darknessbemyfriend Archive

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2	I can't stand to even look at attractive women anymore. I personally only go to the gym when it’s super quiet, but am waaaay more comfortable working out around “normal” looking people than super attractive people. You’d be surprised at how nice some of the girls are and honestly they probably find it really inspiring to see someone working toward their goals that isn’t already perfect. They’ll all have their own insecurities they’re managing despite how you see them. Keep at it- you got this!	/r/ExRedPill	24/02/25 04:44 AM
2	How does female attraction work, or rather how does a man become attractive? Have good hygeine! Be nice, but chill. Stay active (for your health and enjoyment, not looks). Have your own hobbies. Make some effort with the way you dress/look (don’t have to be a model just the same standard as you would expect of your female counterpart). Girls are literally the same as you, maybe just a bit more discreet with their attractions. What you expect of a partner you should expect of yourself. Edit to add: there is no generic thing that will attract all women. Some girls like bea…	/r/ExRedPill	14/04/22 06:33 AM
1	Men are not more naturally individualist than women And going waaay back we hunted in groups because as a species are stronger that way	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/19 05:40 AM
2	Is a women's body language a subconscious message about how she really feels? Does it show hypergamy to be true? The author sounds so jaded! He clearly has a dislike for females (referring to them as “the sisterhood” and pulling the unfairness card). This cannot be taken as gospel as it is only his opinion, and to be honest not a very convincing one!	/r/ExRedPill	28/10/18 05:38 AM
1	Need ex-trp perspective on how fast/slow relationships should move & how long it takes to build trust Sometimes women start to panic once things start progressing! They may enjoy being single, they may enjoy your company without wanting more, and sometimes they are just scared of developing feelings (often this is the case if they’ve been hurt before). But these things are all factors in the “too fast” senario	/r/ExRedPill	28/10/18 05:22 AM
1	One metric as to how women value men. I actually agree with this but there are additional factors that have some sway, for example women like to see a guy with ambition and skills in something- be it intelligence, sport, music etc. Aesthetics do still play a part (not always in the ripped as alpha male sense so stfd red pillers). But overall a good basic idea of current situation. There will always be hopeless women that “need” men though, just as there will always be fiercely independent women that will never get attatched.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/18 08:37 AM
1	One metric as to how women value men. There is a small chance that she has seen a kinder side to him and its trying to “save” him in a way. Women tend to “mother” naughty boys. But yeah more likely than not she likes the money and status	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/18 08:33 AM
1	How can bloop people deny alpha fucks beta bucks when my bluepill mom and other normies I talked to basically said the same thing only with a different vocabulary? Your values change as you age. It’s not that they “settle” for a nerdy guy, they just see things differently (well most people do). Suddenly the cute funny guy turns out to be a gang prospect and druggo, the “hot” people at high school end up with children and STI’s by 20, whereas nerds grow into themselves, gain confidence, and end up in jobs that support them enough to dress nicely etc. The sporty guy that topped everything in that department didn’t manage to get a scholarship so all he does i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/18 08:21 PM
6	How could anyone believe the Blue Pill? Red Pill doesn’t own concepts like not being a lazy wet blanket. That’s basic human skills. You can’t cherry pick any good advice from history and hoard it as exclusively RP. Believe it or not TRP has things in common with standard strategy (masculinity, confidence, fitness), as well as the obvious differences (anti LTR, emotional disconnection, not trusting females). So, there’s every chance that it IS “mainstream advice”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/18 10:03 PM
7	How could anyone believe the Blue Pill? Being yourself means being authentic and striving to be the best version of yourself. It doesn’t mean you loll back eating doritos, being antisocial, and go “well this is me”, and then complain you don’t get any. Blue Pillers can be great, attractive, successful people.... but it takes work and you still need to push the comfort zone. TRP forces you to constantly work at improving “game” and “frame” but other things suffer, particularly you get quite lonely and disconnected because part of TRP i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/18 09:58 PM
3	Q4W -- Have you have you ever had a situation where a casual sexual encounter turned scary? I just consider it a learning experience, not to trust people so quickly. Just because they’re friends of friends doesn’t mean they don’t have a bad side! Also made me weary of getting too “out of it” like to be able to control the situation these days.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/18 07:53 PM
2	Q4W -- Have you have you ever had a situation where a casual sexual encounter turned scary? Seemingly nice guy kept trying to force me to drink more. Flatmates left for home while I was in bathroom. Wanted to sleep on couch, he tried to insist on watching movie in room. Just wanted to sleep and hoped movie would distract him. He started the movie (to cover any sound?) made very sure I said “ok” after removing clothes off almost passed out self. Asked over and over and got very scary. Went on for ages, was painful, and I was so sleepy despite not having that many drinks. To this day won…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/18 09:39 AM
1	Would you consider sexually assaulting/raping someone as masculine? Women can have masculine traits, just as men can have feminine. Different people have different traits. A woman may be a rapist, just as a man can be gossipy, dramatic, and “bitchy”. Still masculine and feminine tendencies that allow those features.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/18 09:26 AM
3	[Q4ALL] Is it possible to have a lifelong relationship between two attractive people with no cheating? Oh that explains the knowledge! Ya nailed it, am friends with a few of these hoes too haha	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/18 05:52 AM
6	Why perpetuate things like AWALT when human nature / society is malleable? 100% agree. There’s a lot of hurt people on that sub. Sometimes a broken home, sometimes just a couple of negative experiences and they just flip toward that strange and very cynical world view	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/18 05:06 AM
4	[Q4ALL] Is it possible to have a lifelong relationship between two attractive people with no cheating? Dude knows his hoes	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/18 04:59 AM
1	Q4All : Why should men not prefer debt-free virgins without tattoos? Key point; tramp stamp. Tattoos in general are very different to a specific type of tattoo. Saying “a woman banged me after a few drinks so all women are sluts” is equally terrible logic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/18 01:04 AM
5	Q4All : Why should men not prefer debt-free virgins without tattoos? Rude! I’ve got 6 Tatts, as far from promiscuous as can be (often get called a prude) and an n- count of 4, which isn’t bad considering 2 were LTR, 1 a well trusted friend and the last a drink spike. Am renovating a house I bought at 22 and going through police recruitment. If that’s not responsible life choices then what is? And nowdays pretty much everyone has at least one tattoo. Not everyone is slutty or mentally ill! Stop judging people so hard aye?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/18 11:36 AM
2	Blue pill sexual strategy? Incels are lonely and don’t get any so I’m out on those accounts. Try a little harder. Also only spend about an hour each day online, less than most people!	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/18 08:49 PM
1	[Discussion] My Personal Evolution of Thought Have you SEEN some of the women out there?? Not to be shallow but.... I hope they have great personalities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/18 07:24 AM
2	Blue pill sexual strategy? If you met me you would think differently :) being a quiet intellectual type I don’t do any shrieking whatsoever. Men are ignored, except for partner of course.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/18 07:23 AM
2	Blue pill sexual strategy? I have a happy LTR because I have convinced partner to drop his frame and act like a human or I will leave. Now he talks and has feelings and isn’t a red pill robot. It is good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/18 06:51 AM
1	[Discussion] My Personal Evolution of Thought No Human existence proves that women reproduce. Whoop de doo we all know this. But that means we exist to have children and care for them. Men are simply DNA in the chain of existence, no more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/18 06:50 AM
1	[Discussion] My Personal Evolution of Thought Nearly :) ladies make babies? I believe they can already make a baby with same sex couples DNA and donated sperm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/18 06:48 AM
5	Blue pill sexual strategy? You’ll have better luck finding a girlfriend than you will pulling women regularly enough with Red Pill. Sounds like you’re either an undateable rollercoaster of emotions with oversensitive tendencies, or are setting your “suitably attractive” bar too high.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/18 01:11 AM
4	Blue pill sexual strategy? Grandad, I am a female. Also if you think that being an asshole results in a happy marriage go ask your wife what she thinks. Is she happy? Doubt it. I’m surrounded by these dynamics and all the couples either divorced or the wife is absolutely miserable. The one exception is a lady that does what the fuck she wants and makes no effort for her husband anymore. She also smokes a lotta weed so that probably helps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/18 01:07 AM
1	[Discussion] My Personal Evolution of Thought Hilarious! You think what you say goes! While I admire your confidence, there is absolutely no evidence that women exist to serve men. From an evolutionary perspective we exist to carry on the species, to produce children and look after them. Once we have the sperm sorry but you’re no longer the main subject of our affections. And in today’s society we don’t even need your DNA; two women can donate eggs and create their own child. Great news for Lesbian partners.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/18 01:03 AM
3	[Discussion] My Personal Evolution of Thought Actually red pill made your expectations too high; because woe and behold women do not exist for the sole purpose of serving men. I know, crazy stuff. Believe it or not women are people too and when you treat them as an equal they may feel like doing nice things because they like you, but they certainly aren’t obliged to do so. Not constantly serving your wants and desires does not make them a shitty person, it makes you a shitty person for expecting that. Furthermore if you don’t do nice things…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/18 11:52 PM
3	Blue pill sexual strategy? Or you’ll find yourself never having happy or lasting LTR’s because you’re scared to do a little work or be nice in case the almighty frame is dropped... believe me she will always get tired of being walked over and whether she leaves or not it’s not going to be a happy relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/18 11:40 PM
2	Blue pill sexual strategy? Then find someone that will give it on the daily....	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/18 11:37 PM
4	Blue pill sexual strategy? Well then they can be lonely and never find meaningful connections with people. Thats their prerogative. If you find the right person you get casual sex AND a best friend that you don’t constantly have to pretend around. TRP sounds lonely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/18 08:50 PM
4	Blue pill sexual strategy? But sometimes when she puts in all the work and effort in, he “holds frame” and does whatever the fuck he wants... she leaves. Because nobody wants to be doing everything all the time for an ungrateful twat in a LTR.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/18 08:47 PM
7	Blue pill sexual strategy? If you were to follow the idea of improving yourself from redpill but not take on all the sidebar “never get oneitis” “give her the silent treatment” “hold frame” bullshit you’d be off to a good start. Women like interesting guys that can take care of themselves, can make decisions, are driven, and not afraid of commitment (be it dating plans or moving in together). But they don’t want the fake macho, the cheating, non-commitment, or being treated like a lesser person. Nonchalant behaviour is in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/18 10:49 AM
9	Blue pill sexual strategy? No red pill wants nothing to do with children or LTR’s. I like this advice though, could even substitute being good with children for being good with animals and you’d still have a good success rate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/18 10:32 AM
2	Red Pill dynamics not applying to South Germany? Hottest young girls exclusively dating soyboys & losers Already in a LTR. Plus I’m an 7/8 and sounds like he’s after 9/10. Little sis on the other hand...	/r/TheRedPill	31/07/18 10:10 AM
0	Red Pill dynamics not applying to South Germany? Hottest young girls exclusively dating soyboys & losers Oh just trying to help the dude get laid. Never mind me. Guess he should keep listening to the advice normally given on here, and ignore legit advice from someone that actually knows how women think! Clearly it has worked so well in the past....	/r/TheRedPill	31/07/18 05:35 AM
4	Supposedly "post wall" and feminist women that TRP hates are awesome to me! Fun fact: soy contains phytoestrogen rather than animal estrogen. Results have been inconclusive or negative regarding soy’s effect on human hormones. There has been a proven benefit to soy lowering breast cancer rates in women though. But whatever keep assuming it will make people girly (contrary to science’s input) if you want. Also older women can be gorgeous, you just pick ones that stay active and lead interesting lives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/18 08:50 PM
2	CMV: Women love men looking to improve their SMV. Also different women go for different things! An example being one sister of mine goes for physique and athleticism, the youngest goes for humour/character, and I go for facial features and intelligence. Okay sometimes you’ll get a guy with everything but they’re usually taken, gay, very intimidating or way outta our league.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/18 08:37 AM
3	Q4Women: How do you respond to the logic that the vast majority of woman can't really know whether the TRP pillars of SMV (status/wealth/looks/game) turn them on because they've never been approached by men who are high-SMV in these dimensions? Met plenty of them. They scare the heck outta me and I stay well away from that nonsense. Sisters do the same. Guys that have everything are trouble and anybody with any sense knows that they’ll pump and dump. Most of my mates go for “dad bods”!	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/18 09:15 AM
2	Reagarding a women's sexual past and why men place a high value on it. Sooooo bitter! If you look back through my comment history you will see multiple examples of women being fine with men expressing emotions and insecurities, on this sub alone many women demonstrate the same sentiment. Maybe try asking women instead of assuming? Many guys don’t WANT to express themselves when it comes to feelings or thoughts. My partner absolutely hates talking about what’s bothering him (to be honest I do too), but we both make an effort to improve that communication! It’s the o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/18 09:54 PM
1	Reagarding a women's sexual past and why men place a high value on it. Nah you just sound like you have a very warped view on life (and not a particularly common one), stemming from your own insecurities and bitterness. Its little to do with Biology and a lot do do with choices. You may choose to be a cheat but many men don’t, just as some women will while some will remain faithful to their guy no matter what. Don’t assume every person is like you, just as I don’t expect every person to be like me. Yeah you bought up my points but you didn’t really provide valid re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/18 09:39 PM
8	Reagarding a women's sexual past and why men place a high value on it. 1: Women do not talk like idiots, as you seem to think they do. If a female were to make fun of men in that manner you’d all have a tantrum about it, so why not afford us common courtesy and type like a normal human? 2: The issue is not judging a women on her past behaviour; it is that we judge women and not men. Also the standards of “unacceptable” amounts of partners are a huge disparity between genders. 3: Following the same logic, when men say they’ve changed women usually believe them, howe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/18 05:37 AM
2	Follow up on Vulnerability 4All: I don’t believe it to be clear at all; the results were mixed and only hysteria was largely unacceptable, which is a very extreme display of emotion! Females can be very understanding of partners and I would prefer an overly emotional partner over an ice cold partner. The way to manage this is display emotions readily to partners, occasionally in public, and cry if you want to. Just don’t have tantrums and go crazy! Simple adulting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/18 04:25 AM
1	Feminism does a disservice to women by discouraging them from preferring mates with benevolent gender attitudes Don’t want short term. They may be doing great things long term. Also when did anyone ever take advice from feminists haha!	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/18 02:39 AM
2	How I was 'defused'... It’s pretty common! Women have the same thing with certain guys too (normally unsuitable ones though haha), but yes acting on feelings too often can scare people off. But it could also reassure them of your feelings so really depends what stage in the relationship you’re in, when you’re sure they’re keen put in the effort and never stop until they ask you to. Sadly people stop courting after a while and it ruins the magic. A friend did the same with an escort, it’s a bit unfortunate but at least…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/18 02:35 AM
2	How I was 'defused'... It can also be tricky seeing friends getting married, having children, and buying houses when you know full well that is not the lifestyle you and your partner are headed for! It may be that you find someone quite late- maybe they’ve already married and divorced or had children. But in the meantime you have a lot of freedom, both physically and financially (while many of those friends will be juggling debt, kids, work, and the realisation that LTR’s aren’t easy). There is comfort in independence…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/18 02:26 AM
1	Feminism does a disservice to women by discouraging them from preferring mates with benevolent gender attitudes There isn’t really a disservice if everyone is experiencing the same cycle, independently of one another. If feminism didn’t produce different results then how could it have an impact on other women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/18 02:17 AM
1	How I was 'defused'... It can take time, especially if you’re naturally shy or have a reputation for “always looking”. Took maybe a year for me and even then it was by chance, but it definitely pays off because you find better quality people. Generally girls that go for guys that “try” are either desperate themselves or are a real handful and will drop you in a flash. Guys that go for desperate girls are normally players and very manipulative. But chance encounters have a way of helping you meet people that maybe aren…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/18 10:34 PM
2	How I was 'defused'... Not really, because it increases the chances that a friendship may develop or that they see you as a chill dude that doesn’t make a big deal out of things. It would be hard to fight that feeling that made you approach them, but if you can it will be the best option! If you always go the extra mile there’s the risk of coming across quite creepy. Would recommend saving that for circumstances where you already know that she likes you- because then it can be attractive without giving off stalker vib…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/18 10:26 PM
1	Feminism does a disservice to women by discouraging them from preferring mates with benevolent gender attitudes But this is based on immediate results and not long term success. The fact that feminism didn’t have an impact is surprising, but it also makes me wonder what level of screening was used. Will have to see if I can find out. But in that case I still don’t see how it could disadvantage feminists? They would still go through the same progress of initial attraction, maybe the occasional bang, figure out that he isn’t that interested or is an asshole (whichever comes first), before moving away from t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/18 10:20 PM
7	You shouldn't be worried about her happiness The downvotes will be because you think woman are inferior and that when people get raped it’s their own fault.	/r/TheRedPill	19/07/18 08:16 PM
2	How I was 'defused'... Well part of not giving a fuck is still making moves if a good oppertunity is there, but not reacting badly to rejection; i.e just shrugging it off. This alleviates the chance of “nice guy” behaviour that gets really whingy when they face rejection. It also means if other girls are around they will think two things: 1, they will see you’re interested in dating someone. 2, that you’re actually a genuinely nice calm guy when things don’t go your way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/18 08:07 PM
2	Feminism does a disservice to women by discouraging them from preferring mates with benevolent gender attitudes I don’t see it as a disservice to go after open minded and caring individuals , in comparison to the condescending BS they outline. The interesting thing is that even though those people may have found it attractive in the outset, in long term relationships different things come into play. I would like to see studies on that, because my suspicion is that women do go for beta providers long term and are no longer looking for the BS/ alpha natured males- even TRP acknowledges this. Basically you a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/18 08:00 PM
3	Q4Women: How much does fame/status turn you on? The manosphere is full of claims it's a huge turn-on, and that if a man whispers in your ear that he's a "famous actor" then the tingles start flowing. Fame or money don’t mean much, but it is nice to see a guy with passions, ambition etc. Those traits are common in successful people so perhaps that is the attraction? Sometimes authoritative figures or men in uniform are attractive at first but it wears off when you become familiar with them, they’re just people after all! Especially when you become a soldier too and its more comfortable to be around those people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/18 10:44 AM
2	Q4Women: How much does fame/status turn you on? The manosphere is full of claims it's a huge turn-on, and that if a man whispers in your ear that he's a "famous actor" then the tingles start flowing. Politicians are disgusting ew! Trump is actually repulsive. Trudeau is ok but still kinda old and already familied up. Pretty turned on by my happily broke partner :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/18 10:39 AM
4	How I was 'defused'... My partner didn’t pursue either though, actually after meeting and messaging I initiated dates! So don’t whine about women having it easy. And most men don’t chase women (at least not in our country, understandably American dating culture is vastly different). In New Zealand it’s very casual, interactions are usually equally initiated unless one person is super shy, normally the females will be doing the chasing if they’re actually interested, and that’s what works best here so maybe in America …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/18 10:12 AM
3	How I was 'defused'... Life advice that is almost identical to and includes the points I made. Basically every post on there covers those in addition to never trusting women and being salty when they face rejection or their partners leave them because they’re shitty people. The fact that you’re quoting Trump says a lot, especially since you both seem to agree that you can dictate what is right or wrong based on your personal opinion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/18 10:03 AM
1	How I was 'defused'... It’s definitely a tough balance, but if you focus on developing yourself as a person, engaging in things you enjoy (e.g. travel, sports etc).... then you’re going to be inherently more attractive to people that you may come across, not to mention the likelihood of meeting people with the same interests is also higher.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/18 09:11 AM
3	How I was 'defused'... Except the whole point of TRP is to not give a fuck about being nice to women, hold frame, and subtly reduce the confidence of females in order to make them look up to you. So it works on the same premise as this, except Red Pillers are normally assholes to deal with, whereas not actively seeking attention still allows you to be friendly in a laid back manner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/18 09:08 AM
1	How I was 'defused'... Honestly, my lonely guy friends are constantly asking about how to meet people, asking about my girl mates, or complaining about how women never seem interested even though they’re a similar level. My first piece of advice is STOP LOOKING! The desperation is palpable, and the moment you stop caring about what females think is the moment you become more of a fun person to be around. We really appreciate guys that aren’t trying too hard! Its the same with finding guys, once I stopped looking and c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/18 07:23 AM
1	Q4All: How do you feel about men being vulnerable? Good with it! Prefer a partner that is comfortable enough with me to be open about insecurities etc. Same with this as long as crying isn’t a frequent thing. Not good with hysterics as it means things are getting out of hand. On occasion it is ok but my partner isn’t happy when I’m too emotional so prefer not to show it. Female	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/18 11:29 PM
1	Q4All: What wouldn't you tolerate from your partner's past? I’m kinda fussy! But also forgiving on looks/financial situation so it balances out :) Can’t be stupid Has to be able to hold conversation No history of cheating No Kanye fans Must be open minded Must be patient Must be outdoorsy and animal lover	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/18 11:16 PM
1	Q4All: What wouldn't you tolerate from your partner's past? Sounds like a boring woman!	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/18 11:10 PM
1	What Happens When Your Wife/GF Catches On to TRP? It really is! Unfortunately the irony is lost on most it would seem	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/18 10:02 PM
1	What Happens When Your Wife/GF Catches On to TRP? Found out partner was subbed TRP (he saved some rant about how all women have lists), and it explained aaaaall the stupid shitty manipulative behaviour he’d started. So I started doing the same back. Being cold, indifferent, and putting him down. He really didn’t like that and sulked like a little bitch. But when I outright asked him he just tried to brush it off. So now we’re in a weird situation where there’s still attachment but neither of us is happy because he’s still pulling that crap and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/18 08:16 PM
8	What Happens When Your Wife/GF Catches On to TRP? I had the same reaction as your wife. Some people on that reddit are ok humans but some of them actually do despise women and see us all as cheating whores, which is not the case at all, and is also very hurtful to think my partner may believe the same. And the tricks never work on me because macho indifferent bullshit makes me annoyed, and I prefer his cute boyish side. IDK different strokes for different folks but TRP isn’t going to work on all women. Edit: layout	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/18 07:57 PM
2	CMV: The "NiceGuy" trope, is nothing more than women takin out their frustration on shy/socially awkward men. Every “nice guy” encounter I’ve had has NOT been shy or socially awkward guy at all. It has been someone that I kiinda know that wants to date. He’s usually super sensitive with a “tough guy” persona that is salty about his ex. He’s manipulative, condescending, entitled, and can’t understand why you wont fuck him because he thinks he’s a “nice guy”. Honestly people that go “Don’t trust me I’m an asshole” end up being the most real, trustworthy and kind- they just beat themselves up too much. Edi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/18 09:40 AM
1	What is your opinion about the marriage scene in USA in the next 10 years? Planning long term is easy; pre nuptial agreements. If you honestly think people make long term legally binding commitments to people without loving them then you’re the one in for a wake up call. If you don’t love someone you don’t do those sort of things! Love (or at least a great level of trust and understanding/ caring for that person) + mutually beneficial economic advantages don’t have to be exclusive of one another, in fact they rarely are. Even in business transactions people build up tr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/18 09:06 AM
1	What is your opinion about the marriage scene in USA in the next 10 years? Not everyone is a psychopath that sees other people in that ‘what resources may I gain from this person’ light. Most people just want a lifelong best friend and lover, and they will stick with that person when things are tough. They’re only pale advantages and later disadvantages if you don’t plan of staying with the person and starting a family (whether you have children or not) or don’t love them. If you cannot love someone of course you shouldn’t get married.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/18 10:23 PM
1	What is your opinion about the marriage scene in USA in the next 10 years? You know that person has committed to you specifically, that they’re not just going to up and leave as soon as things get tough. It’s part of family and tradition too. Not to mention if you’re married it’s easier to buy a house together and if you want to adopt that’s possible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/18 08:28 PM
5	What is your opinion about the marriage scene in USA in the next 10 years? See I’ve never seen that side of it- it’s always the men that were unfaithful. A lot of women say that their partners have stopped being intimate with them (usually around the same time they start to go elsewhere for sex). Maybe if these women are repulsed there’s a reason? Maybe the man has gained a huge amount of weight? Maybe he has cheated and she feels disgusted by that side of it? In my current relationship I’m the one with the higher sex drive and he’s barely ever interested in contact, l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/18 11:08 AM
1	Q4ALL: Do you not see at least SOME examples of Disney-esque Pure/True Love in your social life, which serve as counterexamples to the bleak TRP view? My Auntie and Uncle. They were designed to be together! They do have small disagreements but they almost jokingly go about resolving them. They still wine and dine each other, after almost 30 years of marriage. They visit friends often and go ballroom dancing sometimes- they have the same hobbies and passions, but also different and interesting ones- almost complimentary to each other’s skills. There’s an amazing balance between the way they share the workload, she’s happy to get stuck into phys…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/18 09:46 AM
7	What is your opinion about the marriage scene in USA in the next 10 years? What serious changes do women need to make? In every failed marriage I’ve seen the women has gotten fed up with the cheating (or threatening to), laziness, mind games, and general childlike behaviour.. You really think you can find someone that fucks like a pornstar without having previous partners, that’s skeleton thin but magically can cook and eat heaps of delicious food with you, that will work full time but also raise children, do housework, do the gardens, manage to stay fit and attractive…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/18 06:44 AM
1	What's your gender, age bracket and notch count? Have you lied about your count? There’s always the occasional time you were actually going to have a one night stand, but they were too drunk to get it up! E.g. F 23, 4. (2 while dating, 2 casual acquaintances, and 2 I missed out because it didn’t proceed due to aforementioned logistical issues). See?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/18 07:21 AM
1	Men Create, Women Destroy. Guess the house I’m rebuilding with my mothers help doesn’t count? This is the opposite to what I observe on a daily basis, but hey I’m just a simple female incapable of rational thought or creativity. This thinking is so 17th century. No wonder you can’t get laid and are full of bitterness!	/r/TheRedPill	23/05/18 06:19 AM
5	Have you ever dated a practice or placeholder girlfriend? What was it about her that made her just temporary? *ahem. Millions of women are loyal. Millions of women are not. Just find a loyal one. Also don’t expect a woman to be loyal if you aren’t offering the same courtesy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/18 04:34 AM
8	CMV: Commitment from low value men is overrated What happens is that women mature enough to value personality over aesthetics. They want a lifelong best friend, maybe with the same hobbies and a good sense of humour, someone settled that isn’t going to go out drinking 3 nights of the week until he dies. Someone that is unlikely to be unfaithful. But the attractive guys are still caught up in their glory “Chad” days and fit none of this criteria. They will root a lot of people but end up alone. Anyone hoping they change their ways will be sore…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/18 04:06 AM
12	Women will never solve your problems TRP doesn’t exactly pedestalize women, as it regularly refers to females as untrustworthy whores, thots, plates etc. However it does make it seem like your only goal is to smash lots of females and get gains. This takes away from anything else in life you may find enjoyable and leads to incel culture for those too unattractive to lead a life of lifting and thrusting. If there were other focuses like “Work really hard and enjoy the financial freedom that later brings” or “do lots of Contiki tours…	/r/TheRedPill	30/04/18 05:10 AM