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| 5 | Being labeled as husband material is insult for most guysThe irony in this comment made me LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 04:14 PM |
| 13 | Being labeled as husband material is insult for most guysIt definitely happens. Young women who are not attractive and socially awkward and don’t get asked out are often told, oh you’re so sweet and kind and caring and someday a boy/man will appreciate that and love you for who you are. I’ll challenge you to say to a female friend or relative in her early 20s that she’s good wife material and see what kind of reaction you get. It won’t be seen as a compliment, I guarantee. I’ll give you my own example. When I was in my mid 30s someone posted on Facebo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 04:03 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadA lot of this stuff is pretty basic and mostly truth. Let’s take hypergamy — women want to date/marry up in status and are biologically compelled to seek high value men to father her offspring (as opposed to men who are biologically compelled to spread their seed with as many women as possible so quality matters a lot less). Pretty basic. The problem in the manosphere is that hypergamy has been expanded to now mean any behavior that angry bitter men on the internet don’t like. Dated a man who ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 03:49 PM |
| 0 | Being labeled as husband material is insult for most guysSo if a kid is failing in school because he isn’t putting effort into his studies and doing his homework, it’s the schools fault for having standards that measure learning and quality of work? The school should just give him A’s anyway because he feels entitled to an A? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Being labeled as husband material is insult for most guysDon’t suppose you’d like to share links to any of those studies? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 03:26 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe manosphere is a very broad term that encompasses a lot of different theories and ideas. Some are pretty accurate, some are not. What specifically are you referring to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThere may be some truth to that…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 03:17 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWe don’t have to be. Those men more often than not marry women closer to their own age. Seems that the people getting angry over older men younger women pairings are the men who know they don’t have a snowballs chance in hell of ever being in one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 03:16 PM |
| 0 | Being labeled as husband material is insult for most guysHow is it any woman’s fault that any individual man doesn’t know how to flirt, seduce, boost their attractiveness, etc? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 03:11 PM |
| -2 | Being labeled as husband material is insult for most guysRepeated ad nauseum on the internet does not equal proven. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 03:08 PM |
| 1 | The AWALT Belief Hurts Men's Progressionyou can read Nice. So basically you’re allowed to be uncivil to me because you’re a mod but anyone who isn’t a mod is subject to the rules? Do I have that right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 02:58 PM |
| 4 | Why do women get attracted to masculine men, but hate those masculine traits when in a relationship?Just like women have to balance being a stable loving nurturing wife and mother with being the sexy spontaneous adventurous woman he fell in love with. The truth is more people (men and women) than not fail at this because it’s much easier to take the passive road in life than work for something you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 02:55 PM |
| 2 | Why do women get attracted to masculine men, but hate those masculine traits when in a relationship?I need a little more than that. If your OP is claiming women don’t want masculine men, you should be able to at the very least define what you mean by a masculine man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 02:53 PM |
| 3 | Being labeled as husband material is insult for most guysYeah you notice how in these all sob stories the question of whether they were decent husbands never comes up. How convenient. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 02:50 PM |
| 3 | Why do women get attracted to masculine men, but hate those masculine traits when in a relationship?Can you clarify what you think are “masculine traits?” That’s kinda key to your argument here. Eg I don’t consider a sense of humor a masculine trait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 02:43 PM |
| 1 | The AWALT Belief Hurts Men's ProgressionWhat rule is that? Don’t offend the incels? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Being labeled as husband material is insult for most guysOk well you weren’t being clear | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Being labeled as husband material is insult for most guysDid you seriously just link me to a Reddit comment as evidence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 02:26 PM |
| 4 | Being labeled as husband material is insult for most guysI wouldn't. Then why worry about something you wouldn’t do? I don’t understand this. Its not that she lose all her value. He lost some of it. And I want her best as defined y what she offered to previous relationships. Again, this is something you 100% control. You are not required to commit to any woman if you’re not getting what you want from the relationship. So either she never had a partner before, has some youth to give me at least part of her past or I am not interested. I guess I’m not u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 02:25 PM |
| -1 | Being labeled as husband material is insult for most guysI didn’t even respond to his comment. It’s clear he’s pretty set in his beliefs and there is no dose of reality large enough to change his mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 02:11 PM |
| 4 | Being labeled as husband material is insult for most guysRight. So sounds like the problem lies with them and not with women, correct? This is like saying no matter how hard little Johnny tries to get A’s, he can’t so it HAS to be the teachers fault. It couldn’t just be he’s not that smart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Being labeled as husband material is insult for most guysBy best I mean looking at her behavior with previous partners and taking that as a base for future treatment. So my question is why would you ever commit to a woman who isn’t giving you great sex and openly telling you she had better sex with previous partners? Seriously, why in gods name would you ever do that? Also youth. youth doesn’t last. We all age, in case that somehow escaped you. What woman is going to marry a man who thinks she’s lost her value once she turns 30? As huge as assuming th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 01:59 PM |
| 1 | The AWALT Belief Hurts Men's ProgressionI though it was pretty clear it’s the latter but I’ll give you some latitude because tone doesn’t always come through in a posted comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 01:50 PM |
| 5 | Being labeled as husband material is insult for most guysYou do understand this is projection right? I think you only want to fuck hot women and feel that being with an average woman is settling, so you assume women feel the same way. Bottom line is what happens in the bedroom in a relationship, “attractiveness” is like 10% of the equation. I mean look at older couples who still have active sex lives. How do you explain that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 01:44 PM |
| 0 | Being labeled as husband material is insult for most guysWhy not be both? Then you’ll have your pick of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Being labeled as husband material is insult for most guysOr it could be that the man in question just sucks in bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Being labeled as husband material is insult for most guysIn some cases its cultural. in some cases its a total lack of experience, not just with women but with life and people in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Being labeled as husband material is insult for most guysBlack pill self pity circle jerking isn’t science. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 01:38 PM |
| 10 | Being labeled as husband material is insult for most guysIf this does not translate into getting her best it means nothing. If “best” means her virginity, then you’re going to have to find some culture were it’s appropriate to marry 15 year olds. And that’s not anywhere in the west. Why believe that she finds me more attractive if I had to do more before/in order to prove that I am worthy of being with her. Seems like a huge assumption you’re making here. Except the part that is in her past. Depending on her age, that part could be the most valuable p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 01:37 PM |
| 53 | Being labeled as husband material is insult for most guysDepends. If you are a husband, it’s a huge compliment. If you’re a young man and not doing every well with women, and your pudgy middle aged aunt says, don’t worry, you’ll make some girl a great husband someday, yeah that’s not great. I wouldn’t call it an insult, but it for sure means you’re unattractive and likely boring. I think most women in their early 20s would react similarly to be called “wife material.” What does that mean? Am I dowdy? Matronly? Unsexy? Boring? Let’s be clear that being… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 01:27 PM |
| 1 | The AWALT Belief Hurts Men's ProgressionWhen you want something really bad and can’t have it, you cope by demonizing it and pretending it’s so bad you don’t really want it. “Those grapes were sour anyway.” you’ll miss the good ones Incels know they’re aren’t capable of attracting the good ones. Therefore they’re all bad. And every man who is successful with women is either 1) not really happy cause he’s being “settled for,” or 2) an asshole, thus reinforcing that the incels are the “good guys” who are unappreciated by women who are te… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 01:21 PM |
| 2 | Questions about the apparent success of bad menThanks for sharing your opinion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPPD men: the women in the 3-9 group are lying but the women in the 1-2 group aren’t. EvRybUdY kNoZ tHaT | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou know that a lot of times women don’t orgasm during sex? Some never do. I mean i don’t put up with that shit but you’d be surprised how many women do. I just find myself wait to drift into a peaceful sleep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread“True love” = be my replacement mommy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Being “strong and independent” and wanting men to perform their masculine role is not contradictoryIf she desired you, she would accept a cheap meal at McDonalds and pay entirely for it 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 11:42 PM |
| 7 | Questions about the apparent success of bad menThey’re not being rejected. The majority of men are not criminals. The majority of men date, have girlfriends and get married. And no they’re not being settled for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 11:18 PM |
| 8 | Questions about the apparent success of bad menThere used to be a guy here who kept insisting that proof women want criminals is that men with criminal records father more children. 🤦♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Questions about the apparent success of bad menOf course not. Martyrdom is their drug of choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 11:13 PM |
| 3 | What does the word misogyny mean?“Criticism of women” is different than telling lies. “Women are too picky on tinder” is a criticism. “90% of women are sleeping with 10% of men” is a lie. If you tell a lie and get called on it, don’t play the victim and pretend they’re being unreasonable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 11:11 PM |
| 1 | What does the word misogyny mean?Intentions don’t make any -ism ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Whats your sexual fantasy that will remain a fantasy? WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADDefinitely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 10:56 PM |
| 12 | Whats your sexual fantasy that will remain a fantasy? WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADNot asking for your approval of my fantasies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 07:53 PM |
| 1 | It is kinda arrogant how many women openly say they know men very well, and yet they keep falling for bad relationshipsOf course you don’t think it is. Because you can’t dispute the original point and it seems are still having trouble getting your head around the fact that your own logic was used against you. By a woman at that. We’re done here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 07:31 PM |
| 11 | Whats your sexual fantasy that will remain a fantasy? WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADFantasies are turn ons because they indulge what’s taboo and inappropriate and risky. And I hate to be the one to break it to you but everyone still finds other people attractive when they’re in relationships. Your biology doesn’t just shut down because you’re in love. It’s only “fucked up” if you act on it. And if you choose to act on it, that’s on you and no one else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 07:28 PM |
| 2 | Whats your sexual fantasy that will remain a fantasy? WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADOf course 3 people is anti-thetical to my desired type of relationship. How deep | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 06:10 PM |
| 11 | Whats your sexual fantasy that will remain a fantasy? WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADHe actually doesn’t have a hot friend IRL. His friends are all typical middle aged dudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 06:02 PM |
| 1 | It is kinda arrogant how many women openly say they know men very well, and yet they keep falling for bad relationshipsI didn’t say men are hypocrites. I said you’re a hypocrite. You do know what the word hypocrite means? In other words, "Yes women do this, but men do it too." Right, and? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 06:01 PM |
| 8 | Whats your sexual fantasy that will remain a fantasy? WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADToss up between getting GB by 12 guys and cheating on my man with his hot friend. Why? Because i don’t want to do either in real life. Hence the reason they’re fantasies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 05:53 PM |
| 1 | It is kinda arrogant how many women openly say they know men very well, and yet they keep falling for bad relationshipsNow you’re just vomiting words to avoid admitting I had a point in the first place. which sounds like you’re conceding Conceding what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 05:36 PM |
| 1 | It is kinda arrogant how many women openly say they know men very well, and yet they keep falling for bad relationshipsTo be clear, I’m calling you a hypocrite | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 04:36 PM |
| 1 | It is kinda arrogant how many women openly say they know men very well, and yet they keep falling for bad relationshipsThe latter does lead to dead bedrooms and to hear men tell it on the internet their wives refusing them feels like abuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 02:11 PM |
| 1 | It is kinda arrogant how many women openly say they know men very well, and yet they keep falling for bad relationshipsSo what you’re saying (unironically) is men are by nature shit and have zero integrity or motivation to be anything other than shit unless they’re getting rewarded for not being shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 02:55 AM |
| 4 | It is kinda arrogant how many women openly say they know men very well, and yet they keep falling for bad relationshipsIs it any less “lame” that men who want the ultimate male fantasy: My dick is so magical that I turned this inexperienced good girl into a sex fiend who only wants me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 02:51 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDigging deeper | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 02:28 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy even bother responding if you’re not going to answer the question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadalmost all women despise men His source: FDS | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt’s because they can’t attract quality women and that can’t ever be their fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow do you know you don’t like something if you’ve never tried it. There’s a reason I ended that with a period and not a question mark so you know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadwomen can easily enjoy sex with men they find attractive One of the worst incel myths. That hot men are creeping around sleeping with land whales en masse is so laughable I can barely type it without collapsing into giggles . Not only that but women don’t enjoy sex because the man is attractive. This is the solipsism of inexperienced men. Women are privileged and don't deserve to complain about anything. Ok sure Liberalism says that inequalities need correcting, so this would need correcting or … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 01:12 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt’s a very problematic term that like most concepts that started in academia and made at least some sense gets diluted as it makes it way into mainstream culture and repeated by people who don’t actually have the mental capacity to understand what it really means or don’t care. My issue with toxic masculinity has always been that it comes from a very UMC white intellectual lens on the world. It’s really easy to accuse black men or poor men of toxic masculinity for being aggressive, hyper-sexual… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 01:05 AM |
| 7 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat woman asks why men are so competitive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 12:58 AM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don’t get this. No one commits to a relationship before sex who isn’t from some very religious background or conservative culture. So you’re basically saying every relationship begins with casual sex and therefore everyone has had CS. So maybe folks on PPD shouldn’t be hating on it so much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Let's just be honest, about men and height.Case in point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 12:20 AM |
| 1 | East Asian men of PPD: is this true?You’re basically supporting my point. You’re not going find docile submissive Women if you’re trying to date in America. If that is objectionable to you it’s best to date in a more conservative culture. But accept that progressive western societies are not going to change to conform the norms and values of asian and Muslim culture just so those guys can come here and get laid. Walking around mad about it all the time will change nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Let's just be honest, about men and height.When heightist incels get longer legs and still find women rejecting them then what will they blame it on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 11:27 PM |
| 1 | There is a different set of rules when you're an asian guyWhy are so many Asian men on the internet obsessed with white women? I don’t get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Women enforce gender roles tooEveryone enforces social norms. That’s the whole point. Otherwise it doesn’t reallt work does it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 10:57 PM |
| 1 | I am a "nerd" that has fucked like 60 women. I dont ever workout, I am slim, glasses and smart. How do I do this? Hint: Its my fucking location. I live in NYC.They also have to work on their social skills and get over their fear of women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Do ugly/short men get gaslit about the importance of looks?Looks play a big role but what are you going to do? Kill yourself because you weren’t born a hot guy? No. You go out and play up the strengths you have. And there in lies the problem with incel types. They ain’t got nothing else and no willpower to try. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 10:51 PM |
| 1 | East Asian men of PPD: is this true?Ima be honest. It’s not that these guys are Asian. It’s that they’re nerds and can’t assimilate to American culture. Asian men who are do fine and many date white women, which is the ultimate prize for Asian men in the west apparently. It’s not your race. You’re a fucking dork who can’t dress and can’t socialize and relate to people your age because you spent your teenage years trying to please your parents instead of being a normal kid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 10:42 PM |
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