darkenchantress44 Archive

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39	The Rise of Gen Z Celibacy (PATREON EXCLUSIVE) I’ve noticed in Eastern European countries ( lived there and traveled in a couple of countries) there is almost no courtship or “dating” phase. After maybe 1-2 dates people want exclusivity, and there is like a 4-6 week time period of “relationship” and then it’s over. It’s very concerning from an FDS point of view because it doesn’t give women time to properly vet and learn the guy. I had the experience with two guys who tried to rush me into exclusivity and I didn’t know them well. Of course, …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/07/22 01:41 AM
26	Some Website Forum Upgrades Happened! .... Is It Better now? Despite that I enjoy the sub here on Reddit, I really understand and fully support the decision that they made. Sometimes I think the movement is stronger when the enemy doesn’t actually see what we are doing, and being here on Reddit allows them that. It’s better that we can have certain conversations without being harassed Or doxxed	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/06/22 03:00 PM
68	Stop putting the man on the pedestal - sit on it YOURSELF. I applaud you because I’m afraid to become a mom because all my friends who are moms can barely answer a text message. I remember my mom used to be able to do lots of things even though me, my siblings, and my cousins were around. I see Facebook statuses about not being able to go to the bathroom in peace and I’m like, ok super weird… Moms are people too and shouldn’t be expected to be an on call servant for everyone else for the rest of her life.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/04/22 07:59 PM
135	my red flags says they like/value loyalty. The most unloyal tricking motherfuckers say this. says they don’t like hooking up. He is the king of future faking and will do everything to set up a faux relationship to get sexual access to you for about 2-6 weeks and dump you. says or indicates he likes it when women are virtuous, modest, “good” etc etc. never once have I met a man or dealt with a man who wasn’t a complete community dick covered in melted ice cream man whore who has said this. These types alway…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/04/22 02:25 AM
30	PSA: Wanting a man capable of providing for you when you eventually birth and raise children is not being a GoLdDiGgEr Well all I can say is, gold diggers got something right. Women in general need to be compensated for our time, attention, emotional and physical labor, and risks associated with being in proximity of men. Like for example: -Giving us HPV and if your immune system doesn’t fight it off you are at risk for cervical cancer. -Jackhammering us during sex to the point where you are in a great amount of pain. -Just basic conversation and interactions are a battleground because they are interrogating to …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/04/22 02:08 AM
2	The story of my stupid pick-me friend and why you should trust rape victims I didn’t take it that way. I think she was just demonstrating a greater problem among women in general where women don’t believe other women when they tell them a specific man is bad news. They always think they can be the one to change them or they are above getting the same treatment( which they always end up getting it just as bad or worse).	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/04/22 07:54 PM
5	All those men that you've made a first move on in the past never wanted you. We should all type our experiences below of when we asked a man out/played the role as pursuer/ played role as the “head of operations” with a guy and how it crashed and burned, and then you can show your daughter and she can read them all lol.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/04/22 02:04 AM
78	Men with social media harems. I don’t know which is worse, the harems or the guy who looks perpetually single. For me, men looking single on social media is a huge red flag for me. If I may point out, does anyone else here ever notice the anonymous and vague way men move on social media? Never tagging where they are, never showing where they go drinking at, almost never sharing anything. Also it’s never clear or direct about who the girlfriend, wife, or main chick is ? Men are very good about being secretive on social media.…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/04/22 11:44 PM
31	Men with social media harems. I don’t like it. I don’t trust it. Here’s why: This is something I have focused on and thought long and hard about. I just don’t think it’s a good sign at all. When a man has a private profile I take it as a sign he is up to no good. Why does he need a private profile? Most guys have a couple of pictures of tin cans on a side walk, a drum set, a tree and all kinds of other stuff that gives up really no revealing information. He may have one pic of him holding a fish or standing in Times Square a…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/04/22 11:35 PM
13	Women have it way harder then men in almost everything. Yeah but protecting is not full time anymore. Humans don’t live in jungles and intruders don’t come invading homes daily. The amount of time where he actually has to step in and to that physical and mental labor of protecting is almost at 1%. It’s zero percent for most because most people don’t suffer home invasions. Men don’t even bother to protect their daughters by preparing them for dealing with men and dating. How many of us had our fathers explain the true nature of men and warn us before …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/04/22 04:08 PM
47	Living With Men Men in my living space makes me cringe, ESPECIALLY when it comes to the bathroom. My cousin came over to my house two weeks ago and left piss drops all around the base of the toilet. In general men are so careless and don’t pay attention to fine details. Had an ex that got water all over my makeup brushes and my nice bar soap all the time. I was like, how the hell did you manage to do this? These items are nowhere near the shower or the tub?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/04/22 05:13 AM
219	Finally Figured Why LVM Think all Women Sleep Around. You forgot this part: LVM also think that if you behave and conduct yourself sexually the way most men do, then it’s all of a sudden the most unattractive,evil cruel, mean spirited way to behave in society. “How could you lead some poor guy on for sex and money and they get rid of him once you got what you wanted!?! I can’t believe People actually behave this way!” scrote clutches bud light bottle shaped pearl necklace They project their cruel, sociopathic sexual tactics onto everyone and then t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/04/22 10:27 PM
8	If you’re scaring them, you’re doing something right. This is the old “too much” phenomena. You’re too strong minded. You’re too wild. You’re too high maintenance. And the list goes on and on. They don’t want you happy, self assured, have your own interests, or have your own passions because they want your whole world to revolve around them. They want to know that they will have your full attention so they can use their absence to control and manipulate. They want weak boundaries so they can mentally run circles around you.They just want control an…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/04/22 01:51 AM
14	Chronicles of the Modern Day “Gold Digger”: It’s more than just the money Men are actually the true gold diggers and they are very hypergamous. Think about it: You have to drag them kicking and screaming to commitment, even if you are their dream girl or are perfect. They want any women they are dealing with to be hyper focused on them, BUT not demand any time from them or boy time, AND in addition to that they want to exist with indifference towards you when he is not having sex with you. Birth control comes at the expense of your body. YOU won’t orgasm most of the t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/04/22 03:15 AM
55	Woman shuts down "nice guy" b.s. Love to see it I mean, we always hear from guys that it’s horrible that women go for the exciting so called “bad boys” or whatever. Really they equate any man that is passionate, eccentric, or has flavor is a “bad boy”. And I can’t help but wonder, why do women have to settle for vanilla boring guys who are literally the equivalent of Bud Light when we really want a frozen daiquiri or a sangria? When it comes to satiating their dick, they don’t want boring vanilla at all. They want lingerie, red lipstick, stra…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/03/22 10:36 PM
11	Beware of the man with a female friend/female friends SMURFETTE LOL. I almost died reading this lol.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/03/22 10:41 PM
2	Beware of the man with a female friend/female friends She’s a total “Cool Girl ™️” and this is why cool girls are problematic to all. Cool girls do what they do so they can have easy male access for sex and relationships without having to deal with man’s natural resistance to being chased or tied down. She positions herself so she can have whatever man she has her eye on at the time. From the Gypsy comments, to the “she is unlikely to make any more comments”, this girl should have been banned earlier. It doesn’t need to be a “she is unlikely to mak…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/03/22 10:38 PM
4	Why does being hyper feminine translate into bimbo for some of tiktok? I don’t understand this trend and the point. I love pink, purple, dresses, typically “girly” things. However, I don’t see how degrading ourselves with a misogynistic term that has no positive meaning would ‘take back our power’. Now I caught a contradiction. I thought a bimbo was more like a blonde, very glamorous but not very bright Barbie doll looking type of girl? And I thought a feminist, according to them, is an ugly fat C - woman. Come on now scrotes, keep it consistent! You gotta choose! It seems that, according to guys, if you are plain, which means no makeup, nails, cute clothes, lashes, hair always done, etc. you are not good looking or high value. You are not pretty. It also seems that if you do wear makeup, …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/03/22 02:30 PM
3	Like…I know it’s bad, but I didn’t know it was THIS bad. Next they gonna want an award for breathing oxygen.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/22 10:12 PM
1	Don't describe yourself as kind or empathetic to men. Question for Everyone: how do you guys feel about telling men that you are intelligent or smart? This is something that I’ve wrestled with for a long time and I’m not altogether sold on the idea that it’s a good thing to tell them that, because really anything you tell Man they just use it to manipulate and challenge you. Also I just believe that being smart openly chases men away because they don’t want a woman smarter than them, so I’m really conflicted on the inside lol. I feel like telling t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/22 02:59 PM
2	Don't describe yourself as kind or empathetic to men. I pretty much think it is silly to describe yourself as nice, loyal, kind, empathetic, caring, faithful, etc. etc. in all of that stuff that we usually describe ourselves as a because as women we think that this somehow has any meaning to men. I really think all the do when they hear these things is assume that these are the qualities that you want to find in them, and to some degree I also think that they assume that these are the qualities that you didn’t have in your previous partner, especia…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/22 02:53 PM
113	There was a man masturbating and watching porn at a coffee shop I like to go to, have they no pride or dignity? You can totally call the cops on him. I’ve seen the cops get called on people in bars/restaurants just for being weird or speaking unintelligibly. I’m pretty masturbating and watching porn in public is enough to get him escorted out. He could have done that in the bathroom, his vehicle, in an alley, at home, etc. anywhere privately so he would not get caught. He intentionally chose to do it where he knew people would see, where he knew someone would be aware of him doing it. He WANTED people to …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/22 05:13 PM
9	Anyone else want to get married less the more you see married men leering at you or other women in the company of their partners? My close friend gets propositioned and approached by married men a lot now. It’s really sad. I don’t think I have yet but maybe I did but didn’t know he was married. Either way it does seem that married men have the most challenges in terms of staying faithful.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/03/22 06:40 PM
105	He was fine with 50/50 until she told him the cost of having a child I mean…they have a “spiritual marriage” with a “spiritual wedding” so I mean, he can just imagine that the $50,000-$100,000 is just “spiritual money”. Oh wait, hey scrote speak up I can’t hear you. Oh you said but the money isn’t make believe and it’s a real commitment? But come on…marriage is just a piece of paper right? So that money is technically just a piece of paper too! This woman is no fool, he is trying to trick her into doing something stupid, which is, as a professional, smart, beauti…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/03/22 04:38 PM
96	UPDATE: Part 1 of my 3 experience implementing the 3 month rule. I HAVE MADE A HUUUUUGE MISTAKE with cohabitation. Any scrote that is eager to move in with a woman already has an agenda and you should absolutely run in the opposite direction. They always need to be dragged kicking and screaming away from their “ freedom”, so it’s always suspicious if any man who haven’t produced an engagement ring is pushing for it. He already has scoped out how he is gonna profit off of your back, your labor, and in his mind he will have 24/7 all expenses paid access to the pussy bar and buffet. YUCK. He waited until you we…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/22 04:40 PM
6	tw: rape. the comment section is full of angry scrotes blaming her, telling her she didn’t get raped, not to ruin the guy’s life because it’s her fault she was drunk. This this this! As a girl who grew up as a non drinker, and maybe drink 3 times a year maximum now, I can honestly say that SO much verbal crap came my way and still does because of my lack of participation. And sadly it’s not only from men, but even girls don’t allow women to peacefully and quietly opt of from drinking without tons of social pressure. With men it is 100% worse of course.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/03/22 01:53 AM
11	"I appreciate modesty in a woman" - says the man who watches porn. I know I commented earlier, but I want to add: I’m fine with being modest and all that but, these scrotes don’t know modesty when it comes to their sexual needs. I mean with all the strangulation requests, rough sex, rough blowjobs, jackhammering, jackhammering, jackhammering, ass slapping, touching my clit directly and heavy handedly, wanting to have sex in all these awkward positions, wanting us to give blowjobs in a headstand, wanting us to swallow their bleach mixed with sidewalk chalk tasti…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/03/22 06:37 AM
64	Don't tell him what red flags are a deal breaker for you Right?! Women need to let go of the “honest Girl Scout “ routine we have been trained to do, and stop thinking that the truth will set us free. All he is going to do when he ears you are looking for a prince to marry is start spoon feeding you lines about how he always wanted to be like Kevin McAllister’s dad from home alone, how that’s his hero and wants to live like him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/03/22 04:46 AM
20	"I appreciate modesty in a woman" - says the man who watches porn. I see the modesty thing as the same as the “natural” thing. It’s a mind fuck trick to control women, and also to make women shoulder the blame of pretty much everything men do in relation to us. It’s also the Madonna whore complex at work. Natural Woman: a woman who doesn’t wear makeup, hair extensions, acrylic nails, lash extensions, very fashionable clothes, and doesn’t partake in body modifications such as breast implants, lip injections, Botox, surgeries, etc, brow treatments etc. Men are al…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/03/22 01:22 AM
6	When You Ask Men What They’re Looking For Thissssssss. The hot seat is a bitch isn’t it ? Now that I look back, I realize that there is never really any point in feeling the heat from the hot seat. Most of them circle back around anyway, sometimes even after you have done something weird, “mean”, whatever . I think this comes from the programming that we don’t want to “scare” a man off, so you go along with the hot seat to be compliant. I don’t bother asking this either. I just assume that all men know to some degree that women are look…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/02/22 06:59 PM
6	When You Ask Men What They’re Looking For Be careful with this. There were a couple of times where I thought I totally could never get into a guy and I had wrote him off, and my dumbass ended up falling for him. You never know what you’ll end up binding over lol.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/02/22 06:53 PM
117	When You Ask Men What They’re Looking For I personally think unless this man is truly good hearted AND he feels you might be the one ( since they supposed “know” within -24 seconds of meeting you, based upon arbitrary whateverness inside his head), this question is a dead fucking end. Dead fucking end. They just want the roadmap to get in between them legs. If you say you are looking for a man that likes to dress up like unicorns, the next time you see him he will have one of those unicorn headbands from Limited Too, or Claire’s or some…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/02/22 03:01 AM
11	Stick to your boundaries That “not like other guys” was your red flag sis. That “I’m not like other guys” or “you can trust me, I’m not doing anything,” or “ I’m a nice guy” are the phrases that should make you run for the hills. Stretch and get your nikes on and sprint the fuck out of there.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/02/22 01:42 AM
53	Men can be fucking psychotic I’m glad you found out the truth. Constantly messaging and calling is a sign of obsession. These men want you to focus on them and it’s not optional. I had a stalker/harasser situation from someone I went out to dinner with. It spanned a whole year. These guys typically can’t control their obsessive tendencies early on, and any man who unloads a bunch of messages on you like this IS going to be trouble. They do leave a trail of destruction if you dig deep enough. I found someone who was close fr…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/02/22 05:54 AM
233	Men can be fucking psychotic If he is coming in this hot right now, imagine if you get into a deeper relationship with him, how big of a stalker and harasser he will become if you try to leave him. Any man acting this way if waving a huge poster that says “I’m a stalker and harasser and when you try to leave me I’m gonna fuck your life up. You WILL need a restraining order against me!”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/02/22 04:12 AM
8	Straight from the horse's mouth This is so fucking cruel beyond words.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/02/22 09:49 PM
8	The Nanny - Is Fran Fine a major Pick Me? Fran had some moments of desperation for sure, but I thought the whole point was to have Fran be in direct contrast to C.C, who was a major pick me? C.C. Was willing to be cold, mean, inauthentic, backstabbing, phony, and she was completely lacking in any real personality. Her whole existence seem to be centered around social climbing and being maxwells sidekick and wife. She is dull, unoriginal, and snobby, which was why I always thought she was more the pick me. One thing I did like about her …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/02/22 03:15 AM
41	Porn sick scrote almost killed his girlfriend performing kink. THIS IS DANGEROUS! I think we should make a movement never call “choking” by that term anymore. She didn’t accidentally swallow an auntie Annie pretzel at the mall, someone STRANGLED her. We are calling it strangulation from now on.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/02/22 03:33 PM
18	Feeling grateful that I’m not embarrassing myself this Valentine’s Day I keep saying this, if there isn’t a post of the girlfriend or wife on the page, he single.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/02/22 02:59 PM
91	Scrote wants to "adopt" a 20 year old "adult daughter"....a homeless pregnant woman from Austria who lost her father at a young agr Hate to tell wifey that no camper outside the home is gonna stop his penis from pulling an octopus move over to that camper at 3 am I never want to hear men say that women need to be more accommodating. Ladies, know one thing. Men would never allow this if the situation was in reverse. I’m sure that if the situation was in reverse, the man would look at the wife and be like “aaaaahhhhh this is an April’s fool joke right?” This also shows just how far men will go if you allow them to cross bounda…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/02/22 10:21 PM
20	Anyone wants to partner with a Scrote? I’m sure he’s 100% sincere It’s amazing how, you can be reading something and as you read more and more, it slowly descends into depravity and shit.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/02/22 09:58 PM
6	Are most high value women “doomed”? I’m gonna print this and read this every fucking day. This is so good, that it’s worth paying for. Thank you so much to the queen who wrote this.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/02/22 05:24 AM
83	Trafficking disguised as dating or job offers Damn, the trafficker doesn’t even have enough sense to not use the name “Jim Jones”?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/22 02:04 AM
61	I love her Childish? Shit if they could pay me good money to play in bouncy castle all day, I’d take that job in a heartbeat. And being an animator isn’t childish. You are creating art, and that doesn’t have to be inherently childish. And don’t animators make bank too? So I guess the millions Disney and universal studios rake in yearly from the theme parks alone is childish? If they offered him a job at 70k yearly he wouldn’t want it? I’ve realized that when men need to be condescending and throw shade at …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/22 02:00 AM
20	"The Tinder Swindler" on Netflix is a parade of red flags 🚩🚩🚩 I agree with this. Most women just aren’t told the truth about the nature of men and we grow up with these fantasies fed to us that they are little princes who are searching for little princesses and that they are just as excited by the idea of committed relationships and romance was we are. We are not told they are nothing but predators on the hunt, and we often find ourselves staring the devil in the face with a weak intuition muscle because we have argued our intuition down into submission( b…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/02/22 10:40 PM
127	Men share their stories of when they treated women the worst. When they say “not all men”, that shit infuriates me to no end. When it’s like 70% or more of them that engage in terrible behaviors in relation to women, the statistical minority doesn’t really mean shit because it means that when a woman meets 10 men, 7 of them are going to carry some sort of depravity or dysfunction that will negatively effect her in some way. And also the moral weight of society is pushed too much on woman’s shoulders and they need to carry some of the burden. The time of al…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/02/22 10:30 PM
13	The Phantom Ex - when avoidant men pine for a past love Don’t feel bad, I’d have looked her up too. It’s like she was some feature that you were constantly held up as a model too, and it drives you crazy. I was in an almost identical situation twice (exes going off to whole new countries and starting new lives ) and I was deceived about breakup dates. Both of the exes for both of my guys started new lives and one of them got married within a year of coming to the USA, and the other one was pregnant for another man at the time of him discarding me. I …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/02/22 03:13 PM
57	Another reason why we don’t do coffee dates That’s like saying you like to exchange gifts with your significant other, and buying them some chocolate from somewhere cheap, and then turning around and saying “ok your turn to get me my gift, let’s go to the Apple Store”.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/01/22 09:34 PM
3	We have to stop putting up with this shit 🤡 He is a monkey brancher. Probably never even fully broke up with her at all. It might have been a “let’s do our own thing for a while” and was not ever a real full break up. I feel it is always in a woman’s best interest to find out where his ex is and how long it’s been. I’ve seen guys travel across the world just because the ex girlfriend gave them hope and attention. Exes are usually always in the picture in some way because the guy has them still hanging on.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/01/22 12:22 AM
71	Man calls out misogynistic entitled red pill loser Cynthia G is ruthless to black men, and I can honestly say that she nails it on the head every time. They constantly use white women as metaphorical pawns to make horrible points towards black women. Both black and white women need to beware of the specific scrote tactics of dusty black men.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/01/22 06:27 PM
93	This is why setting clear boundaries from the beginning is important. He showed his true colors before wasting any time. I had ghosted him many years ago after a few dates and always felt bad cause I thought he seemed nice, so I decided to respond when he reached out again and this happened Most of the time, the way these men say things is just as much of a giveaway as WHAT they say are. This man set so many tripwires in one sitting: First he used the word “hot/hottie”. Now I’m sure others can say they have had different experiences, but I have never had anything long lasting with any man that used that word before sex. I’ve had my better long term relationships use it, but only after a long time passed and we had something established. All the guys that throw that hot and hottie w…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/01/22 02:20 AM
13	Tired of the men obsessed with women “reciprocating” It’s women who typically look forward to romance, doing thoughtful things, and finding sentimental merit in gifts and many actions. It’s men who groan and roll their eyes every time valentines day comes around, and yet they are complaining about reciprocity? The men that are constantly complaining about this newfound lack of reciprocity are the main ones who say they want to be chased( and pretend to act like they would enjoy some sort of role reversal), and yet become cranky, resentful, and dis…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/01/22 02:42 AM