darkshadows2021 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
256	Don’t feed the trolls. This is life lesson gold. Fuck the trolls and the mansplainers, a good 'Kay and walk away feels so much better than wasting any time on that shit.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/04/21 11:29 PM
11	LOL Oof! But yeah I've been there. Especially long term. Now my rule is to stick by my single rules because they tend to remain logical and pro me...instead of pro relationship or overly empathetic towards a partner who doesn't reciprocate.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/04/21 06:35 PM
37	Week 2 of dating myself. I'm the best partner I've ever had because I always buy my favorite Beautiful. Those are my fav color. 2 years ago I had something extreme happen that caused me to be single. I bought myself tulips and plants weekly and made myself special meals and it helped me grow to realize I was worth treats and good meals and I should expect someone worthy of my time to do so or at least not care about my planty army and not waste time discussing my plant/flower budget.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/03/21 07:09 PM
67	Just a reminder I definitely have more boundaries now and that leaves less room for people who don't measure up.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/03/21 04:51 PM
31	Stop wasting your time with crows. Let them all fall. Ignored enough they go back to pecking at dead things.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/02/21 07:01 PM
24	Choose you every time - until it’s not even a question in your mind Always me now. When it wasn't the choices affected me the most negatively so now I make sure to invest in myself and the interest I grow feeds those closest to me without using myself up.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/02/21 08:28 PM
146	And yet so many of them start out damaged! But oh, they’re not “psychos” or “crazy” ever They want you ready to watch their baggage while they shop.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/02/21 03:46 AM
22	Happy Valentine’s Day beautiful ladies! ❤️ I love this so much. Happy V day!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/02/21 07:05 PM
34	No lies here 💀 Straight up truth.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/02/21 06:57 PM
18	thought you lovely ladies could use a laugh today - instant block & delete Handle...like I'm the baggage pfft.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/02/21 01:21 AM
39	It makes me sad how delusional this woman is. This is such a bullshit excuse! Nope. Run girl. It seems cool...but it's just a way to make it okay to talk to his friends at all hours and give intimate relationship advice and do allllll the things guys do to get plausible back up chicks. Nope again. He is taking your time and using it on future banking.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 05:05 AM
14	Haha! FDS is the vaccine against LVMs! Oof. If only I had known my worth, and their lack of.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 04:00 AM
3	Just bought myself this 800$ designer necklace, because I wanted to treat myself. Women don't need men to buy them nice things, we can do that for ourselves. Just another lie by the patriarchy that women are gold diggers. I am perfectly capable of making my own money. Yes! I just bought plants to treat myself.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 02:25 AM
32	"FDS needs to be shut down because they are body-shaming men!" lmao OKAY LIL' BITCH, welcome to our world! If someone doesn't take care of themselves then i can't trust them to support my goals weightwise or even more important trust they will live long enough to make it worth diving in.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 02:14 AM
102	It's not kink shaming; it's refusing to buy into the bullshit. It's calling out depravity that serves men while destroying the lives of women. It's rising up against a system of oppression every woman on earth is laboring under, due to no fault of our own. Yes. Men telling us it's okay to be ahem free...while oppressing women aren't people to be taking advice or authority from.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/02/21 10:37 PM
46	I was lurking on a subreddit and found this "HVM" lmao No one that is high value actually plays games.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/02/21 12:05 AM
77	Men want to trick you into doing it ALL but won't even pay for your dinner or celebrate your birthday anymore. Dont fall for it. Anyone who isn't going to celebrate you or your accomplishments...even if it is just tackling the laundry on a busy day isn't worth their weight in salt. I've had to do it all and to not be worth a celebration(whether it's pushing the button for my coffee or bringing me a plant)or whatever on my birthday)) for working and taking care of the kids and it's not worth the work to maintain a shite relationship that doesn't give back.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/02/21 12:35 AM
28	I see a lot of women at my church praising men for the most lack luster "good" things that they do. Like asking consent, not being an asshole, not being a manipulator or a gasslighter. Its gross. He babysat the kids. No jerk, he watched his own dang kids instead of the tv for once. (Me to my ex in law once upon a time.)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/01/21 05:42 AM
103	This artist's work hit me hard! @violetclair on instagram Ooh new artwork for me to love! The red flags...its so easy to see them as spicy flair until you realize that no amount of work could fix them and why should you want to fix anyones issues that they don't care to fix themselves.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/01/21 01:40 AM
21	What in the pickmeisha hell is this clownery? The only thing I’m growing are my plants 🌱🪴 I don't want to normalize feeding a leech tendies while I work my ass off to stay above water. Sure women shouldn't grow up looking to live off of a man like it's still 1955 but I also think there is a difference between raising your boys(and girls but i have a feeling this is a mom of boys) to be self sufficient and not need to depend on others vs raising your kid to be okay with complacency and telling them it's okay not to be the breadwinner because it's the 21st century and roles can be reve…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/01/21 08:48 PM
137	Seriously though, imagine a grown-ass adult not knowing how to cook and clean for himself, and floating through life secure in the idea that he'll find a bangmaid to save him. Takes me back to Pleasantville when the dad is yell whining "where's my dinner" not fending for himself. I don't want a partner that isn't able to do for themselves or understand equity and equality in a partnership.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/01/21 09:35 PM
48	Hehe Oh pockets! Did someone say something?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/01/21 05:15 AM
71	Male fantasies She speaks from a place in the 80s that still speaks today on such profound levels. I find her feminism refreshing still.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/21 08:37 PM
22	ZUBY goes RedPill and gets big mad when FDS CORRECTLY👏 DESCRIBES👏 his fan base. The self awarewolf sees himself out the door.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/21 05:41 PM
79	A Buddhist take on how to deal with abusive NVM: it’s better to be alone. Frequent contact with a fool brings out unwholesome qualities indeed. I wish I'd heard this 10 years ago.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/21 05:15 PM
170	For real though. Yesterday I wore sweats and a hoodie all masked up and was hollered at from a car as I walked by, harassed in a store and followed from a bus into a store. Dudes are creeps.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/21 04:54 PM
6	Somehow I don’t think he’s being sarcastic here. This was on a post about Redditors being able to make Wall Street folks lose millions (by buying stocks in gamestop, which isn’t a complicated thing) but can’t talk to girls (also not a complicated thing). Just another excuse to hate on women It's objectification at its er um finest. It's easy to understand...go buy gme or nko and boom but having to listen to someone, understand their needs and have to actually give? It's too much for someone who views a partner as a pillow with a mouth to even comprehend. It's up to us to set the bar so high that we can't even be treated as an object, let alone a pet and leave the cheeto dust and neckbeard nests behind so they learn to clean up and evolve.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/21 03:29 PM
17	Saw this today, and thought it belonged here🥰💖 Great reminder to make sure your bar is set high all the time for all who interact with you and yourself.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/01/21 11:38 PM
11	Just A Friendly Reminder, Ladies That is my mantra...paraphrased a little of course.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/01/21 10:17 PM
76	Have the remind myself. Know. Your. Limits. I used to think I was a limitless pitcher of giving. Turns out, when you have nothing left to give then the takers leave too along with the will to give again. Having very set boundaries, being very choosy about who gets my time, and making sure I don't compromise my needs or even wants ...because I have simplified my life enough to know my wants are valid too.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/01/21 12:24 AM
55	Omg this triggered me. This is such a common interaction I have with men...We are so tired. It's frustrating to be silenced because others are willfully ignorant. I'm sorry about your internalized misogyny Meisha but lend yourself a hand and stop supporting this bullshit.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/01/21 08:24 PM
23	Word. This is so true whether it's about a partner or friend. I.e. my friend got swallowed up in qanon (after 20 years of friendship) and we would fight politics all over Facebook. So petty from like 2016 on. I did it from a place of love at first like hey wait here are some legit links and reasons why your ideals are based in misogyny(obviously nicer and more palatable to someone whom I was trying to reason with)...and here are some alternate people to listen too because your sources are (well you kn…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/01/21 01:06 AM
11	Love a good roast. Exactly. I had this once. It's the worst and I don't recommend it at all. I didn't mind doing it all until I lost myself doing it all and I've learned no one is worth losing myself over.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/01/21 12:42 AM
2	New FDS Spotify Page! Now with SIX Playlists! Please post any songs you would like to nominate for the playlist under "FDS Anthems" on the Subreddit or the Website! Thanks! I so felt that song when it came out so much(I was a sophomore I think). I still make sure it's one of my workout/clean jams.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/01/21 12:38 AM
119	People are starting to see It allows people to be complacent in rape culture.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/01/21 11:06 PM
56	My goal for this year is to have boundaries and establish them like men do. They only do what they want, when they want it, with whomever they decide. There is no forcing them, they never give in, especially if they're not benefiting. I aspire to be like this. It is powerful to be in control of yourself and make sure your needs and wants are met and it makes you stronger for sure.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/01/21 12:28 AM
26	Literally libfem logic Oooh its now on my list, thank you!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/01/21 04:49 PM
44	Mask perks The no smile is huge. I walk everywhere and with incognito mask and hoodie I can hide in public and not deal with all the weirdos who would normally try and chat.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/01/21 01:19 AM
15	Take a wild guess as to why he suddenly sprung this on her... That women have a shelf life is just a gross idea from men whose image is more important than being a decent human.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/01/21 06:54 PM