa for that matter. If used properly, they do what they’re supposed to!
/r/askTRP24/08/20 02:01 AM
1

Chill man. Both the scenarios you listed out means that dude had complete control over you and would have ended your night for you. Being alpha means setting the tone, not getting your panties in a bunch every time there’s an idiot at a party. Next time either ignore it and show everyone you have a sense of humor, or tell the guy you didn’t appreciate it and have HIM change his behavior... not the other way around.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 03:15 PM
2

How’s the reliability and resale on 370z’s? Wondering if a lease is a better option. Keep in mind you’re young and getting a sports car, so insurance will be $$. That being said, there’s nothing more satisfying then sitting in your dream car. I did the same with a Cooper S, but I leased it. It was the best feeling.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 12:18 AM
1

Why are you doing weekends anyway? I generally never use weekends for randoms (OLD dates). Weekends are for the boys, family, or series dates. Also I assume they would have stuff planned for the weekend anyway. Of course this mindset is very pre-Covid.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 05:02 PM
178

This guy had fun once. It was terrible.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 10:45 PM
6

I do. He can bang anyone he wants, but she’s still his oneitis. No one else gives him that feeling. While to her, he’s just an option. Someone she chooses to be with when it suits her and her desires. That man had some real pain in his eyes during the Red table talk between them two. He absolutely hated her and swore he wouldn’t let her back in and then he did. I don’t even see this as a “marriage” issue, it’s deeper then that. I view it as her having control over him.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 11:14 PM
6

For what it’s worth, my buddies and I (10 of us) all stay in great shape in our mid 30s, all hit the gym and have started to eat well. But Covid took away the gym, and honestly we’ve been eating like kings lately. We’ve all either lost our gains or gained quite a bit of weight during this period. I used to be jacked in October, if you saw me now you wouldn’t believe it. So judging ppl in this period might not be representative of what the norm is.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 05:12 PM
2

These ARE your golden days, trust me your 30s are better than your 20s. Go out there and enjoy life. You’re only hurting yourself.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 05:42 PM
1

Ah this is cute.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 12:19 AM
1

I'm curious how old you are? In short, no they don't, in fact its raising the bar for everyone else and they're asking for pointers on how to do the same. I ask because I'm in my mid-30s where self betterment is very much a thing. If I was in high school, I can see how my friends might be immature enough to act that way.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 11:00 PM
1

Why are you paying attention to anyone else at the gym but yourself? I read your other comments and it sounds like pure hesitation and fear. Listen. You show up, you put in your work, you leave. You do that day in and day out. You’re at the age I wish I started working out. I started at age 33 and it was the best decision I ever made. So stop complaining about having the chips stacked against you and whining about others and get to work.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 01:48 PM
7

I found that if you can go 7 days without porn/fapping, the urges go down dramatically. Then you're left with "what if i just peak once..." type of thoughts. If you can get to day 12, all of a sudden you'll have zero urges and you'll be amazed that you don't think about it anymore. The first 7 days are by far the hardest, and I found it best to find something to keep you busy during that time where you have zero down time. A big project, or travel, etc. Also, remove all porn from your phone, and…
/r/askTRP08/06/20 09:41 PM
-2

This is a big moment in our country's history. There is a different between not being racist and being against racism. The latter means you're willing to take a stance and speak up and stand for something. You should leave her for not having left you, when you fed her this bullshit.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 05:48 PM
2

The truth will set you free. And just because you’re breaking up doesn’t mean tempers need to fly or that anyone needs to be a dick about it. You had a good time, you’re both good people, and you both grew as a result of this relationship, but now you want different things. That’s it.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 05:15 PM
2

I’ve been in your shoes before and I think the advice to “do the same” is bullshit. None of these guys would like being in your position either. You need sleep, and hearing your buddy fuck isn’t an ideal choice of entertainment. You gotta bring it up with him again and demand he does something about it. Muffle that b*tch.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 06:48 PM
1

Per your update: You noticed, came here and wrote this out, and asked the internet what's up. and now you're saying "She even told me why - because it was painful for her". I don't know if you have oneitis or if you just like the attention from strangers but this is embarrassing, doesn't embody TRP. You're married, focus on that.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 12:37 AM
2

I’m in an LTR and very happy. Maybe you need to find another subreddit for 40 year olds with pent up anger issues.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 06:02 PM
8

It makes complete sense. If he’s her pen pal, she has no reason to be with him, she’s already getting the attention she needs from him. His goal should be to establish an in person connection.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 03:41 PM
2

Men don’t even peak till their 30s. Get a grip and start working on yourself.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 08:46 AM
3

I think what most of the advice here amounts to is: Don't put too much weight on this. I know you feel like you're SO close, and this girl hasn't outright rejected you, and you might finally get that kiss or get laid, BUT you have to approach this and every girl as a "plenty of fish in the sea" attitude. You better not be hung up on her. I'm going to (rarely) go away from some of the other advice and say: If you genuinely had a good time, go out with her again. If not, don't. I hesitate to say t…
/r/askTRP19/03/20 01:10 AM
2

Would have been a better story if you banged her in the changing room in spite of what she said. It was a shit test, you failed.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 09:27 PM
12

4-7 times a month is a lot. But who cares, I don’t know why you brought that up. Not being abusive to your plate/LTR doesn’t make you a “nice guy”. It makes you a decent human being. Fuck anyone that hits women, why would you even compare yourself to that guy?
/r/askTRP18/01/20 04:51 PM
1

What the fuck?
/r/askTRP10/01/20 08:34 PM
2

This.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 08:05 PM
2

That’s a dry spell? A random guy in his 20s not having sex for a year got you to reach out to the internet?
/r/askTRP01/01/20 07:46 PM
9

This isn’t about logistics... it’s about what you stand for. If you want to lie and be a fraud, go for it. If you want to value yourself and have others value you, it comes down to being a person whose words and actions have value. The moment you’re shown to be dishonest, even if it’s for bragging rights, you lose the values for which you stand on. And that’s in the eyes of others, which should be secondary to how you view yourself.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 03:52 AM
8

No mention of a date or closing here. If banter is what you want, sounds right up your alley
/r/askTRP21/12/19 08:56 PM
3

I wasn’t overly invested. Plus she was easily a 9
/r/askTRP14/12/19 11:12 PM
12

Work holiday parties seem to bring it out in women. The number of times a coworker’s LTR has straight up hit on me during one of these is incredible. This year (just two nights ago) a much younger coworker’s LTR told me she doesn’t want to date a boy, and wants to date a man like me, then long pause while she’s staring into my eyes. I just got up and left her. Fuck that. A couple years ago a different coworker’s girl and I hit it off in convo (I made an attempt to get to know her because she was…
/r/askTRP14/12/19 06:05 PM
1

According to math, it’s the bottom 50%. So no, not high standards, just the other half.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 03:20 PM
1

Yeah I’ve had several that have held out the first date but put out the 2nd
/r/askTRP14/09/19 08:09 PM
1

Wow this is so unusual. (sarcasm) It either happens on the first date or it doesn’t. Go on the 2nd date and make it happen or onto the next.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 07:59 PM
2

Agreed.. just enjoy it all naturally, have fun, and put yourself out there. The lesson to be learned is don’t be shy, speak your mind, and go after what you want. Value yourself, and then others will value you.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 04:35 AM
19

Next time a girl says she’s too drunk, you stop and leave. Not worth the risk, regardless of what she says in the moment. It’s all about what she remembers the next day and how she perceives it.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 04:19 PM
13

There’s men who send money, gifts, and food to women they’ve never met IRL. So yes.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 07:54 PM
1

I guess that's my characterization, but I say it due to the nature of what they cover. He does a lot of UFC and MMA fight coverage, with a lot of current and former fighters as guests. He talks a lot about guns, hunting, self defense. He has strong point of views, and has shown that he will stand up for things he believes in (like when he was the only comedian that spoke out to call out Carlos Mencia for stealing jokes). Some of the guests he talks to will talk about overcoming personal struggle…
/r/askTRP14/08/19 12:22 AM
50

Keep lifting, start doing martial arts (boxing, kickboxing, Jiu Jitsu, Krav Maga, etc) and surround yourself with guys you view as positive masculine roll models. Listen to masculine things like Joe Rogan’s podcast, and follow masculine ppl like Dwayne Johnson... Pretty soon, you won’t realize it but you will be a part of that masculine culture. It’ll make it easier for you to know how to act masculine and pretty soon it won’t be an act.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 05:01 AM
2

It’s a physiological reaction to something she didn’t initiate. Why would you next her?
/r/askTRP11/08/19 11:43 PM
229

...she’s 19. Does it surprise anyone she’s immature and playing games?
/r/askTRP07/08/19 04:12 AM
3

Also.. what’s up with the cryptic talk, you’re not a spy. If you’re going to shoot yourself in the foot, don’t beat around the bush and just say it.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 03:53 PM
2

A next? She should have been blocked 4 days ago.
/r/askTRP06/07/19 06:01 AM
3

Yes. Still trying to get rid of her. She keeps coming back.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 05:11 AM
14

But seriously now, link?
/r/askTRP01/06/19 04:35 PM
8

Do you need an alpha move if she's not even a potential plate? Listen, this is a lose / lose situation for you. You need to get out, doesn't matter how as long as it doesn't impact your reputation/image for actual prospective plates. Since she's a lesbian, you might have something to gain by just letting her know you've caught feels, and allow her to help you. Heck, she might even throw in a charity handy, or volunteer to help you get laid. But you need to come to terms that that is the best cas…
/r/askTRP29/05/19 07:54 PM
28

Yes and Yes and Side bar.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 12:08 AM
5

The answer is exactly what you think and exactly what all these guys are telling you. Make working out your life. Eat more then you can, bulk up. Get dates, even shitty ones. Build up that abundance mentality. When you start viewing yourself as a viable option when women are around, so will everyone else.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 12:01 AM
16

Why is this on TRP?
/r/askTRP18/05/19 07:31 PM
8

“Your drooling all over the floor and I just cleaned this place...” then ask something that’s not a yes or no response
/r/askTRP18/05/19 05:59 PM
5

Yes. This coming from a shy social anxious person. It’s something you need to practice and train yourself, and fake. The more you do it, the easier it’ll become to flip that switch. Eventually it’s not a switch but a part of your personality that goes in and out fluidly. Pretty soon that’s the version of you that people will know. Do it.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 05:58 PM
0

Oneitis. You slipped, go back to start.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 02:13 PM
3

Stop asking people what that emoji means. Man up and take action or don’t. Take charge and do what YOU want. We’re not mind readers for that one particular girl. And none of this is the point of trp.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 03:19 PM
2

Hard next. She wants attention and you’re willing to give it to her. Btw the colder you are towards her right now, the more she’ll chase you.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 02:50 PM
6

Give less info...
/r/askTRP21/04/19 11:06 PM
1

Use protection. That's it. Be a man and make your own decisions and be responsible for your own life. Stop throwing out hypotheticals. I don't know what statement you're trying to make, but TRP doesn't have a stance on abortion, that is your own moral & ethical issue. It also wont tell you how to fill out your taxes in case you were wondering.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 10:41 PM
3

“If you don't have plates or an LTR, jerking off should be a reminder of what a faggot you are.” Wtf? You have issues dude. Being single doesn’t make someone a faggot.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 04:33 PM
5

This guy fucks! got a blowie once.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 04:46 AM
2

I have to admit in the past I’ve done shit like that to prove to myself and society that in some weird twisted way I’m mature & doing fine, and can be a standup guy, and become friends with an ex’s new flame, even tho I just got rejected/dumped/etc. I know.... this was before trp.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 01:24 AM
1

I use Nike Metcons and I love them. My feet feel absolutely planted to the floor, great stability. I would recommend trying on a pair. You’ll be surprised by the transformation.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 03:30 PM
5

Why are you being an asshole? That's some PUA shit right there, not TRP.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 03:33 AM
14

C’mon dude. She was the racist, but you’re being the idiot here. Why continue talking to someone like that?
/r/askTRP17/03/19 04:22 PM
0

You did the deed. She has her own situation to figure out. On to the next. Ps: congrats on the sex!
/r/askTRP02/03/19 07:29 PM
8

This could be a quote from Gladiator... Maximus! Maximus!
/r/askTRP27/02/19 03:51 PM
8

I’m 5’2”, 34. Yes it’s hard, it’s really fucking hard. Now that we’ve established that... Confidence is where it’s at, and continuing being your own person. Get hobbies, make friends, dgaf attitude towards all the other noise out there. There’s a good chance your 20s will be rough. Women are just fucking around at that age and they tend to go after older guys too. But it seems to get easier the older you get. Now you’re the older guy, your standards drop for looks a little bit, and women are mor…
/r/askTRP16/02/19 05:39 PM
5

Something you learn with age is to have zero tolerance for people that disrespect you. That, as well as simply not caring what others think or how something is perceived. If he asks, be straight up with him, you have nothing to hide.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 03:45 AM
4

Fuck an adult then.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 01:54 AM
1

Agreed with this. Just own it and look like a badass. You have no idea how a hair transplant will look nor if you’ll keep losing hair.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 01:54 AM
5

Jesus, it sounds like you’re in competition with her.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 03:27 PM
2

From all the taken women all at the same time. I’m sure he had an orgy that night and is fully satisfied with life now.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 02:25 AM
237

“Unfortunately all these girls are in relationships” there you go. They like the excitement of flirting and the validation from someone that claims to fuck around, but in reality you’re not really an option. They weren’t doing this with any of the taken guys because the taken guys wouldn’t give them that sort of validation. They want to know they “still got it”. The DGAF attitude is right... target audience not so much. I feel bad for knocking you, when I’m not trying to. I get the same type of …
/r/askTRP26/12/18 05:38 AM
2

There’s not shred of scientific proof that high T levels remove anxiety. The two might affect one another but they aren’t dependent on one another. I don’t know where you got this nonsense from. If only it were that simple.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 02:41 PM
6

This.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 10:59 PM
4

Don’t
/r/askTRP22/12/18 06:57 PM
11

So BOTH reported you to HR because they BOTH actually wanted you? This doesn’t make sense at all. None of it makes sense. “Oh good, once he’s not around I can finally bang him”. You’re lying to yourself. You most definitely creeped them out. It might have been how you said those things, or how you behaved before and after.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 03:51 PM
3

Exactly
/r/askTRP09/12/18 11:29 PM
9

It does suck... but everyone tells me they like my look now a lot more then 5-10 years ago when I had hair. You just got to own it, and the sooner you do the better. Look at Bruce Willis, Jason Stathom, the Rock, Joe Rogan, etc. if anything, it can give you a more badass look.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 08:09 PM
2

Always wondered about those condoms.. do you know if it decreased her sensitivity too? And did she know you were using it?
/r/askTRP06/12/18 04:44 PM
1

Show up, no matter what. Even if you don’t work out, just go sit there and leave after 15/30. Going regularly is your number one goal right now, build the habit. You’ll work out regardless.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 07:12 PM
2

Tinder, none. Other apps yeah. I never understood it, but it’s night and day for me. I will say it’s hard to get girls that aren’t looking for LTR. Gluck tonight, report back on how it goes.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 12:35 AM
1

By the sound of it you can do whatever you want. But best is to just get comfortable and escalate without being overt as much as you can, at least at first. And if it seems like she’s responsive and getting touchy then take it up a notch. But do what feels right.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 07:06 PM
1

Yeah, if you’re in eating butt territory then just go with confidence and have fun. I think they care more when they’re coming in with the LTR mindset and you don’t check their boxes. And those are the ones to avoid anyway.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 05:53 PM
2

I have the same issue and am shorter then you. I actually started posting my height in my profile just to help myself get over that concern. I can’t tell if it’s effected my match numbers, but an experiment you could try. As for tomorrow, sounds like she has bigger plans for you, height won’t matter as much.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 04:02 PM
1

There would be a dark_rabbit shaped hole in the wall and a smoke trail
/r/askTRP24/11/18 07:45 AM
6

Abandon ship and block. She sounds crazy, and she’s telling you she has issues. What more do you need?
/r/askTRP24/11/18 04:23 AM
3

You’re over thinking it. Maintaining eye contact is masculinity. He’s not saying don’t blink, and don’t have expressions, not nick cage eyes either. THAT would be serial killer eyes.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 04:55 PM
3

Remember how you got here and stay with it. Don’t turn beta, don’t over contact or be the one to over read the situation. Be stoic, act as though it hasn’t phased you, and that it’s just something that’s happened now. And initiate again, but don’t be desperately waiting to do so. With that said, she’s probably on the other side just waiting for you to contact or thinking to herself how to reach out. Anything will really break the seal.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 05:04 PM
5

If you have no interest in taking it further with them, why do you even care what they think of you? Let them think whatever they want.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 03:52 PM
3

And yet you’re afraid of losing this one so you’re walking on eggshells. Abundance mentality is knowing if one fails there’s always others, and approaching these situations with that confidence.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 03:49 PM
4

The unpopular opinion here: yes you are wrong to blame her for leaving, but that doesn’t mean you have to blame yourself. She’s supported you enough and been through enough to the point it’s breaking her down. She’s a saint for having done all that. Now it’s time for you to get your life in order and for her to be with someone that supports her in the same way she supported you. The only part of this that is a TRP issue is you not having your life in order, and that’s what TRP is all about. The …
/r/askTRP12/11/18 04:31 PM
3

It’s good that you’re careful, but that’s what condoms are for. If you use common sense, you’re safe. Congrats on the sex!
/r/askTRP27/10/18 04:54 AM
3

Jesus, you’re fine. Breath. First time?
/r/askTRP27/10/18 04:46 AM
7

As you said, irrational. Condoms aren’t 100%, but c’mon man get a grip. What did washing your hands and dick have anything to do with this?
/r/askTRP27/10/18 04:39 AM
0

Pretty soon “good days” will become the exception. Or better yet, it will be rare that you finish a workout without failing at an exercise. That just means you’re hitting the right weight. It’s not a bad thing.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 02:56 AM
3

Exactly this. “Fast money” is a pipe dream and it’s for fakes and suckers. There is no substitute for hard work and focus. Find something you love and work your ass off to mastering it. Build a reputation for being great at that thing, and it’ll open up all the doors.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 10:13 PM
5

Sounds like she wants to study.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 01:19 AM
1

Theres tons... it’s all about setting frame, establishing boundaries, communicating your expectations for the friendships and relationships in your life. Essentially, go after what you want and don’t take anything less. By having plates, then upgrading them to LTRs, and so on, essentially what you’re doing is vetting that person, instead of falling head over heals the moment they give you any sort of attention. This isn’t about getting laid unless that’s the part you decide to focus on. If your …
/r/askTRP05/10/18 04:53 PM
5

Doesn’t this go against LMR? Give up immediately once there is resistance doesn’t sound like trp
/r/askTRP05/10/18 02:26 PM
2

So looks like you’ve read nothing and made all the assumptions. If you think the only people on here are the ones that need help, that might have an ounce of truth in it because why else would you seek out a community. There is a reason why anyone would seek out anything. But it’s not to hook up with broken women nor to learn to manipulate. TRP is as much about understanding yourself and respecting yourself then anything else. Getting women is just the byproduct of being the man you’ve always tr…
/r/askTRP05/10/18 02:09 PM
1

You... should really read up on std studies. It’s how HIV became so prevalent in the 1980s and 1990s.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 08:20 PM
1

And by models you mean IG model types? What do you say to them?
/r/askTRP22/09/18 04:02 PM
3

Yep.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 07:07 AM
6

They end up with someone that’s needy and loves the fact they can get anything they want. And they stay in the relationship even though their SO is terrible. Also, they don’t.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 04:20 AM
11

I think he’s asking why aren’t you doing more then just talking.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 07:23 AM
2

Classmates are different then work colleagues. First, class doesn't last more then a Semester/Year. If you make a mistake, it doesn't follow you beyond that period. Plus, every year you're surrounded by a whole new crowd. Second, in your career, reputation is everything. You can literally fuck up a class, and still do well in life. Less risk on impacting your life longterm. School is designed for you to make your mistakes and learn.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 07:02 PM
3

You have oneitis for this girl. An entire post about a girl that has already rejected you. Who cares if she's trying to get your attention, that doesn't matter. Move on, spin plates. Abundance.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 06:56 PM
12

^I hope you know you're being a real Mark Ruffalo right now.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 10:38 PM
10

I think he’s insecure. Most true alphas don’t go around over sharing their conquests because they know how society perceived that behavior and it will also make it more difficult for them. He’s trying to make you think he’s good at game.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 11:21 PM
4

Nowhere in here did it seem like she was into you. She told you to leave you alone night one. She didn’t want to dance with you again night two. Night 3 she seemed more into another dude and only returned to the group after she wasn’t getting far with him. Her signs are clear.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 12:52 PM
-11

That doesn’t mean anything? Being at the lowest since the 1950s doesn’t mean it’s still far too common.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 05:32 AM
3

You were looking forward to an LTR with her but you’re going to hard next to avoid coming into her frame? Dude have an open convo, talk it out. TRP doesn’t suggest to avoid your problems if you’re the one that fucked up. Be a man, own it and the impact it had, and speak your mind.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 04:17 PM
3

Yeah you’ll get over that by the time you hit 30.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 02:45 AM
2

How old are you?
/r/askTRP11/08/18 05:31 PM
2

Stop communicating that stuff overtly and verbally, and let actions do it for you. You don’t need her to agree to it going into the date, you need to escalate into it during the date.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 04:01 AM
1

This absurd... aaaaaand I love it! Yes please do and report back.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 03:53 AM
1

I would suggest monk mode.. you’re still in the beginning stages, and if you keep it up in 6 months you’ll be a completely different person. BUT with that being said, it comes with the realization that you’re not doing this for any particular timeline, thing, or person. You won’t be done in 6 months, and moving to a new city is just more opportunities to put what you’ve leaned into play. So focus on self, and keep at it. If anything his sounds like you’re doing the right things.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 08:36 PM
3

This made me crack up
/r/askTRP31/07/18 04:22 PM
6

Jesus, I don’t think I’d survive without jerking it at age 16. Listen, your hormones are at an insane high at that age. If you need a release you need a release. I know that’s contrary to what you hear on here, but shit you’re a teenager. It’s all about rationing though, if you do it to the amount where it’s replacing your drive to try to get with girls, or becoming your fallback, then it’s a problem.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 03:21 PM
8

God you’re insecure. How do you still have that LTR at this point? You basically manufactured your own dread.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 03:09 PM
3

I see a lot of posts on here about how this wasn’t right since he basically kept at it until she caved. But what’s the difference between this situation and LMR which TRP suggests to push through?
/r/askTRP28/07/18 06:16 PM
11

You said “she”.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 02:43 AM
2

If it doesn’t look like a natural shot of you it won’t help. Ask a friend to shoot you when you’re out hiking or some shit.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 01:00 PM
1

Keep at it. Eventually when you do give her attention and are present, she’ll be falling over herself with excitement to talk/jump you. Don’t panic at the early stage.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 12:50 PM
8

Wrong. Don’t take legal advice from this guy. It is very much a high possibility a scenario like that would land you in jail. The action v reaction is unproportional and it’s not a game of who started it. Self defense in public is treated much different from self defense when on your own personal property.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 06:18 AM
3

Be warned this isn’t the last you’ve heard of her. There will be a time she comes crawling back to you. You’ll be tempted to feel sorry for her, and you’ll think it’s different this time blah blah blah. It might even be when the mood is just right at a party or something. Don’t fall for it.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 04:59 PM
0

Goin back to the basics... work on self, hit the gym, monk mode, then abundance. Your chasing her, she’s not chasing you. You’re not the catch right now, just an orbiter. Change that.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 03:00 AM
1

No it’s only a work thing.. Uni your semesters only last a couple months. Work is indefinite and your livelihood depends on it, and your reputation matters more.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 05:08 PM
1

Thanks
/r/askTRP18/06/18 01:30 AM
-3

I feel like you didn’t read anything I wrote. Not being combative but 2) trying, not a lot of options 3) not trying to come out of the friend zone, trying to get closure to move on.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 01:28 AM
1

I’ve gotten this too.. my response was “I have no interest in your dating life”... that annoyed her.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 04:39 PM
2

I’m also not seeing the issue here? What’s confusing you? I think they’re just reciprocating. Like if you hand someone a business card it’s not uncommon for the other person to hand you one too.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 05:50 AM
3

Agreed with all the comments here. And in regards to that HB9, I think you had just put her on such a pedestal a year ago that when you finally did hook up with her it didn’t live up to all that stored up hype.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 04:45 PM
4

Grind? Dry hump? Handy? Bj? I don’t know what you’re looking for here.. you’re pretty much denying the thing you actually want.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 04:26 PM
2

Posted this in the other thread as well... but you’re wrong: https://www.maxim.com/women/lebron-james-busted-sliding-into-dms-instagram-hottie-2017-11
/r/askTRP01/06/18 11:28 PM
2

https://www.maxim.com/women/lebron-james-busted-sliding-into-dms-instagram-hottie-2017-11
/r/askTRP01/06/18 11:26 PM
1

It’s not for you.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 06:40 AM
8

Everyone here is saying “not Lebron, he’s the exception, he’s a good guy” when there are screenshots of him trying to slip in an IG model’s DMs. It happened a season or two ago. Most NBA players cheat.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 06:26 AM
3

That one got me at my core
/r/askTRP27/05/18 07:27 AM
9

At no point in this did it sound like she had any interest in you. If anything just the opposite. And you keep saying you don’t care but you went on for 3 paragraphs about every little interaction. You’re definitely chasing her and not the other way around, you sound like an orbiter.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 06:49 PM
1

Yup! I’m in my 30s now, but I’m high school told my oneitis I had feelings for her and got rejected.. a year or two later she asked me to homecoming. Honestly I should have said ‘yes’ in retrospect but was too stupid and tried to act cool by asking my friend in front of her “what do you think I should do?” So I killed the mood, and the topic wasn’t brought up again. It gave me a chip on the shoulder by not going, but had I gone it would have been a big confidence boost at the time.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 03:50 AM
3

These are such complicated responses. Just stop. Take advice from professionals. There’s a workout called Strong Lift 5x5 which is designed to build strength and by result build growth, and it’s designed for beginners. Perfect for skinny guys looking to get big. r/StrongLifts5x5 Read the sidebar, visit the site, read the posts from the community. It’s simple, lift heavy (with good form), rest, and eat right.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 04:25 PM
3

Nope.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 12:24 AM
0

We are the same you and I... But now that I’ve read your experience it’s easy to point out that it’s wrong (now that it’s someone else). Sure meet up, but time to move on and be your own person. Do things for yourself. Get with someone else. It’s not about her, but the moment you don’t need her, she’ll all of a sudden notice.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 03:36 AM
20

Sounds like exactly how your first time should go... terribly. You're doing the right thing by getting checked, but you'll be fine. By your late twenties you wont even bat an eye at something like this. Also, no point in being worried, you can't help the situation. You'll be fine.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 04:40 AM
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