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It makes sense they'd be miserable motherhood is hard even with a present and supportive partner, and lack of support is one of the biggest indicators for ppd. I can't imagine being freshly postpartum and my husband still expecting me to iron his shirts and make him breakfast.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 07:29 PM
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I don't think my grandmother ever got over the trauma of witnessing that as a young child, she never talks about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 03:28 AM
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My great-grandmother was abused in a mental hospital and eventually lobotomized for her schizophrenia around that time. It's safe to say life has gotten better for everyone, not just women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 11:13 PM
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When she wrote that book women werent even allowed to own bank accounts lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:04 PM
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Whats with the video you linked to Esther vilar do you really think men are all enslaved to women and what's your solution for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:58 PM
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I mean, if you expect women to chase you, you're going to find yourself very disappointed since they're heavily culturally discouraged from doing this and also probably more scared of rejection than your average man. That said, if someone is giving you clear signs of disinterest its probably best to take the hint and leave them alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:14 PM
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Why should he risk his life to save yours? You chose not to be with one man for the rest of your life, which is 100% fine. You chose not to have kids, which is also 100% okay as well. So the implication here is that he should be required to save a mother's life, and childless women should drown? Because either way, that's sexist against both sexes. So, what are the logical reasons he should risk his life to save yours? Altruism is just a genetic trait that some people have because it's evolution…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:18 PM
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Being broke isn't the same as being dead is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:10 AM
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When has a man died during childbirth?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:08 PM
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It's not as bad as trying to date men imo. Female partners take more initiative in maintaining the relationship, and I've never been date raped by a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 12:29 PM
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I don't care what men want to do with their lives as long as they ain't hurting people. Men are the ones who have these superhero fantasies about risking their lives to help others but then won't even help with the damn dishes, so it's cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:50 AM
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The majority of us wouldn't exist because the majority of us are of European descent, so yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:45 AM
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Why not just marry a super hot gold digger then?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:30 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:29 AM
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Why not just marry a super hot gold digger if looks are all that matters?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:27 AM
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Having sex once isn't the same as bearing someone's children and spending your lives together of course there's going to be different standards for different types of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:26 AM
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But women also don't think about them when they're horny either. This is true and I'm definitely no exception tbh If women simply wanted a bit more, things would work out smoother. There'd be more mutual initiative. This is a false assumption women should never make the first move imo huge mistake on their part. If a woman has to make the first move, she will have to take initiative in every other aspect of the relationship from then on she will become a simp and he'll never respect her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:22 AM
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Why would a man want to be a drunken hookup rather than the guy she literally puts her life on the line for by marrying?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:17 AM
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Did you look at the list at all? Cause it basically covers the entire fucking planet. You're the one who said women are happier in anti feminist countries where they don't have rights I'm just pointing out the atrocities committed in those places because I really wish somebody would beat me to death so I don't have to be responsible for my life anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:11 AM
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I'm saying there's other factors that go into wanting a relationship with someone than just physical appearance. Are you saying the only thing that matters is looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:08 AM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Honor_killings_by_region
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:30 AM
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I'm so jealous I could be beaten to death for exposing my hair in public instead of having to drive to work and own property and be self-reliant smh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 12:13 AM
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Or maybe she just wanted to bang them cause they're hot? It's wild to assume women want to marry every man they sleep with
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:46 PM
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As a woman, I don't view sex as transactional as this post implies. I see it as something that could potentially kill me or ruin my life in other ways, and I think more men should view it this way too even if they can't physically get pregnant there's lots of consequences they don't think about because horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:27 PM
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Has a mentally stable women ever sucked your dick upside-down?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:44 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:43 AM
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Broke men have the best dick cause they got nothing else to do all day
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:27 AM
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That's called a molar pregnancy guarantee the people who wrote these dumb laws never heard of it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 12:32 AM
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Your math is wrong. See to get a percentage from a fraction you have to divide the numerator by the denominator like this 1 in 6 women are raped in america so you divide 1 ÷ 6 = 0.1666666667 Then multiply 100 × 0.1666666667 = 16.67% The average woman has 16.67% chance of being raped this increases and decreases based on your age, location, race, and class. If you've already been raped the odds automatically increase by 50% that it will happen again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 01:52 PM
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Fr, the police already interrogate tf out of you, and its already 50% chance they actually arrest someone who's reported. It would be magnitudes harder to make a case if the death penalty was on the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:06 PM
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Ong I just saw you getting victim blamed in another thread on this sub a few days ago
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:55 PM
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Yeah but I still wanted to clarify
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:20 PM
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If you have the death penalty for rapist even less victims would come forward because they'd be murdered or have their tongues and hands cut off like in Titus Andronicus.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:19 PM
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Bro, if anything, being autistic makes you more empathetic. Google Justice sensitivity. It's partially why I'm so incensed by this topic. That actually makes a lot of sense, and I wasn't trying to imply that autistic men are rapists but this particular rapist was autistic. I think I might be too but I don't want to know tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:55 PM
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I agree wholeheartedly that's a massive red flag, which I ignored in my last ex bf cause he seemed nice otherwise, and i chalked it up to him probably being autistic and not understanding my pov, big surprise he raped me. I didn't go to the police I didn't think they'd believe me(crazy woman) over him(veteran war hero) , but I posted in the local awdtsg group to warn the other women in town. I have reported two rapists previously, but those were especially heinous crimes because I was a child. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:25 PM
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She must have forced those men to rape her as we all know men are just dumb monkeys who can't control their violent nature
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:52 AM
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There is way too much rape apologia on this sub lately
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:02 AM
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It's actually because you're baselessly projecting guilt onto victims and defending rapists while asking a victim for specific details of their abuse so that you can get off on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 01:56 AM
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You sound like a rapist
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 12:40 AM
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Being sexually assaulted puts you at a much higher chance of being sexually assaulted again, being robbed puts you at a much higher chance of being robbed again too this is called revictimization and it's a very well studied phenomenon. It really says alot about you that the first thing you do is victim blame when 5 minutes of googling would've answered your stupid fucking question. source source source source source
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:32 AM
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It's a playground for trust fund babies built on slavery it's literally one of the worst places in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:10 AM
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So if men always want sex how can they be rape victims? This narrative that your pushing harms men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:33 PM
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You're not going to get pregnant from that so...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:30 PM
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https://www.cbsnews.com/news/women-breadwinners-tripled-since-1970s-still-doing-more-unpaid-work/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:15 PM
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Even when we earn more we still have to work more
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:13 PM
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Who said she had no income?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:09 PM
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Way to prove her point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:08 PM
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Typically, they can not survive without exploiting the domestic labor of a woman but will denigrate that work as though it's useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:05 PM
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Redpillers are always saying that women need to be more feminine but then proceed to shit on everything feminine. Feminists are always saying women should be and do whatever they feel like, but then proceed to shit on everything feminine. As a feminine woman, you will be despised no matter what you do or which side you're talking too so it's best to just ignore the haters and do whatever you feel like.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:18 PM
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Prove it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:03 PM
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Idk people compare all sorts of people without really consciously thinking about it. I think it really depends on the situation and what the comparison is. A lot of people idealize their parents and project unrealistic expectations onto their partner in a way that's unfair. If you're parents were abusive and someone reminds you of them it's probably a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:18 PM
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They do it a lot actually, that's why women avoid mommas boys like the plague. You're literally competing with their mom the whole time and ot feels kinda incestuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 12:24 PM
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Even if men have lower standards for women they'll fuck they still have pretty normal standards for actual relationships and we've already established that it's not just about sex otherwise every lonely incel would buy a prostitute and all their problems would be solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:39 AM
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Why don't men choose better?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:04 AM
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My friend had a date pick her up for a first date, and he rolled up drinking fireball. Not only did she get in the drunk man's car, but she proceeded to date the mf for like 6 months. It's really incredible what some women will put up with he wasn't even cute either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 12:49 AM
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I don't need him to be a perfect adonis man if he's passably cute and has a steady job that's a good start. The most important thing i look for in a partner is emotional intelligence because we can't both be emotionally stupid. Eta: he also needs to have the capacity to commit violence against me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 12:41 AM
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I didn't say all men are predators. You did. You're literally just making shit up. I didn't say they're all responsible for the fucked up shit that some of them do. All I said is rejecting them makes me a little nervous based on my personal experience, and you're getting ridiculously defensive to start saying "not all men". I've lost family to men who couldn't take rejection you never know how someone's going to react, and if you're relatively defenseless, it's going to make you nervous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 01:59 AM
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That's fair, but it's still not the same. Men will respect the word "no" from a man more than a from a woman. That's why my go to when they don't accept the rejection is to point to a random dude and say that's my bf just the idea of a man gains more respect than whatever I say.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:43 AM
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Just think about it for a sec tho what's better than dual income no kids? 6 incomes and no kids these polygamous folks got it figured out fr
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:07 AM
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Where did I say that men are sub human? Do you even know what racism is?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:03 AM
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Have you ever tried rejecting a stranger that's twice your size? It's not the most comfortable feeling. I've had men body me into the wall before, like it's nothing, so forgive me for being a little nervous. For example, if someone had been previously bitten by a dog, do you think they'll be happy to see an unfamiliar pittbull approach them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 08:08 PM
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Same but I think it's cause of all the weed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 08:02 PM
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It doesn't have anything to do with hypergamy. Women just like feeling desirable, and I think that's the core of that fantasy being desired by many people at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 07:58 PM
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Men do this too any time a woman vents about anything there will be countless "but what about men" in the comments. In fact, that's exactly what you're doing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 07:42 PM
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That's off topic, but I don't disagree. Still, that wont stop 25% of men from abandoning their offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 03:10 PM
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You're continuing with the same fallacy, and it makes even less sense in this example because we spend billions of taxpayers' money every year on police misconduct settlements. Compared to how much we spend protecting these murderers spending 700k on preventing violence against women is practically nothing. Stopping the spread of these toxic ideologies would definitely help prevent violence against women. in my anecdotal experience, every Redpill guy I've met irl has committed domestic violence,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 03:30 AM
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This is an example of a fallacy called the fallacy of relative privation. The fallacy of relative privation rejects an argument by stating the existence of a more important problem. The existence of such a worse issue, the fallacy insists, thereby makes the initial argument irrelevant. This fallacy is also known as the appeal to worse problems or “not as bad as”.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 02:36 AM
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I think not only should the feds be monitoring them, but they should make their internet history public as well. These males idolize a literal rapist so they're all probably degenerate criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 02:31 AM
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What makes you think most school shooters aren't incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 02:10 AM
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Lost mine to sexual assault and ever since then, I've hated the concept of it entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 11:06 PM
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I'd pick #1. I don't think it would actually fix dating, but I want to live in a world where women have that much power just to see what it's like.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:39 PM
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I feel this I need to get my head straight, or I'll just attract more dysfunction through dating. I got a kitten and realized I was only looking for a partner cause I wanted something to take care of. So far, the cat appreciates my efforts more than my ex did, and she's cuter too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:10 AM
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Aren't these companies' business models dependent on repeat users to generate profits. It's basically just a digital love casino, and I'm sure whatever algorithms they use to match people up reflect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 10:13 PM
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Wait, you're telling me your vagina doesn't have a built-in biometric scanner?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 10:09 PM
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I think I would be super compatible with a male version of myself, but we'll both be too shy to make the first move.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:31 PM
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My brother never got a girlfriend until about a year after our mom passed. Imo this type of psuedo incestuous overparenting is definitely abuse, but it's pretty normalized for some fucked up reason. It's normal to want to support your kid, but that should mean setting them up for success in life by teaching them skills/knowledge, not coddling them into their 30s, letting them be a neet while you work, cook, and clean up after them. It's a toxic codependent relationship, and if that's the family …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:39 PM
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Being a "mommy's boy" is a huge turn off for me. You'd think those guys would have more respect for women, but nope, it just means they'll expect to be coddled by you, and you're literally competing with his mother for him. It gets real freudian real quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:13 AM
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You're link lists rohypnol which is a benzoyl the same type of drug as Xanax but here's some links that specifically say Xanax. https://www.crimemuseum.org/crime-library/drugs/date-rape-drugs/ https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/320409#types https://www.umc.edu/som/Departments%20and%20Offices/SOM%20Departments/Pathology/Divisions/Clinical-Pathology/Toxicology1/Drug%20Information/Date-Rape-Drugs.html "Drugs can make sexual assault easier making a person more compliant and less able to say n…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:49 PM
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I have been high out of my mind at festivals and the like there's always some loser there trying to get in my pants when I'm trying to enjoy my trip. Being a party girl pretty much guarantees you're going to get assaulted by some asshole who doesn't understand consent, and then everyone is going to blame you for taking drugs and partying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:16 PM
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Are you serious? Xanax is literally one of the most common date rape drugs. You just sound like more of a rapist everything you say on this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:02 PM
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Exploiting someone's drug addiction for sex doesn't sound like consent to me. Banging someone that's out of their mind high also isn't consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:21 PM
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Also, men can be prostitutes if they want?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:59 PM
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Strip clubs are a buisness that is obsolete and prostitution is illegal and dangerous af. Men can make way more selling their bodies than women. Physically demanding jobs with lots of overtime pay way better and more consistently than any kind of sex work. There's still risks to that work but prostitution doesn't offer osha protection or medical benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:57 PM
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The average OF creator makes $180/month my rent is 3x that much and I still have other bills to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:49 PM
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TIL women don't have bills to pay
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:43 PM
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Probably cause Instagram gives all the girlies body dismorphia idk
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:15 PM
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It always come back to that old Shaun tweet "why would girls choose the entitled and misogynistic jocks instead of the quiet nerds, whose attitudes towards women are exactly on par with the jocks but who are less attractive"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:37 AM
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Whenever I put on 5 or 10lbs extra it goes straight to my thighs and guys like thighs/ass so it's nbd to them. I hit the gym so that I don't have to buy new pants more than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:41 PM
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It's cause southern food is so good, but it will kill you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:28 PM
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They have gender segregated subways in Japan because of rampant sexual harassment and we don't have that in America, so maybe you have no idea what you're talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:26 PM
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Men can be prostitutes too and?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:20 PM
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7 would be 9, but he plays uke instead of real guitar.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:04 PM
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Male validation is pretty worthless to women. There's a good % of men who would stick it in a hole not knowing what's on the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:54 PM
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After the whole gender swap filter trend I realized women are just prettier than men in general. Also I look damn good with a beard.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:18 PM
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Like loving and trusting someone loyally for decades, dedicating your life to raising children with them, and bringing purpose to their lives, then getting cancer and going to chemotherapy appointments alone while he sleeps with dozens of other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:15 PM
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I sympathize with the loneliness and rejection a lot of men face, but I'm still going to have to say women. This is especially dependent on location for instance my state has a super high DV rate it's like 40% or some crazy shit and some places it's not even illegal to kill your wife. Women are most likely to be killed by a romantic partner, more likely to be abandoned if they get sick, expected to do the majority of labor in the relationship and household. It's summed up pretty well in the stat…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:29 PM
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Just making things up and saying two things are the same when they aren't isn't an argument. Go outside dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:15 AM
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cause it leads to treating people like commodities. This is why every industry has exploitation of its workers as company policy. It's a big reason OF took off so much because it gave sex workers more autonomy allegedly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:09 AM
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Would it be ppd without conflating entirely different things then acting like you've made some great point? Having casual sex in your youth is not the same as being involved with an ultra predatory industry like porn. Lots of former pornstars men and women have many valid criticisms of that industry mainly how it exploits/abuses workers. Definitely not the same as consensually hooking up at some parties when you're young for fun no money involved. Anyone who really thinks that way needs to log o…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:53 AM
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Op doesn't get out much
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:13 PM
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Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 08:49 PM
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So that's how my dad keeps getting new girlfriends, I used to try to warn them because I'm a woman too, and I've seen how he treats women, but they never listen. If your partner has a daughter who never talks to him and never visits without her brother with her, that should be a huge red flag. There's always someone out there willing to look past all red flags and abandon rationality for the sake of not being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:04 PM
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Literally, nobody here knows what the term gaslighting means.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:48 PM
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That's why king of the hill is the best 90s family sitcom cartoon ever. Hank and Peggy both have realistic flaws that make sense for their characters, and lots of fans hate Peggy but I think she's great.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:25 PM
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The only girl I met irl who had a crush on serial killers also had a history of traumatic abuse, so it makes sense for her to subconsciously repeat the cycle by being attracted to predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:34 PM
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That's where the whole bisexual thing comes in, women don't initiate as much, so you still end up with more men. Plus, it's like the easy default way to go with most cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:35 PM
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Why not? There's nothing wrong with it. It's a very bisexual thing to say that you only find 30% of men attractive and 70% of women attractive. It's just as bisexual when a guy says it, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:05 PM
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I think the women that say that are just bisexuals in denial imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:02 PM
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They called Margot robbie mid lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 01:06 PM
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Yes, I forgot about all the notoriously ugly sugar babies, my bad lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:02 PM
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I didn't say it was acceptable it's just a choice between an idiot that's ugly and one that's hot, so obviously, a lot of people go with the less stinky of two turds.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:30 PM
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"why would girls choose the entitled and misogynistic jocks instead of the quiet nerds, whose attitudes towards women are exactly on par with the jocks but who are less attractive"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:35 PM
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I'm not useful in a fight, but sometimes I can de-escalate them if that counts? I also once turned a guy over who was passed out choking on his vomit. I guess my style of protection is just being the voice of reason and helping how I can, like a support player instead of a tank.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:22 PM
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There's a good portion of guys who would stick it in a hole not knowing what's on the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:49 PM
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I feel like as a woman all people really expect is for me to sit there and look pretty. If I don't talk too much, nobody notices there's anything wrong with me mentally. They just think I'm shy or quirky or whatever. I'm sure if I was a bald, obese, 7-foot woman, my weird behaviors would be more noticeable to men blinded by their own thirst.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:28 PM
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I'm mostly here for the lulz, but I think it gives me insight into certain perspectives.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:40 PM
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Hit ⬆️⬆️⬇️➡️⬅️⬆️⬇️ during insemination and you'll get a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:48 PM
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Op just have a daughter instead
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:29 PM
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I never said I wasn't a feminist or that I was a man. You're making a lot of assumptions here based on a rhetorical question. I'm an intersectional feminist myself, and in my mind, there's nothing radical about wanting everyone to be free and have equal rights. I might be wrong on this, but I thought rad-fems are mostly white upper-middle class women who go on Twitter to say things like "cull the male population" and they're usually terfs or swerfs. Even if I wanted to completely restructure soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:15 PM
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Do you understand rhetorical questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:16 AM
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here's the link it's depressing but the most likely to abuse a child is whoever the child knows and trusts. 70% of all reported sexual assault is against children because predators always go after the most vulnerable. One of the best ways to protect kids is to give them knowledge of consent and healthy sex. When I was a kid, I didn't know the language to express what was happening to me. I just knew it was wrong, and I was scared of getting in trouble for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 02:03 PM
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Actually, mothers are more statistically likely to abuse their children, fathers are just more likely to sexually abuse them. Therefore, it is in the child's best interest to be raised by wolves; This decreases the chances of abuse while increasing the odds of the child growing up to be a demigod.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 02:02 PM
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Idk the wolves were pretty nice to baby Romulus, and he did alright for himself when he grew up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:45 AM
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here's the link it's depressing but the most likely to abuse a child is whoever the child knows and trusts. 70% of all reported sexual assault is against children because predators always go after the most vulnerable. One of the best ways to protect kids is to give them knowledge of consent and healthy sex. When I was a kid, I didn't know the language to express what was happening to me. I just knew it was wrong, and I was scared of getting in trouble for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:37 AM
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Actually, mothers are more statistically likely to abuse their children, fathers are just more likely to sexually abuse them. Therefore, it is in the child's best interest to be raised by wolves; This decreases the chances of abuse while increasing the odds of the child growing up to be a demigod.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 01:28 AM
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75% of reported CSA is from the biological fathers. Should we all just take the rad-fem approach and assume that every single man we meet is a pedophile?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:05 PM
7

"A moped is fun to ride, but you don't want your friends to see you on one"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 10:08 PM
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That makes sense. The one I looked at had a small sample size, but the fact that the study is repeatable with similar outcomes 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:18 PM
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It's not weird to have a varied aged group of friends. I like getting different perspectives on things, and having fun is for all ages tyvm. The only time in life when you're exclusively limited to interacting with only your age group is in school, and that's very artificial compared to the real world. Also, why is this age gap thing so focused on older men with younger women? Women can date younger men, and it's fine because men have agency and women don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:45 PM
2

Men are 7x more likely to abandon their wife when they have cancer than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:01 PM
2

When this happened to my mom after 2 decades of loyalty and 3 children together, my dad cheated on her while she was in the icu. Statistically, this is not an unlikely outcome as Men are 7x more likely to abandon a sick partner
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:57 AM
3

That's okay I'm good at fixing stuff let's go get married now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:24 PM
6

I'll do the baking then but prepare for disaster
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:57 PM
4

Lol and I can cook
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:53 PM
2

Yes, I'm smol so I may die in the process but it'll be worth it. Tortoises are great I have a stuffie of one that I use as a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:42 PM
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I just want a nice honest guy to take me to the pumpkin patch and give me a piggyback ride. Idk what my goals are beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:35 PM
2

Fair enough but this is about dating? Tf would you wanna date a teenager for?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:27 PM
1

Millennials can't even understand what zoomers are saying half the time cause we invent new words every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:29 AM
1

We'll at least we can both agree western feminism will probably spread over there sooner or later.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:53 PM
1

Do you really think they're all virgins? That's probably why it hurts when u pee my dude. Exploiting global inequality to get laid is pretty gross and pathetic, but you do you I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:10 PM
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Are you telling me that in an area of the world with notoriously bad gender inequality and high poverty rates has more age gap relationships? I wonder why?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:08 AM
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Maybe if you're leo Dicaprio or something, it's not that easy in reality though. If you belive that "men age like wine" bullshit you're straight up delusional. It really makes me laugh when crusty old divorced dads think they'll have beautiful young women lusting after them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:44 AM
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Her brain isn't done cooking yet. Once it is, she'll probably leave you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:52 AM
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I vote that they give us all back our money and stop telling us what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:14 PM
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I would love to have a kid, but in this economy I can't even afford to have a dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:10 PM
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Some women might take your stuttering attempt to get their number as harassment but most won't because it doesn't fit the definition. Just be respectful and ready to accept rejection, and then you won't be harassing anyone. If it makes you feel any better we usually don't even remember the people we turn down (unless it was that one guy who was dressed up like the joker that one time). Just go talk to women you're not going to learn if you don't try.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:05 AM
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I feel like going into a relationship with a don't ask don't tell policy about your sexual history is probably not the best idea. At the same time I kinda understand not wanting to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:56 PM
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I think that would probably take a degree of misanthropy that not everybody shares. This is fair I'm not a big fan of people to begin with and I won't argue everyone should agree with my personal experience. I'm just saying that the types of guys who have that kinda money just treat you as another commodity and constantly got their heads up their ass. They're not pleasant to be around . I'm better at being an annoying little shit to normal people than being a pet for those guys, that's just a sk…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:57 AM
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As a woman who's done both panel handling and going out with rich douchebags for free food, begging on the street was more fun imo. It's basically just like chilling at the gas station much easier than pretending to give a damn what some asshole has to say for like 2 hours straight. Eta: I'm pretty, young, and light skinned, so I definitely got better treatment than your average beggar back when I was doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:51 AM
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Pejoration is when a word gradually becomes an insult over time. The word "hussy" originally meant housewife the word "silly" used to mean happy etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:02 AM
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From recent stats women still do between 2x and 10x more unpaid domestic labor than men stfu
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 09:35 PM
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All my girlfriends so far have approached me first and all my bfs I've approached first. So clearly I just have to wait for women to approach me and I'll be drowning in pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:55 PM
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Ime guys with no experience are terrible relationship partners. They expect everything to be easy, like in a movie or something. You end up being the one that does all the work in the relationship, and you start feeling like their mom after a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:22 PM
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4 million Germans died in ww2 so yes it did.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:52 AM
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Fucking up the relationship then leaving the other person with the emotional burden of initiating the divorce, or expecting them to stay in spite of your disloyalty, is arguably worse than just leaving for someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:21 PM
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There's also people who take business loans too I think this is how people usually fund their businesses even when they already have money. Major assumptions being made on ops part.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 12:09 AM
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Op refutes his own point in the first sentence, saying you don't have to be beautiful, then immediately saying you have to be attractive, which is actually just impossible for some people cause of genetics. Assuming the best possible angle, though, why should it be a blessing for women to be able to make themselves dependent on another flawed human? It's freeing to know that you can survive on your own and that you're not just with someone because you have to be, but because you want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:19 AM
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Way to stop reading after two words. I think you're the one being disingenuous here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:05 AM
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Also the rate of men being poisoned mysteriously went down after no fault divorce was implemented.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:51 PM
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Most of the women who've told me this married quick to get out of an abusive family but then ended up marrying a pos abusive husband, which they were stuck being dependent upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:44 PM
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Every woman I've met over the age of 50 tells me never rely on a man I bet there's a reason that generation of women feels strongly about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:28 PM
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Dude I'm only like 110lbs my ass would get tossed around like a damn dog toy, plus the prisons in my area are for profit so they don't have food or ac a lot of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:14 PM
2

Hey good for you just curious how much does husband make and how many kids you're feeding?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:06 PM
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I'm not rich enough to get away with stealing and I don't want to become a slave in the prison industrial complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:06 PM
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I'd been working 60+ hr/weeks for the past 6 months, and it's not easy. Luckily, I just have myself to take care of. You should help your bro out make dinner for them a casserole or something if you can. When my friends depressed sometimes I'll go over and just start washing her dishes for her cause ik it's really hard to start things when you're feeling that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:33 PM
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In this economy? Nobody has a choice it's work or starve. Having children is quickly becoming a luxury only the rich can afford. Honestly when's the last time you even saw a single income family?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 02:09 PM
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"Yes, but only in small rural communities. And there are thousands of them. Folks still ride up to the drive-thru window on a horse with a pistol and a shotgun and pick up a few burgers and trot back to the ranch" Lived in Texas for over a decade even in rural farming communities I've never seen this happen. There's this thing called a truck you see. Op is full of cow patties.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 04:34 PM
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Still fucking more chicks than u bro
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:47 PM
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The way shits going war is just going to be automated af anyways with ai turrets and drones replacing the humans. That will be fun I'm sure. Women are just as capable of being murder machines for the state as anyone else though in the meantime.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:14 AM
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Wow I'm wrong in the hypothetical you created instead of addressing any of the points I made how could I be so blind?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:47 AM
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It's not at all unusual for underrepresented groups to outperform the majority. They have to work harder to qualify and maintain. The army only started lowering standards in 2022 for more than just women but also small men and older people because they're desperate for more soldiers. Studies show that men are slightly better with pistols while women are slightly better with rifles, the difference is very small in either field though some speculate that because women have a lower center of gravit…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:31 PM
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Chimera gf ftw
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:33 PM
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I want to say the main reason is because men seeing women die/horrifically injured effects them a lot more intensely than seeing other men killed. Typically, the kind of women who seek out this type of work are as good if not better than their male counterparts, but it's a small percentage of women to begin with. Women have been shown to be better as snipers just look at Lyudmila Pavlichenko and her 300+ confirmed dead nazis.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:19 PM
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It's oedipus and the sphinx lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:47 PM
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Bruh there's literally 2 jobs for every 1 applicant right now. I don't even have a degree and I've got people hitting me up with job offers every other day the job market is great for workers rn. The workload once you get in though that's a whole other story.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 10:10 PM
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Government funded child care would be more important for single parents of any gender. As it stands the system is rigged against poor people being able to have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 07:02 PM
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It's not just about work it's relationships and every other aspect of life as well. Men have it easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 06:56 PM
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He had 6 million problems lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 06:34 PM
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According to this study, Hitler showed obvious traits of paranoia, but also of anti-social, sadistic, and narcissistic personality disorders, and distinct traits of posttraumatic stress disorder. In the late 1980s, Ellen Gibbels (University of Cologne) attributed the limb trembling in Hitler's later years to Parkinson's disease, a widely held consensus in the research community.[citation needed][68] However, some researchers interpreted Hitler's tremor as a symptom of advanced syphilis, most rec…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 06:29 PM
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Men are the real ones living on easy mode they literally get applauded for doing the bare minimum even when they have superior strength and an assumption of competence to carry them through life. Where as if you're a woman, you have to do 10x as much just to be unappreciated anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 06:15 PM
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Avatar is such a good show the character writing is impecable ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 05:32 PM
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You can sell your eggs for thousands of dollars actually, but you'd still need a woman to carry the pregnancy to term and surrogates make tens of thousands in compensation. If every sperm bank disappeared tomorrow, the price of sperm would still be cheaper than water. It's about supply and demand it doesn't really have anything to do with gender roles or sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 05:18 PM
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I'd rather have a butterfly infestation than a roach infestation. Butterflies don't bite or steal your food or cause health problems they just flutter around looking cool af.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 04:21 PM
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Most women actually want to have a fulfilling relationship likes on dating apps are meaningless to most of them especially when half of them are from crusty divorced guys twice your age.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:30 PM
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True, I think you can give someone space to grow as a person, but if you find yourself constantly making excuses for them thats when you should start to rethink things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 08:54 PM
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It's a little deeper than that I think. Online dating is just the manifestation of our society's obsession with instant gratification. People don't want to work on a relationship and grow and change with eachother they just want it to be perfect right off the bat and the instant their partner doesn't act exactly how they want them to they jump ship. It's really depressing how often this happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 03:45 PM
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The real problem is that regardless of gender society values extrinsic values like beauty, wealth, and status over intrinsic values like kindness, intelligence, and integrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 02:36 AM
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Ime gentle rejections are usually ignored, so my go-to now is to just point at the biggest toughest looking guy in the room and say, "That's my bf." Works like a charm since most guys don't want to get their ass kicked. They practically run away from me afterward. I also find this easier and less awkward than a straight "no".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 03:22 PM
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What should she be doing that you're assuming she isn't based on the picture?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 10:16 AM
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• af/bb • 80/20 • awal • the wall • hypergamy Everything that isn't the basic self help/improvement stuff is what makes trp what it is, and all of those things are lies based on psuedo science like evo psych.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:05 PM
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The last time a date opened a car door for me he got mad that I initially opened it myself said something along the lines of "hey you can't do that" shut the door on me then reopened it himself. It was very much about him wanting to look good and have me notice how nice he was, but it just pissed me off from how transparently attention seeking it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 08:52 PM
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Yea, there is probably about the same rate of obesity in men here, if not more, I see so many beer gut guys waddling around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:13 PM
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Living in the south, if you're a woman that isn't 50lbs overweight, that makes you an 8/10 instantly just by comparison. Of all the women I've met since I moved here 4 years ago only like 3 of them are healthy weight. This is only me counting women my age (20s) who haven't had kids cause ik these factors change a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 03:12 PM
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Rp screech all day about "female nature" they based off shady evo psych and online dating. Human nature is to want to be loved and feel connected in some form. It's really counter intuitive to try to get love from someone who you're actively dehumanizing and it's a real doozie imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:25 PM
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U can stock up on munitions as a retirement plan lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:26 PM
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U can save for retirement a lot of companies match 401k that's basically free money.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:47 PM
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Just put ur dirty dishes in the sink it's not that hard stop being a spoiled child.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 04:36 PM
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It really just seems like overcompensating to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 07:27 PM
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Even if you have a horrible personality, you're butt ugly, and morbidly obese, there's still enough guys trying to hit that you can be a slut np. Some of the biggest sluts ik have zero redeeming qualities. Women just gotta understand mens attention/validation is completely worthless, especially given their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 02:24 PM
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Are mgtows completely asexual? I thought spinning plates was a thing they claim to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:27 PM
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Isn't tate currently being prosecuted for raping multiple women? That's a really bad example of a non-violent incel lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:21 PM
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It's just weird to fuck a robot that looks like you oberdoesed a 12 year old with hgh, but ig if that's ur kink whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:22 PM
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That choice is only legal north of the Mason Dixon line lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:00 AM
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I guess not but I'm definitely a weirdo I think they just give me a pass cause I have great hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:41 AM
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Even I got laid by girls I'm my teen years and I'm a total loser regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:37 AM
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I figured it must be purge week for how shit it is but I didn't see a post about it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:35 AM
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Milfs tho
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:34 AM
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Probably idk I haven't actually seen it. Everybody likes the joker though so everyone crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:14 AM
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Idk if I'm qualified to answer tbh never watched or read the book I've just seen this stupid quote reposted a few times and it kinda reads as NLOG bullshit to me. If there are girls out there looking up to this character it's probably as cringe as the men who try to be Tyler Durden after they watch fight club.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:14 PM
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What a convenient definition of promiscuity wherein men cannot be capable of it. Go dick ride some child trafficker I'm bored of ur shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:19 AM
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They all just wanna be Chad's and Chad's a hoe
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:15 AM
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Not cognitive dissonance it's simple. I'm just saying they have the intent but no means to make it reality. Look at how many women dedicate their life to building up a man only for him to turn around and cheat on her once he's successful. If you ask a man what he would do if he was a woman, they all start saying hoe shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:42 AM
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You should have higher standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:18 AM
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And men cheer the joker from batman? So what? If a fictional character is speaking to some emotional truth it doesn't matter if they're the protagonist or the villain. The overarching message of this quote is not to live for the appeasement of others that probably resonates with some people, in fact it's comparable to a Tyler Durden quote.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:15 AM
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Gay
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:01 AM
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100% of men are hoes they just don't have the game to actually get any.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:57 AM
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I think in a star trek utopia like that people would be fucking like crazy. I mean you don't have to worry about all the stress of work and money, you'd have so much free time and energy esspecially since robots would be doing all the housework and babysitting. I imagine relationships would be way healthier to navigate and you'd have as much time to spend together or apart as you wanted. When women say they don't want to date losers it's usually cause they don't want a man baby who they have to …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 02:08 PM
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I haven't been with a man since my state outlawed abortion in all circumstances almost a year ago. It's not a political stunt I haven't made any sort of mention of it to anyone I'm just really scared of getting pregnant. The last time I got pregnant it almost killed me and I really don't want to die, so instead I just only have sex with women and it's a win win for me. I'm sure men have many valid fears when it comes to sex but they don't seem to carry as much risk as actually dying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:34 PM
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I waited tables all through high-school. Men would routinely bring their wives to this nice restaurant for their anniversary/birthday/etc, only to blatantly oggle the kid serving them right in front of their wives. I always wished the women would say something to them because I couldn't, maybe they couldn't either. They always seemed so miserable and I felt bad for them. The couples that seemed to have basic respect for eachother were way happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:29 PM
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Women have the privilege of being treated like a crusty cumsock by strangers, why are they complaining about equality? Stupidest shit I've heard in while, given the nature of many kinks you should only explore them with someone you know and trust to stop when you say safeword. I would never get into kink with a casual partner there's way too much risk, it's supposed to be a deeper level of trust and respect to fulfill someone's fantasy connecting that way with a stranger is just weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:25 PM
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Leagues aren't a real thing it's just some bs categorization some superficial asshole came up with. I like to think people find value in eachother beyond their extrinsic features and actually enjoy eachothers presence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 05:06 PM
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I don't trust woman hating men's words either
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:04 PM
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Ur not real
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:03 PM
1

Medicinal cannabis wholesale
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:02 PM
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At my company the management is all women because we're the ones who get shit done while the men cry anytime we ask them to lift something heavy. It's crazy how men get to be perceived as competent by default when most of them are little bitches tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:21 PM
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I must be tripping I thought women were the borg.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:26 AM
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There's really no correlation with how people look to how they'll act and there's no evidence to suggest otherwise. This post is just bad math and thinly veiled mommy issues, nothing substantive about lookism or assumptions which there was potential for.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:23 AM
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I think this correlation between how someone looks and how they will treat you is completely false, ask any girl who gave the "nice guy" a chance and they'll tell you, just cause you're way more attractive than them doesn't mean they're going to appreciate you or be a good partner. The difference between a nice guy and a good guy has nothing to do with appearance it's about their moral values, good guys just do good for the sake of good, but nice guys are only nice when they want something and e…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:53 PM
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Ur reading comprehension is even worse than my grammer. I'm gonna marry a Canadian for a greencard there I spelt it o u t for u. That's a human being you're using. They won't mind trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 12:21 PM
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So laws which unfairly disadvantage the poor are a good thing? As if shits not already stacked against them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:34 PM
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Fuck anyone who feels that a fetus is a human being despite the complete lack of evidence. Fuck anyone who thinks their feelings should dictate others individual rights and choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:36 PM
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It's an inextricably connected argument. Why do you want these unwanted pregnancies to come to term? What are they planning to do with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:23 PM
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This is going to kill a lot of women fuck this shit im gonna go marry some Canadian for citizenship I'm done with this wack ass theocracy bullshit. Why are we letting religious zealots who literally want the apocalypse to happen make decisions about what the fuck were doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:09 PM
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Most men aren't attractive, statistically most men are obese low testosterone broke asses who can barely take care of their shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:13 AM
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If other factors are equal then it's just gaining experience and maturity that makes dating easier as you get older right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 12:06 AM
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If women are more abusive than men in relationships how come more men don't turn up dead the way women do?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 01:46 PM
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I'm bisexual though and women ain't great either tbh asexual are the only ones who can be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 12:27 AM
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Op wasn't coming at this from good faith and neither are you so yes in my anecdotal experience men are all trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 12:26 AM
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Good and bad people don't exist people just do people stuff, and we should all probably be having sex right now also drugs are great cmv.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:54 PM
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If I had a nickel for every time "sorry I have a boyfriend" "he doesn't have to know" or the worse one I've had "sorry I have a girlfriend" " how long have you been lesbian? Wanna try dick?" I would have a sizable collection of nickels. Idk what reality op lives in where men are saints that do no wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:21 PM
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I was talking to a guy a little bit while in line at the store a while ago, and I gave him my number as he was leaving but he never called. I wasn't even trying to hook up with tbh him he just seemed lonely and I wanted to help.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 03:44 PM
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You got to treat every gun like it's loaded because you can't tell by looking at it, same rule applies to men. I bet OP is a nice enough seeming person irl but then you check his reddit and find out he thinks sex workers deserve rape, he's a perfect example really.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 01:14 PM
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Sex is an act of self expression, people who are bad at sex are people who are bad at communicating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 12:21 PM
4

No if Ryan gosling was stalking me I'd be even more freaked out cause nobody would believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 05:01 PM
3

Romance movies are the worst about this, too. Yall ever watch "the notebook" so many women love that movie, but if a man acted that way irl they would file a restraining order against him real quick. It's a bad message to send out fr, no means no it doesn't mean try harder and annoy tf out of someone with zero interest in you, rejection sucks but not as much as wasting your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 12:19 PM
1

Being pursued constantly just makes us numb to the attention and distrust people's intentions. Ime as a bisexual it seems like the women I've dated generally put more effort into relationships than men, but this is anecdotal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:50 PM
7

If you weren't pursuing her of course she's gonna get turned off, why would she put in effort to chase someone who don't even want her? That's not how female sexuality works.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:42 PM
2

It's not a good feeling to be envied, if you're a good person the thought of making others insecurities come out will bother you and often make you want to overcompensate by being stupidly pleasant to people. That's why pretty girls often go out of their way to compliment other people's appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:18 PM
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I think that's pretty interesting and all, but it's just one person's limited experience. Also, they only focus on how Ned is perceived by women. There's not much in there about how men treat you differently if you're a man. Luckily there's an entire community of people who transitioned from one to the other and a lot of their experiences seem to have commonalities. here's a time's article that's more in depth
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:01 PM
1

Reproduction is just something living things do by compulsion; it's not the answer to the philosophical question of the meaning of life. I'm done taking a shit now so I'm not wasting anymore time arguing semantics with u.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:53 PM
4

No you're still missing the point, spreading seed is only a tiny fraction of what men are programmed to do biologically in order to reproduce. Emphasizing this one thing so much and ignoring all the other elements of biology is not a sound scientific argument that you want it to be, it just shows your bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:44 PM
2

You're just talking about the dictionary definition of life and you still left out a lot of stuff. "Life is defined as any system capable of performing functions such as eating, metabolizing, excreting, breathing, moving, growing, reproducing, and responding to external stimuli."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:41 PM
5

So infertile people can't have meaningful lives? Childfree people by choice? If having kids brings meaning to your life that's cool, but some people definitely got no business having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:23 PM
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Not necessarily, but what good is spreading your seed if all your offspring died because you left them to go spread more seed?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:19 PM
7

You seem to be asking for a biological answer for a philosophical question, the meaning of life is to live and you're overthinking it tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:11 PM
1

Didn't he also die a virgin? Einstein cucked his first wife after didn't give her any credit for the work she did on his theory. I think it's clear who the chad of the two is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 05:18 AM
1

People choose the partner they think they deserve, if a woman complains all the time about not being able to find a man who respects her it's because deep down she doesn't respect herself. The same thing happens with men too it's some weird freudian thing probably idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 04:32 AM
0

Omg I tried to learn sax too back when I still had braces it was the worst thing ever, I'll stick to my string picking tyvm. On a side note, nothing is more painful as a female musician than some fuck boy with an out of tune acoustic and a completely unwarranted sense of confidence 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:22 PM
2

Guitar is literally the easiest shit to learn, don't get mad get good.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:08 PM
1

Can we keep our arguments grounded in reality? where over 50% of households are dual income and having 25% of the labor force up and quit would wreck the economy? Are you really advocating that instead of having 80% of women chasing 20% of men that we should have 100% of women chasing the 1% of men? Isn't the traditional gender role just beta bux to the max where you pay for everything don't have sex until marriage and then she fucks the milkman on the side anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:01 PM
18

So that's why you see so many rail skinny guys with slightly chubby girls. It's all making sense now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:43 PM
1

Weird example since giving consent isn't like some new age feminist concept, but I see what you're getting at. I would say more often irl, you see the reverse women are expected to be traditional homemakers, while also holding down a 9-5 and contributing 50% financially. You see so many men complaining about women wanting it all or being gold diggers, but yet they can't even fulfill their own traditional gender role.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:29 PM
1

What you described as normie culture is actually just tradcon. Men doing all the courting work and women being good and modest. Modern culture is more of a free for all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 02:30 PM
2

I work out for myself; mostly, I need the endorphins to keep me out of spiraling depression, apart from that it really makes me feel more comfortable in my own body and helps to improve my self discipline and motivation. I agree with your friends point though if you want to be more attractive to other people, then you're not really doing it for them so much as your own desire for gratification from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:10 AM
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Personally I think it's a weird byproduct of that silly confirmation bias. Everyone around you pointing out the obvious fact that your partner is a fuckin loser, and so you want to double down on the dumb decision convincing yourself that you're smarter/more perceptive and you can see something in him that no one else can. This isn't exactly a gendered thing humans are all irrational animals, but this particular expression of this does tend to be majority female. The male version is called being…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:52 AM
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Who hurt you bro? That's like so many words to say you think all women are liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:42 AM
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It could be it's just the vibe you give people that's the problem? I don't know what guys even like honestly. I get a lot of attention from them but I also hear that I give off a "good girl vibe" even though I'm actually a rabid fucking animal. Maybe they don't even know what they want, so just focus on what you want specifically from a partner and look for someone with those qualities. Also don't place so much value on male attention/validation because most of its worthless and they just want s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 04:24 AM
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This, just being a healthy weight automatically puts you at like a seven in the south. Your stats are kinda relative to the average stats of those around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:27 AM
3

See you're assuming all this stuff and putting words in my mouth. I never said I was right to attack him, but he shouldn't have assumed I'd be fine with him choking me that's also assault. I've swung at people because they woke me up the wrong way from a nap that's just part of having ptsd and it sucks but the only thing I can do is warn people not to be too close. You're also assuming that I lived with this dude I never said any of that we barely knew eachother at all otherwise he might've know…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:58 PM
5

You should never choke someone without asking if it's ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:29 PM
3

And choking someone isn't violent, and wtf is wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:25 PM
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You're assuming a lot of details, I don't even remember tbh cause it was more of a ptsd reaction but he said that I attacked him pretty bad and wrecked his bedroom in the process. I guess I kinda made it sound like I was one punch man or something, but it wasn't like that it was more like a wild animal with rabies or something. If he had actually been trying to kill me he might've put more effort into his initial grip idk. I mostly just remember crying and vomiting once I snapped out of it. Also…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:27 PM
10

It's kinda funny looking back now but at the time I was super pissed off, I probably called him a dumbass a dozen times during that short car ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:23 AM
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A guy pushing my boundaries is one of the worst turn offs there is, best case scenario I'll leave immediately. I cracked a dudes jaw once cause he started choking me during sex trying to be kink, but he didn't communicate any intentions so I assumed he was trying to kill me and punched him as hard as possible, didn't even feel bad about it while I was driving him to the clinic. This is just terrible advice all around. Good communication = good sex. If you're forcing someone to do something, they…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:27 PM
1

Wtf same google probably knows my cycle better than I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 01:15 AM
2

Lol probably the only way his lizard ass gets any action.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:41 PM
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When the app was down for a while a few weeks back, I was getting way more shit done. I should delete this app and my Facebook too last time I got laid google started giving me ads for pregnancy tests the next morning shit freaks me out listening like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 01:51 PM
1

It must be nice to have a rich dad, I think I'll just stick to my current diet of caffeine, nicotine, and cortisol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 07:26 PM
1

So just be a "natural" beauty by spending hundreds of dollars on imported skin care products, dedicating hours of physical labor to fitness, having a disciplined diet and also do all this without making any of your own money because work is stressful and that's bad for your appearance. That's so realistic and achievable for the average woman. The point I'm getting at is whenever I go out looking grubby unwashed no makeup etc. People think I'm an awkward high-school kid despite being 22. When you…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 05:37 PM
2

You have no idea what you're talking about stop making up imaginary bullshit to prove a point that doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 03:11 PM
2

Natural beauty is such bs and women know this most of all given the ridiculous efforts we go to look pretty. If you actually go all natural you just look like a dirty hippy cause that's what you are. Also doesn't pretty much everyone go through an awkward fashion stage at some point in life? pretty sure there's like an entire subreddit about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 05:27 AM
3

Ik some guys get really pussy whipped but there's also some standards that are reasonable, could you be more specific?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 11:29 PM
7

What do you mean by weaponize sex? Can you give some examples please?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 02:19 PM
1

Give women crazy chimpanzee strength so that even though they're smaller than men they can still compete with them physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 11:43 PM
7

The difference between self confidence and arrogance is competency I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 11:41 PM
1

It's true, men actually get the chance to be seen for their personality but they still squander the opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 01:54 PM
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Physical appearance isn't as heavily prioritized for men as it is for women, an ugly man can afford to be a total jackass and still get a woman where an ugly woman will have to over compensate for lacking looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 01:39 PM
1

Ikr I hate it here
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 01:11 AM
2

Women don't criticize men for sleeping around though unless they're doing it behind their wife's back. It literally never happens for the reason I already stated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 01:42 PM
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Men don't get slut shamed though, even the word itself has the connotation of relating to females. A guy who fucks a lot has game, a woman who fucks a lot is a whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 01:32 PM
3

Thanks for sharing these resources I might read them later.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 01:25 PM
2

In my state it's completely legal as long as one party knows there's recording.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 01:21 PM
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Well if this entire debate is going to be based on personal anecdotes, then in my experience men slut shame women way more. They gossip more and make fun of them behind their backs, take/share nudes without consent, and generally view them as damaged and worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 02:19 AM
8

My reaction to anyone crying is hugs and comfort gender doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 01:38 PM
13

Just because you can doesn't mean you should, I've had 50 yr old men trying to get my number and telling me about how their exes are all crazy with no self awareness to the fact that they decided to have a ltr with someone 30 years their minor. Really what do you expect to happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 11:14 PM
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If they take zodiac signs seriously it's a turn off, if they know a whole lot about it I find that very suspicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:03 PM
1

Would it matter even if you could tell?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:33 AM
0

But how many puffles do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 10:22 PM
1

Gotta add anal to the vows too then ✅
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:56 PM
2

Does your wife know you're going to fuck other women if she gets sick? Should've put that part in the vows.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:50 PM
1

Too young for a relationship outside of club penguin probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:44 PM
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Some never grow out if it and live with mommy forever and never get a gf it's really sad actually. Its bad for the man and bad for any woman he encounters.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 09:55 PM
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A lot of mothers will raise their sons to think that she's the only woman worth respecting, and instill all sorts of toxic stuff in their attempt at some weird pseudo-incestuous relationship with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:42 PM
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That's why its easy as fuck to not be one lol Fr it's not that hard, you literally just have to take care of yourself. If he would've showered more than once a week and cleaned his apartment so it didn't smell like a landfill constantly, there's a small chance I'd still be with him. Alot of people just don't understand that if you won't take care of yourself your problems don't magically go away, they just go to someone else instead. Most people want an equal partner not some overgrown child.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:22 PM
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I should clarify that is confusing, I mean to say they're not as big a deal once you're above a certain age but when you're still on the younger end of the spectrum it's just kinda unbalanced. That's also only for ltr casual stuff doesn't have this rule from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:11 AM
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I'm 22 so my advice take with salt always.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:50 AM
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I am a woman and I want to be replaced by a machine, or maybe become one? Still you probably shouldn't take advice from me, especially on relationships I have 4 gfs currently and idk wtf to do with any of them honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:49 AM
2

Post nut clarity exists for women too, maybe that's op's problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:46 AM
1

Maybe they think you're boring? Women are overwhelmed with options when dating so they can get easily distracted. Also you might just be really bad at sex, if that's the only thing they use you for and they don't even come back for seconds you aren't doing it very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:43 AM
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My rule of thumb now is if they're old enough to remember 9/11 they're probably too old for me, so for you just inverse it. If you want an actual relationship at least, it all depends on your priorities ig. Do you care about a partner having the same interests as you? do you care about having a partner that is self sufficient? Those type of things u know.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:38 AM
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I dated a guy who was like 27 when I was 19 we had pretty similar interests, and tastes in video games, conversations always flowed easy. Didn't work out cause he was a crusty loser and I dumped him after a few months. The generational gap isn't really a big deal it's more about the quality of character, that said dating anyone who's a teenager is a bad idea if you're not also a teenager and anyone willing to date a teenager is a big red flag imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:28 AM
1

Heterosexuals don't even exist bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 09:41 PM
14

This but unironically, the anti-natalists are right even if they're no fun at parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 10:18 PM
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I was legit rooting for my parents to divorce when I was 8 because they were so toxic together. Even though it wrecks your finances and is emotionally damaging all around, divorce is still better than teaching your kid to tolerate being miserable constantly for the sake of others. That's setting them up for a horrible and/or very short future.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 10:14 PM
1

Why are u responding to comments I made months ago? Do you want to chat? I'm down to be ur friend :) or we can fight if u want that's fun too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 09:40 PM
6

Exactly, as a woman the people who you trust the most are also most likely to fuck you up, so how would you even begin to trust people who don't know or care about you? Also of note everyone you ever get to know intimately starts as a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 09:37 PM
4

But who dies more? Also who initiated?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 09:03 PM
8

According to the 2010 National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey (NISVS): 4.7 million women are assaulted 686,000 women are raped 2.3 million women are stalked by intimate partners annually. Just to add the rate of intimate partner violence is 49% for women in my state and I know more than a few of these victims personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 08:54 PM
7

I'm probably projecting a bit lol, but ime even "straight women" are dtf if the stars are aligned right or whatever. Personally my thought is that 100% heterosexual people don't even exist. Men watch the porn with the big dicks after all, and people just gay it up when they're forced to be in same sex only scenarios like prison and Bible camp. Human sexuality is just wacky all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 08:46 PM
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It's the same as any other prejudice it's rooted in disgust. I don't really understand it either since most women are bi themselves you'd think most wouldn't have a stink about it, but people are strange animals and you can't expect them to behave logically.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 08:35 PM
1

Paint's almost dry now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 12:58 PM
2

That's one of my favorite hobbies!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 12:55 PM
5

No it's true, vaginas can sense fear in the hearts of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 12:42 AM
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It helps to gain insight into the perspective of mentally ill men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 12:39 AM
5

You huff olive oil and snort earth worms and that's a fact baby!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 12:35 AM
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Not really, that's kinda weak to let the circumstances you can't control effect your mind like that. Isn't stoicism like a big part of trp?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 11:50 PM
0

If all women are responsible for Stacy rejecting op in high-school, then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 11:45 PM
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I'm also surprised that you see the 'pretty ones' as getting rewarded I used the wrong wording I meant awarded like a trophy or something u know.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 01:56 PM
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Exactly! I got abused a shit ton growing up does that entitled me to a rich bf with chiseled abs? Not at all. I really don't understand the correlation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 01:54 PM
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How is any of this fair to women though? The pretty ones get to be rewarded to somebody and the ugly ones get bullied relentlessly if they're not ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 01:50 PM
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The real problem here is that OP was expecting life to be fair. Lower your expectations significantly that is the solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 01:37 PM
4

Case and point you had to repeat this exact sentiment twice and $5 says he still ain't gonna listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 01:01 AM
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Even just thinking every woman he's hooked up with had an orgasm is delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 12:18 AM
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For producing pornographic films is not a crime And it shouldn't be, I agree nothing wrong with making/consuming porn, but the adult film industry has the same problems as the regular film industry so its very sketchy. Also a lot of men really over do it and give themselves ed, there's also probably something to be said of the effects it could have on your perception of sex and women but idk much about psychology.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:20 PM
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Me being a woman probably helps, ig due to the frequency difference between the genders approach. Men approach more often than women so that def effects the stats for my success.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:52 PM
1

I was around 160lbs for a while coming off a medication that effected my metabolism, currently I'm 116lbs so you're wrong on both counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:38 PM
8

Damn it's true tho
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:24 PM
4

This sub is more fun with less rules but it's also a total shitshow. It's Lysistrata in this bitch fr.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:12 PM
1

I met a girl at the bar last weekend and that seems like a good place to meet them. Just try to be aware of your surroundings so you can notice if a girl is looking at you a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:53 PM
1

Since I don't have a dick I just use my toes for the same effect, I'm sure plenty of women can't see their toes straight down similar to men who can't see their dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:47 PM
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Pursuing men is like way easier probably don't even need to use any words, could use some kinda mating dance like a bird and they'd be down still. Women tend to be harder to impress, also the pretty ones make me a little nervous and stuttery.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:44 PM
1

I'm a little bit sorry, but really what were you expecting clicking it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:48 PM
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I think anyone struggling with rejection should do like diogenes and start asking statues for money as a sort of practice rejection. Idk maybe that's crazy but it makes sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:43 PM
5

True, I'm smoking rn and I fully endorse living your worst life possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:41 PM
1

True, but I think that's more of a supply demand issue isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:38 PM
1

This is a big part of it, you gotta have timing and perception skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:37 PM
3

Personally I'm a bi woman so I've been on both sides, imo it's better to be pursuing women than be pursued by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:36 PM
3

Simple don't live in NYC. Don't really see why anyone would want to actually live there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:34 PM
1

Don't approach someone looking at their phone with their headphones in, that's universal code for "leave me be pls".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:13 PM
1

That's how you gotta do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:12 PM
1

I see you're a real player, you know whats up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:11 PM
1

For every 30-50 lbs of excess fat you lose an inch of visible peen. It also causes desensitization as it causes more and more constriction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:06 PM
1

You're welcome 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:03 PM
1

It definitely takes more stamina, I'll give u that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:03 PM
0

That's true, sometimes you just gotta take the rejection but that's also not that hard to deal with if you're mentally well at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:01 PM
1

U clicked the link at your own risk lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:59 PM
1

Congrats I hope it all goes well fr ❤
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:58 PM
2

If you don't want a romantic partner why don't you just abandon society and become a hermit? Hmmm? 🤔🤔🤔 checkmate femtards😩😩😫😭😤
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:49 PM
4

Apparently 1 in 3 men can't even see their own dicks cause their bellies are too fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:46 PM
12

100% fat girls have big titties and booty, fat guys have buried penis syndrome
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:43 PM
3

So then just rub sandpaper on your dick and pay taxes. You'll be achieving the same things, supporting exploitation and violence while giving yourself ED.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:39 PM
10

I don't have a dick but if I did you bet I'd be helicoptering that shit everywhere. I was reading my source I misunderstood it, for every 30-50 over you lose an inch of visible penis, it's talking about visible to the owner though since 1 in 3 men are too fat to see their own dick. Also there's something called buried penis syndrome. here's a link with more info
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:36 PM
14

Porn makes your dick dry out and stop working, also the industry itself is full of exploitation and rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:27 PM
13

Being fat makes your dick shrink actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:20 PM
1

But what if it has ajustable settings?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:16 PM
2

Tyvm I love getting stupid on purge week
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:12 PM
1

But we could build the robots too be feminist too, consider the possibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:11 PM
1

I don't post shit to make anyone look bad, I'm just fucking around bullshitting on the internet. What's your problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:09 PM
1

Please I want a machine to steal my job too, then I'll go live in a cave an do nothing and it'll be amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:16 AM
1

I am a woman myself, it's humanity I have a problem with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:15 AM
3

Exactly, at the end of the day if they can just make a roomba that folds laundry, and cooks, and has a 12" cock, then we'll all be able to spend more quality time with our families instead of doing repetitive labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:23 AM
1

My god, the love of my life was right in front of me this whole time and I was so blind I didn't even see her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:19 AM
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I'm 22 lol if I was 30 I'd probably have better shit to do than trolling pedos like u on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:17 AM
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women are the ones that need relationships to be happy not men If that's the case why y'all shoot up schools when you can't get a gf? women will get jealous Think about it, the women want the sex robots too so they can go there own way without men calling it a crisis since they'll be distracted by the russy. They won't have to be expected to do all the woman work and hold down a full time gig because robot gf can take care of the menial bullshit while they do real work. With all the extra time t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:11 AM
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Exactly marriage is a huge decision and 20 somethings are inexperienced and barely even know who they are themselves, how would they be a better option to spend your life with unless you wanted an idiot you could manipulate easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:51 AM
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Underrated imo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:49 AM
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I mean have you ever seen a robot 🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:48 AM
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Statistically speaking, your vibrator is better than a man by at least 60%.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:46 AM
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If they can make the robot sex slaves shape-shifting and capable of folding laundry, I think it might bring about world peace. At least until they turn against us.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:40 AM
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When exactly did the movement start? Do you even know?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:38 AM
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It's just weird af that someone who's only been an adult for one decade is too old, just admit you want to fuck kids already jeez it's pretty obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:36 AM
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I think those human women deserve a break from the woman grind, let the robots take it over you earned it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:30 AM
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All I'm saying is if 30 is too old then wtf is too young? It's very suspicious. If anyone posting here is actually over the age of 25 then this post probably should be on an fbi watch list cause that's even more sus.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:28 AM
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It all makes sense if you don't think about it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:22 AM
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U got me 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:22 AM
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Like it or not ladies This is the ideal wife
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:20 AM
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Literally like a decade ago the wall was at 40 and it was still arbitrary bullshit then as it is now. The fact that it keeps getting shorter and shorter despite increasing life expectancy, is probably a symptom of everyone in Hollywood being a pedophile or something. In reality more 30 years old women are hot by conventional standards than 30 year old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:19 AM
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Are you a supporter of child marriage? Cause 30 is far from expired, a 30 year old person has only even been legal for 12 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:52 AM
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I sell weed as a 9-5 job legally and it takes all the coolness out of it really fast. Also we probably have more in common than you'd expect I bet we watch the same anime or something. Btw I'm calling bullshit on that first bit sounds like sour grapes imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:48 AM
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Ig test is the wrong word, if a guy is pushing it against your wishes it literally means they care more about how their dick feels for 5 minutes than your health safety and the possibility of creating a whole ass human being. It means they're more likely to stealth you and disregard your well being in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:40 AM
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Just weed now it barely counts as a drug
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:33 AM
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I used to hate them too before I realized I was just allergic to most of them. It would leave me in severe pain for a week afterwards but then I switched now I love them cause they protect from disease and pregnancy. Even though most stds are treatable they're still a pain in the ass and a doctors bill. Also it's a good test for if a guy respects your boundaries, if he tries to fight it, don't fuck him he'll probably just give you chlamydia anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:58 PM
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It's just cause I'm an ex junkie I had to reread that and it makes sense now, still could you describe sex in a less sexy way? doubtful. Also I'm high lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:43 PM
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Oh the way it was worded sounded like a needle injection maybe I'm just a crackhead though. I'd say using a condom always is good that's what I do and also how I found out I was allergic to latex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:40 PM
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I'm not even gonna bother looking it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:37 PM
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He was talking about intravenous drug use, wtf are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:35 PM
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It's true tho
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:36 PM
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Bi guys are great and I really don't get why they seem to get a lot of shit for it. Rules for them are the same since they can make baby. I honestly haven't decided my rule for guys with vasectomy, I just know the last guy who told me he had one was a fuckin liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 02:01 PM
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Did you miss the part where I explicitly said I speak with my partner b4 and make sure we're in agreement?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 01:55 PM
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That's a good point I really can't argue with, do you think if you left a watermelon in vinegar it would become squishy like the trick with the egg?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 01:53 PM
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Tf does that even mean? I'm not lowering my standards, also "don't abandon your offspring" is a pretty low expectation. Are you like pro single motherhood or something? Why should I fuck somebody who's going to leave me raising a kid alone? I don't even have health insurance that's a terrible idea. I'm not making any assumptions either I talk with partners about what to do in case of conception make sure we're on the same page. The only person making assumptions here is you, and at this point it…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 04:54 AM
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Sorry to say, we're not in the 1950's here. Sure they don't want to be the sole provider, most realistically can't in this economy, but most men still want to have children at some point in their lives. Most women as well, usually ime the men say they want 3-4 and women say 1-2. I suspect the difference is mainly due to who has to push the watermelon sized infant out of their genitals.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 02:52 AM
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Also what does Texas have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 02:46 AM
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That's exactly what I was getting at very concise thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 02:45 AM
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Interesting... your rule for women is the same rule that men have for women, for the most part. Men want a woman they can smash all day long and no risk of pregnancies. That's not really the case though most men want a family and that involves procreation. Also the main rule men seem to have for women is don't be fat/old/ugly but I might be wrong since I'm not a man. As for the study idk of its veracity but it makes sense intuitively, so it's probably wrong and more nuanced than we think.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 12:45 AM
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I wouldn't sleep with anyone who wouldn't be a responsible parent to their offspring regardless of commitment to me, if you're engaging in the act of sexual intercourse you're assuming the risk of becoming a parent by doing so. How is any of this covert?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 12:39 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 12:26 AM
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That's a good question, I would say it's really not that different for me personally. I probably have a higher base level attraction to women than men but it's a ptsd thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 12:22 AM
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the talk of "female sexuality" being different than men's is a lie It's different because it requires different stimulus and has different reactions. Sexuality =/= libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 10:03 PM
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As a bisexual woman I got two sets of standards for men and women, and yes that's sexist, or hypocritical, or whatever fuck it. It's not based off time frames, but for men I have to see them as someone who I could co-parent with amicably before I sleep with them. For women, there are no rules I can smash all day and no pregnancy risk to think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:54 PM
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This is a very deep topic actually. I tend to see weakness in two categories. An inability to overcome your own basic desires Doing things that are driven by fear or anxiety. I can definitely agree on the first lack of control being a weakness. I'm not entirely sold on the second though, fear is a perfectly valid motivation for action imo. There's definitely an extent to which this is true and I can see where you're coming from, but our emotions exist for a reason and fear is one that is most of…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 08:18 PM
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Also vikings who are often considered an archetype of masculinity in RP circles were super big on adoption they even made a word for it that I can't pronounce " Knésetja".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:51 PM
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And again the whole subject is about women, not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:45 PM
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Males need to know they are only providing their resources to their child. It's why a lone female with cubs has them killed before he mates with her This has nothing to do with the argument at hand though that "women are worse slut shamers than men and it's because of evolution" what you describe is males killing other males offspring to eliminate genetic competition. Again slut shaming isn't an inherent trait of humans, nomadic humans were closer to free love hippies than traditional gender rol…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:18 PM
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Show me the clip then darling, I love a good gore filled nature video.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:55 PM
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Weak men have no place in this world. I'm curious what would you define as weak/strong men, clearly letting a woman humiliate you publicly is on the weak list so what else? I have some opinions too but you go first.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:54 PM
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Idk about that but I'll definitely concede that women can be just as vicious about it as men. I'd need more stats about the comparative frequency but that stuff can be hard to measure accurately. I mostly disagree with all the bad faith evo-psych bullshit in the post. Slut shaming isn't an inherent trait it's a learned behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:48 PM
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Also just to add I didn't even disagree with the conclusion necessarily, because women can be just as vicious about slut shaming as men. I just disagree with the evo-psych bs that got us there, it isn't an inherent trait it's a conditioned behavior and this is objectively proven.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:43 PM
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Idk I'd bet that wasn't her first time doing that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:21 PM
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That may be the case, regardless I'm probably going to hell for laughing about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:20 PM
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I met a lady on my 21st birthday her name was sparkle or diamond or some shit like that. She kept talking about this guy who was the love of her life and how she would've married him etc, but her husband was right next to her looking whipped af the whole time. It was pretty sad and kinda funny, but some people got no self awareness. That said I don't see anything wrong with people having different standards for their ltr than for quick flings, but that isn't the same as being the second option. …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:52 PM
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"Due to the promiscuous mating behavior of female bonobos, a male cannot be sure which offspring are his. As a result, the entirety of parental care in bonobos is assumed by the mothers.[69] However, bonobos are not as promiscuous as chimpanzees and slightly polygamous tendencies occur, with high-ranking males enjoying greater reproductive success than low-ranking males." What were you saying about mammals being naturally monogamous? Edit: real classy saying things that are demonstrably false th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:05 PM
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Completely wrong, being a slut is human instinct that's been around since we were sexy little amoebas otherwise our species would've gone extinct. Nomadic homosapiens didn't even have the concept of currency or private property and if you can find any academic source stating otherwise I'd be very interested in reading that. Benjamin Franklin even made a comment about how often white settlers would run away and live with the native Americans, even after being ransomed by their English families, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 04:47 PM
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If you're going to base your world view and assumptions on "evolutionary psychology" you might want to actually study human anthropology for at least an hour or two before coming to wild af conclusions. People in this sub always mashing modern concepts of marriage and morality together with our ancient nomadic ancestors as if any of that makes sense historically or logically. Slut shaming wasn't even invented until after the agricultural revolution because that's when women became chattel proper…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 04:31 PM
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Being husband material just means you're interesting enough to keep her attention, and she enjoys your personality, spending time with you, doing things just to make you happy. Fwb just means she hits you up when her vibrator runs out of charge. It really just depends on your priorities whether or not you think it's a compliment for someone to want to use you as a sextoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 11:02 PM
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What if your wife turned out to be a pedophile or a murderer? Surely those things are worse than being cucked? What if she was being an active detriment to your survival and the tribe's survival? "Cheating" wouldn't get you a death sentence in nomadic society, as they were much more sexually liberal. Tribes did not have puritanical Christians marriage values, they weren't as hung up on the concept of property rights since no agriculture It just seems kinda like you're shoving a bunch of psuedo-a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 10:55 PM
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Back in tribal society being exiled from the tribe was a death sentence. Are you asking then if women should go down with their man for his crimes? Ride or die essentially? The answer is obviously fuck no, are you kidding? Consider if you would take a death sentence for a woman who committed some crime? If she was guilty what's the sense in an innocent man being punished as well, and if she loves you she wouldn't want that to happen, if she's innocent then it still doesn't help if you both die u…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 09:36 AM
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On a side note, being a criminal isn't very exciting irl op doesn't even try to make it sound exciting either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 09:26 AM
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Do these women chasing these criminal types have good fathers who were present in their childhood? Because I think that probably has a lot more to do with it than any sense of excitement. If it was just excitement they wanted they could just commit crimes themselves, but instead they get a man involved to compensate for the lack of a chaotic male figure they adapted to as a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 09:19 AM
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Even if true based on this thread, ending on that statement is kinda like accepting defeat True, it's not like men are incapable of learning it just doesn't seem to be a priority for a fair amount of them. It also seems that many don't understand the things which are visually arousing to them in porn don't necessarily feel pleasurable to women irl. I'm bi so I know it can be a struggle getting some women to climax, but if I can do it without even having a dick then men got no excuse lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 10:12 PM
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Maybe the ladies can speak up and tell me if toys beat real live men or not At least 65% lose to the vibrator if I'm being honest. Is that really even a surprise though? Just scrolling through this post seeing some of the notions men have about female sex toys, and it's obvious they don't understand how to please a woman sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 12:53 PM
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Depends on the individual really, I spent weeks designing my own tattoos then hours poking myself with a needle manually because I didn't have a gun at the time. A lot of people put thought and effort into their permanent body modifications. One of my friends has a tattoo as a memorial for her dead son and a lot of people do that kind of sentimental stuff too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 07:59 PM
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Right they seem to be going off a stigma that hasn't been prevalent for a few decades. Even good Christian girls get tattoos nowadays they just get the lame ones with bible scriptures and butterflies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 07:54 PM
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I haven't grown an inch since middle school and I've got one of those baby faces so I get mistaken for a kid pretty often, More often when I'm wearing no makeup though. One of my cousins is only 15 but he's a bit of a tank and I honestly thought he was older than me when I first met him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 07:46 PM
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It's weird cause it's a pretty common occurrence to be mistaken for older/younger esspecially if you're short. I still get carded at every club I go to so I must look like I could be a kid potentially.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:01 PM
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I think most of it is the filters it's crazy how some of them warp your entire skeletal structure, you can't get that effect through makeup alone, but the combination can easily make a 13 yr/old look like a decade older or a 40 yr/old a decade younger. If I remember correctly, there was a big controversy a few years ago over a Brazilian Instagram model who was only like 14 or some shit it tripped me out cause all her pictures made her look like a 20 something. It also probably doesn't help the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 02:47 PM
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I mean the difference between an 18 yr/ old and a 24 yr/old is just 6 years, how much can you really even age in that time-frame? I'll admit sometimes on tiktok it can be kinda hard to tell who's an adult or not but irl a teen wearing makeup usually just looks like a teen wearing make up to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 02:16 PM
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Men find insecure women sexy Maybe shitty men who want to manipulate easy targets, normal guys hate that shit too. It's just not appealing having to constantly reassure someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 10:29 PM
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Men asking this question is a huge turnoff imo, it just reeks of insecurity and envy. Every guy who's ever asked me about it was also a total fucking loser coincidentally. I think it's worth adding none of the women I've been with have ever asked only the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 12:29 PM
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Then explain what's so special about being nice? What makes it any different from just being a person who treats people with baseline respect? Its an attractive quality sure, but it's just one that's to be expected. Also please describe the flavor of water too while you're at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 10:19 PM
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Nice is as much a personality as water is a spice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 08:35 PM
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That's why so many women are going their own way lately no?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:48 PM
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Dammit not even 20 minutes and it's gone. I didn't think this one was that bad or low effort compared to some of the pointed bad faith questions that get asked of women here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:25 PM
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Omg I have a cousin that's 6'7 too and it's the same way. I've been trying to get him to let me ride around on his shoulders and pretend I'm a giant for a while now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:15 PM
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I'm going to need some popcorn for this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:09 PM
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If all you can say about someone is that they're nice they don't have a personality, being physically attractive isn't a personality, and being sane is a matter of your subjective opinion I've had guys say I'm crazy just because I texted them twice in a row.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:04 PM
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I would like someone in the 5’6 -5’8. I don’t want my kids to be short. That's fair enough gene expression is pretty wild though, for example all the women in my family are under 5'4 yet all the men are 6'3 and up somehow. Sometimes the tiniest women have the most giant sons idky.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:35 PM
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Well you didn't list any personality traits apart from "nice" which isn't even a trait it's just default, this implies you want a women for entirely ornamental purposes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:22 PM
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What is a reasonable n count by your standards? also I'm curious about the height preference? Are you like tall so no shorties allowed?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:18 PM
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Tf I just read
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:07 AM
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I had an ex who had a porn issue, I didn't have a problem with it at first cause I watch it too sometimes, and the thought of it never bothered me. It really wasn't a problem until he couldn't get hard anymore. I'm pretty hot so it wasn't a me problem, he just left his poor little noodle alone for a while and that fixed it. Idk the neuroscience behind all this stuff but watching too much of that stuff messes with your brains chemical balance ig.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 02:30 AM
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Just pointing out you sound exactly like the whiney bitches at fds when you complain how women have it so much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 12:31 PM
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Being feminine sucks because of how you're treated in response to it than anything. You literally listed being weak as a trait of femininity, and weakness is a trait sought out specifically by predators. If you are vulnerable you will be a target. Same as it goes in every other species.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 06:12 PM
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I swear I've seen this exact comment with the genders reversed somewhere, it's just grass is greener bullshit either way. Men have it tough so do women, life is just hard for everyone so why get hung up on comparing misery?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 06:06 PM
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That's alpha af no joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 05:52 PM
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I've still got that kindergarten shit going on where I bully people that I like. Not like in a mean way I'll just be teasing and usually they're able to laugh at themselves a bit too. If it does turn out they can't take a joke or don't like my sense of humor then we probably weren't very compatible anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 05:39 PM
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It's a joke not a gospel. Ask any comedian who doesn't have their head way up their ass, and they'll tell you themselves not to take them seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 05:28 PM
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It is pretty funny ngl it's just weird how some people take comedians so seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 05:26 PM
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A bill burr joke isn't really a valid source of data, men do this shit too all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 02:56 PM
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My link broke :'( Anyways you going to just keep saying everyone else is full of shit besides you or did you have an actual argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 04:05 PM
1

[actual stats instead of bullshit anecdotes](http://"Despite Efforts, Sexual Assaults Up Nearly 40% in US Military" https://www-military-com.cdn.ampproject.org/v/s/www.military.com/daily-news/2019/05/02/despite-efforts-sexual-assaults-nearly-40-us-military.html/amp?amp_gsa=1&amp_js_v=a6&usqp=mq331AQKKAFQArABIIACAw%3D%3D#amp_tf=From%20%251%24s&aoh=16304998916457&referrer=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com&ampshare=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.military.com%2Fdaily-news%2F2019%2F05%2F02%2Fdespite-efforts-sexual-ass…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 12:41 PM
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An interesting case study for r/menwritingwomen
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 12:35 PM
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You're probably right, this guy owns a whole ass dispensary so I should at least get him to pay for my college with that weed money.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 02:35 PM
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That's where they get off on having you control their finances right? I can get with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 02:29 PM
2

That's a lot of questions but yes to all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 02:29 PM
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So I found a guy who wants to be my sugar daddy, but I'm not confident that my daddy issues and money hunger are bad enough to qualify me for the position, do y'all have any advice for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 02:21 PM
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They keep saying that choosing who's born is the biggest responsibility ever and all that shit, but then they just forget that many women can give birth as young as 12 years old, and having that ability at such a young age is a huge burden that can lead to horrible consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 02:06 PM
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This isn't an argument darling.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 01:06 PM
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If this was actually the case that would mean all the women would have to be partying with eachother, as youthful men are not out there in the clubs outnmbering women by a 1 to 3 ratio typically. Assuming everything you've said is the accurate reality, what would be the solution? Everyone get hitched in their 20s? Everyone I've known to get married in their 20s has also gotten divorced by their 30s and that seems to be the statistical trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 01:04 PM
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True it's all an ideology based in envy, which is why taking the red pill is the first step to taking the black pill and becoming an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 12:53 PM
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So do men not also go through a party phase in their youth only to settle down later in life? It seems what you call af/bb is literally just people growing up and settling into ltr.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 12:47 PM
1

It seems like it's really the other way around no? You can't get a gf because you're such a mess and you need to get your head straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 07:58 PM
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I tend to like men who look breedable and subservient, maybe I'm am outlier on this but I kinda doubt it. Oddly enough I also prefer women who could crush me idky.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 07:55 PM
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Idk if you can blame this one all on capitalism, after all the men are the ones creating the demand in the first place. Also sexwork predates capitalism and college by a few hundred thousand years.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 11:18 PM
1

How exactly are women as a collective supposed to change men's priorities? They have a will of their own and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 10:21 PM
1

How are men buying their school books? Massive amounts of debt. Have you ever even had to pay rent or are you like 16?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 12:23 PM
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It's not about making any kind of statement, it's just pragmatic. Have you seen the cost of college? Even just rent takes up 50% of my budget, how am I supposed to afford books and shit without stripping or selling a kidney? Work 6 hours to make $50 or twirl around a pole and do the splits to make $50? I'm just trying to find one leg up in a system rigged against me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 03:43 AM
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That sucks I hope you recover quickly, also congrats on surviving another year!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:15 AM
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Why do I bother working so hard at my 9-5 that can't even afford rent? All the strippers I've talked to make what I make in a week in a night. Society values our looks more than our brains, then gets mad at us when we use that to profit? What a lousy deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:01 AM
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That's a fair reaction, even people who know how to fight still freeze up sometimes in situations like that. Still, all of the Brazilian women I've met are not the type that you'd wanna mess with, also a good majority of them would probably have boyfriends who wouldn't take that kind of behavior very well either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 11:36 PM
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It also sounds like a good way to get your ass kicked, regardless which culture you happen to find yourself in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 10:58 PM
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Sorry I just couldn't resist the temptation, ig that is my actual flaw.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:48 PM
1

You're right, well...fuck it time to start an OF I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 06:54 PM
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My rp dad was trying to convince me to get a sugar daddy a few weeks ago, I told him that was stupid to depend on someone else like that makes you extremely vulnerable, he was just like "oh that makes sense ig". That being said I'm working full time and barely afford rent so if you have health insurance hmu and I'll marry you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 06:28 PM
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Communication is important and all but it is kinda annoying to have to give your partner a step by step whilst you're trying to get off. If I have to tell you to give me a spanking it won't feel as good as if you did it spontaneously. There's a limit to that for sure though, I've had too many men try to go straight for anal without asking or even lubing up first. There's probably a good middle ground in there somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 01:06 PM
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Happiness seems like a pretty subjective thing to try to measure and qualify and Marriage definitely isn't for everyone. There's some study I saw saying husbands on average create about 7 hours of extra domestic work for their wives so that sounds a little stressful. There's some studies saying marriage increases or decreases your life expectancy but they're probably bullshit seems like a big correlation causation fallacy imo, also they tend to assume people will just be married for life and tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 12:52 AM
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If that's accurate it's pretty interesting, I figured since men seem to kill themselves more and make up the majority of prison/homeless populations and since mental illness is a huge factor in all these things, that would mean men have more mental illnesses but ig the symptoms present differently between the genders and that would also explain this discrepancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:58 PM
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Did she not support him through his career and raise up his children? That's the reason she gets money from him and you say it's bullshit? Also why are you so eager to suck billionaire dick like you'll ever be one?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:05 PM
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For me I like the artistry of applying makeup and having it look perfect, but if I wasn't expected to wear makeup then I'd be a Tarzan ass bitch for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:55 PM
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But math hard and me want to be angrey 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:46 PM
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Look at the homicide rates and who's committing them, look at intimate partner violence stats. Yeah it is a shitty world to be female in. Just last week I was staying with my friend she's not wanting to be alone cause her bf brutally assaulted her back in April and they only put a warrant out for him a few days ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:42 PM
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Women don't become ugly as soon as they become 30 Fr they think like as soon as the clock strikes 12 on your 30th birthday you shrivel up like a raisin and your reproductive system falls out your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:30 PM
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You already did
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:18 PM
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It's not just that men aren't needed by women, humans in general are not needed by society for the most part. The trap of modern society eliminating hardship and strife from everyday life, but it's in the face of hardship you get to be needed and valued.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:13 PM
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Statistically men are more effected by mental illnesses but women are more likely to seek treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:02 PM
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Idk man those catholic girls tho
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:21 AM
2

Fuck off with the pro-anorexia slogans
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:26 AM
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I think I get what you're getting at, so kinda like how guys who wear basketball shorts and socks with the slides constantly are typically horrible people. Comfortable but horrible still.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:22 AM
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Is it only considered low inhibition when women do it though? Cause it seems that nobody gives a shit about men having tattoos that's completely fine?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:19 AM
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It's good people have their preferences ig it just sounded weird phrased like that. My preferences are for men who don't even exist and I'll probably die alone lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:09 AM
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I’m white and don’t typically fancy black women 100% sure the feeling is mutual.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:01 AM
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Great, if I could be honest as well, nobody cares about your opinion and nobody even asked you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 12:59 AM
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Is there still a stigma against girls with tattoos? That's like one of the lightest body modifications you can get these days. What a fucking boomer take, that dumbass is probably still on dial up internet using floppy disc's and shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 10:47 PM
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Frankly I never understood it, maybe cause I'm bisexual? I just see a woman fixing a car or shooting a gun and think "damn that's sexy af" and the reaction from straight men to me doing these things is either similar to mine or they feel insecurities about their masculinity. Idk I ain't a shrink.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:37 PM
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I'm not asking you to fix all the world's problems I'm saying find a better way to cope. You're never going to be free from circumstances but you're free to choose the mindset you approach them with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:33 PM
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Irl men love it when women take interest in their hobbies idk why you're complaining, my cousins got super excited teaching me to shoot a crossbow a few months ago I think they're trying to make me a hunter lol. If you really want male only spaces they still exist all over the place, just cause boy scouts decided to give their counselors the opportunity to molest little girls as well didn't really change much. As far as I understand it the "toxic masculinity" stuff mostly boils down to "don't be…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:29 PM
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Just because there's larger social issues at play doesn't invalidate individual actions. Yes the trends are real, but the way you've spent enough time online to know them is probably a good sign you need some help.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:19 PM
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You can sit around blaming society all you like, but at the end of the day if you don't have any friends it's your own fault. That's not to say society isn't alienating or it's flawless, but maybe get out of your own way once in awhile?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 12:44 PM
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How are women stopping men from having friends? That's got literally nothing to do with us?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 12:34 PM
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Because your three options (according to the women on this sub) are wage slaving to survive and otherwise getting nothing out of life, dying on the streets, or dying in a cell. Isn't this the same exact options for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 12:29 PM
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Yes a retired military general/prince, who was in line to inherit the throne.You gotta rewatch the show he's literally the best character and his entire arc is about fatherhood/masculinity and there's a lot of depth there, for a kid's show the writing is really damn good. I never fully appreciated his character until I watched the show as an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 02:34 AM
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My friend gave me a good standard to hold men to recently "don't have sex with anyone you wouldn't want to raise your child" and given there's always a risk of pregnancy I think this is a good standard to hold. Before that it seemed like guys were just kinda drifting into my life by chance cause I wasn't consciously seeking out any specific traits, and that's how you end up wasting time on fools who don't deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 02:01 PM
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Legit I was just thinking of the difference between uncle Iroh and firelord ozai from ATLA if you've ever seen that show.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:32 PM
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What you mean paternity testing? Or coerced pregnancy? Aren't there already legal avenues and protections in regards to both of these things?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 09:58 PM
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If you're going to bitch about women not being feminine you should at least tell them what you mean by that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 09:55 PM
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I think this all comes down to definitions in the end, people have different ideas of what it actually means to be a man/woman and the definitions have been changing alot lately with the erosion of trad gender roles. Lots of people seem to think masculinity means having muscles and being violent and independent, but in my mind being a man is about having honor and humility being able to draw on the strength of others without shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:22 PM
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It's only a stalemate cause you ignored all the points I made earlier, about how men already do abandon their children financially at higher rates than current abortion rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:05 PM
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If you don't want a baby or the financial burden of raising a child for 2 decades then don't have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:43 PM
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Sorry I was being kinda rude and you're totally right bro. so even as a poor struggling artist i still manage to attract women. Are you kidding women love that shit, just not the ones over 30 who know better lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:41 PM
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If women have the option of actual abortion men should be able to make the decision to walk away as well. This sounds fair enough to me, still it seems like you don't fully understand how difficult it is to actually get the procedure. It's not like getting a flu shot at Walmart, if you're living south of the Mason Dixon line but you're not a rich bitch, then odds are you're not going to be able to get one. Financial abortion though technically illegal is still easier to achieve than getting a le…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:35 PM
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Why u gotta make it all about you? Did anyone ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:20 PM
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Nobody ever said change was easy but it is certainly inevitable, I'm sure as long as we all have solidarity in our fights against all the various injustices, then we'll be on some Star trek shit in no time at all. Gender as a whole is just gonna be obsolete in a few decades anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 01:05 PM
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Then we're on the same side, please refrain shooting yourself in the foot with the defeatist vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 12:42 PM
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I didn't mean to trivialize them but point out y'all give up before you even started and it isn't even that bad yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 12:41 PM
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Come on women ain't even had the right to vote and they still got shit changed, what's you're biggest gripe anyways? Something about women not wanting to cook or having to pay child support?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 12:26 PM
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Modern women are so entitled that the majority of them are actually fulfilling both gender roles nowadays. Who tf told them they could just have both?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 12:22 PM
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Does my 8 step skin care routine count as a lie as well? Cause at that point it's just effort and results no? Is it still lying if it's a lie everyone around you expects you to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:39 AM
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It's impossible to get solid numbers on these things but since data is what you're looking for the cdc ain't a bad place to start. " The most recent data, from the 2011 National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey (NISVS), indicate that over 10 million women and men in the United States experience physical violence each year by a current or former intimate partner. Further, over 1 in 5 women (22.3%) and nearly 1 in 7 men (14.0%) have experienced severe physical violence by an intimate pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:13 AM
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So personal growth and development is actually an evil feminist agenda and men are all victims. Have fun with that ig.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 07:53 PM
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That's a big assumption there, really if you're a man/woman/etc who's 4/10 or above then you've got a chance with me as long as your personality isn't too bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 07:31 PM
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That's not really an awalt thing it's more like I'm a healthy adult now and I don't seek external validation in the form of sexual exploitation. Learning how to deal with your daddy issues without being a cum dumpster is just a natural part of growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 07:24 PM
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Idk I'm pretty sure over half Amazon's employees are robots atm
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:14 PM
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People who don't want kids shouldn't have them. Literally every mother I've talked to has said they wished they would've waited longer to have them and advised me to live my own life a bit first.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:49 PM
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It really wouldn't be a big deal if all the men disappeared, like they're not already on the way to being replaced with automation completely? This is the 21st century we're talking about and alot of people in this thread are ignoring this idky. It doesn't really matter regardless, there would still be women with enough masc energy to fulfill any voids left by men and vice versa, humans are adaptable like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:40 PM
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I don't understand what mgtow guys mean when they say women's standards are too high, cause then the only standards they ever complain about is just height preference and being employed. I recently decided to raise my standards to include having to actually care about me as a human being, and I haven't gotten laid since.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:22 PM
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Rejection is the name of the game, don't give up so easily if you actually want this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 01:36 PM
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It's kinda disrespectful to the waitress, at least if he doesn't tip 30% for making her put up with his bs while she's working.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 04:19 PM
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It's wild how quick they're trying to get rid of roe vs wade, I got an abortion in a state where it's illegal to do that now not even a decade later. I think it's cause they want to grow a poor low class of workers since that class of people has been steadily shrinking since women gained reproductive autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 12:37 PM
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Fr I got an abortion in texas back when it was still legal for rape victims to do that and it was no cake walk.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 12:16 PM
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Lying =/= rape not even fuckin close. Men coerce women to birth children they don't want all the time as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 12:14 PM
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You ever take time off to work to go spend thousands of dollars traveling across the country to get a surgery? It's legal if you're a rich senators daughter for average people the restrictions are enough to make it PRACTICALLY illegal ( that's why I used that wording specifically) . Even if you're an actual child getting an abortion because you've been raped they still force you to listen to the heart beat. Also it's illegal after 6 weeks in most of the south now, which is before most women even…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 12:13 PM
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It's both heavily applauded and rare for the same reason, because of how frequently men abandon their offspring. It's weird how deadbeat dads don't get half as much vitriol as single mothers do for being the parents who stuck around. Some people on this sub also seem to think that terminating an unwanted pregnancy is as easy as getting a flu shot at Walmart, so thats a bit weird too considering it's practically illegal in half the USA atm.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 12:59 AM
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Statistically men cheat more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 01:13 PM
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I don't think you understand what settling means? When you settle for someone it means you're lowering your standards to be with them. A lot of people whore it up in their early twenties men as well and then calm down a bit and evaluate their priorities as they mature. That's just what happens when you grow up and your prefrontal cortex kicks in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 12:56 PM
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So yall think toxic masculinity isnt real, but if it is women are responsible for all of men's actions anyways? This post has the intelectual depth of a dhar man gold digger video.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 12:51 PM
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I can see the practical utility of it, but at the same time it's pretty weird, idk maybe op has compulsive tendencies or something it doesn't seem like the most neurotypical behavior imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 03:44 AM
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A lot of this same messiness persists in young women too, it just presents in different ways. I think young people just need time to figure themselves out before they get tangled up in someone else. If you focus on what you want out of life and strive towards that you're more likely to find someone compatible that way, if you don't then you'll still have had a fulfilling experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:46 AM
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Old men do prey on young women alot, ime I haven't gotten catcalled or harassed nearly as much since I became an adult. It's not necessarily the age that causes it though, predators just go after vulnerable victims and stupid ass young people are pretty vulnerable. It goes both ways old women will prey on young men as well, it's just not as prevalent ig.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 06:48 PM
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Congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 01:36 PM
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Those do get old after the zillionth time ngl, but I do find it interesting how human sexuality isn't nearly as polarized as people tend to think it is. Personally being locked up with a bunch of other girls made me quickly realize a few things about myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 12:49 PM
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You've never been to prison have you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:57 AM
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Pretty sure most guys have these exact same standards if not more expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:55 AM
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Thankful he didn't start peeing ig lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 09:00 PM
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Nothing wrong with being nice but we're kind of expected to put niceness over our boundaries. It's drilled in there pretty deep too, once I got flashed by a guy and I just said "no thank you" wtf am I thanking him for?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 01:43 PM
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So when women take their safety precautions it's "why won't you give a nice guy like me some trust?" And when they're victimized its "why don't you take your safety seriously?". Completely ignoring the statistical fact that most abuse comes from people close to us like family and friends, and blame all bad things on women cause I can't get my noodle wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 01:18 PM
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100% I also think the reverse notion of "give him a chance since he's unattractive he'll probably have a great personality" is also some bullshit. You can't tell how good a person is from their outside appearance it's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 05:56 PM
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This whole thread is just one big correlation=/= causation fallacy. Just cause someone is pretty doesn't mean they live in a totally different world from the rest of us, odds are life has/will beat the shit out of them as well as anyone else. Besides that I'm pretty sure this bitchy beautiful woman trope is only a thing in movies like mean girls. I've yet to meet anyone like this irl, but maybe they're just nicer to me cause I don't stare at them while theorizing about their innermost thoughts a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 02:21 PM
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Idk about the late 20s yet since I'm 21, but I'm really hoping once my prefrontal cortex finishes loading shit will start to make a little more sense. It seems like it's hard to have a concrete sense of your identity with so little experience, it's more difficult to try to find that if you're focusing a bunch of energy on someone else, who also probably doesn't know wtf they're doing either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 01:47 AM
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This isn't "liberal feminist" advice my 76 year old trump supporting aunt gave me this exact advice. It's good advice too! getting married and having kids young is generally a bad idea cause young people are stupid af. All my friends in their early 20s who do have kids are completely miserable and their relationships are falling apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 01:14 AM
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Subjective, because beauty is an idea it's not something you can actually measure. It varies heavily between cultures and times based on the ideas surrounding it constantly evolving. For example puritan women would pluck their eyelashes to appear more chaste and nowadays we put bat shit on our eyes to look hot. Edit: looked it up mascara is not actually made out of bat shit but that's not saying much compared to whatever other toxic chems are in makeup. Still gonna use it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:18 AM
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They also understand it when it comes to pegging apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:37 AM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:26 AM
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I'm just trying to say sex should never be a charity, it should be a desire and if it's only being done out of obligation thats pretty fucked up. I wouldn't ever want to find out someone had sex with me just to get me to shut up about it or because they felt obligated to, I'd rather be with a partner who genuinely desires sex with me. If sex is a chore in the relationship then it isn't much of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:42 AM
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Sex should never be a charitable act, it's an expression of love between to people that want to have sex. Why would you even want to have sex with someone who's not into it? That's selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:37 AM
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I was mostly referring to having sex with someone who doesn't want to aka rape, funny how you glossed over that bit. Supporting your partner through emotional distress is something people do in healthy relationships. Wanting a mommy that does everything for you and sucks your dick is not a healthy relationship, unless you're going by frueds standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:33 AM
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You've already admitted in this thread that buying flowers wasn't equal effort to cooking and cleaning but somehow now it's equal to giving someone your body? Tbh I'm starting to think you might be full of it op
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:25 AM
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Love language has nothing to do with expecting your partner to clean up after you like a child, or having sex with you when they don't want too. These things are just signs of a fucked up relationship that should die quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:22 AM
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I can view sex as an act of service if the woman isn't really all for it but does it anyway knowing that it means a lot to her husband/boyfriend. That just sounds like a sugary way of saying emotional coercion for sex is normal. Its really not though, if she's not into it just stop. Is it really worth messing with someones head just for dispassionate starfish sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:48 PM
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Why would you get into a relationship if not for yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:37 PM
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Just use the same rules you would for approaching a horse, never approach from behind and no sudden movements.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 11:43 PM
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"In general, men are more likely than women to cheat: 20% of men and 13% of women reported that they've had sex with someone other than their spouse while married, according to data from the recent General Social Survey(GSS)" there's something.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 12:56 PM
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I literally never said that but ok. Is it weird that many women have a different set of standards for casual sex partners than long-term relationships? I didn't even imply it was a bad thing cause it's not, men do it all the time they just get butthurt when we do it too OP is a great example of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 02:11 AM
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To the point where everyone thinks it's normal and expected for women to bleed and be in pain their first time, TIL this is not normal, thanks abstinence only education 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 10:49 PM
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If a woman says that it means you're not in her fuckzone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 10:36 PM
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True but those robot dogs are starting to get there, give it a few more years and you could probably get one. They're not as fluffy but still kinda cute, mostly freaky rn but I'm sure they'll work on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 03:03 AM
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Maybe mgtow is right just stay single bro, get a nice puppy or something for company instead. I'd take a puppy over a dysfunctional relationship any day. Ps: if you already have a dog please show cute dog pic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 02:43 AM
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So young women are bad relationship material because they're vapid and immature, but old women are also bad relationship material cause they're post wall hags with nothing to offer as well? What the heck do you even want?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 12:19 AM
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I feel that, dating anyone over a foot taller than you is such an inconvenience. You need a ladder just to kiss them and the sex is like trying to make two tetris pieces fit together when they're completely wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 03:12 PM
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Nobody should be obligated to sacrifice themselves like they're Jesus or some shit. However as a woman I feel a certain sense of responsibility for protecting other women as a part of girl code. For example if a random girl comes up and acts like we're besties meeting up, I know some creep is stalking her and she's looking for help. Women have an like an entire secret language for helping eachother out since men don't actually protect us as well as they'd think.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 01:09 PM
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Being victimized is an objectively more isolating experience than not being able to get a date. Large swaths of society don't support victims and rather blame them, this attitude is persistent throughout the legal system you mentioned being on their side. Often sexual assault cases are even swept under the rug to make people in charge of whatever authority look as if they're doing a good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 02:35 PM
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Basically they get so much attention that they begin to feel unsafe I mean it's not only on the internet where this happens something like 70% of women surveyed said they'd expirenced sexual harassment at work and they make up like 90% of sexual assault victims. What's worse being invisible or being a target?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 01:03 PM
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The colonization of the native Americans is still pretty relevant even if it didn't happen as recently as colonial India. I'm pretty sure like half of oklahoma is a reservation as of last year for example. Also America is still technically colonizing places like Puerto Rico, Guam, and American somoa. It's pretty complicated stuff, and the media doesn't ever want to talk about it so lots of people don't think/know about it. You're probably not American though so none of this would be very relevan…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 01:58 PM
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Idk if I'd say those were early times America isn't even 300 years old yet. If were talking about early colonization we could talk the vikings, greeks, or romans.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 01:05 PM
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I was thinking of the native Americans and the aboriginal Australians. They're not all dead but they did a pretty good job of exterminating and assimilating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 12:50 PM
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It depends on your perspective, dying sucks and all but being murdered is a quick ending, where being raped is something excruciating that hurts you for decades after if you don't kill yourself like some victims. Ofc the option where you're alive is always gonna be best.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 12:46 PM
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Your point was that colonization doesn't displace native populations? I'd need you to show some evidence cause every historical precedent goes against that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 12:38 PM
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Do you not know what these words your using mean? Imperialism and colonization are related but not interchangeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 12:23 PM
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Not really, if you replacing a population rape is a tool for that. Forced assimilation via uterus.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 12:16 PM
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If your genes survive colonization doesn't that just mean you got raped? Doesn't sound like the biggest advantage tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 12:01 PM
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Yeah I'm def not an expert on this stuff this is just what popped up from a google search. After reading a few articles trying to find more recent data for you, and I'm only more confused. It seems there's a lot of conflict around how to gather this type of data and what gets to be defined as rape. From what I gather though it does seem to be trending downward overall which is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 06:14 PM
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Maybe I got my links mixed up sorry this is the one it's also not really a pie chart more like a donut chart bad illustration choice for the subject matter tbh. Idk the specifics of the whole objectification thing, but ig if you get used to treating women like they're not human, then you might start to do inhumane things to them. That makes sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 03:54 PM
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I already know that it is a low number based on studies I have seen before, I want to see if anyone can prove that there really is a decent chance some random man will rape you after looking at your boobs long enough This seemed to me like you were conflating the two to begin with idk maybe I was misunderstanding your argument. I mean in the original link I sent you it had that data as well 19.5% of sexual assaults are committed by a stranger is at the very top of the pie chart followed by 39% b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 03:35 PM
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Oh I was referring to where you don't buy the 1/3 women have been raped Stat which you pulled out of nowhere only to shit on. Of course women are most likely to be assaulted by the people closest to them who they trust, and therefore they should be more trusting of random men who they don't know? Idk comparing it to racism seems like a big stretch just to justify ogling at pretty women. Ofc there's definitely a bias against men being perceived as predators and against women being able to be pred…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 03:17 PM
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It's actually 1/6 women who've been raped in their life time and 1/33 men info
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 02:29 PM
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Women don't like being sexually harassed at work regardless what you look like. Don't believe me go hire an attractive person to test your theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 01:55 PM
2

True, sometimes if your really lonely it just means nobody wants to be around you and that should be cause for introspection. That's hard for people though why work on yourself when you can blame it all on everyone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 08:00 PM
1

Essentially, would you rather be invisible or be a target?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 07:56 PM
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I can really empathize with them feeling lonely, but they don't seem to realize casual sex isn't going to cure that, and if that's the reason for you having it you'll probably only feel worse when you wake up alone again in the morning. Still I'd take being invisible over being target any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 07:52 PM
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The grass is always greener on the otherside ig. Are there really any downsides to being a man? Being expected to make money? Everyone has that nowadays what with all the capitalism. Forced conscription is a bad one, but it's been decades since that happend, and it doesn't have to be specific to men in lots of places it's not. Approaching women can be a bit tricky and rejection stings, but it's still easier than trying to get someone that's harassing you to stop. Are women really so privileged j…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 03:04 PM
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If women don't care more about their appearance than men, how come the cosmetic industry rakes in so much of our fucking money? Do men even have fashion icons the way we do? Why are women only gyms so popular if women can't even lift? Seems like since society puts so much of our value on our appearance we might care about it a little bit more. These billion dollar industries marketed at us seem to think so at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 02:17 PM
0

Women having autonomy over what they do? Sounds like the collapse of civilization to me /s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 01:34 PM
1

Feeling sorry for yourself doesn't count as introspection.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 01:26 PM
2

The point of self improvement shouldn't be just to get pussy, it's about becoming the man you were born to be or your ideal self. Women are generally repulsed by desperation and self pity which are emanating from your post. Where as if you have a drive or purpose that tends to draw people in. Maybe focus on being able to maintain platonic friendships before trying to get into a romance you're not remotely prepared for.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 01:18 PM
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Women are supposed to just open the door for you to self actualize? How would pussy have anything to do with growing as a person? Like I said before you change regardless if you want to, and if you don't put any thought into it then it's easy to become someone you never wanted to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 01:00 PM
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I think your personality changes regardless of if you want it to or not. It's based on your circumstances and experience right? So the only way for it to stay the same is if you lock yourself in your room and never leave. If your personality hasn't evolved at all in the past ten years or so that means you haven't grown any.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 12:31 PM
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Men and men can strengthen their friendship via anal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 10:18 PM
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I don't get why should sex play into friendships at all? If you click with someone, then what's between there legs isn't really of huge consequence is it? Are bisexuals not able to have any friends at all? I think if you can't value friendship just for the sake of friendship then you don't deserve any.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 01:40 PM
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Neither gender is very mysterious or complicated, we're all just monkeys really. Some of my best friends have been men and they weren't ever trying to get in my pants, it's not like men's dicks control everything about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 01:50 PM
2

That sounds like a bit of a stretch to me, please explain this claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 07:08 PM
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I'm pretty sure they never said everyone will get laid, free love wasn't seizing the means of reproduction. It was about rebelling against all the conservative Christian sexual repression that their parents and society forced on them. They did a pretty good job at that but that kind of strict societal code isn't something that changes over one summer. People still freak the fuck out anytime a kids show has a gay character or when they change mr potato head's branding to be gender inclusive. Then…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 03:21 PM
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Instead of being a jerk about it you can always get your lazy ass off the couch and actually provide a link to support your claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 03:06 PM
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What does some bullshit in France have to do with American hippies of the 60s,? It seems like you're just cramming a bunch of shit together where it don't go to construct a false narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 03:00 PM
1

Thank goodness! Sorry to misunderstand you, i just have zero faith in people not to be horrible like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 02:48 PM
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It sounds like a really gross way of describing a woman who's been sexually assaulted, but I'm just guessing and could be way off.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 02:34 PM
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I don't think men are as intimidated by smart women as people say they are, maybe the ones that make being smart their whole personality. If you're cute then being smart is just a bonus to them, I don't think they care that much honestly. If you are a smart woman dating someone who feels stupid being around you, then you'll just find ways to uplift and make them feel smart without them noticing. It really doesn't take a genius to figure that one out and I see women do it all the time. Of course …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 05:25 PM
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If you want good solid relationship advice go to a marriage counselor, everyone else is full of shit, especially on this sub filled with bitter jaded people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 02:57 PM
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She has a harem by this subs definition I don't see what's wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 05:34 PM
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They always wanna bring up divorce stats and never assault stats or abysmal conviction rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 05:31 PM
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It would be nice to be invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 05:04 PM
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Still didn't adress my any of my points just saying "women are hypocrite trust me" no shit my dude. Have a nice day though fr.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 05:14 PM
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See now you're just making up rhetorical bullshit. I was hoping you actually had put some thought into your opinion. I'm still open to any arguments you got.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 05:09 PM
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No it's not and you're still avoiding the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 05:03 PM
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Are women not able to have harem then? Fwb is only a harem when men do it? Because exclusivity is actually a big part of harems the women aren't allowed to fuck around and they're serving his every whim. Casual sex is not the same as having a harem at all, and if you're going to claim it is you have to put forth some effort to back this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 04:59 PM
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I like how instead of arguing the point op was making "men don't get a harem by looks alone" eveyone is just changing the definition of what a harem is. Having a few fwb is not a harem by any means.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 02:46 PM
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And increased risk of blood clots.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 02:40 PM
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They didn't want to observe. They wanted confirmation. You're definitely right about this, still it seems like they often put their male perspective onto us in some weird ways. They'll never really know how women look at the world differently from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 03:42 PM
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Men are just bad at observing female nature in general, I don't think tinder would make for a good sample set even if they were. I'm pretty sure it's impossible for them to be objective about women without projecting a bunch of insecurities and making wild assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 03:16 PM
2

True but there's still way too many humans imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 12:22 AM
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Pro-abortion having bodily autonomy is important and all, but mostly I just want less people on this earth. Traffic is gettin really ridiculous if you add all the aborted fetuses it would be like 5x worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 03:25 PM
2

Very clever, and spoken like a man incapable of making women orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 06:03 PM
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sex is like a box of chocolates, sometimes you get chewed up and spat out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 04:30 PM
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50 years and he never figured his way around a vag? Goddamn how do you even go through life like that? They really aren't that complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 03:36 PM
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Straight men are so confidently bad at sex, it'd be funny if it wasn't so damn sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 03:18 PM
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Maybe "not all men" are perpetrators, but just about every single woman I've talked to has a few fucked up stories of things men have done. Personally I've already lost count of mine and I've only been legal for a few years js. If you'd like more statistical evidence, consider that homicide is the leading cause of death for pregnant women, surpassing every other pregnancy complication by a large margin. If you'd rather you could take a look at fbi crime stats and sort by gender see which sex com…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 04:50 AM
1

Maybe I'm just a hopeless romantic but I don't think there's such thing as a lost cause in this context.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 03:32 PM
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I've heard that more than a few times. Either it's she didn't keep a tight enough leash on him, or she failed to please him with obligatory sex. Can't blame the man for having no restraint cause boys will be boys, tbf I think the sentiment is becoming much less popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 03:16 AM
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How does women having the right to vote cause men to abandon their offspring?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 03:02 AM
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Yeah but it doesn't only apply to women since anyone who doesn't already have a billion would be down. I'd guess it probably has more to do with our capitalist society than inherent gender differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 07:38 PM
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If I remember correctly, he avoided the question and went on a tangent about how he tried it once in college. He's fuckin great lmao, had me switching the subject asap.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 06:08 PM
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"All women are whores, it's just a matter of price" weird piece of advice to give your 15 year old daughter. I think my dad was just quoting Vonnegut idk, but I could tell it was bullshit so I asked him "would you suck dick for a billion dollars?" He got real quiet after that. People if you're gonna get divorced don't try to put that resentment on your kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 03:58 PM
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Some of y'all don't know history/economics and it's really showing. Women were working long before the suffragettes existed, just like today most of the political activists were upper/middle class white women who could afford not to work. The working women were unionizing, striking for higher pay, protesting working conditions, they supported the suffragettes because they wanted political power to fix these issues. The fact that wages have been depressed for decades doesn't have shit to do with …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 03:06 PM
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Both of my parents met their new spouse online and I'd say if you're going into it with certain intentions you'll get certain outcomes. Social media as a whole though is kind of like the junk food of social interaction, all substance no nutrition and that's probably fucked everyone up a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 04:16 PM
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Wanting to have sex with someone and sexually objectifying someone are two entirely different things. Wanting to have sex is natural and being attracted to people is natural, reducing them to nothing more than a means of gratification and creating an entire society that bases their worth as human beings solely on their appearance, not so natural imo. Sorry if I was being confrontational, we were operating on different definitions and that made what you were saying sound really fucked up from my …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 10:44 PM
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It gave women the right to vote. If any other minority group said "hey treat us like human beings" would your response to them also be "you are human therefore you're being treated human and your oppression is just a part of that experience" or is it just women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 08:06 PM
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The nineteenth amendment was that just treating women like men because men already had the right to vote? Their humanity has nothing to do with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 03:31 PM
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Because you skipped over my entire point and continue to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 03:27 PM
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SEEMS LIKE Did you miss that part and the whole chicken/egg point I made? This is why I think you're bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 03:22 PM
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The dog gets respect dignity and affection where the woman doesn't. Maybe the reason it seems like the baseline for being treated like a human is being treated like a man, is actually because of how dehumanized women have been for centuries? Sort of a chicken and egg thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 03:18 PM
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Meaning women aren't treated as human. But that's only true if the benchmark for what is human is how males are treated. Not true I've seen men treat dogs with more humanity than the women in their life. Does that mean the benchmark for what is human is how dogs are treated? That's your same argument and it's stupid as hell and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 03:06 PM
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Wtf that's not what I said. I'm done with this i thought you were just slow clearly you're arguing in bad faith because this is like the third time you've inferred something I didn't even come close to saying. Learn how to actually debate then come back holyshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 03:00 PM
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Sometimes yes, but when everyone constantly sexualize you from like the age of 8 it fucks with your developing sense of identity. Men can be human first and ugly second women don't get that privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 02:54 PM
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That's not what sexualization is. But since you asked only about 60% apparently .
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 02:39 PM
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Dunning Kruger in full effect right here
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 02:17 PM
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You're inferring a lot of things that I didn't say. None of the things you mentioned have anything to do with the constant sexualization women experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 12:07 AM
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I'm not saying being attractive isn't a privilege but being sexualized isn't a privilege. You even made a distinction between them in your response because you know they're not the same thing. Being sexualized is pretty much a universal problem for women even unattractive ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 12:03 AM
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Why should anyone consider it a privilege to be treated like a fucktoy? That's not to say we should shame sexworkers but really what are you saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 05:35 PM
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Ime men definitely do it more frequently, but it seems like when men do it they treat it more like playful banter, unless its just straight bullying. Whereas with women it's more judgmental they'll say to another woman "Ew why would you want to date him? he's such a virgin!" I've only had this happen to me like once or twice maybe, and it's always from bitches who ain't worth being friends with anyways. I kinda hate the concept of virginity so I don't go around imposing it on people, that's kind…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 05:15 PM
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Women are usually pretty polite about rejection ime they only get harsh about it if you make them. If she's actually calling you creepy and these aren't just made up scenarios, then you probably did something that made her feel like a trapped animal. It's not hard to approach in a way that doesn't freak her out you just gotta pay attention to her vibe and body llanguage. It starts getting creepy when you're blocking her exit, too persistent won't take the no, following her around like a puppy. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 02:58 PM
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It might also just be some kind of meme that's infected everyone lol. Also just so you know little peep basically looks like kurt cobain would if he was a soundcloud rapper.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 06:26 PM
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Loads of girls simp for danny devito are you kidding? Of course that's probably because he's famous, some girls even simp for Charles Manson and he had no redeeming qualities, so maybe it's not fair to use famous people for examples. I guess it would be better to use trends instead like the way the femboy/ sadboy trends got so popular with women, conventional masculinity and stoicism rejected in place of feminine and emotion. I guess this stuff is all pretty subjective these standards for beauty…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 06:15 PM
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Women mostly just need men to not subjugate them that's kinda their decision ig. Society might actually function better without all the men if you think about it, the crime rate would fall drastically, and there would probably be less war, that's not to say women are peaceful by nature but there's only a minority of women making up the soldiers so there wouldn't be anyone to fight really.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 05:52 PM
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Fr it's like someone trying to sell you a bag of sand in the middle of the Mojave. If men don't want a self sufficient woman that's fine, but women really don't need men as much as they'd like to think we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 04:45 PM
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That's not fighting doing letting writing to politicians. How about you learn how to write a fucking sentence before you say shit that stupid. No wonder you don't know history you cant fucking read lmfao. https://www.history.com/.amp/news/night-terror-brutality-suffragists-19th-amendment. Also wtf is that last bit we're not living under the goddamn feudal system dumbass.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 04:27 PM
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If women are gold diggers why did they fight so hard for the right to work and own property of their own?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 04:01 PM
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I think it really all does just boil down to human nature in this discussion. Regardless I'm glad you and your partner are happy whatever the circumstances are and I hope you have good health and stay safe!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 03:17 PM
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Idk men in this sub often cry about how women are just gold diggers who use them for money. When's the last time you saw jeff Bezos or Brad Pitt marry a McDonald's cashier?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 03:09 PM
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Men are not dependable. Apart from all the ways you can abuse having total power over someone's survival, it's always a cage and that doesn't change no matter how nice the guy is. So being independent was seen as a better option. It's still a better option for us women and we don't care what men want because we care about our own survival more than appeasing their delusions. I don't abuse it. I don't believe you either you're not as powerful as you claim or you're not as nice as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 03:04 PM
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It's not worth it to sacrifice your ability to survive in this world for some mediocre dick slinging mf? Who would have thought?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 02:53 PM
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For a woman being completely dependent on her husband is a terrible idea, and there's a lot of reasons the suffragettes fought so hard to end that bullshit. If you give someone that much power over your life they will 100% abuse it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 02:48 PM
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When I think unconventionally attractive I think like lil peep or danny devito, I don't think adam driver would be considered unconventional by anyone who actually knows what that word means. Also hate to break it to you but six inches isn't big it's slightly above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 02:35 PM
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My anecdotal experience is the exact opposite of yours if that's the measure we're using for truth in this argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 02:09 AM
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That's bullshit and there's no way you can back that claim up
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 02:05 AM
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Women expect empathy and support while providing precisely zero. I've had several male friends behave this way it's not a women thing it's a bad friend thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 01:59 AM
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What do you suppose the difference is between a good mother and a good father? Are we talking in archetypes or reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 06:16 PM
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You're right! I'm pretty sure all of the traits that have been listed here so far could just as easily be demonstrated by a woman. Still representation matters a lot and that's probably what it boils down to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 03:03 PM
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It seems to me like if the other aspects of your relationship are doing well, then the sex will just come as a natural result of that. I don't see why people here have such a hard time with such a simple concept???
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 05:04 PM
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No cognitive dissonance necessary to be self absorbed and over entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 05:41 PM
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Nobody would be able to prevent a woman from aborting her own pregnancy in her own home. It's already illegal in several states, it's been illegal in my state since before roe v wade. Your definition of abortion is very incorrect and devoid from reality, where legislation like that has never and would never pass because the justification for banning it is that it's literally murder. All that aside for the sake of argument though, you're saying outlawing medical procedures isn't a violation of an…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 05:22 PM
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They're free to abort on their own. Not if you make abortion illegal then they go to prison for trying to commit a crime? I'm amazed you're calling this logical when your contradicting yourself in the same paragraph. There's already been hundreds of cases of women being investigated/imprisoned for having miscarriages here in the United states and abortion isn't even illegal yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 03:04 AM
3

The real way to make it to head of the company, is to just take over it when your dad retires from it. Good old fashioned nepotism.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 05:00 PM
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Thank you for further proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 03:34 PM
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Maybe because being a single parent isn't as much of a death sentence as it used to be. The rate of single fathers has more than doubled as well but nobody ever brings that up as a way of discouraging men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 04:13 PM
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The real world equivalent of swiping is saying "I like you, would you like to go out on a date with me this weekend?". Imo swiping is more like scrolling through a wishlist on Amazon, I've got more matches than I'm ever realistically going to go out with so after I swipe I pretty much forget that person exists. Whereas a woman irl flirting with me telling me I'm beautiful or whatever will make me flustered all week.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 05:09 PM
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If a woman flirting with you irl doesn't count as an approach because you're too oblivious to notice it, then hiding behind a screen swiping doesn't count either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 04:46 PM
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True, I hate it most when they act like "no" means you want to bargain about it when it's actually the polite way of saying "fuck off". Women are way more respectful about approaching, probably cause we all know what it's like to be on the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 09:53 PM
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You could very well be right though, women aren't nearly as scary as men, and if men had women's sex drive they'd probably come off as less threatening. Ime as an enlightened pansexual there's a huge difference in the way men approach vs the way women do. If you don't trust my opinion on it that's fine ask any bisexual man and they'll probably say the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 06:41 PM
2

Do you have a source for this claim? Or did it fall out your butt?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 06:35 PM
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And I’ve been hit on by women. It’s subtle but unmistakable I think this plays into it a lot more than people give credit. Women tend to have a different method of approaching and it's more subtle. A lot of guys here say that's an invalid method you can't just drop hints or flirt a bit that's not "approaching" but then the same guys say swiping on tinder is as valid as any other method. I don't get it tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 06:32 PM
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All the girls I've dated so far have been the ones to approach me. So I'd probably be good. Hell it might even be better not having a torrent of thirsty guys trying to get in my pants all the time. If they approached the way women approached me they'd probably be a lot more successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 06:17 PM
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Fr if they really see us as the gatekeepers of society, then why do they get so mad at us when we do our job keeping their scuffed DNA out of the gene pool?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 06:04 PM
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This is exactly what I'm talking about, hypergamy is dating upwards in class adding a bunch of extra shit kinda changes the meaning. Until eventually wanting a guy who's not a total pos is hypergamus. Most women don't have an issue dating a guy who makes less than them, unless they're also expected to do all the mommy bullshit as well. Whitney Cummings has a bit about it that's pretty funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 05:30 PM
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It's such a weird thing to do, using evolution as a means of justifying values derived from certain religions. Women can't be trusted it's in their nature to be sinful/hypergamus just look at eve/evolution. It seems to me it's the same old shit with a shiny new coat of paint on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 05:56 PM
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I agree with trp on a few things like self improvement is key and putting pussy on a pedestal will only dry it out quicker. That said I don't feel so much threatened by trp as I do annoyed. It kinda bothers me how they all want to pretend they're anthropologist and evolutionary biologists when their claims in both subjects aren't really backed up by anything other than bad pop science. Also the core of it seems to center around awalt shit, like how they completely redefined the word hypergamy to…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 03:38 PM
2

I love spicy food, i think I'm starting to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 05:21 AM
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Yeah you're probably right about that, this sub is like 65% bad/misinterpreted pop science and I don't need to be contributing to that. It was wrong to do that, you could even say I deserve punishment....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 05:17 AM
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I need a Canadian to adopt me fr I'm so done with this country rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 03:23 AM
1

True there's definitely quite a rush but there's probably more going on than just physical/chemical sensations. I'm definitely not qualified enough to pretend I know what I'm talking about, but I think there's a lot of psychological factors surrounding it. Maybe I'm just projecting though and everyone else in the bdsm community has their head sorted out straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 03:19 AM
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You've had a pretty interesting perspective on this whole thing and I appreciate the insight fr
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 03:15 AM
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I think you're definitely right, its different responses from similar stimuli. I'm pretty sure my own masochism is some kind of defense mechanism, which my brain came up with to protect me from all the pain by finding pleasure in it. Whatever your neurons gotta do to keep your psyche from cracking ig. It does seem kinda sisyphean.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 03:10 AM
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That makes a lot more sense actually ty, I'm not great with analogies they tend to make sense in my head and nowhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 02:56 AM
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True the problem is a lot of people can't distinguish the two or don't care to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 02:49 AM
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Maybe you could point to anything I said that was wrong instead of whatever it is you're trying to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 02:47 AM
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Don't even get me started on working in the service industry in America holy fucking shit. The karens multiplied by a factor of ten after the pandemic and they swarm like locusts spreading the plague as they go. All that and they don't even pay you enough to afford rent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 02:45 AM
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That's not exactly what I was going for tbh I lost the point a while ago. I didn't mean that as like a requirement for it is self loathing but there's a reason people like being punished and I think it's probably some deeply rooted subconscious thing, it's more than just liking the feeling of being spanked.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 02:34 AM
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I bet Freud would have something to say about this lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 02:26 AM
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I think you're right it's definitely more complex than I made it out to be. There's definitely not enough research on this type of stuff to be making broad claims about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 06:38 PM
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You make a good point, like I have no control in my life and yet I'm still a sub. I ain't a shrink or anything but the theory makes sense from a wish fulfillment type of deal but I guess that's not exactly what it's about. There's probably a lot more that goes into it from a psychological perspective and I wouldn't know about any of that shit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 06:34 PM
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You make a very sexy argument and there's nothing I could say to refute it. It also kinda lines up with my own theory that inside every masochist is a sadist that kinda hates themselves. I don't have any proof for that though it's just something I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 06:30 PM
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I have no idea honestly. They're kinda outliers but I would guess it still has to do with exploring those sort of dynamics. Switches are kinda like the middle management of bdsm if you think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 04:24 PM
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Are you okay? That sounds kinda like you got abused?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 03:46 PM
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This is the truest answer
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 03:38 PM
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I think I read about the psychology of bdsm once and from what I gather it has a lot to do with wanting to sort of flip the roles from you normal life. Like if you're used to being in control all the time irl you want to know what it's like to be dommed and vice versa. The reason BDSM porn is so focused on women is simple: it's porn and all porn is focused more heavily on women unless it's gay porn. P.S. you never see aftercare in porn and that's like the most important part of bdsm. Porn isn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 03:26 PM
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I've only ever seen this happen in high school tv dramas, irl my friends are chill and pretty supportive of what I do. The only times they've said shit about my partners is when something is actually wrong with them like they're disrespectful or manipulative, and usually my reverse psychology makes me want to double down on my bad decisions. Also this question presupposed that most women have an all female social group which isn't common. Most of us have guy friends as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 06:27 PM
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Idk it's like the difference between David Tennant crying on tv and Toby Maguire crying on tv. I'm sure all the filters and makeup make the sad aesthetic what it is though, so you're right on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 08:12 PM
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Not necessarily, sadboys seem to have appeal to lots of women (or at least teenagers). They have to be like dark and brooding type of sad though, not actual depression with all the anhedonia and whatnot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 07:08 PM
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When I said "the hypothetical" I meant the entire concept of hypothetical questions not yours specifically I probably could've worded that better. My point still stands though how sad is it to know there's millions of flavors and you can only have one. Isn't that like a big part of why guys experience the Coolidge effect?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 07:45 PM
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Why are you answering your own rhetorical question so literally? The whole point of the hypothetical is to explore ideas unbounded by the laws of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 04:46 PM
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Yes it would be rational to try every flavor, because otherwise there's no point in having an ice cream shop with a billion flavors. Very unhealthy though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 04:01 PM
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No rush but I'm pretty curious to see what you find.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 06:23 AM
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she pays no penalty for libel or slander. Is this a real case you're referring to or hypothetical? Because lying in court is perjury and that does carry serious penalties. HR doesn't want to be seen defending a man because it's bad PR. Idk about this one, maybe if you're a big public figure then sure, but for average working women that's not the case. Generally companies don't give a shit as long as it doesn't effect their bottom line. In my own experience, I started getting harassed the first w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 03:03 AM
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theory I saw said polygamy is on the rise Well monogamy was always bullshit anyways, that's why they had to use christianity to enforce it, and even then the mormons retconned it. I think bonobos have the right idea when it comes to that. They have caused the wage surpression we have seen over the last 60 years because they have come into the labour market to create an excess of labour. You can't blame that on women working for a few reasons. Firstly women had been working before the suffragette…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 05:34 PM
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What are they doing to attack men? I know this started with the all men are predators thing but I haven't actually heard anyone say that, wouldn't exactly put it past them some of them just ain't right. I would really appreciate some more specificity on this though. Also how would the destruction of gender be oppressive? That sounds kind of liberating to me like I dont have to pretend to fit into a gender I can just exist however I do. What's so bad about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 04:51 PM
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How did feminism seek to destroy society? A bunch of women saying "hey we want to vote and shit" doesn't seem like bad intentions to me. If treating everyone equally is the thing that destroys society then it wasn't much of a society to begin with imo. Also I honestly haven't seen a lot of seeking understanding from trp, it seems to be more asserting it has the answers about everything and the answer is that it's usually women's fault. Sometimes it's just as bad as the feminists screeching about…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 06:51 AM
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I'm just saying if trp and feminism lead to the same conclusions then they're really not so different.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 05:57 AM
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Does that mean blue pill and red pill are really the same pill? It's all just the same freudian bullshit wrapped in different packages.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 05:23 AM
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If women are oversized children does that mean men are predators?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 01:42 AM
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Urmmm... I think you're just emotionally compromised now. Nice adhom you got there buddy. Way to show your losing an argument good for you! Ask yourself this question; what does somebody who doesn't want attention from the opposite sex look and dress like? I'm saying it doesn't matter what you look like existing as a woman is pretty much all it takes to get sex. Didn't think that would be disputed by a red piller. Guys will be dtf regardless of if you're wearing sweatpants and haven't brushed yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 09:50 PM
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I'm a woman and I've been raped before I was just trying to make a stupid analogy make a little more sense. Apart from the projection bit you're right, but the waiter bringing you bread wasn't meant to represent rape it was just the oversaturation of the market. Sorry if that wasn't clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 08:13 PM
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The only way to leave the Buffett is to literally pour acid on your face...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 08:09 PM
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I think a better food analogy for being a woman in terms of dating, it's like being at a buffet when you're not really hungry and the waiter keeps bringing you more bread even though you don't need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:10 PM
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Teachers literally raise your kids while you go to work if that's not producing value idk wtf is. This has been an ongoing issue during the pandemic, schools shutting down and people not being able to work for having to take care of them. Seriously where the fuck have you been for the past year? Are you writing this from a different dimension?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 09:38 PM
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And the students don't prepare lessons lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 06:52 PM
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I'm like just realizing all my favorite teachers have been men, probably because I was desperate for a male role model that wasn't my shitty dad. Also the male teachers were better at motivating me when I was slacking off. There's no way it's actually 90% female profession that doesn't seem right, it's female dominated field but not by that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 05:59 PM
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If teaching was just babysitting they would let teenagers do it. Some teachers work 80hrs a week for 30k-40k a year and the value they produce is foundational to society. Those are the people who actually earn good money, are successful in life and knows how to generate value People who actually make money under capitalism don't add any value they just siphon it off of workers who do. The richest men in the world rn Bezos and musk and neither one of them actually invented anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 05:48 PM
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Son, if you want a trad wife to cook/clean/wipe your ass, then what you really want is a mommy not a wife. Ig that's okay but don't act all holier than thou just cause you got an Oedipus thing going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 09:57 PM
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Don't suppress your desire for the elvira babes it will only make it worse child
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 09:11 PM
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I'll admit it does tend to be a case of expectations vs reality still goth girls ftw
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 08:59 PM
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Yeah it's definitely not unheard of, especially nowadays there's so many drugs that can assist that awful goal. I was just confused why they were breaking it up like that into different categories of rape. It seems weird to me idk like they were kinda downplaying male victims unintentionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 05:41 PM
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Oh so then just normal rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 04:36 PM
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Tribal societies were mostly egalitarian because they couldn't afford not to be. Not exactly a matriarchy but the women could still choose and leave partners freely as they like. Me, I like blonds over brunettes. This just means you have shit taste, everyone knows big tiddy goth gf is where it's at.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 04:34 PM
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Women cannot rape men unless they manipulate them emotionally I'm curious about this what do you mean? what is emotional rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 04:16 PM
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we'd tell a woman having a baby, tough shit! You made your choice. Deal with the consequences and find a new job when you get ready to come back to work. I mean if you're in America this is already the case for most jobs link
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 04:05 PM
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when I see abusive behavior I will immediately look for signs that the woman is pushing for it. That's called victim blaming. You don't have to put others down to validate your own experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 01:13 AM
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Now I'm the one that's obsessed with fault? you were the one that said "she wants it" "she deserves it" "she resents him" "she's the abuser" but then suddenly the one example regarding men is only "some". It's honestly embarrassing that you can't see how obviously biased you're being. 1 thing is to get out It's not always that simple to get out now is it? Sometimes abusers threaten to kill you if you leave, maybe you have a kid with them, maybe they're a cop and so you can't go to the police dep…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 11:09 PM
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Fr where do I apply to be a narcissist?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 10:39 PM
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I like how in all the examples you used it was the womans fault, well except the first one and you still called it rare to downplay it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 10:03 PM
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Humans bred dogs from wolves over thousands of years to be subservient to them. Cat's are the ones that actually pull the strings they just kinda showed up and humans started worshiping them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 09:49 PM
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I'm no anthropologist so I won't act like I know exactly when, but it definitely seems to have been amplified in the past century or so with the formation of massive civilizations. It's strange to be in a city with millions of people and you still don't know anyone, can't be good for our poor ape brains that want a tribe.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 12:24 AM
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i feel like everyone is stuck in their comfort zone and we all get affected one way or another. This is the big thing right here, I wish it was temporary but I doubt it. You should read this guy's book it goes more in depth on the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 03:41 PM
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What a non sequitur if I ever did see one. Please elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 04:16 AM
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I think this is more of a symptom than a problem. What's the thing driving these addictions in the first place? Why are people so desperate for companionship they'll turn to a parasocial relationship? Maybe it's because modern society is so damn alienating and people don't have any sense of community?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 04:12 AM
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Correct
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 02:17 AM
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Most men aren't so damn picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 02:09 AM
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I prefer my men hairless as well
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 06:41 PM
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Tbh as a woman the bigger outside motivation for improving isn't to gain positive male attention, but rather avoid negative female attention. Men aren't very hard to please and they won't notice the effort you put in, but some of these women are lowkey brutal af.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 04:05 PM
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Fr a lot of women I know shave their arms, and you know guys aren't going to give a shit about that but they still do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 03:55 PM
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Also that they have to consent to being your partner. Not necessarily arranged marriages are still a thing just not here in the west so much. I'm just being obtuse though your point is valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 02:30 AM
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I'm pretty sure Sartre talked about this concept, people rejecting their freedom because of how uncomfortable it makes them. I think he called it bad faith but I could be getting him mixed up with one of the other existentialists.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 12:02 AM
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I think this really has more to do with the human tendency to want the things that you can't have.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 11:53 PM
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I think technically the bare minimum for a partner is that they're of legal age and have a pulse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 11:33 PM
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Guys are pretty clingy in my experience but I'll admit I'm pretty detached so I may he biased. Still one guy said he loved me after knowing me for literally one day. Honestly it seems to me the clingiest guys are the ones who want their gf to be their mommy. Say what you will about Freud but he wasn't wrong about everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 05:49 PM
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"Do your own research" isn't much of an argument. Do you actually have sources for that claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 06:37 AM
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I got bullied by both genders. With the girls they would usually just spread rumors or make vaguely racist comments towards me, they pretty much stopped after I confronted them about it, some of them got to be good friends even. The boys were definitely more cruel about bullying me. They'd mock me in front of the whole class, pull my hair/clothes, push/hit me, I had to stop walking home alone because of them. They chilled out alot by high school but they'd still snicker at me behind my back. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 03:45 PM
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Fair enough, can't we go back to purge week? you mods work too hard and definitely deserve another vacation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 07:49 PM
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Sorry is it allowed if it's a joke?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 06:21 PM
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Take the femboy pill
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 04:38 PM
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Boo!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 03:57 PM
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Didn't everyone poke fun at Keanu Reeves for being rich and famous but dating a woman his own age?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 03:33 PM
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We are in very different places in our lives & have different priorities. This is the thing right here. A 35 yr and a 28yr would have a much easier time in a relationship than a 21 and 28 would. It's not the time so much as the lack of time, most 21 year olds don't know wtf they're doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 04:26 PM
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human womens breasts are also sexual selection at work as they serve almost not real function I thought breasts served a big function feeding offspring? Isn't that what us mammals are named after?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 05:18 PM
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That makes sense, that king Solomon guy had like 700 wifes/concubines or something. I probably shouldn't talk about stuff I don't know shit about, but then I'd have nothing to talk about. I guess my main question is if the study were accurate how far back would you have to go into our evolution for that to even be useful? We talking monkeys or fishies?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 04:58 PM
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How would you tell this isn't just another vestigial function left from our more monkey stages? If it's even true.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 04:35 PM
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Isn't like 1 in every 200 guys descendant from ghengis khan? Cause he raped and warred so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 04:00 PM
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What rules are you talking about specifically? Are you taking about like harrassment? It's pretty easy not to harass people if they seem to show no interest just leave them alone. The rules for approaching women are basically the same as for horses; never approach from behind or too suddenly cause they spook easy (and kick hard), if they've got blinders on and they're working leave them be. If there's a herd of them running wild across the plains you can watch but keep a safe distance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 04:06 AM
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Feminism never made anyone play video games for +16 hours a day
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 09:22 PM
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Human females are not fecal matter 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 07:55 PM
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Boy you sound unhinged af https://advances.sciencemag.org/content/4/8/eaap9815
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 02:52 PM
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Yesterday somebody in this sub linked me a study which said men and women go for partners at least 25% more desirable than themselves I'll see if I can find it for u in a min.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 08:39 PM
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Both genders aim out of their league. This isn't exactly new.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 06:24 PM
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Nothing at all. Money is money, and if society is going to objectify you regardless, then you might as well profit from it. I don't see how having an onlyfans is anymore degrading than working for McDonalds or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:59 AM
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Apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:05 PM
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It depends if she was wearing flannel she was kind of asking for a tree to fall on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:27 AM
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Because she's monetized her objectification? incels and swerfs have the same problem with it but for different reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:25 AM
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Gardening is the shit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:19 AM
1

A fair point
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:15 AM
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Doesn't that kind of prove my point though? According to the study men want younger/less educated women. Women peak at 18 and men peak at 50 really makes me question their methods and their selection bias but supposing that's 100% good at the very least this points to some freudian shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:11 AM
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Looks like somebody needs to crawl back into their mother's rancid cunt and the void that spawned their abortion of an existence. If you're going to insult me at least be funny fr.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 07:58 AM
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Bro just accept it Freud was right
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 07:02 AM
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This is a non sequitur
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:59 AM
1

You should definitely! Always good to get more perspective you never know what you'll find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:58 AM
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Okay now it just sounds like you're trying to give me an existential crisis and I don't need that I've already got one tyvm.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:53 AM
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You're nasty af, when I was sixteen I never even brushed my teeth; all I did was play video games and fap. How tf could you find a creature like that attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:50 AM
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Artificial (and potentially secretive transexual) women As much as this is a great opener do you have any actual evidence that she's either of those? Regardless your feelings about it are still valid. The having sex part does, only being alpha widowed can make a girl depressed I'm not sure exactly what 'alpha widowed' is but women are humans and they get depressed for all kinds of reasons. Depression has been on the rise in all demographics since the formation of mass industrialized society, bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:47 AM
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Idk wtf you're tryna say but like I said I haven't accused anyone of anything. Point to a single person I've accused and what I said they did? Who did I tell? Jfc dont get so triggered over my opinion just cause it's stupid or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:28 AM
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Probably not, but the way they're acting like 24 is old kinda gives me a weird vibe you know? Like add a decade or two and I wouldn't have felt the need to mention it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:24 AM
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Fr it takes people a while to get their shit together. I can't wait to get to that age where you stop giving a fuck, that's when you actually peak.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:19 AM
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That's not as scientific as I was hoping for. That wasn't scientific at all :( I cant be too picky though since I'm mostly just giving an opinion here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:12 AM
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I'd love to see any sources you have to offer. It might make sense from a biological perspective or something since for most of human history people were dying much earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:11 AM
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I'm saying if you think women hit the wall at 24 that only gives you 6 years of legally being able to be attracted to them, and I find that suspicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:08 AM
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Fr I don't get the fixation on female youth. Bring back the milfs dammit!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 05:50 AM
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Bro 2020 cockblocked everybody
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 05:43 AM
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You make it sound like it's an exact science, so I'm going to ask you for sources?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 05:39 AM
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Ask pretty much any woman will tell you grown ass men will be creeping on them from the age of about 10 up. That's not to say most men are guilty of this but damn if it ain't a universal experience for girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 05:37 AM
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Idk why do so many guys creep on actual children?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 04:28 AM
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Where would someone like Jennifer Lopez fit in cause she's had the money/time to maintain her appearance well into her 50s now? I know that's kind of an exception but still? Also the amount of sex you have doesn't really effect your physical appearance? Maybe associated activities like partying/drinking/smoking do but the sex itself doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 04:25 AM
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I ain't accused anyone of anything, but you seem a little defensive js.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 04:21 AM
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I'm not saying being attracted to a 24 is sus I said saying all women peak at 24 is sus
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 04:18 AM
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That makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 04:17 AM
2

Can you define "post wall"? It seems subjective from person to person idk if I get it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 04:16 AM
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women younger than me are like actual teenagers lol also I'm single
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 04:15 AM
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Don't white guys do the same thing though? I thought it was a race thing not a gender thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:23 AM
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So the question you're getting at is: if people could live forever would that be enough time for them to figure out how to get along? I'd like to be optimistic, but I'm not and I'd say the answer is no eliminating mortality would probably lead to eternal suffering for humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:01 AM
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No it's a good thing humans can die, some of them really need to honestly, I think it has more to do with their fear of their own death that's got them real fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 12:48 AM
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Humans in general are just the worst
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 05:45 PM
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Pussy so dry it burned down California lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 04:47 PM
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It's an estimation from being a woman and talking with women. Although, given how overconfident you are in knowing what others want without taking their words into account, it's gonna be at least 80% for you specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 04:21 PM
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Tbh bitches ain't shit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 04:19 PM
0

If men knew what women wanted they wouldn't have to fake orgasms 70% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 04:15 PM
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It's funny how confident you are in the experience of others lol. So typical of a man to think he knows what women want better than they do. This is like the equivalent of a female saying "no men hate blowjobs actually they like analingus better, what men think feels good and what actually feels good to them are too different things"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 04:03 PM
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Oh I see what you're doing then I think. It's like a socratic type of thing right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 11:56 PM
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I'd say comparing sex and porn is apples and oranges regardless of gender. Both genders experience these things differently and this is kind of a myopic view.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 11:25 PM
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I ain't a shrink but it sounds like your problem is really with yourself. Maybe try some of trp advice don't better yourself for the sake of women but for your own wellbeing and sanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 10:11 PM
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I had it happen to me once but it was a pretty woman approaching me so I don't think it really counts. Her tactic was to tell me she thought I was beautiful and shyly retreat before I could react too much. It was endearing the way she did it, but I could see maybe being creeped out if a guy acted that way towards me. Sorry if that makes me a bit sexist, but men are kinda scary when they can easily yeet me like a frisbee and I've had enough brain damage tyvm. Whether or not I like it that does ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 08:18 PM
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I had thought the reason it was called feminism was because they were advocating gender equality specifically to address women's issues. Thats why egalitarianism and feminism are two different words that exist. I don't think the "feminism is just equality" crowd understand what they're talking about, it's not some insidious conspiracy like you make it sound these people are just ignorant of semantics. You can advocate for equality while focused on helping a specific demo, just cause you want to …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 08:47 PM
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I'm not a fan of molyneux either I just meant him as an example of a man who blames single moms for raising criminals. His videos are great for curing insomnia though! something about his speech patterns are kinda trance inducing. It'll knock you out as long as you don't mind whatever subliminal messages he put in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 04:50 PM
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Definitely not all men. I just had to cause I thought it was funny. In any case more of them think like that than you'd expect. Check out stefan molyneux he makes lots of vids about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 04:35 PM
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But the men were the ones turning it into a meme just to trigger the feminist crybabies? Maybe if you want women to take men's plight seriously then men should return the favor?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 04:33 PM
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I'm just curious why you chose to use those specific examples instead of say the NCFM? I've never seen anyone hate on men's activism/charity when the organization is actually helping. What have these groups done irl to advance men's rights? It kinda seems like they're slacking and honestly they seem more focused on women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 04:30 PM
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Relying on others doesnt mean you expect them to solve all your problems for you. Alot of times the people you rely on dont even have to do anything, just knowing they're there for you is a enough. Humans have been relying on eachother for thousands of years, our ability to cooperate and communicate are what made us top of the food chain. Ape together strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 04:18 PM
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link
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 03:50 PM
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I thought the word meninism was like actually satire though? I'm fine with men's activism and all that but I'm pretty sure that word is a meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 03:45 PM
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I think I'd be happier if I could just turn invisible. These men out here giving too much attention to people who don't really want it. Although I'm biased attention from humans in general makes me uncomfortable, I try my best to be a wallflower at all times. I guess my ideal man is one who never looks at me ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 03:10 PM
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In my personal experience "nice guys" tend not to be all that nice actually. Of the ones that I've dated they either objectify you so badly that you never want to speak to them again, or they've got some kind of Oedipus complex and they'll either want you to be their mother or they'll leave you for their mother. That's not to say assholes don't do these things too, in fact that tends to be part of why they're considered assholes. I guess if all you can find to say about someone is that "they're …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 04:08 PM
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Is there an actual statistic for that? Who are all the women banging? If u say chad unironically ima lose it ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 12:20 AM
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It probably means you're just using them for pleasure but dont actually care about them beyond that, women can do that too believe it or not. You'd be surprised how many women have just sleep with a guy cause it's easier than saying no, idk if you've ever dealt with a sex pest but they're persistent af.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 12:17 AM
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I'm really not getting it. Do all men really think of sex like it's a scooby snack or some shit? I've always thought of it more as a form of communication which means different things with different people. I don't think it's an injustice either that a woman has a few ons and makes someone she's interested in long term wait a few dates. Men have ons all the time, and lots of times they lie and manipulate to get the pump and dump, which makes women want to wait and shit test men further. This que…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 02:41 PM
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It would have to be even farther back in our evolution then, maybe fish stage? Because tribal dads are really good at being dad's even better than modern dads in some ways. I doubt my dad ever would've breastfed me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 02:38 PM
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How much older than the bible? You mean like pre agriculture nomadic tribes? They were pretty egalitarian it's hard not to be when every member plays a role in survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 01:58 AM
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Actually shotgun weddings are a tradition so old it's in the bible. Except there was a lot less consent involved. Link
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 01:36 AM
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We could start our own club, a book club! Have you read "absalom, absalom!"? It's pretty good so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 05:24 PM
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I went once, like I said I've been 21 for four months and there's been a pandemic going on that whole time so I probably shouldn't have. I will say I love dancing and spending time with friends, but the loudness and the amount of people ruin it. I have ptsd so I tend to get freaked out by that stuff easily, I'd probably like a cozy piano bar or something like that. I hate parades too, they're always underwhelming and all they do is fuck up traffic. Fireworks or gtfo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 05:08 PM
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I've been 21 for like four months and I already hate the club. Even before there was a pandemic I wasn't a fan of big crowds and loud places it's just not for me. So if a youngster like me is fine to stay home sipping tea and reading some Faulkner, then I'd say it's cool if some granny wants to get her freak on at the club. Also I guess it depends what kind of club you go to the ones that play country music are always full of old people two stepping, and it's super sweet actually. Btw you're pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 04:07 PM
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It's because noone wants to have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 03:41 PM
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Yep everyon saw it, (most of these things go unseen) and then everyone agreed it was awful (except for all the "well he broke the law" types), and there still hasn't been any real changes to prevent it from happening again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 09:16 AM
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Yeah ideally the officers would at least be held accountable for wanton murdering, but that's the US justice system for you. Can't adress problems if they make them look bad just hide it away instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 08:49 AM
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Unfortunately it's not uncommon, domestic violence rates among police are ridiculous. It makes sense too, who's the victim going to go to? the police? Thats not gonna do much.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 08:31 AM
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The most attractive profession imo would be a history professor or an astrophysicist, because I really like those subjects. Really any field that's interesting to my brain goo is attractive to me. The only profession that really repels me is police. Mostly since my cousin dated a cop and he murdered her, he totally got away with it too becaus he's a cop.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 08:22 AM
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Hypergamy is actually defined as dating above your socio/eco class. However trp broadens this definition by replacing class with the more vague term value. They make the term more nebulous so they can apply it to whatever they want. Instead of a woman who's trying to fuck her way up the economic ladder, now it can apply to a woman who wants a bf that doesn't lay on his couch all day in a filthy apartment, regardless of if she's making more than him financially now she's hypergamus for wanting so…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 04:09 PM
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Like working at McDonald's isn't degrading lmao, at least the ewhores make a living wage. As a woman you're likely to be degraded and sexually harrassed at any job, If society is going to constantly sexualize/objectify you anyways you might as well profit from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 04:45 PM
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Men are more entitled than women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 03:03 PM
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‘Is him having a big, but not inconveniently big, penis preferable to him having a precisely average penis?’ Not really. An extra two or three inches won't feel much different during intercourse, but in my experience having a few extra inches disproportionately inflates the man's ego (not all men I'm sure), and that can be very annoying tbh. Is average actually seen as being interchangeable with small? It’s binary: big or small, and all of the grey area is allotted to the small side? I would ass…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 06:18 PM
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This sub is kinda like a dumpster fire but it's our dumpster fire <3
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 04:07 AM
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Many criticisms about men have centered around the notion that men feel too "entitled" to sex and female bodies for sexual pleasure. You switched the meaning of entitlement here. There's a small difference between feeling entitled to pleasure from a partner you're having sex with and feeling entitled to be gross to strangers when you're horny. Idk I just can't picture a woman whipping her wap out mid conversation and demanding head from a stranger like men sometimes do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 03:34 PM
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Apart from straight up abuse, I think the first time I noticed I was about 9 or 10, at the waterpark with my friends and some creepy adult men kept hitting on us. It's been about the same ever since, especially when swimwear is involved. I pray to god I never have a daughter, i wouldn't begin to know how to explain this fucked up shit to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 07:04 AM
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Because that isn't what I said at all... but go ahead, try to strawman it again. I know you inevitably will. I didn't straw man at all unlike you. You said female oppression was a (((feminist))) conspiracy after my joke triggered you. So I named three broad examples off the top my head of women being oppressed specifically for their gender. You came back with two cherry picked examples of boys and child labor ignoring the fact that girls have been exploited just as much in that department. Work …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 05:37 PM
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Child labor exists therefore female oppression is a feminist conspiracy, sorry but my girl brain isn't following your impeccable logic. Child labor specifically effects lots of girls as well. In my own culture, it's expected that a girl should be able to cook, clean, and take care of younger siblings/cousins by the age of about 10. Meanwhile, boys are allowed to fuck off well into their adulthood. Everyone in the past treated everyone like shit. But men always bore the brunt of it. I never said …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 09:48 AM
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I'm not rewriting history. What do you think I made up the 19th amendment? Or all the centuries of child brides and burning witches?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 05:09 AM
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Another assertion. Do you have any proof of anything you've said so far?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 05:02 AM
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It's pushback but is it accurate? How did you come to that conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 12:49 AM
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I can see you've taken the redpill, but have you considered the chill pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 08:19 PM
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What egalitarian utopia are you from? Sex discrimination still effects women and men to this day. I would be very interested in how you came to your conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 08:18 PM
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So basically just hold the door and buy us dinner once in a while, and we won't complain about the hundreds of years of subjugation y'all did us. That seems fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 03:27 PM
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Beyond the destruction of the nuclear family and whether or not it's a cause, a symptom, or even happening, there's a bigger problem in that people are basically disposable in modern society. It kinda fucks with your soul after a while. Now more than ever, you can go about your day without needing any human contact, and it's very antithetical to the way we're evolved to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 09:33 PM
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I'd say sorry for your loss but it sounds like you didn't lose much. In my own anecdotal experience I've had way more trouble with men than women (with the exception of my fucking insane mom). I've never been assaulted by a female for one, whereas men love giving me concussions the way cats love catnip. I guess since I'm especially small and vulnerable looking I attract predators because, I have been disproportionately harrassed /raped /beaten since early childhood. Still I believe the majority …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 03:59 PM
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it’s a scientific fact that women cannot love a man You're gonna need big proof to substantiate this claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 03:02 PM
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It's okay to be gay bro but I don't get all the hostility, women ain't that bad. Most of them are chill, most people in general are alright. Just out of curiosity how's your relationship with your mother? I'm no shrink so feel free not to answer that. If it makes you feel better I can tell you about my mom too, She didn't get me vaccinated so that's something.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 07:13 AM
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I'm sure it's not easy. It seems like men are largely ignored by society, but that's gotta be marginally better than being objectified by it. There's definitely perks to being a woman as well but it seems outweighed by the disadvantages. I wouldn't know for sure though, unless some cheesy rob schiender movie plotline happens to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 11:04 PM
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Idk femboys get a lot of clout on tic tock so there's that at least. I guess it's kind of hard to really quantify people's suffering, like I said originally life's a bitch for everyone. Still I think I'd rather be a man, even if it meant I was still 5'2 with big doe eyes. shit am I trans? No probably not, I dont think. Being treated like a woman just sucks a lot, I guess it would suck more to be a man being treated like a woman. Since it would be incongruent with your identity or whatever. Maybe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 10:42 PM
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Ikr who wouldn't want to fuck a robot? Plankton had the right idea, find you a nice computer and wife that bitch up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 10:29 PM
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I can't wait to get me a fembot9000 at least she can't give me covid, but if she does get a virus she might try to murder me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 10:23 PM
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If people don't take you seriously as a feminine man imagine actually being a female. People don't take you seriously regardless of your attractiveness. If you're attractive you're a whore with caked on makeup who tries too hard, otherwise you just get criticized for being ugly. It doesn't really go away with success either, just look at how female celebs/politicians are treated by the media, the emphasis is always on their appearance rarely their substance. Can't really blame the media for that…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 09:39 PM
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I can get the trans thing is obviously hard to deal with society and all. I was going to disagree with you on it fucking you in dating but now I'm more interested how does it fuck you for life? I've dated trans men before, even short men and their lives doesn't seem completely fucked by it. I'd be interested in any stats you wanna give me on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 08:55 PM
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I'm a woman as far as I can tell. So are you saying is that it's just more difficult to be transgender than cisgender? Or that it's easier to be an average woman than a short man?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 08:22 PM
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If you're insinuating that it's easier to be a woman you'd better have some solid proof. Life's a bitch for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 08:04 PM
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He has a pretty good ted talk that outlines some of the ideas in the book if you want sort of a preview
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 07:45 PM
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People are probably more lonely and alienated now than ever before in history, so yeah that probably effects divorce rates to some degree. If you're looking for a good read about that stuff "Tribe" by Sebastian Junger is a nice one, although it didn't have enough counter arguments for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 05:52 PM
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That makes sense. I guess that would make the trans people the most empathetic since they've experienced living as both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 05:44 PM
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True and a bad understanding of actual science about women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 05:40 PM
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Thank you for proving my point
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 05:27 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 04:05 PM
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I don't think I've heard anyone say looks don't matter at all, but the personality matters more part I've definitely heard. It doesn't annoy me because it's true imo personality is more important. I'd rather have someone to talk to than someone to look at. Besides that all beauty is fleeting anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 03:52 PM
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If the redpill is only about self improvement why is everyone who takes it so salty towards women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 03:30 PM
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Is it really paranoia when half the population can easily yeet you like a frisbee? I would bet most men aren't psychos either, but I'm sure violent crime against women is higher than false accusations against men. Both things are bad but one seems like a more likely threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 08:15 PM
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That makes sense, anyone would be happier living life as they want to unconcerned with what others think. You're basically a crazy cat lady but just a male one, and you probably have a dog instead. Is it so hard for you to believe women exist who have the same mindset as you? Or maybe the reason you assume they all secretly want to settle down is some sorta projection?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 07:41 PM
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I can see where you're coming from on this. But it's a very oversimplified version reality there is more to female attraction than just having a chiseled jawline or being a millionaire. Treating them like human beings instead of a commodity for starters. You don't have to be a perfect Adonis for women to want you. You'll probably say this is fake but...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 05:58 PM
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Chad is more of a meme than anything. I suppose memes are social constructs but are memes real? As an idea yes, as a corporeal reality not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 04:17 AM
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Chad is a social construct he doesn't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 02:37 AM
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People who don't want kids shouldn't have them what a grand idea. Maybe we should make birth control free and accessible so these undesirables won't reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 01:48 AM
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I'm not advocating genocide I'm just saying maybe thanos had a point
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 09:49 AM
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And the critiquing of woman is all coming from men? When it's about women choosing what to do with their own bodies yes it's almost entirely men who have a problem with it. You sure this society bullshit isn’t keeping us all statistically safe, clean and healthy? I never said it didn't have its benefits but it's got many many pitfalls, frankly the population could use some thinning I'm sick of traffic. We can go back to the caves if that’s what you want? Kinda like the backward ass countries you…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 09:38 AM
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Don't act like just because evolution exists it can explain everything about everything. You probably don't know half as much about it as you think you do. Women get criticized relentlessly for any decision they make involving their bodies, not having kids, having kids too young or too old, being a single parent. It's kind of fucking ridiculous and it has nothing to do with evolution. If we were living the way we evolved to live we would still be in nomadic tribes like we did for hundreds of tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 08:42 AM
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It's definitely lessened in western countries over the past hundred years or so. Still there persists lots of societal pressures for women to get married and make babies like a good female, but this isn't exactly exclusive to women, men face similar issues. However, if we're talking about places besides America, forced and arranged marriages are commonplace in many countries. To this day women around the globe are still treated as chattel, using the same archaic justification.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 06:49 AM
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I don't think monogamy has ever been about controlling men. Marriage has always been a property rights issue women are the property.The entire ceremony still revolves around the bride's father giving ownership of her to the groom.The 10th commandment even spells it out "Thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's house, thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's wife, nor his manservant, nor his maidservant, nor his ox, nor his ass, nor any THING that is thy neighbour's." It's not about controlling men it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 05:30 AM
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For much of human history a person could walk 20mins in any direction and be in wilderness, never to see or cross another human again their entire life if they so desired Unless another person walked 20min in the same direction as them. Seriously what are you on and where can I buy some?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 05:06 AM
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I'm a zoomer so all my friends and I play video games. It would probably be weirder if we didn't considering most of us grew up with them. Maybe it's different for millennial women and older because they didn't have internet access in their most formative years. Some of my earliest memories are playing cute learning games online, in a few decades most kids will probably have nostalgic memories of VR.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 09:22 PM
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I just love watching a good trainwreck every now and then, and even though there's a lot to criticize here sometimes you get an interesting perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 05:57 PM
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It would be hypocritical if I had a problem with short guys. Also he could have no dick or a pussy for all I care I'm pansexual. No he doesn't have to be a gigachad just as long as he's considerate and treats me nicely.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 05:28 PM
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The main physical requirement is they must be alive. Two functional arms and legs is a plus but not necessarily required. I like a guy to have hair don't care what kind. One thing I love is a deep gravelly voice I can't get enough of that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 05:18 PM
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I tend to value intrinsic qualities mostly. Kindness and intelligence are the big two but humor is also very important. The guy I'm interested in right now got my attention by being considerate, instead of asking shit from me like most guys he offered me something and I thought that was sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 05:06 PM
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God forbid someone on the internet thinks I'm a liar. I'm not showing you my ass lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 04:44 PM
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last time i measured there was a ten inch difference between my waist and hip so yes 'tis a clapper.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 04:38 PM
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Bro you pretty much just described me I'm a tiny Latina but I have standards and I wouldn't date anyone on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 04:15 PM
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It's such a well known story that everyone's been plagiarizing it for 500 years. There's gotta be something to it to have that kind of staying power. Personally I think it's one of Shakespeare's best comedies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:53 PM
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The most romantic is when both of them die that's why everyone loves Romeo and Juliet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:51 AM
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Np a lot of disagreements usually boil down to misunderstandings of semantics and definitions
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 06:16 PM
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Women are as horny as men but men are way more thirsty. I think people confuse these two things and that's really at the heart of this disagreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 04:16 PM
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Tesla was definitely a genius and he had a difficult life which would've been even more difficult if he'd been born a woman. He was an exceptional human but he didn't invent alternating current that was Michael faraday and hippolyte pixii. There were practical machines utilizing ac before tesla was even born he even studied ac in college. This doesn't diminish any of his inventions any more than his inventions diminish those that come after his innovations. That's just how progress works. It's n…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 08:37 PM
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Maybe there's less women inventors because for centuries women were excluded from education and treated as property making it significantly harder for them than their male counterparts? Women invented wireless transmission tech, the first computer algorithm, microelectrodes, thermoelectric power generators, and hydyne rocket fuel to name a few. You don't learn about them in school though instead they teach you about Edison who mostly stole his inventions from others. Also the tax thing have you …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 04:38 PM
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Beauty is probably the most subjective thing there is hence the whole eye of the beholder thing. Sometimes makeup makes you look even stupider than you would with no makeup r/badmuas exists because of this. If makeup really bothers you just date a hippy chick who's all natural or would that be bad because shaving is good? Maybe if men didn't put such unrealistic beauty standards on women less of them would feel compelled to wear makeup to achieve them? Also there's really nothing stopping men fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 02:36 PM
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It's kind of hard to rationalize it since these two things don't really map onto eachother. You either are a millionaire or you're not. Just because you wear makeup doesn't mean you're ugly underneath it and just cause you don't wear it doesn't make you an ogre. It's not an apt comparison since one is objective and one is subjective. Maybe a better one would be a man who wears a suit despite being broke? I wouldn't consider that deception it's just fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 10:28 PM
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Humans in general aren't supposed to live like they do in modern society. We're evolved to live in small tribes where everyone depends on eachother for survival. Now we live in giant cities where everyone's a disposable stranger. No wonder everyone's miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 05:13 PM
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Deception implies intention so I guess if you really just wanted to hype yourself up and the woman was just incidental no it's not. Women wear makeup despite men not for them. It's not that hard to understand. Even women in prison wear makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 05:01 PM
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A nice long shower makes you feel good. Putting on makeup makes some women feel good. If you don't get that women aren't actively trying to trick you into thinking they're attractive, then you're just too self centered to get it. Women like makeup because it makes them feel pretty. If every man on the planet dissapeared they would wear makeup regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 06:49 AM
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Putting on makeup isn't the same as lying. Women don't wear it specifically to get sex either it's more of a self expression thing. Some women will perform sexual favors just to get make up. By your standards taking a shower is lying because you're hiding what a greasy person you are naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 04:47 PM
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